Narcissistic Manipulation Tactics & How to Fight Back

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  • @RebeccaZungEsq
    @RebeccaZungEsq  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Do you want to know more about dealing with narcissists and how to respond to them? Join me in my free webinar where I offer tips and tricks. Reserve your seat here: icanslay.com

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'll see you all there!

    • @robertdemeter5793
      @robertdemeter5793 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      To absolutely des-troy a Narc with EASE, All anyone has to do is lookup - 'Gaddis The Ayahuasca Wave', and have them read that whole page over and over again.. There is nothing they can say or do after that., And their BS is out of your beautiful life forever !.... ;)

    • @robertdemeter5793
      @robertdemeter5793 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Who am I, you ask ? The answer is there is no Robert, as the "I" (ego) is total illusion, as there is no me just as there is no such thing as You = infinite love and joy !. As Eye have become ONE with infinite Angels of Light that connect all the stars in the infinite Universe and danced with them which makes all the stars move and dance !! And eye have become the joyous blissful balls of light of infinite love flowing through infinite strings through the infinite Universe that connects EVERYTHING that you cannot see !!. .As I am the Nomad of Spirit. I am Shaman. I am the infinite healer of light. I am seven chakras of Spirit. I am infinite Truths. I am infinite within with no end. I am all things you see and cannot see. I am 5th dimension, I am 7th dimension, I am ALL dimensions.
      You can only see less than 1% of the electromagnetic spectrum and you can only hear less than 1% of the acoustic spectrum. I have not only seen and heard the other 99+ percent that you cannot, but I have become it ALL, and fully understand the scripture of- "The Kingdom of heaven is spread upon the earth and men do not see it."
      Everything is one in infinite beauty and glory and joy !!
      No ascended master in any religion built churches. Not Shiva, not Buddha, or anyone else, because they ALL KNEW that YOU are the Temple. As all these places in these religious books from the I-ching of Asia and on and on through ALL the religions, are all encoded Deep WITHIN YOU, far beyond the thinking blind mind !!
      And everything and more in there Mother Ayahuasca blasts open "Within" us !! Mother Ayahuasca opens the infinite Pandora's box within you.. Ayahuasca unlocks trillions of DNA letter codes of infinite wisdom, knowledge, love and Spiritual beauty !!.. LOL at all beliefs ! As all beliefs are lies !! Infinite Cosmic jokes and Countless Angels are constantly laughing hysterically at our thoughts and how we are afraid to go deep within. So afraid of ourselves. LOL !
      As all these symbols of millions of religions throughout the Universe, are ALL encoded deep within us, and each have infinite meanings of Truths that is far beyond the mind, as the ego-mind of thought is TOTALLY blind to Everything !
      Satan is nothing more than thoughts in the illusion of time. As all thoughts are lies!! LOL at the silly mind of thought always calculating and measuring things like a total blind bat , that hilarious talking snake of the ego-mind that is afraid to go deep within!! LOL !! No thoughts = infinite consciousness that is FAR beyond the mind's grasp = Infinite FREEDOM and Joy !!
      Choosing one religion or any belief over another is idiocy and is only self-judgment and a total lie, as infinite love does not make choices and is FREE!! As ALL is ONE in the infinite heavens and Universe of infinite JOY !!
      I am not the beginning and the end, as there is no such thing as a beginning and end, as I have always been and always been, far beyond beginnings and far beyond any ends !!! As time is total illusion and a beginning and end is nothing more than a concept in man's blindness of the left-brain ego mind of duality, and duality is total illusion !! Infinite consciousness is infinite and time does not exist in the infinite grace of realms of light.
      I am the "Breath of Spirit" that every religion talks about in the scriptures, but churches never teach as churches know nothing. I have breathed infinite light and created through my breath of Spirit of light pumping through my breathing, and created infinity in the infinite Universe far FAR beyond your extremely limited imagination just through my breath of light and love via 7-chakra activation that every religion tells us to do within us, and saw myself as God sees itself.
      As I have become everything you see and have become infinitely more that you cannot see. I am all that is, was, and ever will be !! Everything you see and everything you've wished for, and all your dreams, are inside me. (I am not speaking directly to you here Narc Dojo, simply summarizing it for the general population etc)..
      I have been far beyond death many times... too many to count. As there is no such thing as death, there is ONLY Life !! Endless Magic and Miracles !!
      All churches are total liars as the ONLY Temple that exists, will ever exist, has ever existed, is WITHIN !!
      There is not just one heaven as the total blindness of your ego-mind thinks, there are Infinite heavenly realms of infinite joy and bliss and Light. Not only did Eye see them and experienced the infinite heavenly realms in higher dimensions of Consciousness, but eye BECAME the infinite heavens , as ONE !! :-)
      There are No limits !! Only in the countless lies of your ego-based mind do you believe limits exist, in your total blindness and self-withdrawal, your ridiculous fears of Becoming LIGHT.
      Limits do not exist.
      Eye AM Oneness and Love and Light. I am the infinite NOW. I am Eternity. I am the Spirit that you fear in you and that men fear in them. I am the essence of all things seen and unseen. I am infinite Self-awareness. Infinite lifetimes.
      Eye am the infinite intelligence and wisdom of Nature and Creation. Not only did I see all the secrets of creation, and the infinite secrets of Nature Spirit, but I became IT !! The only way to know anything is to BE-Come IT. I am not one religion, I am all religions and many more religions you've never seen or heard of in the Universe of infinite beings. As EVERY Religion says the Kingdom is WITHIN YOU and ALL religions mean the same thing !! Everything and more is already encoded deep within us !!
      God is GENIUS !! Infinite GENIUS and infinite innocence and infinite gentleness !! God is everything you see and infinitely more that you cannot see. Infinite consciousness. There is nothing that is not God. As a person searching for God is just as ridiculous as a fish in the ocean searching for water.
      Human religions are fake man-made lies. Fake imaginary lines just as borders are fake imaginary man-made lines. Do you see any borders when viewing the Earth from space ? You cannot worship light as light is infinitely free and infinitely self-aware. Only darkness seeks to be worshiped.
      I AM !!!
      I have become infinite suns and infinite worlds filled with infinite beingS that you know nothing about. I am all beings. I am everything both seen and unseen and everything in between. I am Light. I am the infinite multi-dimensional Universe. I am God. I am Source Energy of all that is. I am Soul !!
      Thank-you Thank-you Mother Ayahuasca !! Infinite endless Gratitude !!!
      Because Religion (Darkness) is just the mere belief in someone else's Spiritual Experiences. But Spirituality (Light) is all about having "Your own" Direct Spiritual Experiences. Religion and Spirituality are nothing alike and could not possibly be more different.
      Here is a small list:
      Churches and Religion = what a group of people decide what God is (and it's ALWAYS outwardly, and it's always in the past/future of Ego of the blind thinking mind). What happened thousands of years ago, and judgment in the future. If anyone doesn't fully agree with the mental concepts of the religion, those people are ridiculed, labeled, and excluded from the group. No Spiritual experiences. No Soul awareness whatsoever.
      Spirituality = Everyone is invited. And if one is willing to go "INwardly" within themselves all the way, nobody shall be denied. Eternal NOW (far beyond time of past/future), Many Direct Spiritual Experiences. And be free from the Prison of believing and into the infinite freedom of knowing and be-coming. Full Soul awareness !! Infinite Spiritual Experiences of infinite Magic, infinite Love, infinite heavenly realms of infinite beauty , BLISS and Joy !! ONENESS !!.,

    • @TraceyArmstrong-g3j
      @TraceyArmstrong-g3j 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@RebeccaZungEsq thank you so much 🙏 I have just ordered your book ( slay the bully)

  • @DetraAbbott-i5j
    @DetraAbbott-i5j 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I lived 30 years with a narcissist. I was totally blind to what he was doing to me. I lost myself completely. My oldest son committed suicide when he was 23 and I believe it was at least partly due to the manipulation and toxic relationship he had with his father. He constantly put him down and my son could “never do anything right”. So sad what I didn’t know. Thank you for educating people about this much needed information and saving those lost souls.

    • @maryglo1
      @maryglo1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So sorry for your loss! He must have convinced him to be hopeless.
      Take time to grieve! Seek Danish Bashir, Dr. Les Carter, The Little Shaman, and this wonderful Rebecca Zung! Use her materials. I am so sorry you are going through this disaster. You deserve a better life and true love is within your reach. Reach out. Stick with those who are empowered with knowledge and for the love of God!
      It may seem that all roads lead to crisis but the road out of crisis leads to the "Narrow Gate Of Salvation". The wide path of destruction is not our road.
      God bless you and may God accept your son in his dispair so that we may all meet one day in God's Land of Glory. The Peaceable Kingdom is neigh! In sympathy and trust,
      Mary Glo

    • @nx9457
      @nx9457 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My condolences 💐 I hope you can find peace and break free from your husband’s toxic influence. I have children with my narcissistic husband and fear this outcome… trying to navigate one baby step at a time.
      Know you are not alone. You can find strength to protect yourself and move on. Love yourself.

    • @KeishaWilliams-e6d
      @KeishaWilliams-e6d 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      All of my six serious relationships have been with narcassists. The recent one lasted four years and I've decided to make it my last. Loving myself at 55. So sorry for your loss. Peace to you.

  • @SanseCameron
    @SanseCameron 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you so much for helping people become aware of the narcissistic

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Check this out - slaythenarc.com Keep slaying!

  • @liseduedue2715
    @liseduedue2715 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You’re really so deeply going into the issue, better than anybody. Thanks 🙏🏻 again
    It’s like you’re saying, they totally reject your feelings and trying to manipulate your reality, they have an insane attitude towards others and speak about you like “ they never knew you “, after years off knowledge. Saying for years “ if you were not that sweet , Couldn’t tolerate you, you’re one in a million!
    After they talk you down to nothing, everything is wrong,
    and all their lies are rejected as well . The sorrow , pain, fear and confusion, after this happens, cannot be explained into words, after discovering their criminal minds

  • @whitneysawyer483
    @whitneysawyer483 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "Not okay" "I'm ready to heal" "Amen" "So true" "I deserve respect" "I can do this" "I like it"

  • @RoB-dp1cm
    @RoB-dp1cm 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Amen! Sometimes the person you are trusting the information with may be in league with the people involved, and may gaslight you to prevent you from holding the other person accountable. Unfortunately, we don’t know that right away.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stay strong! ❤ Join me in my free webinar - slaythenarc.com

  • @donnalouisewood9111
    @donnalouisewood9111 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I was with a narcissist and he was doing things to make me angry to prove that I was the problem when really his abusive behaviour was the reason I got angry but now he is gone I just didn’t let him have that kind of control over me anymore

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This might help you better as well slaythenarc.com/

  • @donnalouisewood9111
    @donnalouisewood9111 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    They like to play on your guilt

  • @kimcreger1532
    @kimcreger1532 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm ready to heal!!!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stay strong! ❤ Join me in my free webinar - slaythenarc.com/

  • @jodarklunia
    @jodarklunia 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You’ve helped me open my eyes and leave the narc… but now I’m the narc because I made the hardest decision ever due to financial reasons I didn’t want my kids to go without but I’m evil for that and not wanting to move them to unknown. He has family around I have nobody no support in this country so I thought it was safer overall to sacrifice now he’s saying I abandoned them which I did not I abandoned him and did the hardest decision I could ever it still tears me apart daily but now I have stability I can’t have them at my place still. It madness but I will never give up to his will. I’m done with that

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you..hope you could join me in my FREE masterclass 😊
      >>> slaythenarc.com

  • @tmking7483
    @tmking7483 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thankyou for not stopping _

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stay strong! ❤ Join me in my free webinar - slaythenarc.com/

  • @KeishaWilliams-e6d
    @KeishaWilliams-e6d 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The constant questioning and asking to see my phone. Direguarding all my acts of love. At 55 I'm going to love myself and my adult children and grandchildren. Put my energy where i will have a worthwhile investment.

  • @sakisun
    @sakisun 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    #5 #6 #7 all so true and it’s just too often tell me what I can do please

  • @tjsahara
    @tjsahara 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    All of the above, Rebecca...
    (& mor)
    I am reclaiming my truth... I Am
    shawnee newsom
    perris, california.
    I want to share
    my experience,
    my story and what
    I know.

  • @dorotheamcdonald247
    @dorotheamcdonald247 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you🙏 eyes wide open!.

  • @aaronkile4007
    @aaronkile4007 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m ready to heal
    No, I’m healing!!! 🎉❤

  • @SanseCameron
    @SanseCameron 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you!

  • @nativefun1
    @nativefun1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My ex-girlfriend didn’t want me to fly. She didn’t say that we were broken up, but after I said that this would be a deal breaker (because I was flying before we had even met) I noticed a distinct pattern. She would always start a fight the night before a flight.
    One day after a flight she asked me to come over. She asked me a question that hinted at triangulation. She asked me, “when was the last time you had sex”? I said the last the last time I had sex was, was the last time you had sex ,and I proceeded to pour each of us a glass of wine and proposed a little toast. Here’s to me and here’s to you, and here’s to love and laughter, I’ll be true as long as you and not one minute after. Caught her having an affair with a married cop when I dropped by her apartment by surprise on a night that I was supposed to be working . Her loss.😅

  • @hasukeas5749
    @hasukeas5749 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I listen Rebecca few times a day to empower me to stay strong and not to give in
    Keeping my boundaries
    38 years of marriage
    Kids grown up
    Grey rock method suiting me fine at the moment
    I do my wifely duty
    And hell with the rest

  • @somis4615
    @somis4615 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I deserve respect

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Totally! ❤ Join me in my free webinar - slaythenarc.com/

  • @lorraineakiritsis9775
    @lorraineakiritsis9775 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Definitely seen it!!

  • @bullmacc70
    @bullmacc70 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm ready to heal

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stay strong! ❤ Join me in my free webinar - slaythenarc.com/

  • @TheeyeOftruth-yx2np
    @TheeyeOftruth-yx2np 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Absolutely tremendous, Thank you so much for this Rebecca, You're absolutely beautiful, Understanding and compassionate, I'm completely done with person, I want them out of my life, I know who they are, Peace, love, Respect to you and everyone, All glory to the universe, The most high, God is great, Thank you universe 🌲🌌💚💛💜😇🦁🕊😃🌹🌝🐎🌷❤😍🌈☘😊⚽

  • @DawsonDave-YZF-R6
    @DawsonDave-YZF-R6 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Amen !

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This might help you better as well slaythenarc.com/

  • @rosskarshen850
    @rosskarshen850 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Rebecca, I think it's important to shine a light on the fact that your tactics of dealing with a narcissist make sense when one party has a sensible take on an interaction.
    Let me explain further...for example, you mention that a narcissist's tactic can be to say you're acting crazy and irrational. That holds true when the accused is actually NOT acting crazy and irrational. But its common knowledge that people DO act this way. (Just look at TH-cam videos or watch some police interactions and you'll find plenty of examples!)
    So my worry here is that someone who is ACTUALLY acting irrational and crazy and not in integrity and is called out for acting that way will then understand your teachings to feel justified in saying "Im not crazy. Im not irrational. YOU'RE the narcissist for saying these things!"
    Now, obviously a horrible narcissist can use these kinds of accusatory and inflammatory statements to really f*** with someone.
    But sometimes, Rebecca, the rational person IS confronted with a bunch of irrationality and BS (often in the service of serving their ego to get what they want). And then this person acting irrationally will then accuse the RATIONAL-acting person of being a narcissist. What are your thoughts?
    I just want to shine a light on this dynamic.
    I love your teachings and videos and have learned a lot about myself and others! Thank you!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'd love to invite you to join my FREE LIVE webinar - slaythenarc.com/

  • @katrinayeomans3751
    @katrinayeomans3751 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Im exhausting all of my knowledge ive learned over the years. Im trying to get my fiance to understand his ex is a covert narc. In middle of modification of custody because she is harming children mentally, but he is not understanding everything she does has an angle or why he has to document everything, he thinks its petty and pointless. She just ignored court order to send update support aff. B4 meditation. Also know she is lying about not working, had him email lawyer tell him same day of meditating where she said not workinb her son said she has been working for while and no update aff filed. Lawyer responds well she will need to do another before court thats it. He doesnt get the whole not letting them get away with it completely and why its important to doc to show court the level of disrespect for court the lying the feeling above the court. Still looking at it as like its just petty stuff or well its court orderd she will have to. Itbwas court ordered b4 and she didnt why would she send in next nothkng happened when she defied the second one. She sent the first cause she just had been put on medical leave (with no explanation as to what medical reasons either very vague doc note) but second one she is back to work.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'd love to invite you to join my FREE LIVE webinar - slaythenarc.com/

  • @allpromowebsite
    @allpromowebsite 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Masterclass vidéo

  • @DawsonDave-YZF-R6
    @DawsonDave-YZF-R6 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can do this

  • @Omeda.S.Yapah.S.TheKOS
    @Omeda.S.Yapah.S.TheKOS 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    FACTSS!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This might help you better as well slaythenarc.com/

  • @TraceyArmstrong-g3j
    @TraceyArmstrong-g3j 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    IM READY TO HEAL (I’m in a black hole! 😢

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Stay strong! ❤ Join me in my free webinar - slaythenarc.com/

  • @DawsonDave-YZF-R6
    @DawsonDave-YZF-R6 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like it

  • @sakisun
    @sakisun 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Not okay!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stay strong! ❤ Join me in my free webinar - slaythenarc.com/

  • @tjsahara
    @tjsahara 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    5 (+) years
    (at least) celibacy with-holding??

  • @tjsahara
    @tjsahara 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    UNplagerize
    UNsabotage
    "my voice, my life"
    (accounts).

  • @robertdemeter5793
    @robertdemeter5793 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    To absolutely des-troy a Narc with EASE, All anyone has to do is lookup - 'Gaddis The Ayahuasca Wave', and have them read that whole page over and over again.. There is nothing they can say or do after that., And their BS is out of your beautiful life forever !.... ;)

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'd love to invite you to join my FREE LIVE webinar - slaythenarc.com/

    • @robertdemeter5793
      @robertdemeter5793 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@RebeccaZungEsq We don't need webinars my dear. As the great Terence Mckenna stated - "Only the Shaman knows that culture is a game, everyone else takes it seriously, that is how the Shaman can do his magic."

  • @elizabethash4720
    @elizabethash4720 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Not okay.

  • @tjsahara
    @tjsahara 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm not even sure
    if this is TH-cam
    or realLy another manipulative
    control tactic, used as and
    or from a
    fake TH-cam app onLy. 😢❤

  • @ConArtista
    @ConArtista 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just say to the erson , "Just because you are deluded and bitter,ot doesnt mean you should undermine great people like me. Yes,you are angry and a bitter person Leave me out of it,

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'd love to invite you to join my FREE LIVE webinar - slaythenarc.com/

  • @DawsonDave-YZF-R6
    @DawsonDave-YZF-R6 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    SLAY