It's so crazy how everyones perspective is different, because we are the same age and also our bday is both in Dec. I remember when we were in the same age and you were doing all these big things in your early 20s and I was feeling so bad about myself like "we are the same age and she has house, cars, kids, marriage, success" while I was enjoying my early 20s and going out, having fun, being wild. In your head you feel these years were in a sense taken from you, and in my head, I was feeling bad not having accomplished the things you had. Just a reminder to both of us, everyone's path is different and to embrace our unique life journey
I understand not hitting all your goals but always give yourself grace. You are doing amazing and you have 3 healthy beautiful children. 2025 is a new start to trying again. You got this!!!
Naz, be kind to yourself ❤️You have hit over a decades worth of milestones in just a few years. The great thing about New Year’s resolutions is that it can always be added on again!
I have been a viewer for YEARS and hear me when I say Naz, you are one of the most mature and level headed women on this platform. You have always been such a breath of fresh air!!! So well-spoken and thoughtful. I hope 2025 brings you everything you need 🤍🫶🏼
I love the vulnerability you show, it’s so refreshing to see someone so open and honest about things that many people wouldn’t because of judgement! Wishing you a great next year ❤
I just wanna say literally everything you said is exactly what my therapist said to me. I was crying to her how I do not want to be the way my parents were yelling for the smallest things and my son is only 3 and I pray I haven’t already ruined his mental health because I feel like when I get overstimulated all I do is yell. And she asked about work and life and how I make time for myself and I was like I guess I really don’t. And she was like you are overwhelmed and do not have time for yourself to recharge and you’re pouring from an empty cup. The whole video I was just nodding and saying yup
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My son is 2 and sometimes I’m the same way and I feel so guilty. I want to be the perfect mom but I’m just not.
This literally made me tear up ! I see me in what you said about being overwhelmed and preserved as an angry woman/wife/mom/full time worker/ student… it’s insane !!! Thank you for putting this out there, sometimes I literally feel like taking a min a screaming it out lol.
THAT PART! THAT “RANT” was food for my SOUL!! Listening to you as I’m cleaning the whole house for New Years as my man takes a nap before we go out tonight, thinking “I got to get this alllll done in a couple hours” but NO I DONT. AND NO I WONT. Because it can wait. I think I’m gonna go nap next to him now. Love u Naz
Everything you said is so true & real! Being overwhelmed, stressed, exhausted & burnt out will having you lashing out, yelling & screaming, it will having you questioning yourself like this is not who I am
I love these kinds of videos, it really feels like a diary and really inspiring. You can really reflect and look back on life and to look forward in life. I hope nothing but the best for you for 2025 thank you for sharing your thoughts ❤
Yes, traveling is okay to put it on the back burner, try to remember to be thankful to God for giving you more freedom in this country. It's not all about luxury life, the luxury life ends and we don't take it to heaven. Enjoy your freedom. ❤❤❤
I hate commenting on stuff cuz it’s so lame but anyone saying she is complaining too much and she’s so blessed and you want her life and don’t understand why she’s complaining. YOU are so privileged to even have the ability and capacity to care enough about someone else’s complaining to complain about it. Yes I want her lifestyle but I can’t imagine the amount of stress and pressure it would take to create that type of life let alone what it would take to maintain it. That’s why I’m not living it right now. I’m stressed out and it’s just me working a normal job and I complain everyday. Everyone does. You can be so grateful and still complain it’s human.
Girl I was sitting here organizing and bagging me and my daughters old clothes to donate before the new year, and this pep talk really helped me out ❤ much love
The thing is that everyone has their own battle they’re fighting. Even though for one person may look like complaining and “you have it easy” for that person may be a battlefield.
You’re such a breath of fresh air Naz!! Thank you for bringing the “realness” to this journey that we’re on. Keep up the amazing work and PLEASE keep inspiring us to grow with you. 🥰 Happy New Year babes!!🥳
A raw genuine vlog. That’s what this is and it’s something the internet needs more of in 2025. True & authentic. Just you. Love you Naz I appreciate this. It’s strength and confidence to even be able to dive deep like this. Something most avoid! So thank you God Bless You Naz🤍
I love you naz!!! Please never stop posting about your REAL life! The haters can scroll past, or even better let them leave those comments… it’s engagement lol AND your real fans are here listening, understanding, and supporting ❤❤❤ whether you set or finish those goals, you’re still THAT GIRL 🌟💘💕🩷 This season is temporary and god will work it all out for you, even in the thick of it 🙏
We so appreciate your vulnerability and your feelings are valid. I was recently discussing similar topics with my husband. We don’t have children yet, we’re waiting until our 30s, God knows best. But I saw saying it’s wild that we as women have these societal pressures that we put on ours. We legit want to do it all and feel inadequate when we don’t. Burn out is real and it’s not possible to do it all 24/7 and still be mentally and physically well. Thankfully more of us are acknowledging our limits and that doesn’t define us. We should be thankful that we can get help when needed. We as women need to support each others choices and not be so quick to judge. Thank you, for this and I can’t wait to see what 2025 has in store for you! 👏🏾🎉
One thing that makes me come back to your channel and tune in every week is because you show the REAL. I love the raw emotions that you show and how it feels like we are on FaceTime. I’ve been a subscriber since your prom videos…that’s how I found you and I stayed because you never shy away from keeping it real. Thank you ❤
Naz I turned 25 last year too and I swear everything you described is exactly why I quit my job! I couldn’t do it all and I tried so hard to. I had to let go of something
You have health and family, without health its hard to enjoy anything. Traveling sometimes takes away ambition because here in the US were so programmed to work but traveling opens up a new mindset
Some of these comments are so dumb. People complain influencers are fake, yet, we have some like Naz that are real & transparent and yall don’t like it. But if she were to gatekeep, lie, or be private - she’s boring or fake. Weirdos. If you don’t like the content or person simply unsubscribe or exit out the video. What do yall get from speaking negatively about a person you don’t even know on a personal level?? Insensitive, mean, & straight up crazy. Thank you for your content Naz. Happy holidays to you and yours!
This probably the most relatable video of seen from you!! Thank you for being real. I also have 3 children my youngest being 1.5 years old. I feel you girl!
First of all I loved this video. This was so real, and exactly what I’ve been needing to hear in so many ways. Literally every single second of this video was so valuable to me I want to play it back and watch it again. This level of honesty isn’t even shown with friends or family sometimes. Mostly due to time it’s always “I’m fine” “I’m okay”.. never so I hear drawn out feelings and explanations and healthy boundaries talked about like this. I loved this Naz💗💗 I’ve been here since I was 12, I’m 22 now and I can’t tell you how much you’ve shifted my perspectives and helped guide me through life. I know you may not know me but you’ve really impacted my life, Thank you girl🤍
Naz you’re inspiring me to take on social media seriously as a working mom. My sons 2 and my FT job can feel so repetitive and I’m excited to be creative and seeing it play out. Excited 😊 happy holidays to you and your family
Home run! The last part about looking back at how our parents would scream about the most simple question made the most sense because you’re right they would pour into our cups only and would loose themselves! I wasn’t gonna go get my nails done cause I felt bad for stepping out but now I am most definitely going!
Gosh Naz, we are SO much alike in our beliefs and our standards of ourselves as women as well, must partly be the ♐️ in us ☺️ So happy when I see influencers talking about real life topics and women also shedding light on us not having to hold those ‘expected’ standards. Very passionate about all this right now too. So much realization in 2024 and even more of applying it in 2025 🥂
I love how you’re saying I just want to vent! I love to do that as well. We all have our own feelings and feeling overwhelmed you just wanna say everything you feel. Love this video Naz!!
I love how real you are. It's so hard to find that on social media nowadays. I'm like you who doesn't like seeing aesthetically pleasing videos. My life is complete chaos most of the time so when people like you say yours is too. It makes me feel like we are all in this together. Love you Naz! ❤ I'm glad you are putting yourself first.
You opened my eyes.. I was trying so hard everyday to do so much stuff, but lately I gave myself some grace! I don’t have to do everything in one day,just small victories. I’m doing enough and I tell myself well done,my kids are happy and that’s all that matters💖 thank you for opening my eyes Naz
Thank you for always sharing the truth, I too decided that I will not be doing it all when I found out that I am having another baby. I quit my full time job because this is insane how they expect women to do all that. I have an almost 2 year old, I was working full time and in grad school plus trying to tap into creating content. I felt like I couldn't breathe especially during the first trimester of pregnancy so yeah... no 2025 I will not be spreading myself that thin especially when I am blessed to have my partner and family around to support me. ❤
I don't have kids yet but I’ve always said that I would be the type of mother that put herself first so I could show up as the best version of myself for my kids. As the oldest daughter of a very overworked and overwhelmed immigrant mother, thank you. She was an amazing mother but she was often exhausted, irritated and it impacted so much of who I am today. I wish she would have put had herself first, taken the time to develop her own hobbies and relationships. The internet is going to say whatever but you know you've doing the right thing for your kids!! ❤
I think the reason why those videos of SAHM’s get so much hate is because they make it seem like parenting is easy. For instance, the “trad wife” trend, is beyond unrealistic for most Americans. It’s impossible to make bread from scratch and hold a baby on your hip while your husband is at work and you have 5 other children that you’re homeschooling. You are being honest about how motherhood is, you cannot just do it alone and if you are it’s very difficult. I have one son and we are not having another for a while due to how difficult it is and we have extra help, but our families also have lives.
I absolutely love the chat at the end of the video!!! Do not let some comments affect you, majority of us here are here to see the raw content (especially us mothers). I’m not here for a sugar coated life 😂 and you never disappoint. I can relate so much to the way you feel and I actually have not been putting myself first, and I am that person you mentioned (constantly stressed) so this was a wake up call. Thank you for doing what you do! ❤
Naz the way this hit for me ❤ I’m in such a similar dynamic as you 3 kids , a 4 year old and 2 year old twins. Working in a leadership role in healthcare and babyyyyy the way this year has brought to light exactly what you said about the overhelm and burnout! Thank you for being real and talking about it you’re 100% correct this country glamorizes/rewards suffering and after getting myself into therapy I’m realizing more and more that I have also been inflicting a lot of my suffering on myself because of the idea of trying to be all of the things and do all of the things. I’ve reached that point; I’m like hire the house cleaner, get the hello fresh I’m over it and I’m tired. I just spoke with my therapist and husband yesterday and we all agree that taking a leave of absence from work is next on the list ❤
Girl being a mom is so hard cannot even imagine 😭 and I feel you on people telling you you complain I am a resident doctor and whenever I vent about my career people tell me I should be grateful and how others want it like babes sometimes the grass isn’t greener on the other side 😭 praying that you get many blessings and more in 2025 💕
Naz, don't feel bad for travelling a lot this year! I always wonder why influencers don't travel more often, if I had the money I would travel more too, the world is so big and what you gain from travelling increases the richness and quality of your life and mental health! As you said, you have 3 kids at home and are working all the time, you absolutely needed time for yourself/for you and Mel to get out and take your mind off things. Best wishes for 2025!
You’re doing a good job mama.. I know it’s easy to focus on what’s lacking, but please don’t forget your track record and the beautiful life and humans you have created over the years. I know you didn’t ask for advice, but I just wanted to share what helps me: which is keeping a notepad of all of my accomplishments. Whenever I’m stuck in these ruts like I’m not doing enough, the list helps center me and remind me of the beauty I’ve created. I know it’s so tempting to want every area of your life to thrive all at the same time and how frustrating that can be
Wish i could subscribe to your channel multiple times and like this video multiple times because, man you don't even know how the ending of this video hits home
You are doing a wonderful job, and are such a great mom, wife, sister, daughter and friend! You are an inspiration to so many people and are the FACE of hard work, authenticity and dedication. Your love and kindness is always authentic and genuine and thanks for always letting us in even when it’s difficult to do so and people bring you down. 2025 I’m taking on a “Naz mentality” which is more just showing up for people and myself authentically and have the discipline and hard work you’ve had for literally your whole life 😂❤ maybe we can all come back monthly, quarterly and see how we all are progressing as the year goes and lean on each other, because this really is just like me FaceTiming my girls 😊 love you Naz, and may the universe continue to bless you and your family and peace of mind and grace be for all of us! 🎉
I honestly love your transparency , we are human !! And im honestly tired of seeing all of these influencers put on this façade That everything is perfect all the time. Really a fresh of breath air. I’m so for Naz and her idgaf era !
I love you Naz ❤️ I’ve been here since day 1 and I always look forward to your uploads. You’ve came so far and I’m very proud of the beautiful woman you are becoming.
Naz, thank you for being so authentic and real. I love your venting videos! Just like podcasts and audiobooks are what you listen to when you go on walks or clean, your sit down venting sessions are what I listen to when I go for a walk. Never stop sharing who you truly are. I think it not only helps us to relate to you, but also allows you to heal from any stresses you are going through because you're letting out your emotions and not holding them in. We (speaking for the non-haters ONLY) love you so much!!!
Naz you’re such an inspiration. 💗I seriously admire the way you are trying to achieve balance in your life amidst the many hats you wear. Give yourself more grace, girl! We only see moments of your life and it’s impressive enough without knowing what more goes on! 👏🏽
I enjoyed this video so much!! Thank you so much for the vulnerability Naz! Girl it’s so important to set boundaries. I can’t wait to see all the blessings god has for you and your family this year !
You’re doing an amazing job Mama! I can completely relate growing up in a foreign household and the expectations they held for us. I also agree with you on being a mother my children will not see always upset and angry. We all definitely need to be our best selves and in return will be best for our little ones.
Love what you said about the angry outburst! I started thinking that I’m an angry person when I’m not and it made me feel so bad about myself. I am def trying to do everything. Thanks for saying that! I’m going to try to take a step back and work on what’s going to make me happy for the day! ❤
Naz thank you for coming on here and being so vulnerable, and real. I am so proud of you for standing up for yourself and for other women who feel the same way about judgmental comments. You gave all the moms a voice and even though I can’t have kids because I had cancer, I respect moms so much more because of your video and how real you are! 🥹 keep going we love you ❤❤❤❤
Max I feeelllll this!!! I'm not a mother or a wife but this year I've realized I spent all of my life taking on toooooo many roles and my body let me know. It's so hard to go against societal programming and shame when you can't sustainably do all these tasks. Especially when you feel like you juggled them so well before. These things are not realistic and boundaries are needed 🥰
The crash out at the end is so Sag coded coming from a fellow Sag omfg especially the commentary on being brainwashed to love the struggle!!! Yes girl talk your shitttt!! I want more of this❤
I love watching your videos, it’s been a whileMom of 2 with husband battling end stage kidney disease, a job, help husband run his business and I started a soap brand has been the hardest thing ever so I get exactly what you are saying. Putting yourself first is for sure going to make a difference. Recognizing this is a big plus, I have too said it’s my fault, I need to change this and let go of this, I one day cried reflecting like you that I don’t want my kids to remember me as a yelling stressed mom😭. Just know you are not alone. We are so many mommies feeling this way. Thats one of the main reasons I started my little tiny soap brand Encefalo Beauty to serve as a reminder that even in tough times it’s possible to find moments of peace. Especially for mommies and caregivers. All the best to you. Whats meant to come into your life will come at the right time. 💞☺️
No fr when it’s to perfect I be skipping over the vid. Your vids are relatable especially bc I’m a mom as well. But yes as woman we have to give ourselves grace. We’re all doing the damn thing, so just breathe.
Naz I really related to everything you said in this video! I have been feeling guilty for years about doing things for myself. I was getting frustrated with myself for being that way! it’s the pressure that everyone puts on us to be this perfect mother and literally live for our children and it’s dragging my personality down with it! I have 5 kids 7 and under including a newborn and it’s more than overwhelming sometimes and I feel lost in being a mom. Im really trying to train myself to stop feeling guilty for doing things for myself like getting a nanny and going out to the gym or self care! I’m with you 100% you do you girl and be happy. I don’t want my kids to remember me overstimulated 80% of the time!
Naz, I’m 29 years old no kids and you are my comfort creator!!!🫶🏻 you are so relatable, real, and beautiful! Thank you for being you. 🤩 can’t wait to see what 2025 has in store! Happy new year to you & yours! & to everyone reading this comment! 🎉
I saw those comments from that video about you complaining and just wanted to know ur not alone, it definitely isnt easy having 3 kids so young. Im 25 and had 3 kids in 3 years literally right along with you and it takes such a toll on you on a daily basis. Maybe most viewers probably Wouldn’t understand but I’m so inspired by all that you do!
Thank you for opening up and expressing your emotions ! You’re human and allowed to do that.. You work extremely hard. You should be so proud of yourself. You inspire me!🩷
Naz, the reason why I love watching ur videos is because you are so open minded and you teach me to see other perspectives. I love love love ur videos. Pls don’t let these comments get to you. My favorite video of urs is when u just sit and talk to the camera. I admire u and I’m glad ur teaching us boundaries. I aspire to be like you, u motivate me to become the best version of myself. I can see how hard you work. I can watch you talk for hours that’s why I love ur podcast. I feel like you just have a strong mindset and it’s so rare to find TH-camrs like that.
I think it’s very normal for you to feel overwhelmed you work so damn hard and you have three kids. I really hope you take some time to relax and unwind it’s so important to slow down to recharge! Love you Naz!
The last part about our parents being stressed all the time was the revelation I needed to hear! So I won’t repeat that I want life to be simple and surrendered to God and not man ( I.e breaking your back to live in the world)
The idiots calling this complaining even though you're dropping disclaimers and gratitude prompts every two seconds need to go on a century long happy hour. All I'm seeing is a woman trying to process her role in the world, trying to distinuish between her inner voice and that of society's, trying to figure out what's truly fair and realistic to expect of herself in her various endeavours across the different seasons of life.. this is too much the hell with people! As women, not only are we doing everything, but we also got no map and have to draw one in realtime while on the effin road. So let a woman BE. If you're not constantly questioning and reflecting on yourself and your life as a human being, you're either dumb or arrogant, and arrogant is another word for dumb.
Thank you for the end of this video. Im in the thick of it also. Have 5 kids, stay at home mom, homeschool 2, and happen to be someone who is a people pleaser who lost her father recently. There are major changes I need to make so many changes for 2025. My husband is also so amazing and does so much extra, but I need to ALLOW him to instead of feeling guilty. I am so triggered always and I want my kids to want to come over when they leave not thankful to be gone. The fact I made it to the end of year without prison or mental health facility is amazing. Please know that woman like me love your honesty and videos because woman like me are home so much we rarely have that many friends and so this is good for me to hear I am not alone in my thoughts.
The people not understanding her, are part of the problem, also the reason why so many millionaires are suffering with depression and even worst, offing themselves, MONEYYYYY does NOT equal happiness. This young woman has a lot of responsibilities, and when you CARE, it can be very stressful, however, will get done, let her vent in peace damn.
Thank you for being so vulnerable ❤️ I have no idea what it’s like to be a mother, let alone to 3 children, but if anyone can pull through - it’s you! I hope 2025 is less overwhelming for you. As for lawyer fees when opening a non-profit, because it’s lengthy paperwork, lawyers will charge an arm & a leg. But it should only cost you between $2,000-5,000 in lawyer fees. Anything more is usually just greed. Good luck!
It's so crazy how everyones perspective is different, because we are the same age and also our bday is both in Dec. I remember when we were in the same age and you were doing all these big things in your early 20s and I was feeling so bad about myself like "we are the same age and she has house, cars, kids, marriage, success" while I was enjoying my early 20s and going out, having fun, being wild. In your head you feel these years were in a sense taken from you, and in my head, I was feeling bad not having accomplished the things you had.
Just a reminder to both of us, everyone's path is different and to embrace our unique life journey
I understand not hitting all your goals but always give yourself grace. You are doing amazing and you have 3 healthy beautiful children. 2025 is a new start to trying again. You got this!!!
Naz, be kind to yourself ❤️You have hit over a decades worth of milestones in just a few years. The great thing about New Year’s resolutions is that it can always be added on again!
This cause she brings herself down a lot
That part
I have been a viewer for YEARS and hear me when I say Naz, you are one of the most mature and level headed women on this platform. You have always been such a breath of fresh air!!! So well-spoken and thoughtful. I hope 2025 brings you everything you need 🤍🫶🏼
1:31 I loveeee hearing you speak Farsi. So fascinating!!
I definitely want to start posting more reels/tik toks in Farsi 🫶🏼
@@NazaninKavari please do 😌
@@NazaninKavarinaz so random but just wanted to say im a all day tea drinker as well and i love your big ass thea mug
I love the vulnerability you show, it’s so refreshing to see someone so open and honest about things that many people wouldn’t because of judgement! Wishing you a great next year ❤
I just wanna say literally everything you said is exactly what my therapist said to me. I was crying to her how I do not want to be the way my parents were yelling for the smallest things and my son is only 3 and I pray I haven’t already ruined his mental health because I feel like when I get overstimulated all I do is yell. And she asked about work and life and how I make time for myself and I was like I guess I really don’t. And she was like you are overwhelmed and do not have time for yourself to recharge and you’re pouring from an empty cup. The whole video I was just nodding and saying yup
My son is 2 and sometimes I’m the same way and I feel so guilty. I want to be the perfect mom but I’m just not.
This literally made me tear up ! I see me in what you said about being overwhelmed and preserved as an angry woman/wife/mom/full time worker/ student… it’s insane !!! Thank you for putting this out there, sometimes I literally feel like taking a min a screaming it out lol.
THAT PART! THAT “RANT” was food for my SOUL!! Listening to you as I’m cleaning the whole house for New Years as my man takes a nap before we go out tonight, thinking “I got to get this alllll done in a couple hours” but NO I DONT. AND NO I WONT. Because it can wait. I think I’m gonna go nap next to him now. Love u Naz
Everything you said is so true & real! Being overwhelmed, stressed, exhausted & burnt out will having you lashing out, yelling & screaming, it will having you questioning yourself like this is not who I am
I love these kinds of videos, it really feels like a diary and really inspiring. You can really reflect and look back on life and to look forward in life. I hope nothing but the best for you for 2025 thank you for sharing your thoughts ❤
Naz it’s okay to take a moment to travel and enjoy the fruits of your labor 💕 don’t be too hard on yourself for traveling a lot this year.
Yes, traveling is okay to put it on the back burner, try to remember to be thankful to God for giving you more freedom in this country. It's not all about luxury life, the luxury life ends and we don't take it to heaven. Enjoy your freedom. ❤❤❤
I hate commenting on stuff cuz it’s so lame but anyone saying she is complaining too much and she’s so blessed and you want her life and don’t understand why she’s complaining. YOU are so privileged to even have the ability and capacity to care enough about someone else’s complaining to complain about it. Yes I want her lifestyle but I can’t imagine the amount of stress and pressure it would take to create that type of life let alone what it would take to maintain it. That’s why I’m not living it right now. I’m stressed out and it’s just me working a normal job and I complain everyday. Everyone does. You can be so grateful and still complain it’s human.
Thisss.
Girl I was sitting here organizing and bagging me and my daughters old clothes to donate before the new year, and this pep talk really helped me out ❤ much love
The thing is that everyone has their own battle they’re fighting. Even though for one person may look like complaining and “you have it easy” for that person may be a battlefield.
I love your honest FaceTime vlogs. Helps remind me that everyone goes through shitttt
You’re such a breath of fresh air Naz!! Thank you for bringing the “realness” to this journey that we’re on. Keep up the amazing work and PLEASE keep inspiring us to grow with you. 🥰
Happy New Year babes!!🥳
A raw genuine vlog. That’s what this is and it’s something the internet needs more of in 2025. True & authentic. Just you. Love you Naz I appreciate this. It’s strength and confidence to even be able to dive deep like this. Something most avoid! So thank you God Bless You Naz🤍
@@sarahmary1052 thanks for watching 🥹🤍
I love you naz!!! Please never stop posting about your REAL life! The haters can scroll past, or even better let them leave those comments… it’s engagement lol AND your real fans are here listening, understanding, and supporting ❤❤❤ whether you set or finish those goals, you’re still THAT GIRL 🌟💘💕🩷
This season is temporary and god will work it all out for you, even in the thick of it 🙏
We so appreciate your vulnerability and your feelings are valid. I was recently discussing similar topics with my husband. We don’t have children yet, we’re waiting until our 30s, God knows best. But I saw saying it’s wild that we as women have these societal pressures that we put on ours. We legit want to do it all and feel inadequate when we don’t. Burn out is real and it’s not possible to do it all 24/7 and still be mentally and physically well. Thankfully more of us are acknowledging our limits and that doesn’t define us. We should be thankful that we can get help when needed. We as women need to support each others choices and not be so quick to judge. Thank you, for this and I can’t wait to see what 2025 has in store for you! 👏🏾🎉
you’re beautiful inside and out! don’t be so hard on yourself 🥺
One thing that makes me come back to your channel and tune in every week is because you show the REAL. I love the raw emotions that you show and how it feels like we are on FaceTime. I’ve been a subscriber since your prom videos…that’s how I found you and I stayed because you never shy away from keeping it real. Thank you ❤
Naz I turned 25 last year too and I swear everything you described is exactly why I quit my job! I couldn’t do it all and I tried so hard to. I had to let go of something
This made me cry. I needed to hear this so badly.
You have health and family, without health its hard to enjoy anything. Traveling sometimes takes away ambition because here in the US were so programmed to work but traveling opens up a new mindset
I feel so heard Naz❤️… I’m a stay at home mom of 3 kids 4,3 and 1. I’m burnt out like so burnt out. 😔
We are in the thick of it 🥹
I hope i can see more of u AND Mel in 2025❤
Naz, I’m patiently waiting for you to drop your brand, idc if I don’t like it, idc if it’s not the color I like, I will be locked in and buying ❤️
You’re so sweet 🥹🤍
Some of these comments are so dumb. People complain influencers are fake, yet, we have some like Naz that are real & transparent and yall don’t like it. But if she were to gatekeep, lie, or be private - she’s boring or fake. Weirdos. If you don’t like the content or person simply unsubscribe or exit out the video. What do yall get from speaking negatively about a person you don’t even know on a personal level?? Insensitive, mean, & straight up crazy. Thank you for your content Naz. Happy holidays to you and yours!
Exactly!
Naz has always kept it 100 but she receives so much hate like people are so mean for no reason
This probably the most relatable video of seen from you!! Thank you for being real. I also have 3 children my youngest being 1.5 years old. I feel you girl!
First of all I loved this video. This was so real, and exactly what I’ve been needing to hear in so many ways. Literally every single second of this video was so valuable to me I want to play it back and watch it again. This level of honesty isn’t even shown with friends or family sometimes. Mostly due to time it’s always “I’m fine” “I’m okay”.. never so I hear drawn out feelings and explanations and healthy boundaries talked about like this. I loved this Naz💗💗 I’ve been here since I was 12, I’m 22 now and I can’t tell you how much you’ve shifted my perspectives and helped guide me through life. I know you may not know me but you’ve really impacted my life, Thank you girl🤍
Naz you’re inspiring me to take on social media seriously as a working mom. My sons 2 and my FT job can feel so repetitive and I’m excited to be creative and seeing it play out. Excited 😊 happy holidays to you and your family
This isn't crashing out. This is speaking truth.❤❤
Home run! The last part about looking back at how our parents would scream about the most simple question made the most sense because you’re right they would pour into our cups only and would loose themselves! I wasn’t gonna go get my nails done cause I felt bad for stepping out but now I am most definitely going!
Gosh Naz, we are SO much alike in our beliefs and our standards of ourselves as women as well, must partly be the ♐️ in us ☺️ So happy when I see influencers talking about real life topics and women also shedding light on us not having to hold those ‘expected’ standards. Very passionate about all this right now too. So much realization in 2024 and even more of applying it in 2025 🥂
I love how you’re saying I just want to vent! I love to do that as well. We all have our own feelings and feeling overwhelmed you just wanna say everything you feel. Love this video Naz!!
I love how real you are. It's so hard to find that on social media nowadays. I'm like you who doesn't like seeing aesthetically pleasing videos. My life is complete chaos most of the time so when people like you say yours is too. It makes me feel like we are all in this together.
Love you Naz! ❤ I'm glad you are putting yourself first.
You opened my eyes.. I was trying so hard everyday to do so much stuff, but lately I gave myself some grace! I don’t have to do everything in one day,just small victories. I’m doing enough and I tell myself well done,my kids are happy and that’s all that matters💖 thank you for opening my eyes Naz
Thank you for always sharing the truth, I too decided that I will not be doing it all when I found out that I am having another baby. I quit my full time job because this is insane how they expect women to do all that. I have an almost 2 year old, I was working full time and in grad school plus trying to tap into creating content. I felt like I couldn't breathe especially during the first trimester of pregnancy so yeah... no 2025 I will not be spreading myself that thin especially when I am blessed to have my partner and family around to support me. ❤
Naz we’re ready for your brand when you are
This was so needed Naz 💗 you're spot on! I felt your frustration and concur with all your sentiments 🔥
You said what needs to be said! Thanks for being so real, and stucking up for women & mothers ❤️
I don't have kids yet but I’ve always said that I would be the type of mother that put herself first so I could show up as the best version of myself for my kids. As the oldest daughter of a very overworked and overwhelmed immigrant mother, thank you. She was an amazing mother but she was often exhausted, irritated and it impacted so much of who I am today. I wish she would have put had herself first, taken the time to develop her own hobbies and relationships. The internet is going to say whatever but you know you've doing the right thing for your kids!! ❤
I think the reason why those videos of SAHM’s get so much hate is because they make it seem like parenting is easy. For instance, the “trad wife” trend, is beyond unrealistic for most Americans. It’s impossible to make bread from scratch and hold a baby on your hip while your husband is at work and you have 5 other children that you’re homeschooling. You are being honest about how motherhood is, you cannot just do it alone and if you are it’s very difficult. I have one son and we are not having another for a while due to how difficult it is and we have extra help, but our families also have lives.
I absolutely love the chat at the end of the video!!! Do not let some comments affect you, majority of us here are here to see the raw content (especially us mothers). I’m not here for a sugar coated life 😂 and you never disappoint. I can relate so much to the way you feel and I actually have not been putting myself first, and I am that person you mentioned (constantly stressed) so this was a wake up call. Thank you for doing what you do! ❤
Naz the way this hit for me ❤ I’m in such a similar dynamic as you 3 kids , a 4 year old and 2 year old twins. Working in a leadership role in healthcare and babyyyyy the way this year has brought to light exactly what you said about the overhelm and burnout! Thank you for being real and talking about it you’re 100% correct this country glamorizes/rewards suffering and after getting myself into therapy I’m realizing more and more that I have also been inflicting a lot of my suffering on myself because of the idea of trying to be all of the things and do all of the things. I’ve reached that point; I’m like hire the house cleaner, get the hello fresh I’m over it and I’m tired. I just spoke with my therapist and husband yesterday and we all agree that taking a leave of absence from work is next on the list ❤
Girl being a mom is so hard cannot even imagine 😭 and I feel you on people telling you you complain I am a resident doctor and whenever I vent about my career people tell me I should be grateful and how others want it like babes sometimes the grass isn’t greener on the other side 😭 praying that you get many blessings and more in 2025 💕
Naz, don't feel bad for travelling a lot this year! I always wonder why influencers don't travel more often, if I had the money I would travel more too, the world is so big and what you gain from travelling increases the richness and quality of your life and mental health! As you said, you have 3 kids at home and are working all the time, you absolutely needed time for yourself/for you and Mel to get out and take your mind off things. Best wishes for 2025!
Girl yes! As a new mom, this year I want to care less and not stress myself out so much and have an expectation for everythingggg!!
I love your talking videos ❤ thanks for showing us that you are just a human ❤❤
You’re doing a good job mama.. I know it’s easy to focus on what’s lacking, but please don’t forget your track record and the beautiful life and humans you have created over the years.
I know you didn’t ask for advice, but I just wanted to share what helps me: which is keeping a notepad of all of my accomplishments. Whenever I’m stuck in these ruts like I’m not doing enough, the list helps center me and remind me of the beauty I’ve created.
I know it’s so tempting to want every area of your life to thrive all at the same time and how frustrating that can be
Wish i could subscribe to your channel multiple times and like this video multiple times because, man you don't even know how the ending of this video hits home
You are doing a wonderful job, and are such a great mom, wife, sister, daughter and friend! You are an inspiration to so many people and are the FACE of hard work, authenticity and dedication. Your love and kindness is always authentic and genuine and thanks for always letting us in even when it’s difficult to do so and people bring you down. 2025 I’m taking on a “Naz mentality” which is more just showing up for people and myself authentically and have the discipline and hard work you’ve had for literally your whole life 😂❤ maybe we can all come back monthly, quarterly and see how we all are progressing as the year goes and lean on each other, because this really is just like me FaceTiming my girls 😊 love you Naz, and may the universe continue to bless you and your family and peace of mind and grace be for all of us! 🎉
I honestly love your transparency , we are human !! And im honestly tired of seeing all of these influencers put on this façade
That everything is perfect all the time. Really a fresh of breath air. I’m so for Naz and her idgaf era !
I love you Naz ❤️ I’ve been here since day 1 and I always look forward to your uploads. You’ve came so far and I’m very proud of the beautiful woman you are becoming.
Naz, thank you for being so authentic and real. I love your venting videos! Just like podcasts and audiobooks are what you listen to when you go on walks or clean, your sit down venting sessions are what I listen to when I go for a walk. Never stop sharing who you truly are. I think it not only helps us to relate to you, but also allows you to heal from any stresses you are going through because you're letting out your emotions and not holding them in. We (speaking for the non-haters ONLY) love you so much!!!
Naz you’re such an inspiration. 💗I seriously admire the way you are trying to achieve balance in your life amidst the many hats you wear. Give yourself more grace, girl! We only see moments of your life and it’s impressive enough without knowing what more goes on! 👏🏽
I love the authenticity of this video !
It’s giving a real life perspective on this life stage of parenthood ❤
I enjoyed this video so much!! Thank you so much for the vulnerability Naz! Girl it’s so important to set boundaries. I can’t wait to see all the blessings god has for you and your family this year !
I love seeing you and Baba talk in Farsi ❤ it would be so cool to see more of you speaking in Farsi. It’s so pretty!
You’re doing an amazing job Mama! I can completely relate growing up in a foreign household and the expectations they held for us. I also agree with you on being a mother my children will not see always upset and angry. We all definitely need to be our best selves and in return will be best for our little ones.
Love what you said about the angry outburst! I started thinking that I’m an angry person when I’m not and it made me feel so bad about myself. I am def trying to do everything. Thanks for saying that! I’m going to try to take a step back and work on what’s going to make me happy for the day! ❤
Naz thank you for coming on here and being so vulnerable, and real. I am so proud of you for standing up for yourself and for other women who feel the same way about judgmental comments. You gave all the moms a voice and even though I can’t have kids because I had cancer, I respect moms so much more because of your video and how real you are! 🥹 keep going we love you ❤❤❤❤
Max I feeelllll this!!! I'm not a mother or a wife but this year I've realized I spent all of my life taking on toooooo many roles and my body let me know. It's so hard to go against societal programming and shame when you can't sustainably do all these tasks. Especially when you feel like you juggled them so well before. These things are not realistic and boundaries are needed 🥰
The crash out at the end is so Sag coded coming from a fellow Sag omfg especially the commentary on being brainwashed to love the struggle!!! Yes girl talk your shitttt!! I want more of this❤
I’ve always loved how honest you are in your videos 🥹🥹🥹🥹 you’re a great mother and wife ❤❤❤❤
I love watching your videos, it’s been a whileMom of 2 with husband battling end stage kidney disease, a job, help husband run his business and I started a soap brand has been the hardest thing ever so I get exactly what you are saying. Putting yourself first is for sure going to make a difference. Recognizing this is a big plus, I have too said it’s my fault, I need to change this and let go of this, I one day cried reflecting like you that I don’t want my kids to remember me as a yelling stressed mom😭. Just know you are not alone. We are so many mommies feeling this way. Thats one of the main reasons I started my little tiny soap brand Encefalo Beauty to serve as a reminder that even in tough times it’s possible to find moments of peace. Especially for mommies and caregivers. All the best to you. Whats meant to come into your life will come at the right time. 💞☺️
I love you Naz❤ 2025 is YOUR year!
Ooo dark hair Naz is a vibeee!
No fr when it’s to perfect I be skipping over the vid. Your vids are relatable especially bc I’m a mom as well. But yes as woman we have to give ourselves grace. We’re all doing the damn thing, so just breathe.
After this video I love and respect you even more Naz! Thank you so much for your transparency and honesty! 🙏🏼🩷
This is such a relatable video as a mom. Thanks for being so honest and vulnerable 😊
I love how vulnerable you are Naz, did great this year you are an amazing Momma,give yourself grace❤️❤️
Naz I really related to everything you said in this video! I have been feeling guilty for years about doing things for myself. I was getting frustrated with myself for being that way! it’s the pressure that everyone puts on us to be this perfect mother and literally live for our children and it’s dragging my personality down with it! I have 5 kids 7 and under including a newborn and it’s more than overwhelming sometimes and I feel lost in being a mom. Im really trying to train myself to stop feeling guilty for doing things for myself like getting a nanny and going out to the gym or self care! I’m with you 100% you do you girl and be happy. I don’t want my kids to remember me overstimulated 80% of the time!
Naz, I’m 29 years old no kids and you are my comfort creator!!!🫶🏻 you are so relatable, real, and beautiful! Thank you for being you. 🤩 can’t wait to see what 2025 has in store! Happy new year to you & yours! & to everyone reading this comment! 🎉
Loooove these type of videos! HAPPY NEW YEAR💖💖💖
I love the authenticity Naz! A lot of these things ring true for many of us.
I saw those comments from that video about you complaining and just wanted to know ur not alone, it definitely isnt easy having 3 kids so young. Im 25 and had 3 kids in 3 years literally right along with you and it takes such a toll on you on a daily basis. Maybe most viewers probably Wouldn’t understand but I’m so inspired by all that you do!
Love love love this Naz! This was the perfect video
Thank you for opening up and expressing your emotions ! You’re human and allowed to do that.. You work extremely hard. You should be so proud of yourself. You inspire me!🩷
I’m so proud of you Naz you’re killin it!! 💕💎💓✨
Naz you inspire me to live a better lifestyle 💗 can’t wait to see more healthy meals and lifestyle vlogs
Naz I’m really loving this conversation and thank you for being vulnerable with us.
Naz, the reason why I love watching ur videos is because you are so open minded and you teach me to see other perspectives. I love love love ur videos. Pls don’t let these comments get to you. My favorite video of urs is when u just sit and talk to the camera. I admire u and I’m glad ur teaching us boundaries. I aspire to be like you, u motivate me to become the best version of myself. I can see how hard you work. I can watch you talk for hours that’s why I love ur podcast. I feel like you just have a strong mindset and it’s so rare to find TH-camrs like that.
I think it’s very normal for you to feel overwhelmed you work so damn hard and you have three kids. I really hope you take some time to relax and unwind it’s so important to slow down to recharge! Love you Naz!
LOL!!! I love this vlog, you are so relatable. I love your venting sessions
Sending you love girl thank you for being vulnerable 💞
Thank You Naz for being real with us and It will get better !
Very much love the convo on the brand and appreciate the time you’re putting into it
The last part about our parents being stressed all the time was the revelation I needed to hear! So I won’t repeat that I want life to be simple and surrendered to God and not man ( I.e breaking your back to live in the world)
The idiots calling this complaining even though you're dropping disclaimers and gratitude prompts every two seconds need to go on a century long happy hour.
All I'm seeing is a woman trying to process her role in the world, trying to distinuish between her inner voice and that of society's, trying to figure out what's truly fair and realistic to expect of herself in her various endeavours across the different seasons of life.. this is too much the hell with people!
As women, not only are we doing everything, but we also got no map and have to draw one in realtime while on the effin road.
So let a woman BE. If you're not constantly questioning and reflecting on yourself and your life as a human being, you're either dumb or arrogant, and arrogant is another word for dumb.
Thank you for the end of this video. Im in the thick of it also. Have 5 kids, stay at home mom, homeschool 2, and happen to be someone who is a people pleaser who lost her father recently. There are major changes I need to make so many changes for 2025. My husband is also so amazing and does so much extra, but I need to ALLOW him to instead of feeling guilty. I am so triggered always and I want my kids to want to come over when they leave not thankful to be gone.
The fact I made it to the end of year without prison or mental health facility is amazing. Please know that woman like me love your honesty and videos because woman like me are home so much we rarely have that many friends and so this is good for me to hear I am not alone in my thoughts.
Love this. Need more of these videos❤🥹 need more women talk, vent away love🤗👏
I love you Naz❤️ I’m so happy you are putting yourself first ❤️
Thanks for the upload, your sit down videos are my favorite, happy new year Naz'
The people not understanding her, are part of the problem, also the reason why so many millionaires are suffering with depression and even worst, offing themselves, MONEYYYYY does NOT equal happiness. This young woman has a lot of responsibilities, and when you CARE, it can be very stressful, however, will get done, let her vent in peace damn.
that soft glam makeup tut earlier this year 🔥🔥i love my base + prep now ✨
Honestly Naz you’re killing it and everything you said is ON POINT. Love watching your videos and listening to you vent👏👏
I just love how genuine you are ❤
Thank you for being so vulnerable ❤️ I have no idea what it’s like to be a mother, let alone to 3 children, but if anyone can pull through - it’s you! I hope 2025 is less overwhelming for you. As for lawyer fees when opening a non-profit, because it’s lengthy paperwork, lawyers will charge an arm & a leg. But it should only cost you between $2,000-5,000 in lawyer fees. Anything more is usually just greed. Good luck!