Considering Second Chances.. || Father Knows Something Podcast

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  • @polkadots1836
    @polkadots1836 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    This is literally perfect. My fiancé, who I’ve been with for 5 years, just called off our relationship 1 month before our wedding (about a week ago, I’m in shambles and I do feel whiplash). Exact same dynamic as 1st story! Love you guys ❤️ this is the perfect time for this theme

    • @noellejuliet7265
      @noellejuliet7265 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      hope u are okay, remember everything will work out in the end! take care of yourself

    • @kateduggan2827
      @kateduggan2827 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sending love! This is a really difficult time so please be kind to yourself. Pain like this can blind you from the future and that’s completely ok and acceptable. You are enough, you are loveable and it’s your job to love yourself right now 🩷

    • @cassidybrewer
      @cassidybrewer ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It’s definitely better to end the relationship before the marriage than after, but I understand your pain firsthand. My relationship with my son’s dad ended 6 months before our wedding and it was heartbreaking. It ultimately needed to happen but that doesn’t negate the pain it caused. I hope you’re okay. If you’re not right now, eventually you will be. Things do get better ❤️‍🩹

    • @teddihayes1733
      @teddihayes1733 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sending hugs - you deserve a HELL YES from your partner ❤️

    • @alex-55X
      @alex-55X ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sending hugs and love everything goes well at the end it takes time

  • @kateduggan2827
    @kateduggan2827 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Story 3. I say this with love but it will be tough to hear. If you are with someone who is homophobic you are not an ally. You cannot support your dads and be with this man at the same time. If you are a true ally you cannot be with someone who holds those “beliefs” and prejudices.
    There is someone out there for you who will love your family truely and raise children with kindness and tolerance with you. This is not your guy. He has tried to hide his intolerance from you but already it is slipping through the cracks. This is a red flag. Run.
    What’s next? He expects you to cook and clean and raise kids? He expects his wife to “perform her duties” if he hadn’t understood sucked his views from that church it goes deeper than you think

  • @caitrionakatos4164
    @caitrionakatos4164 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    "I'm a picky eater." "You're a pain." had me laughing 😂

  • @ollieciro3452
    @ollieciro3452 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Morgan’s comment “why did I put myself through that?” hit me so f***ing hard.
    I (ENM) left a very unhappy monogamous marriage with someone who is now my friend again.
    Why did we put ourselves through that??
    Now I can happily and openly love this person, and am able to bring love to so many other people as well.
    There’s no loss of love for my former husband, we just weren’t right for one another, ya know?
    I love this podcast so very much.
    Thanks Dad and THT fam 🩷

    • @ollieciro3452
      @ollieciro3452 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I’m going to comment on my own comment to complement Jerry about the acceptance of love of who someone chooses to be. Thank you thank you thank you, seriously.
      It’s the Iron Giant quote:
      “You are who you choose to be.”

  • @sarahpooler2330
    @sarahpooler2330 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I learned this from my last Ex. If you don't trust your partner enough to have kids with them, there's something very wrong. I stayed for 10 years even though I knew I'd never have kids with him. Once I got out, I think that was my biggest shock that I had been so willing to give that up for someone I didn't really trust. I have a baby now and he is the purpose in my life. I always knew I was meant to be a mother. That ex really twisted me up, and in WAY more ways than that.

  • @finnianclark9129
    @finnianclark9129 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I started laughing every time Justin shouted, "It's a pillar!"
    Really good episode, y'all.

  • @hayamirin6795
    @hayamirin6795 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Happy Sunday, FKS and THT crew! Welcome back, Jerry!

  • @reneepushies902
    @reneepushies902 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love how Justin coordinates his "bye" to match Morgan's ❤

  • @teddihayes1733
    @teddihayes1733 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Morgan talking about her dynamic with Justin vs. other boyfriends is sooo relatable lol. Also just so happy for them. I Stan a Pisces/Virgo (well, almost a Virgo) relationship. That’s me and my Beau too!

  • @BruhGorl
    @BruhGorl ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Happy Spouse, Happy House ❤

    • @torit4534
      @torit4534 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ughh me yelling it at the phone for what felt like 30minutes 🤣🤣

  • @Tulip97
    @Tulip97 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Story 2: my husband and I also are each others firsts. Learning how to have sex is very beautiful experience with each other. But just like you had to learn and explore, you have to communicate it openly but not harshly. He is probably taking it personally and you have to let him know that you arent critiquing him. Justin and Morgan really did a great job with advice!!! Theres no way that you can know everything about sex right away. Be patient and enjoy the ride!!!

  • @ashleykoch3990
    @ashleykoch3990 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    In regards to story #1, I think the separation is needed. I feel that when people date that young sometimes it doesn't allow for growth individually. My fiance and I dated when we were 17 and I thought he was the love of my life and we were going to get married and then he broke it off and 4 years later he moved back from Minnesota to Florida. we reunited and we have been together now for 8 years and we have two children and we're getting married. I don't think that that would have happened without growth on each side individually, to become better people and to know what we each wanted out of a relationship and to have the opportunity to explore other types of relationships and opportunities. I think that this is a perfect time for her not to only explore other people and potentially other relationships but also a good time to just enjoy time with friends and enjoy life and go have other adventures because that seems to be what he is doing and what he is finding enjoyment in.

  • @raven8500
    @raven8500 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    woohoo! I caught this 5 mins after its been uploaded, just finished watching the latest two hot takes episode!

  • @denisenieves1038
    @denisenieves1038 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Really needed this today ❤️🫶🏻 love y’all!

  • @tabikat2532
    @tabikat2532 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    For story 3 i think you also have to consider that if you do marry him will he allow your father and stepfather to the wedding or allow them into your children's lives. I believe that this is a huge thought to consider when making this decision

  • @taranightowl
    @taranightowl ปีที่แล้ว +4

    'It's not a difference of opinions, it's a difference of believing that certain people have basic human rights, happiness love, the freedom to do whatever they want' Yessss Morgan! My sister is trans and I would never be with someone who is anti-trans. My friend was a strong feminist and got with a guy, has had children with him, and he follows inherently sexist/anti feminist people. I am baffled. I've lost a lot of respect for her in all honesty. He's the opposite of the guy I saw her with. EDIT: they have a daughter and knowing he's gonna be instilling those values in his kids is worrying

    • @Steveve4123
      @Steveve4123 ปีที่แล้ว

      Totally relate. My best friend is getting married to a pretty conservative individual and it really bums me out. He’s great to her but his beliefs are troubling. They had a son last year and it concerns me knowing he’s going to distill his mindset in him.

    • @taranightowl
      @taranightowl ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Steveve4123 exactly

    • @Didiorugi
      @Didiorugi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Steveve4123 What do you mean by saying his beliefs are troubling? I'm asking because that can be subjective. I fully support the fact that trans people should be treated with respect, because they are human beings, just like everyone else. BUT the lgbt community, in its current manifestation, has gone too far. Today, in the United States, under the Democratic government and the Biden administration, people who are part of the lgbt community have many privileges ( there are exceptions, of course), and I find many of the beliefs of this group troubling (due to the indoctrination in schools and the denial of science and reality). But I would say that as long as your sister's husband is respectful, has common sense and is reasonable, that's what matters, I think. I'm not trying to hate, in fact, I hope you and your sister are doing well:)
      Regarding the last story, I think they should communicate about their beliefs, because when it comes to marriage and our most important values and morals, you and you're partner need to be in alignment. So, if nothing changes, they should definitely consider divorce.

  • @mariakelleybianchi
    @mariakelleybianchi ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I appreciate y’all so much for putting out this content. Thank you Morgan. ❤

  • @andanotherthing...
    @andanotherthing... 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Story #3: I hope anyone in this situation will realize that a parent with these beliefs will also be teaching their children disrespect of other's rights and, in this case, intolerance of their own grandparents. 😢

  • @ivylovesrunning
    @ivylovesrunning ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Story 2: I am sorry. If your husband isn't willing to go to a couple's counsellor, that is willing to give you ideas on how to make your sex life fullfing for the both of you, then this relationship will not work. What keeps going off in my mind, is OP's husband is a SELFISH lover. He isn't proactive enough to pleasure you or to make sure you are ok, feeling good, having a good orgasm and feeling satisfied. If you are not feeling satisfied and he is NOT willing to change anything, you deserve better. I have been in a relationship longer than 20 years. Some months have been without sex and some months with so much sex. It ebs and flows. However, the intimacy and communication never broke down. A loving and willing parnter will always attempt to make sure you are ok with every interaction or every day. If you want this and do not have this, ask for it. If you ask for it and do not get it, leave and find someone willing to be that person. I wish you the best OP.

  • @lisadeherrera798
    @lisadeherrera798 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My Sunday just got better

  • @Myhandsandfeetarecold
    @Myhandsandfeetarecold ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi FKS and THT fam! This is the perfect way to start my Sunday out on the town ❤ I hope you all are having a beautiful weekend

  • @yazmintorres9084
    @yazmintorres9084 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    We missed you, Dad!! 🫶🏼

  • @paisleyrae207
    @paisleyrae207 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “How technologically advanced of you…” hahahahhahahahah 😂😂😂

  • @cydiiwidii20
    @cydiiwidii20 ปีที่แล้ว

    On the s*icidal husband - my toxic ex I lived with and literally had to be assisted by the police to move out in the middle of the night. He threatened a lot during when I was packing, including suicide. I responded “that’s not fair, and is manipulative” it took the wind out of him quickly.
    The next morning I called the police station in that town, when I was 2 states away, to have a wellness check done. It’s what I needed to not feel guilty or concerned. That I did the kind thing for myself and him- ensuring my health while I caring about his.
    Ultimately, other people’s decisions are not your responsibility.

  • @amandablythe1257
    @amandablythe1257 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've been waiting!!!!

  • @OdetteADSmith
    @OdetteADSmith ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy spouse happy house is what we use in our house

  • @lejlakadiric6937
    @lejlakadiric6937 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Regarding story 1, it depends. If he fell out of love because of specific reasons, for example if he realized she’s a different person after they got married. But if he just fell out of love, then he doesn’t understand the difference between the honeymoon phase and marriage. After the honeymoon phase, it’s a choice to keep loving a person. It doesn’t last forever

  • @julietteorozco8923
    @julietteorozco8923 ปีที่แล้ว

    Morgan! Just for the zocdoc ad, I got my tonsils out as an adult, and it was absolute hell. I've had 2 shoulder surgeries that were absolutely nothing compared to the recovery for my tonsils. My tonsils were affecting my ability to breathe after years of chronic strep. I wouldn't do it under and other circumstance.

  • @genesismartel-kx9gv
    @genesismartel-kx9gv ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I missed u dad!

  • @LucyRosee
    @LucyRosee ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've been eagerly waiting for the next episode!

  • @queengoliath
    @queengoliath ปีที่แล้ว +1

    About the driving and picking up siblings story: if she doesn't want to drive and pick up her siblings, that's on her, but if her husband is fine picking up HIS siblings and wants to do that for his parents, that's not her choice.

  • @delaneykoeberl4084
    @delaneykoeberl4084 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy house, happy spouse. 😎👉

  • @amandablythe1257
    @amandablythe1257 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love you all❤❤❤

  • @caitrionakatos4164
    @caitrionakatos4164 ปีที่แล้ว

    Third story, I have a friend who used to be in a relationship like that. So tough.

  • @kaylacombs6254
    @kaylacombs6254 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First caller is 100% flirting with some girls in his friend group. That's why he wants to break up. He's going to break up and then regret it, then come back to you and say he made a mistake.. basically he just wants to cheat

  • @Gogo_Kiddo
    @Gogo_Kiddo ปีที่แล้ว

    JERRY WE MISSED YOU SOOOOOOOOO MUCH 😭🩷🩷🩷 I hope you had a wonderful trip!!!

  • @danaboo88
    @danaboo88 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow- thank you guys for being so raw and vulnerable 😌 seriously.. I see you all and I love your takes. Dad- story 1- uhhhh it really takes a real good dad to say “what are you dickin around for?”. A fathers wisdom ia so valuable. Love you and you too Morgan and Justin and all the people involved/ behind the scenes 😘

  • @FreshmenThesis
    @FreshmenThesis ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I know I started watching tht after seeing Morgan’s reels - on Facebook likely from instagram- does fks do short reels shared everywhere? If not - maybe that would help…?

  • @mok6680
    @mok6680 ปีที่แล้ว

    Story 1: they were so young when they got together. People get curious about what else is out there when they have no other experiences. He wants to experience things & honestly, probably already is. She needs to let him go & move on, she deserves someone that is invested in her.

  • @punkierockerbruster
    @punkierockerbruster 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Story 5: WHERE IS THE SCHOOL BUS?!

  • @destinydooley6768
    @destinydooley6768 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg so early! I've watched every episode but I never get to it this early!

  • @Ohsvm
    @Ohsvm ปีที่แล้ว

    27:31 sex games will be their best bet! Games like this makes it fun to explore kinks, likes, dislikes, etc. Also avoids it being directly insulting if you share a dislike and you can make it more fun by bringing drinks into it❤️

  • @jmnzsarai69
    @jmnzsarai69 ปีที่แล้ว

    I want a lunch with dad in San Diego or LA!!!!

  • @shannonjackson9311
    @shannonjackson9311 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh sheesh. Early. Love y’all

  • @KayDazzle90
    @KayDazzle90 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy spouse, happy house

  • @brittanycook3407
    @brittanycook3407 ปีที่แล้ว

    PLEASE COME TO NEW ZEALAND!! I promise it’s better than Australia 😂

  • @carissa4742
    @carissa4742 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve lived through nearly the exact same thing as story #4, we divorced over 6 years ago now and he’s still alive. He also had a past of it, so that concerned me, but I had to value my own life and no one can live a happy life through that. It’s definitely emotional ab*se to use that as a reason to keep you around. Not good for anyone involved.

  • @vf3655
    @vf3655 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dear Lord help me, I was internally cringing at the thought of ever speaking this in depth about bedroom issues with my parents in the room.
    I won’t ever be mature enough to do this 🏃‍♀️ 💨 😂
    30:38

  • @littybritty9983
    @littybritty9983 ปีที่แล้ว

    Story 3, I think the boyfriend is allowed to have his beliefs, doesn’t make him homophobic or a bad person and disagreeing with lgbt doesn’t inherently make you an intolerable bad human being. Not all people who disagree with gay marriage are afraid of gay people, there’s a platitude of other reasons to disagree with gay marriage aside from fear and religious beliefs are a valid reason imo. However, I don’t think he and his girlfriend are compatible since as you guys said, they disagree on their core values which directly impacts their lifestyles and raising children.

    • @kad2270
      @kad2270 หลายเดือนก่อน

      YOU are not the brightest

  • @Flekoni420
    @Flekoni420 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Story 4 - I've stayed for 12 years and still things didn't get any better, after leaving him he is still alive and I've lost 12 years of my life for nothing. Wish I have listened to my best friend telling me his suicide won't go on my soul if I leave him. She was a smart 14 year old girl and I was a dumb 16 year old 😂

    • @Flekoni420
      @Flekoni420 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      And yes it is the worst kind of manipulation. At the end he even claimed he never said he's gonna hurt himself 🙄

  • @madelineblackwell3126
    @madelineblackwell3126 ปีที่แล้ว

    Has Jerry ever said exactly what he does for work?

  • @sueaceves2398
    @sueaceves2398 ปีที่แล้ว

    Random thought.. i truly forget morgan is a vikings fan. 😂as a green bay packers fan I'm always like 😲 when I see her wear something with vikings logo

  • @bonniesandefer7147
    @bonniesandefer7147 ปีที่แล้ว

    A good way to start the sex convo is outside of the bedroom and with the starter "you know what I find sexy ..." then name something he already does. The say "you know what else I find sexy..." then name something you want to try. This takes critique out all together. Of course ask what he finds sexy as well. Make it a back and forth.

  • @lilll712
    @lilll712 ปีที่แล้ว

    How come Lucy left?

  • @lindsaydeviveiros5533
    @lindsaydeviveiros5533 ปีที่แล้ว

    People who continuously threaten suicide when facing consequences aren’t suicidal, they’re narcissistic and emotionally immature. He’s such a manipulative cruel person for doing this to his wife. If he truly wanted to off himself, he would. He’s just a pathetic man child who will drive his wife to suicide before he doesn’t anything to himself. Don’t be fooled

  • @UnfilteredPaigeV
    @UnfilteredPaigeV 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    If you know me, you you don’t K
    To story 2. Mutual masturbation can be so exhilarating because it’s so taboo and I honestly always recommend it to my friends who are struggling with their sex lives. Also, for her the vibe melt 1010 the best toy for a woman out there. And it’s designed the way where it can be used while you’re having intercourse because it is so slim.

  • @UnfilteredPaigeV
    @UnfilteredPaigeV 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Story 3 really bothers me because why would she stay with someone who blatantly disrespects her parents to a point where he refuses to go to their wedding because they are gay, and then continues to disrespect the community. Even if you didn’t have anyone part of your family that was a part of the LGBTQ community that’s just not someone you want to associate with. It’s just so unhealthy and backwards thinking. And I support other people‘s opinions on things and I always will as long as they are not being thrown at me however, this man no no this little boy lately disrespected her and her dad’s and continues to do so that’s messed up I’m questioning her as a person For staying with this person.

    • @UnfilteredPaigeV
      @UnfilteredPaigeV 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      OK, I finished the story. Brazil is a very dangerous place to live if you were gay, I’m not sure if this is all of Brazil, but in most places in Brazil, your life is at risk just by being born the way you’re born and loving the way you love. I know a few people that are from Brazil and they hate crimes against gay men are scary. You literally just get stabbed for holding another man’s hand affectionately. It’s scary.

  • @vendulakysela3164
    @vendulakysela3164 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would like to challenge Jerry on the first story. When people get married, it's with the intention to do their absolute best to stay together forever. Otherwise, they can stay in a relationship without marriage and there's nothing wrong with that. But I feel like I see a lot of advice lately (here and everywhere else) to just give up when things get hard. Yes, OPs partner is f*cking up in communication, and yes, it's a difficult bridge to cross to work on "falling in love with the same person again". But this story is not at a stage where you just get divorced, at least from where I stand. It's a difficult season for them, and working together on fixing it (which they both indicated they'd be willing to do), can make them a really strong couple.

  • @Barbellkk
    @Barbellkk ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes! Sex with Emily is amazing! You guys should do a show with her if she’s open to it!

  • @yasminskye5224
    @yasminskye5224 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello from Sydney! 🩷🥰 Big fan here. I'd LOVE if you came to Australia and would definitely go to see your show.

  • @kad2270
    @kad2270 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Story 3… why do u need an outside opinion to break up with ur homophobic boyfriend especially w gay dad like come on….