ANGEL ESSENCE
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 23 ส.ค. 2024
- WOHOOO BACK AGAIN, ANGELS!!!
We all know our experience as girls and women is malleable. Our moods, feelings and situations can change at any time. Self confidence is the pillar of making good decisions for yourself, and becoming your best version inside and out. Today, we dive into Angel Essence and how this energy , beauty and style can be a source of inspiration to guide and ground you. I hope you enjoy.
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Hi, I'm Alexandra. I believe life can be both glorious, tricky and even painful.. which we all know. Beauty is a practice I have enjoyed from early childhood as a way to build my confidence in myself. Not just on "special" occasions, but in my every day life and decision making. On my TH-cam channel I show you practical steps and psychology to understand and apply methods in all areas of beauty; inclding fashion, makeup, hairstyling and femininity, to help us evolve and transform into our personal visions. I believe when a girl feels good about herself, she can make better choices for herself in ALL areas of life. Welcome to my channel, I'm glad you found me.
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Hi my loves! I hear all of your comments which are always so precious to me, as they help me discern how you digest my creative content and the teachings... thank you to everyone leaving comments I am reading them all as they come in
love a gal who can take criticism and make positivity 💖
Well said 🥰
does this mean youre going to come out with other videos on other essences? because that would be amazing!! I love your videos btw 💕
Thank you! I understand it all better now! I always look forward to your videos :)
I would still like a video on other essences! Maybe you could do a disclaimer on them or something? Love youu
I have grandma essence. Long skirts, embroidered cardigans, fresh cookies in the kitchen at all times, and rosy cheeks always smiling
That's so cute and sweet!
Thats adorable ! ❤️
Saaaame, my friends call me their GlamMa
I love you for saying this.
You would totally love cottage core 😅 my lil sis is the same way
I’m really hoping she puts out a Queen or Goddess Essence vid 🥺🥺🥺🥺
I R***** Rachel if she does do the video. That would be cool.
Bruh I would love that
I woudl gladly wait for this
Hmm, that's definitely at the bottom of my wishlist, but I will watch anything she posts tbh.
We need that asap
I am legit so sad that she didn’t continue this series... it could’ve been her best series.
SAME
Agree!
Same.
She still can! I want dark femme ❤😢
No seriously I was waiting so long lol
I watched a Marilyn doc and it said she learned her walk from “pretending that you were dangling from a string that came out from the very top of your head” changed my vibe from how I walked and now people compliment me by saying I have wonderful posture. Definitely a good and small habit to acquire. I also don’t ever feel back pain anymore.
How long did it take you to learn that? Got any tips?
Women who are heavy in the chest(above D cup) really really struggle with that
If you remember the video, can you share the link ✨
A former ballerina and modern dancer taught me that string trick too. I've found it so helpful. Feldenkreist is said to help posture too. Ballet and Pilates help too cause they get the core strong and more awareness of all the muscles. Yoga is amazing as well. Swimming too. Ok now I feel like exercising haha. It's been awhile but it feels so good after I've done those things.
I'm gonna try this!!
Guys, this is for the "angels" girls, it's a series, she'll do a video for feline essence, girl next door essence and others essences. Chills
Exactly they need to stfu
But why would you have to stop being sarcastic in order to be “angelic”. I’m met tones of angelic women that were also sarcastic in their humour. It’s such a bizarre thing to single out and focus on.
Where did she get these from? I've never heard about essences... 😆
@@emilyrainflower25 that is not your concern you don't have to agree with whatever she is saying and she is not forcing and clearly this not your style so.... if this is not your video then wait for your turn she would be uploading other types of essence.❤
Emily Sikora The way she described sarcasm was masked anger, so I think she’s talking about the passive aggressiveness vibe of sarcasm. Sarcasm can be awesome when not used to act like your above someone.
Being/ wanting to be feminine should not offensive 🥰
Femininity isn’t defined by its stereotypes
absolutely
@Imani Alexander wtf lol? feminity is about being graceful, about embracing your feminine side. stop making everything about race 😒
kskskss I agree
This video is for people WHO WANT TO enter their more feminine side (like me)
And that has NOTHING to do with physical features like that...... it’s an essence
It’s not. If you’re a masculine woman you’d get more hate than being a feminine woman.
You should write a book. If you did, I'd totally buy it!
omg yes !
Yes!!!!!!
Hahahaha
Everyone criticising her for talking about angelic essence which is directed at those for those who like that vibe but if someone posted a video about ‘how to be a bad bitch’ type thing they would get loads of support when neither say you HAVE to act a certain way ❤️ it’s just people like to put a downer on feminine energy :(
true true
@@starlet7165 because traditional femininity is kinda damaging lol
@@liz-sl1gl the oppression of females is very detrimental to society, but that doesn’t even exist anymore, especially in the United States. And this video just directs to the aesthetics of traditional femininity, not enforcing gender roles, so I personally don’t see any issues with it.
@@starlet7165 That isn't true whatsoever. Modern feminism couches for choice, you are perpetuating a myth. Without modern feminism I wouldn't have bodily autonomy or social change.
The only issue is that being meek and passive shouldn't be what's considered feminine.
big bruh. she isn’t saying “do this and that to be feminine and a woman.” this is literally just for the people who WANT to be like this and vibe with the angelic ethereal thing. i’m really disappointed at the comments here
^
I haven't seen a single negative thing in this comment section, but I guess she might've deleted it
@@af5852 there were at the very beginning when she posted the video. In the first few hours, most comments were negative.
@Joud Faisal bullshit. Many people were upset because they felt like it was pushing a certain narrative on women, unfortunately Alexandra chose the one traditionally attributed to women all over the world. At the end of the day, she explained herself in the comments and the people that were upset with this video hopefully will accept her stance on the matter and move on.
So true! She did videos about "how to be sexy" too and I don't remember any comment hating on her in that video.
Maybe they doesn't want her to look more pure and feminine ?)
I love her in both ways, she's so beautiful
I think angel essence is just about being pure. and looking at everyone through the eyes of an angel, which is not judging, treating everyone kindly and treating the unkind ones with grace
I want to try and do that.... though I can’t help but be a demon with my mom and occasionally my sister..... but I try to be better outside of home..... hopefully this video will help
it's true. We could all strive to be more like that.
She also mentioned boundaries, so the angel essence is all that and not even close to being a pushover!
I love that.
Jesus Christ said all about this.
@@oceanstar9462 hey, you can do better, you can be loving and actually have a self control even when they step on your nerves. I have problem with lust all my life and I started to really get fed up with it, but could not end it on my own...or maybe I wasn't enough annoyed by my ways...and I did "Our Father" prayer several times, as I just felt led in my heart and I prayed to in the name of Jesus Christ to be set free from porn, masturbating, lustful thoughts...I really meant it and I prayed for it for few days and. ..
Well, it was back in December/beginning of January I think.
I haven't fallen back in that sin ever since...and it was part of my life for years...
My point is - you can overcome all things if you believe and turn to God for help. We are not left as orphans here on our own. We have a creator who is waiting for us to acknowledge Him. And as All-powerful God He will pull us out of our dirt. Don't give in and don't give up! If you want to live without smoking, or anger issue with family or anything else - pray!
Samantha yea I wish I knew about boundaries because I got deceived from a man who I thought I could trust only because I was taught to be a people pleaser growing up. My bad for tmi but yeah that’s one thing I wish I would’ve learn was how to use my voice and not be sorry for being mean because it’s really ruthless people don’t care.
Everyone in comments: STOP criticizing her
Me struggling to find ANY bad comments....
There was a ton of negative comments when she first posted this but I guess the good ones masked the negative ones
@@catmon143 yes. Saw them. They were saying they don't want anybody telling how they act hahaha i was like whuuut?
That's good
I think those people get her videos wrong
they're probably skipping the intro and think she's telling them how a woman has to behave and get upset
It happened right after she posted this. I see nothing wrong with this video
Ok. I’m a guy and I watch your videos because I find your feminine energy to be so inspiring and magical. This video inspired me to get my day started and be more conscious about how I treat myself. I respect and look up to women so much in regards to their feminine strength. I loved the video like always and your creative intention was well executed in my opinion. Women are so versatile and there is something to learn from every “essence”. I can’t wait for the next ✨❤️
YOU ARE SO SWEET OMGG
Gayyyyy
@@americlovestrump9391 shut up
@@americlovestrump9391 lol imagining using gay as an insult, doesn't work that way anymore bud
💚💚💚
She said, at the beginning, that there are many different essences of femininity... angelic is just one of these. She will probably do other types in future videos. Dont get your panties all up in a twist
Preach. 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏😂
I think a lot here was said in a way that was easily misinterpreted: she’s not saying these things are bad or not womanly. She’s saying they don’t fit with this specific essence. I think this is gonna be a series of multiple essences with different characteristics, so you’ll be able to find one that resonates with you❤️
I definitely agree. I just hope she'll take the feedback and focus on the positive points of an essence rather than he negative because it's pretty hard to maintain something all the time! But I hope she'll grow from this because i think she has some good advice.
How does being sarcastic not fit with an “””angelic essence””””?? The idea that certain personality traits don’t fit with certain aesthetics makes no sense. No one has to change their personality or their humour to be angelic. It’s just such a weird thing to say. I understand that she’s not saying all women have to be a certain way, but it’s super weird to discourage sarcasm or other traits so you can better fit into a category or “essence”. It’s so weird
I think we all understand what she was trying to say. However, the video could have been made a lot better if she actually explained what she meant by "angel essence". She just went straight into the appearence of an "angel" with no explenation and just did not feel like it was her work. It was just not typical of her content.
Idk she asociated the outer appearence with a personality a bit too much.
Emily Sikora an essence is your persona, something that you portray to the outer world and that’s how they’ll describe you in a word. You don’t have to change if you don’t want to, an angelic essence is just one if the many essences as Alexandra mentioned . As for being sarcastic, it’s generally considered a rude thing and often meant to offend. I’m not saying that it’s all bad and should be erased because we’re all human and have human behaviour but if anyone wants to adopt the angelic essence, sarcasm will clash with what they’re trying to portray.
@@emilyrainflower25 WOW You really came on this video and felt attacked, funny.
I'm still waiting on the next part of this series over two years later. I remember how mad people got at this video, but I legit don't understand how wanting to explore different versions of femininity (of your own free will) could ever be misogynistic. No one is saying that this is the only way to be a woman. The idea of "angel energy" helped me find strength in my femininity at a time were womanhood honestly made me feel lesser. Women's empowerment is about women feeling confident in themselves; not everyone is going to achieve that the same way, and that's okay.
Ballet and just my granny's ways of raising me really paid off. This video is exactly how i am thankfully. It is really nice to be, feel and erradiate this energy.
Do you have any more tips to be like this?
I think the purpose of this video is to show an example of just ONE way to be beautiful. Throughout the video it started to seem like she was telling people that this is what makes someone beautiful and feminine (which I really don't think is the message she's trying to send) so I'm just here to remind everyone that not doing these things does not make you ANY less beautiful/feminine/attractive, this video is only inspiration for a 'look'! It might not be your way of looking and feeling you're best and that's completely fine, we all have our own unique ways of looking and feeling beautiful and sometimes it's fun just to mess around and be an angel for a day ♥️
“The thing that really ruins this is sarcasm”
Well this is going well
Hahahahah I knew I failed when I saw that
I know I'm a minute and a half into the video and I'm already screwed
Yeah that’s when I knew this wasn’t for me lol
Same ! We have more of a queen vibe ;)
@@inuome890 that's okayy gurll we'll find our essence 😔✌️👌
Can I just say, I always thought it was stupid and ridiculous for people to “follow the youtuber” be there from day one. It was such a long process in my head and just why would anyone ever do that. And here I am, 20 years old, still watching you. I’ve been there before you had your baby after you had your baby, even during your breakup. Now I understand 😂 I really appreciate your videos, I love the style of them and I feel as if your one of the only youtubers that really put SO MUCH effort into making your videos. It’s not about the money it’s something you truly enjoy!
Honestly i'm just really hyped for the "girl next door" essence
If this is sarcasm, I love your comment
Eva Gonzalez 0:46😌😌
please I need the fairy one!!
feline essence is gonna rock my whole world
GUYS! PSA :
THERE ARE MORE ESSENCES TO COME. THERE. ARE. MORE. ESSENCES. THIS IS JUST ONE OF THEM.
And there are more videos out there too if anyone is curious as to what the other essences to come might look like.
Please do not hate on Alexandra, cause we all know how this woman wants us to cater to our personal selves. She teaches us to appreciate what we each individually have and work with it. This video is no different. Just keep holding on. 😊
YES THANK YOU
Joud Faisal like someone’s vibe, energy, aura
“We’re going to step into a loving attitude: being really grateful to be alive” 😭❤️
I love you!!!
Thank you Jesus Amen
Alexandra: "the first thing that can really ruin this essence, is sarcasm"
Me: well.. glad i'm not sarcastic!
Hahahaaa i went 👀👀👀👀
I just hate how everyone’s so pressed. Like she isn’t forcing anyone to be like this or saying this is how women should behave. This is literally for people who want this aesthetic and essence
people are easily offended nowadays 😕
Period
Some bitches are so insecure, they take anything that might suggest that they might have to work on themselves to be happier and more attractive as a personal attack. There’s literally a video in the sidebar from Alexandra saying “how I stopped taking other people’s shit”, so do they REALLY think that she’s trying to suggest that women should be seen and not heard? Ugh, my fellow women, ya’ll let me down sometimes. 😩
@@seventhsheaven ikr! as if being messy and sloppy isn't a bad trait! it's like saying being always late is not a flaw, but a sweet personality trait... I think this "bad bitch" personality type is so glamorized, that suggesting to be kind and graceful has become so ourageous
claudia Yes! Being a messy slob is gross whether you’re male or female, it’s not something that should be treated as some cute quirk that can’t be helped. Sarcasm CAN push others away from you if people don’t understand your tone, so it should be used sparingly around people you don’t know that well. Everyone has something about themselves they could work on improving, it doesn’t make you a pushover or a doormat to want to appear more elegant or feminine.
It seems like a lot of people feel that Alexandra is saying, “to be womanly, you have to be an angel.” I don’t think that was her intent, though. At the beginning, she mentions many different “essences” - the angel, the feline, the goddess, etc and says each of them has something to teach us. So this video is for those of us who want to learn something from the angel essence. If you don’t think the angel essence is a good fit for you, no worries! There are plenty of other essences to learn from and apply to your life. I’m assuming she will be making additional videos to discuss other essences.
Yes!!! Exactly I thought that too. I think this whole concept was just misunderstood she is not telling you that to be feminine you have to be like an angel this was aimed towards the people that want to embody the angel essence to highlight their femininity but that doesn’t mean that you have to be angel like to be feminine
I agree, and the video really just showed how you can be your natural beautiful female self. I really like these tips.
I thought the same! I was actually expecting that she would turn this into a series. This episode would be for angel essence, maybe next week it would be about feline, and so on.
Padmé Amidala yes! I really like this tips they are great if you wanna better yourself in this area
Please continue this series Alexandra! I think it’d be really interesting and helpful, I love the idea of drawing inspiration from all these ancient feminine energies. I personally loved the angel essence video and even if it doesn’t fit me 100% I was still able to take inspiration from the parts I do like! I really hope you didn’t get discouraged because of all the criticism this video got.
Listen Alexandra, your natural curly hair looks SO SO SO BEAUTIFUL on your, it makes you look so unique, feminine and just… WOW!!!
I know I shouldn’t tell you what to do but please, SHOW your natural hair MORE!! You are so beautiful in here I just can’t!
It really is that detail that factor that just level up your look in such an incredible way and you really radiate your authentic energy with it.. And you really DO look angelic it’s crazy!
Love you xoxo
Thank you so much for this!!! It’s so sweet to hear, and I can tell you really mean it 😊❤️🥰✨
I love Alexandra because she approaches -in intense depth- the topic of femininity and beauty from a completely objective, nonoffensive way that includes all people. She is a trailblazer! I can't wait to see how she inspires this generation.
I really really appreciate your comments and this is so sweet, thank you!!!!
AlexandrasGirlyTalk I really appreciate this video too! Ignore haters, keep being you!!
@@justsomegirl7274 yeah
Kaila Karns I hope by “haters,” you aren’t referring to those expressing concern that young girls who are sarcastic, clumsy and have acne may feel demeaned by this video...
Otherwise, yes, I agree: keep being you, Alexandra! 💕
Kaila Karns i’m not a hater. i love alexandra and plan to be subscribed for a long time. but this video is her first video that made me feel less confident, and it seems a lot of other girls feel that way. it’s just constructive criticism
as soon as i heard "stop being sarcastic" i was like nah this angel thing aint for me HAHHAHA
Do you know the difference between sarcasm and irony?
Literally same
sarcasm is a basic need of the era. I ain't leaving it
Kailyn Tinsley some of you didn’t go to school I see
@@aylamcheyne3545 why do you think they don't know the difference?😂
me while watching this:
*cries in hormonal acne*
As a bit more of a tomboy, your style is not for me; HOWEVER I reeeeeeeeally appreciate how analytical you are and how you never disparage anyone for making choices contrary to yours. I feel like your approach is like "here are the rules so you know how to break them." This is why, even though definitely not your target audience, I keep coming back to your videos. Keep up the thoughtful content!!
Well this is for feminine girls
very analytical and articulate, agree
@@mrspo7012 I’m sure she knows that
That's confidence. She knows her worth and the quality of her work and she's aware other people enjoy it, and when they don't, she always asks them to thumbs down and give her constructive criticism. She's one of the very few influencers I trust
I don’t think angelic is my thing so far... I can’t wait to see what essence might be mine in the future!! Looking forward to this series
I'm waiting for the feline essence 😺
@Joud Faisal absolutely not! We all are multi-faceted and that's why she'll be getting out more videos like this. You're free to tap in any essence anytime you want.
this "angel" vibe reminds me of Arwen, Galadriel, or any of the other Lord of the Ring elves - so ethereal, magical, elegant, and like they're walking on starlight. Beautiful!!
Honestly not all heroes wear capes. I grew up with 5 bro’s & 3 sisters & I kinda inherited boy habits which aren’t bad but I just personally don’t want it for me if that can respectfully make sense without offending anyone. This video is a sign & the fact that a QUEEN is out here trying to inspire & help other queens in the process lemme tell you God is saving a spot for you up in heaven. I have really bad ugly habits & I’ve been seeking for an exact challenge on what to actually do about it. This video literally in a way answered all my questions on becoming a mature young lady. I needed this when I was little but I’m glad it’s here now! Gods timing came just right THANK YOU! Stay blessed, gorgeous & at peace🤍
I’m assuming that this is going to be a series of different aesthetics? The pose is almost the same as pin-up/burlesque posture.
Same
i loveeee this
Also perfumes! Whenever I want to get in an angelic mood I wear an airy and floral/fruity scent. Angelicness is just a mood for me and a sense of self expression. If pple are offended by this video they probably don't understand how pple have different personalities...whenever I was an important meeting being elegant and "angelic" was just a way to exude self assuredness and maturity.
AGREEED
Omg i saw your profile picture and you look so pretty😍
@@anakim1832 ☺ty
What are your favourite perfumes? 😇💕
I feel like I'm home. For many years, when I find myself admiring someone or wanting to change something about myself, my mind would automatically say, "I want to be like an angel." Now, I know nothing on this earth is perfect, but that's what I aim to do. When I find myself slipping back into my old ways, I would think what I want to be like. When I desperately needed to find an exercise that wasn't painful, I took up barre. That made a tremendous difference in how I moved and my posture and balance. I never told anyone this because I thought they would think I'm ca-ra-zy. And I found your video one day and thought she is beautiful and even better, she moves and speaks beautifully. I immediately subscribed and here you are today talking about angels! And I will tell you, I am 66 years old you are never too old to learn and keep improving. Love you.
i really wish that she continued this series 😭
Angel essence isn’t for everyone which is why she said there are multiple esscences at the beginning. Y’all gotta calm down. Hopefully she can do the others soon
I just want to say this: if you’re sarcastic and not “gentle” or “angelic,” you’re just as beautiful and as much of a woman as someone who is.
I think it was poorly worded it in the video and a bit callous. I agree with you!
I think she was referring to more petty and demeaning sarcasm as opposed to just joking around kinda sarcasm
Agreed, but I don’t think she said if you’re sarcastic you’re not beautiful, she was just explaining for the angel essence that sarcasm doesn’t fit that very specific essence. 🤗
Of course! She is trying to teach the way of the „Angel“ here, where the sarcasm etc. doesn‘t fit. However, there are a lot of other essences where sarcasm does work! It‘s just not it when you‘re trying to go for the „angelic“ vibe. That‘s what she‘s trying to say in this video :)
finally
Doesn't she sound like Jessica from 13 reasons why????
please continue this series. who else want more of these?
Meee
This kind of advice can help you if you want to be angelic and ethereal and feminine but remember to be yourself, and that it’s ok to be sarcastic and witty and masculine as a person
Wow, thanks i really needed this. I felt kinda bad about myself since she said that
Triumphala Darkshadow don’t!!! i bet your personality is beautiful!
Triumphala Darkshadow Same I’m a sarcastic fuck
Yeah, I agree, but I think that she referred to a "hurtful" kind of sarcastic
thank you. She should have said that at the beginning at the video
man i wanna be like this but i’m straight up demon essence 😭
😂
So funny
Repent
@@originalmix2546 LMAOOOOOOOO , THIS KILLED ME
Cheers!
Alexandra, I owe an apology. I disliked this originally, when it came out but today, I needed this. Do I think everyone will agree? No, but youve never forced anything on anyone. Im sorry, please do another essence video. I want to see, much more openly now, where you take this. A long standing fan
I really love the underlying theme and message in this video!! Self-love emanating as pure feminine beauty, essentially...
Yes!!!
this is honestly such a creative video, so far the angel essence doesn't embody me but so excited to see the other essences!
love mermaids!
so this channel has changed my perspective on beauty and fashion. i used to not understand and not appreciate it but no i’m totally the opposite! thanks for the amazing content, and thanks for being the big sister i never had 💓
Love you ❤️❤️
wow girl you hit the jackpot!!
Me too this channel show me how to style myself
I was just thinking that! She’s like the beautiful big sister
💕
I'm patiently awaiting a dark sultry essence video to pair with this so both my personalities can coexist in peace and harmony together
When I first started struggling with my skin (cystic acne) I watched you to reconnect with myself. Watching how you care for yourself reminded me to care for myself. I love you!
Doesn’t her advice initially seem very “natural and effortless” but if you think about it (or put it in use) it’s actually very forced and takes constant effort. Most women who are being themselves will be a little sloppy or imperfect or goofy, so being “angel-like” - or gentle, perfectly groomed, feminine, etc. - takes constant effort.
Women will undoubtedly be caught with a wrinkled shirt, with some dirt under a nail, saying a bold comment, wearing pants that are too tight somewhere, or moving in not-so-fluid way. Being angel-like sounds easy and great however really isn’t practical.
Having confidence and feminine energy is great, of course, buut acting and appearing in your natural manner (whether it’s sloppy, outgoing, very put-together, shy, sexy, whatever) is the most attractive way to be for any woman, man, whoever, always. Trying to look and act in any other way will probably lead to an awkward, less-confident, and exhausted result!
I agree, having to look presentable all the time is quite literally exhausting. Sometimes i just want to take time out and be comfortable, whether thats slouching on the couch or wearing old sweatpants. that should be okay
Exactly
I completely agree.
And I should say - I’m not at all hating on Alexandra at all! She’s awesome and confident and has lots of great tips. I’m just reminding viewers that being yourself is the best way to be and trying to force any particular look, actions, personality isn’t going to make you better or more attractive. Period.
I agree, I’ve watched a couple of these videos and the tone of the video makes it seem effortless and healthy, but really putting this much effort into your appearance and how others view you (in my opinion) probably comes from a place of not being comfortable with yourself as you are. Her videos are good turtorials on specific things but nobody should feel like it’s expected for the average woman to put this much effort In constantly.
Hmm, I guess what she meant by "sarcasm" was actually passive aggressiveness. I believe Alexandra meant "sarcasm" as being untruthful with your intentions and masking it with passive aggressive remarks. Can totally see why some people did not agree with her statement but I believe Alexandra did not convey her intentions as clearly as she wanted to!
The definition of sarcasm is "the use of irony to mock or convey contempt". It can be seen as very negative, especially if you're trying to go for the feel and essence she is describing in this video!
Not saying that it's wrong to be sarcastic. If you like being like that and it's natural to you then you do you girl. But to some people it can be an unlikable quality.
I agree, in my house we're sarcastic but in a loving way where everyone is laughing. That just means you have a sense of humor & not a stick in the mud. If I had to spend an hour with someone who's "put off" by that I would be so bored.
just be polite. some people think that they are being so cool when they are passive agressive, but actually, no one can stand people like this for a very long time
@@brumesquita8543 I think the difference is in the facial expression. You can be smiling like "look at the pun I just made out of what you said" or you can be rolling your eyes like "I hate you and I think everything you say is stupid"
She meant sarcasm as what it is, and it's ok, not everyone has to be sarcastic, and if you want to portray this essence is what it takes, you don't have to have the angel essence btw there are many others that make woman beautiful too
I didn't appreciate you talking about acne and skin issues like they were stopping you from having an angel essence. That's quite harmful. Perhaps you didn't mean it, but I'm so tired of people viewing acne as something dirty.
For everyone looking for the negative comments, they were here in the hours after they came out. Obviously now, they have been deleted or just are buried.
the only youtuber i would tune into a premier for no matter the time or place
Haha same
This isn't for me but I appreciate the perspective. I'll be more aware my mannarisms, which I think I could use more of. 😊
Desiree Smith Finally, someone who didn’t vibe with the video but doesn’t see it as a personal attack, so refreshing! More people could use your rational perspective.
klj788986sbb I think some persons see it as a personal attack because the perception of ‘Angel Essence’ can be very toxic since it perpetuates a state of almost perfection which is not achievable. For young people who are very impressionable this could be another tool on the Internet that fuels self hate. I normally adore her videos 🥰 but I can understand both sides.
K. Nicole that’s their problem, not the videos. People shouldn’t have to cater to insecurities.
If any Indian girl is watching this then try reading Kaamashastra, it has totally changed my life. Make sure you read from an author who isn't a propagandist. ❤️
When I was learning Kathak ( an Indian classical dance) my guru told me to be more feminine . His wife suggested me to read kaamashastra and do Apsara Sadhna. Apsara are goddesses of beauty, dance and grace. They had had "Tej"(charm) due to which they could lure the Sadhus.
“Another thing that doesn’t fit this essence is sloppiness”
*Cries in messy*
Is this video going to be part of an "essence" series? I.e. today was Angel essence (so if thats your vibe or something you're interested in developing further, there are tips), maybe the next ones will be goddess, cool girl, femme fatale, girl-next-door, or faery? (I'm assuming you'll be able to work in class and elegance to each essence knowing you
yes! Im also interested in that :)
That would be cool
YESSSSSS I’d look forward to goddess/faerie etc. This whole “essence” side to beauty is actually quite niche! Not a lot of people pay attention to the whole package.
Ooh i would watch all of them tbh 🤧
I’d love that, maybe one with the bolder aspects of being a woman too!
POV: *you are trying to find the negative comments people are talking about* 👁👄👁
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EXACTLY
POV: *people writing the exact same comment above but actually all of you are just late to the party*
There were a lot when this was first posted. I had to reply explaining what she meant to at least like 20 different comments. I guess now they're just not on the top anymote
I know why some people don't like this and it's really not about the video. If this is not your essence then that's perfectly okay, I was able to enjoy the soft elegant vibe of the video without being it. The problem with people today is that people want to relate and be everything at the same time. People want to participate in every trend at the same time, but this is about an essence, which you can't fake if you don't have it yourself. A angelic type can't be bad bitch type, cause it will just feel silly if you are not that. Some people were angry at her for portraying "how women should act or be feminine", which the video is clearly not about. If this triggered you, then that's a personal problem, because nothing she said was triggering.
You serious? I never knew about her before but I was reading the comments of people asking to bring this series back. So that is why she doesn’t do these videos anymore? Because people are arseholes? Very immature and ignorant. This black and white thinking is making me not want to deal with people anymore. Let it all burn down.
I'm only 1:41 into this video and I'm already crying. This is beautiful. I knew there was a reason I saw you pop up in my recommendations! I love your videos. I'm a color theory freak, and your video about color has really changed my life this past year
I feel like asian trends especially Korean trends really embody this essence
yessss you're right
I thought so too!
Definitely. I see Korean women wear outfits like a maxi skirt, oversized sweater and sneakers and still look so beautiful and feminine somehow. If I wore that I would look frumpy and very weird so it’s definitely their “essence”
yes definitely!
i was also thinking Sabrina Claudio✨
I personally dont relate to the angel essence but i thoroughly enjoyed this video and im certain other girls are going to find themselves in this essence, i believe i already know a few who will
right!! i've always kind of whimsically associated different people with a different "essence"--elves, nymphs, princesses, witches, etc.--but i've never heard it put to words like this 💘 (sometimes, people remind me of animals and less romantic creatures too...next up, how to embody goblin essence 💀)
1:19 I love that you mentioned that!! I see too much of the "be a bad bitch" advice going around, and a lot of people romanticizing being a mean and toxic woman.
Hear me out, I have been screwed over by men too, many times and I am even a SA survivor. I know it can make you angry and hate all men. However, embracing being mean and jaded will hurt you in the long run. You become what you think of.
Don't let them win by killing your joy and kindness.
We need more people like you, honestly people got so mad at the 'no sarcasm' thing, they hated on her so much that she even deleted the video. I really don't want that to happen againtl her, especially since she regularly goes to therapy. Her subscribers should've known better. 💛
yeah, it's not wrong of her to say that if you are sarcastic people will perceive you in a more negative or different way. And also, I think it's great that she embraces femininity and grace.
Being a bad bitch doesn't mean being mean or rude, it's about being strong willed and confident. A toxic bad bitch is really just a bitch. A real bad bitch minds her own business.
I hope she continues this series eventually. The initial criticism of this video was absolutely ridiculous and far from constructive.
Alexandria never claimed that “Angel Essence” is the proper way to be a woman or feminine, she was merely demonstrating how to give off a certain aesthetic/feminine energy. She also put a lot of emphasis on gratitude, self care, positivity, and gracefulness, and that pisses people off for some reason? I really don’t get it.
Please continue this series, Alexandria! I think you did an excellent job and I appreciate all the work you put into your content.
Exactly! She never said this was the only way to be feminine or a woman. I hope she didn’t get discouraged to continue the series because of the criticism. Also, her name is Alexandra not Alexandria lol.
There just isn’t/wasn’t enough context in the original video for that to come across. It’s like all well and good to be like “she never said it was the ONLY way” but like when you just repeat over and over again that being clean, pure, not having acne, etc helps “increase your feminine energy” it just naturally creates an idea that having acne, dirt under your fingernails, etc makes you unfeminine. I think it was a matter of miscommunication but like come on you have to admit these ideas are present in the video and the fact that there are other characteristics that are equally as feminine just was not emphasized from a 5 second intro where the different essences flash on the screen. I like understand NOW that she wasn’t meaning “sarcasm ruins this ESSENCE” as “sarcasm ruins your feminine energy”, but only after she explained. This original video wasn’t clear enough.
@@feev4571 it was clear. Y'all just jump to conclusions and always need disclaimers
@@chrystianaw8256 it is clear as a bell unless your mind is programmed to be offended by everything. Which explains a lot of people nowadays. Mostly of a certain generation. Sorry to say. I am only half of the things she mentioned and I know the vibe she was sending out. I don’t feel less of a woman at all and when someone puts out a video that explains how to be a strong bad ass bish I would understand where she is coming from as well.
There’s different types of essences that go with your natural style and personality. Embracing our natural essence instead of forcing one that doesn’t quite go with how we naturally act can be counterproductive to some. Some can make being “sloppy”
be part of their charm
ooo it would be cool if she did a video for other essences as well, like if she consulted some people who embodied those aesthetics and then that would help us find which inspires us most
BrokeCollegeStudent Yeah! I would like if this video became a series that would touch on the different essences.
Yes!! I’m happy women are thinking about essences because that’s where the secret is, that’s where your je ne sais quoi comes from ✨
I mean, that's kind of the point. She already said she's going to make videos on different essences. This is just one.
Yeah and this one's helping you to get the _angelic_ essence
people who feel uncomfortable with her suggestions: she is not telling women they shouldn’t be sarcastic and that they have to look perfect. someone who is looking to have those “angel” vibes can take her advice, this isn’t a “how to be a woman” guide.
Say it for the ppl in the back!!
Actually it is... It is a guide on how to be a woman... Shallow and sad if you ask me
@@stellablu333 Its actually not. Its a common practice in a style and fashion community. Its for people that what to embody characteristics or a similar 'vibe' to an angel in this case. There are tons of different essence systems, some to appear more 'youthful' or 'adventurous' or a 'femme fatale'. I'm not saying this so be rude btw but just letting you know, cause I think if it was explained better peeps wouldn't have been upset.
@@stellablu333 no. Its how to be a certain type of women. And some people WANT to be that way. Its for exactly those people and not for you.
Alexandra makes me feel like getting up in the mornings to take care of myself and love myself ♥️ I’m forever grateful to her for that.
Remember guys when you’re practicing the leaning posture she shows that you should alternate which hip you place down because constantly lowering one side can give you back problems🧡🧡🧡
I know Bc I got scoliosis Bc I used to cross one leg when I sit when I was younger and my doctor told me that was the cause
The title of this video is “angel essence”, not “if you’re a woman, you should do this” lmao. People need to calm down! I found this video super refreshing and quite helpful during quarantine. I feel like I lost a bit of myself in sweatpants and laziness. I love my light and sexy side, and this helped me have a nice papering night to myself and channel my inner angel! I love how in depth you go with each video, rather than focus on the exterior looks. Thank you for sharing these tips! 😊
I really needed this. I had a baby two months ago and feel like I haven’t really gotten back to taking care of myself. This gave me motivation to at least take one day a week to pamper myself
Had a baby 4 months ago and I totally feel this. Taking care of yourself can be very hard when you have to care for another human. But I found the best thing to do is that when baby naps, take that short amount of time to pamper yourself; doing a mask, taking a shower, painting your nails, yoga, anything that makes you feel human again.
It took me at least 6 months to feel sort of back to normal. And over a year before I felt better than before becoming a mom.
Just gotta say thank you to all the moms here, y’all sacrifice a lot for your children. I know that they’ll be so grateful one day, I know I am for my mom. And I’m excited for when I become one :)
My girl is about to be 16 months and it wasn't till 3 days ago that I finally pushed myself to start taking better care of myself. I feel all of you ladies! I miss myself🤣 I deff needed this video
Congratulations!!
It’s been one week since she posted this and I understand that self care is not self maintenance. I started to groom my nails, hair, and skin. I felt more confident in public and in my skin just with this simple step...Thank you !
this is my favorite channel now! Alexandra is so divine, ethereal and beautiful! 😭 this video is starting to change me for the better.. I can't wait to watch all her posts😭❤️❤️
Just me who can't find the offended comments that everybody are talking about?
Note: I know the comments might have been deleted from either the creator or the people who posted it themselves, no need to catch an attitude💀 I just said I couldn’t find them. Geez
You gotta go back to when the video was uploaded.
They were here people upset
Thats because they were in the minority and pple didn't really like their comments so they get buried.
Right I don't see them either
Girllll you should’ve seen them lmaoo they were SO MAD. “What if being a snarky bitch is a part of my natural charm 😠🥰” it was hilarious
It's official: I've never been earlier
Hhhhh me too
Sameeee
i only came to see the time shell upload
lol same
Me too :3
Please continue this series and do other essences, this is my favourite video you've ever made and I still come back to watch it 🤍
Actually had no idea how much I dissociate when I use my hands. Thanks for posting this
Why does this whole video look like a dove commercial? 😂
Phahahaha
I approve of the Emma avatar 👌
WINTER wow so why don’t you solve that problem of yours with not watching her videos 😧
Just out of concern for the younger and more impressionable viewers:
Sarcasm doesn't not equal bad, and isn't always used out of spite. I personally love sarcasm and am drawn to people who use it in their form of (light-hearted} humor, but I think perhaps a better word choice in this video would have been passive aggression, since sarcasm can often be used with that intent.
And overall, authenticity is always key. You'll be happier and attract the right people towards you. I suggest using these methods as tools to explore your own relationship with your femininity and womanhood, rather than feeling pressured to embody the persona as a way of life because that's just not realistic. You're human and you're beautiful.
I totally agree with you. Yea I normally like her videos but I feel like she’s using “Essence” incorrectly? Almost as if she wants viewers to change their personality to be angelic? I don’t understand how being witty keep you from being angelic? I think its actually more intriguing to use wit and sarcasm in a graceful way, only that people who understand the wit will understand.
evilqueen09 i think this is part of a series? this is just one of the essences and i’m sure she’ll do more that caters to the different energies of different people. she’s not saying this one thing defines being a woman x
totallyy. I feel like she should've said, attitude instead maybe. like have a more positive attitude or something
@@evilqueen09 Hey I totally understand what you are trying to say but this video is a part of series and she is not forcing on anyone. And clearly this is not your video and vibe so you can wait for other videos where you can feel yourself❤ And the type of sarcasm she was talking about was being sarcastic in negative way to hurt others...
Please continue this series
Yes😍
As someone who feels like femininity is the dominant part in my personality, this video was really healpful! I wish everyone felt comfortable expressing themselves in whichever element they resonate with - feminine or masculine. Stop hating on people for wanting to be more feminine or masculine, it is not about gender.
I think imma have to just stick to being myself and enhancing my natural qualities and characteristics
That's the best way to be ♡
Same. People seem to like me enough, lol
I think that was the message of the video.
facts
@@elisaxavier158 not really because some women are naturally sarcastic and like to be in comfy clothes etc. That wasn't portrayed in this video to be ideal or okay. However, I don't think she meant for it to come across that way.
me watching this eating a drumstick with my bare hands and chipped nails: 👁👄👁 (ok but grab the chicken gently)
Love that
My favorite comment 😂
Lmao
this took me out😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂 I'm in bed and I haven't detangled my hair in 3 days, I'm scared of it at this point.
I love how you just don't sit down and talk about things, it's actually smoothing to hear you while a beautiful clip played
“the angel doesn’t know about trends that alter the face with highlight or contour”... that rlly got to me
Omg does she force anyone to be angelic? In fact she did it only for women to feel more confident and good about themselves.. If you are not that type, move on. Besides the research, effort and minute details she puts on for every single video is just amazing.
If we had Alexandra as a mom we would all be so prepared for everything
lol
Yes I especially loved her video about paying rent, bills and job interviews lol
skorpijetina I haven’t seen that one! I’ll definitely need to check it out
@@craftydog3883 that.... was a.. joke
CraftyDog yea.. good luck finding that one
I am in love with this series beyond imagination. This is what I’ve been needing. Women embracing their femininity is so important.
Bless you.
Finally!!! This is a great decision
Please don't delete any of your videos you helped me ALOT with my insecurities and anxiety
@T[A]P Me!! To Have [S]EX With Me sarcasm means that you're not happy with yourself so you try to insult people in a funny/nice way
If that's who you are, good for you
Just nothing for me..
I tried to do the “Angel stance” and someone asked me if I had to use the washroom.... umm I don’t think I’m doing it right hahaha
Maybe you haven’t ‘mastered’ it yet so practice might help lol
It’s because in reality no one stands like that 🤦♀️
I think its meant more for photos
Maybe try a less dramatic version like just slightly bending without crossing over your knee as much
hahahah I am dead literally lol
so, despite the hate that this video has received, i think i would really like to see more of these videos. this video isn't aimed to tell you that you HAVE to embrace this angelic, feminine part of you, it's just for the people that want to amplify this side of them.
personally, although i like the angel vibe/aesthetic, i don't really consider myself to be like that all the time, which is completely okay! i still enjoyed this video, and i really appreciate the time and effort she put into this video to carefully explain all the details surrounding this essence, from behavior to mindset to physical appearance.
i look forward to the other 'essence'/aesthetic videos you're going to put out, alexandra! keep doing what you're doing:)
you twitter people need to stop being so detailed just waatch the video and leave jeez
Please continue this series! ♥️
I totaly thought she came out with a parfum or some product seeing the title. So I avoided clicking it for a while. Totally suprised by the content. Good job.
I KNOOOOW! Me too.
My mouth literally became :O when she smiled after her makeup was done. You are so beautiful. Oh my God.
Her: A whole angel
Me: ... Budget Goblin
MellBells hahaha ! Me either ,
😂😂
Guilty 🤣
😩😭😂 stop ittt
I fuckin snorted ihy HAHA
I really, really like this. I'm pretty shy and I have that type of 'innocent' face. This is perfect for me cause I'm not that loud b who constantly says "YASS QUEEN SLAY", nor I looked suitable for it. Thank you for making this video🥰
Where are the other essences? Princess? Queen? Goddess? Bad Bitch? Mom? Wise Shaman? So many options~