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  • @thepoeticallycorrect
    @thepoeticallycorrect 2 ปีที่แล้ว +731

    "You don't know what is waiting for you until you let go of that thing that is holding you down!"~ Lamb👊🏾

    • @Backyardboogie9473
      @Backyardboogie9473 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      This really stuck out to me too!!

    • @linapesz313
      @linapesz313 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Amen

    • @queentyeissha8219
      @queentyeissha8219 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Beautiful married couple. I love how she is so OPEN to understanding her husband. I also love how she just let Lamb just be himself. I love the sing thankful🙌🙏. You guys really do have something special.

    • @marina3187
      @marina3187 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So true.

    • @vikkisimpson6655
      @vikkisimpson6655 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Already

  • @sharonpeart-ricketts3624
    @sharonpeart-ricketts3624 2 ปีที่แล้ว +579

    Being a Jamaican and living in Jamaica 🇯🇲 makes me so proud to see his reaction!!

    • @colouredlioness2199
      @colouredlioness2199 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I mean.. you guys do have amazing food and top notch hospitality.. I loved my Jamaican trip 💞🌻🙏🏾

    • @josielovehart831
      @josielovehart831 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      💗💗

    • @deborahsphotography
      @deborahsphotography 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I am in Jamaica and always love his reaction to our food.

    • @daemperor99
      @daemperor99 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Big facts! The man love ah food yes!

    • @sbarnett2494
      @sbarnett2494 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Makes me proud also since I am half Jamaican 🙌🏽🇯🇲 I love my culture.

  • @nia4087
    @nia4087 2 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    Oh that's a gem. "What you allow is what is allowed and what is allowed is what becomes." -Lamb

  • @superAweber
    @superAweber 2 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    7:33 "Love is a conscious effort, from 2 individuals, to humble themselves, be realistic and faithful on their journey."

  • @pearl729
    @pearl729 2 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    Lamb is absolutely right. Sometimes you gotta let go to gain. I left an unhealthy relationship, took some time to get myself back, and 2 1/2 years later met the man that showed me real love, appreciation, and trust that goes with a very healthy relationship. We've now been married for over ten years and our love continues to grow. It's something I never thought would be possible before.

    • @portmoregirl
      @portmoregirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That's lovely. Happy for you. In my fifties and several failed relationships including marriage. I'm over it.

    • @tanishanightingale
      @tanishanightingale 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Wow!! I yearn for this so much! I have been wanting this since I was 16 years old. I hope that one day I meet the man that would love me unconditionally and I will show him the kind of love he has been waiting for as well. Blessings to you and your husband!!

    • @shernettedudley4460
      @shernettedudley4460 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We jamaican have to have the plantains with the meal. There is something about the plantains

    • @Marlola41
      @Marlola41 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also your not alone with followers who can relate and give feed back it motivates u to want to stay and try all solutions available family, Good people in community social media😊❤

  • @ibygaillewis5463
    @ibygaillewis5463 2 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    I love how you tackle this situationship!!!! “You never know what's waiting for you until you let go of what you have" POINT BLANK PERIOD!!!!

    • @thirdeffect
      @thirdeffect 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      People come into our lives for growth, but all is moving back to its center. All growth is from within and everything changes, but The Truth, which is timeless, ageless. The fruit we bear is by the lives we lead, our Principles. Peace and Love family,
      💚💛❤️🌴☝🏽 One Root, many trees. Can't let the weeds choke out your Garden 🌍🤝🏽📿

    • @chancarter3440
      @chancarter3440 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I like that too, and it’s true 👏🏼 👏🏼

    • @mufasathelionking6276
      @mufasathelionking6276 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Word!

  • @renayakhemien5060
    @renayakhemien5060 2 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    I love what you said Lamb…Love is simple, be realistic, humble yourself and be faithful in the journey that you share! Such a powerful statement!

  • @carolkabot
    @carolkabot 2 ปีที่แล้ว +382

    I believe in relationships one needs to be honest about their intentions instead of wasting another's time. Love you guys

    • @bathos22
      @bathos22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Nah, noone can waste your time without your permission.

    • @textstory6430
      @textstory6430 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ❤🙏🏽

    • @ravenshanks
      @ravenshanks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think certain men are good at giving false hope knowing the one he is entertaining is not the woman he wants to settle down with. When there has been years that have gone by its up to us as women to pay attention to his actions not his words. If a man wants to marry a woman it won't take him 6 years to do so. If he is working on himself and his finances a relationship is the last thing he needs to worry about so when you said its about honesty its so true. But I find there are certain men who lie to get what it is they want but it's also on us as women to know who we are not to settle or second guess and be very clear about what it is we are wanting and moving on accordingly when a man's actions aren't lining up

    • @lifemmachi406
      @lifemmachi406 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😍😍😘😘😘

  • @anadepina7051
    @anadepina7051 2 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    It’s the fear of walking away after putting in so much time. We have to be courageous enough to walk away when we are not getting what we need.

    • @fraymiller6547
      @fraymiller6547 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I agree with you guys what you don't confront you will never change no one should be engaged for six years that makes no sense

    • @katharinaskibbe3360
      @katharinaskibbe3360 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The time you put in isn't wasted, it's all important lessons to learn and grow

    • @Speedy300
      @Speedy300 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      1 year should be longest time and not 5 years because that is waste of time

    • @ricardooconnor2362
      @ricardooconnor2362 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s not so easy when kids are involved

    • @blessed1940
      @blessed1940 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't care how much time I put in it. I will go and I did after 3 years of marriage.

  • @fadzaimudariki5209
    @fadzaimudariki5209 2 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    What you allow, is what is allowed. And what you allow is what becomes. 🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @MichelleNo1738
      @MichelleNo1738 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He dropped some real good gems in this that really stood out 🔥🔥🙌🏼

  • @PulaneLehloo
    @PulaneLehloo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    "Love is straight forward. Love is a conscious effort from two individuals to humble themselves and be realistic and faithful in their journey." Lamb, 2022. Wow! I had to watch this video 10x.👌

  • @chestersteentalksmukbangsa1558
    @chestersteentalksmukbangsa1558 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    As a Jamaican I feel all the joy to my soul. I hear my ancestors laughing and rejoicing. Nanny said to let you know this is the reason why she fought so much. Ase

  • @kingpin4162ify
    @kingpin4162ify 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Lambs culture shock reactions are so genuine and his Nigerian upbringing and teachings make him a joy to watch and Lings pure spirit and bubbly but down to earth character keeps everything grounded and centered. Love their entertainment!

  • @tobiasmangoma9566
    @tobiasmangoma9566 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Jokes aside. Lamb`s words carry real weight. He advice from the bottom of the heart and his advice makes real sense

  • @ca1532
    @ca1532 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Agreed. People are always waiting around for others to treat them the way they want to be treated. If you don’t want a long term engagement, say so and if the person is disagreeable, leave.

  • @opalhamilton9128
    @opalhamilton9128 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Can't get enough of Lamb's reactions to Our Jamaican food 😋 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

  • @therealkyia9821
    @therealkyia9821 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Ling you said it best, “either you want to be with me or you don’t “! Periodt Six year engagement???! NO! Move on!!!

  • @cherylfenton5390
    @cherylfenton5390 2 ปีที่แล้ว +245

    When Lamb said : you are now in a situationship with the Jamaican food....I fell out🤣🤣😂
    Look at him get down in that food😆
    You guys are hilarious ❤❤

    • @maryannamarachiokeke155
      @maryannamarachiokeke155 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      This too shall pass. The good Lord will see you through, it's a phase it will pass

    • @marciarenne1746
      @marciarenne1746 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yep the situationship for real!!!

    • @debbierobinson1642
      @debbierobinson1642 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️

    • @normawallace5700
      @normawallace5700 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love is kind not puffed up. Some men are obsessed with their women and that is far from love.

  • @beutibymimi3245
    @beutibymimi3245 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Lamb telling Ling "You are in a Situationship with this Jamaican food" was Hilarious as usual the two of you always make me smile and laugh out loud about something 🤣🤣🤣😂💯✅ I agree that "Love" is made out to be way complicated when People are not being Truthful especially with themselves. Simplify it by being "True " with You always💕

  • @roseb3919
    @roseb3919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Needed this , I had to end the situation because I realised my worth is either you want me or you don’t . Thank you so much guys

    • @tonyejiro7641
      @tonyejiro7641 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      36 people liked this comment that means 36 people ain't learning nothing from lamb and ling, drop the ego.

    • @chelseaa2769
      @chelseaa2769 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same he wanted me to be a friend and lover without being the same to me... never again.

    • @roseb3919
      @roseb3919 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tonyejiro7641 there’s no ego to drop what the hell . Keep your comment to yourself respectfully.

    • @tonyejiro7641
      @tonyejiro7641 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@roseb3919 Once again the exact opposite of what this beautiful couple is trying to teach people, why are you mad because I didn't agree with you?everyone 's got ego but the only way to be with the one you love happily is to never come to the conclusion that you were right and your partner was wrong, don't judge him and he shouldn't judge you neither its called love not war,I used to be very egoistic and self centered ,could barely notice my own flaws till I bumped into ling and lamb and it has helped me tremendously, its a beautiful feeling, takecare Godbless.

    • @roseb3919
      @roseb3919 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tonyejiro7641 everyone has an opinion that’s fine but there was no need for that but okay stay blessed

  • @krystalazofficial
    @krystalazofficial 2 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Lamb is so good to her. I love their relationship xoxo. He always stops to make sure she is ok at all times. They are both such beautiful people both inside and out. I'd love to hang out with them and eat some food "Bambi" whips up. I bet I'd be bomb food and endless laughter.

  • @benjisplendid7257
    @benjisplendid7257 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    'Love is simple, be realistic, humble yourself and be faithful in the journey that you share!' WORD!!!

  • @beatrixkiddo5
    @beatrixkiddo5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Lamb is saying "Why buy the cow when the milk is free" 🤣🤣🤣
    Dad jokes💕

  • @roshongardner6957
    @roshongardner6957 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    He is so right people complicate love and out of what they want to do and I believe it's just a plan of the enemy to really corrupt love because the way how God intended love was that love wasn't supposed to fail there is no such thing as a "situationship"? This is just crazy and people are just voluntarily signing up for hurt ....if your reading this u dont need pain.....God bore all the pain he did for u so u could be free Acts 2:38

  • @MorninStarTV
    @MorninStarTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I love you guys...More of God's grace in your marriage!!

  • @freshwindministry
    @freshwindministry 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You're reaction to our Jamaican food is priceless... Continue to enjoy our food 🙏👏👏👏

  • @pearlsof5534
    @pearlsof5534 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    So true Lamb- “you don’t know what’s waiting for you until you let go of the thing that’s holding you down”

  • @kathyparker8357
    @kathyparker8357 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So True Lamb and Ling , I Agree with you Both. ❤️😊

  • @tigertyson943
    @tigertyson943 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    What you allow is what is allowed, and what is allowed is what you become… My brother from another mother “Tell’em like it is Lamb”!!!!🙌🏽

  • @krissyfusion
    @krissyfusion 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Lamb's reaction when eating Jamaican food is priceless. I hope you guys visit Jamaica in the near future cause the food there is so much better. Love you guys.

  • @elliec7677
    @elliec7677 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Love is so simple and you’re right Lamb, humans complicate things! I met my husband when I was 20, he was still 19. A US marine stationed in England and we were married after 10mths and we have been married for 17yrs. I just knew he was the man for me. People always want something better… they think the grass is greener. I had found a man who was loving and caring, he wanted to treat me like I was the only girl in the world and he still does treat me that way. It’s not been an easy ride but one thing has remained, we love each other 🤗💕

  • @tinacoleman2633
    @tinacoleman2633 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You don’t know what is waiting for you until you let it go! 🙌🏾 Facts

  • @MsJuelz22
    @MsJuelz22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I have literally been binge watching your videos. Like you're both too genuine. Please continue to be yourselves. So natural and Ling's laughter is soooo heartfelt. I just love how Lamb can be himself and Ling totally gets it well most times when she doesn't understand the African slang looool. Just love you guys 💕💕💕💕

  • @jacquelinejumpp4003
    @jacquelinejumpp4003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Being a jamaican I love his reaction when he eats jamaican food. Jamaican jerk chicken is always spicy. Love to watch you guys.

  • @InvernessFlorida2023
    @InvernessFlorida2023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Well said Lamb … if you don’t have boundaries and standards for yourself… it’s impossible for others to have them towards you . Christ has redeemed us from the curses …. Stay free 🙌🏽

  • @Colversan718
    @Colversan718 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Lamb, he is funny and he has a lot of wisdom. I like how he described what Love is. It is very true what he said about allowing yourself to be in that situation.

  • @genevievesturrup2990
    @genevievesturrup2990 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Situationship. To be engaged in a relationship for 6 years is too long. That looks like a relationship that may never end in marriage. The ring is only to keep that person from leaving the relationship. Straight talk.

  • @mjhughes684
    @mjhughes684 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes!!!......preach Lamb....humans make "love" complicated and difficult. This should never be the case. Not to the point where you are exhausted for loving someone.

  • @constancereyes417
    @constancereyes417 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love the way Lamb is committed to eating even as he gives great advice. Very real and very funny! 😁

  • @KingdomBloosoms
    @KingdomBloosoms 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Preach Pastor Lamb!! He said one of you should come hold the camera 😂 your not even holding it just preach. The wisdom he’s spitting is 🔥

  • @PulaneLehloo
    @PulaneLehloo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You don't know just how much value you're adding to my life. You inspire me, you make me laugh and bring so much joy to my life. I don't think there's an emoji that can clearly express how I feel about you guys. 💞💗❤🇿🇦

  • @vincentgiammanco4673
    @vincentgiammanco4673 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Young lady your smile& love 4 him is totally INFECTIOUS...GOD BLESS U BOTH

  • @NatalieStHill-us9vb
    @NatalieStHill-us9vb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Amen Lamb! Love is love. People allow themselves to be in, " situationships" for many reasons. If the person has to ask the question, I think they already know the answer but are afraid to make the change. I know you guys enjoyed that Jamaican food.

  • @mitziecyrus4205
    @mitziecyrus4205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lamb I agree with you , people don’t like to be honest with themselves, self evaluate.Sometimes some of us don’t know what we want.

  • @danafarley3
    @danafarley3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I agree with ling. When she said your either with someone or your not. Too many people get themselves into that kind of “relationship”

  • @emmaneatsecrettv4393
    @emmaneatsecrettv4393 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lamb always speaks like 70years old man.......you sound's so right @Lamb .....also we need to learn of letting go..... but sir..... it's not easy as said oooo...walahi

  • @rose-anndurant
    @rose-anndurant 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As a Jamaican, I love Lamb's excitement for the food. The best! Reminds me of how I feel when I'm at a restaurant and waiting for the foo to come.

  • @edeemmanuel393
    @edeemmanuel393 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such profound views. Love that both Ling and Lamb are like these wells of wise humour.
    That definition of love, my God!

  • @TheCXBbudget
    @TheCXBbudget 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lamb is missing his calling as a preacher 👏🏼🙌🏼 great advise

    • @Barakamengi1
      @Barakamengi1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not preacher but relationship coach or counselling service.

  • @gij122
    @gij122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Men and women know your worth. Don't allow anyone to make you an option. Ling is correct - "Either you want to be in a relationship or you don't." You make the choice to leave or go. Loving someone is a choice.
    Real talk from Lamb.
    I love how Lamb cares for Ling.

  • @indrahardial2609
    @indrahardial2609 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I cant get enough of this amazing couple. Every word of Lamb is pure gold. Maybe he needs to write book on relationship goals.

  • @Walkinfaith12
    @Walkinfaith12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Even when Lamb is serious I still find him hilarious.!! Ling is his beautiful baby 🥰

  • @PeopleTheseDays373
    @PeopleTheseDays373 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I love yall 💗 so much love and respect and teaching others regardless of the situation you are in with your significant other you still have to love and respect her and him.....I appreciate you two and if I was Able to speak either of you about myself, I would be a open book. Thank you for the positivity ✌🏿

  • @heididobson5582
    @heididobson5582 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Powerful thought and words off wisdom. I’m definitely saving and sharing this video. Thank you Lamb.❤️🙏🏾☝🏾

  • @ArmenianBrandy
    @ArmenianBrandy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    I am as Armenian as it gets, lol, but I LOVE Jamaican culture. (I also follow Shane & Liana, Kristen & Reafe, DaddyDLotv, Momma Joan), but NOBODY makes me crave Jamaican food like Lamb does! Ps: I never even had Jamaican food, hahaha, go figure! One day I will go to Jamaica, till then I will work on learning Patois...greetings to all y'all Jamaicans out there reading this. #Jamaica #BigUpYuhself #NuffLove 🇦🇲❤🇯🇲

    • @putus406
      @putus406 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jamaica 🇯🇲 ROCKS!

    • @ArmenianBrandy
      @ArmenianBrandy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@putus406 yep! Bless Up! 🇯🇲

    • @lesawilliams8250
      @lesawilliams8250 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You're welcome to Jamaica anytime you're ready hun

    • @portmoregirl
      @portmoregirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ArmenianBrandy Greetings! Yu missing out :) Hope you get to come soon..:)

    • @eminemarmy5656
      @eminemarmy5656 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Howdy

  • @Emily_CM
    @Emily_CM 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She needs to leave that situation. The reason she is even asking is that she already knows. Love is very easy. I agree with you Lamb. Six years is not an engagement. It’s a waste of time.

  • @Loveweneh
    @Loveweneh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Hahahaha..
    It's Lamb's excitement and prayer for food for me
    Amen😂😂
    You both are an example *that true love still exist*
    Love from Nigeria 🇳🇬

  • @zannaadedigba3936
    @zannaadedigba3936 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your transparency , along with the cultural differences, and showing the bumps in your road of this relationship!!! It’s precious! And what is so beautiful, is lambs humility. No pride involved. I can see Jesus in him … now onto a problem I have with my man. He is younger than me and sometimes the pride and hatefulness will really get to me…. I need a counseling session with Ling!!!!!!l❤️❤️❤️because my Nigerian man is lovely, but sometimes, very hard to deal with . Plz help!!!!

  • @christopherhenry5430
    @christopherhenry5430 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Love for Jamaica 🇯🇲 💚💛🖤🇯🇲

  • @sandreneoconnor857
    @sandreneoconnor857 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jamaica land we love.....🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

  • @ShekaBlessed
    @ShekaBlessed 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I love how you guys are authentic ❤️ ❤️ 🙏🏼😃

    • @angelenabrooks3590
      @angelenabrooks3590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I frantically look for U two everyday,from my phone to cable tv. The best entertainment going on today.

  • @kathyrodriguez697
    @kathyrodriguez697 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yesss soo true , I was in a toxic relationship and every time I addressed a problem it became a challenged and not only was it horribles but the man was in the service at a young age and that became the excuse for most soo I had to let go and let GOD .. I am good ., omg I love love this amazing couple and the Jamaican good is delicious omg thank you both

  • @ojrevival
    @ojrevival 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    In every relationship, never be kept in the dark. Always seek definite answers and forge on with understanding...
    You guys rock 💪🏾I wish you guys a long and fruitful marriage.
    🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬

  • @bennybenny193
    @bennybenny193 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this is the kind understanding, love, appreciation, etc i wish for me and hubby to be. Bros and our Oyibo wife "una Well Done ooo". I wish to spend a week at your end. holiday stuff.

  • @elainethompson7115
    @elainethompson7115 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Lamb is going to enjoy that Jamaican food 😋 sending love ❤ from Jamaica 🇯🇲

  • @MariaC-vh3im
    @MariaC-vh3im 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I guess some people are too afraid to be alone and instead they settle for trashy relationships. She knows that relationship is not going anywhere but she still has hope it would get better with time. Sister, it’s been 6yrs. Still engage and now it’s getting worst? Love yourself enough to know you deserve better. A relationship is supposed to give you peace without doubt. Please call it quit

  • @danielmansuru6145
    @danielmansuru6145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lamb gave a very good answer towards the question. Because it fact that anything u accept, be it a good decision or a bad one then the results will be how it ever that decision end result is. So if she is accepting the situation is calming to be love then she has to choose wisely before she get into more complicated parts in the relationship.

  • @debsampson7960
    @debsampson7960 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lamb be dropping gems! So wise.

  • @evansebere8799
    @evansebere8799 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Happiness,love, kindness, togetherness are keys in marriage.i enjoyed watching when both of you cook together,eat,play and have fun together.biko, enjoy your wonderful meals.

    • @graceybeckles-kudanu6916
      @graceybeckles-kudanu6916 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That was very nice please can you try Trinidadian food and see how you like or don't like it

  • @kathywimberly8959
    @kathywimberly8959 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree with you lamb. Excellent analogies and advise.

  • @mcleodshea
    @mcleodshea 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I feel the same way, Lamb. Team Jamaica all day. My choice: Oxtail or curry goat on a bed of rice-and-peas, with argula salad and sorrel on the side.

    • @portmoregirl
      @portmoregirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What's argula? I'm Jamaican. Never heard of it.

    • @mycookingjourney6980
      @mycookingjourney6980 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      what TF is argula Salad..... a lettuce and tomato u a talk

  • @ftc22
    @ftc22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Engaged for 6 years? Someone does NOT want to get married. 6 years is a stall tactic. It's called DRANGGING THE LINE!
    Don't marry him if he is not moving. He's not moving for a reason. RED FLAG!
    I think she should go and find herself . If she is allowing him to drag on like this , then imagine what he will do in the marriage. Let him GO!!!!!!!

  • @sandraruncie4351
    @sandraruncie4351 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    WOW!!!! Being a Jamaican and a chef, it gives me great pleasure to see this video. The turning of the HAT says it alllllll🙌

  • @MixingitupWITHGiGi
    @MixingitupWITHGiGi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree, people find themselves in situationship just to show their circle that they have a man/woman or simple fear of being alone. People please start loving yourselves to happiness.

  • @mj3026
    @mj3026 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I love his reaction when it comes to food his hilarious 🤣
    Also he always has the best advice for people, & ling you looking beautiful as usual your hair suits you short

  • @darrinlogan
    @darrinlogan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This relationship that you are in start off great head over heels. When you got into your third and fourth year of the relationship you realize the dating part of the relationship is over and the reality of real life is setting in. And this is not what you see in your guy to be your husband. We must go with our hearts, but we also have to think with our brains. Commitment Trust relationship and life itself is free. But the things that you want in these areas can cause pendant on your life style to be. Lamb is hitting it on the head. His relationship didn't take six years. They wasn't making book of money at the beginning either. They stayed in a small room and grew as a money grew. Hoping that they stay grounded and support each other needs.

  • @michelleburke3318
    @michelleburke3318 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    😂🤣getting ready to eat Jamaican food will make you say a quick inaudible prayer!!!

  • @Bennyfada09
    @Bennyfada09 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advice Lamb & Ling . God is not a time waster so no one should remain in an unstable relationship… “one of dem should off de camera. 😆 like my dad used to tell us to off de Stereo. 😃… Remain Blessed. 🙏🏽💙

  • @mwitakapaya
    @mwitakapaya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    "Put the ring in his Jamaican food and let him eat it "😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Lamb. I cannot

  • @cynthiacarr2093
    @cynthiacarr2093 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent advice and Truths💯🤴🏾👸🏾❤

  • @SunnysBibleASMR
    @SunnysBibleASMR 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    As for The situationship: Girl needs to go be alone and enjoy that season and then at right time- the right and better one that will chase her down to keep her forever…

  • @rachelleasch7483
    @rachelleasch7483 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🇯🇲 🇯🇲 🇯🇲 all the way.nothing comes close.as Jamaican's would say dig my bwoy!!! ❤❤❤love it

  • @christinestephens37
    @christinestephens37 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    You guys are making me break my diet. I love watching you guys eat food together. I actually take time to taste and enjoy my food because of Lamb's cap turning signal. Thank you for the topic on relationships very helpful. 😇❤️

  • @lr2075
    @lr2075 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lamb reminds me of someone who has a wise and mature soul. He doesn't play around with words and tells it like it is but in a caring way. Almost like a brotherly way of advising and protecting you since he knows what is best for you.

  • @mauvalynlynch1287
    @mauvalynlynch1287 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thank you guys for these videos. You are going to let the Drs diagnose me with lack of sleep, but, I love your content so much. I fall asleep with my laptop on Ling & Lamb. Reach home late from work and have to watch Ling & lamb. You guys are the best.💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @juellzzdrizzy
    @juellzzdrizzy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lamb you are so right..10:00 They know what they have they thought they wouldn't lose it. You have to get rid of the old to make room for your new.

    • @juellzzdrizzy
      @juellzzdrizzy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I've been watching you two (Ling and Lamb) for a couple of years. First time I believed I commented. I love you both. What an amazing couple. 💖 is 💖

  • @damonh.1945
    @damonh.1945 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    No such thing as a "situation ship." It all boils down to what a person really wants. Prioritize for your life and find what's important to you. Don't let anything take you from what you see fit for your life.

    • @anaelechinelson373
      @anaelechinelson373 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Actually there is. It's when a relationship either romantic or sexual, is not formal or established.

    • @helloify498
      @helloify498 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Damon H. Yes there's [Situationship]. It's a term people use to describe situations such as [Entanglement]

    • @damonh.1945
      @damonh.1945 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      What I mean is to a logical and straight forward thinking person with their morals intact. "Situationship" in other words makes no sense to me. It's just one of those invented terms to complicate life in my opinion. My best regards to whomever believes in this.

    • @josephajibodu2377
      @josephajibodu2377 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@damonh.1945 Yeah, you are all on the right path. Situationship is just used to term a relationship that isn’t defined. It’s a negative connotation.
      It doesn’t mean they are saying situationship is a type of relationship.

  • @obazeeyemil2738
    @obazeeyemil2738 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wahala dey lamb, Guy take am easy oooo, love you both ❤️❤️❤️❤️🇳🇬

  • @bellringer0348
    @bellringer0348 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    God bless you both! I love your channel good food and good advice ( conversation). I have been married twice, they both cheated. I have been dating a military man since 2017 and he don’t want to commit I think he’s trying to keep his options open. but Lamb said it , it’s what we allow in a relationship. Thanks and God Bless

  • @happynikkie7530
    @happynikkie7530 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree with u guys... Give us a session about Vulnerability... Dyou guys get vulnerable individually and how dyou deal with issues na Lamb how do African men express their vulnerability coz I think it's ok to cry to let it all out.... Ling whats your take on vulnerability

  • @rosiemetha275
    @rosiemetha275 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Lamb makes alot of sense
    But I believe people dnt let go because 1: people are insecure an feel there's nobody else out there for you. But if you finally let go an heal your wounds... there will freedom and God will finally reveal the Rite person for You. . No1 has to b n a self inflicting wound situation. NOT worth it an loosening time on let someone have that kinda control over you.. 2: Know Your Self Worth

  • @vimbaimafashu304
    @vimbaimafashu304 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just admire the way you love your wife Lamb......Ling you are blessed

  • @LimingLyn
    @LimingLyn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So enjoy this couple. I believe Ling LOVE the fact that Lamb is very honest on life, marriage and faith. It's what we need in a partner as you make a commitment with that person out of love. If you allow certain things, then it's accepted. You got to nip it early and be honest.

  • @sherrolpopoola6789
    @sherrolpopoola6789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lamb gives great advice and Counsel.

  • @lafootspa1
    @lafootspa1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love the way you guys love each other!

  • @crystalzenlounge3161
    @crystalzenlounge3161 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Talk truth this is how good food got u excited...all the way from St Catherine Jamaica

  • @siranmahama8665
    @siranmahama8665 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is my first ever comment on any TH-cam channel. I couldn’t help myself with this video. You guys are such a great light in this dark world filled with so much confusion and hatred. You are spot on with your advice on this situation. You are helping more of us than you will ever know! God bless you abundantly. Amen!

  • @floycesmith9983
    @floycesmith9983 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sis I love your new cut. Very beautiful.
    Wishing you a Lamb many blessings.

  • @sararosales2943
    @sararosales2943 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Very good storytime session extremely inspirational!

  • @lincolnwelsh7526
    @lincolnwelsh7526 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So true Lamb 👍 Big up to the Jamaican food 🇯🇲 . Much Love Ling.