If only that white woman understood your frustration, but I can imagine it looked like you were just being a mean mom punching her daughter. That just shows that people shouldn’t comment when they don’t know the full story. Dimma is blessed and I know she will be a star!
No dear! Its because safeguarding a child is everyone's responsibility abroad. When people know your child has a special need, they are more likely to offer some support. Gosh! It must be tough on the whole family but to God be d glory because today Nneka is reflecting on her experience and greatful to God on how far and stronger her experience has shaped her. God is faithful.
I can truly relate. My son also had the same diagnosis but now he is married with his wife and son. If God did it for him he will do it for your daughter. You are so brave and I truly a amazing mom?
You have a genius in your eldest daughter. With your constant love, your daughter will overcome ADHD. Simone Biles, the black American gymnast had ADHD. She's the best woman gymnast alive and black, having won numerous gold medals at National, World and Olympics tournaments. She's only 24 years old. If your daughter shows interest in any event, please encourage her. God bless.
My daughter was diagnosed with autism in the beginning of this year, but she started therapy when she was 18 months. I’m glad we started early because she’s making so much progress.
When it comes to special needs children, I learnt quite early that I the MOTHER and not the school is my childs primary teacher. The school can tell a parent anything to please parents for example if your special child is in a normal school, the teacher could be the ones colouring/ drawing in your childs book and telling you it's your childs work. This happens if your child special is slowing down the rest of the class. So what has worked for me ? 3 things. (1) a. Praying daily and begging God to touch my son's mind by giving him understanding and memory of what he will learn that day, wether academically or socially( how to live with others). b. Praying for myself and asking God to give me wisdom to teach my special son, asking God to guide me to affordable resources, etc because special needs education can drain your finances leaving you dissapponted and very importantly praying for God to give me PATIENCE. Honestly I had the worst character for a special needs parent, I easily lost my temper and would scream not to mention I was an extremely impatient person, I wanted everything done fast and my way, infact slow people used to irritate the hell out of me. Hmmm.. the Lord has used my son to change and humbled me alot lol. (2) Regular individual fasting specifically for the child. Atleast 3 days in a month till 3pm, ( the days can be block or spread out in the month). And, Giving monthly to the REAL poor. I can't stress this enough. Stinginess is the lack of generosity toward the poor and toward God’s work. Proverbs 21:13 “If you refuse to listen to the cry of the poor, your own cry for help will not be heard.” Please note I said give to poor, not rich pastors lol. And please when we give let's not take pictures and announce to the world, we will not receive anything from God. (3) Spending atleast an hour DAILY one of on one Academic Teaching eg reading, writing or Training your child. Training may learning to dress themselves, feed themselves, toileting etc.. This should be away from distraction just mother and child, teaching him or going through what he learnt from school/ therapy. By the grace of God and not school, taught my son to read and we are trace- writing. For reading I taught the the sounds of letters this helps with decoding the words and for writing you can print out free tracing lines to practice writing. Eg I trained him to feed himself he was clumsy and lacked motor skills, those days he would put an empty spoon in his mouth as if the food was invisible and he was eating air, Lol. Hmmm.. I can laugh at it now but those times I used to ask myself " what kind of unfortunate child is this" and so many other dark thoughts would run through my mind. We start with short prayer. When praying I come against restlessness ( aka hyperactivity), confusion and forgetfulness. I ask God to give my son a peaceful and focused mind that can retain memory. God rewards our labour. We can't as special we must must become their primary teachers, it may look like nothing is happening but something is happening keep going. God does reward our effort. So, there goes my honest to God practical method. It works! I have seen alot of progress and still trusting God for alot more. Let us keep teaching our children, keep talking and keep believing. We shall tell our story. God may choose to heal instantly or He may chose to do it progressively. All glory be to God - Imelda x
oh Yes as i commented on the last video, both Spiritual and physical intervention, after all God is the Manufacturer of the human mind so we His products must return to Him the Greatest Mechanic for the rewiring of our brains.
As a mom with a special Need child, I truly understand what you are going through because this is our reality. They are also intelligent and smart. Our children will make us proud in jesus mighty name.
Now at 17, my special needs son just finished his third summer job, Walgreens checker. He passed his written drivers test, and is practicing for his license. He’s in the National Honors Society and starts on his Hugh school bowling team. All will be well, I know it will.
I cried when you explain the school path so sorry dear, I can see how the teachers will be attending to other pupils and they will not even attend to her.
You are a strong woman,me as a teacher there is no year I don’t have them in my class and I treat them with so much love sometimes I feel bad considering what their mums especially are going through.Keep doing the good work❤
You're actually raising awareness for the diagnosis, I never knew it was like this. Once again, thank you for being strong enough to share this with us ❤
Your daughter will be great in life. I noticed most special needs children are exceptionally successful especially if they get all the love and machinery put in place to enhance their progress. I am looking forward to hearing her name mentioned among great people. It takes patience people to raise special needs children. I thank God she has you. God bless you
Thank you for sharing. Weldone. Raising a special needs child on Nigeria is times two more difficult because of ignorance. People will say so many hurtful things.
My special needs son was first diagnosed with ADD, because he had zero attention span, but not hyper. He enjoyed playing/being alone making himself happy. Did not walk until 14 months, but clearly speaking and reading before 2. School was a challenge because he didn’t have the attention span and it made him a very easy target for bullying. Around 8, he was further diagnosed with ASD, he was on the spectrum. Stay encouraged, it’s all good with him now. And it will be for your daughter too.
This is the fastest TH-cam success story I have seen. 👍. It shows how great your family bond is for her cousins to treat her with love. 👍 And what a great awareness you are creating with your experience. 👍 Finally it’s awesome to know that there are good therapists in Nigeria !
My daughter is now 25 years old First word tea was 2 years and 6 months Every night I read Psalm 23 for her At 3years old she started writing a to z One night before I will read Psalm 23 She started reading herself wow She is very creative child She like her they every bit of things happen around them
Oh my my son is 25, he is autistic and the educational psychologist that my son was a destruction and is stopping other children from learning. We live in UK and I thought it is due to racism. Please do not give up. My son used to spend the whole day sitting on the carpet infront of the headteachers off. Someone once told me that special needs children are angels and God check your heart before blessing you with one. My son is now a graduate and is facing the challenges of finding work. My other son is autistic too he started talking at 4 years. I give all to God. I do not worry anymore, I take one day at a time. Please take heart . Just love ur child. I love ur sister 💗. I just subscribed today and love you already. Do not give up she will use her words. My boys used to just point 👉
Thank you so much. I won't give up. I know how we started and where we are now. She has really come a long way. We will keep doing our best to make sure she gets all she needs and I believe God will complete what he has started in her life 💕💕🤗🤗🤗♥️
Your story is raising awareness for our Nigerian community. There are many families out there going through the same experience as yours, lost and frustrated because they find no resource or help within the community or governmental agencies. I applaud you and I must add that you should strive to partake in some of the therapeutic visits with your daughter. I am a therapist and as well a mother of a special need who turns 25 years old this year. It is rough but God has been faithful. I'm pleased to know from your statements that Nigeria is progressing in this area of needs and I pray it continues. Also, there are other computerized visual resources out there of which she can use in her space to improve more on her vocabulary. You should ask your therapists, those are very effective and they boost their self-confidence. More grace to you and your family as you walk this special journey. God is your strength. 👍
Schools can be very insensitive with their fees,a school a child has been with is what you can’t make some adjustments. Nne your love for mma is top notch😍😍😍😍.
My son didn't talk until he was 5 years old. It wasn't easy. I had no family help. I understand everything you are saying. This same child as a man has problems. Not easy. Yet as his mom, I will always stand by his side to help him. I just by God's grace, when I leave this earth he has someone in his life. A mother until I close my eyes.
You got a new subscriber! My son is autistic as well. I understand you perfectly and I encourage you to continually celebrate your precious child. Because of my son I started a You Tube channel called Autistically Bright where I talk about autism. Thank you for lending your voice. It gives me great comfort that mums like you are talking about autism. Well done and God bless you.
As a mom who has trained my 17 year old daughter with ADHD alone from the age of 5, it's been tough! I dont know how many times the social services wanted to take her away from me. It has always been hard convincing her to seat still and fix her hair and I remember, there was this time she told her teachers that I beat her, omo come and see police lol. But police and social services failed to interrogate her coz they couldn't understand a thing! Anyway I thank God for this country coz my gal has gotten all the support otherwise I would have run mad because of her too much energy and babish way of understanding and doing things. It's so unfortunate this gal these our gals are gonna need us all their lives otherwise the world would take advantage of their weaknesses. Keep strong babe and cyber hugs to you and chi baby❤...incase you need more information in the future, I will be right here to help you. Another thing, let her find her on passion! My daughter finds solace in dancing.... so she dances all the time and that makes her happy.
@Becky they do love music and dancing. My daughter as a toddler started ballet classes as health visitor said needed to straighten her posture. When they say go left in the class my daughter would go right. She used to cry about it but I said we are here for her to move to the music. Not to worry about left or right. She later on picked up and did ballet up to grade four.
Ada is always Ada,they have special blessings from God, what l know is that she will be greater than her siblings, she wl be a great blessings in ur home,Her future is bright. Chidinma " God is good "he wl continue to be good in ur life 🙏🙏🙏🙏
God bless you and you’re husband for all the investments in her to ensure she reaches her full potential and my prayer is that she’ll get to the very top. Thank God also for all those who supported you in this journey.
I laughed so hard when you described the "quack' situation because not only did i understand exactly what you meant, but you have made the struggle a bit light and reminded us to laugh. My daughter used to do the same thing she's currently in speech therapy and waiting to be evaluated for autism. "All your children will be taught by the LORD, and great will be their peace." Isaiah54:13
Nothing like a strong support system. And yes every milestone should definitely be celebrated. Super mom. May God keep blessing her. Lovely children you've got.
I’m so happy you took the therapist treatment. Because if that was here in the US, they would have quickly put her on medications. Good for you but we thank God.
You don't look like what you have been through dear. You are a strong and beautiful mum. Thanks for sharing. And i thought i knew what ADHD was all about!
I am from @nelookeke @Nazomscorner @banterswithNj @sandrasreality… like I have been following your family over d years… OMG I am so happy you came on here with ur story … I legit watched 6 ads on one video ..gurl u have blown lol m putting you on my WhatsApp and IG story Cs d world needs to hear real life not movies n fake life ….real life is so rea … God bless ur darling daughter n whole family People always say old age causes this but truth is it can happen to anyone And here in d U.S Dey always start with drugs n personally I believe therapy first…. I am so happpppy for you and pray God continue to give you the grace to go on this journey… Cs truth is some days will be very tough but u got this gurl..❤️❤️❤️❤️
My youngest son was diagnosed at 11 years old. He was in special needs classes for several years and spent 3yrs in a hospital takes much time and love to raise them. But thank God that he is now 42yrs with a family of his own. Always place them in the hands of God, because HE will fix it. 🙏🏾🇺🇲👵🏾 Thank you for sharing your story. GOD BLESS 💞
Nigeria still has a long way to go,in terms of working with Special needs children. In the West, they are treated with great love and parents with such children, are supported in different ways.Thanks for being a Special mum.God bless you ❤❤❤❤
Wow! You're really a strong woman. Dinma is a blessed child and I pray that when she grows up she will be able to help other kids that have same condition.
My sister don't worry the lord that has brought her to this stage today will perfect his work in her life cause (what God cannot do does not exist) also be supporting her with prayers. It's well my dear
My son has also been diagnosed with that. It is not easy, both emotionally & financially, as they need lots of caring & the cost to see all the specialist doctors & therapist. But it is worth it at the end. We just need to be there for our kids & keep encouraging them.
Thank you for educating us. You are really doing a good job.I am an Educationist you are on the right path. Early start up is the key.May God prefect all that concerns her in Jesus name.More grace
Your daughter is fine, she's got LD, learning disabilities, stop sending her to regular school, she needs to go to school for kids with special needs, where she can get proper support & education.
I think this video is super informative especially in the African specifically Nigerian community. We need to normalise conversations like this. Your a super mum for sure. Thanks for sharing your journey and experience to create awareness. 🙌🏾 sending you light and love
Glad they were able to find out exactly, thank God that you have a family and friends that cares that made things so easy. I can't wait to hear the next part.
Thanks for sharing your experience, it's so inspiring. I'm having the same experience with my three-year-old daughter, so I feel you. It takes a whole lot of patience and Faith to get through all you've mentioned. You're a courageous Mum. More Grace.
You have a genius kid on your hands, but you just need to know in which area, and how you to bring out the best in her. Unfortunately there might not be teachers for your kids in Nigeria. Well you SHOULD TRAIN YOURSELF TO BE HER TEACHER.
Thanks alot for sharing Nneka, i never knew there was something of this nature, while teaching i met few kids so hyperactive and very slow but accademically and speech, i didnt know it was a disorder ...Thanks for creating this awareness so that alot of mothers will learn from it.
Am waiting on diagnosis for my son. I cry every damn day. And I have a 2month old. The waiting list to get tested in America is crazy. My son is 2 and half
Wow! This is my own story, my daughter is will be 6 in October, I'm still struggling with getting her to learn, please can I get the contact of the therapist Abigail? Maybe she can suggest some things to me, because even down to reading and identifying the normal ABC and 123, she can't yet! I just came across your channel and saw you just lost a child, so sorry mama.
God gave us special grace and strength to take care of our special need kids.God will give us long life and good health to take care of them in jesus name. Our expectations and desire for our special kids shall not be cut off. I believe so much in the power of prayers. I call you my sister now because we both share something in common. As she is making progress, prayer is the supreme weapon. God bless you and your household.
Just like me, each time my son does anything we clap and jump like we won lottery that day, I learnt allot from this video am going to stop giving him sugar especially juice, thanks so much for sharing nwanyi oma 🙏.
Love you DimDim❤❤ love you Nneka ❤❤ i never noticed till you talked about it nothing can change my love for you guys may you partake on all the goodness and greatness life will unfold positively 🙏
If only that white woman understood your frustration, but I can imagine it looked like you were just being a mean mom punching her daughter. That just shows that people shouldn’t comment when they don’t know the full story. Dimma is blessed and I know she will be a star!
Exactly.. I was so frustrated at that point eh. I dint even know what to do again..thank u so much❤
So true
No dear! Its because safeguarding a child is everyone's responsibility abroad. When people know your child has a special need, they are more likely to offer some support. Gosh! It must be tough on the whole family but to God be d glory because today Nneka is reflecting on her experience and greatful to God on how far and stronger her experience has shaped her. God is faithful.
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DimDim is a star ⭐️ 💫 🌟
Sure God has a plan for her, and God's will must be established in Jesus name 🙏
Period ‼
She Will be healed I JN
There is no controversy, she is a star
I can truly relate. My son also had the same diagnosis but now he is married with his wife and son. If God did it for him he will do it for your daughter. You are so brave and I truly a amazing mom?
Amen and thank u so much ♥️
Amen
Amen!
Amen
Amen
You have a genius in your eldest daughter. With your constant love, your daughter will overcome ADHD. Simone Biles, the black American gymnast had ADHD. She's the best woman gymnast alive and black, having won numerous gold medals at National, World and Olympics tournaments. She's only 24 years old.
If your daughter shows interest in any event, please encourage her. God bless.
Thank u so much❤️
Amen 🙏. I join my faith with you and I say it's done. Dimma is great and will be greater.
My daughter was diagnosed with autism in the beginning of this year, but she started therapy when she was 18 months. I’m glad we started early because she’s making so much progress.
Thank God 🙏🏽♥️ early intervention is key
Entering jail in another mans country 😩 I’m just happy she’s getting better, I actually just finished part 3 before watching this.
When it comes to special needs children, I learnt quite early that I the MOTHER and not the school is my childs primary teacher. The school can tell a parent anything to please parents for example if your special child is in a normal school, the teacher could be the ones colouring/ drawing in your childs book and telling you it's your childs work. This happens if your child special is slowing down the rest of the class.
So what has worked for me ? 3 things.
(1) a. Praying daily and begging God to touch my son's mind by giving him understanding and memory of what he will learn that day, wether academically or socially( how to live with others).
b. Praying for myself and asking God to give me wisdom to teach my special son, asking God to guide me to affordable resources, etc because special needs education can drain your finances leaving you dissapponted and very importantly praying for God to give me PATIENCE. Honestly I had the worst character for a special needs parent, I easily lost my temper and would scream not to mention I was an extremely impatient person, I wanted everything done fast and my way, infact slow people used to irritate the hell out of me. Hmmm.. the Lord has used my son to change and humbled me alot lol.
(2) Regular individual fasting specifically for the child. Atleast 3 days in a month till 3pm, ( the days can be block or spread out in the month). And, Giving monthly to the REAL poor. I can't stress this enough. Stinginess is the lack of generosity toward the poor and toward God’s work.
Proverbs 21:13
“If you refuse to listen to the cry of the poor, your own cry for help will not be heard.”
Please note I said give to poor, not rich pastors lol. And please when we give let's not take pictures and announce to the world, we will not receive anything from God.
(3) Spending atleast an hour DAILY one of on one Academic Teaching eg reading, writing or Training your child. Training may learning to dress themselves, feed themselves, toileting etc.. This should be away from distraction just mother and child, teaching him or going through what he learnt from school/ therapy. By the grace of God and not school, taught my son to read and we are trace- writing. For reading I taught the the sounds of letters this helps with decoding the words and for writing you can print out free tracing lines to practice writing. Eg I trained him to feed himself he was clumsy and lacked motor skills, those days he would put an empty spoon in his mouth as if the food was invisible and he was eating air, Lol. Hmmm.. I can laugh at it now but those times I used to ask myself " what kind of unfortunate child is this" and so many other dark thoughts would run through my mind. We start with short prayer. When praying I come against restlessness ( aka hyperactivity), confusion and forgetfulness. I ask God to give my son a peaceful and focused mind that can retain memory.
God rewards our labour. We can't as special we must must become their primary teachers, it may look like nothing is happening but something is happening keep going. God does reward our effort.
So, there goes my honest to God practical method. It works! I have seen alot of progress and still trusting God for alot more. Let us keep teaching our children, keep talking and keep believing. We shall tell our story. God may choose to heal instantly or He may chose to do it progressively.
All glory be to God -
Imelda x
Thank u so much for this. I really appreciate it. ❤
oh Yes as i commented on the last video, both Spiritual and physical intervention, after all God is the Manufacturer of the human mind so we His products must return to Him the Greatest Mechanic for the rewiring of our brains.
GOD ALMIGHTY will perfect his healing on dimma in JESUS MIGHTY name amen.
As a mom with a special Need child, I truly understand what you are going through because this is our reality. They are also intelligent and smart. Our children will make us proud in jesus mighty name.
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Now at 17, my special needs son just finished his third summer job, Walgreens checker. He passed his written drivers test, and is practicing for his license. He’s in the National Honors Society and starts on his Hugh school bowling team. All will be well, I know it will.
@ it's me tiff, wow! Praise God. Kudos to that young fellow 🥂
Who else have been waiting for this vlog
I cried when you explain the school path so sorry dear, I can see how the teachers will be attending to other pupils and they will not even attend to her.
You are a strong woman,me as a teacher there is no year I don’t have them in my class and I treat them with so much love sometimes I feel bad considering what their mums especially are going through.Keep doing the good work❤
JESUS CHRIST LOVES Y'ALL REPENT EVERYONE HE HIS COMING VERY SOON, HALLELUYAH
You're actually raising awareness for the diagnosis, I never knew it was like this.
Once again, thank you for being strong enough to share this with us ❤
Me neither. I pray she starts a foundation for this
Your daughter will be great in life. I noticed most special needs children are exceptionally successful especially if they get all the love and machinery put in place to enhance their progress. I am looking forward to hearing her name mentioned among great people. It takes patience people to raise special needs children. I thank God she has you. God bless you
Thank you for sharing.
Weldone.
Raising a special needs child on Nigeria is times two more difficult because of ignorance.
People will say so many hurtful things.
My special needs son was first diagnosed with ADD, because he had zero attention span, but not hyper. He enjoyed playing/being alone making himself happy. Did not walk until 14 months, but clearly speaking and reading before 2. School was a challenge because he didn’t have the attention span and it made him a very easy target for bullying. Around 8, he was further diagnosed with ASD, he was on the spectrum. Stay encouraged, it’s all good with him now. And it will be for your daughter too.
Amennnn. Thank u so much. ♥️♥️♥️
This is really a tuff one. But I thank God you overcame it all.
To God be the glory ❤️😍❤️😍❤️🇺🇸🇳🇬🇺🇸
This is the fastest TH-cam success story I have seen. 👍.
It shows how great your family bond is for her cousins to treat her with love. 👍
And what a great awareness you are creating with your experience. 👍
Finally it’s awesome to know that there are good therapists in Nigeria !
She has a photographic memory! What a star!!!!🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
Thank you Nazor😊
God is always there to help even when we can't see him u are a strong mother
My daughter is now 25 years old
First word tea was 2 years and 6 months
Every night I read Psalm 23 for her
At 3years old she started writing a to z
One night before I will read Psalm 23
She started reading herself wow
She is very creative child
She like her they every bit of things happen around them
♥️♥️
Oh my my son is 25, he is autistic and the educational psychologist that my son was a destruction and is stopping other children from learning. We live in UK and I thought it is due to racism. Please do not give up. My son used to spend the whole day sitting on the carpet infront of the headteachers off. Someone once told me that special needs children are angels and God check your heart before blessing you with one. My son is now a graduate and is facing the challenges of finding work. My other son is autistic too he started talking at 4 years. I give all to God. I do not worry anymore, I take one day at a time. Please take heart . Just love ur child. I love ur sister 💗. I just subscribed today and love you already. Do not give up she will use her words. My boys used to just point 👉
Thank you so much. I won't give up. I know how we started and where we are now. She has really come a long way. We will keep doing our best to make sure she gets all she needs and I believe God will complete what he has started in her life 💕💕🤗🤗🤗♥️
@@NnekaNwogu Amen. Thank God that you have the means to get her the intervention she requires. You are blessed with a great family. God bless you.
I love how calmly and well you take this stage of your daughter’s life… You’re a great mother 👏🏽.
Your story is raising awareness for our Nigerian community. There are many families out there going through the same experience as yours, lost and frustrated because they find no resource or help within the community or governmental agencies. I applaud you and I must add that you should strive to partake in some of the therapeutic visits with your daughter. I am a therapist and as well a mother of a special need who turns 25 years old this year. It is rough but God has been faithful. I'm pleased to know from your statements that Nigeria is progressing in this area of needs and I pray it continues. Also, there are other computerized visual resources out there of which she can use in her space to improve more on her vocabulary. You should ask your therapists, those are very effective and they boost their self-confidence. More grace to you and your family as you walk this special journey. God is your strength. 👍
Thank u so much♥️
Schools can be very insensitive with their fees,a school a child has been with is what you can’t make some adjustments. Nne your love for mma is top notch😍😍😍😍.
🤗🤗🤗🤗❤❤❤
I have a 3years old son... And I pray and believe God will heal him...gradual progress and I am very grateful
God will heal him IJN Amen 🙏🏽🙏🏽
She is a special gift from God 🙏🏾
My son didn't talk until he was 5 years old. It wasn't easy. I had no family help. I understand everything you are saying. This same child as a man has problems. Not easy. Yet as his mom, I will always stand by his side to help him. I just by God's grace, when I leave this earth he has someone in his life. A mother until I close my eyes.
True , it's always good to support and show them so much love
You got a new subscriber! My son is autistic as well. I understand you perfectly and I encourage you to continually celebrate your precious child. Because of my son I started a You Tube channel called Autistically Bright where I talk about autism. Thank you for lending your voice. It gives me great comfort that mums like you are talking about autism. Well done and God bless you.
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤❤
As a mom who has trained my 17 year old daughter with ADHD alone from the age of 5, it's been tough! I dont know how many times the social services wanted to take her away from me. It has always been hard convincing her to seat still and fix her hair and I remember, there was this time she told her teachers that I beat her, omo come and see police lol. But police and social services failed to interrogate her coz they couldn't understand a thing! Anyway I thank God for this country coz my gal has gotten all the support otherwise I would have run mad because of her too much energy and babish way of understanding and doing things.
It's so unfortunate this gal these our gals are gonna need us all their lives otherwise the world would take advantage of their weaknesses. Keep strong babe and cyber hugs to you and chi baby❤...incase you need more information in the future, I will be right here to help you. Another thing, let her find her on passion! My daughter finds solace in dancing.... so she dances all the time and that makes her happy.
@Becky they do love music and dancing.
My daughter as a toddler started ballet classes as health visitor said needed to straighten her posture. When they say go left in the class my daughter would go right. She used to cry about it but I said we are here for her to move to the music. Not to worry about left or right.
She later on picked up and did ballet up to grade four.
God's strength is sufficient for you all sisters. Keep on being strong. Lots of love and hugs from me. ❤️❤️🥰🥰❤️
Ada is always Ada,they have special blessings from God, what l know is that she will be greater than her siblings, she wl be a great blessings in ur home,Her future is bright. Chidinma " God is good "he wl continue to be good in ur life 🙏🙏🙏🙏
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I beg no dey beat her, it is very important not to. It will only make her have tendency to be extra aggressive, just show her love to calm her down.
Ur Right..
God bless you and you’re husband for all the investments in her to ensure she reaches her full potential and my prayer is that she’ll get to the very top. Thank God also for all those who supported you in this journey.
I laughed so hard when you described the "quack' situation because not only did i understand exactly what you meant, but you have made the struggle a bit light and reminded us to laugh. My daughter used to do the same thing she's currently in speech therapy and waiting to be evaluated for autism. "All your children will be taught by the LORD, and great will be their peace." Isaiah54:13
@ Nadia lol I know that was relatably funny from my end too and Amen sis indeed all our children will be taught of the Lord.
AMENNNNNN 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤❤❤
Nothing like a strong support system. And yes every milestone should definitely be celebrated. Super mom. May God keep blessing her. Lovely children you've got.
Dimma’s therapist is a saint. God bless her✨❤️.
I’m so happy you took the therapist treatment. Because if that was here in the US, they would have quickly put her on medications. Good for you but we thank God.
My dear. Here in the US is crazy....am in her shoes .......
It’s true. The US medical system is so quick to jumping into drug therapy when it should actually be the last resort.
Big business for the Pharmaceutical industries in the US that is reason. Other alternatives to managing conditions are often thrown to the bin... Sad.
Thank u so much♥️♥️
You don't look like what you have been through dear. You are a strong and beautiful mum. Thanks for sharing. And i thought i knew what ADHD was all about!
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I am from @nelookeke @Nazomscorner @banterswithNj @sandrasreality… like I have been following your family over d years… OMG I am so happy you came on here with ur story … I legit watched 6 ads on one video ..gurl u have blown lol m putting you on my WhatsApp and IG story Cs d world needs to hear real life not movies n fake life ….real life is so rea … God bless ur darling daughter n whole family
People always say old age causes this but truth is it can happen to anyone
And here in d U.S Dey always start with drugs n personally I believe therapy first…. I am so happpppy for you and pray God continue to give you the grace to go on this journey… Cs truth is some days will be very tough but u got this gurl..❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank u so so much.. I truly appreciate ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
My youngest son was diagnosed at 11 years old. He was in special needs classes for several years and spent 3yrs in a hospital takes much time and love to raise them. But thank God that he is now 42yrs with a family of his own. Always place them in the hands of God, because HE will fix it. 🙏🏾🇺🇲👵🏾 Thank you for sharing your story. GOD BLESS 💞
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 thank u
You're a great mom. The Lord is your strength and stronghold. Your daughter is lucky to have you😇
Nigeria still has a long way to go,in terms of working with Special needs children. In the West, they are treated with great love and parents with such children, are supported in different ways.Thanks for being a Special mum.God bless you ❤❤❤❤
💋💋💋💋💋💋.. You are wonderful for not giving up.. God is your strength 💪 Dimm you are a precious child 🧒 💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞
Wow! You're really a strong woman. Dinma is a blessed child and I pray that when she grows up she will be able to help other kids that have same condition.
This condition will even make you a far more tolerant and patient person than you used to be.
God bless your family
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You and your family are blessed and highly favoured Amen
Mma is already a star💕💕💕🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸nothing will stop her or the any amount of negative talks will bring her down🙏🙏🤝🤝
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#originalnatoya here🇯🇲🇯🇲❤️❤️❤️‼️‼️🦋⚠️
The Lord is your strength dear, God will definitely heal her and make her better in Jesus Name. Amen
Oohhh what strength you have...I can imagine💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞
My sister don't worry the lord that has brought her to this stage today will perfect his work in her life cause (what God cannot do does not exist) also be supporting her with prayers. It's well my dear
Thank u❤❤
Omg Omg thank my mum found your video.. this is me right now . This is my daughter.. am so stressed very much stress..
It's not easy.. but plz don't give up
Early intervention is always the key in such situations.
My son has also been diagnosed with that. It is not easy, both emotionally & financially, as they need lots of caring & the cost to see all the specialist doctors & therapist. But it is worth it at the end. We just need to be there for our kids & keep encouraging them.
Thank you for educating us. You are really doing a good job.I am an Educationist you are on the right path. Early start up is the key.May God prefect all that concerns her in Jesus name.More grace
We thank God for all the milestones little Dimma has hit ❤️🌟 indeed it’s not a Race, It’s a Journey x
Cheers Nneka x
All I can say is, you're a great mum, may God richly bless your efforts. ❤️
👏👏👏👏👏👏🤚 won't God do it. You're amazing parents to her.
Your efforts are never in vain. It will surely get better. Thank God it was diagnosed. May God see you through.
Thank Jesus's my sister you alone
so emotional . you are indeed a strong woman
Your daughter is fine, she's got LD, learning disabilities, stop sending her to regular school, she needs to go to school for kids with special needs, where she can get proper support & education.
I am so glad to be able to watch part 2 and what a wonderful blessing to have supportive family and friends
I think this video is super informative especially in the African specifically Nigerian community. We need to normalise conversations like this. Your a super mum for sure. Thanks for sharing your journey and experience to create awareness. 🙌🏾 sending you light and love
It is well with you... God will show up for you just trust Him🤗
Awww ❤️. She is a great child.
Thank God for your family ❤️
Your daughter therapist is a saint God will surely bless her in Jesus name amen
Keep strong my sister❤️❤️❤️🇯🇲‼️
Good Job Nneka! Chukwu Gba Unu Ume In Jesus Christ. Amen. That Child Is A Sign And A Wonder, That The Most High God Is Real.
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She is great
On a lighter note never seen a content creator grow so fast that means you have an amazing personality Nneka congratulations 🎉🎊💯
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Yes I fail in love straight with Enkay's personality.💯
@@NnekaNwogu oh yes beautiful ❤❤❤
@@TriniRoyQuiReyes true dear 💕
Mothers are so special. May we all live long to reap the fruits of our labor in the life of our children Ijn. Amen🙏
Awww, family love is everything. Grateful for her cousins. The beautiful thing is that she gets to grow with her cousins.
Thanks for sharing dis not all mum in ur shoes will share dis
Wow you are a great mum and I love how you love your child and also raising awareness for kids with similar conditions.
She is a star 🌟girl, just watch out and see
Amen
Your joy shall be full, more strength to you and the family.... much love
Glad they were able to find out exactly, thank God that you have a family and friends that cares that made things so easy. I can't wait to hear the next part.
My love for u is massive pure real an amazing I just can't stop loving your strong vibes ,ur daughter is gifted from heaven
Thank u so much♥️♥️♥️♥️
Thank God you accepted to start your channel honestly you have thought me a lot with this story..DimDim is a star 🌟
Third to commet. I came early today💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
Dim dim is a child of Grace,She will Be perfect..God is with y’all
You are a super mom!! Great job for raising awareness! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️🥰😍
Thanks for sharing your experience, it's so inspiring. I'm having the same experience with my three-year-old daughter, so I feel you. It takes a whole lot of patience and Faith to get through all you've mentioned. You're a courageous Mum. More Grace.
You have a genius kid on your hands, but you just need to know in which area, and how you to bring out the best in her. Unfortunately there might not be teachers for your kids in Nigeria. Well you SHOULD TRAIN YOURSELF TO BE HER TEACHER.
I have oo😊😊
Thanks alot for sharing Nneka, i never knew there was something of this nature, while teaching i met few kids so hyperactive and very slow but accademically and speech, i didnt know it was a disorder ...Thanks for creating this awareness so that alot of mothers will learn from it.
Autism and ADHD..my Son has the same Diagnosis…..it was tough..but it is getting better
Am waiting on diagnosis for my son. I cry every damn day. And I have a 2month old. The waiting list to get tested in America is crazy. My son is 2 and half
Wow! This is my own story, my daughter is will be 6 in October, I'm still struggling with getting her to learn, please can I get the contact of the therapist Abigail? Maybe she can suggest some things to me, because even down to reading and identifying the normal ABC and 123, she can't yet! I just came across your channel and saw you just lost a child, so sorry mama.
Nneka I love you so much,your heart is so pure
Thank God for provision in all of these. God bless your daughter 🥰
She's a rock star, she is made for signs and wonder, you all are doing a great job,kudos.
God gave us special grace and strength to take care of our special need kids.God will give us long life and good health to take care of them in jesus name. Our expectations and desire for our special kids shall not be cut off. I believe so much in the power of prayers. I call you my sister now because we both share something in common. As she is making progress, prayer is the supreme weapon. God bless you and your household.
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You're a very strong mom,No one would have ever known if you didn't share! which tells Dimma is doing alright.
All I see is a Great child
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You are really a hero some mother's we not notice anything
Just like me, each time my son does anything we clap and jump like we won lottery that day, I learnt allot from this video am going to stop giving him sugar especially juice, thanks so much for sharing nwanyi oma 🙏.
Ur welcome 🙏🏽
I just want to say well done!
Love you DimDim❤❤ love you Nneka ❤❤ i never noticed till you talked about it nothing can change my love for you guys may you partake on all the goodness and greatness life will unfold positively 🙏
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Well done