@@ravereligion8512 I've thought of that too, but people treat you better when you prentend to be happy/normal because i used to get beaten for the way i was before i pretended
I always pretend to people that I’m fine it’s just how I’ve always done it. Don’t like to waste there time, plus I feel like I don’t deserve help. I feel it’s fine that I’m not ok because that’s just how I always am but at the same time I hate how I am. Lovely audio as always, I’ll be sleeping well tonight. ❤
This describes me well. A sad thing is, I remember something my step-dad said. He said, "Do you want some happy pills?" And my mother says,"My baby is always happy she dont need those." At that time, I was thinking, "I wish I was mom 😔."
Ong bruh. I listen to this virgin asmr cause ik i AM a virgin. Im never getting love, and i know i dont deserve love or anything, ever, so i just listen to this stuff to feel like i do deserve love
"You don't have to pretend with me" this place and you the only place I don't pretend to be someone else this channel the only place I feel like it's okey to have any kind of feeling and the only place I feel that my emotions is valid I'm so thankful for you Sarah 💛
Sometimes I wonder if having someone like this in my life would make me want to stay or if not even that can fill the hole. As always, thank you for the audio, Sarah ❤️
This was really comforting. I tell everyone that I'm fine, even though I'm really not. And it was nice to hear someone tell me its ok to be not ok, even if its just a RP.
To the person reading this: your feelings, your pain, your loneliness are valid and reasonable things for a human being to feel. The fact that you can't share your tragedy with a lot of people because they would judge you makes it more tragic, not less. You don't need to feel shame for the feelings you have, or the steps you take to deal with those feelings. You are not alone. We are not alone.
I know it's a little late but congratulations on 19k! I love this video, not often we get told it's okay to not be okay. Your voice is just incredible, thanks so much for posting!
Videos like these help so much depression and anxiety get to me so much as well im a very busy person and i dont have the best relationships with the people in my life so listening to these types of videos help so much
i go to sleep at night fantasizing about someone holding me and telling me everything will be okay, even if its a total lie. i just need someone to be there for me and to hold me
I needed to hear this, my father has recently passed away due to cancer, I’ve been trying to bottle up my emotions and wipe out my tears. I’ve been loving and supporting people. I want people to feel loved, cared and appreciated. Thank you… thank you for everything. I’m sorry if this is too much and sad. Time to be the happy Steven. Hope you all have a wonderful day. Remember that you’re all loved, cared and appreciated. 🙏🤍🙏❤️❤️❤️🫂🫂🫂🫂
Amazing work! You are a genuine blessing for a lot of people. The passion behind your work makes it like no other! Thank you for the warm fuzzy feels and cozy snoozes.
Hugs and comforts those who are lonely ❤. You will all find someone who will accept who you are someday, make sure that your taking good care of yourself so that way you would feel better when finding jobs, form relationships or friends. @YourgirlfriendASMR, thank you for helping many people fall sleep, feel loved and being understanding and sweet.
100 reasons to keep living 1. to make your parents proud 2. to conquer your fears 3. to see your family again 4. to see your favorite artist live 5. to listen to music again 6. to experience a new culture 7. to make new friends 8. to inspire 9. to have your own children 10. to adopt your own pet 11. to make yourself proud 12. to meet your idols 13. to laugh until you cry 14. to feel tears of happiness 15. to eat your favorite food 16. to see your siblings grow 17. to pass school 18. to get a tattoo 19. to smile until your cheeks hurt 20. to meet your internet friends 21. to find someone who loves you as you deserve 22. to eat ice cream on a hot day 23. to drink hot chocolate on a cold day 24. to see untouched snow in the morning 25. to see a sunset that sets the sky on fire 26. to see stars light up the sky 27. to read a book that changes your life 28. to see the flowers in the spring 29. to see the leaves change from green to brown 30. to travel abroad 31. to learn a new language 32. to learn to draw 33. to tell others your story in the hopes of helping them 34. Puppy kisses. 35. Baby kisses (the open-mouthed kind when they smack their lips on your cheek) 36. Swear words and the release you feel when you say them. 37. Trampolines. 38. Ice cream. 39. Stargazing. 40. Cloud watching. 41. Taking a shower and then sleeping on clean sheets. 42. Receiving thoughtful gifts. 43. “I saw this and thought of you." 44. The feeling you get when someone you love says, “I love you." 45. The relief you feel after crying. 46. Sunshine. 47. The feeling you get when someone is listening to you/giving you their full attention. 48. Your future wedding. 49. Your favorite candy bar. 50. New clothes. 51. Witty puns. 52. Really good bread. 53. Holding your child in your arms for the first time. 54. Completing a milestone (aka going to college, graduating college, getting married, getting your dream job.) 55. The kind of dreams where you wake up and can’t stop smiling. 56. The smell before and after it rains. 57. The sound of rain against a rooftop. 58. The feeling you get when you’re dancing. 59. The person (or people) that mean the most to you. Stay alive for them. 60. Trying out new recipes. 61. The feeling you get when your favorite song comes on the radio. 62. The rush you get when you step onto a stage. 63. You have to share your voice and talents and knowledge with the world because they are so valuable. 64. Breakfast in bed. 65. Getting a middle seat in the movie theatre. 66. Breakfast for dinner (because it’s so much better at night than in the morning). 67. a feeling of being loved 68. Forgiveness. 69. Water balloon fights. 70. New books by your favorite authors. 71. Fireflies. 72. Birthdays. 73. Realising that someone loves you. 74. Spending the day with someone you love. 75. Spending the whole day in bed. 76. Eating a whole pint of your favorite ice cream. 77. Floating in water on your back and just staring up at the sky. 78. First dates (even the bad ones make for funny stories.) 79. Bonfires and smokes. 80. Relationships where you love someone but aren’t in love with them. 81. Coming home to someone you love. 82. The color of autumn leaves when they change. Summer. 83. Sing songs at the top of your lungs with your friends. 84. Cuddling. 85. Being wrapped up in a warm bed. 86. Someone’s skin against yours. 87. Holding hands. 88. The kind of hugs when you can feel a weight being lifted off your shoulders. The kind of hug where your breath syncs with the other person’s, and you feel like the only two people in the world. 89. Singing off key with your best friends. 90. Road trips. 91. Spontaneous adventures. 92. The feeling of sand beneath your toes. 93. The feeling when the first ocean wave rolls up and envelops your toes and ankles and knees. 94. Thunderstorms. 95. Your first (or hundredth) trip to Disneyland. 96. The taste of your favorite food. 97. The child-like feeling you get on New-Year Morning. 98. The day when everything finally goes your way. 99. Compliments and praise. 100. to look at this moment in 10 years' time and realize you did it. PS: there are so many beautiful things to live. so live, and live, and live In my opinion I think the cure of loneliness mental health disorders is to find spirituality within yourself, and faith in God to help you during dark times. Advice I can give is don't go a day without a prayer or meditation to remind yourself to keep hope in life and that as long as god is with you, you're never truly alone. Also stand back and take time for seeing a view of natural sites like the forest or stars to remind you that if any negative thoughts arrive, take a look at the beautiful planet you would be leaving ❤❤
I haven't been fine for a while. I close myself off and avoid showing people that I've been broken for a while. This was hard to listen to... but it was worth it. 😭
This is definitely my safe zone for my aching emotional wound. A girlfriend protecting me to where I can be under her arms as long as needed and stay there. She should still make these more often. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🛏🛏🛏🛏🛏🌡🌡🌡🌡🌡
Just punch something it works for me. Just don't do it on living breathing creature. Maybe on a wall, a punching bag, the water, something soft or really fragile. Or just talk to someone about it. Find a friend/girlfriend/boyfriend and just tell them everything. It works believe me. I've seen someone who's a family member try to commit suicide Infront of me. It's not nice. Maybe try to be nice to others. But start to be nice to yourself. Yes it's alright to be angry and sad. Just don't suicide. And if you're American please don't homicide.
I been ummm having hard getting out of bed i hate being alone with my thoughts at night it's so hard trying to be ok trying not to breakdrown in front of the people you love i sometimes dont what goibg any where 🥺😭💔
my friend is depressed idk what to do to help them they're in another country so I can't hug them and whenever I try to comfort them I just fail miserably I'm debating sending them something like this audio but I don't want to offend them I'm losing sleep worrying
I think the one thing you can do is to stay in touch. Keep calling, texting etc just to talk and to mention that you're there to listen if they need you. I'm just saying this as someone who's been on the other side and for a long time a) didn't want to admit that I was depressed b) certainly didn't want to accept anyone helping. But one thing I really will never forget are the people who stuck by my through all that, who kept being there for me, just listened, gave me a hug when I needed it and didn't ever judge or push to hard. I know it is different when you can't vist them but just being there in the ways that you can is enough. And if you are, trust me, they will always remember and be thankful for it. But you can't put the expectation and pressure on yourself to fix the reason why they're depressed. They have to want to get help, to want to get better for themselves. You're doing exactly what you can do; being a good friend that cares. Try not to be too hard on yourself ( I know, easier said than done). ❤
tittle is so real cuz i have to pretend about everything
These days everyone pretends, let us be special and not pretend anymore. I will start today :)
W tittle
@ravereligion8512 haha shut up 😐🚮
@@ravereligion8512 I've thought of that too, but people treat you better when you prentend to be happy/normal because i used to get beaten for the way i was before i pretended
@@bumzie2178 I see what I think I’m seeing
👴🏻- “ did you think you could escape me Boy? “
This video made me realize that the thought of a hug from someone makes me start to cry
Same there man I’m crying right now lol
Right there with you both
i wish someone like you existed to tell me this face to face
thanks for the audio it was conforting while it lasted
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@@stevenislas6459bro is in every comment replying with hugs respect
I always pretend to people that I’m fine it’s just how I’ve always done it. Don’t like to waste there time, plus I feel like I don’t deserve help. I feel it’s fine that I’m not ok because that’s just how I always am but at the same time I hate how I am. Lovely audio as always, I’ll be sleeping well tonight. ❤
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This describes me well. A sad thing is, I remember something my step-dad said. He said, "Do you want some happy pills?" And my mother says,"My baby is always happy she dont need those." At that time, I was thinking, "I wish I was mom 😔."
Ong bruh. I listen to this virgin asmr cause ik i AM a virgin. Im never getting love, and i know i dont deserve love or anything, ever, so i just listen to this stuff to feel like i do deserve love
I hate being depressed sometimes. You are a literal angel. :)
🫂❤️🫂🙏🤍🙏
Well, no not to be that guy, but LITERAL angels are terrifying, I think you meant metaphorical.
@@non-existant-beingshut the fuck up you are that guy that’s annoying asf
"You don't have to pretend with me"
this place and you the only place I don't pretend to be someone else
this channel the only place I feel like it's okey to have any kind of feeling and the only place I feel that my emotions is valid
I'm so thankful for you Sarah 💛
Sometimes I wonder if having someone like this in my life would make me want to stay or if not even that can fill the hole. As always, thank you for the audio, Sarah ❤️
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This was really comforting. I tell everyone that I'm fine, even though I'm really not. And it was nice to hear someone tell me its ok to be not ok, even if its just a RP.
To the person reading this: your feelings, your pain, your loneliness are valid and reasonable things for a human being to feel. The fact that you can't share your tragedy with a lot of people because they would judge you makes it more tragic, not less. You don't need to feel shame for the feelings you have, or the steps you take to deal with those feelings. You are not alone. We are not alone.
I know it's a little late but congratulations on 19k! I love this video, not often we get told it's okay to not be okay. Your voice is just incredible, thanks so much for posting!
Yes it's sleepy time for me 💜
Thank you 🫂
Videos like these help so much depression and anxiety get to me so much as well im a very busy person and i dont have the best relationships with the people in my life so listening to these types of videos help so much
i go to sleep at night fantasizing about someone holding me and telling me everything will be okay, even if its a total lie. i just need someone to be there for me and to hold me
Same these videos are like my escape when I'm by myself they help me feel cared about and comforted with my mental health issues
girl this hit too close to home tysm for this im crying so hard 😭😭😭
I needed to hear this, my father has recently passed away due to cancer, I’ve been trying to bottle up my emotions and wipe out my tears. I’ve been loving and supporting people. I want people to feel loved, cared and appreciated. Thank you… thank you for everything. I’m sorry if this is too much and sad. Time to be the happy Steven. Hope you all have a wonderful day. Remember that you’re all loved, cared and appreciated. 🙏🤍🙏❤️❤️❤️🫂🫂🫂🫂
Sorry to hear that. May your father RIP.
@@mrcwillis6970 thank you Mr c… 🫂❤️
im sorry to hear that man. may he rest in peace.
@@wxttsxnx god bless you sir, thank you… 🫂❤️
I'm sorry to hear that, I'm sure it can't be easy. May he rest in peace and please take care of yourself
I wish I have someone like you to tell me these sweet things face to face than you for the audio 💕❤
Amazing work! You are a genuine blessing for a lot of people. The passion behind your work makes it like no other! Thank you for the warm fuzzy feels and cozy snoozes.
Hugs and comforts those who are lonely ❤. You will all find someone who will accept who you are someday, make sure that your taking good care of yourself so that way you would feel better when finding jobs, form relationships or friends.
@YourgirlfriendASMR, thank you for helping many people fall sleep, feel loved and being understanding and sweet.
When home doesn't feel safe anymore.
Thank you so much for this audio. Today was just not a good day for me and this helped me so much. I'm grateful to have found your video when I did.
honestly the amount of pretending I have to do daily in front of everyone is getting to me
This was so sweet and calming. You have an amazing voice. Excellent work❤
You really most of the favourite rp asmrtist i hear to, i love your voice, your vibe, your sweet and comfy nature 😢
100 reasons to keep living
1. to make your parents proud
2. to conquer your fears
3. to see your family again
4. to see your favorite artist live
5. to listen to music again
6. to experience a new culture
7. to make new friends
8. to inspire
9. to have your own children
10. to adopt your own pet
11. to make yourself proud
12. to meet your idols
13. to laugh until you cry
14. to feel tears of happiness
15. to eat your favorite food
16. to see your siblings grow
17. to pass school
18. to get a tattoo
19. to smile until your cheeks hurt
20. to meet your internet friends
21. to find someone who loves you as you deserve
22. to eat ice cream on a hot day
23. to drink hot chocolate on a cold day
24. to see untouched snow in the morning
25. to see a sunset that sets the sky on fire
26. to see stars light up the sky
27. to read a book that changes your life
28. to see the flowers in the spring
29. to see the leaves change from green to brown
30. to travel abroad
31. to learn a new language
32. to learn to draw
33. to tell others your story in the hopes of helping them
34. Puppy kisses.
35. Baby kisses (the open-mouthed kind when they smack their lips on your cheek)
36. Swear words and the release you feel when you say them.
37. Trampolines.
38. Ice cream.
39. Stargazing.
40. Cloud watching.
41. Taking a shower and then sleeping on clean sheets.
42. Receiving thoughtful gifts.
43. “I saw this and thought of you."
44. The feeling you get when someone you love says, “I love you."
45. The relief you feel after crying.
46. Sunshine.
47. The feeling you get when someone is listening to you/giving you their full attention.
48. Your future wedding.
49. Your favorite candy bar.
50. New clothes.
51. Witty puns.
52. Really good bread.
53. Holding your child in your arms for the first time.
54. Completing a milestone (aka going to college, graduating college, getting married, getting your dream job.)
55. The kind of dreams where you wake up and can’t stop smiling.
56. The smell before and after it rains.
57. The sound of rain against a rooftop.
58. The feeling you get when you’re dancing.
59. The person (or people) that mean the most to you. Stay alive for them.
60. Trying out new recipes.
61. The feeling you get when your favorite song comes on the radio.
62. The rush you get when you step onto a stage.
63. You have to share your voice and talents and knowledge with the world because they are so valuable.
64. Breakfast in bed.
65. Getting a middle seat in the movie theatre.
66. Breakfast for dinner (because it’s so much better at night than in the morning).
67. a feeling of being loved
68. Forgiveness.
69. Water balloon fights.
70. New books by your favorite authors.
71. Fireflies.
72. Birthdays.
73. Realising that someone loves you.
74. Spending the day with someone you love.
75. Spending the whole day in bed.
76. Eating a whole pint of your favorite ice cream.
77. Floating in water on your back and just staring up at the sky.
78. First dates (even the bad ones make for funny stories.)
79. Bonfires and smokes.
80. Relationships where you love someone but aren’t in love with them.
81. Coming home to someone you love.
82. The color of autumn leaves when they change. Summer.
83. Sing songs at the top of your lungs with your friends.
84. Cuddling.
85. Being wrapped up in a warm bed.
86. Someone’s skin against yours.
87. Holding hands.
88. The kind of hugs when you can feel a weight being lifted off your shoulders. The kind of hug where your breath syncs with the other person’s, and you feel like the only two people in the world.
89. Singing off key with your best friends.
90. Road trips.
91. Spontaneous adventures.
92. The feeling of sand beneath your toes.
93. The feeling when the first ocean wave rolls up and envelops your toes and ankles and knees.
94. Thunderstorms.
95. Your first (or hundredth) trip to Disneyland.
96. The taste of your favorite food.
97. The child-like feeling you get on New-Year Morning.
98. The day when everything finally goes your way.
99. Compliments and praise.
100. to look at this moment in 10 years' time and realize you did it.
PS: there are so many beautiful things to live. so live, and live, and live
In my opinion I think the cure of loneliness mental health disorders is to find spirituality within yourself, and faith in God to help you during dark times. Advice I can give is don't go a day without a prayer or meditation to remind yourself to keep hope in life and that as long as god is with you, you're never truly alone. Also stand back and take time for seeing a view of natural sites like the forest or stars to remind you that if any negative thoughts arrive, take a look at the beautiful planet you would be leaving ❤❤
"It may not be stylish, but live."
I'm never gonna experience any of this
The fact that an asmr audio is better able to comfort and understand my struggles compared to my actual parents hurts. Not in a positive way-
When someone across the planet understands you better than anyone else you've met😔
I wish someone loved me like you did in 14 min
I haven't been fine for a while. I close myself off and avoid showing people that I've been broken for a while. This was hard to listen to... but it was worth it. 😭
It's always "one of those days" but thanks for the comfort 😊
one moment I'll be listening to something like this and the next I'll listen to some music to pretend to myself that I'm ok.
This is definitely my safe zone for my aching emotional wound. A girlfriend protecting me to where I can be under her arms as long as needed and stay there. She should still make these more often. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🛏🛏🛏🛏🛏🌡🌡🌡🌡🌡
Thank you for helping us ❤
This is the lowest I've felt in 5 years
ohh to be loved:(
perfect timing
Thank You for the audio from the bottom of my heart ❤
Bra video och grattis till 19000 prenumeranter!
This audio got me a lil choked up
I know I fuck my self up when I’m crying to this but telling my self is this real chat just so I can try to keep a smile
We love you Sarah(@YourgirlfriendASMR)❤️🥰
❤️
Thank you for audio you truly a amazings ❤🥺
Just punch something it works for me. Just don't do it on living breathing creature.
Maybe on a wall, a punching bag, the water, something soft or really fragile.
Or just talk to someone about it. Find a friend/girlfriend/boyfriend and just tell them everything. It works believe me.
I've seen someone who's a family member try to commit suicide Infront of me.
It's not nice. Maybe try to be nice to others. But start to be nice to yourself. Yes it's alright to be angry and sad. Just don't suicide. And if you're American please don't homicide.
Speaking from experience because I "accidentally" kicked a tree and my right foot is Hurt for almost a month
I've been waiting for this moment
I been ummm having hard getting out of bed i hate being alone with my thoughts at night it's so hard trying to be ok trying not to breakdrown in front of the people you love i sometimes dont what goibg any where 🥺😭💔
You are not alone 🥺 wish you the best, ❤.
@@Lesha27 thank you i wish the best too 💓
It hurts really bad
Thank you Sarah.
Thank you. This was so nice, but i just can't keep doing this.. FUCK. I'm so tired
I love your voice ❤
my friend is depressed idk what to do to help them they're in another country so I can't hug them and whenever I try to comfort them I just fail miserably
I'm debating sending them something like this audio but I don't want to offend them
I'm losing sleep worrying
I think the one thing you can do is to stay in touch. Keep calling, texting etc just to talk and to mention that you're there to listen if they need you. I'm just saying this as someone who's been on the other side and for a long time a) didn't want to admit that I was depressed b) certainly didn't want to accept anyone helping. But one thing I really will never forget are the people who stuck by my through all that, who kept being there for me, just listened, gave me a hug when I needed it and didn't ever judge or push to hard.
I know it is different when you can't vist them but just being there in the ways that you can is enough. And if you are, trust me, they will always remember and be thankful for it. But you can't put the expectation and pressure on yourself to fix the reason why they're depressed. They have to want to get help, to want to get better for themselves. You're doing exactly what you can do; being a good friend that cares. Try not to be too hard on yourself ( I know, easier said than done). ❤
@@YourgirlfriendASMR thank you, your advice means a lot
I love you Ellen. I love you too Rick.
Kinda hard not to pretend when you’ve been programmed to
Your sooo sweet and amazing I loved this audio Sweetheart thank you I needed this today love you Sweetheart 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
Llevo un rato que tengo que actuar como que estoy bien, es llegsr a mi casa y parecer un fantasma de lo que era... Estoy cansado...
I feel depress when my father passed away last year he is 50 and I'm 21 years old.
I do have to pretend, That is all I have known and will know.
yall here are we so god damn cooked aren't we
Bruh my life has hit rock bottom
i just wanna be happy bro
i should write a fourth song about my lonesome
All i can do is cry 😭
it's okay to cry..sending hugs :)
I don't want to kill myself anymore. I don't want to keep on living either
I'm numb, no matter the audio, or personal, I'm numb, I hate that I don't get it
I'm sooooo lonely 😭
I want someone to care about me
how did you know i was pretending in real life
I’m a failure 🔥🔥🔥🗣️🗣️🗣️💯💯💯
Comment For Engaygement 🏳️🌈
you comment on every vid lol
Astaghfirullah 🤦♂️
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Heck yeah! 🏳️🌈
@@mydogcausewhynot7753 Happy pride month
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