@@BrazyBlazer my brother in Christ if a war starts no one will care about silly fandom terminology. Meanwhile, I will call all my favourite fictional guys babygirl
I find it hilarious that "babygirl" is being defined as something submissive and femme when Tumblr calls grizzled, unkempt older men babygirl all the damn time lmao Me too, me too...
Yeah i have seen people call demon kings that want to take iver the world, whose hobbies are eating human flesh and torturing people baby girl Like the more angry they get at people calling the least feminine men baby girl the more people are going to use it because you gave them a reaction so now it's funny
These things aren't mutually exclusive. Though yes, it's weird that people are now using this term for young guys when on tumblr it is exclusively for old, jaded, "war, war never changes" types (though the grizzled part is optional, since not all specimens are human). Probably the OG babygirl was Snake from Metal Gear, although it's unclear which fandom exactly used the term first. The inherent funny of calling an old guy who has definitely committed war crimes "babygirl" was part of the point. It definitely did however always mean submissive. An important part of the "babygirl" vibe is naivety, and the perception of virginity. He's an old soldier who is married to the job. Now, especially anime, this was *supposed* to imply the character was gay: but tumblrinas either missed the queercoding or wilfully ignored it.
That's a really interesting interpretation. Idk if it's because of my asexuality, but I never really associated "babygirl" with virginity. I always thought the humor and appeal was calling this old war veteran of a man an unassuming nickname that he's outside the loop about lol
You’re right, and it annoys the shit out of me. It’s because, in order to assume someone is making a joke or being sarcastic, you need to think that they have a certain level of intelligence. People don’t really assume that women are intelligent unless proven otherwise, so they don’t assume that women can be funny. It’s ridiculous, but it’s also funny seeing the joke go way over people’s heads when the comedian is a woman
@@jtheconqueror121 .... okay now I need someone to make a meme of a faux transition timeline from Ben to Brett (or vice versa). I need to start sharing it with a conspiratorial caption that says "Are you SURE you can always tell?" lmfao
I remember once she made a hate video on therianthropy without doing proper research lmfao, and kept harassing Therians trying to educate her in the comments if I remember right.
The babygirl men trend actually has had such a positive impact on me as a trans man; it helps us accept femininity within ourselves as men in a dysphoria context.
I'm so glad! finding healthy masculinity and accepting femininity is a struggle for both cis and trans men, and I think babygirl is good for everyone (from a transmasc)
Tapping in as yet another trans man- seeing cis men confident enough to dress in more traditionally feminine clothing has been so positive for me too. Even though I'm trans, I do enjoy more traditionally feminine clothes (i.e. glittery, frilly, heels, and the such like, minus dresses). I was able to confidently start wearing them, which not only made me much more comfortable and outgoing, but also suits my looks much better
I now have the confidence to wear a skirt after seeing the whole baby girl thing. It felt kinda weird but also nice because I look like a dude wearing a skirt now!
She went so very quickly from "we shouldn't be praising effeminate men by calling them babygirl" to "we shouldn't be criticizing men for showing emotions by calling them babygirl"... I mean...? She just likes to complain.
her arguing men shouldnt be forced into a toxic masculinity role and be allowed to act and feel like a normal person but getting stressed about a cute nickname being given to men is insane to me. like shes so close to getting it lol
Same but I think its because personally I tend to think about most things logically so I knew right away that this isn’t every single person’s preference.
I love how she’s (the conservative lady) like “not all women want a feminien man” and then she’s like later on “women want a masculine man, women don’t like femeninity in their men”
yeah I was confused by it being labelled as a 'new term' as well, like, no?? this has been around for yearssss. I guess tik tok spread it to new demographics or something
My take on anything close to a definition is that Babygirl men is the vibe of guys who I wouldn’t be instantly worried about while walking home alone at night, if that makes sense
It's especially wild to me how the masculinity police are all like "nooo you need a strong masculine man to protect you a feminine man can't do that" when. Like. Sorry, protect me from what? I live in a city in a peaceful first-world country. I have an office job. I'm not exactly facing physical danger on a regular basis. Or ever, really. Unless I'm trying to move furniture, I'm just not going to encounter situations in my daily life that require more strength than I have in my own pudding-like body. Do these people just expect that they're going to get chased by a crocodile at some point? What situation do they expect to be in that would require a Strong Manly Man?
It's so frustrating because the thing they'd be protecting us from would either be other men or a natural disaster, and only one of those problems is likely to happen at any random time. I feel like most people who say stupid shit like, "I'll protect you," don't actually care in the first place. They just want to be perceived as strong and capable and hot. It's absolutely fucking wild that they've managed to turn the safety of a human being into an alpha male dick measuring contest.
Conservatives have this idea that no one is allowed to like or prefer what conservatives don't like. E.g conservative men hating that some men prefer plus size or muscular women. This video of Shapiro in drag proves this exactly.
The comment she reads at 3:12 for proof of what women don't want is from a man. How would he know? This video is the first time I've heard the term "babygirl men" but I'm 100% into the vibe.
Well, we men might not be able to tell women what you want, but you as women also don't get to define masculininty or use terms for us that we may not be comfortable with.
@@Onnarashiwell if you don’t like the term “babygirl man” it means you’re not one of them so there’s literally nothing to worry about. The vibe of this group is they aren’t offended by the idea of femininity and that doesn’t have to be you. You’re not a part of this corner of the internet.
@@letterborneVods OK, that's fair. I'm not offended by femininity in general, but I also like to choose how to view myself and identify, and I'd prefer to spend my time with someone who'd respect that. It just feels a bit rude to impose your ideas and labels on a man and expect him to agree 100% with that or there's something wrong with him.
@@Onnarashi oh, definitely. Maybe I was too quick to judge your response. If you don’t like to be called a term, you shouldn’t be. For me I guess it would be like this for the terms Girlboss or Gamer Girl, I absolutely hate those terms and would only use them ironically, so I understand now what you meant (I thought it was more like the stereotypical conservative response of femininity = bad, but I apologize for that).
i feel like i also often see "babygirl" used for men who aren't necessarily feminine, soft, et cetera, but in a joking way of "uwu he's my babygirl who's never done anything wrong." like for example blackbeard (the OFMD character not the actual historical person obvs) i've seen being called a babygirl when he's obviously, y'know, a pirate who's murdered a lot of people.
You are so right that Babygirl is about vibes and can't be defined. Hunter(the bad batch) and the John Carver killer(thanksgiving) are both my babygirls and they are wildly different characters.
Fun fact. Gorilla's males who are sweeter, Nicer,and take care of the kids will have more females and more kids. If the male is aggressive he will have less females
I'm a trans man who is still quite feminine in dress / aesthetic tastes so I'm here for babygirl men and others experimenting with masculinity that feels healthy for them and their communities. ty for ur solidarity ❤
Me too! It took me so long to admit I was trans because I thought being a man would mean having to throw away everything I love about femininity. But it doesn't. I can be as babygirl as a like (lol)
I like to follow a guy thats called Danny on tiktok, he is a tall buffed guy but gives off "BabyGirl" vibes. He is the sweetest, and so its everything he does I think. So based on Brett logic "babygirl" man cant protect? Lets take Danny for example. Tall, buff, sweet and gentle. I am pretty sure you can be a gentleman and still kick someones ass if needed? Why does it have to be appart? You can be many things 😅
Human beings are complicated. Gender roles are very simplistic. Rather than accept that gender roles can't be applied to all of humanity, these conservative grifters pretend that their simplistic categories are correct and it's humanity who's 'acting wrong'. Very silly!
Btw the term comes from the Last of Us show. Joel / Pedro Pascal uses the phase a bunch and people simping Pedro made the term mainstream. The concept of babygirl probably predates the show
I dunno if you’ve seen our flag means death(I highly recommend) but the one main charecter Ed is the most respected and feared pirate of his time. He is also so baby girl
Brett Cooper saying "I'm sorry ma'am, you don't speak for all of us" to the journalist celebrating babygirl men mere minutes after she presented a comment saying "women want masculine men" to speak for all of us 🤦♀️
It's like she doesn't understand an inside joke of a group she doesn't belong to and get offended even though it has nothing to do with her. 8:13 I'll never understand people get mad over 'women don't need men'.. I'd rather someone want me than need me. People can need you without wanting you.
I was literally so disgusted by that comment, cause in the majority of cases women actually don't control sexual encounters as men are dominating in nature more horny than women. They need sex like oxygen.
That bit where brett talks about how men heering that women dont need them and so they need to be a soecific way. Is correct. Men do this tho. They say women need them and they have to be a certain way. Despite that, we shouldnt need people to need us. If someone doesnt need you but wants you, then that is a good sign.
The terms masculine and feminine are practically meaningless anyways, it's all just an ever changing socially constructed idea. Masculine by definition just means traits associated with men. Babygirl is a trait associated with men, so babygirl IS a masculine trait
I also feel like they're confusing babygirl with femboy. Babygirls don't have to have "feminine" traits, plenty of the most stereotypically masculine manly men are babygirl. It's not about femininity it's just about vibes.
I've had friends argue with each other over whether I'm babygirl. I was hoping this video would help me understand what's going on but I'm still completely baffled. Glad they're all having fun tho.
since when does babygirl mean a submissive man? i've only seen people use it for fictional ultra masculine or ultra serious men, also ocasionally tumblr sexymen.
Because most women today are uncomfortable or insecure seeing masculine men lol....those who are secure in their feminity do not search it in their romantic interests.
To me, the best type of 'babygirl men' I like, is the concept of fictional big buff men who could physically protect you but who also like cute things and have creative hobbies, like that dichotomy is just fun to imagine. Literally the meme 'looks like they could kill you but is actually a cinnamon roll' Or commonly seen like in kpop, an attractive man who can both pull off sexy/mature looks and be cute
Waiting for the think pieces about blorbo and poor little meow meow and how those terms have effected masculinity if Babygirl is up for grabs for think pieces
imagine wanting to date a man who is masculine but isn’t so beaten down by toxic masculinity that he isn’t afraid to be more gentle or display, what is often considered, feminine traits….wow what a guy 🥰
I find it so disrespectful that how those traits are associated so much with women that men who have those traits are called as baby girl...Just call them kind nice and all instead of refering to them as a girl as it is equal to misgendering a person as she who identifies as he..... They don't identify as a girl so don't call them one
I've seen TOJI FUSHIGURO from Jujutsu Kaisen be called babygirl and the man is HUGE and SUPER MASCULINE I see the term babygirl used to describe characters people wanna have s*x with or just find attractive, I've never seen it as something people use to describe feminine male characters....
This gives me vibes of middle school and the cool girls being horrified at me being attracted to feminine men instead of their oh so perfect generic boring masculine crush. Not gonna lie, for a long time I was ashamed about being attracted to men "wrong". Luckily now I am in fandom spaces where many people usually agree with it, which is so healing. I also think this is very refreshing for actual men, being able to be themselves without having to force themselves into generic masculinity - that is, if they are not too brainwashed and think its an attack on them, and feel threatened.
I didn't know who she was, she just popped up some time ago in my youtube shorts and I didn't really pay any mind to her, definitly didn't know she was part of the daily wire. I just knew I always got an off vibe about her which came through when I ended up watching a short of her where she was critisizing a non binairy person for taking HRT ( it might also be a trans person? I don't fully remember just definitly the person got HRT). It was a tiktok to which she was reacting to and it's first someone who was afab and it showed during different stages of the HRT how the body had reacted to it. I felt so disgusted when after she saw the tiktok she was saying something among the lines of how horrible it was what that beautiful female had done to her body. The person on HRT looked so much happier during HRT than before
yeah i agree but i think fem shapiro is both taking it too seriously and not practicing honest journalism, like she's misunderstanding babygirl and internet slang as a whole i think
I will protect my babygirl husband with my whole being from people telling him to be less babygirl. She can't bag a babygirl and she's having a tantrum!!!!!
This is the equivalent of a man getting mad at guys calling a woman a guy or a dude. It is just a word. I call myself a boss girl or boss babe whenever I do something amazing that requires a lot of effort even though I consider myself an amorphous blob. Personally, I have been called a baby girl and I did not find it offensive. To me, it refers to being soft whether positive or negative. For example, I like it when my baby girl holds me. It is being used positively to describe that the guy is being soft and affectionate. Words are just words.
Guys, I know Brett is not the most agreeable person on the internet, but as someone who has watched most of her videos, she has very valid points. while i dont agree with a lot of things she says, she does have good arguments and its fun to watch her time to time lmaoo
I had never found men attractive until I got into kpop. I'm aroace and the only Men I considered attractive were anime characters but then I got into kpop and let me tell you, my entire life changed. I'm still aroace but damn, Ateez and StrayKids have me in a chokehold 🤣🤣🤣
Admittedly i am An Old and only see TikToks & Tumblr posts that are reposted on Instagram, but my impression was that Kpop guys are more “softboy” whereas Con O’Neill as Izzy on OFMD and Pedro Pascal in any context are “babygirl”
They wont even be able to pry babygirl men from my cold dead hands
I couldn't have said it better!
REAL
Thank you for defending us
FRR
Haters (The Daily Wire) hate to see a girlboss (me) winning (calling men babygirl)
Purr
I love calling (especially fictional) men babygirl. Some men just ARE babygirl
I call silly men pookies and babygirls or mother 🚶🏻♀️
Let’s see how that works for you when the war starts 😂😂😂
@@BrazyBlazer my brother in Christ if a war starts no one will care about silly fandom terminology. Meanwhile, I will call all my favourite fictional guys babygirl
She probably thinks all the women that say “I’m just a girl” really think they are children 💀
I find it hilarious that "babygirl" is being defined as something submissive and femme when Tumblr calls grizzled, unkempt older men babygirl all the damn time lmao
Me too, me too...
like Martin Scorsese lmao
Yeah i have seen people call demon kings that want to take iver the world, whose hobbies are eating human flesh and torturing people baby girl
Like the more angry they get at people calling the least feminine men baby girl the more people are going to use it because you gave them a reaction so now it's funny
ikr lol
These things aren't mutually exclusive.
Though yes, it's weird that people are now using this term for young guys when on tumblr it is exclusively for old, jaded, "war, war never changes" types (though the grizzled part is optional, since not all specimens are human). Probably the OG babygirl was Snake from Metal Gear, although it's unclear which fandom exactly used the term first. The inherent funny of calling an old guy who has definitely committed war crimes "babygirl" was part of the point. It definitely did however always mean submissive. An important part of the "babygirl" vibe is naivety, and the perception of virginity. He's an old soldier who is married to the job. Now, especially anime, this was *supposed* to imply the character was gay: but tumblrinas either missed the queercoding or wilfully ignored it.
That's a really interesting interpretation. Idk if it's because of my asexuality, but I never really associated "babygirl" with virginity. I always thought the humor and appeal was calling this old war veteran of a man an unassuming nickname that he's outside the loop about lol
Babygirl is a state of mind
As is Daddy 😌💞🌠
i saw someone say that we as a society never assume women are just having fun or making a joke and i have not been the same since
Let Women be Silly!!!1!1!!!1
Reactionaries with their stick up their collective angry ass
It's so true
You’re right, and it annoys the shit out of me. It’s because, in order to assume someone is making a joke or being sarcastic, you need to think that they have a certain level of intelligence. People don’t really assume that women are intelligent unless proven otherwise, so they don’t assume that women can be funny. It’s ridiculous, but it’s also funny seeing the joke go way over people’s heads when the comedian is a woman
It is always so disturbing how much Brett Cooper actually just looks like Ben Shapiro in a wig. Her voice even sounds like a girl version of his.
Can you not?
Please, stop calling my mistress Ben Shapiro in a wig.
I AM NOT JOKING!!!
GRR RUFF GRR RUFF RUFF!!!
I think we just have to admit that Ben just looks like a woman
Kinda baby girl
Fem Shapiro
@@jtheconqueror121 .... okay now I need someone to make a meme of a faux transition timeline from Ben to Brett (or vice versa). I need to start sharing it with a conspiratorial caption that says "Are you SURE you can always tell?" lmfao
She looks more like Bens sister than Abby does
Brett is low-key funny when shes mad in the worst way possible:)
"Im here in defense of babygirl men" is the single best line I've ever heard
Brett in here being mad over babygirl men when she has a Chad name.
I remember once she made a hate video on therianthropy without doing proper research lmfao, and kept harassing Therians trying to educate her in the comments if I remember right.
@3zra._. yeah, like leave the poor people alone or at least do your research
I remember she said women to "keep their legs closed" to not get pregnant and abort a baby 😐 I was like how can a woman say that
@@BabyYodaBaby I’d like to see her to say that to an abuse / assault victim
The babygirl men trend actually has had such a positive impact on me as a trans man; it helps us accept femininity within ourselves as men in a dysphoria context.
I'm so glad! finding healthy masculinity and accepting femininity is a struggle for both cis and trans men, and I think babygirl is good for everyone (from a transmasc)
Tapping in as yet another trans man- seeing cis men confident enough to dress in more traditionally feminine clothing has been so positive for me too. Even though I'm trans, I do enjoy more traditionally feminine clothes (i.e. glittery, frilly, heels, and the such like, minus dresses). I was able to confidently start wearing them, which not only made me much more comfortable and outgoing, but also suits my looks much better
The fyodor pfp says it all
I now have the confidence to wear a skirt after seeing the whole baby girl thing. It felt kinda weird but also nice because I look like a dude wearing a skirt now!
I'm so happy for you! You're so valid
As a human who's attracted to soft, kind, gentle men, please don't take away the babygirls they're all I have
FR 😭
Calling a guy as girl is as disrespectful as misgendering someone
@@Home-o2v4h It's a joke, are you uhh... on the spectrum?
@@Home-o2v4hbruh, no it ain’t 😂
@@liviwaslost maybe not to you but certain people take pride in their gender identity.
Maybe baby girl is the friends we made along the way
I can’t lol
Perchance????🤨
She went so very quickly from "we shouldn't be praising effeminate men by calling them babygirl" to "we shouldn't be criticizing men for showing emotions by calling them babygirl"... I mean...? She just likes to complain.
She’s a conservative, of course she’s going to complain about everything
Men are and will always be babygirl 🫶😽💕
Funny when you have a lesbian flag in your pfp.
@@frogblehfrog143yeah lmao I don’t like men romantically or sexually I just think it’s funny that ppl are calling them babygirl
@@goobercruncher Liking men is pretty funny
@@frogblehfrog143girl you are in literally in everyone’s comment chill😭😭😭
@@alyssaes21 I MUST DEFEND MY MISTRESS!!!
Ben Shapiro in a wig is always angry
I call Brett "Fem Shapiro" for some reason.
@@bibianaguadalupeislasherre9880probably because she is femme Shapiro. She is Ben’s drag persona
She's cute actually. stop being jealous
Don't worry Savannah. A lot of us don't get Brett Cooper.
@@wendyjohnson4345no one is saying that Ben isn’t cute. He’s a very cute femboy
Conservatives not in understanding internet slang will never not be funny 💀💀
Erm, My Mistress does understand internet slang??? Last night she jokingly asked me to rizz her up and I did but failed and got a beating.
Right!!🤣🤣 I'm waiting for bret to start ranting about how cats on TH-cam are called cars instead.
I'm not a conservative but I even don't understand these slangs
@@kaelyn4063it means cute
@@VuyoMahlangeni kinda a weird term imo
her arguing men shouldnt be forced into a toxic masculinity role and be allowed to act and feel like a normal person but getting stressed about a cute nickname being given to men is insane to me. like shes so close to getting it lol
I love the dichotomy of how a masculine manly man's "masculinity" can be so easily robbed by the smallest of things.
I’m autistic and apparently I understand hyperbolic reactions more than her 🙃
Me too lol
literally same!!
Same but I think its because personally I tend to think about most things logically so I knew right away that this isn’t every single person’s preference.
Same🥺🙈
@@bridgez04to me babygirl is rlly just a vibe so i don't ponder on it unless im feeling particularly philosophical
Article: Women love Babygirl Men
TexanDogDAD: No they don't
Brett Cooper: See? See, they don't - The Women Have Spoken!
I love how she’s (the conservative lady) like “not all women want a feminien man” and then she’s like later on “women want a masculine man, women don’t like femeninity in their men”
As someone who's been on Tumblr since 2012, Babygirl Men are absolutely not a new thing.
This is not strange or newsworthy behavior.
yeah I was confused by it being labelled as a 'new term' as well, like, no?? this has been around for yearssss. I guess tik tok spread it to new demographics or something
To me a Babygirl Man is the only kind of man that I would allow to call me babygirl
This is also a good definition! Or also maybe a man with enough confidence in himself to be okay with you calling him babygirl?
@@NettylSpryngs both is good
@@NettylSpryngs that's a pretty good way to define babygirl men, or one that would be happy to be called "cute", "adorable", or giggle or get nervous
My take on anything close to a definition is that Babygirl men is the vibe of guys who I wouldn’t be instantly worried about while walking home alone at night, if that makes sense
So, non-threatening men?
Also men who make me feel confident and protected
I love how she's so mad abt babygirl men when booktok men and men in books are the "bad men"
It's especially wild to me how the masculinity police are all like "nooo you need a strong masculine man to protect you a feminine man can't do that" when. Like. Sorry, protect me from what? I live in a city in a peaceful first-world country. I have an office job. I'm not exactly facing physical danger on a regular basis. Or ever, really. Unless I'm trying to move furniture, I'm just not going to encounter situations in my daily life that require more strength than I have in my own pudding-like body.
Do these people just expect that they're going to get chased by a crocodile at some point? What situation do they expect to be in that would require a Strong Manly Man?
It's so frustrating because the thing they'd be protecting us from would either be other men or a natural disaster, and only one of those problems is likely to happen at any random time. I feel like most people who say stupid shit like, "I'll protect you," don't actually care in the first place. They just want to be perceived as strong and capable and hot. It's absolutely fucking wild that they've managed to turn the safety of a human being into an alpha male dick measuring contest.
Conservatives have this idea that no one is allowed to like or prefer what conservatives don't like. E.g conservative men hating that some men prefer plus size or muscular women.
This video of Shapiro in drag proves this exactly.
Protect you from other men, that's who.
Right?! It's like they think we're in constant danger of a bear attack! 😂
To be fair there’s a lot of conservatives in Florida so maybe
The irony of her stance being men should open up and be vulnerable, but they must vehemently reject being called effeminate in any way.
The comment she reads at 3:12 for proof of what women don't want is from a man. How would he know? This video is the first time I've heard the term "babygirl men" but I'm 100% into the vibe.
well obviously we have to ask the men what the women are thinking! How else would we know? /s
Well, we men might not be able to tell women what you want, but you as women also don't get to define masculininty or use terms for us that we may not be comfortable with.
@@Onnarashiwell if you don’t like the term “babygirl man” it means you’re not one of them so there’s literally nothing to worry about.
The vibe of this group is they aren’t offended by the idea of femininity and that doesn’t have to be you. You’re not a part of this corner of the internet.
@@letterborneVods OK, that's fair. I'm not offended by femininity in general, but I also like to choose how to view myself and identify, and I'd prefer to spend my time with someone who'd respect that. It just feels a bit rude to impose your ideas and labels on a man and expect him to agree 100% with that or there's something wrong with him.
@@Onnarashi oh, definitely. Maybe I was too quick to judge your response. If you don’t like to be called a term, you shouldn’t be. For me I guess it would be like this for the terms Girlboss or Gamer Girl, I absolutely hate those terms and would only use them ironically, so I understand now what you meant (I thought it was more like the stereotypical conservative response of femininity = bad, but I apologize for that).
i feel like i also often see "babygirl" used for men who aren't necessarily feminine, soft, et cetera, but in a joking way of "uwu he's my babygirl who's never done anything wrong." like for example blackbeard (the OFMD character not the actual historical person obvs) i've seen being called a babygirl when he's obviously, y'know, a pirate who's murdered a lot of people.
yass ofmd mentioned (i completely agree btw)
in the loz fandom have been seeing it most used for ganondorf
My babygirl are men that are powerful as fuck while looking absolutely fabulous in a fight. (Dazai, Xie lain, Hau Chang,Gojo)
Xie Lian is SO babygirl!
You are so right that Babygirl is about vibes and can't be defined. Hunter(the bad batch) and the John Carver killer(thanksgiving) are both my babygirls and they are wildly different characters.
HUNTER IS NOT BABYGIRL… well… actually… let me think on that…
Lol real
OMG Hunter is babygirl you're SO RIGHT
Hunter is so babygirl. And low key, so is Wrecker.
Fun fact. Gorilla's males who are sweeter, Nicer,and take care of the kids will have more females and more kids. If the male is aggressive he will have less females
What do you mean women arent a monolith that like one type of man? >:[
I'm a trans man who is still quite feminine in dress / aesthetic tastes so I'm here for babygirl men and others experimenting with masculinity that feels healthy for them and their communities. ty for ur solidarity ❤
Me too! It took me so long to admit I was trans because I thought being a man would mean having to throw away everything I love about femininity. But it doesn't. I can be as babygirl as a like (lol)
Feminine trans men unite here apparently 😂 (meaning yeah same)
Me too
I’m an androgynous cis guy and I agree completely. Solidarity with my femme trans man brothers 🏳️⚧️
Hey same! It’s a little tricky being. Femme trans guy, but I’m glad there are others of us
I love how you’re a stay as well 🥹😊😊
Buff and babygirl : Changbin and Jungkook 😌
Jungkook is *so* babygirl oh my God
@@sassylittleprophet LITERALLY like the MOST babygirl 💅🏾🤗
My partner is a HUGE stay and it's adorable! They've taught me a lot about Skz and I completely agree! Along with Felix and Hyunjin!! 🥹💞
Omg Stays unite 💪❤️ and hail the biggest babygirl, Han Jisung 😚
@@TheLeftistLynx exactly Hyunlix have babygirl energy too
Literally Deadpool is so babygirl and he's like super masculine
I like to follow a guy thats called Danny on tiktok, he is a tall buffed guy but gives off "BabyGirl" vibes. He is the sweetest, and so its everything he does I think.
So based on Brett logic "babygirl" man cant protect? Lets take Danny for example. Tall, buff, sweet and gentle. I am pretty sure you can be a gentleman and still kick someones ass if needed? Why does it have to be appart? You can be many things 😅
I love watching his shorts! Especially the hero and villain one. I can understand the babygirl vibe from that
I was talking about a dude who does gym videos 🐥 But I will make sure to watch this other Danny too 👌
Human beings are complicated. Gender roles are very simplistic. Rather than accept that gender roles can't be applied to all of humanity, these conservative grifters pretend that their simplistic categories are correct and it's humanity who's 'acting wrong'. Very silly!
JoeySwole or smth is also kinda babygirl
Yeah I thought you must mean Dannyphantomexe
Femme Shapiro is mad that nobody calls her "babygirl", despite the copious effort she put into her transition
I call my mistress baby girl all the time AND she is not trans!!! if so then what was I eating last night???
Her name is Brett Cooper, not Ben Shapiro. Just because they look similar doesn't mean they're the same.
@@HenrySimmons1225ACTUALLY her name is Brett Cooper, if you’re gonna be whoosh about a joke and correct someone, at least get the correction right 😅
baby girl is definitely a vibe, not sure why Brett was taking it so seriously 😂
IS THAT HYUNJIN IN THE THUMBNAIL I SEE?!?!
Right thats the only reason why I clicked
We love your lgbtq stay icon 😭💅
@@luca143ayen whats a stay?
@@haylene7521 stay is straykids fandom name ~
Pedro Pascal is concidered babygirl? SIGN ME UP!
And men with purses. Yes.
I love his babygirl memes 😂
WAS THAT ZHONGLI IN THE SECOND DEFINITION LETS GOO
GENSHIN FAN IN THE WILD??? HIII
He is SO babygirl
Love that they chose Zhongli for it instead of the most babygirl to ever babygirl
Kaveh is right there y’all
SO BABY GIRLLL
Her voice sounds so much like an ad that I want to skip instinctively lmaoooo
The first character I ever called “babygirl” was Miguel O’Hara from Spiderverse and I stand by that decision
HE IS SO FUCKING BABYGIRL AND I LOVE HIM
Miguel O'hara is both babygirl AND daddy 😻✋🏾
Changbin and Mingyu's biceps are larger than my head but they're the 2 most babygirl to every babygirl, I WILL fight too the death for my babygirls
Changbin king of GGs and my ult forever 🔥🔥
Btw the term comes from the Last of Us show. Joel / Pedro Pascal uses the phase a bunch and people simping Pedro made the term mainstream. The concept of babygirl probably predates the show
Haha no, that's just when it escaped tumblr containment. It's been around to since at least 2008, which is when I first saw it.
Ok but if my future partner isn't a babygirl man then I don't want him
so real
idk y shes always so pressed over everything, then calls everyone else "sensitive." bbygirl is literally j a way to have fun- no need to be mad damn.
Typical conservative crying and throwing tantrums over everything
I dunno if you’ve seen our flag means death(I highly recommend) but the one main charecter Ed is the most respected and feared pirate of his time. He is also so baby girl
Omg he is, especially in that floral robe
I love the Stray Kids fans here!! Stray Kids are very babygirl!
even tho he’s very tall and very muscular, kim namjoon (bts) will always be a baby girl
that is true joons very bbg
That man is not real, he is an alien that came down to this earth.
Have not seen the genderbent Ben Shiro since her short on immigrants.
Wonder what she’s so pissed about now
Brett Cooper saying "I'm sorry ma'am, you don't speak for all of us" to the journalist celebrating babygirl men mere minutes after she presented a comment saying "women want masculine men" to speak for all of us 🤦♀️
It's like she doesn't understand an inside joke of a group she doesn't belong to and get offended even though it has nothing to do with her.
8:13 I'll never understand people get mad over 'women don't need men'.. I'd rather someone want me than need me. People can need you without wanting you.
I'm very worried that TexanDogDad may have meant _exactly_ what I think they meant by "fake women".
i always thought of bbg as just a term for someone (character/celeb/other) with good vibes that makes you happy, like keyboard smash kind of happies
‘they control when sexual encounters happens’ ??? that’s not a privilege women have that’s a basic human right 😭
I was literally so disgusted by that comment, cause in the majority of cases women actually don't control sexual encounters as men are dominating in nature more horny than women. They need sex like oxygen.
It's called a privilege because only women have that...
That bit where brett talks about how men heering that women dont need them and so they need to be a soecific way. Is correct. Men do this tho. They say women need them and they have to be a certain way.
Despite that, we shouldnt need people to need us. If someone doesnt need you but wants you, then that is a good sign.
The terms masculine and feminine are practically meaningless anyways, it's all just an ever changing socially constructed idea. Masculine by definition just means traits associated with men. Babygirl is a trait associated with men, so babygirl IS a masculine trait
I also feel like they're confusing babygirl with femboy. Babygirls don't have to have "feminine" traits, plenty of the most stereotypically masculine manly men are babygirl. It's not about femininity it's just about vibes.
I've had friends argue with each other over whether I'm babygirl. I was hoping this video would help me understand what's going on but I'm still completely baffled. Glad they're all having fun tho.
since when does babygirl mean a submissive man? i've only seen people use it for fictional ultra masculine or ultra serious men, also ocasionally tumblr sexymen.
Because most women today are uncomfortable or insecure seeing masculine men lol....those who are secure in their feminity do not search it in their romantic interests.
To me, the best type of 'babygirl men' I like, is the concept of fictional big buff men who could physically protect you but who also like cute things and have creative hobbies, like that dichotomy is just fun to imagine. Literally the meme 'looks like they could kill you but is actually a cinnamon roll'
Or commonly seen like in kpop, an attractive man who can both pull off sexy/mature looks and be cute
Cooper is an actor and a tool of the right. I'd assume most of her takes were carefully crafted for her to read in her studio, er, bedroom...
Waiting for the think pieces about blorbo and poor little meow meow and how those terms have effected masculinity if Babygirl is up for grabs for think pieces
The fact that she defines what masculine is as not emotional and then is angry when we say the opposite is feminene 😭😭
This is wild I almost only use to term babygirl for men who fit the "traditional" masculine traits, lmao
Hyunjin rightfully being in the thumbnail
he's so bbg fr
I don't use babygirl for men that are either submissive or feminine. I normally use it to describe extremely manly men that I Have a crush on. lol
Bro i literally just found out that Brett and Ben Shapiro's sister were different people
imagine wanting to date a man who is masculine but isn’t so beaten down by toxic masculinity that he isn’t afraid to be more gentle or display, what is often considered, feminine traits….wow what a guy 🥰
I find it so disrespectful that how those traits are associated so much with women that men who have those traits are called as baby girl...Just call them kind nice and all instead of refering to them as a girl as it is equal to misgendering a person as she who identifies as he..... They don't identify as a girl so don't call them one
The first definition killed me for some reason 😂 I agree I just thought it was vibes lol
Queer folk love babygirls (it's me, hi, I'm the problem it's me. I would give anything to Han Jisung)
jungwoo is THE bbg
NCTZEN SPOTTED‼️‼️‼️
@@ashyoyrus3441 NEO GOT MY BACK 🤞
REALLL
ok but I present: jungwoN
I've seen TOJI FUSHIGURO from Jujutsu Kaisen be called babygirl and the man is HUGE and SUPER MASCULINE
I see the term babygirl used to describe characters people wanna have s*x with or just find attractive, I've never seen it as something people use to describe feminine male characters....
To anyone who needs it, you matter to someone. ❤
I love the babygirl men thing so much, especially because it pisses off conservatives.
This gives me vibes of middle school and the cool girls being horrified at me being attracted to feminine men instead of their oh so perfect generic boring masculine crush. Not gonna lie, for a long time I was ashamed about being attracted to men "wrong". Luckily now I am in fandom spaces where many people usually agree with it, which is so healing.
I also think this is very refreshing for actual men, being able to be themselves without having to force themselves into generic masculinity - that is, if they are not too brainwashed and think its an attack on them, and feel threatened.
yeees i will defend my babygirl men ,Nanami Kento
I didn't know who she was, she just popped up some time ago in my youtube shorts and I didn't really pay any mind to her, definitly didn't know she was part of the daily wire. I just knew I always got an off vibe about her which came through when I ended up watching a short of her where she was critisizing a non binairy person for taking HRT ( it might also be a trans person? I don't fully remember just definitly the person got HRT). It was a tiktok to which she was reacting to and it's first someone who was afab and it showed during different stages of the HRT how the body had reacted to it. I felt so disgusted when after she saw the tiktok she was saying something among the lines of how horrible it was what that beautiful female had done to her body. The person on HRT looked so much happier during HRT than before
I do think there is SOME merit in viewing the fun with an academic lense, bc even fun and jokes change with the culture and trends
yeah i agree but i think fem shapiro is both taking it too seriously and not practicing honest journalism, like she's misunderstanding babygirl and internet slang as a whole i think
I will protect my babygirl husband with my whole being from people telling him to be less babygirl. She can't bag a babygirl and she's having a tantrum!!!!!
thank you so much for bringing about huta dancing to antifragile to my attention, i screeched a bit ngl lol
you are so welcome. any chance i can talk about it, i will. it consumes about 95% of my brain
Calling a man babygirl does not mean he is not masculine conservatives 😂. For example: Chris Evans as Captain America is babygirl ❤
This is the first I've heard of this "babygirl" thing. Sounds boss!
I would LOVE to see her reactions to other fandom terms like Poor Little Meow Meow, Blorbo, Horse Plinko, etc.
I haveny watched the video yet but i just want to say that Gordan Ramsay is *the most* babygirl
Goodbye I want a babygirl man like look at my mans changbin and my pookie seonghwa😭🙏
This is the equivalent of a man getting mad at guys calling a woman a guy or a dude. It is just a word. I call myself a boss girl or boss babe whenever I do something amazing that requires a lot of effort even though I consider myself an amorphous blob. Personally, I have been called a baby girl and I did not find it offensive. To me, it refers to being soft whether positive or negative. For example, I like it when my baby girl holds me. It is being used positively to describe that the guy is being soft and affectionate. Words are just words.
Sometimes I forget just how much Brett Cooper looks like Ben and then I get scared when I’m reminded
Guys, I know Brett is not the most agreeable person on the internet, but as someone who has watched most of her videos, she has very valid points. while i dont agree with a lot of things she says, she does have good arguments and its fun to watch her time to time lmaoo
Imagine explaining 'mother', 'father', and 'babygirl' to a conservative😭
6:53 F is for friends who do stuff together……..
U is for you and me
N is for anywhere and anytime at all
Down here in the deep blue sea
I love and forever will love babygirl men! Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk!💖
I saw the title and Hyunjin in the thumbnail. Perfect, slendid, such male babygirl
I swear every single time I forget about this women she returns like my sleep paralysis demon 😂
I had never found men attractive until I got into kpop. I'm aroace and the only Men I considered attractive were anime characters but then I got into kpop and let me tell you, my entire life changed. I'm still aroace but damn, Ateez and StrayKids have me in a chokehold 🤣🤣🤣
You are probably bisexual
Admittedly i am An Old and only see TikToks & Tumblr posts that are reposted on Instagram, but my impression was that Kpop guys are more “softboy” whereas Con O’Neill as Izzy on OFMD and Pedro Pascal in any context are “babygirl”
Babygirl is undefinable, it's ranged, and fluid, and ever changing.
Babygirl men is something she will never take from me
They're freaking out over it and calling it new like the actual Lord Byron never existed.
Haha, true.
My #1 babygirl is Charlie Day and he deserves more love imo