Aromantic moments

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  • A collection of aromantic moments.
    Clips featured from:
    00:05 The Expanse
    00:28 Stranger Things
    01:24 Merlin
    01:42 How I Met Your Mother
    02:14 Supernatural
    02:24 Galavant
    03:07 The Flash
    03:41 Doctor Who
    04:10 Sherlock
    05:05 Isn’t It Romantic
    06:08 Brave
    I do not benefit financially in any way, shape or form from this video.
    The music is Intoleranzen by Stefan Kartenberg in the creative commons, provided by ccmixter.org, The short circut sound effect is recorded by Mike Koenig in the creative commons provided by soundbible.com
    Thanks everyone who posted suggestions on arocalypse.com and the facebook group Happily aromantic.

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  • @SofiaBuhrgard
    @SofiaBuhrgard  4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Don't forget to check out part two!
    th-cam.com/video/UAqE7eJXgiY/w-d-xo.html

  • @sruthinambiar2701
    @sruthinambiar2701 4 ปีที่แล้ว +925

    I love that scene from brave. I am not aromantic but I am so tired of people putting marriage in such a high stool. Sure. It can be great. But let's talk about individuality first.

    • @cherryspice1011
      @cherryspice1011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Sruthi Nambiar preach

    • @breenween093
      @breenween093 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      tHen after we talk about individuality we can talk about dragons

    • @sruthinambiar2701
      @sruthinambiar2701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@breenween093 I am in! Haha

    • @Hecateofcrossroads
      @Hecateofcrossroads 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yeah even before I realized I was aromatic I have always new marriage is not for me the thought of engaging in a system based on ownership of woman is gross (in the past :origins of marriage
      ) no hate to anyone married I just find it creepy and unnecessary

    • @rottenappple3716
      @rottenappple3716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I agree. As an aromantic I'm fully capable of sympathizing with people who posses Romantic interest of all kinds. Romance has its lace in fiction, I just don't think it needs to be soooooooo heavily prioritized

  • @fluffypuppy4831
    @fluffypuppy4831 3 ปีที่แล้ว +980

    I guess you could say that Merida is... arrow-mantic

  • @MoistCrumpet
    @MoistCrumpet 4 ปีที่แล้ว +694

    Friend: *Crying hysterically*
    Me: What’s wrong?
    Friend: My boyfriend broke up with me!
    Me: Oh... okay...

    • @cupio-stardust
      @cupio-stardust 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Oh no! Anyway-

    • @ankerhedemand5918
      @ankerhedemand5918 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      congratulations, you're out of a relationship that wasn't working, truly a situation to be celebrated with ice-cream.

    • @kotaleartist
      @kotaleartist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      my friend recently broke up and i was blankly like okay. just kinda awkwardly sat and in a moment of desperation sent her a bunch ok break up songs i found in a playlist, a few articles on how to get over a break up, and a few tip videos as well as one of those hoodie-sunglasses-wiimusic videos because i didn’t know what else to do.

    • @reynakondaveeti8346
      @reynakondaveeti8346 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      My best friend rants to me about her crush and stuff and I’m just kind of like “okay…”
      But I’m one of those nosy best friends so I actually care about her love life and need to know every detail but I’ll never understand the struggle

    • @lilykep
      @lilykep 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I have never related to Zuko more than when he was saying "that's rough buddy" to Sokka.

  • @someoneunknown7655
    @someoneunknown7655 4 ปีที่แล้ว +919

    I *loved* brave when I was younger, Merida was the aro rep I desperately needed back then

    • @cherryspice1011
      @cherryspice1011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      Someone Unknown Merida was my favorite disney princess
      and now I am starting to understand why
      no marriage and freedom?
      sign me the fuck up

    • @blocks1198
      @blocks1198 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I loved that film so much, even before realising I’m aro

    • @calcium_skeleton
      @calcium_skeleton 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Back then I didn’t know aromantic was an option

  • @cherryspice1011
    @cherryspice1011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1083

    *Relationships are so overrated*

  • @jayquillberry4972
    @jayquillberry4972 4 ปีที่แล้ว +758

    I literally just realized more than ever that Will is definitely an Aromantic Ace and embodies exactly how I feel about friendship and relationships. All these clips are just me.

    • @johnnydeppaddict12
      @johnnydeppaddict12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Will is definitely aro ace which is why I felt for him in that clip

    • @cockycookie1
      @cockycookie1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Timestamp? Who's Will?

    • @darklordoftheuniverse7803
      @darklordoftheuniverse7803 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Indeed

    • @sandshadows
      @sandshadows 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@cockycookie1 0:28 will byers from stranger things

    • @JadeManatee
      @JadeManatee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I think Will in the second season was just trying to recapture much simpler, more innocent times after going through the trauma of being kidnapped and almost killed. His friends are growing up and he wants things to remain the same. He could definitely still get Aro-Ace.

  • @Sav060
    @Sav060 3 ปีที่แล้ว +511

    Okay but why is no one talking about the iconic Sherlock scene?! For me, he was the first character I saw that didn't put romantic relationships above everything else.

    • @johnnydeppaddict12
      @johnnydeppaddict12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      I headcanon Sherlock as aro ace as he screams that to me

    • @emilyharkness9685
      @emilyharkness9685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yeah! I loved Brave, but I didn't realize it until that scene in Sherlock when he blatantly said it.

    • @ireumeundisappointment7978
      @ireumeundisappointment7978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      same

    • @Spencer-fu3wp
      @Spencer-fu3wp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      seriously! that scene was incredibly moving to me when i first saw it. i had no idea it was coming

    • @orchidcapitalofitaly9780
      @orchidcapitalofitaly9780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      He was aro/ace in the books so

  • @ssjpanda8417
    @ssjpanda8417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +243

    HOW I MET YOUR MOTHER
    That isn't just an aromantic moment. It's a beautiful parenting moment. Profound love right there.

    • @music2012pink
      @music2012pink 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      True, but what he says is a call back to someone asked when he was going to settle down and he said he wasn't like his friend to fall in love at first sight, to just go up to a random person and say, cue him saying that whole speech to the closest women, then going back to his friend like nothing happened. That scene fits better there but he said that because he's a womaniser and his marriage fell through going back to being friends as the arguing was ruining their close friendship
      (bare in mind this is like 5 10 mins after their wedding in the episode due to a 2 year jump, in a season dedicated to their wedding weekend, after a season on their engagement, all showing how perfect they are together. And their not even the main character. It's supposed to be about his best friend meeting the future mother of his children. Which they very barely touch until the last season/8, but until almost the end it's just flash forward and narration, talking about how they are perfect for each other.
      But like the married couple this ends in the final episode with an undefined flash forward of her suddenly dying slowly from an unknown condition at the end, with the very end being him getting back with his ex, his best friend's ex wife who he had dated years/seasons ago. And the worse thing is that they planned that ending a decade previously as they kids were the same age as the pilot episode, it was a popular show, they didn't have to do it like that, they choose to stretch out the seasons then do a 180 in the final episode and have it more like how I met your step mother.)
      *Sorry for the fangirl rant sidetrack I actually did have something to say about the actual scene shown*
      It's even more meaningful when the character in an earlier season started a new holiday after a "near miss" called Not father's Day and through a party.
      There was a call back to it while he was in the waiting room when the nurse came out and he thought she was going to say it wasn't his, he set off a party popper put on a party hat and shouted happy not father's Day everyone.
      But then the women corrected him and said it was a girl, that he had a daughter. Then he goes still and goes to meet her and gives her that speech.
      It's possible the party is a cover up as his mother claims he does want kids and he is just playing tough like always.

  • @xPancake
    @xPancake 3 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    Never thought of Will being aro... makes a lot of sense actually. I had the same issues, wondering why everyone were obsessed with relationships while I just wanted to play video games with them.

  • @twigthetroll9279
    @twigthetroll9279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +362

    I've never watched Stranger Things, but I related to that clip on a spiritual level and it got me in the feels SO hard.
    And I headcanoned Merida as aroace super hard before I ever knew the terms "aro" and "ace" existed, which was one of the reasons I liked her so much.

    • @osamabinballin5369
      @osamabinballin5369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Lol my friends would say that im gay because i've never felt a thing or have a crush on a girl..

    • @nanalove3819
      @nanalove3819 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Stranger Things is pretty good. And in season 3, Will was the king of all aromantic people.

    • @ireumeundisappointment7978
      @ireumeundisappointment7978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SAME everything SAME. im gonna watch strangers things too now xD

  • @spacebug5686
    @spacebug5686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    I loved that stranger things scene I really relate to that like all my friends talk about is romance and I'm like "damn I'm trying to kill this giant lava gorilla and you want me to worry about girlfriends?"

    • @nathanjereb9944
      @nathanjereb9944 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Their priorities are not in check concerning the situation you are in

  • @visiblechaoticbread
    @visiblechaoticbread 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    "Are you feeling what I'm feeling??!"
    "No?????"

    • @nathanjereb9944
      @nathanjereb9944 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      *Car crashes*
      I think he felt that

  • @augstuffie8609
    @augstuffie8609 3 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    ok but the scene in isn't it romantic is literally how it feels when you're aro and everyone is like "

    • @cherryspice1011
      @cherryspice1011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      allosexual/ alloromantic people: let's kiss each other, go on dates, and do romantic uwu things
      aromantic asexual me: but why....why would you do any of that?

    • @user-uh9sf5sg3n
      @user-uh9sf5sg3n 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ayy fellow aroace

  • @ghostieboi9783
    @ghostieboi9783 4 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    The clip from 'Isn't is romantic' is exactly how I respond to people when they ask me out/being romantic 😂💚🤍💚

  • @vo_id732
    @vo_id732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    My friends: * talking about boys *
    Me: if someone asks me out I'm slapping an ace of spades in their face and walking away.

  • @vide0lover
    @vide0lover 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I know the show is probably setting Will up to be gay, which is fine. and he can also be Ace or Aro and Gay. But that scene with Mike, when he talked about just wanting to hangout with his friends, play games and nothing changing , totally screamed Ace/Aro to me.

  • @normaerika2363
    @normaerika2363 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    5:24 I remember me and my aro brother watching this movie and when this scene came up and he said, "she did the right thing, math before love"

    • @nathanjereb9944
      @nathanjereb9944 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Is she related to Athena in any way?
      Search up Greek gods if you don't know

  • @eliasminick7726
    @eliasminick7726 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    The awkward pause in the Galavant scene is so funny because that’s what it feels like

  • @breenween093
    @breenween093 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    i cant stop watching the “i know it’s fine” THE WAY HE DOESNT FLINCH OR HESITATE YESSSSS

    • @Spencer-fu3wp
      @Spencer-fu3wp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i nearly cried the first time i saw that scene, had no idea it was coming at all

  • @gloriabaquera5434
    @gloriabaquera5434 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    That interaction between Rebel Wilson and the Hemsworth bro is EXACTLY how i feel when people flirt with me omg xD

  • @tsundereyoongi3869
    @tsundereyoongi3869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Sherlock is my all time favourite, he's just so relatable~
    And 'isn't it romantic' is so good is me when my sister starts going off about her latest love interest 😒

    • @nathanjereb9944
      @nathanjereb9944 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Let me guess:
      At every love interest she had either been dumped or rejected by them and comes crying over to you everytime, then immediately goes after somone else?

  • @MollanPollzan
    @MollanPollzan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Gaius: ”Grunhilda has shown a certain interest toward me.”
    Me: ”She likes you? Well that’s great, right?” **being all positive and happy for them**
    Me on the inside: ”Oh, that is disgusting. Imagine.. Imagine if they kissed eachother. Ugh!!”

  • @NylonGenesis
    @NylonGenesis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Yo I've never seen the series but sherlock is a genuine mood when it comes to the romance stuff dang

  • @johnnydeppaddict12
    @johnnydeppaddict12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Love that Merida is a positive aro ace representation :)

  • @lilibabenhauserheide9124
    @lilibabenhauserheide9124 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    here you've dropped this👑

  • @alidagupta540
    @alidagupta540 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I've never even watched Stranger Things but that clip hit way too close to home

  • @Nickman826
    @Nickman826 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I relate to that Flash moment so hard

  • @rosemarycat5
    @rosemarycat5 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    YES YES YES
    I love this so much!
    I remember seeing that Merlin clip and thinking about what an aro mood it was!

    • @johnnydeppaddict12
      @johnnydeppaddict12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Gauis is so aro ace! :D

    • @nanalove3819
      @nanalove3819 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      All the fandom pair Merlin with Arthur and I'm just sitting there thinking : Merlin is absolutely aromantic.

    • @infinitywarlock4175
      @infinitywarlock4175 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nanalove3819 I agree 100%

  • @kindbloodedArlanna
    @kindbloodedArlanna 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    4:06 the mUSIC

  • @cristinacamacho8024
    @cristinacamacho8024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I died the second Merlin appeared

  • @Craze_1209
    @Craze_1209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    The amount of crushes I have faked to be popular is unfathomable

  • @excelsior6473
    @excelsior6473 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    man the scene from brave always made me cry for some reason. and now i know why

  • @dallas_malice5074
    @dallas_malice5074 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The only reason I'd ever get married: ✨tax benefits ✨

  • @NELLYUNG
    @NELLYUNG 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    I love the scenes from stranger things, how I met your mother.
    Also what's the name of the movie with the knight? 😁

    • @SofiaBuhrgard
      @SofiaBuhrgard  4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      It's from the tv-show Galavant. All the names are listed in the description.

  • @jc-fw8dp
    @jc-fw8dp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    When you're a demiromantic + an avoidant type in a relationship 😬

    • @blacat2168
      @blacat2168 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What do you mean with "avoidant type"? Genuinely interested.

    • @thejellyfishthatruinedyourday
      @thejellyfishthatruinedyourday 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg bitch same 👁👄👁

    • @aimia100
      @aimia100 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@blacat2168 this is short but it’s basically styles of behaviour expressed by a person in an intimate relationship. they’re not a permanent label so much as a helpful set of information on issues you may need to work on when it comes to intimacy with others. the most well-known types are the avoidant attachment style, and the anxious attachment style, avoidant types here will express reticence towards direct affection, may be emotionally unavailable when the time comes to offer intimacy and have put up emotional walls to distance themselves from vulnerability. they’ll be seen as heartless, withheld or maybe cold. looking up the attachment style will offer more information on the behaviour, why and how it occurs, and possible advice on overcoming these barriers. hope this helps! :)

    • @blacat2168
      @blacat2168 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aimia100 Interesting! Answered all of my questions. Thanks :)

  • @reignrain4042
    @reignrain4042 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I'm not aro but that brave scene is my love

  • @gimenamercado1358
    @gimenamercado1358 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Me cuestioning my sexuality and thinking that maybe I'm asexual: Sherlock being my favourite show now makes so much more sense

  • @comingforyourknees1264
    @comingforyourknees1264 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    💚🖤🤍 Aro club

    • @lbpfan315
      @lbpfan315 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can I join

  • @lisasleck6223
    @lisasleck6223 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    made me laugh, I am a demiromantic and I just love this

    • @SofiaBuhrgard
      @SofiaBuhrgard  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks! Don't forget part two 😉

  • @comingforyourknees1264
    @comingforyourknees1264 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Man when I watched Stranger Things season three I related to Will so much

  • @madarauchiha-qq9xb
    @madarauchiha-qq9xb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    " oh that is gross" ( cant say it right) got me dead XD

  • @yaoiloverstudio
    @yaoiloverstudio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I can relate to Sherlock so much omg, this show was brilliant!

  • @Spencer-fu3wp
    @Spencer-fu3wp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    this is such positive aromantic content, i've really been needing this. thank you so much for creating this. absolutely made my day.

  • @candylover1232
    @candylover1232 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    4:11 is the EXACT conversation i have with my parents whenever the topic of relationships comes up.

  • @Rainjojo
    @Rainjojo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That scene from brave had to be the most relatable as an aromantic

  • @dontask9000
    @dontask9000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I low key thought Will was probably gay or something but it’s today that I realize he might be ace/aro.

  • @ayyysexual
    @ayyysexual 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    hell yes, Madalena is my aro icon! see also the entirety of 'i love you as much as someone like me can love anyone'

  • @nschannel826
    @nschannel826 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I haven't even watched Isn't It Romantic, but that scene speaks to me in a personal level

    • @SofiaBuhrgard
      @SofiaBuhrgard  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought it was a good movie. The character is not actually aro but that particular scene is a very aro move and the whole movie is a parody of romantic comedy

  • @LU-jv6ll
    @LU-jv6ll 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    i love this thank you

  • @samtheflutegirl1373
    @samtheflutegirl1373 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can't believe you included Galavant. Amazing.

  • @shootingstar7208
    @shootingstar7208 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All these clips are so relatable 😂🥺

    • @SofiaBuhrgard
      @SofiaBuhrgard  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't forget the second and third part

  • @Cleridwen
    @Cleridwen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great compilation! Thanks :D

  • @GremlinReal
    @GremlinReal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Really glad there is videos like these! Thank you for making this : D

  • @Bea-rq1uf
    @Bea-rq1uf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    haha the Merlin one Iv'e always related to lol

    • @SofiaBuhrgard
      @SofiaBuhrgard  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It seems to me many aros have an inner Merlin voice even though they don't show it :D

  • @Lunar_DeBrie
    @Lunar_DeBrie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Merida! I forbid it!"
    Forbid THIS, mom! *shoves aromantic flag in her face* LMAO

  • @greybey4385
    @greybey4385 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I remember when I was a little kid and I would watch a movie with my family and two characters kissed each other, my father would often say "ew! they're biting each other's faces!" and I know it was more of a joke but I personally think it's a very aromantic thing to say

  • @darklordoftheuniverse7803
    @darklordoftheuniverse7803 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This video was fantastic.

    • @SofiaBuhrgard
      @SofiaBuhrgard  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't forget to check out part 2 and the just uploaded part 3

  • @gabys919
    @gabys919 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This makes me happy

  • @vickilljoy6099
    @vickilljoy6099 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    listen, I know the HIMYM scene is like really emotional and stuff, but the look on that baby's face got me cackling

  • @radiationshepherd
    @radiationshepherd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The stranger things one made me sad

  • @Kiokatz_
    @Kiokatz_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Merlin is so iconic lol

  • @inspiringer6418
    @inspiringer6418 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm tired of feeling like shit because I'm aromantic

  • @RamonaGelosi
    @RamonaGelosi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg the stranger things scene, I didn’t realize it. Now I love Will more

  • @ireumeundisappointment7978
    @ireumeundisappointment7978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    now it makes sense why i loved merida

  • @vampiresquid2635
    @vampiresquid2635 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    that Classic who scene-oh yes

  • @faszkivan1
    @faszkivan1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    1:10 oh i felt this one...

  • @siberiasian
    @siberiasian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I just want friends to do crazy shit together

  • @JaneDoe-cz5oe
    @JaneDoe-cz5oe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    2:27 Never seen that clip or movie but that's hilarious.

    • @SofiaBuhrgard
      @SofiaBuhrgard  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's from the pilot of the show Galavant

    • @FerretKibble
      @FerretKibble 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The entire show (Galavant) is that hilarious.

  • @ching-hohunkin6893
    @ching-hohunkin6893 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aromantic 💚!

  • @jhulpthefox
    @jhulpthefox ปีที่แล้ว

    *Merida comes on*
    Me: FUCK YEAAAAAHHHHHHH

  • @The_Knight_IsTheVillain
    @The_Knight_IsTheVillain 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1:42 One of the butterflies has the aro flag colors

    • @SofiaBuhrgard
      @SofiaBuhrgard  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow good catch. Let's say it's intentional

  • @Kilathasaurus
    @Kilathasaurus ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Honestly now that Will is a confirmed gay character and if he also wasn't hinted (confirmed too) that he is in love with Mike i would've took the aro will hc with no problem

  • @lulu-ne3wl
    @lulu-ne3wl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    5:06 OMG this movie is SO good

  • @anjachan
    @anjachan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    it's so funny because it's so realistic to me xD

  • @genevievemonk1108
    @genevievemonk1108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    *_MeRrridA, don't you lose anotheR aRrRo_*

  • @DarkShiva7
    @DarkShiva7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I don’t get the one from how I met your mother. Can someone explain?

    • @SofiaBuhrgard
      @SofiaBuhrgard  4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      The scene is from the last episode when Barney meets his daughter. Earlier in the episode he told his friends there would never be anyone that was the love of his life but when he meets his daughter he says those words to her. Reminding us that other kinds of love can be just as strong as romantic one.

  • @reneperez4170
    @reneperez4170 ปีที่แล้ว

    "So , you Headcanon Mike as Gay Aromantic?"
    Me: and Demisexual

  • @Wildmanmercury
    @Wildmanmercury 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I didn’t understand the baby scene. Was it meant to be a burrito?

  • @lulu-ne3wl
    @lulu-ne3wl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    2:20 the guy is me lol

  • @LydiaXavier321
    @LydiaXavier321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I could probably do the whole arrow thing TBH

  • @lazo3251
    @lazo3251 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I forgot Barry's mom was in Supernatural

  • @twistytrombone2453
    @twistytrombone2453 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    When I watched the stranger things scene I thought Will was in love with him ( which is why he didn't want a gf and wanted to stay and be with him). But this makes more sense. (I'm demi-gray aro and asexual) :)

  • @kleislikes1589
    @kleislikes1589 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm here to understand more about aros and I don't understand how the clip from How I Met Your Mother is aro, can you help me?
    Is it because sweet is different from romantic? Or is it just the sweetness with possible partners that is unwanted? What he said to the baby was so adorable, but isn't it romantic too?
    Maybe being italian doesn't help with understanding the difference between sweet and romantic in a relationship but im trying.
    Btw I always thought that character was aro because of him not looking for a stable relationship and for how he acted while in one. I just.. don't get why he's percieved as aro in this scene? Did I just miss the point?

    • @SofiaBuhrgard
      @SofiaBuhrgard  3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Aromantic is about not feeling romantic love. He's saying lines that are usually used for a romantic partner, but saying them instead to his daughter. Reminding us that there are other kinds of strong love than the romantic one.

  • @Lazh-_-
    @Lazh-_- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kinda relate lol... Still confused tho I am aro or not

  • @miapileggi7330
    @miapileggi7330 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    sherlock is me as a man… aro and intj

  • @nienkehuijbens301
    @nienkehuijbens301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Meerliiiiin

  • @ninar.9592
    @ninar.9592 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can someone explain the himym scene?

    • @SofiaBuhrgard
      @SofiaBuhrgard  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The scene is from the last episode when Barney meets his daughter. Earlier in the episode he told his friends there would never be anyone that was the love of his life but when he meets his daughter he says those words to her. Reminding us that other kinds of love can be just as strong as romantic one.

  • @fangirldreamer748
    @fangirldreamer748 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I headcannon Ryu Bakura, from Yugioh! As being aromantic and Asexual.

  • @lisztomaniacgirl
    @lisztomaniacgirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

  • @Sweaterlatethannever
    @Sweaterlatethannever 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The Doctor is 100% asexual and at the MOST demiromatic as well as agender/gender fluid and no i will not be taking criticism

  • @artzdraws6157
    @artzdraws6157 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is 2:27 from 😂

  • @cellyzs
    @cellyzs 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    that barney one was definitely not aromantic. Guy is in constant relationships through the shows, would've been with the mom of the child, and who is to say that he wont get in another relationships.
    wack.

    • @SofiaBuhrgard
      @SofiaBuhrgard  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I think one can say Barney only rarely feel romantic attraction. So he fits on the aro spectrum. But I also just in general choose scenes with aro mood. It's not necessarily that the characters are clearly aro since there are very few canonically aro characters.

    • @cellyzs
      @cellyzs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@SofiaBuhrgard Yea you're right. He may have been big horn but good point about the romantic attraction different from sexual.

  • @joshuanitura9376
    @joshuanitura9376 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love is for weak people

  • @allistair61
    @allistair61 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    In the isn't it Romantic clip, that is possibly the worst chat up line I have ever seen.

  • @lostcamcorderr
    @lostcamcorderr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A lot of these scenes describe me as an aroace guy