The dude leaves at 9:30 ish and its 45 minutes to work so let’s call that an hour by time he gets in the cafe gets sat down laptop out etc to do his work it’s what 11ish that’s less then two hours because he still has to leave cafe and go to work by 1. So where are you getting 4 hours?
7:42 that dude…what??? 10000% she feels like a single mom because of his behavior. Insanity. It’s like he wants to be a father only when it’s convenient
Single mother doesn't get a paycheck for no work. Is he right? No, but single mother? The guy pays for everything. If she wants to leave, no one blames her. Let's not pretend she has it hard. Doesn't work a job and gets money.
Right? Even on the weekends he spends time with his friends. She is definitely a single mother at this point and never has a break. When does he even spends time with his kids? I bet she does all of the housework and he doesn't pick up after himself. If she divorces him, she would have one less person to take care of.
@@zugetsui9971 Being a housewife and mother is a job, and one that is little recognized thanks to this mentality. Mothers work not only 8 hours a day, they work 24 hours a day for their children and family.
second story. as a sahm I feel that woman so much. I get that he's in need of time because he's working to provide for his family. but that woman get ZERO time for herself. she's taking care of babies and an elderly woman. feeding kids, dressing kids, watching kids while also taking care of grandma, then home to more cleaning, cooking, and taking care of everyone but herself. you work at 1. you leave at 8 or 9?? that's insane! you can't hang out and help get the boys dressed and make a breakfast for your family while your wife gets all the bags together? (cuz two young children require so many things) you are the biggest, oozing, a hole.
@mylilwiener_shenziYou mean you understand their point now? If so, good on you! We can all understand each other's perspectives if we really listen to each other 😊
I try to explain this to younger men. Especially when your wife has younger children at home, it’s constant having to be on alert. Before and after work if you aren’t helping she never gets a break. No one should be on the clock 24/7. Not saying the man shouldn’t get a chance for rest and leisure, I’m saying we need to make sure both in the marriage do.
Hang on, the guy works from 1 pm to 10 pm, but he leaves about 8:30 and 9. I understand wanting to leave a little early to do the things he said. But that's not just a little early. That's several hours early. How much times he need to get a bite and a coffee and send some emails?
He left out the part where he has to swing by his girlfriends house for their morning love making. If I was in a relationship and my S/O was leaving for work 4-5 hours early every single day, I would 100% think they're cheating. An hour early to stop and get a coffee and send a couple emails? Sure, nothing wrong with that (although it's weird you can't just answer emails at home like a normal person), but people don't leave for work 4 hours early every day just to make a quick stop or two before going in. It throws up a lot of red flags.
@@ChaseSchleich way too many honestly. I left the house as close so my shift as i could. I hated working, why would i want to be there any earlier and even IF i loved my job.. 4hrs! No man, just no.
Yeaaaaaaaa that’s my thoughts exactly. Just tell your wife you’re basically a selfish prick and don’t like babies and responsibilities and that she needs to either deal with it or leave. That “uno reverse” will have her in such a tizzy she’ll abandon the kids too.
At best he's just finding things to do that aren't at home so he doesn't have to be at home and farts around on his computer at the coffee shop for hours.
As someone who worked in retail management - nobody needs 3 extra hours to "read emails", you don't even get that many emails. MAYBE if he's a district manager or higher up, but doubtful.
On the second one, Kris missed the fact that the guy said his shift starts at 1pm its a 45 minute commute, and he's leaving the house around 830 or 9am. 😮 thats 3+ hours to sit at a cafe? Then after taking zero time with his family all week he uses weekends to hang out with friends. Yeah she called it when she said sounds innocent its gonna be the worst. Dude is trash he's more than likely cheating on his wife in that time. Or at the least clearly doesn't want to be at home with his family. Sad. Now thats a narcissist the way he spun that in the title. I bet his wife is a freaking catch too.
Agreed! IMO, his wife is automatically a catch for all she does for her family and home. She sounds like a freaking saint! I'm amazed by how calmly she seems to have handled telling her husband he needs to step up. I can only imagine the amount of stress, frustration, disappointment and resentment she's probably experiencing. He's gonna lose her if he doesn't start behaving like a real husband & father.
@MaineCoonMama18 has to be a catch, she is running her own home raising the children alone and taking care of a family member with dementia. She's a badass lol
He needs 4 hours to mentally prepare for work. He goes to the gym till midnight. Definitely the AH, like, does he even care about his kids. She need to leave him, I mean, it wouldn’t change much.
Yeah, I was like he leaves at 8:30/9 and she wants hime to wait till noon?!?? This guy clearly doesn't want the responsibilities of a family and seems very happy to let his wife handle it all. Also, there's this thing called compromise, maybe you could leave at 11 instead. Bro need like 4 before work and another hour after?!? Sounds like a cheater or just a giant a-hole.
@@Soviet_frog51 even worse, it starts at 1. He's taking 4 hours+ before and 2 hrs after. 6 hrs of me time a day isn't even normal when you're childless. JFC what a dick
Lol thats even worse. Shes hanging out with her exs family, without him, but gets mad when her cousin comes over..with the kids? .... starting to sound like projection
I believe that pseudo MIL and pseudo SIL means that they're wife's dad's common law family. That is, they're not related but dad 'made' himself another family after out-of-the-pic-for-whatever-reason (whether natural, benign or malicious) wife but there wasn't another marriage for whatever reason (whether financial or energy wise or mutual agreement) to make it all official. After all, they'd be called EX or something similar if they were from a previous marriage or relationship. Least, that's my opinion.
I was thinking a previous ex who passed and she was close to his family or similar. I know my wifes stepmum was friendly and close to my wifes aunty so I could imagine using pseudo SIL to describe their relationship rather than trying to explain it. Otherwise it would be 'husbands, former partner who is deceased sister'. They arent technically her family but its the closest description that fits in the normal way. I think OP said it that way to differentiate it isnt his sister/mother or such she was with.
Some thoughts: - The movie night: Not the AH, imho. The wife is the one with the issue. - The Coffe Shop Guy: Definitely so so sooo the AH. When does the wife get some peace and quiet or a break? - Pictre sent to SL guy: definitely not the AH. Poor guy. - Housework guy: Not the AH, and hire that cleaner regardless! Cleaners are liberating!
I wasn’t agreeing with your comment at first…. But slowly I fell in line, especially when she read the “I enjoy my routine.” 30min early to grab coffee, and 30-45min, maybe an hour, at the gym is perfectly fine. But, how long is he at the gym if he’s not getting home until midnight? He’s definitely avoiding his home life. I feel bad for the kids. But… I highly doubt he wasn’t displaying similar behavior when they were dating; she knew what he was like. It’s amazing how often I see good looking females telling stories about how much of a jerk they are with. Im thinking “Ya, you started dating him because he was good looking, knew he’d be making good money, and looked past his behavior because of the other things. And now that you’re wanting an actual partner rather than ‘just a boyfriend’, you’re going to complain because he’s not relationship material, knowing full well the person he was when you met?”
@@yourlifeisagreatstory I agree, I definitely think there was probably some oversight when the couple was dating. Likely some false promises from him and "I can change him" from her.
@@keshaponso2034Whether or not he pays all the rent doesn’t make him a father. You can’t be a good father and never take care of your kids or (seemingly) actively avoid your family.
The guy that wants time before/after work for himself....may I ask, when does your wife get time for herself? Or time with him? He also fills his weekends with plans other than his family. Shes telling him what she needs. If he doesn't listen, she'll check out.
As someone with a partner who has made me feel the same way this mother in the second post felt (also two young children and a stay at home), and someone who has worked retail management, that guys is definitely the AO in that situation. You wanted a family, you step up. Family comes first. You want a happy relationship? Communicate and work together. You're a team and equals, not competitors. Dear lord. Of all the videos I've watched this is the first time I've felt compelled to leave a comment with my opinion. Keep doing what your Doing Kris! Love the content. And I hope that family gets things figured out. Merry Crimus!
This guy who leaves early and doesn't get home til late should probably get his stuff together, i worked 93 miles from home (Riverside CA to Agora Hills -through los Angeles) every day AND was taking care of my wife (who got cancer at 31 and passed at 34) and 2 kids, and i got up at 3AM and got home around 6PM, made dinner, spent time with them, meds and Dr app for the wife, not to talk about the 4 total months my wife and i spent in the hospital that last year and I'd go to work from the hospital room. Time for yourself?!?! With a wife and kids???? Ehat the F are you on about? This is real life, and living for your family trumps needing time for yourself.
I think it's 8am to 12pm, not 12am. I think that's fine. As long as her helps out after 12. Cos he mentioned "mornings". Since he is a working father, and mentions he is stressed about work, he needs those few hours to blew off steam. No harm taking coffee and going to gym for an hour
@@Gamespectives Wrong. It is 12am. Nothing he is doing is fine. He NEVER helps with the kids. He is NEVER around. He leaves at 8-9am to sit in a cafe until 1pm when his shift starts, he works 1pm to 10pm, then he goes to the gym, and comes home around 12am. He is gone all day. He goes to the cafe for 3-4 hours before work, works 9 hours, goes to the gym for an hour or two, and then comes home. He is gone from the house for 16-18 hours a day. Comes back when everyone is in bed. He literally only sleeps in that house. He doesn't live there.
Bless you and your wife! I hope she recovered! It’s easy to tell when someone has disconnected from their family and that guy is already gone. The wife needs to get a divorce and find someone that values her, her children, and the time they spend together. The kids deserve that much!
Former retail manager here. What company gives their managers an hour for lunch? I was allowed to take 30 minutes, but most of the time I couldn't actually take it because either we were too busy or I was the only manager there. I might get a lunch once every couple of months. If this dude takes an hour for lunch every day, and gets weekends off either he either doesn't work in retail or he's the kind of manager that literally everyone hates because they do next to nothing and the rest of the managers have to finish all their work.
The reason someone at a small wedding is important and it's a good point to bring out is that they are a close connection. In theory they should not be someone you're worried about sleeping with your husband.
Fun story of mine. My sister’s abusive ex actually messaged me one day asking for nudes and he would pay me $100 and to keep quiet. I told him no and he asked that I wouldn’t tell my sister. I screenshot that ish and waited till I knew my sister would be at her home alone and sent it to her. Best mistake he ever did cause I’ve been wanting him to mess up bad enough but to literally message ME?! Out of EVERYONE for a nude!? It’s like my prayer was answered and she could finally leave him. We ended up secretly moving her out a few weeks later leaving him with a practically empty space since my sister paid for most of things or was already hers anyway 👏🏼😊 Also he was more mad that I lied to him and told my sister the truth than he was with her leaving lol
And she works part time while he works full time. I think she should be doing 3/4th of the housework but doesn't even do 50%. I agree, he's getting screwed.
Sending pics of your husband to another person is a crime? I mean, I can understand being upset about it for sure. It’s heartbreaking like Kris said but sending it accidentally being a felony seems outrageous. Unless maybe it was a child. But even then if it’s an accident then felony still seems a bit steep
I think that's a crime where intent matters, but I may be wrong (I'm not a lawyer). So, I think the accident defense would legitimately work there, since it isn't like, young person related content (censoring for TH-cam, but you know what I'm referring to). That wouldn't require intent at all, but the revenge corn/similar statutes I believe do require intent. That being said, how the f*ck do you screw that up, as Kris said, YOU CAN SEE THE PICTURE BEFORE IT SENDS. So might be hard to convince a jury it was a mistake, but if it honestly was, I think it's technically a defense (though again, not a lawyer, and this is absolutely NOT LEGAL ADVICE)
@@ryanc473is there really a way to prove it was intentional? I mean everyone could write "it was an accident" after they've sent something like that to someone? (I genuinely mean it as a question 😅)
To be a crime of revenge you have to be able to establish intent and convince a jury it was done maliciously (the “LoL ROFLMAO” response with no follow up “Sorry, I didn’t mean to send that” could easily be proposed as shaming behavior to a jury) but without malicious intent or the pic being sent to a minor you can’t really do much but sue them for negligence that resulted in an invasion of your privacy. But honestly, if you suspect something to be abnormal with your body you should go see a doctor, you shouldn’t need your spouse to critically think for you if that isn’t their area of expertise.
Hey Kris! Have you and Caleb ever thought about doing Sugar Free Sourboys (Is it even possible? lol) I'm a diabetic so I think about these things :) Dang Kris raked Cafe Guy over the coals! but as a man he 100% deserved it lol.
I seriously have my doubts about the truthfullness of the wife in that d-pic story. How does one accidently send an embarrassing photo of their husband's squishy bits and then laugh when they mock him?
I mean, people sometimes make mistakes. And clicking the wrong image can happen, so it isn’t that weird, even if it is very unfortunate. Her reaction after doing so is horrible though.
@hazelmint6671 Same here. If anyone reading this is having trouble seeing the horrific double standard at play here, switch all of their genders, tell the story to a group of friends, and guage their reactions. I'm certain excuses like, "I sent it by accident" and "I didn't think that would upset you" ain't gonna fly.
Yeah, I don't know what their situation is, like if they have kids or not. But I don't even have any kids, and any spicy photos or anything similar that are shared between my partner and me, automatically get deleted or moved into a locked folder. So there are absolutely no chances of anyone else seeing them or any "accidents" happening where they could be sent to anyone. So I really don't understand how this could have happened. ESPECIALLY because she most likely would have either had to share the photo directly from the message from her husband, or she would have had to have saved the picture he sent to her photos, in order for her to "accidently" send it to her sister. I call BS.
@jeanams07 I know right? It's not as if she could have simply tapped on the wrong photo and off it went. At the very least, it would have required her to mess up at every step of a three step process. And don't even get me started on her horrible taste in friends. What sort of person would even think to do something like that?
As someone whose father was ONLY a provider, we have a terrible relationship, and honestly? Is rather have been less well off with a father who was present and who was invested and active in my life. My father shouldn't have children, and neither should this guy.
I felt that way for the longest time! My dad was the sole provider (although they actually did make that decision together and mum worked when my brother was small and only stopped after they had me). He was working long hours - actually working, not dilly-dallying at the café - and doing nightschool, later on switching to constant courses and trainings. He was grumpy and irritable when he got home late at night, constantly stressed out and short-tempered. On weekends we had to go do the big grocery shop which almost always ended in him shouting at us (years later we now know that most of us in the family are adhd/autistic and his sensory overload was through the roof nonstop due to work and masking), then house chores and cleaning which always made him angry too (again, sensory overload from all the noise etc). You know what fixed it? He had a horrible burnout when I was around 12-13, went through major depression and $uicidal ideation, spent some time in a mental health clinic. It was the worst time for all of us. But some time after that he slowed down, he got his adhd diagnosis and treatment, he learned to handle his emotions better, he picked up the slack at home etc. Took a couple years and a couple hiccups and me completely icing him out during my teenage years because of years of built up resentment, and today he’s the best dad I could ask for. If he had never gone through that I would still not be talking to him at all. It is too little too late but he knows it and it hurts him as much as it hurts us and thus we could move on. I feel very sorry for anyone who doesn’t get to experience this type of growth from their parents 🩷 we all deserve it
My wife and I had the same hesitance about hiring cleaners (especially as we’re in a major city, so the idea of them just walking off with stuff or quietly judging us for our poor housekeeping seemed more valid to us). When we reached a tipping point, we broke down and hired a company and they seriously deep cleaned the place. It was a real game changer.
It honestly helps me with my sanity immensely, I am amazed at anyone where everyone works full time and still have time to keep their house clean AND are happy
8:42 yeah, many of us enjoy our alone time and routine, but we sacrifice for the ones we love.... Tbh his wife is a bit of a pushover, for letting bro come home at midnight
I mean if you get off at 10. Midnights not that crazy. Everyone should be asleep anyway. It's the leaving 4 hours early for work thing that is the worst part.
First story, dude did nothing wrong. The wife has severe insecurity issues. You're allowed to have friends of the opposite sex over. Even alone. The wife needs to freakin talk to OP and stop freaking out. If anything that's a red flag that SHE may be cheating
No it's weird. Sorry but why are you reaching out to your cousins husband - wouldn't you want to wait for her cousin to be able to have the movie night too! Nah - it's weird. As a married 40 year woman I don't hang out w other men on my own and appreciate my husband doesn't either. Just weird no.
I agree to an extent. It's not weird to have friends over to the house and everything but it's the fact that it was the wife's cousin and no one told the wife about it. If my cousin hit my husband up while I was out of town and no one told me about it. I'd feel weird about it. It'd be weird if my husband didn't just shoot me a quick text like 'hey so and so is coming over' and I'd be like 'oh cool have fun'. And vice versa. It's just a mutual respect thing in relationships imo
@@laurapotpie Because they're all FAMILY. You're insane AND insecure. If you can't trust ANY member of your family alone with your husband and if you can't encourage strong bonds and close relationships with each other, you need help. I'm married and have been with my wife for nearly a decade and literally ANY of my family members OR friends could ask her to hangout and watch a film, even ALONE, and it'd be fine because I trust both them AND my wife. If you think that's weird YOU'RE the problem. Get help
The retail manager is definitely the asshole! Leaving at 10-10:30 is early enough to give yourself time for coffee and emails. When does he even see his kids!!
Okay but that guy wasn’t even leaving half an hour early to take some time. He is leaving the house at 8 am WHEN HE DOESN’T START WORK UNTIL 1 PM. Like even taking off the 45 minute drive, he is leaving over FOUR hours before he has to and leaving his wife to do all of the work. Like grow up dude, you chose to get married, you chose to have children, so do it.
My husband works a full time job, anywhere from 5-7 days a week and 10-16 hours a day. He does this so I can uave my dream job. Part of my money goes into savings and fun things for us but the rest goes into bills. I do about 80% of the housework, cooking, cleaning, shopping and budgeting. We didn't even have to discuss it, we both just bew it was fair that if one of us is working more then the other need to pick up a little more.
With the cleaning partners; the wife should do her 50% cleaning and since her money goes to fun stuff for herself, the husband should be able to spend a portion of his money on whatever he wants too! That could also be fun stuff; or a cleaner to take care of your half of the cleaning chore. The husband deserves some down time too. Even if that is just coming home to a clean house that helps you relax. The wife doesn’t want to hire someone because she’s uncomfortable, the problem is the husband also has the right to be comfortable in his own home.
For the little winer guy, he won't get any respect from anyone (or feel like that) until his wife starts to respect him, she did him so dirty, she knew what she was getting into, she shouldn't of laughed
Oops nudes? YIKES!! If you love your spouse, you defend them. If you fail to in the moment and they call you out on it, you apologize, you don't brush it off. This guy has been intimately exposed- literally- and his wife is not supporting him in his feelings. That sucks. We could have a whole conversation about body shaming in general, and male-part body shaming in particular, but I don't feel like going there in this context. It's a whole conversation that needs to happen in our society. But specifically for this story: I'm so sorry that this guy's wife is not more supportive of him and his feelings.
It baffles me how the wife isn’t enraged at her “friend” after being suggested to hook up with other guys, not just cause her friend didn’t respect her marriage, but also cause she didn’t respect her as a person making her seem so shallow. I would be mad at the wife so much, instead of a “i am quite happy with what i got” she responded with a “rofl”. i would say she will cheat soon with that friend encouraging her so hard.
My wife makes 3x. We both work full time but I work from home. No kids. I do the cooking, cleaning, dishes, ect. It's probably an 80/20 split on chores. So no sympathy for someone not chipping in the majority when they work part time
The first story: The wife sounds like my ex-wife. She would get super annoyed any time I did stuff with her family without asking her first. Post relationship and years of therapy later, it ended up being a control thing coupled with her actively cheating on me. My guess is the wife is not the most faithful person and probably is projecting on the husband/cousin.
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My husband has never helped with the kids or really anything else, and we've been married 21 years. I feel like I'm raising 4 special needs kids and one giant baby. His family thinks I should never expect to do anything but serve him, and it makes me think im crazy for being angry. Idek anymore
Kris get yourself a reliable cleaner, you give someone a job and make yours and Caleb’s lives easier with more time for each other. You will love it once you get used to it. A cleaner soon becomes part of your family.
I'm guessing "pseudo" refers to them not being technically married into the family or blood related, but in a very long term relationship. Like, if I date a guy for 5+ years but don't get hitched I'd probably still see their family as my in-laws and would expect them to see me that way too
On the first one, the bigger issue is that the newlyweds aren't doing well, and the wife went on an extended girls' trip to Vegas. "Girls trip to Vegas" is code for "cheating on husband". That might be why they aren't doing well (or she is already wandering from the marriage).
Yikes that guy in 2nd story, he leaves for work 5 hours before he starts, Doesnt get home til midnight. Essentially spends 8 hours a day at home, If he is getting at least 6 hours sleep than means 2 hours a day with wife and kids, that time will be spent showering and getting dressed in the morning and winding down at night his only shot for the kids even seeing him is the morning. Yeah mate you are practically not there, you might as well move out and live in a hotel, nobody is going to notice. Lets look at your schedule, leave at 9am (the latest time you have) arrive at work 9:45 work doesnt start for another 3 hours. You work until 10pm, have a workout and get home by 12. You can literally leave 2 hours later in the morning and still have over an hour for coffee and emails. Stay back a little bit and bond do you need 3 hours to grab a coffee and check emails? Its not about help its about spending time with you! This all came across as you avoiding your family, do you not want to spend time with them?
My partner & I both do retail management & have a mixed family. He has 4, I have 2, I'm 32w with #7. Despite that, we still manage to schedule time for the kids & each other. It's a demanding job when done correctly; don't get me wrong, but that doesn't mean family comes second. You have to balance the health of your job, family, & mental health & he's just letting the family health go completely.
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How is the husband and AH for having a movie night where all their kids got to have a fun time and the parents not out in Vegas also get to hang with not children all day? Like I'd only be calling him an AH playfully like "aww I missed that fun???" Not "how dare you foster family connections?!"
It means someone who takes on the parent role without actually adopting or taking legal custody or being a bio parent..holy wow..lol I didn’t even see anything like your answer when I googled it lol
I’m a manager in retail and a single mom! I don’t get a lot of time to myself anymore, what time I don’t spend at work I spend it with my son. I know I’ll probably never catch-up on sleep again, but putting all my time off work towards phone calls with my fiancé and investing in my son is just more important then “me time”.
15:06 not to be weirdly parasocial. But getting that little window into your day to day life is actually so adorable 🥰 love to see you and Caleb happy and thriving ❤️ all the best to you both ❤
Imagine asking if you were a jerk but you were the victim instead. 3rd story is tragic and surprisingly people aren't talking about it. I only see comments about the 2nd. I hope that man doesn't break down after that event and give up
We have a traditional family for my wife and I. I noticed two very different reactions from our friends, my(husband) friends give us props every time we hang out over my being able to keep the house afloat with just my income. Her friends absolutely hate that she stays home with the kiddo and constantly bitches at her to get a job to help me. Which sure it would be nice but I'd rather her raise our child than pay $500 a week for a stranger to do it
The 2nd story...whatever one is about the retail manager father... that guy pisses me off. As a father of 2 kids myself...when my first was born, I worked about 45 minutes away from home and would leave for work at 5am and not get home until 7pm....which was horrible. Within 6 months I quit that job and got a work from home job...never looked back. I do my work, but I also help with stuff like getting my kids ready in the morning before wife goes to work and stuff.
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Dude does not need 4 hours at a cafe to prepare for work. That's absurd.
nah i feel like he's got a side piece, full stop
He's got a side piece.
Ain’t no way he’s at the cafe that entire time🤣🤣💀
Not every day. I could see once a week.
The dude leaves at 9:30 ish and its 45 minutes to work so let’s call that an hour by time he gets in the cafe gets sat down laptop out etc to do his work it’s what 11ish that’s less then two hours because he still has to leave cafe and go to work by 1. So where are you getting 4 hours?
Did I leave another video for this? Yes. Am i procrastinating my school work? Yes. But Kris' video is more important.
LOL, me too.
Guys, do ur homework. I procrastinate too, way too much, and it catches up with you :(
Dude for real 😂
Do your homework while you watch the video. It doesn't have to be one or the other. 😂
Real I have exams
7:42 that dude…what??? 10000% she feels like a single mom because of his behavior. Insanity. It’s like he wants to be a father only when it’s convenient
Yeah it’s not even “feels like”, she’s fooling herself there - she straight up is a single mom, at that point
Single mother doesn't get a paycheck for no work. Is he right? No, but single mother? The guy pays for everything. If she wants to leave, no one blames her. Let's not pretend she has it hard. Doesn't work a job and gets money.
Right? Even on the weekends he spends time with his friends. She is definitely a single mother at this point and never has a break. When does he even spends time with his kids? I bet she does all of the housework and he doesn't pick up after himself. If she divorces him, she would have one less person to take care of.
@@zugetsui9971 Being a housewife and mother is a job, and one that is little recognized thanks to this mentality. Mothers work not only 8 hours a day, they work 24 hours a day for their children and family.
He doesn't want to be a father, he just wants to say he's a father.
second story. as a sahm I feel that woman so much. I get that he's in need of time because he's working to provide for his family. but that woman get ZERO time for herself. she's taking care of babies and an elderly woman. feeding kids, dressing kids, watching kids while also taking care of grandma, then home to more cleaning, cooking, and taking care of everyone but herself. you work at 1. you leave at 8 or 9?? that's insane! you can't hang out and help get the boys dressed and make a breakfast for your family while your wife gets all the bags together? (cuz two young children require so many things) you are the biggest, oozing, a hole.
"OOzing a hole" I love it. Perfect description. You get an A+
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@mylilwiener_shenziYou mean you understand their point now?
If so, good on you! We can all understand each other's perspectives if we really listen to each other 😊
yeah when does he even see his kids?
I try to explain this to younger men. Especially when your wife has younger children at home, it’s constant having to be on alert. Before and after work if you aren’t helping she never gets a break. No one should be on the clock 24/7. Not saying the man shouldn’t get a chance for rest and leisure, I’m saying we need to make sure both in the marriage do.
8:39 You are not the A*Hole…..
*You are the whole damn COLON!*
Yeah dude should’ve just stayed single forever. like wtaf.
It’s stories like this that you hope are fake
Hang on, the guy works from 1 pm to 10 pm, but he leaves about 8:30 and 9. I understand wanting to leave a little early to do the things he said. But that's not just a little early. That's several hours early. How much times he need to get a bite and a coffee and send some emails?
He left out the part where he has to swing by his girlfriends house for their morning love making. If I was in a relationship and my S/O was leaving for work 4-5 hours early every single day, I would 100% think they're cheating. An hour early to stop and get a coffee and send a couple emails? Sure, nothing wrong with that (although it's weird you can't just answer emails at home like a normal person), but people don't leave for work 4 hours early every day just to make a quick stop or two before going in. It throws up a lot of red flags.
@@ChaseSchleich way too many honestly. I left the house as close so my shift as i could. I hated working, why would i want to be there any earlier and even IF i loved my job.. 4hrs! No man, just no.
Yeaaaaaaaa that’s my thoughts exactly. Just tell your wife you’re basically a selfish prick and don’t like babies and responsibilities and that she needs to either deal with it or leave. That “uno reverse” will have her in such a tizzy she’ll abandon the kids too.
Yeah no way it’s just “coffee and sending emails”….
I feel so bad for his wife
At best he's just finding things to do that aren't at home so he doesn't have to be at home and farts around on his computer at the coffee shop for hours.
As someone who worked in retail management - nobody needs 3 extra hours to "read emails", you don't even get that many emails. MAYBE if he's a district manager or higher up, but doubtful.
That was crazy actually
I mean, also don't work outside of work. Your shift is your shift.
*clears throat* he's cheating
@@MythicalCrayonbut every day?
Yea he definitely is not at the cafe for 4hrs💀💀
On the second one, Kris missed the fact that the guy said his shift starts at 1pm its a 45 minute commute, and he's leaving the house around 830 or 9am. 😮 thats 3+ hours to sit at a cafe? Then after taking zero time with his family all week he uses weekends to hang out with friends. Yeah she called it when she said sounds innocent its gonna be the worst. Dude is trash he's more than likely cheating on his wife in that time. Or at the least clearly doesn't want to be at home with his family. Sad. Now thats a narcissist the way he spun that in the title. I bet his wife is a freaking catch too.
Agreed! IMO, his wife is automatically a catch for all she does for her family and home. She sounds like a freaking saint! I'm amazed by how calmly she seems to have handled telling her husband he needs to step up. I can only imagine the amount of stress, frustration, disappointment and resentment she's probably experiencing. He's gonna lose her if he doesn't start behaving like a real husband & father.
@MaineCoonMama18 has to be a catch, she is running her own home raising the children alone and taking care of a family member with dementia. She's a badass lol
dude, she is THE CATCH
He needs 4 hours to mentally prepare for work. He goes to the gym till midnight. Definitely the AH, like, does he even care about his kids. She need to leave him, I mean, it wouldn’t change much.
seriously it's not like he's a frequent presence
Yeah, I was like he leaves at 8:30/9 and she wants hime to wait till noon?!?? This guy clearly doesn't want the responsibilities of a family and seems very happy to let his wife handle it all. Also, there's this thing called compromise, maybe you could leave at 11 instead. Bro need like 4 before work and another hour after?!? Sounds like a cheater or just a giant a-hole.
Where did you get four hours? Lol
@ his work starts at twelve and he leaves at 8. At least I think, correct me if wrong
@@Soviet_frog51 even worse, it starts at 1. He's taking 4 hours+ before and 2 hrs after. 6 hrs of me time a day isn't even normal when you're childless. JFC what a dick
I think the pseudo MIL and SIL are her kids grandmother and aunt from her previous relationship.
Exactly, I was thinking the same thing, like her and her ex never got married but their family is still connected
Lol thats even worse. Shes hanging out with her exs family, without him, but gets mad when her cousin comes over..with the kids? .... starting to sound like projection
I believe that pseudo MIL and pseudo SIL means that they're wife's dad's common law family. That is, they're not related but dad 'made' himself another family after out-of-the-pic-for-whatever-reason (whether natural, benign or malicious) wife but there wasn't another marriage for whatever reason (whether financial or energy wise or mutual agreement) to make it all official. After all, they'd be called EX or something similar if they were from a previous marriage or relationship. Least, that's my opinion.
The only thing that makes sense. A really bizarre way to put it for sure though
I was thinking a previous ex who passed and she was close to his family or similar. I know my wifes stepmum was friendly and close to my wifes aunty so I could imagine using pseudo SIL to describe their relationship rather than trying to explain it. Otherwise it would be 'husbands, former partner who is deceased sister'. They arent technically her family but its the closest description that fits in the normal way.
I think OP said it that way to differentiate it isnt his sister/mother or such she was with.
Some thoughts:
- The movie night: Not the AH, imho. The wife is the one with the issue.
- The Coffe Shop Guy: Definitely so so sooo the AH. When does the wife get some peace and quiet or a break?
- Pictre sent to SL guy: definitely not the AH. Poor guy.
- Housework guy: Not the AH, and hire that cleaner regardless! Cleaners are liberating!
Kris pulled the Mean girls on us 00:01. TBH who isnt sick its december, everyone with a strong immune system im jealous.
Sameeeee i have a horrible immune system
I’m not sick
Sorry, but I'm never sick. Even during covid I was never sick.
I'm not sick in that way, i'm getting a brain tumour removed in a couple of days.
In regards to the 35M story- He's currently being a roommate, not a good husband or father.
I wasn’t agreeing with your comment at first…. But slowly I fell in line, especially when she read the “I enjoy my routine.” 30min early to grab coffee, and 30-45min, maybe an hour, at the gym is perfectly fine. But, how long is he at the gym if he’s not getting home until midnight? He’s definitely avoiding his home life. I feel bad for the kids.
But… I highly doubt he wasn’t displaying similar behavior when they were dating; she knew what he was like. It’s amazing how often I see good looking females telling stories about how much of a jerk they are with.
Im thinking “Ya, you started dating him because he was good looking, knew he’d be making good money, and looked past his behavior because of the other things. And now that you’re wanting an actual partner rather than ‘just a boyfriend’, you’re going to complain because he’s not relationship material, knowing full well the person he was when you met?”
@@yourlifeisagreatstory I agree, I definitely think there was probably some oversight when the couple was dating. Likely some false promises from him and "I can change him" from her.
So he's only paying for half the rent?
@@keshaponso2034Whether or not he pays all the rent doesn’t make him a father. You can’t be a good father and never take care of your kids or (seemingly) actively avoid your family.
@@PhoenixSanity Not the point I'm making.
The guy that wants time before/after work for himself....may I ask, when does your wife get time for herself? Or time with him? He also fills his weekends with plans other than his family. Shes telling him what she needs. If he doesn't listen, she'll check out.
He's not there, she might as well go live alone with the kids.
She might not though my mom didn’t until I was almost out of the house
@@Oklahoma_is_me Ya, social pressures can be hard.
He's basically already checked out.
@doom4067 and when she does the same he will be all "surprised" 🙄
As someone with a partner who has made me feel the same way this mother in the second post felt (also two young children and a stay at home), and someone who has worked retail management, that guys is definitely the AO in that situation. You wanted a family, you step up. Family comes first. You want a happy relationship? Communicate and work together. You're a team and equals, not competitors. Dear lord. Of all the videos I've watched this is the first time I've felt compelled to leave a comment with my opinion.
Keep doing what your Doing Kris! Love the content. And I hope that family gets things figured out.
Merry Crimus!
Hope you feel better auntie Kris ❤
thank youuuu
HEY KRIS!
This guy who leaves early and doesn't get home til late should probably get his stuff together, i worked 93 miles from home (Riverside CA to Agora Hills -through los Angeles) every day AND was taking care of my wife (who got cancer at 31 and passed at 34) and 2 kids, and i got up at 3AM and got home around 6PM, made dinner, spent time with them, meds and Dr app for the wife, not to talk about the 4 total months my wife and i spent in the hospital that last year and I'd go to work from the hospital room. Time for yourself?!?! With a wife and kids???? Ehat the F are you on about? This is real life, and living for your family trumps needing time for yourself.
I think it's 8am to 12pm, not 12am. I think that's fine. As long as her helps out after 12. Cos he mentioned "mornings". Since he is a working father, and mentions he is stressed about work, he needs those few hours to blew off steam. No harm taking coffee and going to gym for an hour
@@Gamespectives Wrong. It is 12am. Nothing he is doing is fine. He NEVER helps with the kids. He is NEVER around. He leaves at 8-9am to sit in a cafe until 1pm when his shift starts, he works 1pm to 10pm, then he goes to the gym, and comes home around 12am. He is gone all day. He goes to the cafe for 3-4 hours before work, works 9 hours, goes to the gym for an hour or two, and then comes home. He is gone from the house for 16-18 hours a day. Comes back when everyone is in bed. He literally only sleeps in that house. He doesn't live there.
@@zombieland9910His day sounds perfectly organised!😊👌
But then he decided to add some children into the equation. 😬🤦♀️
Bless you and your wife! I hope she recovered!
It’s easy to tell when someone has disconnected from their family and that guy is already gone. The wife needs to get a divorce and find someone that values her, her children, and the time they spend together. The kids deserve that much!
I'm so sorry for your loss! It's wonderful how much you stepped up and more people (such as men like these) should be looking up to you.
Former retail manager here. What company gives their managers an hour for lunch? I was allowed to take 30 minutes, but most of the time I couldn't actually take it because either we were too busy or I was the only manager there. I might get a lunch once every couple of months. If this dude takes an hour for lunch every day, and gets weekends off either he either doesn't work in retail or he's the kind of manager that literally everyone hates because they do next to nothing and the rest of the managers have to finish all their work.
The reason someone at a small wedding is important and it's a good point to bring out is that they are a close connection. In theory they should not be someone you're worried about sleeping with your husband.
In theory, but apparently the wife does not trust her cousin.
Fun story of mine. My sister’s abusive ex actually messaged me one day asking for nudes and he would pay me $100 and to keep quiet. I told him no and he asked that I wouldn’t tell my sister. I screenshot that ish and waited till I knew my sister would be at her home alone and sent it to her. Best mistake he ever did cause I’ve been wanting him to mess up bad enough but to literally message ME?! Out of EVERYONE for a nude!? It’s like my prayer was answered and she could finally leave him. We ended up secretly moving her out a few weeks later leaving him with a practically empty space since my sister paid for most of things or was already hers anyway 👏🏼😊 Also he was more mad that I lied to him and told my sister the truth than he was with her leaving lol
He sounds like a POS and yoy sound like a FANTASTIC sister💜 Glad everything worked out
@@ameilapippystockings8849 Thank you and me too!
0:47 She wanted to say HUSBAND so bad lMAO 😂
Real
I hate the word partner. It is too generic to describe the many levels of love that already exist in the English language .
i'm gonna spend crimus binge watching Kris's videos... that would be a very merry krismas.
8:02 not even half an hour. Dude is leaving 3 HOURS before he needs to! What’s he doing for 3 HOURS?!?!
14:34 she puts in zero money for living expenses and only does %50 of the housework? Poor dude is getting screwed.
And she works part time while he works full time. I think she should be doing 3/4th of the housework but doesn't even do 50%. I agree, he's getting screwed.
11:51 in case this happens to anyone, be aware, that is actually a federal crime. the wife committed a felony. do with that info what you will
Sending pics of your husband to another person is a crime? I mean, I can understand being upset about it for sure. It’s heartbreaking like Kris said but sending it accidentally being a felony seems outrageous. Unless maybe it was a child. But even then if it’s an accident then felony still seems a bit steep
I think that's a crime where intent matters, but I may be wrong (I'm not a lawyer). So, I think the accident defense would legitimately work there, since it isn't like, young person related content (censoring for TH-cam, but you know what I'm referring to). That wouldn't require intent at all, but the revenge corn/similar statutes I believe do require intent.
That being said, how the f*ck do you screw that up, as Kris said, YOU CAN SEE THE PICTURE BEFORE IT SENDS. So might be hard to convince a jury it was a mistake, but if it honestly was, I think it's technically a defense (though again, not a lawyer, and this is absolutely NOT LEGAL ADVICE)
@@ryanc473is there really a way to prove it was intentional? I mean everyone could write "it was an accident" after they've sent something like that to someone?
(I genuinely mean it as a question 😅)
To be a crime of revenge you have to be able to establish intent and convince a jury it was done maliciously (the “LoL ROFLMAO” response with no follow up “Sorry, I didn’t mean to send that” could easily be proposed as shaming behavior to a jury) but without malicious intent or the pic being sent to a minor you can’t really do much but sue them for negligence that resulted in an invasion of your privacy. But honestly, if you suspect something to be abnormal with your body you should go see a doctor, you shouldn’t need your spouse to critically think for you if that isn’t their area of expertise.
Don’t lose hope….everyone always can use a hug and a smile. Kris you are our hope with all the laughs! ❤🙏🏻
Hey Kris! Have you and Caleb ever thought about doing Sugar Free Sourboys (Is it even possible? lol) I'm a diabetic so I think about these things :) Dang Kris raked Cafe Guy over the coals! but as a man he 100% deserved it lol.
I was thinking the same thing we need sugar free sourboys!
Same! Just without maltitol lol save our blood sugar and stomachs 😂❤️
yep diabetic here and i would love to try them but cant due to the sugar so i just tell everyone else to get them
7:22 sooo this guy just doesn’t want to spend any time with his family/ helping his wife ? Am I understanding that right? 😅😂
Oh, absolutely, he’s the a-hole for sure
I seriously have my doubts about the truthfullness of the wife in that d-pic story. How does one accidently send an embarrassing photo of their husband's squishy bits and then laugh when they mock him?
I mean, people sometimes make mistakes. And clicking the wrong image can happen, so it isn’t that weird, even if it is very unfortunate.
Her reaction after doing so is horrible though.
True that seemed purposely done. I feel mad on behalf of the guy 😡
@hazelmint6671 Same here. If anyone reading this is having trouble seeing the horrific double standard at play here, switch all of their genders, tell the story to a group of friends, and guage their reactions. I'm certain excuses like, "I sent it by accident" and "I didn't think that would upset you" ain't gonna fly.
Yeah, I don't know what their situation is, like if they have kids or not. But I don't even have any kids, and any spicy photos or anything similar that are shared between my partner and me, automatically get deleted or moved into a locked folder. So there are absolutely no chances of anyone else seeing them or any "accidents" happening where they could be sent to anyone. So I really don't understand how this could have happened. ESPECIALLY because she most likely would have either had to share the photo directly from the message from her husband, or she would have had to have saved the picture he sent to her photos, in order for her to "accidently" send it to her sister. I call BS.
@jeanams07 I know right? It's not as if she could have simply tapped on the wrong photo and off it went. At the very least, it would have required her to mess up at every step of a three step process.
And don't even get me started on her horrible taste in friends. What sort of person would even think to do something like that?
As someone whose father was ONLY a provider, we have a terrible relationship, and honestly? Is rather have been less well off with a father who was present and who was invested and active in my life. My father shouldn't have children, and neither should this guy.
I felt that way for the longest time! My dad was the sole provider (although they actually did make that decision together and mum worked when my brother was small and only stopped after they had me). He was working long hours - actually working, not dilly-dallying at the café - and doing nightschool, later on switching to constant courses and trainings. He was grumpy and irritable when he got home late at night, constantly stressed out and short-tempered. On weekends we had to go do the big grocery shop which almost always ended in him shouting at us (years later we now know that most of us in the family are adhd/autistic and his sensory overload was through the roof nonstop due to work and masking), then house chores and cleaning which always made him angry too (again, sensory overload from all the noise etc).
You know what fixed it? He had a horrible burnout when I was around 12-13, went through major depression and $uicidal ideation, spent some time in a mental health clinic. It was the worst time for all of us. But some time after that he slowed down, he got his adhd diagnosis and treatment, he learned to handle his emotions better, he picked up the slack at home etc. Took a couple years and a couple hiccups and me completely icing him out during my teenage years because of years of built up resentment, and today he’s the best dad I could ask for.
If he had never gone through that I would still not be talking to him at all. It is too little too late but he knows it and it hurts him as much as it hurts us and thus we could move on.
I feel very sorry for anyone who doesn’t get to experience this type of growth from their parents 🩷 we all deserve it
My wife and I had the same hesitance about hiring cleaners (especially as we’re in a major city, so the idea of them just walking off with stuff or quietly judging us for our poor housekeeping seemed more valid to us). When we reached a tipping point, we broke down and hired a company and they seriously deep cleaned the place. It was a real game changer.
It honestly helps me with my sanity immensely, I am amazed at anyone where everyone works full time and still have time to keep their house clean AND are happy
As a fellow retail manager, if you have to leave your house & family HOURS before clocking in, this line of work is not for u 🤓 he is the a-hole
8:42 yeah, many of us enjoy our alone time and routine, but we sacrifice for the ones we love.... Tbh his wife is a bit of a pushover, for letting bro come home at midnight
I mean if you get off at 10. Midnights not that crazy. Everyone should be asleep anyway.
It's the leaving 4 hours early for work thing that is the worst part.
@@lucaleone4331that AND him deciding that he needs to go to the gym every single day instead of using those two hours for his family.
3:40 sounds like she may have cheated on that girls' trip, and she's looking for something to make her feel better. 🤷
I feel like this is a possibility
CAN WE YAVE A VID OF U PLAYING BOARD GAMES AND SUCH WITH CELINA CALEB AND HAY PLSSSSS
First story, dude did nothing wrong.
The wife has severe insecurity issues. You're allowed to have friends of the opposite sex over. Even alone. The wife needs to freakin talk to OP and stop freaking out.
If anything that's a red flag that SHE may be cheating
based
No it's weird. Sorry but why are you reaching out to your cousins husband - wouldn't you want to wait for her cousin to be able to have the movie night too! Nah - it's weird. As a married 40 year woman I don't hang out w other men on my own and appreciate my husband doesn't either. Just weird no.
@@laurapotpie if your husband was bisexual could he have zero male friends either?
I agree to an extent. It's not weird to have friends over to the house and everything but it's the fact that it was the wife's cousin and no one told the wife about it. If my cousin hit my husband up while I was out of town and no one told me about it. I'd feel weird about it. It'd be weird if my husband didn't just shoot me a quick text like 'hey so and so is coming over' and I'd be like 'oh cool have fun'. And vice versa. It's just a mutual respect thing in relationships imo
@@laurapotpie Because they're all FAMILY.
You're insane AND insecure. If you can't trust ANY member of your family alone with your husband and if you can't encourage strong bonds and close relationships with each other, you need help.
I'm married and have been with my wife for nearly a decade and literally ANY of my family members OR friends could ask her to hangout and watch a film, even ALONE, and it'd be fine because I trust both them AND my wife.
If you think that's weird YOU'RE the problem. Get help
Its always a fun time to watch kris! She just cheers me up so much! even in hard times like today! LOVEYOU KRISSS
To quote Dusty Thunder “you can’t be an asshole for feeling something, but you can be an asshole on what you do with those feelings.”
Hard asf
The retail manager is definitely the asshole! Leaving at 10-10:30 is early enough to give yourself time for coffee and emails. When does he even see his kids!!
9:22 We literally went DAMN at the exact same time girl😂
Okay but that guy wasn’t even leaving half an hour early to take some time. He is leaving the house at 8 am WHEN HE DOESN’T START WORK UNTIL 1 PM. Like even taking off the 45 minute drive, he is leaving over FOUR hours before he has to and leaving his wife to do all of the work. Like grow up dude, you chose to get married, you chose to have children, so do it.
Kris and Caleb are becoming one
"LONG WALK OFF A SHORT PIER" 😂😂😂😂
My husband works a full time job, anywhere from 5-7 days a week and 10-16 hours a day. He does this so I can uave my dream job. Part of my money goes into savings and fun things for us but the rest goes into bills. I do about 80% of the housework, cooking, cleaning, shopping and budgeting. We didn't even have to discuss it, we both just bew it was fair that if one of us is working more then the other need to pick up a little more.
bew or knew? lol
@kellz6266 haha knew, sorry it's what I got for multitasking
With the cleaning partners; the wife should do her 50% cleaning and since her money goes to fun stuff for herself, the husband should be able to spend a portion of his money on whatever he wants too! That could also be fun stuff; or a cleaner to take care of your half of the cleaning chore. The husband deserves some down time too. Even if that is just coming home to a clean house that helps you relax.
The wife doesn’t want to hire someone because she’s uncomfortable, the problem is the husband also has the right to be comfortable in his own home.
well said!!
1:55 yes “mos.” Is sometimes the abbreviation for months 👌
For the little winer guy, he won't get any respect from anyone (or feel like that) until his wife starts to respect him, she did him so dirty, she knew what she was getting into, she shouldn't of laughed
Oops nudes? YIKES!! If you love your spouse, you defend them. If you fail to in the moment and they call you out on it, you apologize, you don't brush it off. This guy has been intimately exposed- literally- and his wife is not supporting him in his feelings. That sucks. We could have a whole conversation about body shaming in general, and male-part body shaming in particular, but I don't feel like going there in this context. It's a whole conversation that needs to happen in our society. But specifically for this story: I'm so sorry that this guy's wife is not more supportive of him and his feelings.
It baffles me how the wife isn’t enraged at her “friend” after being suggested to hook up with other guys, not just cause her friend didn’t respect her marriage, but also cause she didn’t respect her as a person making her seem so shallow.
I would be mad at the wife so much, instead of a “i am quite happy with what i got” she responded with a “rofl”. i would say she will cheat soon with that friend encouraging her so hard.
@@sadek__4952 Not her "friend" - her sister!! Even worse!
My wife makes 3x. We both work full time but I work from home. No kids. I do the cooking, cleaning, dishes, ect. It's probably an 80/20 split on chores. So no sympathy for someone not chipping in the majority when they work part time
The first story:
The wife sounds like my ex-wife. She would get super annoyed any time I did stuff with her family without asking her first. Post relationship and years of therapy later, it ended up being a control thing coupled with her actively cheating on me. My guess is the wife is not the most faithful person and probably is projecting on the husband/cousin.
I love your videos so much, it feels like my best friend talking to me , not someone MANY miles away ❤I’m so glad I found your content, you’re amazing and TH-cam is so lucky to have you! ❤
I would love to see Kris do more attempts at makeup, like scene or goth glam, or even full glam
I love that Caleb has shared his business with you and that you’re actively involved. That’s so goals
My husband has never helped with the kids or really anything else, and we've been married 21 years. I feel like I'm raising 4 special needs kids and one giant baby. His family thinks I should never expect to do anything but serve him, and it makes me think im crazy for being angry. Idek anymore
Just divorce him
Kris get yourself a reliable cleaner, you give someone a job and make yours and Caleb’s lives easier with more time for each other. You will love it once you get used to it. A cleaner soon becomes part of your family.
The third one, he's absolutely not the scallywag. That's huge betrayal.
I'm guessing "pseudo" refers to them not being technically married into the family or blood related, but in a very long term relationship. Like, if I date a guy for 5+ years but don't get hitched I'd probably still see their family as my in-laws and would expect them to see me that way too
On the first one, the bigger issue is that the newlyweds aren't doing well, and the wife went on an extended girls' trip to Vegas. "Girls trip to Vegas" is code for "cheating on husband". That might be why they aren't doing well (or she is already wandering from the marriage).
I love you and Caleb. You guys make me smile. Thank you!
I left a funeral to watch this 🫡
You're a true fan
That's evil
You can't spell "funeral" without "fun."
Or "Earl.". Hopefully he wasn't named Earl.
@@adamfrey4920And now I've got the song Goodbye Earl stuck in my head. Thanks for that. 😂
@@Unseeing_demonits just a joke
I love it when you fo these stories Kris!! These are some of my favorite videos!!
6:43 hmmmm WHAT ABOUT YOUR WIFE HUH?! SHE DOESNT GET PEACE AND QUIET!
9:46 Idk why this scene was hilarious😭😭
Get well soon Kris! ❤
The first scenario, if the cousin doesn't ask to get together when your wife is there, then yeah you should probably politely decline.
Get well soon!!!
Happy Holidays!!!
I have not been feeling very well for the past 2 days this actually made me smile Thank you Kris!! I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS ♥️
Just looked it up, pseudo siblings/parents are not your siblings or parents but have a relationship of that kind
Ok but why the in law part?
That’s the part that’s confusing
"a long walk off a short pier" with the zoom had me dead 😭😭
Did I leave a Twich stream for this video?
Yes.
Do I regret it?
Absolutely not!
THE QUEEN IS BACKKK!!!!! UR AWESOME KRIS!!! I love how this title is ''I've lost hope in humanity''. I lost hope in humanity a LONG LONG time ago.
I saw Crimus open for Crime Inch Nails back in '98.
6:58 first time i heard kris say WoMP wOMp 😂
Yikes that guy in 2nd story, he leaves for work 5 hours before he starts, Doesnt get home til midnight. Essentially spends 8 hours a day at home, If he is getting at least 6 hours sleep than means 2 hours a day with wife and kids, that time will be spent showering and getting dressed in the morning and winding down at night his only shot for the kids even seeing him is the morning. Yeah mate you are practically not there, you might as well move out and live in a hotel, nobody is going to notice.
Lets look at your schedule, leave at 9am (the latest time you have) arrive at work 9:45 work doesnt start for another 3 hours.
You work until 10pm, have a workout and get home by 12.
You can literally leave 2 hours later in the morning and still have over an hour for coffee and emails.
Stay back a little bit and bond do you need 3 hours to grab a coffee and check emails? Its not about help its about spending time with you! This all came across as you avoiding your family, do you not want to spend time with them?
My partner & I both do retail management & have a mixed family. He has 4, I have 2, I'm 32w with #7.
Despite that, we still manage to schedule time for the kids & each other. It's a demanding job when done correctly; don't get me wrong, but that doesn't mean family comes second. You have to balance the health of your job, family, & mental health & he's just letting the family health go completely.
I love Kris the queen has posted 🙏
That story with the guy going to the cafe HAS to be some sort of rage bait there is noooooooooo way
Kris posting made my day🩶
I have two random questions, do you like Harry Styles, and my second one is, do you have Harry Styles posters in your room?? I love watching your videos, thank you for making me laugh ❤❤
Kharmatika's response for the MFING WIN!!! 9:13
That poor man! His wife sending his nudes and making fun of him!? So fucking sad. He’s NTAH 😢
She could always enter the workforce & he can become a stay at home dad.
I love kallmekris!
How is the husband and AH for having a movie night where all their kids got to have a fun time and the parents not out in Vegas also get to hang with not children all day? Like I'd only be calling him an AH playfully like "aww I missed that fun???" Not "how dare you foster family connections?!"
5:05 since no one answered my curiosity, I googled “pseudo mother in law” which means “A deceitful mother-in-law”.
Uh no lol
It means someone who takes on the parent role without actually adopting or taking legal custody or being a bio parent..holy wow..lol I didn’t even see anything like your answer when I googled it lol
That’s not what that means. It’s a stand in mother in law. Meaning it’s not actually her mother in law.
@ Google it
@@heathermarriette-ny1fy weird. I got the same results when I goggled it again. I don’t know how that happened but you’re right.
I’m a manager in retail and a single mom! I don’t get a lot of time to myself anymore, what time I don’t spend at work I spend it with my son. I know I’ll probably never catch-up on sleep again, but putting all my time off work towards phone calls with my fiancé and investing in my son is just more important then “me time”.
Hi Kris
Is no one talking about 4:35 💀 im giggling i cant i use that meme sm😭
Hi
Love your channel, you always make me smile. I do feel bad for Pete though. I feel a real kindred connection to dragons.
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15:06 not to be weirdly parasocial. But getting that little window into your day to day life is actually so adorable 🥰 love to see you and Caleb happy and thriving ❤️ all the best to you both ❤
Love your work, Kris! Plan on trying your candy soon. Not a sour fan but I'll give your guys' a shot. Who knows maybe I might find one thing I like.
Am I watching this in class? Yes. Do I care? No. This is more important than schoolwork
Imagine asking if you were a jerk but you were the victim instead. 3rd story is tragic and surprisingly people aren't talking about it. I only see comments about the 2nd. I hope that man doesn't break down after that event and give up
We have a traditional family for my wife and I. I noticed two very different reactions from our friends, my(husband) friends give us props every time we hang out over my being able to keep the house afloat with just my income. Her friends absolutely hate that she stays home with the kiddo and constantly bitches at her to get a job to help me. Which sure it would be nice but I'd rather her raise our child than pay $500 a week for a stranger to do it
"I like to leave the house a little early to get to my job" leaves at 8am for a 1pm job....
The 2nd story...whatever one is about the retail manager father... that guy pisses me off. As a father of 2 kids myself...when my first was born, I worked about 45 minutes away from home and would leave for work at 5am and not get home until 7pm....which was horrible. Within 6 months I quit that job and got a work from home job...never looked back. I do my work, but I also help with stuff like getting my kids ready in the morning before wife goes to work and stuff.
I was thinking about your sour boys candy, and then I had an idea. What if instead of using normal sugar, you used maple sugar! Cuz your from Canada, and it would be a fun experiment. Love ur vids!
"My beautiful, beautiful boyfriend..." (GOAT SCREAM) 🤣🤣🤣
I hope you feel better Kris.