There are positive experiences and negative experiences. And everything else in between. The choices are yours to make. Be wise when choosing a healthy choices😂😂😂
Why are you not tired of men? What’s wrong with just dating or staying single? I’m exhausted just listening to this story. You are not setting a good example for your children. They will think that marriage is just a game and may not want marriage in the future.
So true... no one is perfect! Hmong men tend to have this problem more than other ethnic & that's ok but glad u found someone who can love & accept u for u & all ur flaws. A good relationship is not living in the past but the present & the future. The love u have for one another, similar life goals & trust in each other.
Tus txiv dev uas twb muaj poj niam los tseem pheej tseem ua hluas nraug. Mus txog twg ma tab nrhiav rhuav txoj kev ua hluas kev lom zem xwb cas yuav ntxim ncaw taw rau kom tuag kiag. Txiv dev ces txog qhov twg los ntshe kawg yuav ua dev xwb thiaj tag. Nyob ib leeg zoo dua....thiaj tsis mob hlwb.
Tus neeg qub siv lub tswv yim qub nrhiav tus hlub ces nws txhawm nrhiav pes tsawg zaus los nws tsuas tau tus zoo nkaus tub qub phim nyog nws xwb vim nws tsuas siv nws 2 lub qhov muag qub nrhiav txiv xwb ces nws thiaj nrhiav tau 9 tug 10 tug zoo txawv tsis deb tus qub.
Women can live and survive without a man. It’s a choice to be with one and it seems like you choose the wrong ones each time. Love yourself first and know your worth.
Niam ntsuab teev as kv xav paub koj tu fer os kv xav muab kv lub neej lwj siab rau koj pab tham seb puas muaj qee yam ploj mus os cas nim yuam kev tiam no
If I was you. I will never marry again. You have children already, be a good mom to them one day your kids will love you back. If you knew that this man only used you then never trust another one again. Why you never learn your lesson.
Darn....I'm speechless for this kind of woman. Cov poj nrauj zoo li no yog cov tsis puv ib puas. Desperation leads to destruction for yog li koj coj mas.
Koj nrauj ntau tus txiv tsis tau qhia tias koj ruam los yog neeg phem, nws qhia tau tias cov txiv neej nov yog cov phem thiab yuam kev xwb. You know your worth and i am so proud of you for that!
Sister, txhob khaws cov niag neeg khibnyiab los yug thiaj tsis raug dag poob tsag. Tswj koj tus kheej khov kho nyob tus2, tus twg yog neeg zoo mam yuav. Koj txhob yuav cov niag homeless los thawjthiab. Yug nab rog ces tig tom yus ces yog li ko mas...
Nene twb ko txhob mu yv niag txiv hmoob ntawm ko txiv neej hmoob ma lim hiav tshaj plaws txhb mu yv hmoob lm ua siab mu mab yuav suav lm xb peb cov hlua niam no na
Its ok... keep going. Poor choices or not, it's your life. You deserve love, everything you want in this world too. No matter how many man you divorce, only you can find your own happiness. People will never know until they are in your shoes. It's very true, divorce is not the way and everyone hates to divorce. When you have no choice and have no other way, the last resort is to leave and divorce. Just do what makes you happy and live the life you want. You will learn how to live life when it comes down to it. HOnestly, these MEN are not worth it. Live your life happily by yourself. Go see the world, travel, find friends that are the same as you and enjoy that life instead.
Lub qhov muag qub yeej xaiv tus zoo li tus qub xwb koj mas tsis paub txaus li tsis muaj txiv Los yeej nyob tau Sav ib txhia pojniam lawv twb nyob tau ne yuav coob dhau Los tsis zoo lawm ces tsum Los tau lawm
Girl, first husband should’ve taught you well already. You just keep putting yourself in a bad situation by being a hopeless romantic and too trusting. That’s why you ended up with 5 divorces.
Sister, whatever you do, don't worry what others think of you. Just keep going. Do what you feel is right, and stay strong for yourself and keep moving forward even it means it's going to hurts you.
Her story look good on her but all these mens trying to get out of her life. Maybe Is her that make all these mens leave. We don't know the other side of the story
CAS tseem mus yuav Niag txiv hmoob nplog ko CES tab tom ua choj rau lawv Tau Kev tuaj choj tuaj xwb na, lawv yeej yuav TOS kom Tau lawv Tus Niam tuaj xwb os, thaum ntej CES tos mi nyuam thaum kawg CES luag yuav TOS luag Tus poj Niam tuaj Cas zoo li koj ua zoo Tau phem xwb Na sister aw 😢
Tus sister nyob ntawm zaj dab neeg yog ua cas txiv neej siab phem ua luaj cas koj yuav ntshaw ua luaj.... kuv ces nrauj 1 tug xwb ris siab tag 1 sim neej hais txog lub npe txiv neej xwb kuv dhuav li dhuav lawm xwb twb tsis xav hnov li lawm.
Omg 4xyou were divorced …it’s definitely your fault women 😂😂😂😂😂😂…let’s hear your 4 ex side ? The reason I say it’s your fault is because after 2 divorce you should know better
Viv ncaus cas koj yuav tsis nyoo cov txiv neej tam sim no li nas txhob ntshaw cov txiv tam sim no mas lo yus hlub yus xwb zoo dua os lawv yeej tsis hlub yus kom txog qhov kawg li os😢
Sister, after this fifth one, you should stop remarry again!!! There are no good man anymore!!! Stay single and love, respect, take care, and put yourself first with your children!!!
Peb niam tsev hmoob poj nian hmoob txhob ruam ruam txog 1 tug txiv tsev dag li dag es tseem ntseeg ntseeg os peb cov niam tsev siab mos muag dhau lawm txiv neej siab phem tshaj plaws txhob tso tso siab txhob ntseeg neeg yooj yim os vim peb cov niam ntsawg ntsaw txiv es thiaj raug raug txiv neej tsim tag lo tsim dua peb cov niam tsev yuav tau coov faj cov yawg nrauj tawg ntsuag tiam sim no tib co dag noj dag haus ti co tshuav nqe ti co tsis muaj chaw noj chaw pw xwb txhob ntsaw txiv lawm mog cov niam tse
You’re no good no more. Over used! Why do you blame all your issues on those men? Look in the mirror and fix that problem. How can a good woman divorce and married so many times. You are the leader of your life and future.
Koj khaw tib co niag neeg qab choj los ua txiv xwb ne. Poj nrauj ces ruam tsis tshaj koj lawm os, txhob hais tias nrauj coob tus thiaj muaj experience cob cob koj ces muaj experience rau qhov ruam xwb ne.
Ok lady you make bad choices in men. Why don't you take time to heal and get to loving yourself. You don't need men that comes and goes. You need to know your self worth before you can get with a man that will value you.
My question is why do you have to get married? Seem like marriage may not work for you. Just stay single and date. Or marry outside of the Hmong community since you said all Hmong guys are the same.
Sister… bad choices u make and the second marriage didn’t give u enough experience to stop. I was married for 20 yrs and is divorced for 14 yrs now. My number priority are my children. Once I make sure they have a life. Aka married and on their own. Than my happiness will be my last. If u only looking for a Hmong man. Same mind same fantasy. Just different life outcome. I make sure my 2nd marriage will be my last. Not 3rd, 4th or 5th. I always tell myself my nieces and nephews. Once u are a 2nd divorcee.. the 3rd marriage is a hit or missed. You’d be lucky if the 4th marriage is your last.
Cov txiv neeg no Hai tau ua tsi tau li tu siab tshaj plwg. Koj zaj dab neeg no Hai tau tu siab heev mi Viv n 😂😂😂😂
Sister, you do the right thing. First protect your kids, second, love yourself. Third, find the true love. Never share a same account.
There are positive experiences and negative experiences. And everything else in between. The choices are yours to make. Be wise when choosing a healthy choices😂😂😂
Wow, why even get married, just live together and say goodbye when you don’t want to be together.
It’s 21 century so do whatever you want, it’s your choice, it’s your decision and it’s your own body.
ua cas txiv neej yuav ntshaw koj ua luaj es kam muaj txog 5 tug txiv yuav koj mas yog koj muaj moo dlhau hwv lawm os
Why are you not tired of men? What’s wrong with just dating or staying single? I’m exhausted just listening to this story. You are not setting a good example for your children. They will think that marriage is just a game and may not want marriage in the future.
Ua zoo tau phem xwb laud sister 😂😢😅
Wow sister- cas Koj lub neej tshuav neeg nqe tiag2. Ua zoo xaiv es lwm zaus thiaj tsis sib nrauj.
So true... no one is perfect! Hmong men tend to have this problem more than other ethnic & that's ok but glad u found someone who can love & accept u for u & all ur flaws.
A good relationship is not living in the past but the present & the future. The love u have for one another, similar life goals & trust in each other.
Lady, after the 3rd husband just live by yourself. Too much drama
Tus txiv dev uas twb muaj poj niam los tseem pheej tseem ua hluas nraug. Mus txog twg ma tab nrhiav rhuav txoj kev ua hluas kev lom zem xwb cas yuav ntxim ncaw taw rau kom tuag kiag. Txiv dev ces txog qhov twg los ntshe kawg yuav ua dev xwb thiaj tag. Nyob ib leeg zoo dua....thiaj tsis mob hlwb.
All the good guys are married.
Tus neeg qub siv lub tswv yim qub nrhiav tus hlub ces nws txhawm nrhiav pes tsawg zaus los nws tsuas tau tus zoo nkaus tub qub phim nyog nws xwb vim nws tsuas siv nws 2 lub qhov muag qub nrhiav txiv xwb ces nws thiaj nrhiav tau 9 tug 10 tug zoo txawv tsis deb tus qub.
Women can live and survive without a man. It’s a choice to be with one and it seems like you choose the wrong ones each time. Love yourself first and know your worth.
Keep your headup and Hope you find a right man for you
Good luck tus me muam
You're making poor choice time after time. Tsi tim lawv, tim koj xwb. You jumped into marriage too fast.
Agree. Her poor choices will affect her children’s view on marriage.
Yep all her fault
Niam ntsuab teev as kv xav paub koj tu fer os kv xav muab kv lub neej lwj siab rau koj pab tham seb puas muaj qee yam ploj mus os cas nim yuam kev tiam no
Niam tais aw pab koj zoo siab tshaj ua poj niam ib zaug tsim nyhog tuag lawm os mog
If i had gone thru that many men, i don't think I'll have any self-worth and self-respect anymore. But to each their own.
If I was you. I will never marry again. You have children already, be a good mom to them one day your kids will love you back. If you knew that this man only used you then never trust another one again. Why you never learn your lesson.
True
Nrauj heev yuav heev ua luaj nrhiav rhuav txiv neej xwb Los Cas tsis dhuav txiv neej li lo
Reading these comments were more enjoyable... lol
I always head to the comments first b4 the story. Lol
we will never learn til we are ready to listen and learn...you are going to keep making mistake til u open your eyes...
Darn....I'm speechless for this kind of woman. Cov poj nrauj zoo li no yog cov tsis puv ib puas. Desperation leads to destruction for yog li koj coj mas.
Koj nrauj ntau tus txiv tsis tau qhia tias koj ruam los yog neeg phem, nws qhia tau tias cov txiv neej nov yog cov phem thiab yuam kev xwb. You know your worth and i am so proud of you for that!
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Txoj neej neeg no tsis muaj tseeb dag xwb vim teb chaws meskas no peb tso qaib sib ncaws hmo ntuj peb tsis ncaws qaib nruab hnub
Sister, txhob khaws cov niag neeg khibnyiab los yug thiaj tsis raug dag poob tsag. Tswj koj tus kheej khov kho nyob tus2, tus twg yog neeg zoo mam yuav. Koj txhob yuav cov niag homeless los thawjthiab. Yug nab rog ces tig tom yus ces yog li ko mas...
Cas koj tsis dhuav txiv neej li na
Man very worse i give up , stay single is more freedom of life do whatever is best stay happy and love yourself
I hope this one will love you forever.
Tsim nyog kawg lawm. All you can eat!
Niam laus koj tsis dhuav txiv neej li los yog siab nphem npaum no ce kuv twb tsis yuav ntxiv lawm
It ok .. sister koj ua Yog lawm os Yog lawv twb tsis yeem hlub yus ces kawg nrauj kiag. Txawm neeg yuav hais yus npaum ces los lawv twb tsis paub yus kev nyuaj siab li os. Yus thiab paub xwb ces yus hlub yus tug kheej
I’m sorry you met so many bad men. It’s their loss not yours. I’m glad you’re happy today.
Tim qhov khoom hauv ob ceg xwb. Qheb yooj yim dhau lawm thiab ruam xwb.
Nene twb ko txhob mu yv niag txiv hmoob ntawm ko txiv neej hmoob ma lim hiav tshaj plaws txhb mu yv hmoob lm ua siab mu mab yuav suav lm xb peb cov hlua niam no na
Its ok... keep going. Poor choices or not, it's your life. You deserve love, everything you want in this world too. No matter how many man you divorce, only you can find your own happiness. People will never know until they are in your shoes. It's very true, divorce is not the way and everyone hates to divorce. When you have no choice and have no other way, the last resort is to leave and divorce. Just do what makes you happy and live the life you want. You will learn how to live life when it comes down to it. HOnestly, these MEN are not worth it. Live your life happily by yourself. Go see the world, travel, find friends that are the same as you and enjoy that life instead.
Lub qhov muag qub yeej xaiv tus zoo li tus qub xwb koj mas tsis paub txaus li tsis muaj txiv Los yeej nyob tau Sav ib txhia pojniam lawv twb nyob tau ne yuav coob dhau Los tsis zoo lawm ces tsum Los tau lawm
Sad sis 😂😂😂😂
Oh man…sister how many low life men u gonna saved? May god delivered u happiest and a loving hubby nawb
Stop taking in stray dogs, they only want to use & take advantage of u. Ua friend noj fawm xwb thiaj li kaj siab & tsis mob2 hlwb os.
Good question sis ❤❤
Nyob zoo o maiv vaj lo yog niam ntsuab teev . koj puas khoom tam ku ib zaj neej neeg kev hlub thaum luas yog khoom no ku xav rau koj tham o
Girl, first husband should’ve taught you well already. You just keep putting yourself in a bad situation by being a hopeless romantic and too trusting. That’s why you ended up with 5 divorces.
Sister, stop rushing into marriages. Date them and get to know them longer, way longer before getting into anything serious
Sister, whatever you do, don't worry what others think of you. Just keep going. Do what you feel is right, and stay strong for yourself and keep moving forward even it means it's going to hurts you.
Her story look good on her but all these mens trying to get out of her life. Maybe Is her that make all these mens leave. We don't know the other side of the story
Cas hu loj ua luaj li nas, pog awd. Dhau 30-40 tus txiv neej ces khis tag tsis zoo yuav lawm os.
CAS tseem mus yuav Niag txiv hmoob nplog ko CES tab tom ua choj rau lawv Tau Kev tuaj choj tuaj xwb na, lawv yeej yuav TOS kom Tau lawv Tus Niam tuaj xwb os, thaum ntej CES tos mi nyuam thaum kawg CES luag yuav TOS luag Tus poj Niam tuaj Cas zoo li koj ua zoo Tau phem xwb Na sister aw 😢
You're a good-hearted person that's all. I can relate to you.
She never learn her lesson. I feel bad for her kids.
Qhov no yog tim koj lawm vim koj mus ntseeg neeg yooj2 yim ne ces tim koj xwb os
Tus sister nyob ntawm zaj dab neeg yog ua cas txiv neej siab phem ua luaj cas koj yuav ntshaw ua luaj.... kuv ces nrauj 1 tug xwb ris siab tag 1 sim neej hais txog lub npe txiv neej xwb kuv dhuav li dhuav lawm xwb twb tsis xav hnov li lawm.
Koj zoo li ib tug tsiaj lwj uas tabtom ntsib ib pab Mha liamtxwv vijvog tom koj, Txivneej Hmoob feem coob txoj kev liam mas phem cuag cov Mha liamtxwv ntawd ntag, tsis paub txajmuag, txivdev Hmoob hlwb puas tag rau seem kev nkauj nraug no.
Omg 4xyou were divorced …it’s definitely your fault women 😂😂😂😂😂😂…let’s hear your 4 ex side ? The reason I say it’s your fault is because after 2 divorce you should know better
Cas koj tus poj niam Tim nplog twb muaj rawv txiv koj ho tseem nrog pw qees thiab naw
Sister luag tej laus ib txwm piv txoj lug hais tias tseg kiag tsi txhob cawm suav tuag tshai no ne….cawm suav tuag tshaib ces kawg zoo li ntawm xwb mas
Viv ncaus cas koj yuav tsis nyoo cov txiv neej tam sim no li nas txhob ntshaw cov txiv tam sim no mas lo yus hlub yus xwb zoo dua os lawv yeej tsis hlub yus kom txog qhov kawg li os😢
Cov vicaus aws txhob ntshaws cov hniag txiv neej siab phem no yus twb khwv tau tus noj lawm txhob ntshaws cov txiv neej no cov los ua Lawv qhev lawm
you allowed them to treat you like that. But there is a saying same eyes same choice so you only see same type of men interesting. 😂😂
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Sister, after this fifth one, you should stop remarry again!!! There are no good man anymore!!! Stay single and love, respect, take care, and put yourself first with your children!!!
Peb niam tsev hmoob poj nian hmoob txhob ruam ruam txog 1 tug txiv tsev dag li dag es tseem ntseeg ntseeg os peb cov niam tsev siab mos muag dhau lawm txiv neej siab phem tshaj plaws txhob tso tso siab txhob ntseeg neeg yooj yim os vim peb cov niam ntsawg ntsaw txiv es thiaj raug raug txiv neej tsim tag lo tsim dua peb cov niam tsev yuav tau coov faj cov yawg nrauj tawg ntsuag tiam sim no tib co dag noj dag haus ti co tshuav nqe ti co tsis muaj chaw noj chaw pw xwb txhob ntsaw txiv lawm mog cov niam tse
Lawv hlub kom lawv cov mi nyuam hla dhau hiav txwv xwb os, keej tshaj koj na tus niam tsev
Cas koj yuav xav yuav txiv ua luaj li thiab na, koj yeej nyob tsis taus txhob yuav txiv li los? Tim koj xwb os....koj ntshaw txiv dhau.
Poj niam tsuav txiv neej nqe ua qhev tas li xwb 😮😮
No more husband sister
no more husband, only use toy lol
Marriage 7 time and doivicce 7 time
Puas yog koj tsis muaj txiv neej es koj nyob tsis taus li?
Mus saib nyuj Vab teem lau. Zaum no mas kwv ntas mus xwb lau.
Lam yuav seb puas zoo puas kawg os
You’re no good no more. Over used! Why do you blame all your issues on those men? Look in the mirror and fix that problem. How can a good woman divorce and married so many times. You are the leader of your life and future.
Viv ncaus tsis thab cov niag yawg nrauj os tseem ua rau yus mob hlwb xwb os
Koj khaw tib co niag neeg qab choj los ua txiv xwb ne. Poj nrauj ces ruam tsis tshaj koj lawm os, txhob hais tias nrauj coob tus thiaj muaj experience cob cob koj ces muaj experience rau qhov ruam xwb ne.
Tus dab ntxwg nyuj ko dov kauj vab kiag xwb tsis khuv xim li nawb
5 husbands?!!!! Lady! You are the problem! Not the husbands!!!
Not to mention 10+ men that she dated in between those five men that she married.
Your story is saying your first ex fault but tell us why you have been divorced 4x 😂😂😂😂😂😂..any of her ex hears this story please explain 😂😂😂😂
Ok lady you make bad choices in men. Why don't you take time to heal and get to loving yourself. You don't need men that comes and goes. You need to know your self worth before you can get with a man that will value you.
Never pick a dog or tviv dev from the streets. They always bite u back, koj ruam nheej.
There is nothing good here to learn from.
My question is why do you have to get married? Seem like marriage may not work for you. Just stay single and date. Or marry outside of the Hmong community since you said all Hmong guys are the same.
free meat is a rotten meat
Koj siab phem tsis txaus xwb...
Koj yim nrauj yim ruam xwb as...
Sister… bad choices u make and the second marriage didn’t give u enough experience to stop. I was married for 20 yrs and is divorced for 14 yrs now. My number priority are my children. Once I make sure they have a life. Aka married and on their own. Than my happiness will be my last. If u only looking for a Hmong man. Same mind same fantasy. Just different life outcome. I make sure my 2nd marriage will be my last. Not 3rd, 4th or 5th. I always tell myself my nieces and nephews. Once u are a 2nd divorcee.. the 3rd marriage is a hit or missed. You’d be lucky if the 4th marriage is your last.
Ntshe koj tsis txawj ua lawv lawv thiaj tsis kam nrog koj nyob losyog koj xav ua txiv neej dhau lawm koj tsis xeej ib tus txiv neej li koj thiaj xaiv tsis tau ib tus zoo li.