I do like this commentary, and I believe that Tamar does want to be loved and accepted to self love has to be instilled in her before she looks for someone else. I hope the hell she doesn’t go back. In fact, I pray to God that she doesn’t go back, but if she happens to, I’m still here for her. I’m still rooting for her even though I don’t know I feel her pain. I feel her journey. I can relate to the misery that she has felt and you were right she is human. She’s gonna make mistakes but she needs somebody who she can talk to like you said safe place, and will not judge her what she did or how she feels. She needs a real good friend, but I know that I have accepted whatever shenanigans or mistakes that Tamar does cause I’m open for her journey. Thank you for your commentary. I really appreciate it and enjoyed it.
@@Crazymyrtle She needs a REALLY good support system...which Im not sure she has. A lot of people have been where she is. thank you for your positive words
Y’all say you think she wants to be loved I think she’s a narcissist. I think that she is so into herself she wants somebody to tell her what she wanna hear. She wants someone to let her act the fool and they just have to put up with it. She can hurt other people and talk about other people, but they better not even point out what she’s doing wrong..or she going to throw a tantrum and it started with the family she’s , getting a taste of her own medicine and I do not feel sorry for her .. she needs to take care of herself don and family
People think self-CONFIDENCE and self-ESTEEM are synonymous. They’re not at all. Confidence is belief and esteem is respect. Like you said, she has confidence, but the respect for herself just isn’t there.
My sister did this exact same thing to me. I told her I starting taking medication for my depression. She called to vent and when I didn’t blindly agree to her side. She said “I guess you didn’t take your medication today”. I only told her the medication a few days before and she so quickly used that against me. Haven’t talked to her for 2 years and I’m happy about it.
Great point about how so many people use a mental health diagnosis as a way to invalidate your opinions forever more. The stigma is still there and very real.
I think the huemans that think/feel keeping real life matters tucked under carpets behind closed doors and out of the scrutiny of public are trained by this capitalistic shitzem SCAMerica has perpetuated, facilitated and constructed in order to keep things the same. No refernce points, no faces no cases type of malarchy. The people that don't wish to affect change or be inconvenienced or disturbed by the issues that don't affect them directly. The easy way to say "this doesn't concern me" or others uninvolved, that's your "PROBLEM" gnot mines type o huemans, the I got my ish together now figure out yours, in silence even if it means suffer just do it over there type of huemanz😒. Rarely are huans on any topic that doesnt affect them because they ACTUALLY CARE and weild wellbeing and the best for "so seeming" troubled others. I just happened to find this channel bc ☝🏾I do genuinely love Tamar and has long before this Jeremy buffoonery however the fact is huemans are gnot genuinely loving anymore very far and few in-between those who do truly just have genuine love for "other huemans/huemanz". It's triggering for a genuine loving soul to see you huemans do what/how you huemanz do ☹️💔💔💔💔💔🤕🤮🤮🤮🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢
Little sister speak so the people on the balcony can hear you!!!!! I am nodding my head as though you are talking to me. I completely agree with every single word you said!!! Love your commentary
I agree JR is a master manipulator and a gas lighter. Tamar is weak and broken and feels like she has no one to turn too and that includes her family. Hopefully she finds the peace she needs for her life and stay away from that man.
Sis you been eating and spilling the tea! Other than her problems/ trauma, Tamar is an old school person in a sense that she would stick with her men even if they were toxic/abusive! Also most men she married/dated are like her sisters they know how to show her as the crazy one cuz shes loud/animated! I saw a part of his video and the way he used her “mental health” to support his points was disgusting and had essence of gaslighting! Tamar aint no saint but he was using words that would get her to react then prove that his description of her is accurate
At the end of the day, they spoiled Tamar and put up with her over the top behavior. As a grown woman, her temper tantrums have become unbearable. She thinks everyone is against her. And she does not accept the fact that her mouth is the source of her problems l. She talks all kind of foolish disrespectful mess to everyone around her. I can barely watch the show because I can’t take Tamar’s nasty, ghetto attitude. She treats men in her life the same. I pray for her. And their mother is delusional. They are grown women. As the mother, she can’t demand they love each other unconditionally. It doesn’t work like that.
She has learned her behaviors from her mother. It’s also a lot of trauma that is underneath the surface level behavior that people point out. Tamara is a work in progress just like most of us are.
Girl you got me ready to come and lay on your couch for a chat! You hit the nail on the head with the very first try! You are 100% correct. Its awful the way people are dragging her right now knowing full well that they have been through or are living worst as we speak. Maam you ate! Drop your mic for the people please 😂
You can not mistakenly use someone's credit card because it still has a three digit security code that you have to provide. Even if the card is on file.
She did the same to the African man & even had Vince berating him but then later she said Happy Fathers Day as a stepdad to son & sang his praises. She knows JR is toxic, his ex said so & she was never that into him clearly.
Great review of the situation! Tamar, to me is a lot, just energy-draining. While I'm not a fan of hers, JR, I believe, is disparaging not only her mental health but how the world perceives Tamar as problematic to look like the good guy in this situation. I do agree that he is manipulating her, from what I've observed, eagerness to be in a relationship. They never should have gotten together, especially after he INTENTIONALLY embarrassed her publicly. Everytime I see or hear about Tamar, all I can think of is wasted talent. She allows drama to outshine the gift that she has been blessed with. In my opinion, Tamar needs to take a hiatus from men, social media and television, and DO INTENSE WORK ON HERSELF!!!
Yes, she will go back because she is not well! Sick people seek familiar territory! JR is borderline sick as well! This is definitely not a safe place for Tamar and also dangerous! She's on the edge! Tamar needs to stop working and check in to a new Facility, for long term care.
Where is these people's sense of SELF? (-worth, -esteem, respect, confidence, -preservation, -truth) 'Living' your intimate personal life on social media is a kind of exhibitionism in which these people (TAMAR) lose their dignity and most of all the respect of others.. Furthermore, Tamar's rambling/ incoherent speech, uncontrolled gestures and delusional awareness of her own reality (MY children, MY husband) proves her mental state and indeed, the urgency of immediate therapeutic help.
Jeremy may be all the things that you have said; no debate there. However, we have seen Tamar in three public relationships, all of which have ended in the same manner and with Tamar as the perpetual victim. She is a common denominator.
I wonder if her mom was going through the trauma of her marriage ending at the same time Tamar was being SA Cause Tamar and her mom both seem to lack enough love for themselves that they can get over a man and love themselves enough to be happy because of themselves and look at a man as a nice addition to their already happy existence. I think her mom did not and doesn’t have the ability to help her through her trauma and she seem stunned and looking for a man and friends to help her find what she needs to grow. It makes me sad for her
Every woman wants love. JR doesn't love. Tamar! JR said the last 3 numbers. Which a business goes by the last 4. JR is playing a dangerous game, especially with her mental illness. This will not end well.
Do you think Tamar will go back to JR?
I do like this commentary, and I believe that Tamar does want to be loved and accepted to self love has to be instilled in her before she looks for someone else. I hope the hell she doesn’t go back. In fact, I pray to God that she doesn’t go back, but if she happens to, I’m still here for her. I’m still rooting for her even though I don’t know I feel her pain. I feel her journey. I can relate to the misery that she has felt and you were right she is human. She’s gonna make mistakes but she needs somebody who she can talk to like you said safe place, and will not judge her what she did or how she feels. She needs a real good friend, but I know that I have accepted whatever shenanigans or mistakes that Tamar does cause I’m open for her journey. Thank you for your commentary. I really appreciate it and enjoyed it.
@@Crazymyrtle She needs a REALLY good support system...which Im not sure she has. A lot of people have been where she is.
thank you for your positive words
Y’all say you think she wants to be loved I think she’s a narcissist. I think that she is so into herself she wants somebody to tell her what she wanna hear. She wants someone to let her act the fool and they just have to put up with it. She can hurt other people and talk about other people, but they better not even point out what she’s doing wrong..or she going to throw a tantrum and it started with the family she’s , getting a taste of her own medicine and I do not feel sorry for her .. she needs to take care of herself don and family
@@sharonanderson5619 you don’t know what a narcissist is clinically. 🙃😂
I agree with you. She's looking for love and acceptance. She needs to focus on her mental health
As an attorney, we don't claim Jeremy.
@@FishareFriendsNotFood972 😄😄
People think self-CONFIDENCE and self-ESTEEM are synonymous. They’re not at all.
Confidence is belief and esteem is respect. Like you said, she has confidence, but the respect for herself just isn’t there.
💯💯 people need to learn the difference
My sister did this exact same thing to me. I told her I starting taking medication for my depression. She called to vent and when I didn’t blindly agree to her side. She said “I guess you didn’t take your medication today”. I only told her the medication a few days before and she so quickly used that against me. Haven’t talked to her for 2 years and I’m happy about it.
That’s sad. Weaponized your MH
Great point about how so many people use a mental health diagnosis as a way to invalidate your opinions forever more. The stigma is still there and very real.
@@FishareFriendsNotFood972 👍🏾👍🏾
Keep your issues off social media, celebrities. That does not help in situations like this.
@@buddywinston338 very true
I think the huemans that think/feel keeping real life matters tucked under carpets behind closed doors and out of the scrutiny of public are trained by this capitalistic shitzem SCAMerica has perpetuated, facilitated and constructed in order to keep things the same. No refernce points, no faces no cases type of malarchy. The people that don't wish to affect change or be inconvenienced or disturbed by the issues that don't affect them directly. The easy way to say "this doesn't concern me" or others uninvolved, that's your "PROBLEM" gnot mines type o huemans, the I got my ish together now figure out yours, in silence even if it means suffer just do it over there type of huemanz😒. Rarely are huans on any topic that doesnt affect them because they ACTUALLY CARE and weild wellbeing and the best for "so seeming" troubled others. I just happened to find this channel bc ☝🏾I do genuinely love Tamar and has long before this Jeremy buffoonery however the fact is huemans are gnot genuinely loving anymore very far and few in-between those who do truly just have genuine love for "other huemans/huemanz". It's triggering for a genuine loving soul to see you huemans do what/how you huemanz do ☹️💔💔💔💔💔🤕🤮🤮🤮🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢
She’s never been taught what a healthy relationship looks like, let alone how to build that
VERY TRU
Little sister speak so the people on the balcony can hear you!!!!! I am nodding my head as though you are talking to me. I completely agree with every single word you said!!! Love your commentary
⭐⭐⭐⭐ im preaching!
I agree JR is a master manipulator and a gas lighter. Tamar is weak and broken and feels like she has no one to turn too and that includes her family. Hopefully she finds the peace she needs for her life and stay away from that man.
I agree!
Just recently I learned that self worth and self confidence was 2 completely different things!! So yasss love this perspective 👏🏽👏🏽
I'm so glad!
I think she was used to being the “trophy wife” for so long.
I think it’s more she’s codependent
Sis you been eating and spilling the tea! Other than her problems/ trauma, Tamar is an old school person in a sense that she would stick with her men even if they were toxic/abusive! Also most men she married/dated are like her sisters they know how to show her as the crazy one cuz shes loud/animated! I saw a part of his video and the way he used her “mental health” to support his points was disgusting and had essence of gaslighting! Tamar aint no saint but he was using words that would get her to react then prove that his description of her is accurate
Yeah he know how to gaslight her FRFR. I also agree about the men being similar to her sis dynamic
At the end of the day, they spoiled Tamar and put up with her over the top behavior.
As a grown woman, her temper tantrums have become unbearable. She thinks everyone is against her. And she does not accept the fact that her mouth is the source of her problems l. She talks all kind of foolish disrespectful mess to everyone around her.
I can barely watch the show because I can’t take Tamar’s nasty, ghetto attitude.
She treats men in her life the same.
I pray for her.
And their mother is delusional. They are grown women.
As the mother, she can’t demand they love each other unconditionally. It doesn’t work like that.
She has learned her behaviors from her mother. It’s also a lot of trauma that is underneath the surface level behavior that people point out. Tamara is a work in progress just like most of us are.
Girl you got me ready to come and lay on your couch for a chat! You hit the nail on the head with the very first try! You are 100% correct. Its awful the way people are dragging her right now knowing full well that they have been through or are living worst as we speak. Maam you ate! Drop your mic for the people please 😂
@@Pretty_Cinnamon 🎤🎤🎤🎤 💕💕💕 everyone woman or most have been with a man like JR. they need to stop cappin!
@@TheInnerchild.Whisperer Absolutely
@@Pretty_Cinnamon 💞
You can not mistakenly use someone's credit card because it still has a three digit security code that you have to provide. Even if the card is on file.
💯💯 yeah I never believed his story.
You are so on point. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Thank you! 🤗
She did the same to the African man & even had Vince berating him but then later she said Happy Fathers Day as a stepdad to son & sang his praises. She knows JR is toxic, his ex said so & she was never that into him clearly.
@@sharalhall5911 I forgot about that guy 😅 she went THROUGH it with him too!
Jeremy is waaaack , I think Tamar would go back for the “right apology”
i Dont wanna believe it!
Facts 🎉🎉🎉 snap snap sis!
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Great review of the situation! Tamar, to me is a lot, just energy-draining. While I'm not a fan of hers, JR, I believe, is disparaging not only her mental health but how the world perceives Tamar as problematic to look like the good guy in this situation. I do agree that he is manipulating her, from what I've observed, eagerness to be in a relationship. They never should have gotten together, especially after he INTENTIONALLY embarrassed her publicly.
Everytime I see or hear about Tamar, all I can think of is wasted talent. She allows drama to outshine the gift that she has been blessed with. In my opinion, Tamar needs to take a hiatus from men, social media and television, and DO INTENSE WORK ON HERSELF!!!
And to think that shows coming back for a season 2 😅
I do think he used her and gaslights her in front of the world only for her to tell him back 😪
I have that lil book on top with the red butterfly image about love something in the title. Owns the book has never read it unfortunately.
The Iyanla book?
You ate 💯
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Yes, she will go back because she is not well! Sick people seek familiar territory! JR is borderline sick as well! This is definitely not a safe place for Tamar and also dangerous! She's on the edge! Tamar needs to stop working and check in to a new Facility, for long term care.
@@debragarner4884 I think taking a break from social media would help. It only exacerbates her mental health
Where is these people's sense of SELF? (-worth, -esteem, respect, confidence, -preservation, -truth) 'Living' your intimate personal life on social media is a kind of exhibitionism in which these people (TAMAR) lose their dignity and most of all the respect of others..
Furthermore, Tamar's rambling/ incoherent speech, uncontrolled gestures and delusional awareness of her own reality (MY children, MY husband) proves her mental state and indeed, the urgency of immediate therapeutic help.
@@stichtingcured5961 she’s going through a lot.
Yup. If he asks her to
😔😔😔
Jeremy may be all the things that you have said; no debate there. However, we have seen Tamar in three public relationships, all of which have ended in the same manner and with Tamar as the perpetual victim. She is a common denominator.
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I think she got married quickly manic episodes.
Hmmm something to look at
I wonder if her mom was going through the trauma of her marriage ending at the same time Tamar was being SA
Cause Tamar and her mom both seem to lack enough love for themselves that they can get over a man and love themselves enough to be happy because of themselves and look at a man as a nice addition to their already happy existence.
I think her mom did not and doesn’t have the ability to help her through her trauma and she seem stunned and looking for a man and friends to help her find what she needs to grow.
It makes me sad for her
Evelyn and Tamar are almost the same person. It’s sad to see the generational trauma run through Tamara life and take control.
Every woman wants love. JR doesn't love. Tamar! JR said the last 3 numbers. Which a business goes by the last 4. JR is playing a dangerous game, especially with her mental illness. This will not end well.
@@debragarner4884 he DEF IS playing too many games
Now I’m sorry but that white man did not love her. I don’t agree with that.
😭😭😭
She didn’t love his creepy a** either. I think she’s doing it for the public but I saw no love. He was into for a little while
opportunist
@@Aroy_711 😨
Do a lot of young girl movement with hands and body movement ..so triggering… but that’s a me thing…I’m 40 trapped in my grandma’s body
@@NCLBehind 😟
Tamar is smart, he wasn’t fooling her. I don’t think they got married?
@@sharalhall5911 they did. Ppl found the marriage certificate