Haven't self-harmed in 5-6 years and I'm taking it one day at a time It's never too late to quit ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Update: I'm 21 years old, and I've found a support system that actually wants the best for me instead of just telling me and bringing me down. Still clean and I'm still going strong!!
God I’m not crying Jesus I just, this hits really hard to me, and I just- I don’t know how to explain how helpful this is right now because I’m Going through some really dark times, and this is just the light I need to get through it and I just want to thank you so much for it cause I really needed it, gain thank you (Edit) I would just lien to say please don’t hurt yourself, this is the opposite of what I wanted my comment to do. Yes I admit I did it but that doesn’t mean you should talk to someone but please, it’s not worth it, I know you may seem sceptical and be like what do you know? But please trust me
Kandi kelly it's fine I don't go too far I just draw a little blood drink it and then call it a night I like the sting and I'm sorry about this but it's just been a part of my life for as long as I can remember (self harm not cutting) and so I can't stop and I'm sorry and I love you and just keep doing this it will save someone
Whoever's reading this, you're valid and loved, relapses are also part of healing 🥺. also, thank you so much for uploading this because stuff like this really help sometimes💕
Me: *having a major depressive episode and a major panic attack* ...i could end it Also me: *finds more bakugou content* serotonin? Dopamine? Endorphins? Is that you? :,)
i love you, please stay safe🥺💖 i know it’s easier said than done, but as someone whose been there, i promise it gets easier. it’ll take time, but it gets easier.
I don’t self harm but at one point over the summer, I drifted back into these depressing feelings I had in middle school and I was close to hurting and punishing myself again. Thank you for making this video 😔❤️ And for those who are in a dark place, I know this is cliche but you’re not alone. Things get better eventually, you just don’t know how long it will take. It took about four years for me to finally feel free from the dark and to finally be able to fly. You’re not alone in the darkness. Sometimes you just need someone to turn on a flashlight, or you have to fight to find it yourself. You’re here for a reason and I am too. We all are. We don’t exist for nothing. I may not know any of the people in these comments, but I still care! Ok? Because no matter what, you’re still a human being. ❤️
As someone who’s struggled with severe depression, anxiety, PTSD, etc. since age 7 (I’ve been diagnosed, we don’t self-diagnose here✨✨) and I started self-harming at 9 years old, (I just turned 15 two days ago) and I still do it, this helped so much.. for anyone going through something like this or anything similar to this. Just know they ARE people who love you, care for you and will support you through anything. Just try and find the right people to surround yourself with. Seek help! Don’t stay silent, please! It doesn’t do any better to you.
I feel so bad for you! You are amazing and loved! Your life must be really hard but there are people that love and care about you (this probably didn't help but I tried)
@@ayobarkbark7178 hii!! considering ur so young,,, do u wanna talk about it? i might just be a year older but i can try to help, or let u just vent in general!! ur really young so u do need the help:((
Thanks for the talk Blasty 🧡💥 For Everyone: Your skin is delicate. It’s never the solution to cut. You all matter, it’s not just with skin color, your sexuality, or your race, it’s you, your entirety as a human being. You’re never worthless, you mean to many other people (including your family and friends, unless it’s a different case with them, but there are many people who genuinely care, even those acquaintances you’ve met). You’re a beautiful person, personality and all, and even with those flaws, it makes you unique. You’re your own person. If people say those nasty comments about you, they know nothing about the person you want to be, and that person you are is beautiful. Always come and tell someone you trust dearly when you’re going through those dark times, they’ll always lend you an ear to listen, a shoulder to cry on, and a hand out to help you out of that hole. You may not believe it but there are many people who care for you than you think. Please take care of yourselves everyone, you’re all beautiful 🤗🤗🤗♥️♥️
Sissssyyy! I completely agree I have been about a few weeks clean now ever since my “incident” but I’m trying to recover after what I did. I’m trying not to pick up any sharp things right now and it’s hard but I’m trying...🥺❤️ If anybody is reading this, just remember you are so damn important to this world if you disappeared the world would become dark..trust me, even though I might not know who you are or what you have done in your past but you need to put that behind and not be in the past and be in the now, the present! Remember how many people love and care about you! Friends, family, your pets, anyone who is close to you! Love you all! Have a good morning/afternoon/night~! 🥺❤️✨☀️🌙
I’m over here crying...like LITERALLY...this melted my heart...thank you so much for this!!! You are amazing! Hope you have a wonderful rest of your night! Much love✌🏽💕
At one point near the end I just thought: 'What the heck was I doing to myself last year?' Cause this hit home more than I expected it to and I just kinda broke into tears. So thank you for making it a little easier to talk to people about when they are worried.
This made me realize that i am a month clean! The past month has been hard but videos like these have made it 10x easier to cope and i just want to say thank you for talking to and supporting people who are struggling❤
I have 0 confidents. You being able to do this and give this sorta ASMR is what I kinda needed. I also like this side of Bakugo as well. I love your work and hope you keep up the work of ASMR's. Love ur content. Keep it up
I was barely a minute in and looking at your expression when I realized it. The pain look on your face, I can see it, you weren't just acting the part but showing your true emotions on how much your really care. And reading your triggers how you said you were giving your own advice. It proves it even more and I thank you so much for truly caring. ❤
it was so hard to watch all 16 minutes of this. it just reminded me so much of my mom talking to me about what I did a while ago. but they are right. its not ok to do this stuff. i know its hard but you WILL get through it. people will help you through it and when you think someone isn't there for you, there is. just know that there will always be people who are opened to talk
I lost my mom in 2018 on Halloween it was so hard that i would do anything to see her again i will i was there with her and calling the hospital i should have dont that
@@keithvannamee1452 im so sorry for your lost. i lost someone very important to me on Halloween as well. and the worst part is Halloween is my birthday. so when people ask why I have my birthday ita because I watched someone I love die slowly. i hope you found happiness and know that she will be watching over you.
okay as someone who went through this, a word of advice to anyone who is going through this think about whats good think about the people you love thats what helped me pull through maybe it will help you to, and everyone hear cares about you.
This video saved lives, Promise, be proud of what you do even if it seems small and insignificant to you, these videos help people, even if this started as a hobby it's helped people, Promise you make people's lives better, we see that little TH-cam notification and hope that you've released a video, so thank you, I love you, we love you, be proud of yourself 💛💛💛
Here's your daily reminder that you are enough you are loved and you are valid have a great day or night or evening Don't forget to take care of yourself you beautiful person ❤
promise:*posts* me:*clicks not thinking* title:*trigger warning self-harm* me:...I'm at least a year clean but- its good to talk about it- if you any of you have done or are doing self-harm then im going to be a kind person on the internet right now and do this- *hugs you* your life is worth something and you mean a lot to the people around you, I know you're thinking its all dark but there is a light and its the person you care about the most reaching their hand out to help. you are worth something! never forget that! now enjoy the video, enjoy reading this comment and *gives you love and your comfort food* have a nice day ^w^ never forget you matter.
I am crying so hard right now, I don't think I even knew how much I needed this. Thank you for being here and doing these, you have no idea how much they help. Edit: I paused it right before you said don't cry
LISTEN HERE U CUTE EXTRA..BE CLEAN!!!!!..Bc clean is good ÙvÚ AND IF UR NOT CLEAN THEN-..then uh...IM NOT CLEAN SEE HOW I WIN!!??? BAAAHAAHAHAA I luv u 🤬
i feel like this was some sort of sign? idk- today hasn’t gone well and then this popped up when my thoughts were all,, ya know. low key scary how this uploaded at the right time
I actually glad you posted this, I was thinking of ending it all today and attempted trying it for the third time, i don’t tell people much about it but you and many other ASMRtist and Audio creators have helped me more then anybody, thank you for uploading this.
Hi! Random internet stranger here! I know it might not mean much as i do t know you personally but i love and value you, please look after yourself, make sure you eat and drink enough and that you get enough sleep. I admit, im not perfect, ive been there recently too, ive only been clean for 3 days, but we can be on the road to recovery together, some days may be harder than others to resist the urge to cut, but try your hardest to break the habit and help yourself heal, dont be afraid to talk to someone about how you feel. You could also try alternative coping methods that dont involve self harm, such as instead of cutting, draw on your wrist with a pen instead. @solstice._.wickham on instagram if you need someone to talk to. Love, Random internet stranger. 💕
@@Kaixcs_ Wow, thank you stranger, I really dont know what to say because this is the first time anybody was actually concerned about me and my feelings.
Omg was scrolling through the comments and saw this I'm so sorry. I've been a friend to two people who have tried to do this so anyone who cares about you would feel the same way I felt. I'm very glad that you didn't though I find this kind of stuff to help with me depression as well. I bet you are beautiful and courageous I hope you don't try again. From, dark wisteria
Stuff like this makes me cry all the time because I might not even be in High School but I still went through this and this is the only ever time that somebody actually cared as everybody only just told me to not do it and told me that I should just go to therapy nobody gave me this type of attention so it really warms my heart that somebody has enough courage to do something like this and help other people that are going through something like this it really warms my heart and makes me want to cry some other people have family and friends that don't actually care about them when this happened and then they self harm and then it goes to suicide and then that's once people start caring but when they were committing self-harm and they found out all they said was just to go to therapy and then they're just crazy and everybody loves them but then they act like they're just a speck of dirt on the wall that they have to clean off every day because it's starting to mold and it's a really big issue in their life
I’ve been clean for a week because of my new friends and them defending me and and YOU your posts make me so happy and they always remind that I’ve always got somewhere to go to just take a minute to breathe and let go so thank you🙂💖
Put a finger down if you cry everyday because you lost someone in your family that said you were beautiful everyday when you call them and made you confident everyday Me: puts a finger down while crying
Someone sent this to me. I don't cut but I am depressed and have considered it, this made me feel good and actually brought a smile to my face, thank you:)
Well this helped a lot- thank you😊 Btw for the people that think cutting is a way to relieve stress or any other way,please don’t.it causes more stress on you and conflicts you to harm yourself more.he people that care about you are here for you🥺I’m proud of you for making it this far in life.. I’m so very proud..
this really means a lot to me, i have been clean for about a month now but these past few days have been hard, so it helps having one of my comfort characters here!
This is a wee bit of a vent soo...... I’ve been clean about a year and a half from cutting. It’s been 6 months since my last self harm (scratching). And since school has started it’s been really hard. I haven’t done anything but I just need to. My mom would kill me and might yell at me but it’s the only thing that ever seems to work. And when I was really deep into the cutting my brain at the time was helping me and giving advice on how to cut deeper and hiding it. Sorry for all that :) this is fine
Omg.... I needed this so much. I just messed up this exact thing and now I’m crying. I’ve never needed a video more Edit: I’ve watched this video every time I’ve made a mistake and holly hell I s watched it way to many times
love the fact that this gets posted as soon as i start falling back into my depression and ED because of school. but seriously this helps. i’m 112 days clean tho
one of my friends, who has attempted suicide multiple times and came out alive told me something casually in a conversation a couple days ago. "see, if it hasnt killed me yet, maybe im worth something." i dont think he realized how much that means to me i dont think he'll ever realize how much it meant then and how much it still means now. i hope his thoughts can help whoevers reading this comment and i hope that every one of you that needs it can get help and can get better because i can tell you that it does it gets so much better as time passes on. time wont heal all of your wounds, but it can help heal some. even if theres scars left after the fight. youre gonna get better. please give it time give it time for me for the other people reading this comment for the people you live near for the people that love you for the people you love. i love you. have an amazing day, you amazing bean
I'm been going through a really tough time lately and has relapsed after being clean for like a few months. But like, this video made me feel so much better. It made me like there is still some hope left. So keep up the good work!👍
I started to cry so much because this was just at the right moment some how these videos post as soon as I need them this is some voodoo but still thank you this really help💕💕
I told myself when I sh, have reoccurring ptsd etc.. if I was in a relationship I would get out of it as soon as possible cause I know it can cause a strain on the relationship and stress the other out. And I’ve never wanted to burden people.
Sorry to comment this but I just needed to write this down somewhere. Until last Monday I was 3 1/2 months clean but I couldn’t take it anymore. It’s the desire that makes it worse and worse, I tried everything. Throwing away all the things I could cut myself with, the first 4 days were great but then the desire for blood, for self harming... it overwhelmed me and I was panicking and searching for something sharp. When I found something I was so happy to hold the last sharpener that I own that had a blade. I screwed it off and held it for awhile, it calmed that desire down and now i keep it in my diary. But then that Monday, bullying, self doubt. I was home alone and so I took the blade and made around 15 - 18 cuts, on my leg. I cut on my leg because I don’t want my sis to see. If she sees she takes away my blade and I can‘t let that happen because I feel better when I can hold that blade. Again I’m sorry🦋 have a great night/day❤️
this is what I needed. Thank you. I can never sleep and you knock me clean out. This is such a tough topic and it scares me honestly. It's an uphill battle and I'm going to win. Keep being the reason people can fall asleep at night. Thank you a million times over.
I recently relapsed after over a year of being clean and, though I haven’t gotten the chance to watch it yet, I have a feeling this video is going to become really important. You’re probably going to help more than one person with this. 💜
I felt this, I have been feeling really sad lately and your just the person I needed to cheer me up, thank you promise, you light up my world Edit: Im literally trying to hold back tears, I really needed this talk, i don't talk to a lot of people about my sadness but this really made me feel better
For the longest time I thought I wasn't self harming myself because I was only sticking sewing needles in my skin, I though it wasn't self harm because I never was cutting my writs or things like that. But now that I'm 2 years clean I want to tell you that cutting your writs isn't the only form of self harm. 👏 If 👏 a 👏 sharp 👏 object 👏 goes 👏 into 👏 your 👏 skin 👏 its 👏 not 👏 ok
This video is extremely sweet and I’m glad a patron requested it, but on a lighter note, the “Me wanting to kiss the camera but not knowing how to make it not cringe” really made me laugh, ✨
Who is in the comments just reading while listening so they don't have full attention on the video? Because it's kinda hard to have full attention on the video with a topic you know all to well about? Me: 🖑
I found this while thinking of relapsing and now I’m saving it and ever time I’m about to relapse I’ll watch it and keep a log here. 1. October 11th 2020 12:57 am 2. October 12th 2020 1:42 am (a day I couldn’t last a day without thinking about relapsing) 3. October 12th 2020 11:06 pm (here I am again) 4. October 15th 2020 10:10 pm (I’m back and trying) (I failed you all, I’m sorry) 5. October 16th 2020 11:17 am (I know I doesn’t seem like it but I’m trying) 6. October 19th 2020 9:37 am (shit I’m not updating like I’m supposed to anyways there have been about 5 more times when I didn’t come to this video) 7. October 19th 11:14pm (getting worse mentally and physically) 8. October 23rd 9:56pm (falling) 9. October 24th 2:50pm (while in universal I’m still thinking about it) 10. October 30th 10:14pm (please help me) 11. November 1st 12:01am (I’m sorry) 12. November 4th 4:03am
This was so beautiful oh my god. I was two years clean and fell into a relapse a week ago. I’m so ashamed and depressed and this just helped out so much. The conversation about it was beautiful and amazing and how it should be. And honestly seeing this hot head put aside his insecurities and risk being vulnerable with the listener to have a conversation he knew they needed to have was just 😭. I loved everything about this and it was so so so comforting! Thank you for giving this to us 💞 Also, to anyone struggling with self harm (no matter the severity or the form), know that your feelings are valid and that it’s okay to feel how you are feeling. I personally self harmed as a combination of wanting to feel something after being so numb for a long time and also feeling that I deserved the pain. But know that there are other ways to cope, even though they may take time and effort to work. Please please please don’t give up on yourself and try to talk to someone about how you’re feeling. There are others that love and want to help and support you unconditionally, me being one of those people! I hope this message finds all of you well, but if you’re not, that’s 100% okay, too. Just know I, along with many others are here for you and want to help and comfort you! 💞
It is okay to be weak. It is okay to relapse as long as you want to continue to stop. You are so insightful and strong to leave a comment like this. I love it when people tell me exactly why they like one of my videos, it helps me make them. All strong people have weak moments.
i didn’t plan on crying tonight but i’m not even a day clean right now and this hits home and- it’s actually really comforting. i’m starting school this upcoming tuesday and i’ve changed everything about me and i’m terrified how people are going to react, and i shouldn’t be because my girlfriend supports me and that’s all i should need but i can’t help- i can’t help but need more than that, i guess?
Everyone just remember Your skin is not paper, Don’t cut it. Your life is not a movie, Don’t end it. You are a wonderful human being. And nobody can tell you otherwise. You are you, Nobody can take that away. Only you can.. You are different and that’s a good thing. You are such a beautiful soul that was brought to this world for a reason. Even if some people don’t see it. That’s on them because they don’t see how amazing and talented you are. It’s not about looks.. it’s about personality. It doesn’t matter what sexuality, Or Race you are. You are you! And don’t let anyone hurt or bully you for that EVER! Keep your head up. Don’t let other people drag you down with them with hatful words. Because you are you and that’s a great thing that’s why you are here. Keep these words with you.. because I want you to be happy and live your best life ✨
I didn't self harm for a month and.... then I did it again. I'm a month clean, and that may not be a lot, but I'm happier without a certain thing in my life. Seeing Bakugou smiling made my day. I started crying because I needed this video. Thank you for making this, it helped me. I love you and your videos. Stay awesome Promise ASMR ❤️❤️
Im not even into anime, idk who this is, but i really needed the comfort. Thank you for making this. I feel less terrible. Thank you for the sincerity and understanding you displayed.
I'm coming up six months clean, and comfort from things like this really helps to drive the cravings to go back to what I used to do away. I still struggle, but a talk like this is just what's needed when the bad thoughts return. This video came out at the perfect time for me, thank you ^^
It hits too close to home, my cousin was hurting herself I lost her.......And I regret not talking to her about how she felt or just anything! I felt it was my fault so I started hurting myself. But my boyfriend found out and helped me get help, and helped me recover Remember. You are NOT alone
I just hit two months clean today!! I’m super proud of myself. No matter how big or small that number is, make sure to take time and be proud of yourself. You’re still here, and that is a huge accomplishment!!
Title: "Trigger warning" Me: well.. I'm a bit over a month clean.. with a huge urge to do it again... uhm.. I'll watch it anyway After the video:*sobbing* Okay I needed this
I’m watching this over and over because of the amount of comfort this brings me, bakugou has always been my comfort character, idk why when he’s always so angry lol, but this video was just everything I needed to hear. I’ve had pent up sadness and numbness for a while now and this just helped me let it all out so thank you ❤️
this would have helped me a lot a couple of years before but even right now that i'm better it makes me feel so safe and cared for. thank you for making this video ♡
i haven't self harmed but people close to me have, and i have thought about it numerous times, and i'm here to talk if anyone wants to. have a good day anyone who took the time to read this
Haven't self-harmed in 5-6 years and I'm taking it one day at a time
It's never too late to quit ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Update: I'm 21 years old, and I've found a support system that actually wants the best for me instead of just telling me and bringing me down. Still clean and I'm still going strong!!
I'm happy for you
Its hard for me to quit..I was 1 month clean and then today i relapsed.....But congrats i am so happy for you
@@christa4398 yeah I get that I just recently relapsed as well but I believe in you your amazing and loved and your going to make it through this
@@CT-1255 aww thanks I believe in you too!
@@christa4398 thanks I wish you all the best in life
ok listen i’m 2 years clean and every day is still a struggle... stuff like this helps me though. thank you so much
I just lost my two year of not cutting today but this is helping with other
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@@leonotfound340 it gets better you got this ✨ stay strong:)
You got this I know you will go beyond plus ultra from Deku
I am almost 8 months clean! I feel amazing now, and I hope that everyone will get better! 😊
God I’m not crying Jesus
I just, this hits really hard to me, and I just-
I don’t know how to explain how helpful this is right now because I’m
Going through some really dark times, and this is just the light I need to get through it and I just want to thank you so much for it cause I really needed it, gain thank you
(Edit)
I would just lien to say please don’t hurt yourself, this is the opposite of what I wanted my comment to do. Yes I admit I did it but that doesn’t mean you should talk to someone but please, it’s not worth it, I know you may seem sceptical and be like what do you know? But please trust me
I’m watching this right now crying eyes out and I’m only a minute in
I need to cut myself to feel the pain I crave
@@cupidsdeath3258 NO! Please don't do that this Neko can't handle that
Kandi kelly it's fine I don't go too far I just draw a little blood drink it and then call it a night I like the sting and I'm sorry about this but it's just been a part of my life for as long as I can remember (self harm not cutting) and so I can't stop and I'm sorry and I love you and just keep doing this it will save someone
@Long lost UA student same
Whoever's reading this, you're valid and loved, relapses are also part of healing 🥺.
also, thank you so much for uploading this because stuff like this really help sometimes💕
Thats so sweet, a lot of people appreciate your comment :)) 💕❤
Question why is it called a relapse
thanks i relapsed today and that helped a lot ❤️
Me: *having a major depressive episode and a major panic attack* ...i could end it
Also me: *finds more bakugou content* serotonin? Dopamine? Endorphins? Is that you? :,)
I was literally doing that too
i love you, please stay safe🥺💖 i know it’s easier said than done, but as someone whose been there, i promise it gets easier. it’ll take time, but it gets easier.
@@kirbysthiccthighs usually its all pretty stable but the environment is unhealthy and unstable so my mental health be like 📉📉📉📉
Mm yes :') trying not to cry and also simultaneously being madly in love so that's great ig
@Oceanstep Besrie saaammmmmeeeeeeee
This is the best way to help someone too stubborn for therapy
Thank you
I'm too stubborn for therapy so this helps a lot.
League Of Villains same
I'm glad you agree 😊
It's just weird to talk about feelings also.....
It's just weird to talk about feelings also.....
Damn, Promise really do be out here making Bakugou into a comfort character for me and I’m low key here for it 💖
I don’t self harm but at one point over the summer, I drifted back into these depressing feelings I had in middle school and I was close to hurting and punishing myself again. Thank you for making this video 😔❤️ And for those who are in a dark place, I know this is cliche but you’re not alone. Things get better eventually, you just don’t know how long it will take. It took about four years for me to finally feel free from the dark and to finally be able to fly. You’re not alone in the darkness. Sometimes you just need someone to turn on a flashlight, or you have to fight to find it yourself. You’re here for a reason and I am too. We all are. We don’t exist for nothing. I may not know any of the people in these comments, but I still care! Ok? Because no matter what, you’re still a human being. ❤️
This made me cry cause I am going threw something bad and... Just thank you
Kit Kat your not alone kit Kat I am too so don't worry
Thank you 😔💕
kit kat I send you virtual hugs 🥺
I want to hug all of you now dang it 😅🥺💕
As someone who’s struggled with severe depression, anxiety, PTSD, etc. since age 7 (I’ve been diagnosed, we don’t self-diagnose here✨✨) and I started self-harming at 9 years old, (I just turned 15 two days ago) and I still do it, this helped so much.. for anyone going through something like this or anything similar to this. Just know they ARE people who love you, care for you and will support you through anything. Just try and find the right people to surround yourself with. Seek help! Don’t stay silent, please! It doesn’t do any better to you.
I feel so bad for you! You are amazing and loved! Your life must be really hard but there are people that love and care about you (this probably didn't help but I tried)
im 9 and i do self harm..this video didnt help me.
@@ayobarkbark7178 hii!! considering ur so young,,, do u wanna talk about it? i might just be a year older but i can try to help, or let u just vent in general!! ur really young so u do need the help:((
Thanks for the talk Blasty 🧡💥
For Everyone:
Your skin is delicate. It’s never the solution to cut. You all matter, it’s not just with skin color, your sexuality, or your race, it’s you, your entirety as a human being. You’re never worthless, you mean to many other people (including your family and friends, unless it’s a different case with them, but there are many people who genuinely care, even those acquaintances you’ve met). You’re a beautiful person, personality and all, and even with those flaws, it makes you unique. You’re your own person.
If people say those nasty comments about you, they know nothing about the person you want to be, and that person you are is beautiful.
Always come and tell someone you trust dearly when you’re going through those dark times, they’ll always lend you an ear to listen, a shoulder to cry on, and a hand out to help you out of that hole. You may not believe it but there are many people who care for you than you think.
Please take care of yourselves everyone, you’re all beautiful 🤗🤗🤗♥️♥️
You really out here making me cry- I needed this.
Sissssyyy! I completely agree I have been about a few weeks clean now ever since my “incident” but I’m trying to recover after what I did. I’m trying not to pick up any sharp things right now and it’s hard but I’m trying...🥺❤️ If anybody is reading this, just remember you are so damn important to this world if you disappeared the world would become dark..trust me, even though I might not know who you are or what you have done in your past but you need to put that behind and not be in the past and be in the now, the present! Remember how many people love and care about you! Friends, family, your pets, anyone who is close to you! Love you all! Have a good morning/afternoon/night~! 🥺❤️✨☀️🌙
thank you you are to nice you make me realize I am not worthless
Your making me cry- i really needed this 😊😊
thank you
I’m over here crying...like LITERALLY...this melted my heart...thank you so much for this!!! You are amazing! Hope you have a wonderful rest of your night! Much love✌🏽💕
Same here
This really helped me as I used to self harm and bakugou is one of my favourite comfort characters even tho he is loud
same
@@Jamie-ht2fw it's all alright I still want to be I have stuff to make me not
@@Jamie-ht2fw yes i do is it a bad thing no
@@Jamie-ht2fw yes someone is always there
@@Jamie-ht2fw i dont know he a pervert
At one point near the end I just thought: 'What the heck was I doing to myself last year?' Cause this hit home more than I expected it to and I just kinda broke into tears. So thank you for making it a little easier to talk to people about when they are worried.
This made me realize that i am a month clean! The past month has been hard but videos like these have made it 10x easier to cope and i just want to say thank you for talking to and supporting people who are struggling❤
I proud of you :) 💗💗💗
I have 0 confidents. You being able to do this and give this sorta ASMR is what I kinda needed. I also like this side of Bakugo as well. I love your work and hope you keep up the work of ASMR's. Love ur content. Keep it up
My therapist: “you’re self harming? You’re lying, your arm is clean.”
My leg: 👁👄👁
What kind of therapist would say that wtf
hawks's waifu ikr, i got a new one cuz-
felt that-
Awww this is so sweet! This means a lot to me, as I’m sure it means a lot to others too
Twin?
I need this holy- I- did my heart melt? Maybe
Excuse me levi_9632, please tell me why you commented this. I am greatly concerned.
I'm reminding you you watched this 🤭
I was barely a minute in and looking at your expression when I realized it. The pain look on your face, I can see it, you weren't just acting the part but showing your true emotions on how much your really care. And reading your triggers how you said you were giving your own advice. It proves it even more and I thank you so much for truly caring. ❤
it was so hard to watch all 16 minutes of this. it just reminded me so much of my mom talking to me about what I did a while ago. but they are right. its not ok to do this stuff. i know its hard but you WILL get through it. people will help you through it and when you think someone isn't there for you, there is. just know that there will always be people who are opened to talk
I lost my mom in 2018 on Halloween it was so hard that i would do anything to see her again i will i was there with her and calling the hospital i should have dont that
@@keithvannamee1452 im so sorry for your lost. i lost someone very important to me on Halloween as well. and the worst part is Halloween is my birthday. so when people ask why I have my birthday ita because I watched someone I love die slowly. i hope you found happiness and know that she will be watching over you.
@@jd_electricalsquid3271 thank you so much
Kinda really needed this..
Your not alone 💗
I believe in you
THE ACTING I LOVE THIS. 2:00 THE SOUND OF YOU LIKE- ALMOST CRYING. IT SOUNDS LIKE YOURE HOLDING BACK TEARS OMG
okay as someone who went through this, a word of advice to anyone who is going through this think about whats good think about the people you love thats what helped me pull through maybe it will help you to, and everyone hear cares about you.
This video saved lives, Promise, be proud of what you do even if it seems small and insignificant to you, these videos help people, even if this started as a hobby it's helped people, Promise you make people's lives better, we see that little TH-cam notification and hope that you've released a video, so thank you, I love you, we love you, be proud of yourself 💛💛💛
The two people that dislike don’t understand that this helps people like me and others
Here's your daily reminder that you are enough you are loved and you are valid have a great day or night or evening
Don't forget to take care of yourself you beautiful person ❤
promise:*posts*
me:*clicks not thinking*
title:*trigger warning self-harm*
me:...I'm at least a year clean but- its good to talk about it-
if you any of you have done or are doing self-harm then im going to be a kind person on the internet right now and do this- *hugs you*
your life is worth something and you mean a lot to the people around you, I know you're thinking its all dark but there is a light and its the person you care about the most reaching their hand out to help.
you are worth something! never forget that! now enjoy the video, enjoy reading this comment and *gives you love and your comfort food* have a nice day ^w^ never forget you matter.
Thank you I talk my self down a lot but I've never did that or even though about it but I do have mental breakdowns and cry what everyone is sleeping
@@denkikaminary903 *gives you a hug* its ok,you can get though this.
Skyla Ren well done for being a year clean I have done a month clean sooo I guess that’s good
@@xxkawaii_pikachuxx8397 a month!? :O *gives you a hug and a cookie* you have gotten far human, and I believe you can go longer!
Skyla Ren thanks you are really to kind
I am crying so hard right now, I don't think I even knew how much I needed this. Thank you for being here and doing these, you have no idea how much they help.
Edit: I paused it right before you said don't cry
I stopped at 1:27 because I couldn't watch, I am not even a few weeks clean but I really love your videos never stop doing what u r doing😊👍❤️
Hey listen to me you are already a few weeks clean. And even more I hope. But if you relapse it's ok! Relapse is apart of the journey.
I don't deserve this vid ethier, I am even a week clean ethier- we can do it together tho??? I just wanna help
LISTEN HERE U CUTE EXTRA..BE CLEAN!!!!!..Bc clean is good ÙvÚ
AND IF UR NOT CLEAN THEN-..then uh...IM NOT CLEAN
SEE HOW I WIN!!??? BAAAHAAHAHAA
I luv u 🤬
i feel like this was some sort of sign? idk- today hasn’t gone well and then this popped up when my thoughts were all,, ya know. low key scary how this uploaded at the right time
so its disided I'm crying myself to sleep tonight
I dont cry
@@Who_Ishtar damn I wish
@@miasma01 but i starve myself and harm myself💔
@@Who_Ishtar I wasn't expecting you to just say that I really hope you feel better and your worth more then that please dont starve or harm yourself
@@miasma01 it's ok i only eat Lunch i haven't cried I'm months❤
I have a past with this and I relapse often. I also don’t have anyone I can talk to. This is so incredibly helpful, thank you.
I actually glad you posted this, I was thinking of ending it all today and attempted trying it for the third time, i don’t tell people much about it but you and many other ASMRtist and Audio creators have helped me more then anybody, thank you for uploading this.
I’m so sorry about your experience. Seriously if you ever feel that way again feel free to DM me at promiseofahero on instagram.
Hi! Random internet stranger here! I know it might not mean much as i do t know you personally but i love and value you, please look after yourself, make sure you eat and drink enough and that you get enough sleep. I admit, im not perfect, ive been there recently too, ive only been clean for 3 days, but we can be on the road to recovery together, some days may be harder than others to resist the urge to cut, but try your hardest to break the habit and help yourself heal, dont be afraid to talk to someone about how you feel. You could also try alternative coping methods that dont involve self harm, such as instead of cutting, draw on your wrist with a pen instead. @solstice._.wickham on instagram if you need someone to talk to. Love, Random internet stranger. 💕
@@Kaixcs_
Wow, thank you stranger, I really dont know what to say because this is the first time anybody was actually concerned about me and my feelings.
Omg was scrolling through the comments and saw this I'm so sorry. I've been a friend to two people who have tried to do this so anyone who cares about you would feel the same way I felt. I'm very glad that you didn't though I find this kind of stuff to help with me depression as well. I bet you are beautiful and courageous I hope you don't try again.
From, dark wisteria
Omg I’m so sorry to hear that
*me waits for my friends to go to bed so I can watch this*
I refreshed my recommendations 10 times and this still popped up every time- i think Jesus asahi is trying to tell me something ;w;
Stuff like this makes me cry all the time because I might not even be in High School but I still went through this and this is the only ever time that somebody actually cared as everybody only just told me to not do it and told me that I should just go to therapy nobody gave me this type of attention so it really warms my heart that somebody has enough courage to do something like this and help other people that are going through something like this it really warms my heart and makes me want to cry some other people have family and friends that don't actually care about them when this happened and then they self harm and then it goes to suicide and then that's once people start caring but when they were committing self-harm and they found out all they said was just to go to therapy and then they're just crazy and everybody loves them but then they act like they're just a speck of dirt on the wall that they have to clean off every day because it's starting to mold and it's a really big issue in their life
I’ve been clean for a week because of my new friends and them defending me and and YOU your posts make me so happy and they always remind that I’ve always got somewhere to go to just take a minute to breathe and let go so thank you🙂💖
im so proud of you❤️❤️❤️❤️
I really needed this I have been going through self harm and suicidal thank you so much.
I'm so glad your still here 😊 keep fighting it gets better 💛✨
OMLTHATS GAY thank you that’s very sweet of you!
@@TV_DOLL np ☺️ and you deserve the best and I'm proud of you for what ever you did today 💛
OMLTHATS GAY I’m going to cry stop it
@@TV_DOLL wait no don't cry I'm sorry wait is it happy cry or sad cry
Put a finger down if you cry everyday because you lost someone in your family that said you were beautiful everyday when you call them and made you confident everyday
Me: puts a finger down while crying
*me in a corner also putting a finger down*
@@problemchild6260 first love the name im a problem child and second so relatable
@@Blondieeeechanniee glad you like my name lol
* puts a finger down* then cries
*puts a finger down silently crying*
We honestly need more videos like this!
(Out of character)
As someone who has done self harm this is something i needed when I was sad, someone who cares feels so good :)
It does help
I really does
@@shotaaizawa1467 Stop following me! I' m engaged to Shinsou, and you will be at the wedding
Denki Kaminari I am not-and why do I have to go to the wedding I barely wanted to go to my wedding
Shota Aizawa me when I get married
Someone sent this to me. I don't cut but I am depressed and have considered it, this made me feel good and actually brought a smile to my face, thank you:)
I hope you're okay rn but this really helps me...
Well this helped a lot- thank you😊
Btw for the people that think cutting is a way to relieve stress or any other way,please don’t.it causes more stress on you and conflicts you to harm yourself more.he people that care about you are here for you🥺I’m proud of you for making it this far in life.. I’m so very proud..
this really means a lot to me, i have been clean for about a month now but these past few days have been hard, so it helps having one of my comfort characters here!
This is a wee bit of a vent soo......
I’ve been clean about a year and a half from cutting. It’s been 6 months since my last self harm (scratching). And since school has started it’s been really hard. I haven’t done anything but I just need to. My mom would kill me and might yell at me but it’s the only thing that ever seems to work. And when I was really deep into the cutting my brain at the time was helping me and giving advice on how to cut deeper and hiding it.
Sorry for all that :) this is fine
You can do it. I believe in you.
It made me cry so much. Everything hurts and I didn’t realize how much pain I was in until I began to cry
You have no idea how much you making this video helped me. Thank you so much. I was on the verge of restarting my 2 months of being clean.
Omg.... I needed this so much. I just messed up this exact thing and now I’m crying. I’ve never needed a video more
Edit: I’ve watched this video every time I’ve made a mistake and holly hell I s watched it way to many times
love the fact that this gets posted as soon as i start falling back into my depression and ED because of school. but seriously this helps. i’m 112 days clean tho
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I didn't need this idk what you're talking about-
Ok but rlly ty. ❤️✨❤️✨
one of my friends, who has attempted suicide multiple times and came out alive told me something casually in a conversation a couple days ago.
"see, if it hasnt killed me yet, maybe im worth something."
i dont think he realized how much that means to me
i dont think he'll ever realize how much it meant then and how much it still means now.
i hope his thoughts can help whoevers reading this comment
and i hope that every one of you that needs it can get help and can get better
because i can tell you that it does
it gets so much better as time passes on.
time wont heal all of your wounds, but it can help heal some.
even if theres scars left after the fight.
youre gonna get better.
please
give it time
give it time for me
for the other people reading this comment
for the people you live near
for the people that love you
for the people you love.
i love you.
have an amazing day, you amazing bean
I'm 7 months clean and I think about doing it everyday. This helped to today💜
Im happy for you, you got this! ❤️
I'm been going through a really tough time lately and has relapsed after being clean for like a few months. But like, this video made me feel so much better. It made me like there is still some hope left.
So keep up the good work!👍
I’m not crying.. I’m not crying... I’m not crying... I’m not- I’m crying.... but I wanna say thank you. This really helps me..🥺❤️
Here have a gift 14:18
I started to cry so much because this was just at the right moment some how these videos post as soon as I need them this is some voodoo but still thank you this really help💕💕
I really need this
Me: thank you for understand me and I do love him why
BAKUGOU: I won't make fun you
I told myself when I sh, have reoccurring ptsd etc.. if I was in a relationship I would get out of it as soon as possible cause I know it can cause a strain on the relationship and stress the other out. And I’ve never wanted to burden people.
Thank you this helped so much
Sorry to comment this but I just needed to write this down somewhere.
Until last Monday I was 3 1/2 months clean but I couldn’t take it anymore. It’s the desire that makes it worse and worse, I tried everything. Throwing away all the things I could cut myself with, the first 4 days were great but then the desire for blood, for self harming... it overwhelmed me and I was panicking and searching for something sharp. When I found something I was so happy to hold the last sharpener that I own that had a blade. I screwed it off and held it for awhile, it calmed that desire down and now i keep it in my diary. But then that Monday, bullying, self doubt. I was home alone and so I took the blade and made around 15 - 18 cuts, on my leg. I cut on my leg because I don’t want my sis to see. If she sees she takes away my blade and I can‘t let that happen because I feel better when I can hold that blade.
Again I’m sorry🦋 have a great night/day❤️
Bakugou : I love you
Me: 😳
My heart : stay calm EVERYONE STAY F*CKING CALM!!!!
13:41 😳
reminder
Im 6 months clean, but i still have the thought/urge to hurt myself sometimes, thank you for making this 💚💚💚
I love soft boom boom boy 😍
this is what I needed. Thank you. I can never sleep and you knock me clean out. This is such a tough topic and it scares me honestly. It's an uphill battle and I'm going to win. Keep being the reason people can fall asleep at night. Thank you a million times over.
I’m a whole week clean!!!!! I’m really proud of myself 👉🏽👈🏽 it’s not the longest time I’ve been clean but I’m glad that I’m still trying my best
Good luck! I hope you succeed in this
thats amazing! im so proud of you
@@winnielmao Thanks!
I Cried to this @PromiseASMR Please keep doing what ur doing and DON'T LET ANYONE STOP U
I recently relapsed after over a year of being clean and, though I haven’t gotten the chance to watch it yet, I have a feeling this video is going to become really important. You’re probably going to help more than one person with this. 💜
I can’t believe I have to wait till Sunday to watch this fully 😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫
Hello
Hi
You guys are in my top 3 favorite characters!!! Thankyou so much for responding!
@@_counttheways_9383 welcome😁❤️
Denki Kaminari ⚡️💛🖤💛🖤⚡️ how have you been?
Well I’m crying
it felt like someone cares for the first time ever thank you
the genuine care in the eyes instead of just a shallow look makes it feel realistic thx
Back again and I'm 1 month clean woo!😁
I felt this, I have been feeling really sad lately and your just the person I needed to cheer me up, thank you promise, you light up my world
Edit: Im literally trying to hold back tears, I really needed this talk, i don't talk to a lot of people about my sadness but this really made me feel better
@@gabrielgherasim1894 thanks
@@gabrielgherasim1894 I coulndt read all the way through but I will, thank you so much, im literally crying rn
@@gabrielgherasim1894 I love how your writing books, you should totally write more!
For the longest time I thought I wasn't self harming myself because I was only sticking sewing needles in my skin, I though it wasn't self harm because I never was cutting my writs or things like that.
But now that I'm 2 years clean I want to tell you that cutting your writs isn't the only form of self harm.
👏 If 👏 a 👏 sharp 👏 object 👏 goes 👏 into 👏 your 👏 skin 👏 its 👏 not 👏 ok
I actually cried well watching this because ik my self-harm is wrong but I keep doing it...
This is LITERALLY my therapy and I cried...
This video is extremely sweet and I’m glad a patron requested it, but on a lighter note, the “Me wanting to kiss the camera but not knowing how to make it not cringe” really made me laugh, ✨
Me seeing the title: *oh shi-*
Who is in the comments just reading while listening so they don't have full attention on the video? Because it's kinda hard to have full attention on the video with a topic you know all to well about?
Me: 🖑
Me
👋
👋
Same
I found this while thinking of relapsing and now I’m saving it and ever time I’m about to relapse I’ll watch it and keep a log here.
1. October 11th 2020 12:57 am
2. October 12th 2020 1:42 am (a day I couldn’t last a day without thinking about relapsing)
3. October 12th 2020 11:06 pm (here I am again)
4. October 15th 2020 10:10 pm (I’m back and trying) (I failed you all, I’m sorry)
5. October 16th 2020 11:17 am (I know I doesn’t seem like it but I’m trying)
6. October 19th 2020 9:37 am (shit I’m not updating like I’m supposed to anyways there have been about 5 more times when I didn’t come to this video)
7. October 19th 11:14pm (getting worse mentally and physically)
8. October 23rd 9:56pm (falling)
9. October 24th 2:50pm (while in universal I’m still thinking about it)
10. October 30th 10:14pm (please help me)
11. November 1st 12:01am (I’m sorry)
12. November 4th 4:03am
hey hey you dont have to be sorry relapse is apart of healing please dont think badly of yourself because of it
1st time being 1st YAY, also this addresses a very important topic and thank you so much this helps a lot
This was so beautiful oh my god. I was two years clean and fell into a relapse a week ago. I’m so ashamed and depressed and this just helped out so much. The conversation about it was beautiful and amazing and how it should be. And honestly seeing this hot head put aside his insecurities and risk being vulnerable with the listener to have a conversation he knew they needed to have was just 😭. I loved everything about this and it was so so so comforting! Thank you for giving this to us 💞
Also, to anyone struggling with self harm (no matter the severity or the form), know that your feelings are valid and that it’s okay to feel how you are feeling. I personally self harmed as a combination of wanting to feel something after being so numb for a long time and also feeling that I deserved the pain. But know that there are other ways to cope, even though they may take time and effort to work. Please please please don’t give up on yourself and try to talk to someone about how you’re feeling. There are others that love and want to help and support you unconditionally, me being one of those people! I hope this message finds all of you well, but if you’re not, that’s 100% okay, too. Just know I, along with many others are here for you and want to help and comfort you! 💞
It is okay to be weak. It is okay to relapse as long as you want to continue to stop. You are so insightful and strong to leave a comment like this. I love it when people tell me exactly why they like one of my videos, it helps me make them. All strong people have weak moments.
i didn’t plan on crying tonight but i’m not even a day clean right now and this hits home and- it’s actually really comforting. i’m starting school this upcoming tuesday and i’ve changed everything about me and i’m terrified how people are going to react, and i shouldn’t be because my girlfriend supports me and that’s all i should need but i can’t help- i can’t help but need more than that, i guess?
Thank you ,you don’t know how much I needed this
I literally cried
Everyone just remember
Your skin is not paper, Don’t cut it.
Your life is not a movie, Don’t end it.
You are a wonderful human being. And nobody can tell you otherwise. You are you, Nobody can take that away. Only you can.. You are different and that’s a good thing. You are such a beautiful soul that was brought to this world for a reason. Even if some people don’t see it. That’s on them because they don’t see how amazing and talented you are.
It’s not about looks.. it’s about personality.
It doesn’t matter what sexuality, Or Race you are. You are you! And don’t let anyone hurt or bully you for that EVER! Keep your head up. Don’t let other people drag you down with them with hatful words. Because you are you and that’s a great thing that’s why you are here.
Keep these words with you.. because I want you to be happy and live your best life ✨
Couldn’t have said it better myself ✨💖
I needed that...Thanks. You're the best!🥺
@@xx_xx7723 whatever your going through, you’ll get through it, keep pushing and being the amazing person you are :3
I didn't self harm for a month and.... then I did it again. I'm a month clean, and that may not be a lot, but I'm happier without a certain thing in my life. Seeing Bakugou smiling made my day. I started crying because I needed this video. Thank you for making this, it helped me. I love you and your videos. Stay awesome Promise ASMR ❤️❤️
I have a question.If you can can you make a “Bakugo helps you after your parents divorce”? It’s fine if no!
I'm here for you guys g-got it? 👉👈
Thanks blasty
Thanks Baku bro :)
Awww thanks love 😭💗💞💕
Thank you and same to you.
Thank you
Can you do one of these with Kiri? He's my comfort character and it would mean so much to me
How did you know??? Like... How did you know I needed this? Thank you Promise. You're an angel and you've helped me stay another day clean.
You don't know how bad I needed this, thank you 💕
Im not even into anime, idk who this is, but i really needed the comfort. Thank you for making this. I feel less terrible. Thank you for the sincerity and understanding you displayed.
ALWAYS HERE HAHAHHAHAH lol I'm crazy sowwy pwease forgive meh
@Hailey Afton why :3???
Lol we' re all mad here
@@denkikaminari3361 lol
I'm coming up six months clean, and comfort from things like this really helps to drive the cravings to go back to what I used to do away. I still struggle, but a talk like this is just what's needed when the bad thoughts return.
This video came out at the perfect time for me, thank you ^^
It hits too close to home, my cousin was hurting herself
I lost her.......And I regret not talking to her about how she felt or just anything!
I felt it was my fault so I started hurting myself. But my boyfriend found out and helped me get help, and helped me recover
Remember. You are NOT alone
I just hit two months clean today!! I’m super proud of myself.
No matter how big or small that number is, make sure to take time and be proud of yourself. You’re still here, and that is a huge accomplishment!!
Congrats :) proud of you 💗
Title: "Trigger warning"
Me: well.. I'm a bit over a month clean.. with a huge urge to do it again... uhm.. I'll watch it anyway
After the video:*sobbing* Okay I needed this
@@gabrielgherasim1894 Uhm okay? Thanks?._.
Me just like I'm like what a week clean and I wanna do that sh;t again but let's just watch 😂
I’m watching this over and over because of the amount of comfort this brings me, bakugou has always been my comfort character, idk why when he’s always so angry lol, but this video was just everything I needed to hear. I’ve had pent up sadness and numbness for a while now and this just helped me let it all out so thank you ❤️
Two days clean today, damn this is hard.. This has helped me so much, thank you so much
this would have helped me a lot a couple of years before but even right now that i'm better it makes me feel so safe and cared for.
thank you for making this video ♡
i haven't self harmed but people close to me have, and i have thought about it numerous times, and i'm here to talk if anyone wants to. have a good day anyone who took the time to read this
the tears would not stop, I needed this more then I thought I did, thank you💗