RED FLAGS THAT I IGNORED, NEVER AGAIN WILL.... DELULU IS NOT SOLULU

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  • @infinitelove6815
    @infinitelove6815 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey beautiful lady i hope you healing well but am not suprised that it didnt work out i remember when i was watching you guyzs for the first time i felt that the guy was a narcissist and she liked you coz you were naive and innocent.The red flag was when he put all your clothes wet so that you dont leave you thought it was love but thats typical of narcisits Also he wasnt explaining well why all over sudden he left the wife with young kids there is three sides to a story.

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The last video I did with lynn brought so many reactions and told him to give the ex wife also a chance and express herself out on all this things he made me believe but alas he started defending her and me looking a bad person. Anyway am happy it ended .

  • @wambuimwangi6082
    @wambuimwangi6082 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The first reg flag was how it all started. That was a big element of control as to how you moved in. We live and learn. Am happy to see your progress so far your doing well

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very true, it could be an eye opener

  • @catherinemutie6323
    @catherinemutie6323 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😮😮😮😮😮
    Am schoked,i never knew Pauline separated with hwr hubby.ndio ninajua, uweh

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don't be shocked, such is life

  • @SharongudaRN-BsN
    @SharongudaRN-BsN หลายเดือนก่อน

    Didn't know this.But its good to see you braving it so well.go gal

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thankyou. Not so many people speak out to wat happened anyway its a lesson learnt

    • @SharongudaRN-BsN
      @SharongudaRN-BsN 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@simplelady1 you are strong and brave.said am late here.let me keep up slowly

  • @rosewilliamskenya2478
    @rosewilliamskenya2478 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Marriage wewe, let people tred carefully. Thanks for sharing

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Unahepa kuingia kwa mtaro unaingia kwa shimo

  • @AkotTV1
    @AkotTV1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow wow Pauline, I'm glad you discovered yourself. This was a lot to take from a loved one. You are going places and well done for choosing you.

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen amen.,,,

  • @TinaKohana
    @TinaKohana 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    May you find healing
    It's bold that you are speaking about it.

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Letting my fellow women learn a thing....

  • @rhodawangari2137
    @rhodawangari2137 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Pauline you've spoken nothing but truth

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Humbled alot

  • @beatricewabosco3830
    @beatricewabosco3830 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sonnie congratulations gal. You are healing now. May God see you thru darling

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thankyou siz, it has been tough but I thank God

  • @lydiahrysh
    @lydiahrysh 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When you a ok and happy that when i feel good,am happy for you Gal❤❤

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks darling....to more happiness and love

  • @seniabanda2393
    @seniabanda2393 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's sad you guys broke up, u looked happy together...i wish you all the 💕❤

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks dear. Life do happen

  • @florencembaabu
    @florencembaabu 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    All the best sister,Meru accent 😮 we have it and then….hilarious 😂

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We are the best

    • @annnkaku8788
      @annnkaku8788 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      More grace to you kaari geetu. "You can't do" is always a huuuge red flag plus kutenganishwa na people close to you🤔🤔. There's always you before anyone else and your joy should be top on the list.

  • @NamataatiNam_biya
    @NamataatiNam_biya 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I now listened to your stories. We had a Zambian woman in Finland who was married to finish man
    Stay 20 years married with only one baby boy
    These finnish man has car, and everything is enjoyable because the wife is a nurse and pays well on behave Finnish family
    The wife's geta tired divorced in a third days she was killed by Finnish husband's
    The husband turns his wife's into mummy, making money
    I believe in jails now
    Wherever the married worship themselves, they do not go to locals' church buildings, locals, church
    Then, the husband's men bills increased because of showing oof to his friends
    You carried a burden and lying to your parents
    Because you're not church girls
    That queen pretended to get back to him. Without communities' church prayers, she is wasting his time
    Go to church every Sunday and pray for your husband's
    Gives him prayer activities
    Thanks. l have learned a lot from you

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I wish I could ,

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The things we do for love

    • @NamataatiNam_biya
      @NamataatiNam_biya 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @simplelady1 Thanks for reply, now listen to your parents and get healed! If your parents say seek forgiveness, stay in your affairs. Please do
      I don't think I am too nice to be stupid

  • @palaceselection7770
    @palaceselection7770 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Allow me to say this:
    1:You guys didn't know each other well before moving in together.
    2.It seems you guys were never compatible.
    3:From what I've listened and understood,those were just minor understandings.
    4:You were both in different grounds....
    Anyway,I wish you nothing but the best 😌

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I will check tick on all but one is not true. Minor understanding. They were not

  • @Jenesm
    @Jenesm 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Woiii didnt know it ended but do you love❤

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ......... Love

  • @Bintiiiiiiiiii
    @Bintiiiiiiiiii 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💯 Left my job for him, now nalilia kwa choo😢 Ata shilingi ya kushuka nywele lines sipewi,lotion nilijipaka mwisho last year 😭😭 ndoa ni scam

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      There is life out don't suffer in the hands of unworking marriage..

    • @Bintiiiiiiiiii
      @Bintiiiiiiiiii 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@simplelady1 thank you

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Always dear gal. Love ua life, if u have a kid build uaself to build ua child......

    • @Bintiiiiiiiiii
      @Bintiiiiiiiiii 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@simplelady1 💯

  • @NaturalktedyEdna
    @NaturalktedyEdna 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You sound happy n you look happy. Do you

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very much happy..its the best thing that has helped me be real

  • @simonndiritu4778
    @simonndiritu4778 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Am watching taking tea holding my finger in my mouth 😢

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The things that make people loss there heads

  • @africanqueenmo
    @africanqueenmo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im so sorry Pauline thats just sad 😢

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's fine.....now am over it

    • @africanqueenmo
      @africanqueenmo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@simplelady1 happy to hear that

  • @judycolletah6837
    @judycolletah6837 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nilijua never run so quickly to make a family with a man who his first wife abandoned him

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hahaha, lol. What did you suspect

  • @catherinekanono4298
    @catherinekanono4298 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mwakazi alikusaindia sana kama alikuvumilia wakati hukuwa na mtoto sai ndo unajitoa hapo imetuangusha

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ..alikusaidia sana na kukuvumilia wakati sikuwa na mtoto lol so nilikuwa statue nisaidie, Mimi sikumsaidia kulea watoti wake, so Sahi mbona halei wake pia Mimi kunisaidia......go ask him who helped who

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Na nitawaangusha tena

    • @mamageorge8289
      @mamageorge8289 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are writing rubbish maam, like you were inside their house. You are the typical reason women wont even come out here to tell their stories. Listen to what she is saying and help yourself or help another woman out there. Be useful

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@mamageorge8289 tell her again. With such mind set then she can't mentor anybody.
      And again that person she's saying about never helped me in anything, instead got me in debts and series of baby mama dramas

    • @mukamimukami6549
      @mukamimukami6549 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@simplelady1unaeza nipea number ya gynecologist wako please

  • @queengatieno
    @queengatieno 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sisemi kitu

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lol..... please say a word

  • @WinnieGithaiga-sn2ug
    @WinnieGithaiga-sn2ug 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It shall be well glad you left that marriage when ur still alive

    • @homeandaway2811
      @homeandaway2811 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Omg, don't tell me their marriage has ended? How I LOVED their couple, won't listen to this video😢

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mungu alikataa na mie

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for the love, but life happens

  • @NamataatiNam_biya
    @NamataatiNam_biya 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are not beaten up. You are not starved to hunger, please Pauline educate us about marriage...
    I am doom because i don't know what mistreatment and disagreements are. Selfish in marriage
    Please go to lynn ngugi. Break it through because by yourself
    You will receive a lot of judgments
    You can make marriage education video your dad! Educate your community
    Stop selfish pity and serve communities on simply marriage tips knowledge

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Beating or being hungry is not the reason. Only u should leave

    • @mamageorge8289
      @mamageorge8289 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What are your standards? Start from there. If you have no standards you cannot define mistreatments- even being beaten may not bother you, Infact some women believe their men must beat them to proof that they love them.