This is my marriage. The gaslighting, unaccountability and lies have destroyed us Only married 4 months and will be divorcing. My heart is broken. I waited 45 years to marry a godly man who has not lived up to what God calls a husband to be.
I no longer pray for marriage restoration. I just pray for my spouse’s redemption and salvation. He is broken but has no idea that he is. He thinks he did everything for everyone yet no one wants to be near him…. Nor I, our two daughters and not even his lovers. My prayers are that God breaks him so that He can make him! He is dying…. he is drinking himself to death. He refers to the film “ leaving Las Vegas”. I’ve been praying for him to have a contrite heart and spirit. As for our daughters and I, we need to get away from him. The only one that can save him is Jesus! Unfortunately, he refuses God entirely! But thank you Dominic! At night, I rebuke and bind the spirits of perversion, arrogance, self righteousness, haughtiness, pride, unbelief….. it actually works. I see a slight change when I do that. But it will take a personal encounter with Jesus Himself for my spouse to see the light!
@@crazygeecheeyou need to give all your pain and impatience to Jesus Christ and settle it within yourself that your restoration with your husband will be on God’s perfect time not yours. This is what we all battle with…we want our timeline instead of God’s. God has to do a work in us also not just our spouse and we need to learn to lean solely on Jesus and be content with just Him and His Holy Spirit!
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My husband who adored me for 12 years all of a sudden accused me over a text of narcissism, gaslighting, and manipulation and left me. Cut off all contacts and forbid me from contacting his family. I am shocked and so heartbroken. He always adored me and my traits till that text.😮
So you're saying you don't supposed to clear your name? What if they are slandering your name in divorce court and church? Are we supposed to just be quiet?
I made a purposeful distinction in the beginning of the video between “legal” remedies for slander and false accusations in interpersonal interaction. Certainly when someone is slandering you, you are encouraged to exhaust all legal remedies against those who may have jeopardized your reputation and put at risk your ability to make a living. (Ronans 13). I did not spend time on the legal part of the subject because I wanted to focus upon the marital restoration. Thank you for your comment.
Don’t hit back; discover beauty in everyone. If you’ve got it in you, get along with everybody. Don’t insist on getting even; that’s not for you to do. “I’ll do the judging,” says God. “I’ll take care of it.” Vengeance is the Lords to have!! YOU MUST TRUST GOD FOR VENGEANCE OTHERWISE YOU WILL BE THE ONE WHO GETS DISCIPLINED BELIEVE ME ITS HAPPENING TO ME RIGHT NOW, I SHOULD HAVE SHUT THE FUCK UP!!
And have good in your heart towards those people knowing that God will handle it. If not that means you dont have love and you dont trust God and those are both worthy of punishment!
My husband is a white lukewarm republican American and I’m a Christ lover black Latina (Colombian ) woman and he is doing that to me ! There are childhood wounds and demons involved in his behavior , I’m not republican , nor democrat ; but I like Trump; in fact , I had a dream where I was voting for him , so I understood that God was telling me to support him and I’m praying for him , however I do not trust in politicians as much as Americans tend to do , we latins know that politicians are humans and they can become corrupt anytime , we have experienced this almost always ! I’m a Christian ; therefore I’m going to behave Christ like , I will be silence and I will keep binding the demons when my husband starts to accuse me falsely , I have done that , but sometimes I want to revenge (the flesh come in the way) ! But the Lord says that vengeance is his ! I will deliver this injustice to God and I will bind the demon and love my husband through this season ! God bless 🙏🏾🤗!
🙏❤️I’ve watched this three times. I really needed this😭😭
So convicted rn
.THANK YOU BROTHER
So good!
Yes indeed. I am living this right now.
This is my marriage. The gaslighting, unaccountability and lies have destroyed us Only married 4 months and will be divorcing. My heart is broken. I waited 45 years to marry a godly man who has not lived up to what God calls a husband to be.
I’m sorry to hear I understand and it’s the same but 8 months and isn’t divorced.
Great word 🙌🏻
I no longer pray for marriage restoration. I just pray for my spouse’s redemption and salvation. He is broken but has no idea that he is. He thinks he did everything for everyone yet no one wants to be near him…. Nor I, our two daughters and not even his lovers. My prayers are that God breaks him so that He can make him! He is dying…. he is drinking himself to death. He refers to the film “ leaving Las Vegas”. I’ve been praying for him to have a contrite heart and spirit. As for our daughters and I, we need to get away from him. The only one that can save him is Jesus! Unfortunately, he refuses God entirely! But thank you Dominic! At night, I rebuke and bind the spirits of perversion, arrogance, self righteousness, haughtiness, pride, unbelief….. it actually works. I see a slight change when I do that. But it will take a personal encounter with Jesus Himself for my spouse to see the light!
You described my husband to a T also . I am also just praying for his deliverance and salvation .
I prayed and waited and then prayed more. It doesn’t work. It changes nothing. My kids and I suffered so much.
This speaks for my husband as well. It is my prayer that he will run back to Jesus!
@@crazygeecheeyou need to give all your pain and impatience to Jesus Christ and settle it within yourself that your restoration with your husband will be on God’s perfect time not yours. This is what we all battle with…we want our timeline instead of God’s. God has to do a work in us also not just our spouse and we need to learn to lean solely on Jesus and be content with just Him and His Holy Spirit!
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Thank you. 🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼
Your a blessing from God
My husband who adored me for 12 years all of a sudden accused me over a text of narcissism, gaslighting, and manipulation and left me. Cut off all contacts and forbid me from contacting his family. I am shocked and so heartbroken. He always adored me and my traits till that text.😮
🥲 run to your Father God. He made you beautiful and wants your love.
Thank you❤
Hey 🎉 God bless
How do I sign up? I am facing a final divorce hearing 65 days
So you're saying you don't supposed to clear your name? What if they are slandering your name in divorce court and church? Are we supposed to just be quiet?
I made a purposeful distinction in the beginning of the video between “legal” remedies for slander and false accusations in interpersonal interaction. Certainly when someone is slandering you, you are encouraged to exhaust all legal remedies against those who may have jeopardized your reputation and put at risk your ability to make a living. (Ronans 13). I did not spend time on the legal part of the subject because I wanted to focus upon the marital restoration. Thank you for your comment.
Don’t hit back; discover beauty in everyone. If you’ve got it in you, get along with everybody. Don’t insist on getting even; that’s not for you to do. “I’ll do the judging,” says God. “I’ll take care of it.”
Vengeance is the Lords to have!! YOU MUST TRUST GOD FOR VENGEANCE OTHERWISE YOU WILL BE THE ONE WHO GETS DISCIPLINED BELIEVE ME ITS HAPPENING TO ME RIGHT NOW, I SHOULD HAVE SHUT THE FUCK UP!!
And have good in your heart towards those people knowing that God will handle it. If not that means you dont have love and you dont trust God and those are both worthy of punishment!
I'm not quite sure that I understand this teaching.
Sigh😪
First off I'm a she but you would know that if in fact I was yours..stay away
If someone is blaming you for what they are/have done good chance they are a democrat!
😅Funny.. but sad thing tho... my h isn't a democrap..
This is the wrong forum for this. There are people here hurting and truly trying to heal. 😢
My husband is a white lukewarm republican American and I’m a Christ lover black Latina (Colombian ) woman and he is doing that to me ! There are childhood wounds and demons involved in his behavior , I’m not republican , nor democrat ; but I like Trump; in fact , I had a dream where I was voting for him , so I understood that God was telling me to support him and I’m praying for him , however I do not trust in politicians as much as Americans tend to do , we latins know that politicians are humans and they can become corrupt anytime , we have experienced this almost always ! I’m a Christian ; therefore I’m going to behave Christ like , I will be silence and I will keep binding the demons when my husband starts to accuse me falsely , I have done that , but sometimes I want to revenge (the flesh come in the way) ! But the Lord says that vengeance is his ! I will deliver this injustice to God and I will bind the demon and love my husband through this season ! God bless 🙏🏾🤗!