My engagement ring is moissanite as well, and I don't call it "fake" because it's not. It's simply just not a diamond. It's beautiful and that's all you need to say.
@@yunlongwu8071 also you're wonderful for understanding sacrifice for someone you love! That's very admirable but you should be understanding in that people have different ways of sacrificing and they also sacrifice what they have for different causes! Okay I'm done lol
I also have a moisannite, and I also felt a lot of anxiety about people reacting to it. But now I don't care anymore because I love it. Because moissanite is so firey a lot of people around me know my fiance can't spend a lot of money on a ring, they assumed he went into debt to get it. But he didn't! Because it was moisannite it was paid off! 😊
It sucks that you felt so much pressure/stress about this - Your ring is beautiful! Moissanite isn’t a “fake diamond” but it’s a beautiful stone in itself like a sapphire or emerald. Diamonds are a major scam, their value is inflated because of De Beers controlling the supply, they are actually in abundance and the entire concept of a diamond ring bought with 3 months salary is all marketing. People wore gemstones or non diamond prior to De Beers massive marketing campaign. Good for you for being sensible and not going into debt for a piece of jewelry!
Yes!! Moissanite in itself is such a rare gem and people down play it by saying it’s a diamond imitation like swarvoski or cubic zirconia. Moissanite gems are worth more than people realize!
PREACH @Janetson91!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 The marketing behind diamonds is one of the most successful scams ever! It’s so sad that so many have fallen for it and have equated the value of their relationship with having a diamond. Thanks for sharing knowledge and truth with us!
It makes me sad that you’re calling it a fake diamond 💎. Moissanite isn’t a diamond, it’s a gem stone. Don’t let anyone call your moissanite a fake diamond. Your engagement ring is beautiful.
My engagement ring is moissanite and it’s honestly better than a diamond! It’s more ethical for everyone involved. Mining is terrible for the earth as well the people that mine them. I get compliments on my ring daily and when I tell people that it’s moissanite and how much we saved everyone thinks its a smarter alternative. I’m so glad you made this video because the shame around not having a diamond is deep and educating people on other options is so important!!
Mine and my fiancé's exect senitment. We're looking to purchase a home as well vs spending so much on a wedding and ring. Congrats on the house and wonderful marriage!
To be able to afford that ring at 21 is something to be proud of. Not a lot of 21 year olds have that kind of money, let alone wanting to get married. Congratulations 💕
You have a beautiful moissanite solitaire engagement ring! It looks absolutely amazing on your feminine, slender hand. I hate that people feel societal pressure to call a diamond alternative ring "fake." It's a real moissanite, and it is gorgeous and reasonably priced, especially for young couples who are deliriously in love but don't have a ton of dispensable income. The mined diamond industry is terrible anyway!
Your ring is as “real” as you make it. It’s real because it symbolizes your engagement to Jason and his to you. That’s all that matters. People will never be happy with anything, so don’t mind what anybody thinks. Your ring is your ring. Period!!
@@byCHLOEWEN Also keep in mind they were discovered in a meteorite originally! They just discovered how to recreate them in a lab. Plus the refractive index of a Moissanite is much higher than a diamond, and is a close Second on the mohs scale of hardness at a 9.25 while diamonds are a 10. A Moissanite has a rainbow reflecting light while diamonds have a white sparkle. Also they are flawless and a diamond will unfortunately have imperfections becuase it is mined. I suggest Charles and Calvard btw they have a patented method on making the most brilliant Moissanites! They are lovingly created and not massed produced
Iam a jeweler, I think you and your husband made a very wise decision, very smart, the money you save will help you to do something else more important, congratulations, best wishes to both of you, be healthy, stay safe.
Now this is the Chloe I want to see and hear from. This is called being true and honest to yourself. Never feel pressure to always explain what you do or don’t do. I’m so very proud and happy for your growth. You’re ring is not fake, it’s been blessed with Jason and your vows before God. God bless you.
Youve made the right decision to never go into debt whilst in a relationship it is not worth it. Your marriage does not revolve around a ring. Uv done amazing by opening up x
I love my moissanite wedding ring set. Diamonds are a rip off, and it’s annoying women feel pressured to have one. I wear my ring proudly, and had a few people later get moissanite for their own wedding rings after they saw mine.
The whole, “I’ve been married for two years and the ring no longer matters” is so true! I wear my gold band all the time now. Prefer it over my diamond ring most of the time. For whatever reason, the gold band makes me feel more true to our relationship by not depending on the materialistic side of it... if that makes any sense. Lol
Girlllllllllll There’s No Law saying Your wedding ring has to be a Diamond,,, it’s definitely what you like. Diamond are only worth something long as your in the store,, soon as you leave out the store the value goes down,,, I have several Moissanite I will never ever go back to Diamonds,, your ring is beautiful 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I highly encourage everyone to watch the episode of Explained on Netflix about diamonds! And do your research on diamonds!! They’re not everything we are think they are. Your ring is gorgeous!!
I’m currently wearing my mother-in-law’s engagement ring that passed away in January. It’s about a 3 carat. My father-in-law bought the stone which is a white sapphire and my birthstone while he was stationed in the Air Force in Thailand I believe. He had the ring designed for her. My former stone in my engagement ring was a blue sapphire. Your ring is beautiful and I totally agree with you. It doesn’t matter if the stone is real or not as long as you love it.
My mother got engaged a few weeks back. She kept bragging about how expensive her engagement ring was and how big it was. Her fiance spent almost 5k on her engagement ring and wedding ring!!! My husband spent literally less than $600 on both my engagement ring and wedding ring. Lol my mom has always been the material type though. I don't see anything wrong with getting a more affordable ring. As long as they are good quality and will stand the test of time. I'm perfectly happy with mine and I wouldn't ask for anything different. Although, it's not necessarily the cheapest, it's also not outrageously expensive. :) glad you talked about this!
I don’t think $5000 is anything super crazy depending on where you’re at in life. If the guy has it why not :) but I wouldn’t like the bragging either, it doesn’t matter what it costs at the end of the day but what it means.
I really don't want a diamond ring, and especially no big one. Yes, I really like to marry my boyfriend because I really love him, but I don't want him to spend a rediculus amount of money on a ring. I would be totally afraid to wair it. I like a nice ring but I would be very happy with anything he could afford.
thank you for being so raw and vulnerable with us! 🥺 i can’t quite word it properly, but i appreciate how you acknowledged the reality of the idea of status and comparison since it is SO prevalent in our culture. LOVE your videos, you’re my fav!
I have a lab created diamond and I loveeeee it! We saved so much money and no one can even tell that it’s lab created and it’s sooo clear and beautiful. I feel like “real” diamonds are almost a scam. I appreciate your honesty and I hope more girls will know these things aren’t what really matters. The marriage is what matters.
Oh I’m so happy you love your lab diamond as well!! No one can ever tell 🥰 I do have a hard time stomaching putting ourselves into a trick financial situation for a diamond!! Maybe one day just not before we get a house hahah 😂
Lab grown diamond are diamond, they have the same genetics, one is mined from earth the other is man made. It is like natural birth or in vitro baby :)
When my husband and I got engaged we both were fresh out school too and didn’t have much money starting out. I think there is a lot of pressure from social media to have a big expensive diamond ring. I love moisanite it’s a great beautiful ring!! I love your ring! It’s stunning
People are way too darn nosey these days! It shouldn't matter & truthfully it's none of ANYONE'S business! Your marriage is more important than the ring on your finger! Just ask God😘
Love! I have an emerald cut moissanite engagement ring and love embracing it. I don't consider it t a "fake diamond", but rather a beautiful gemstone that happens to look very similar to a diamond.
I have never given a second thought to the fact that my engagement ring is lab created 🤷 my husband was in college and working as a barista when he bought it and it is exactly what I wanted. 10 years later (And kids and a house and several moves and a million life things) I am still happily wearing it ☺️
My favorite stone is moissanite too and it actually coincides with my husband's birthday. Where a diamond is made from carbon (#6 on the periodic table of elements,) a moissanite is carbon and silicon together. Silicon is assigned the #14 on the periodic table. My husband's birthday is 6/14 so it was a very nice surprise to find that info out. I have 3 moissanite rings and 3 bands (1 diamond, 1 moissanite, and 1 CZ.) I mix and match them in all different ways bc I change my mind so often.
So glad I found this video. I was telling my partner I’ve been toying with the idea of a moissanite ring so I could get what I wanted size wise. We can afford a 8-10k on a ring, but I just feel guilty asking him to spend that much money. I would rather put that into furnishing our new home. This video really made my final decision on the moissanite!!
chelsea corona Yupp.. just because you can afford it doesn’t mean it’s a wise decision.. I just can’t fathom spending 8k-10k on a ring when I can get one just as nice for 1-2k. I think home, wedding, car means more to me.
I sell jewelry especially engagement rings (I have a diamond grading license from GIA in New York) and I truly think that moissonnite is a fantastic choice for an engagement ring. I have also sold emeralds, sapphires which come in many colors not just blue. So, I totally agree. Your ring is gorgeous! Thanks so much for sharing! Blessings!
My husband and I chose an estate ring from eBay. It is a 0.3 carat diamond in white gold for $300. The same size diamond ring was going to cost us $1000 at the jewelry store. It’s dainty, and I love it. We used to savings to get married in Hawaii.
it think it says so much about your relationship that it was founded on practicality and future planning and above all love...it's a beautiful ring and you're a lovely soul and it's the meaning of the ring that matters most 🙏🏻
Chloe, thank you so much for the information, my engagement ring was stolen few years ago, it’s good to know of this option, they are beautiful rings, and more affordable!
Thank you for this video! I've had these same feelings about my moissanite ring, the same kind of "shame", for lack of better words, but never could really say it. We also felt it was the more ethical choice + financially smart way to go into marriage. As frustrating as it was to have people question our finances or subtley shame me for not having a "real diamond ring", I'm kind of proud of my choice now that I'm older!
Chloe thank you for sharing this video! It is so nice to hear how well your stone has stood up over time. That is something I’ve often wondered about and not a lot of people talk about. Your ring is absolutely beautiful!!
Good for you! You have brains and the correct perspective on life and love. My husband and I put money down on a house and I have moissanite, so yeah it is all about priorities. Keep up the good, and at the end of the day, it just doesn’t matter.
Such a smart move! A ring is a token of your love. So your ring is real and gorgeous! You have nothing to hide! What an amazing option and sorry you had to go through those insecurities but glad you were able to work through them. Anyone who would judge a ring needs to look inward.
My ring is also moissanite and I remember feeling so ashamed of it and feeling like I had to defend why I chose this type of ring. It looks beautiful but I am always so nervous that people are thinking it’s fake. But I’ve started realizing that other people really don’t care and if they do it doesn’t matter. At the end of the day, I’m married to the love of my life and that’s what matters. Thank you for sharing your story ❤️
We are in the stage of looking for a ring. In looking and learning more about the market, I have learned that "you can't live inside a diamond ring". Diamonds are as beautiful as any other stone out there. I am very proud of both of you, for not giving in and buying something you guys were not able to buy or go into debt for it. I think you guys made a great choice and it shows how "fiscally" responsible you guys were and are at this point. I love your ring and I love the fact that you are truly happy with it!. Thanks for opening up as a lot of us girls (are in the same fear/pressure boat).
As much as we all compare it’s so nice to know that others can’t just automatically afford things too. Your ring is just as beautiful and special as any another!! Even more so because you love it.
Recently I’ve been feeling really self conscious about my engagement ring and I don’t know why. I have a vintage .5 carat diamond ring and I’ve been constantly comparing the small size of my ring to others. I totally related to this video (as far as hiding your ring from others or avoiding talking about it). I wish I had considered this option when we were looking. At the end of the day, the ring doesn’t really matter. We’ve saved up. We bought a house. We didn’t go into debt for our wedding. And we’re happy. That’s what matters. Thanks for sharing this.
Seriously. Thank you for making this!!! I think so many people need to hear this that they don’t need to spend money on a big diamond and that there are other ethical options! I’ve been obsessively looking into moissanite so I’m happy to hear that’s it’s held up ☺️
My partner and I just got engaged and I picked out my own ring. There was no proposal (we are more talk it out and agree kind of people) and my partner knows that I'm way too picky with jewelry to not have a say in the process. I went with a silver band with an uncut black diamond, because I'm not much for traditional rings. It hasn't come yet (also from etsy), but it is 100% my style and cost less than $400.
Hello, hope to get an answer, is ETSY a trustable way to buy it? I also found by an image a ring on Etsy but got confused by the price , since it was also $400 & I start questioning myself if the quality will be good, how it went for you??
@@58mrjean My experience was great! The ring is exactly what I expected and is high quality. As long as the shop has good reviews and the seller communicates well, I think you should go for it!
I love your ring. Your commitment to each other is far more important! When your a thrifter expensive rings aren't the first thing on your mind. Getting what you like is more fun. It's nice to see you use common sense and honesty. Bless you.
What a beautiful ring! My husband and I picked a tanzanite ring and it was so much cheaper than getting the equivalent sized diamond. The diamond industry is absolutely a scam and I'm so glad to see more people going with alternative gem stones!
chloe!! this is not an exaggeration when I say your ring fits my dream engagement ring to a T!!! moissanite, oval, simple and thin plain yellow gold band, 2 carats ... I’m so happy and completely solidified with my decision when the time comes :)
Thank you for making this video. I’ve been insecure about my ring too and it’s good to know that there are people out there who recognize that a ring doesn’t define the true love and committee that comes with marriage :)
Can you tell me if this is forever one moissanite? When I try to purchase this on rosado and there are options for just moissanite or forever one moissanite.
Love the meaning and story behind your ring, it's gorgeous and you're right, it's just a sign of commitment to your partner, the cost of a ring does not define anything!!
Congrats! I also got a moisannite engagement ring and I got lots of compliments. Only one person who wasn't a jeweler asked what stone I had. Most people just see a beautiful ring, they don't care if it is or isn't a natural mined diamond. The setting has lab created diamonds and it was all under $3500. And we just didn't feel like spending a ton of money on just an engagement ring.
Absolutely love this video sis... my boyfriend and I are engagement ring shopping, and I have also decided on a moissanite, and wow, what a saving.... I'm so happy...
Your ring is beautiful! I think whatever works best for the couple and makes you guys happy is all that matters. I wanted diamond earrings for my upcoming two year anniversary and ended up going with a lab grown diamond for the price and larger size. They are just as sparkly as my real diamond ring and are more ethical and environmentally friendly. 🙂
I love that you did this video! This is my first time commenting on a video but your message was so important I just had to! Thank you for bringing light to the important issues like going into marriage with as little debt as possible and the pressure we all feel to try and keep up. We need more videos with this honesty and this is the true way we become strong women and better human beings. Great job!!
Aww you’re so kind thank you for taking the time to watch and comment 🥰❤️ I am happy to share my story and hopefully encourage others to do what they feel is best!
Your ring is absolutely gorgeous!!! Moissanite stones are amazing, ethical, practical, and so stunning!!! Thank you so much for sharing this video! 🙌❤️💍
I have a sapphire ring and I love it. I get compliments all the time. It was so much cheaper than a diamond and very special and unique. It's also my husband's birthstone, so it makes it even more special.
This is what a video that every women should watch! What matters is the love!!! I just shared the videos to my cousins and sister that is not married yet. You are so practical and amazing to share this!!!!❤️❤️❤️
I also really like how a bigger stone looks on my hand. So my husband got me a huge black diamond (3.34 ct center stone) that was the same price of a 1ct ring. I’m absolutely in love with it!! I’m glad you posted this!! Your ring is gorgeous 💜
Gorgeous ring.! I got engaged super young too. So my first engagement ring was a white sapphire. Everyone thought it was a real diamond, until id tell them. But he upgraded it to my choice of ~ a tanzanite & diamond ring. I love tanzanite since its more rare then diamonds..🥰
I am considering a moissanite! However, do you find that it gets cloudy or dirty easily? I had a morganite ring and it was horrible (in terms of keeping it clean & clear).
I love this video!! My boyfriend and I are doctors and I told him I want a moissanite ring no matter how much money we make. I don't think I can wear and walk around with a $10k+ ring with the risk of losing it and I would much rather put the money towards a house or something more financially logical. Love your engagement ring!!
I fully understand your hesitation to 'come clean' about your ring. I too had a 1.5 lab created diamond. And I lied through my teeth regarding the real, or unreal of it. Nobody's business! It always amazed me at the nerve of anyone asking if it was real or not. Personally, I would NEVER do that. It's very rude. If people ask, it is because they just want to pull you down or are envious. You should be proud of yourself and your husband for the decision you made.
I have a 12 millimeter princess cut stone moissanite set in a tiffany style on my diamond band. Absolutely love it! It has more brilliance and fire than a diamond and I would never waste money on a diamond its candle light in color and refraction is amazing! Thanks for sharing your story.
Love your ring! I actually prefer moissanite to diamonds for ethical reasons. My husband replaced my diamond engagement ring with a gorgeous moissanite for our 10 year anniversary, and I am even happier and more proud than before. Moissanite is a real stone with great longevity, and I think it was extremely thoughtful and responsible of you and your husband to make that choice so young. Thanks for sharing!! I wish I would have known about moissanites from the beginning, and you spreading awareness is fantastic for so many people!
Thank you so much for sharing I’m 21 and currently looking for a ring and we didn’t want something super expensive, but I am skeptical about the longevity of the rings when their at a lower price but hearing someone say two years it makes me feel more secure where we are spending our money, so thank you for posting I really appreciate it 🙏🙏☺️♥️
I resonate with this so much!! Rings are soooo expensive and I don't think people should be shamed when getting an alternative stone! It's ridiculous! Thanks for educating me about moissanite! I'll need to look into it!
I have a moissanite engagement ring but I didn’t get it to pass off as a diamond. I love moissys and their beautiful rainbow fire. They outperform diamonds in fire and brilliance. 😋🔥
I bought a beautiful ring at a department store. It’s a blush color. I thought how much I wished this was my wedding ring. I have a traditional ring. I think we should all choose whatever type of stone that makes us happy and not worry about the status of having a real diamond.
Wow thank you for sharing this because I never knew this was an option!! The insecurities you shared are things I’ve thought about as well. But how awesome is it to get something that still looks as beautiful as the real thing but at a more affordable price!
Hello I’m new to your Chanel and want to get a ring like this to replace my original set . Do you have any suggestions on what option on the Etsy site you linked below ? There are a lot of options ! Thanks in advance
My engagement ring is moissanite as well, and I don't call it "fake" because it's not. It's simply just not a diamond. It's beautiful and that's all you need to say.
I just used the word "fake" for the title 🥰 I don't actually view it as "fake" 🙈 I love that you have a moissanite ring too!! They are so pretty ❤️
Very well said!
@@yunlongwu8071 also you're wonderful for understanding sacrifice for someone you love! That's very admirable but you should be understanding in that people have different ways of sacrificing and they also sacrifice what they have for different causes! Okay I'm done lol
It’s GLASS ring nothing more nothing less.
@@qwillis331 yes you are the king and expert on all rings in the universe!
I can’t believe this is something that people feel ashamed of. Moissanites are beautiful and I prefer them! ♥️Diamonds are way overhyped.
They are so beautiful!! Especially in person 🥰❤️
I also have a moisannite, and I also felt a lot of anxiety about people reacting to it. But now I don't care anymore because I love it. Because moissanite is so firey a lot of people around me know my fiance can't spend a lot of money on a ring, they assumed he went into debt to get it. But he didn't! Because it was moisannite it was paid off! 😊
It's very pretty is not about the price or size of the ring it's the love be hide it
I totally agree!!! I prefer moissanites as well! 💛
I feel the same.
It sucks that you felt so much pressure/stress about this - Your ring is beautiful! Moissanite isn’t a “fake diamond” but it’s a beautiful stone in itself like a sapphire or emerald. Diamonds are a major scam, their value is inflated because of De Beers controlling the supply, they are actually in abundance and the entire concept of a diamond ring bought with 3 months salary is all marketing. People wore gemstones or non diamond prior to De Beers massive marketing campaign. Good for you for being sensible and not going into debt for a piece of jewelry!
Aw thank you!!! I love my ring ❤️
Yes!! Moissanite in itself is such a rare gem and people down play it by saying it’s a diamond imitation like swarvoski or cubic zirconia. Moissanite gems are worth more than people realize!
PREACH @Janetson91!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 The marketing behind diamonds is one of the most successful scams ever! It’s so sad that so many have fallen for it and have equated the value of their relationship with having a diamond. Thanks for sharing knowledge and truth with us!
Totally agree with this! I’m also going to get a moissanite :)
Amen girl 👌
It makes me sad that you’re calling it a fake diamond 💎. Moissanite isn’t a diamond, it’s a gem stone. Don’t let anyone call your moissanite a fake diamond. Your engagement ring is beautiful.
Haha I know it’s not fake! It’s very special and much different ❤️ just titled it for the vid 🥰
My engagement ring is moissanite and it’s honestly better than a diamond! It’s more ethical for everyone involved. Mining is terrible for the earth as well the people that mine them. I get compliments on my ring daily and when I tell people that it’s moissanite and how much we saved everyone thinks its a smarter alternative. I’m so glad you made this video because the shame around not having a diamond is deep and educating people on other options is so important!!
Happy to share my story and how much I love my moissanite ring!!
My ring is moissanite too (I actually have 3 of them bc I change my mind so much 🤣)
@@spikeschilde621 me too!!!
Where did you get your ring from?
A marriage is so much more than a ring! I think your ring is beautiful!
I think so too! 🤗❤️
Very well said!!! 👏🏼
100 percent agree
I absolutely love mine! I have worn a 2 carat princess cut for 10 years. We couldn't afford a diamond equivalent. We bought a house instead!
Mine and my fiancé's exect senitment. We're looking to purchase a home as well vs spending so much on a wedding and ring. Congrats on the house and wonderful marriage!
Wisdom.
Wisdom all the way 💯
very good choice. a house is more important than some stone on your finger. and moissies look better than diamonds
To be able to afford that ring at 21 is something to be proud of. Not a lot of 21 year olds have that kind of money, let alone wanting to get married. Congratulations 💕
You have a beautiful moissanite solitaire engagement ring! It looks absolutely amazing on your feminine, slender hand. I hate that people feel societal pressure to call a diamond alternative ring "fake." It's a real moissanite, and it is gorgeous and reasonably priced, especially for young couples who are deliriously in love but don't have a ton of dispensable income. The mined diamond industry is terrible anyway!
Awww thank you!!! I love it!!
Your ring is as “real” as you make it. It’s real because it symbolizes your engagement to Jason and his to you. That’s all that matters. People will never be happy with anything, so don’t mind what anybody thinks. Your ring is your ring. Period!!
I just used the word "fake" for the title 🥰 I don't actually view it as "fake" 🙈 I love it so much and it's so special to me!
@@byCHLOEWEN Also keep in mind they were discovered in a meteorite originally! They just discovered how to recreate them in a lab. Plus the refractive index of a Moissanite is much higher than a diamond, and is a close Second on the mohs scale of hardness at a 9.25 while diamonds are a 10.
A Moissanite has a rainbow reflecting light while diamonds have a white sparkle. Also they are flawless and a diamond will unfortunately have imperfections becuase it is mined.
I suggest Charles and Calvard btw they have a patented method on making the most brilliant Moissanites! They are lovingly created and not massed produced
Iam a jeweler, I think you and your husband made a very wise decision, very smart, the money you save will help you to do something else more important, congratulations, best wishes to both of you, be healthy, stay safe.
Can we wear it regularly. Will it go fade by time ?or remain same
@@neetujagdev9837you can wear it everyday no problem, no fading, nothing. Good luck!
Now this is the Chloe I want to see and hear from. This is called being true and honest to yourself. Never feel pressure to always explain what you do or don’t do. I’m so very proud and happy for your growth. You’re ring is not fake, it’s been blessed with Jason and your vows before God. God bless you.
Youve made the right decision to never go into debt whilst in a relationship it is not worth it. Your marriage does not revolve around a ring. Uv done amazing by opening up x
Yess!!! We are so careful with our finances and so it was the best decision for us personally 🥰
I love my moissanite wedding ring set. Diamonds are a rip off, and it’s annoying women feel pressured to have one. I wear my ring proudly, and had a few people later get moissanite for their own wedding rings after they saw mine.
My hubby just got me 5 carats one. It's cheaper and better. No need to worry about what others think. Diamonds don't mean shit.
The whole, “I’ve been married for two years and the ring no longer matters” is so true! I wear my gold band all the time now. Prefer it over my diamond ring most of the time. For whatever reason, the gold band makes me feel more true to our relationship by not depending on the materialistic side of it... if that makes any sense. Lol
It’s so true!! I was so caught up in the ring before we got engaged and now I sometimes just wear my band too 😂🥰
Right I've been with my bf going on 13 years in October got engaged last year
Girlllllllllll There’s No Law saying Your wedding ring has to be a Diamond,,, it’s definitely what you like. Diamond are only worth something long as your in the store,, soon as you leave out the store the value goes down,,, I have several Moissanite I will never ever go back to Diamonds,, your ring is beautiful 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I highly encourage everyone to watch the episode of Explained on Netflix about diamonds! And do your research on diamonds!! They’re not everything we are think they are. Your ring is gorgeous!!
I’m currently wearing my mother-in-law’s engagement ring that passed away in January. It’s about a 3 carat. My father-in-law bought the stone which is a white sapphire and my birthstone while he was stationed in the Air Force in Thailand I believe. He had the ring designed for her. My former stone in my engagement ring was a blue sapphire.
Your ring is beautiful and I totally agree with you. It doesn’t matter if the stone is real or not as long as you love it.
Awww that sounds lovely!! A family ring is so special ❤️🥰 I love rings with alternative stones they’re so unique ❤️
My mother got engaged a few weeks back. She kept bragging about how expensive her engagement ring was and how big it was. Her fiance spent almost 5k on her engagement ring and wedding ring!!! My husband spent literally less than $600 on both my engagement ring and wedding ring. Lol my mom has always been the material type though. I don't see anything wrong with getting a more affordable ring. As long as they are good quality and will stand the test of time. I'm perfectly happy with mine and I wouldn't ask for anything different. Although, it's not necessarily the cheapest, it's also not outrageously expensive. :) glad you talked about this!
I don’t think $5000 is anything super crazy depending on where you’re at in life. If the guy has it why not :) but I wouldn’t like the bragging either, it doesn’t matter what it costs at the end of the day but what it means.
I really don't want a diamond ring, and especially no big one. Yes, I really like to marry my boyfriend because I really love him, but I don't want him to spend a rediculus amount of money on a ring. I would be totally afraid to wair it. I like a nice ring but I would be very happy with anything he could afford.
thank you for being so raw and vulnerable with us! 🥺 i can’t quite word it properly, but i appreciate how you acknowledged the reality of the idea of status and comparison since it is SO prevalent in our culture. LOVE your videos, you’re my fav!
Aww thank you!! That means so much to me ❤️🥰 here's to being more content and confident in all things!
I have a lab created diamond and I loveeeee it! We saved so much money and no one can even tell that it’s lab created and it’s sooo clear and beautiful. I feel like “real” diamonds are almost a scam. I appreciate your honesty and I hope more girls will know these things aren’t what really matters. The marriage is what matters.
Oh I’m so happy you love your lab diamond as well!! No one can ever tell 🥰 I do have a hard time stomaching putting ourselves into a trick financial situation for a diamond!! Maybe one day just not before we get a house hahah 😂
Lab grown diamond are diamond, they have the same genetics, one is mined from earth the other is man made. It is like natural birth or in vitro baby :)
When my husband and I got engaged we both were fresh out school too and didn’t have much money starting out. I think there is a lot of pressure from social media to have a big expensive diamond ring. I love moisanite it’s a great beautiful ring!! I love your ring! It’s stunning
People are way too darn nosey these days! It shouldn't matter & truthfully it's none of ANYONE'S business! Your marriage is more important than the ring on your finger! Just ask God😘
Haha it really shouldn’t!! But I’m happy to share and hopefully help others make decisions on their engagement rings 🥰
Tracy Camp so very very true!
Love! I have an emerald cut moissanite engagement ring and love embracing it. I don't consider it t a "fake diamond", but rather a beautiful gemstone that happens to look very similar to a diamond.
I have never given a second thought to the fact that my engagement ring is lab created 🤷 my husband was in college and working as a barista when he bought it and it is exactly what I wanted. 10 years later (And kids and a house and several moves and a million life things) I am still happily wearing it ☺️
My ring is moissanite too! Some people have been nosy or judgmental about it, but it’s still the best ring for me and I love it!
As long as you love it thats all that matters ❤️🥰
My favorite stone is moissanite too and it actually coincides with my husband's birthday.
Where a diamond is made from carbon (#6 on the periodic table of elements,) a moissanite is carbon and silicon together. Silicon is assigned the #14 on the periodic table.
My husband's birthday is 6/14 so it was a very nice surprise to find that info out.
I have 3 moissanite rings and 3 bands (1 diamond, 1 moissanite, and 1 CZ.) I mix and match them in all different ways bc I change my mind so often.
So glad I found this video. I was telling my partner I’ve been toying with the idea of a moissanite ring so I could get what I wanted size wise. We can afford a 8-10k on a ring, but I just feel guilty asking him to spend that much money. I would rather put that into furnishing our new home. This video really made my final decision on the moissanite!!
Yes girl!! So happy for you 👏🏼 furnish that new home 🙌🏼
chelsea corona Yupp.. just because you can afford it doesn’t mean it’s a wise decision.. I just can’t fathom spending 8k-10k on a ring when I can get one just as nice for 1-2k. I think home, wedding, car means more to me.
I sell jewelry especially engagement rings (I have a diamond grading license from GIA in New York) and I truly think that moissonnite is a fantastic choice for an engagement ring. I have also sold emeralds, sapphires which come in many colors not just blue. So, I totally agree. Your ring is gorgeous! Thanks so much for sharing! Blessings!
My husband and I chose an estate ring from eBay. It is a 0.3 carat diamond in white gold for $300. The same size diamond ring was going to cost us $1000 at the jewelry store. It’s dainty, and I love it. We used to savings to get married in Hawaii.
it think it says so much about your relationship that it was founded on practicality and future planning and above all love...it's a beautiful ring and you're a lovely soul and it's the meaning of the ring that matters most 🙏🏻
Chloe, thank you so much for the information, my engagement ring was stolen few years ago, it’s good to know of this option, they are beautiful rings, and more affordable!
Awww oh no!! thats so sad! Happy to share other options 🥰❤️
Thank you for this video! I've had these same feelings about my moissanite ring, the same kind of "shame", for lack of better words, but never could really say it. We also felt it was the more ethical choice + financially smart way to go into marriage. As frustrating as it was to have people question our finances or subtley shame me for not having a "real diamond ring", I'm kind of proud of my choice now that I'm older!
I commend you for all these revelations you do. That takes a lot of courage. I bow to you! Nothing to hide like an open book. 💛
Chloe thank you for sharing this video! It is so nice to hear how well your stone has stood up over time. That is something I’ve often wondered about and not a lot of people talk about. Your ring is absolutely beautiful!!
Good for you! You have brains and the correct perspective on life and love. My husband and I put money down on a house and I have moissanite, so yeah it is all about priorities. Keep up the good, and at the end of the day, it just doesn’t matter.
Such a smart move! A ring is a token of your love. So your ring is real and gorgeous! You have nothing to hide! What an amazing option and sorry you had to go through those insecurities but glad you were able to work through them. Anyone who would judge a ring needs to look inward.
My ring is also moissanite and I remember feeling so ashamed of it and feeling like I had to defend why I chose this type of ring. It looks beautiful but I am always so nervous that people are thinking it’s fake. But I’ve started realizing that other people really don’t care and if they do it doesn’t matter. At the end of the day, I’m married to the love of my life and that’s what matters. Thank you for sharing your story ❤️
I adore your honesty and your commitment to both your relationship and your joint financial responsibilities!
Yes girl! Thank you for making this video! I love that moissanite is more than just looks. It’s sustainable and affordable.
We are in the stage of looking for a ring. In looking and learning more about the market, I have learned that "you can't live inside a diamond ring". Diamonds are as beautiful as any other stone out there. I am very proud of both of you, for not giving in and buying something you guys were not able to buy or go into debt for it. I think you guys made a great choice and it shows how "fiscally" responsible you guys were and are at this point. I love your ring and I love the fact that you are truly happy with it!. Thanks for opening up as a lot of us girls (are in the same fear/pressure boat).
Aww thank you!! We are really happy with our decision!!
As much as we all compare it’s so nice to know that others can’t just automatically afford things too. Your ring is just as beautiful and special as any another!! Even more so because you love it.
I have a moissanite wedding band, and I do not regret it a bit. I just love how much it sparkles. Diamonds cannot compete!
Recently I’ve been feeling really self conscious about my engagement ring and I don’t know why. I have a vintage .5 carat diamond ring and I’ve been constantly comparing the small size of my ring to others. I totally related to this video (as far as hiding your ring from others or avoiding talking about it). I wish I had considered this option when we were looking. At the end of the day, the ring doesn’t really matter. We’ve saved up. We bought a house. We didn’t go into debt for our wedding. And we’re happy. That’s what matters. Thanks for sharing this.
Aw thank you for watching!! Happy you got a house :)
Seriously. Thank you for making this!!! I think so many people need to hear this that they don’t need to spend money on a big diamond and that there are other ethical options! I’ve been obsessively looking into moissanite so I’m happy to hear that’s it’s held up ☺️
I love you for expressing your thoughts and opinions. Thanks Chloe, this story is honestly so beautiful.
Thank you so much!
I absolutely love your ring! I have a Charles & Colvard Moissanite ring, and I absolutely love it! ❤️
Your Life!!! Your Ring❣ Nobody's business!! Love is all that matters🖤🤗
My partner and I just got engaged and I picked out my own ring. There was no proposal (we are more talk it out and agree kind of people) and my partner knows that I'm way too picky with jewelry to not have a say in the process. I went with a silver band with an uncut black diamond, because I'm not much for traditional rings. It hasn't come yet (also from etsy), but it is 100% my style and cost less than $400.
Same
Hello, hope to get an answer, is ETSY a trustable way to buy it? I also found by an image a ring on Etsy but got confused by the price , since it was also $400 & I start questioning myself if the quality will be good, how it went for you??
@@58mrjean My experience was great! The ring is exactly what I expected and is high quality. As long as the shop has good reviews and the seller communicates well, I think you should go for it!
I love your ring. Your commitment to each other is far more important! When your a thrifter expensive rings aren't the first thing on your mind. Getting what you like is more fun. It's nice to see you use common sense and honesty. Bless you.
What a beautiful ring! My husband and I picked a tanzanite ring and it was so much cheaper than getting the equivalent sized diamond. The diamond industry is absolutely a scam and I'm so glad to see more people going with alternative gem stones!
I strongly believe when people find their purpose they dont have time to care about anyone else's business or try to stir up drama. I'm over people!
Truth!
So glad you made this video!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Love your ring!!!! I think it is absolutely perfect & thank you for sharing. Definitely makes me feel more comfortable to get one myself!
chloe!! this is not an exaggeration when I say your ring fits my dream engagement ring to a T!!! moissanite, oval, simple and thin plain yellow gold band, 2 carats ... I’m so happy and completely solidified with my decision when the time comes :)
Omg yay!!! That makes me so happy!! You will LOVE it!! It’s even more beautiful in person 🥰🙌🏼
Thank you for making this video. I’ve been insecure about my ring too and it’s good to know that there are people out there who recognize that a ring doesn’t define the true love and committee that comes with marriage :)
Can you tell me if this is forever one moissanite? When I try to purchase this on rosado and there are options for just moissanite or forever one moissanite.
Your ring is so beautiful
Love the meaning and story behind your ring, it's gorgeous and you're right, it's just a sign of commitment to your partner, the cost of a ring does not define anything!!
Aww thank you!!! I’m so happy to share my story & how I’m liking my ring 🥰
you've inspired me!!! Definitely going with a moissanite ring
Beautiful relationship doesn’t require materialistic things 😍
Absolutely!! 🤗
TRUE!!!
Congrats! I also got a moisannite engagement ring and I got lots of compliments. Only one person who wasn't a jeweler asked what stone I had. Most people just see a beautiful ring, they don't care if it is or isn't a natural mined diamond. The setting has lab created diamonds and it was all under $3500. And we just didn't feel like spending a ton of money on just an engagement ring.
Absolutely love this video sis... my boyfriend and I are engagement ring shopping, and I have also decided on a moissanite, and wow, what a saving.... I'm so happy...
Your ring is beautiful! I think whatever works best for the couple and makes you guys happy is all that matters.
I wanted diamond earrings for my upcoming two year anniversary and ended up going with a lab grown diamond for the price and larger size. They are just as sparkly as my real diamond ring and are more ethical and environmentally friendly. 🙂
I love that you did this video! This is my first time commenting on a video but your message was so important I just had to! Thank you for bringing light to the important issues like going into marriage with as little debt as possible and the pressure we all feel to try and keep up. We need more videos with this honesty and this is the true way we become strong women and better human beings. Great job!!
Aww you’re so kind thank you for taking the time to watch and comment 🥰❤️ I am happy to share my story and hopefully encourage others to do what they feel is best!
Your ring is absolutely gorgeous!!! Moissanite stones are amazing, ethical, practical, and so stunning!!! Thank you so much for sharing this video! 🙌❤️💍
you honestly are amazing thank you for this
I have a sapphire ring and I love it. I get compliments all the time. It was so much cheaper than a diamond and very special and unique. It's also my husband's birthstone, so it makes it even more special.
I respect you so much for making this video!!
Your ring is absolutely BEAUTIFUL!!
I think it’s amazing you were able to get the desired look at a fraction of the cost. Super smart decision!
It’s a symbol of yalls love! Who cares. It is beautiful. I wish y’all the best
I honestly think it’s no one’s business about your engagement ring. That’s between you and your spouse. People are so nosey....
Agreed 🥰
This is what a video that every women should watch! What matters is the love!!! I just shared the videos to my cousins and sister that is not married yet. You are so practical and amazing to share this!!!!❤️❤️❤️
I also really like how a bigger stone looks on my hand. So my husband got me a huge black diamond (3.34 ct center stone) that was the same price of a 1ct ring. I’m absolutely in love with it!! I’m glad you posted this!! Your ring is gorgeous 💜
Thanks for your honesty!This is a beautiful ring!!
Gorgeous ring.! I got engaged super young too. So my first engagement ring was a white sapphire. Everyone thought it was a real diamond, until id tell them. But he upgraded it to my choice of ~ a tanzanite & diamond ring. I love tanzanite since its more rare then diamonds..🥰
My wedding set is Moissonite and I LOVE IT!!!! 💎 Yours is beautiful too!
I am considering a moissanite! However, do you find that it gets cloudy or dirty easily? I had a morganite ring and it was horrible (in terms of keeping it clean & clear).
Love this! My engagement ring is Morganite and I love it! I get to have the big look with a little price! And it’s unique!
The only thing i thought was wow that's a beautiful ring
It is cool that you talked about this! Your ring is beautiful, and a great ethical alternative to a diamond.
I love my moissanite engagement ring! And I wear mine proudly. A marriage is so much more important than a ring.
So happy you have one too!!
Where did u buy the ring looks so beautiful the link u posted dont work
I love this video!! My boyfriend and I are doctors and I told him I want a moissanite ring no matter how much money we make. I don't think I can wear and walk around with a $10k+ ring with the risk of losing it and I would much rather put the money towards a house or something more financially logical. Love your engagement ring!!
I fully understand your hesitation to 'come clean' about your ring. I too had a 1.5 lab created diamond. And I lied through my teeth regarding the real, or unreal of it. Nobody's business! It always amazed me at the nerve of anyone asking if it was real or not. Personally, I would NEVER do that. It's very rude. If people ask, it is because they just want to pull you down or are envious. You should be proud of yourself and your husband for the decision you made.
Thank you for sharing, good to know there is beautiful alternatives to diamonds!
That part its nobody business🙌🙌🙌 i have a 4ct one it is soo pretty and i love it
I have a 12 millimeter princess cut stone moissanite set in a tiffany style on my diamond band. Absolutely love it! It has more brilliance and fire than a diamond and I would never waste money on a diamond its candle light in color and refraction is amazing! Thanks for sharing your story.
Love your ring! I actually prefer moissanite to diamonds for ethical reasons. My husband replaced my diamond engagement ring with a gorgeous moissanite for our 10 year anniversary, and I am even happier and more proud than before. Moissanite is a real stone with great longevity, and I think it was extremely thoughtful and responsible of you and your husband to make that choice so young. Thanks for sharing!! I wish I would have known about moissanites from the beginning, and you spreading awareness is fantastic for so many people!
Thank you so much for sharing I’m 21 and currently looking for a ring and we didn’t want something super expensive, but I am skeptical about the longevity of the rings when their at a lower price but hearing someone say two years it makes me feel more secure where we are spending our money, so thank you for posting I really appreciate it 🙏🙏☺️♥️
Loved this ❤️❤️❤️ thank you for shaping. If you can please let me know what camera you are using. The quality and you are superb !
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I resonate with this so much!! Rings are soooo expensive and I don't think people should be shamed when getting an alternative stone! It's ridiculous! Thanks for educating me about moissanite! I'll need to look into it!
Aww of course!! There are so many options out there 🥰
you're so adorable! this video was really nice. I feel encouraged about moissanite because bigger rings are fun!
Bigger rings are totally fun!! 👏🏼🙌🏼 get what you want girl!
I have a moissanite engagement ring but I didn’t get it to pass off as a diamond. I love moissys and their beautiful rainbow fire. They outperform diamonds in fire and brilliance. 😋🔥
I bought a beautiful ring at a department store. It’s a blush color. I thought how much I wished this was my wedding ring. I have a traditional ring. I think we should all choose whatever type of stone that makes us happy and not worry about the status of having a real diamond.
Chloe, where did your wedding band is from? Do you have details what size band width mm and weight of the gems?
Wow thank you for sharing this because I never knew this was an option!! The insecurities you shared are things I’ve thought about as well. But how awesome is it to get something that still looks as beautiful as the real thing but at a more affordable price!
Hello I’m new to your Chanel and want to get a ring like this to replace my original set . Do you have any suggestions on what option on the Etsy site you linked below ? There are a lot of options ! Thanks in advance