I think here comes that old proverb that nice guys always finish last. It's because girls like nice guys as they do a lot for girls without them asking. The main point of this rejection in game was also the same to show that sometimes you doing more than they ask , isn't good I guess . That's why everyone got frustrated at this ending because they did a lot for her :) But that's just my explanation and thanks for the support ,subscribe for more of this vids!❤️
The truth is that nice guys are "nice" with the secret hope of getting something in return. Instead of openly saying "I am interested in you would you like to go on a date to see if we could be more" they instead "do nice things" hoping for the girl to eventually like them. Thats not nice. It is manipulative. And of course some women will take advantage of that and some women really believe you're just being nice. The solution to the "friendzone" is to be upfront about your intentions. Let her know early that you're interested in dating and be overt and unequivocal. If she responds positively go forward, if not...and you're unable to conceptualize women as more than just a sexual conquest ie: legitimately be friends then move on. But to create an entire narrative about how all women are x,y,z is crazy. Nice guys don't finish last. They never start the race.
Love is like a balance, you have to be equal, if one do way more it's game over. Most "nice people" are just desperate and everyone hate that. Nice guy + desperate to find someone = rejected 100% but Nice guy who doesnt need someone to be happy = WIN
Essentially, this is correct. What most "nice guys" do not realize is that if the woman is attractive (especially if they are highly attractive), all kinds of men are doing favors for her already to try to win her attention. A guy doing something nice (or many nice things) for her is literally what she experiences everyday on some level, and thus the guy is not distinguished from the crowd. His visibility as a partner is literally next to zero. The only thing worse than being invisible to the girl, would be if the guy is pitied. Normally, men cannot "work" their way into having a relationship using favors or doing things she asks or performing tasks. Women do not trade in the "favor" currency of men. Of course, there is nuance to this, but this is the general concept.
The next thing they learn is that the weird ones are also full of problems you have to deal with. So just don't even engage in communication with women it always ends bad
This is why I don't try with women anymore. Im stacking my money buying whatever I want and traveling lol. Life is better when you don't feel the need to chase women anymore.
@@thelonercoder5816 you sound exactly like the women that go online and start screaming to the heavnes about how amazing it is to not deal with men. life imitates cringe
they are exhibitinbg behaviors of what you call as "pick me girl" They bring down other women to get men's validation 😂 No means no. Sexual assualt is not cute!
I vaguely remember a video about a woman creating an account on a dating website to help his male friend out and she ended up depressed and hating other women because of how bad men are treated
You're confused. Piotr is right, you're thinking of Alexander Grace's video. The case where the woman became depressed was when she dressed up and lived as a man in the real world for like a month and found it depressing. The friend of Alexander didnt become depressed.
Also note: She did it once, didn't got a positive response. "Double down" got rejected. "Triple down" at this point any man would be called a creep and an abuser. "Quadruple down" and she doesn't even see she is harassing and forcing herself on another woman, she want it to happen and will not take no for an answer.
And a man will look like he's insecure for sudden corrections in his behavior. For weighting the risk/reward ratio every second, being the best reward superfluous pleasure, and the worst risk your life ruined in many possible ways. Because he knows that he's being under scrupulous exam with her every, single, second. Yeah, insecure they say.
@@pinklefooThe problem is the choices given in the first place. You have making a risky play just to gauge your progress in the relationship, and then you have 2 seemingly scorched earth choices. But ONLY if you read enough Korean Manhwa or watch enough K Dramas would you get that the "Don't talk to me" option is I'm guessing supposed to be the "tsundere emotionally stunted bad boy" choice that most of the MLs in K media act like and appeals to Korean Women ig. But even then, because men are straightforward creatures and don't engage in these kinds of abstractions, kissing her seems like the mild steady option compared to the other scorched earth options
Bruhh, that rejection was so tame it wouldn't even have bothered me. If that makes you hate women then actually being a normal guy would be much worse.
A girl who I didn't know was taken at the time I asked her out told me down in the most gentle, "no" by saying she's notif she will be free this weekend. Two months after, I learned she got engaged and we're still on "good morning" terms
I had the same exact situation from the video happen to me, but in a realistic degree of reaction, I'd say. I was in a really promising situation with a girl once, where she'd hug me often, exchange compliments and even play with my hair out of the blue, so one day I went to give her a simple kiss on the cheek after a night out and the look of pure disgust she gave me as she pulled away was something I didn't think was possible for a human face to produce. I went over and over this with some female friends that knew us and even they didn't seem to understand it.
@@LimgraveFootSoldier theres just girls like that regardless of age, maturity or looks. its one of those times where she is too comfortable with you that she treats you as a sibling or something along those lines. like the other comment said, she didnt even see you as a guy who could potentially be into her.... 1, you really should have verbally asked first what she thinks of you. regardless if she likes you or not its still safer to verbally ask and see her reaction first.. 2, if you think its a negative, stay away from her as much possible. theres no use on feeding that furthermore and stooping down on her level 3, or you could do it the other way around. if you have enough thick-face just play it cool as if nothing happened, she would find the situation awkward but at the least the ball is already on her court. if she stays away from you then let her go, but if she has the epiphany that she likes you then she would come around. 4, either way, id at least congratulate you on taking a step instead of getting stuck on a stage where you keep on guessing...... and congrats on not getting a SA report wahahahaha
Or in my case, as soon as they think they're in love with you, now they become hyper critical and start wanting you to change all your weak areas in 3 months. Until they realize that you aren't living up to their fantasy of what you should be like. The they pick a fight on every date until you break up with them yourself. Now they can be the victim, because you broke up with them...
@@Gaze73 Sure, but they aren't entitled to a guy trying over and over again when the woman isn't reciprocating. As the small legion of women crying in their cars making tiktoks are slowly starting to realize. Relationships are a two way street, and if both sides aren't putting in effort then at some point one of them is getting kicked to the curb.
"Just because you've spent all this time, effort, and money on me over the past few months, doesn't mean I owe you even a second of my oh so precious time!" Manipulative and narcissistic, run far away from anyone saying garbage like this.
almost as if they were "reacting agressive cause they cant take a no, confusing simpathy with flirt, harasssing a girl and trashtalking her to clean their hurt egos", was it like that?
The problem is the choices given in the first place. You have making a risky play just to gauge your progress in the relationship, and then you have 2 seemingly scorched earth choices. But ONLY if you read enough Korean Manhwa or watch enough K Dramas would you get that the "Don't talk to me" option is I'm guessing supposed to be the "tsundere emotionally stunted bad boy" choice that most of the MLs in K media act like and appeals to Korean Women ig. But even then, because men are straightforward creatures and don't usually engage in these kinds of abstractions, kissing her still seems like the mild steady option compared to the other scorched earth options
Yeah if you act like a Chad/Tyrone and be cruel to them, then they're all over you because they feel you have some kind of value when it comes to giving them validation and attention. But then, once they get it from you, they no longer care about you.
@@Billy-bc8pkBrother there’s countless examples of successful relationships that aren’t anything like that, most real relationships aren’t like that. Those kinds of relationships don’t last forever.
@ The problem is that we're finding that those relationships weren't actually successful, and 1/3rd of them were "bedless". In many of those cases the woman was just using the man as a betabux provider while seeing someone else on the side. Thanks to social media we have been able to observe this phenomenon happening in the so-called "successful" marriages.
"shows interest" what interest, honey? because i, even as a woman, have interest in making friends, for example, not sexual partnership. I saw guys cracking gay jokes/ sarcastic flirt between them too, but they aren't gay, (my gay radar is silent) Women can care about people without sexual interest! Like you, guys, about each other!
You should probably enquire about their relationship status first. And if they give you positive signals and then say they have a boyfriend, that's not merely a red flag but a semaphore. You don't want that one, she will cheat, and she's putting you in orbit for when she needs a confidence boost after being dumped or current BF doesn't live up to her idealised vision of him.
How is that ironic? That's pretty much everyone's response. From older people realizing the world really has changed to someone feeling othered or discriminated against for the first time. Until someone experiences it firsthand, why would the average person believe the claims of others that go against their understanding of the world?
@@wastrelperv”Why believe others against their own understanding?” Because their “understanding” isn’t from an equivalent position in the scenario. Women have no clue what it’s like to be the pursuer because they just wait for guys to approach them. It’s why so many woman can’t handle rejection. Because they have a 100% success rate… they just say “yes” to the guy that approaches them that they like. Why would they claim to know what approaching is like when they have zero experience? Same can be said on the flip side in terms of compliments or being ogled. Guys aren’t gonna know what it’s like to be stared at or inundated with compliments that are a mix of real and disingenuous just to get in their pants, and how that affects your perception. Because guys get so few compliments that what they get in a year or years is something women could get in a day or week. We do this with professionals too. We secede to someone else’s expertise on a topic, because they probably know more about it, having studied/experienced it compared to your nothing.
That's how it is for us. You just gotta raw dog it through life until someone isn't insufferable and respects you. Now I am not saying women are annoying, but nobody wants to keep trying after being treated like this lol
Women are annoying. I get plenty of female attention at work. It gets to the point where they get jealous of each other and become bitter. The thing is all of these women are liberal progressive types and I want nothing to do with them. They're nice enough until you get to know them and you realize they're terminally online Democrats.
@@johnw9038 They reflect the situation contexts but not the occurrence of the situation itself. It’s the difference between “oh someone tossed me out of the bar” and “they held me at shotgun point until I exited the bar and locked the door.” The reflection of their quote “we did all this work for nothing” is accurate, and is an average occurrence. Being able to kiss a girl three times with a distinct no present and then going for a fourth? Nah the average guy is leaving in cuffs or punched.
well... thats basically how the dating scene is for men.. you have to understand women more than they understand themselves... thats why the most common trait of womanizers are those who could play around with women.
@@iz7347 Exactly. Dating for women is like playing the game on the recruit level - they don't face any challenges, so they don't need to think. As they don't need to think, they don't cultivate consciousness about themselves and the world around.
What do we want? Women. What do women want? Good looks, pleasure, pain, emotional connection, money security, strength, height, freedom, traditional men, subdermal neurophones, epidermalytic hyperkeratosis, lol jk. I don't know. If I did know I wouldn't be single.
@@tomlewis7898 You must live under a rock then. Women have been making lists with 100+ items judging men for years now. The average men are invisible to the average women.
I'm literally going through this stuff right now. I've put so much effort into the relationship, and she showed some sympathy. After I offered her a kiss, she started to avoid me. Some girls waiting from guys to constantly solve their problembs, being "hanging out pals" but nothing more. And after this they hypocritically say that male loneliness epidemic is our fault. Also, girls often confuse concepts. They say that you want to buy her with your gifts, etc., not understanding that this is all part of a healthy relationship and your big effort. We make a huge contribution, and they take advantage of it and then say: "I didn't ask you to put in so much effort. You did it on your own initiative." They just use you, and when they get tired of you, they break up with you and go to richer, more energetic, more popular guys. That's why it's so hart to find that only one girl that will love you for real.
It kind of sounds like you didn't realize that the relationship was platonic. Just because you helped someone out or gave gifts to them, that does not mean said person owes you anything in return. That was your prerogative to do so. This is why I don't take the manosphere seriously anymore. I've seen way too many socially stunted men with horrendous communication skills shoot themselves in the foot when they talk to women, then cry about it online in an echo-chamber of other bitter, delusional men who treat women like some level in a video game to earn points and "win," rather than as people. It also sounds like you're blaming your loneliness in general on women. I can promise you that women smell the incel vibes and horrible takes like these from a mile away.
"Wait, what do you mean, she liked us the entire time, and now that we like her, she's like 'WTH are you doing?!'" :) Don't mind me, I'm just grinning like a Cheshire Cat over here.
@@Ranma12-br3tcif hating the predatory practices women employ makes you a pick me girl then this world is fucked and you're ignoring it for a gotcha moment. Have you even gone on 15 dates using an app? Its the worst women I've ever met in my life
The chat: 1st time? xD Now what did we learn from them in the stream? You got to be aggressive like "yo biach wake tf up and get yo ass in the car I'm taking you to dinner" leave no room for rebuttal lol
But guys! Women are the ones who are good at communicating..... Ohhhh wait being a good communicator means the other person understands what you're saying clearly and knows your intentions?.... OK never mind women are good talkers.....
Don't know the context for this but although it's frustrating that she's leading you on just for her to not reciprocate your actions back, just accept the first "no" and move on or else, it would be considered an SA.
"I don't wanna talk to any of these fb, go for the weird one" - yeah, that's how it works for us. This game seems like a good learning tool on how to man.
woomen like to say that they dont owe men anything but also say that men owe them honesty, stability, protection, must take care of them etc etc....interesting times hehe
That's so real, I can't tell you how many times I've experienced similar. Girl has obvious crush on me I ask her it she says yes and she's super clingy at first and then when I start trying to reciprocate my attraction to and affection for her she ghosts me and then we break up. Then like months later she acts like it never even happened and tries to repeat it. MULTIPLE different women have done that to me and I've seen it happen to many other guys and even a couple chicks have been victims of other chicks doing this stuff. Friggin wild man it doesn't need to be so damn complicated.
They want so badly for you to be the ‘tsundere emotionally stunted bad boy’ that they can try to figure out and fulfil their self-insert dark romance fantasy.
I can't help but be skeptical. Every time I see a man (and some women) say "she had an obvious crush on me" it's usually not. I then hear the woman's side and it's usually "We were really good friends, but then he started acting weird or got the wrong idea so I gave us space and decided to have a new start but it still didn't work." I'd need more context to not be suspicious.
It happenes in real life too. If you like her she stops liking you but if you play it cool she likes you more but if you don't like her she doesn't like you either. The closest thing I can think of is kinda how you'd make friends with some wild deer or something is gonna run away from you at super fast you need to slowly get close and be super chill .
Ive had some bad experiences 1. We talked in person a lot and text. She would go to my part time job almost everyday. I told her we should hangout one day. She then hardly talked to me and tried to get me fired from my job. She apologized a month and a half later but at that point I didn't give a fuck about her. She had the audacity to ask my friend what is wrong with me 😂. Later on I heard she has had trouble with guys in the past but she also slept with a lot of guys. Dodged a nuke. 2. I told this girl I found her very attractive and told her I wasn't gonna try anything with her. She ends up telling everyone I didn't try hard enough. WTF 3. Girl from work was always around me. Too much to be a coincidence. Would do very strange things. I asked for her number and she said sorry not interested. I was like okay hopefully she stops with the odd things. Nope still continues to do it. She even gets mad at certain points. Had another chat with her which came out to be bizarre. A bunch of pausing and not interested from her to then her asking my age to her saying in the saddest voice that she can't do that. I was just seeing how she is but yet even after that she continues to still do the awkward/stalker shit ever. Going on 11 months 😂. I don't talk to her and give her space since month 3 except that last talk in month 6. Everyone thinks she actually does like me but I guess she fighting some battles. Heard her family is fucked up so idk. Very quiet girl.
@ayushmalpeddi2793 she just comes off as childish. Like during break always line of sight. She will heat her food up and walk towards her usual spot(near my old spot) but see me somewhere else and sit at the table in front of me, steal my seat from the previous break, or sit by one of my friend groups in which I sit somewhere else. Then my friends will tell me how much she looks at me. IDK maybe she is the Tsundere type.
@@mujinfu5290 Report it. Do something to let her know that she’s being immature and that she needs to make up her mind or stop harassing you completely. Stalking shouldn’t be ignored in the workplace.
@@Ranma12-br3tc so they are normal woman, like if it is not known that when one is interested in a guy she starts talking and making shit of the competition
Just because she now understands men's plight, doesn't mean she will care. You want a woman who understands and cares. Caring is probably more important than understanding.
While people are diverse and over generalization is not healthy, the world would be a much better place if people showed some empathy to men and their problems. For example, if more women understood how frustrating it is to be led on, women in general could be more straightforward. Empathy isn't something you just give to the societal underdog. It's a two-way street.
no they wouldn't they like the games too much generally speaking. Most women are not interested in the straightforward guy. Most are attracted to the guy who plays games because it gives excitement. Thats why they play games themselves. If most were not like this, we wouldn't be where we are now.
@@Blackraptor1234 you know who is interested in straightforward guys? autistic women. grab yourself someone from the spectrum, it's absolutely worth it
I don't know this streamer, but I just realized how they can so juice this "men have it hard" niche and makes lots of money. So many dudes are being way too happy in the coments. They just have to pretend they know how men feel, are people doing this already?
YES. I've been using the internet since 2004 so I know how this men vs women developed. It's getting worse and worse throughout the years. Feminizai (misandrist), red pill (misogynist) and people who capitalize both to make money. They feed you contents to hate your opposite gender and they make money from it. 😊😊
@@Annemarie_case143 or maybe it was just a natural reaction to rampant feminism? women have such easy, privileged lives compared to men. nothing misogynist about pointing out truths.
Reminds me of the funny tik toks of lesbian women who complain about dating. Specifically the more masculine lesbians that "take on the male role" or whatever it's called.
Navigating relationships is weird awkward and frustrating and occasionally fantastically wonderful. The key is remembering both people are navigating their confusions and curiosities and when in doubt communicate. [•••] As directly and as literal as possible.
I think here comes that old proverb that nice guys always finish last. It's because girls like nice guys as they do a lot for girls without them asking. The main point of this rejection in game was also the same to show that sometimes you doing more than they ask , isn't good I guess . That's why everyone got frustrated at this ending because they did a lot for her :)
But that's just my explanation and thanks for the support ,subscribe for more of this vids!❤️
Perfect breakdown
The truth is that nice guys are "nice" with the secret hope of getting something in return. Instead of openly saying "I am interested in you would you like to go on a date to see if we could be more" they instead "do nice things" hoping for the girl to eventually like them.
Thats not nice. It is manipulative. And of course some women will take advantage of that and some women really believe you're just being nice.
The solution to the "friendzone" is to be upfront about your intentions. Let her know early that you're interested in dating and be overt and unequivocal. If she responds positively go forward, if not...and you're unable to conceptualize women as more than just a sexual conquest ie: legitimately be friends then move on.
But to create an entire narrative about how all women are x,y,z is crazy.
Nice guys don't finish last. They never start the race.
Love is like a balance, you have to be equal, if one do way more it's game over. Most "nice people" are just desperate and everyone hate that. Nice guy + desperate to find someone = rejected 100% but Nice guy who doesnt need someone to be happy = WIN
Essentially, this is correct. What most "nice guys" do not realize is that if the woman is attractive (especially if they are highly attractive), all kinds of men are doing favors for her already to try to win her attention. A guy doing something nice (or many nice things) for her is literally what she experiences everyday on some level, and thus the guy is not distinguished from the crowd. His visibility as a partner is literally next to zero. The only thing worse than being invisible to the girl, would be if the guy is pitied. Normally, men cannot "work" their way into having a relationship using favors or doing things she asks or performing tasks. Women do not trade in the "favor" currency of men. Of course, there is nuance to this, but this is the general concept.
Average male dating experience lol
Is she or is she not into me?
"Go for the weird one" they're learning too quick
Fr 😂
They understanding the way!
This is the way.
This game should be mandatory for all girls in school
The next thing they learn is that the weird ones are also full of problems you have to deal with. So just don't even engage in communication with women it always ends bad
“We do all this work and then she shows interest and then is like wtf are you doing?” Perfect example of the male dating experience. 😂
Exactly 😂😂
Which is sad tbh.
This is why I don't try with women anymore. Im stacking my money buying whatever I want and traveling lol. Life is better when you don't feel the need to chase women anymore.
@@thelonercoder5816 you sound exactly like the women that go online and start screaming to the heavnes about how amazing it is to not deal with men. life imitates cringe
@Luixxxd1 likewise. You sound miserable lol
Crazzzzzzy how they went for it a further THREE times after being told "no" the first time. 💀💀💀
I remember some women said "a no means a no" but I don't think it's true now
@@kaikart123😂how u know? Just cause they do it don’t mean all women are like that
@@MLGDuckk you sounds like a woman fr fr
@@MLGDuckk W.
@@kaikart123Not everyone's the same. Just choose your own rules to go by. I'd suggest stopping after the first no, because that makes the most sense.
They literally are experiencing almost perfectly what its like to date as a man.. enjoy that yall!!
bro unplug the router.. i should too i see you commenting on all of arther's girls
@@Max_JustMax that means youre everywhere too hahaha
@@Max_JustMax
Only for guys that look as goofy as you do.
@@shadowrealm3245 99% of us
"go for the weird one"
Ah, so the decision is validated by their own kin at last.
they are exhibitinbg behaviors of what you call as "pick me girl" They bring down other women to get men's validation 😂 No means no. Sexual assualt is not cute!
The only reason why she's called weird maybe because she doesn't know how to manipate a man
I vaguely remember a video about a woman creating an account on a dating website to help his male friend out and she ended up depressed and hating other women because of how bad men are treated
I think you refer to the video on the channel Alexander Grace, 'Tinder Experiment: 18 Yr Old Woman Tries Being A Man'
*her male friend
Just in case you aren't native English speaking.
@@Verasoul didn't realize that autocorrect screwed me over lol
but eh, not gonna edit it I will lose my loved status lol
@@melsuppatlol4565 :D
You're confused. Piotr is right, you're thinking of Alexander Grace's video. The case where the woman became depressed was when she dressed up and lived as a man in the real world for like a month and found it depressing. The friend of Alexander didnt become depressed.
it took us men years to figure out that the weird one is always the keeperXD.
Or the below average looking women 😂
Turned out me having fetishes with yanderes and weidos arent silly after all!
Ironic isn't it?😂
Yeah, you never learn you'll still always go for that one boring girl who has only that look that you boys like but no personality
@@Morozova48 incel ahh take
Also note: She did it once, didn't got a positive response. "Double down" got rejected. "Triple down" at this point any man would be called a creep and an abuser. "Quadruple down" and she doesn't even see she is harassing and forcing herself on another woman, she want it to happen and will not take no for an answer.
And a man will look like he's insecure for sudden corrections in his behavior. For weighting the risk/reward ratio every second, being the best reward superfluous pleasure, and the worst risk your life ruined in many possible ways.
Because he knows that he's being under scrupulous exam with her every, single, second.
Yeah, insecure they say.
That's what I was thinking. As someone who's female, she was just being a weirdo.
Good point.
That's the reason why men do not beg.
You reject us once and we leave.
Okay but also, it's on a GAME.
“Why can’t men understand when to stop? No means no!”
Sucks to be a guy in the dating game. Glad I’m not having to deal with that shit anymore.
Yeah see all that mind game jedi trick stuff yall be pulling isnt so funny now. Welcome
She finally realized what it's like to be a man and she hated it LMAOO
And this is just a ridiculously dumb game, imagine the reaction if she actually went through an actual situation like that irl lol
Do you also keep trying to kiss someone who has told you to stop 4 times? If you see yourself in this interaction, that's a problem...
@@pinklefooThe problem is the choices given in the first place. You have making a risky play just to gauge your progress in the relationship, and then you have 2 seemingly scorched earth choices. But ONLY if you read enough Korean Manhwa or watch enough K Dramas would you get that the "Don't talk to me" option is I'm guessing supposed to be the "tsundere emotionally stunted bad boy" choice that most of the MLs in K media act like and appeals to Korean Women ig.
But even then, because men are straightforward creatures and don't engage in these kinds of abstractions, kissing her seems like the mild steady option compared to the other scorched earth options
@@pinklefoo nah I believe you can go to jail for that, but I think you're missing the plot completely
Bruhh, that rejection was so tame it wouldn't even have bothered me. If that makes you hate women then actually being a normal guy would be much worse.
TRUE. Like the meme: "The worst they can say is no", but in reality its ALWAYS worse than a simple "no".
A girl who I didn't know was taken at the time I asked her out told me down in the most gentle, "no" by saying she's notif she will be free this weekend.
Two months after, I learned she got engaged and we're still on "good morning" terms
I had the same exact situation from the video happen to me, but in a realistic degree of reaction, I'd say.
I was in a really promising situation with a girl once, where she'd hug me often, exchange compliments and even play with my hair out of the blue, so one day I went to give her a simple kiss on the cheek after a night out and the look of pure disgust she gave me as she pulled away was something I didn't think was possible for a human face to produce.
I went over and over this with some female friends that knew us and even they didn't seem to understand it.
@@LimgraveFootSoldier Daaamn, see that's rough cause she didn't even see you as a guy who could potentially be into her.
@@LimgraveFootSoldier theres just girls like that regardless of age, maturity or looks. its one of those times where she is too comfortable with you that she treats you as a sibling or something along those lines. like the other comment said, she didnt even see you as a guy who could potentially be into her....
1, you really should have verbally asked first what she thinks of you. regardless if she likes you or not its still safer to verbally ask and see her reaction first..
2, if you think its a negative, stay away from her as much possible. theres no use on feeding that furthermore and stooping down on her level
3, or you could do it the other way around. if you have enough thick-face just play it cool as if nothing happened, she would find the situation awkward but at the least the ball is already on her court. if she stays away from you then let her go, but if she has the epiphany that she likes you then she would come around.
4, either way, id at least congratulate you on taking a step instead of getting stuck on a stage where you keep on guessing...... and congrats on not getting a SA report wahahahaha
Red pilled Acie. 😂
The second you start liking a girl they lose interest
they are like kids, your younger sibling dont want to play with toy untill you start play with that toy
W bars ,,preach good sir !!!!!
@@petrpetrenko4401 its exactly same for men we are ALL like that
They are so flipping weird. They love being chased after
Or in my case, as soon as they think they're in love with you, now they become hyper critical and start wanting you to change all your weak areas in 3 months. Until they realize that you aren't living up to their fantasy of what you should be like. The they pick a fight on every date until you break up with them yourself. Now they can be the victim, because you broke up with them...
"I've done all this work"... That sounds eerily familiar.
you're not entitled to affection sweaty!
@@Gaze73everyone deserves love.
@@Gaze73 Sure, but they aren't entitled to a guy trying over and over again when the woman isn't reciprocating. As the small legion of women crying in their cars making tiktoks are slowly starting to realize. Relationships are a two way street, and if both sides aren't putting in effort then at some point one of them is getting kicked to the curb.
"Just because you've spent all this time, effort, and money on me over the past few months, doesn't mean I owe you even a second of my oh so precious time!" Manipulative and narcissistic, run far away from anyone saying garbage like this.
@@Flippohoyyy Even child rapists? No, some people do not deserve love
Even women don't understand women 😂
well understanding a woman is like reading Quantum Mechanics... in chinese
Shit's harder to understand than quantum mechanics
"Women understand other women. And they hate each other" - Al Bundy
I understand them a bit.. and my advice is that you'll be happier if you don't know.
@@tobiassangma2345can attest, quantum is a 200 level course, womens studies is a whole major lmao
every women should play this game just once.
0:30 This is basically any male under 40's dating life now. Most of us have simply walked away because that's easier, cheaper, and more peaceful.
They still don’t understand LMAAO
almost as if they were "reacting agressive cause they cant take a no, confusing simpathy with flirt, harasssing a girl and trashtalking her to clean their hurt egos", was it like that?
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
u damn know
"did she just friendzone us after all we did??" Yeah that's how that works, every guy has experienced this atleast once 😂
For men, its just tuesday😂
the fact that today is literally tuesday
today is tuesday
The problem is the choices given in the first place. You have making a risky play just to gauge your progress in the relationship, and then you have 2 seemingly scorched earth choices. But ONLY if you read enough Korean Manhwa or watch enough K Dramas would you get that the "Don't talk to me" option is I'm guessing supposed to be the "tsundere emotionally stunted bad boy" choice that most of the MLs in K media act like and appeals to Korean Women ig.
But even then, because men are straightforward creatures and don't usually engage in these kinds of abstractions, kissing her still seems like the mild steady option compared to the other scorched earth options
Yeah if you act like a Chad/Tyrone and be cruel to them, then they're all over you because they feel you have some kind of value when it comes to giving them validation and attention. But then, once they get it from you, they no longer care about you.
Emotionally distant and cold appeals to all women. Not just Korean manhwa.
There are studies on this.
@@niallk9336 it depends on situation, if you are cold on a date, than it's dumb
@@Billy-bc8pkBrother there’s countless examples of successful relationships that aren’t anything like that, most real relationships aren’t like that. Those kinds of relationships don’t last forever.
@ The problem is that we're finding that those relationships weren't actually successful, and 1/3rd of them were "bedless". In many of those cases the woman was just using the man as a betabux provider while seeing someone else on the side. Thanks to social media we have been able to observe this phenomenon happening in the so-called "successful" marriages.
If these women were men in america, they would be going to court for harassment
-buys dinner
- has good job
- she shows interest
- spends all night with you flirting
- "Oh I have a boyfriend"
"shows interest" what interest, honey? because i, even as a woman, have interest in making friends, for example, not sexual partnership. I saw guys cracking gay jokes/ sarcastic flirt between them too, but they aren't gay, (my gay radar is silent)
Women can care about people without sexual interest! Like you, guys, about each other!
Maybe you should get better at communicating that then.
We should be able to send the bill for dinner to the boyfriend
@Tevi_L7151 Yes because men don't have to give up their bodies in order to be friends with each other.
You should probably enquire about their relationship status first. And if they give you positive signals and then say they have a boyfriend, that's not merely a red flag but a semaphore. You don't want that one, she will cheat, and she's putting you in orbit for when she needs a confidence boost after being dumped or current BF doesn't live up to her idealised vision of him.
Ironic that women have to go through what we go through to see it the way we do instead of just listening to us when we say it is that way.
It's not ironic. It's happening because players gonna play and we shake it off 🥲
How is that ironic? That's pretty much everyone's response. From older people realizing the world really has changed to someone feeling othered or discriminated against for the first time. Until someone experiences it firsthand, why would the average person believe the claims of others that go against their understanding of the world?
@@wastrelperv”Why believe others against their own understanding?”
Because their “understanding” isn’t from an equivalent position in the scenario. Women have no clue what it’s like to be the pursuer because they just wait for guys to approach them. It’s why so many woman can’t handle rejection. Because they have a 100% success rate… they just say “yes” to the guy that approaches them that they like. Why would they claim to know what approaching is like when they have zero experience?
Same can be said on the flip side in terms of compliments or being ogled. Guys aren’t gonna know what it’s like to be stared at or inundated with compliments that are a mix of real and disingenuous just to get in their pants, and how that affects your perception. Because guys get so few compliments that what they get in a year or years is something women could get in a day or week.
We do this with professionals too. We secede to someone else’s expertise on a topic, because they probably know more about it, having studied/experienced it compared to your nothing.
Yeah, it's like... "BelieveAllWomen" is one sided or something. Nobody says "BelieveAllMen".
0:36 FRIENDLY FIRE
I love the immediate, unironic “let’s fuck around” after realising the woman was just playing mind games.
The first ever recorded "Women ☕" that is done by a woman in history
these women are exhibiting behaviors of what you call "pick me girl"
@@Ranma12-br3tcmen when a girl is slightly relatable:
That was such a realistic girl behavior
commits SA after being denied not once, but twice, keeps going
"Why would men do this?"
these women are the definition of pick me girls
Those comments literally hurt me cause i was sa in many dates. Like why men think women owe them all sexual interaction? @@Ranma12-br3tc
I read SA as south africa 😂
@@Ranma12-br3tc Over used buzzwords don't have a definition.
@@ilias856 Something being over used doesn't make it any less true.
Welcome to the club buddy
That's how it is for us. You just gotta raw dog it through life until someone isn't insufferable and respects you. Now I am not saying women are annoying, but nobody wants to keep trying after being treated like this lol
I am saying that
@@johnw9038
Facts, this guy is speaking wmn-ese, double talk. (Not saying they are annoying but they are "insufferable").
They are definitely fucking annoying
Women are annoying. I get plenty of female attention at work. It gets to the point where they get jealous of each other and become bitter. The thing is all of these women are liberal progressive types and I want nothing to do with them. They're nice enough until you get to know them and you realize they're terminally online Democrats.
By my personal experience, "going for the weird one" is actually the smartest move.
They also tend to be the cutest ones
Problem is, even the weird one is a $lut today.
One lady just got red pilled 😂 good!
man, four times. you are most definitely catching a charge
yes finally finally yeeeees
Eunbi 🍈👀
That repeated song loop had me rolling 🤣
Their frustration and the song together tho: mmm masta-peeece~!
“Go for the weird one” she picked up on the solution quick!
They’re not even looking at these women as if they’re people😂
Glad these women co-signed that NO indeed does not mean no.
Bro, the girls in the game are idealized, cute, and nice versions of women. They don't reflect how real women typically behave towards men
and she still got upset with the reaction lol.......imagine if the response was how they actually acted.
Except everyone else agrees that they do lol
True. A second attempt would have gotten him arrested.
@@johnw9038 They reflect the situation contexts but not the occurrence of the situation itself. It’s the difference between “oh someone tossed me out of the bar” and “they held me at shotgun point until I exited the bar and locked the door.” The reflection of their quote “we did all this work for nothing” is accurate, and is an average occurrence. Being able to kiss a girl three times with a distinct no present and then going for a fourth? Nah the average guy is leaving in cuffs or punched.
So Basically I understand Women more than Women... Wth
well... thats basically how the dating scene is for men.. you have to understand women more than they understand themselves...
thats why the most common trait of womanizers are those who could play around with women.
@@ViewportPlaythroughi feel like Earth.exex needs an update 😂
Because they don't have to think
@@iz7347 Exactly. Dating for women is like playing the game on the recruit level - they don't face any challenges, so they don't need to think. As they don't need to think, they don't cultivate consciousness about themselves and the world around.
It's embarrassing how seriously you all take this video. Touch grass.
And they say men are the complicated ones.
actually they are disgusted how simple we are lol
What do we want? Women. What do women want? Good looks, pleasure, pain, emotional connection, money security, strength, height, freedom, traditional men, subdermal neurophones, epidermalytic hyperkeratosis, lol jk. I don't know. If I did know I wouldn't be single.
No one says that
@@tomlewis7898 You must live under a rock then. Women have been making lists with 100+ items judging men for years now. The average men are invisible to the average women.
WELL WELLL WELLLL SOMEONE JUST TRIIIED THEIR OWN MEDICINE HEHEHEH
Pick the weird one works out best every time.
This has the same energy of that reality show where they told women to go and try to pick up other women, only for them to realise they have no game 💀
I'm literally going through this stuff right now. I've put so much effort into the relationship, and she showed some sympathy. After I offered her a kiss, she started to avoid me. Some girls waiting from guys to constantly solve their problembs, being "hanging out pals" but nothing more. And after this they hypocritically say that male loneliness epidemic is our fault.
Also, girls often confuse concepts. They say that you want to buy her with your gifts, etc., not understanding that this is all part of a healthy relationship and your big effort. We make a huge contribution, and they take advantage of it and then say: "I didn't ask you to put in so much effort. You did it on your own initiative."
They just use you, and when they get tired of you, they break up with you and go to richer, more energetic, more popular guys.
That's why it's so hart to find that only one girl that will love you for real.
It kind of sounds like you didn't realize that the relationship was platonic. Just because you helped someone out or gave gifts to them, that does not mean said person owes you anything in return. That was your prerogative to do so.
This is why I don't take the manosphere seriously anymore. I've seen way too many socially stunted men with horrendous communication skills shoot themselves in the foot when they talk to women, then cry about it online in an echo-chamber of other bitter, delusional men who treat women like some level in a video game to earn points and "win," rather than as people.
It also sounds like you're blaming your loneliness in general on women. I can promise you that women smell the incel vibes and horrible takes like these from a mile away.
@@AnnaHans88 You're part of the problem. You refuse to understand the male issue and just call them incels instead.
@@AnnaHans88 You're part of the problem.
@@AnnaHans88 You're part of the problem, refusing to empathize (or at least, sympathize) with men's struggle.
@@AnnaHans88Op doesn't give a single vibe of being incel he only told his problems instead you give the vibe of femcel
"Wait, what do you mean, she liked us the entire time, and now that we like her, she's like 'WTH are you doing?!'"
:)
Don't mind me, I'm just grinning like a Cheshire Cat over here.
when you taste your own medicine 😁😁😁
Whoever made this game is a god among men.
POV: A woman finds out how a lot of Women behave towards Men
I'm so sorry this is so fucking funny lmao "SHE LIKED US! WHY IS SHE LIKE THIS!?"
When women are the ones saying this, is there any hope really?
When a female gets mad like acie did, it's them facing the truth and hopefully it leads to a wake up call.
She's still not gonna touch you.
"female"
you are reading way too far into this
@JaquanIV no I'm not. Guys who say this are blind and clueless. You're probably some young dude who doesn't know any better.
@@bear0629 Cis Female?
I don't wanna be that person, but apparently they didn't understand "no" as an answer
these women are exhibiting behaviors of what you call "pick me girl"
@@Ranma12-br3tcif hating the predatory practices women employ makes you a pick me girl then this world is fucked and you're ignoring it for a gotcha moment. Have you even gone on 15 dates using an app? Its the worst women I've ever met in my life
@@Ranma12-br3tc Obviously.
We can never say something negative about women, or positive about men or we might be labeled a "pick me".
"I've done all this work" uh ohhhh. don't you know being a try-hard is unattractive to women?
"I never asked to do it for me " ahh response
well they didnt include sexual harassment at the second kiss, she would stop talking to women for real 😂😂😂😂
Now they know why men don't make the first move.
"" After all I did for her, now that we like her she doesn't like me ''
Well well well, ain't this familiar 😂😂
Pfffffffffffffffffffff hahahahahaha. That's the way to start the day XD
Understanding how we men need to walk around eggshells all the time! The hate is real!👿🔥😖
I've been called weird my entire life and now I'm married 😂
Lore accurate
The chat: 1st time? xD
Now what did we learn from them in the stream? You got to be aggressive like "yo biach wake tf up and get yo ass in the car I'm taking you to dinner" leave no room for rebuttal lol
lmao its the "TALKING STAGE!?" for me
But guys! Women are the ones who are good at communicating..... Ohhhh wait being a good communicator means the other person understands what you're saying clearly and knows your intentions?....
OK never mind women are good talkers.....
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 is hilarious because its true!!! 😭😭😭
Friendly Fire!!! I repeat Friendly Fire!!!
Cease your Weapons!!!!!
"She's beginning to believe."
Don't know the context for this but although it's frustrating that she's leading you on just for her to not reciprocate your actions back, just accept the first "no" and move on or else, it would be considered an SA.
yes. YES. ABOUT TIME U LEARNED
"I don't wanna talk to any of these fb, go for the weird one" - yeah, that's how it works for us.
This game seems like a good learning tool on how to man.
woomen like to say that they dont owe men anything but also say that men owe them honesty, stability, protection, must take care of them etc etc....interesting times hehe
They don’t owe random men anything lol
@@LongSeanSilverAnd this random men also owe them nothing, including protection. That's the reality women are pushing for.
Tf is blud waffling about
@@LongSeanSilver Say that when you're face to face with a migrant.
@@LongSeanSilver Who is about to 🍇.
Well you can tell Gran likes you as you get in the taxi with her, or else she would’ve called the cops on you.
That's so real, I can't tell you how many times I've experienced similar. Girl has obvious crush on me I ask her it she says yes and she's super clingy at first and then when I start trying to reciprocate my attraction to and affection for her she ghosts me and then we break up. Then like months later she acts like it never even happened and tries to repeat it. MULTIPLE different women have done that to me and I've seen it happen to many other guys and even a couple chicks have been victims of other chicks doing this stuff. Friggin wild man it doesn't need to be so damn complicated.
They want so badly for you to be the ‘tsundere emotionally stunted bad boy’ that they can try to figure out and fulfil their self-insert dark romance fantasy.
I can't help but be skeptical. Every time I see a man (and some women) say "she had an obvious crush on me" it's usually not.
I then hear the woman's side and it's usually "We were really good friends, but then he started acting weird or got the wrong idea so I gave us space and decided to have a new start but it still didn't work."
I'd need more context to not be suspicious.
@fredericksaxton9782 uhh.... The context was we were DATING.. lol.
This game is a test if you're a certified simp or not.
It happenes in real life too. If you like her she stops liking you but if you play it cool she likes you more but if you don't like her she doesn't like you either. The closest thing I can think of is kinda how you'd make friends with some wild deer or something is gonna run away from you at super fast you need to slowly get close and be super chill .
So, how do taste your own medicine now????"
By removing the two lower ribs and learning yoga?
Ive had some bad experiences
1. We talked in person a lot and text. She would go to my part time job almost everyday. I told her we should hangout one day. She then hardly talked to me and tried to get me fired from my job. She apologized a month and a half later but at that point I didn't give a fuck about her. She had the audacity to ask my friend what is wrong with me 😂. Later on I heard she has had trouble with guys in the past but she also slept with a lot of guys. Dodged a nuke.
2. I told this girl I found her very attractive and told her I wasn't gonna try anything with her. She ends up telling everyone I didn't try hard enough. WTF
3. Girl from work was always around me. Too much to be a coincidence. Would do very strange things. I asked for her number and she said sorry not interested. I was like okay hopefully she stops with the odd things. Nope still continues to do it. She even gets mad at certain points. Had another chat with her which came out to be bizarre. A bunch of pausing and not interested from her to then her asking my age to her saying in the saddest voice that she can't do that. I was just seeing how she is but yet even after that she continues to still do the awkward/stalker shit ever. Going on 11 months 😂. I don't talk to her and give her space since month 3 except that last talk in month 6. Everyone thinks she actually does like me but I guess she fighting some battles. Heard her family is fucked up so idk. Very quiet girl.
the more you ignore her the more desperate she may be for attention haha
@ayushmalpeddi2793 she just comes off as childish. Like during break always line of sight. She will heat her food up and walk towards her usual spot(near my old spot) but see me somewhere else and sit at the table in front of me, steal my seat from the previous break, or sit by one of my friend groups in which I sit somewhere else. Then my friends will tell me how much she looks at me. IDK maybe she is the Tsundere type.
@@mujinfu5290
Report it. Do something to let her know that she’s being immature and that she needs to make up her mind or stop harassing you completely. Stalking shouldn’t be ignored in the workplace.
painful to read it, too relatable
@@God-xd1wr recently she hasn't been coming to work and I've been working in a area that she can't do. Managers know about it as well.
This might be the most accurate representation I have seen on TH-cam.
as soon as i see a podcast im running
You probably shouldn't keep kissing someone especially if they don't seem happy about it
"SUFFAR! AS I HAVE" - Ramattra
women need to start playing this game so they can understand themselves, no man is going to randomly kiss women. lmao
these are "pick me girls" They bring down other women to get men to validate them 😂 No means no and SA is not cute.
@@Ranma12-br3tc so they are normal woman, like if it is not known that when one is interested in a guy she starts talking and making shit of the competition
Just because she now understands men's plight, doesn't mean she will care. You want a woman who understands and cares. Caring is probably more important than understanding.
All men: 1st time? 🧐⁉️
Wow. I've never seen such an accurate depiction of dating as a man. Nuts.
While people are diverse and over generalization is not healthy, the world would be a much better place if people showed some empathy to men and their problems. For example, if more women understood how frustrating it is to be led on, women in general could be more straightforward.
Empathy isn't something you just give to the societal underdog. It's a two-way street.
no they wouldn't they like the games too much generally speaking. Most women are not interested in the straightforward guy. Most are attracted to the guy who plays games because it gives excitement. Thats why they play games themselves. If most were not like this, we wouldn't be where we are now.
@@Blackraptor1234 wth? Im woman and cant take men who isn't straightforward seriously. All women around me like that.
@@Blackraptor1234 you know who is interested in straightforward guys? autistic women. grab yourself someone from the spectrum, it's absolutely worth it
Women becoming misogynistic in 2025 is not something that I thought I'd ever see
I don't know this streamer, but I just realized how they can so juice this "men have it hard" niche and makes lots of money. So many dudes are being way too happy in the coments. They just have to pretend they know how men feel, are people doing this already?
YES. I've been using the internet since 2004 so I know how this men vs women developed. It's getting worse and worse throughout the years. Feminizai (misandrist), red pill (misogynist) and people who capitalize both to make money. They feed you contents to hate your opposite gender and they make money from it. 😊😊
@@Annemarie_case143 or maybe it was just a natural reaction to rampant feminism? women have such easy, privileged lives compared to men. nothing misogynist about pointing out truths.
Classic grifter i see the red flag right away. She wants the buzz
The fact that it's true also helps a lot, even if she doesn't really believe it.
@@ilias856 Fair. I love how logical we are. Lol I sound like an impostor.
The irony of this is killing me 😂😂😂😂
I have no idea what she's played but it's the most realistic game I've ever seen.
Yeah, the man kissing her 3 more times after she said "no" is super realistic.
Yup this definitely base on IRL 😂
"Pick me, choose me, love me.. if i do this men will look at me"
youre the first one who understands it! these are "pick me girls" They bringdown other women to get men to validate them 😂
Without a doubt, they've treated men in the way they're cussing about here.
Reminds me of the funny tik toks of lesbian women who complain about dating.
Specifically the more masculine lesbians that "take on the male role" or whatever it's called.
Friendzoned after all you did.
Yep shit happens.😂
Then you get labeled as a creep and go to jail for false allegations 😅
"Men! we don't know what we did!"
there is a shit ton of truth to that family guy scene
Typically it's because you didn't do anything. They made something up to be mad about
@@Blackraptor1234 let’s be honest not just women do that, i mean just look at the anti-woke crowd
@@Flippohoyyy Nah, bro... You don't get it.
@ explain bro
Navigating relationships is weird awkward and frustrating and occasionally fantastically wonderful. The key is remembering both people are navigating their confusions and curiosities and when in doubt communicate. [•••] As directly and as literal as possible.
They finally get it