Please Lord touch my husbands heart and soul and give him the will to fight for our marriage and love. I pray for restoration and renewal of my marriage in Jesus name. Amen
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This is how I wanted to feel a few months ago when I started seeing the signs on the wall. My ex husband showed a lot of disinterest in the relationship and I was really going to let them go if the wanted. unfortunately I was too curious to know what really happened and if there was something that could be fix in there. He was a gentleman and I trusted but he showed strong signs of infidelity and it made uncertain unwanted most of the time, i wanted to know. My friend told me it was possibe to find out everything without risks through phone spying. she introduced me to a guy " Binaryreap3r @ gmial com " who helped me spy on my ex's phone until I found out he was having a same-sex affair all along. I still let him go but I did that knowing I am totally perfect....you can stop the hurting
👏 such a humble and vulnerable guy.. Sharing yours and your wifes experience, situation can help thousand of spouses across the world..😀 what a God sent. Thats really impressive and rare for pastors especially on t.v
The use of porn needs to be addressed badly! It's damaging marriages and Its damaging our youth! Its teaching them lust instead real true love. And lust is a sin!
There is more than enough porn talk. It's everywhere. My church talks about it and affairs like it's going out of style. You know what they NEVER talk about? Withholding sex from a spouse. That's what needs to be talked about more. I read a quote that said....Satan likes sex without marriage as much as he likes a marriage without sex. Why does the church only address one of these?
Snook On the fly I wish my church talked about either of these subjects but no. My church doesn’t even talk about divorce or male or female roles within marriage/family structure. We need to talk about these things.
April Murray Yes they do. Most churches these days only talk about the mushy Kushy feel good stuff. It brings in more people that way. I personally like the nitty gritty make you feel uncomfortable stuff. It keeps you in check.
This is how I wanted to feel a few months ago when I started seeing the signs on the wall. My ex husband showed a lot of disinterest in the relationship and I was really going to let them go if the wanted. unfortunately I was too curious to know what really happened and if there was something that could be fix in there. He was a gentleman and I trusted but he showed strong signs of infidelity and it made uncertain unwanted most of the time, i wanted to know. My friend told me it was possibe to find out everything without risks through phone spying. she introduced me to a guy " Binaryreap3r @ gmial com " who helped me spy on my ex's phone until I found out he was having a same-sex affair all along. I still let him go but I did that knowing I am totally perfect!
Feelings ebb and flow; we can't live by them. We don't feel like going to work every day, but we do so. Why? Because we're committed. Same as with a marriage. You're not going to have loving, happy, or romantic feelings every day. The trick is that there is no trick or quick fix. You choose to show love and stay with the relationship.
Amen, I know I took alot for grant it. I deeply owe my husband apology. I needed to be there for him emotionally. I was pretty wrapped up in our farm. I will be the wife I'm suppose to be. No more routine day to day all the time. I love this man. Thank you God for helping us heal and grow together
My husband is not here for me and he gets angry if I confront him. He always threatens to leave and guess I need to just let him go. I'm sick and tired of it.
I pray you ain’t giving up am 23 and sum time me and my wife go thru it but because of god and her trying with me we are better god can heal all and anything I know you had a time where you thought it was impossible and he show you different I love you and pray he heal your marriage in the name of Jesus amen
a lot of times, i want my husband to understand this and a lot of people also don't understand that this is what i'm fighting for. i hope God would move and make my husband realize the message of this preaching.
Please pray for my marriage. My wife Stephanie has moved out and says she is done and filled for divorce. I am standing for my marriage and fighting for it. Lord bring back the feelings and she says that she is not in love with me anymore after 17 years married.
May the Lord Jesus Christ destroy the work of the devil in your home. Father may the stronghold of offense be broken from their spirits in the name of Jesus. Let every accusation of the wicked one be quenched by the blood of Jesus Christ. Father, may your Holy Spirit be the mediator and advocate of these ones to each other in Jesus name, Amen!
Same for me. 18 years marriage and she left me 10 months ago. Please 🙏 that God will intervene and restore our family. I love her unconditionally and forgive her for leaving. I just want to be the man and husband God wants me to be. 🥹
my husband is a Narcissist. I am trying to get myself together after 2 1/2 decades of emotional abuse. He abandoned me for another woman and I struggle with why I wasn't worth love.
Lisa bug I'm not. I filed for divorce last week and he discarded me over a year ago. I have been no contact for 6 months. Have no fear, I'm done with abusive partners. Thanks for the response.
I've neglected God. I've neglected my wife. She left me because I neglected her and God. I've fallen in love with Christ. I never stopped loving my wife. My wife says she doesn't love me anymore and wants divorce. She says God told her that she can stay or go and things will work to her good either way. Our 4 children are suffering because of this. As I get even closer to God I feel the Holy Spirit comforting me. I pray that we reconcile and have God rebuild as the foundation of a renewed marriage together. Praying for a miracle in the name of Jesus.
I am in the same place, the only difference is that my wife has moved out, so I am getting closer to God and trusting that he will ressurect my marriage. In Jesus name.
He left for another woman a few years later.. read about it above........ My story from a narcissistic abusive husband, now ex. They don’t change. It’s completely evil... Jesus never left me!
There's a flip side to this statement. Wife, your husband will be what you treat him as. My wife, right after marriage told me flirting is only for new couples. Started having sex only once every 2 or 3 months only because she was tired of hearing me bring up sex. Told me flat out that she made the mistake of putting her ex boyfriend before her parents and will never put a man before them again. Makes decisions for our kids with her parents behind my back and tells me to get over it. Opened and maxed out a credit card after we discussed we will not be getting into the credit card routine. 15 years later, I've lost hope in us being what God intended us to be when we became one in marriage and the because of the years of this I now treat her like a bad roommate. Now I keep hearing from everyone what you said. They always seem to forget what drove me there.
AestheticEmotionGHL I did and still do pray daily. I have changed one aspect in what I do in this matter. I started letting God show me that my focus was to be on him and his promises and not what other people were doing wrong. Because of that shift in focus, the splinters in my eye haven't grown into a log and are being removed by god through his word. I can't change how people treat me, but with God's guidance I can change how I react. It's a hard pill God has asked me to swallow, but it has helped draw me closer to his love and guidance. I'm sorry you are going through this too. I pray that god opens our spouses eyes and comforts us in his perfect love while we wait on his timing.
Father, Your word is light unto my path. I trust Your love for me. This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. And if we know that he hears us - whatever we ask - we know that we have what we asked of him. I John 5:14
I have been with my husband for almost 10 years, however it to has been a grueling struggle. I really feel hopeless and like giving up. I have lost faith in myself and in him and I know I should look to God but I am just do tired and over my marriage. I have children so it's hard but once again I feel like something drastic needs to happen.
It is hard to see this... Married for 23 years and always passionately in love with my husband... until he confessed cheating on me several times... choosing alcohol above me. Now I am out ofove, my heart is broken and I do not know if I want to stay with this man.
Anna Suzanna praying for you , my spouse chose alcohol over our 39 yr marriage we have been separated 5 yrs , I had to process forgiveness for him and myself and I pray for his salvation , I suggest reach out and get help for you your worth it
Please Lord touch my husband's heart, soul and remove the anger, wrath and unforgiveness in him. Help him to draw closer to you and to give his life to you. Show him his purpose in life amen.
I feel that god wants us to be happy no matter what,divorce or marriage. Sometimes its not healthy to stay. If you're miserable i feel god wouldn't want that for anyone. My husband looks at every woman that walks by i feel like I'm falling out of love with him because I don't like doing anything with him we can't have any fun together. We are not friends anymore just husband and wife.
No where in Scripture does it say God wants us to be happy no matter what. And you said you don't have fun together, you're just husband and wife???? Seriously?
@@tstephens8530 she is talking about how she feels. Feelings are not right or wrong. I don't think she was making that statement to prove anyting to someone. I certainly do not know her and therefore believe what she says on face value. Plenty of couples live in the same house without touching each other. Sometimes for financial reasons, sometimes because of the kids. But whatever the reason, it does happen.
Growing up in church I was never popular, handsome or rich. I saw many girls going after the jerks, the popular, and the rich. Me and other good Christian friends didn't stand a chance. Now I see many of those women divorced and having all kinds of problems in life. My friend said that he actually enjoys to know that they had marriage problems. He says that they deserve to be punished for making the wrong decisions when God had lots of good guys around but they decided to marry the jerks. Women choose wrong and than buy lots of books and go to seminars to try to figure out what is wrong. Pretty much they married a jerk. The right guy was the one that was not so popular and you rejected and humiliated him. The most sincere description of women is in the TV serie " Two and a Half Man" . They go after the jerks.
Your friend has some maturing to do if he still thinks like that. As for the girls that's their business. That just means you had less mistakes to choose from in my opinion. Because if they can't see what's good for them they don't have much in them to begin with. You focus on yourself not other. It's your desire to be married. Prepare yourself for it, work on improving yourself and it will happen.
This is my wife in a nutshell. She loves her job to the point where she is always at work even on the weekends. She loves spending time with her students and best friends. Whenever I try to hold a conversation with her after work about her day, she just says it was fine and goes back to texting her friends. Because she is so busy I am stuck doing all of the chores around the house. It is especially hard because she said that is not attracted to me. I am physically fit and clean shaven but I still feel physically repulsive. I know I am not the perfect husband as there are always some areas I am lacking but I honestly feel like I am single. I have tried explaining that I wish we would spend more time together but recently she told me that she wants to be her own person, find out who she is and live a single life for a while, not date other people just move out and not worry about things at home. If anyone has been in my shoes, any advice? I want to remind her that I am still around and send her a cards to speak to her love language but I am afraid too.
That is so sad and seemingly selfish on her part. I said seemingly because I don't know her side of the problem. We should find out what it is like to be single before we get married not after but, it doesn't always happen that way. Was she attracted to you earlier on in the marriage? I would suggest you get Christian Counseling ASAP. Our priorities as Christians should be God first and our spouse next. Sadly sometimes we have to realize that the problem is not our attractiveness or whether or not we are perfect but, it can be the other person is checked out or not willing to work on the marriage. These are things a good Christian Counselor can help you with. I feel for you. I have experienced similar situation for years. I pray that all works out for you.
I am so sad for you after reading this. Sometimes people don’t realize what they have until it’s gone. I pray that things are better for you. How are things going now 5 months later? Can you please give us an update?
@ Daniel Claggett Cucks always end up rejected. You are not in control and you wonder why everything is going down the drain ? You are not the head of your wife , she is ruling over you .
Thanks for your videos my name is Brian I live in Denver Colorado me and my wife have been married for 25 yrs however I’ve made bad choices in m marriage well she decided to leave we are separated now for 2 months when I tried to talk to her she tells me there’s nothing to work on. Well I’ve been crushed by my choices that I’ve made however my question is when do I know when to give up she will only talk to about Business only what do I do should I walk away ? Need advise. Thanks Brian
My husband was a mental abuse person. When I decided enough was enough I was out the door. He got saved and now I'm told we have to stay together. I'm not in love any more its been gone for a while. Dont know what to do
God is able to rekindle your love for him (all things is possible with God) but I would first wait until he demonstrate a change in his attitude and behavior towards you( test the spirit to see if it is genuine- 1st John) before even thinking about going back. I certainly would pray about going back before doing anything connected with him (sometimes two people weren't meant to be together in the first place) and if God say yes, then He will give you that renewed love and a change of heart towards him( Psalms 23rd-He restores my soul). Trust this help and encourages you how to proceed. God bless and make your life beautiful.
I never was never, ever in love with her...in fact I was always embarrassed that someone would see me with her and think I was attracted to her as she was very homely. I was in love with someone else and I was a very immature kid, who had the maturity of about a 16 year old and was bugged and begged, time after time till I finally gave in to marry this woman and was told by an older guy from her church that if I married her and tried to love her, that I would eventually feel the same for her, like I did for the one who I was actually still in love with, but didn't love me back. Of course that was ridiculous and finally got my nerve up and left after a few months. So to me, I was never really married in God's eyes, because I never made a true vow, nor was I a Christian. That was decades ago, but it still bothers me that this is on my record, so to speak. I am still single and I dread having to tell a lady, when they ask if I was ever married?
Your wrong , when you are married god wants you to be committed to that person no matter what. There is no other option no matter what to God. And I tell you this if you ask god to love her like Christ loved the church you will feel even more love for her then the other person.
Lisa bug Yes I was...and I was an immature kid and not a Christian, who was on the rebound and was missing that other person who I did love and was desperate to stop the hurt and to feel that love again. And ironically, 40 years later, I still love that woman, who didn't feel the same about me. When I love someone, it is forever! Also she kept calling for weeks. I finally answered the phone thinking I was free and it was her on the line. if only they had had caller ID back then.
Misha Petrovich I agree with you that when you freely marry someone, that you need to be committed. But I didn't marry freely and never gave a free vow, nor made any true commitment. Decades has also shown what a dishonest, evil woman she truly was and is today.
Marriage has nothing to do with emotions or feelings. Its about covenant with God and fullfilling role God assigned. Did you have a shot gun wedding? If you are not selfish enough, you coud have prevented the marriage if you are not sure if you can commit. Now you blame the situation for not loving your wife. Grow up and be a man. Work your relationship with God first because once you have Jezebel spirit, it will be hard to let go of the selfishness.
My husband and I are living like roommates. We're not emotionally connected an have not been intimate in a long long time. I'm not in love with my husband don't want to be intimate with him anymore. He knows all this he wants to stay married. I'm not sure if I want this marriage healed.
Don't kid yourself. You are asking for a once in a lifetime miracle. Yes, it can happen but only after you have suffered tremendously. It's not worth it. Walk away now before it ruins not only you, but your children too. That hope you have is not worth the damage he does in the interim. Really, it won't be. If he changes later, then maybe you can take him back. But don't let him continue to damage you and and your children. You will regret it, and your children will resent you for staying. Good luck.
No. Notice that even the Pharisees, Yahusha (Jesus) Himself did not run after them, try to get them to repent or preach & beg them to repent to them. He rebuked them in front of everyone and walked away. Look at 2 Timothy 3:1-9 and Titus 3 where it says, “Rebuke someone once, then a second time, then have NOTHING to do with them.” Notice it says nothing else....not run after them, beg them to change, nothing like that. And if God Himself says, “have nothing else to do with them” that’s exactly what He means. I was married to a Narcissist/ Sociopath for 17 years. Loving them more and more got me nothing but more and more abuse. These people will use you and abuse you until the day you decide you’ve had enough. Don’t walk...run from these type of people and don’t look back. And don’t wait 17 years to do it. These people don’t change and God Himself knew there were people like that & instructed us to stay away from them.
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years. For the past months I just started to believe that I don’t love him anymore and I don’t know what to do. I know I want to save it but I don’t know if the love is truly gone I don’t know if it can come back.
I know that your post is from a year ago, so if I had to make a guess, I would guess that you and your boyfriend are no longer together, in less perhaps the two of you went through some type of unplanned radical change of life experience (such as pregnancy, or something of the like). But please update , as I would love to know what you finally decided to do, about the lack of feelings you had for your boyfriend, a year ago. Please read up on the science behind the phrase, “love is blind” and the science behind “love. It will explain infatuation and how long it lasts, before stage 2 of the process of love begins (and when the blinders come off), and will also explain why those “blinders,” come off in a period of 18months to 2.5 years after you first began dating.
How can you love someone that has hurt you very much? My husband broke my heart and it literally aches. I believe in God and I don't believe in divorce but the betrayal is hurting me a lot. I'm angry and disappointed.
Where on the bible says divorce is acceptable for adultery or abuse, God divorces you because you commit adultery putting other things first and not God, Jesus says unless for porneia, read hosea, thank you
I really believe my husband still loves me we've been married five years but he just doesn't want sex anymore I don't know what's wrong I'm here for him anytime he wanted or needs it he just doesn't seem to want it he kisses me and hugs me and does wonderful things for me but just doesn't seem to want sex anymore what can I do I love him very much
my husband left me again the 2nd time onto adultery. how with her now. God walked me through the first affair and he came back to me 3 1/2. yrs ago. Now he's with our old neighbor who chased him. I still love him. but I can't live with a verbally abusive man. God brake that spell on him. but heal both of us. I didn't do everything right either. I've been texting him saying I forgive him, them. Lord, open our hearts to do the right thing. give us a gift us a great marriage. 33 1/2 yrs. Don't let me fall in that whole. forgive me of my sins and hurts I did to him. she a Jezebel. block her from him. open his heart to you and hear your words. break this curse that's got him on bondages. let him see the wife of his youth. what you have joined together let know man separate. thank you God for hearing me and answering and bringing back the man you gave me. we where 19 & 20. I TRUST and have FAITH in you GOD!! Amen for our family, our 3 boy's, our grandchildren. for us!!!! I still love him. you can heal us. don't let Him see her at all that way. PRAISE GOD!!
Tina Woodward I'm heartsick from hearing your pain. I have figured out that my husband is a narcissist, mostly because of severe emotional abuse along with pathological lies. Affairs are abuse! Mine left me for a younger woman too, and you deserve better! God bless you and you are not alone.
I pray that thins have worked out for you. I pray that God has brought you through this pain and that you have now found happiness. Can you update us please? Would love to know how you are doing?
Tink Boyce ; Misha Petrovich ; Judith Davis My ex ( a narcissists and she is too, I think) is still with that neighbor he left me for. She paid for the divorce, bought him a huge beautiful home in Alaska. Left me homeless for 3 weeks up there. But PRAISE GOD for Change Point Church and the wonderful people that are lead by the Holy Spirit. I moved back down in the same place as 2 of my boys and families.. my grandchildren are my world. But this has hit my family so hard. My sister who had mental illness committed suicide this last January 23, 2019.. Emotionally I’m a wreck. But this church in town Victory Life Church has a wonderful Lady who helps with women who have been through traumas. I know God is setting things up. My health is not good and emotionally all I can do is cry, financially broke. Narcissistic abuse is of the devil... anyone in a relationship like that. Get out ASAP. I fought for my marriage and know is off playing house with his new supply and her money. But I’m sure she has felt that sting from the wrath of evil he carries. She is not a Christian and has mocked God. Jesus saved me and is helping on healing me. I’m so grateful for the people who have entered my life and helped me walk through some of these trails. Jimmy Evans and Robert Morris the “Free Indeed “ series was so helpful with walking me through the most difficult experiences. We do not fight against flesh and blood, but principalities and spirits of this world. Just know HOW BIG OUR FATHER GOD IS AND JESUS IS THE ONLY WAY TO GET TO HIM.... I know my sweet little sister (she was 51) is with Jesus. She loved him so much. But mental illness is horrible (schizophrenic is even worse).. Jesus has mercy on those who are hurting, broken-hearted and the ill. I’m so grateful for Jesus love for us... I see myself married to Jesus. If I ever marry again, it will be Jesus who sets it up. . Jesus’s is my whole world. He saved me from living in that world of chaos. I am working on building my future and waiting for the Lords direction. I do know that my grown children have lost respect for their father and don’t like his new supply. They are heartbroken to have watched everything take place. All they had ever known was a loving family growing up... so this came as a complete shock to them as well. The worst part started after the kids moved out. So they did not see the verbal abuse along with everything that happened. He became a different man. Alcoholism was and is a big factor for that. I’m asking God to break those generational curses that has happened to us and his grandparents on his mother’s side of the family. Almost exactly... Satan has no new tricks, same old ones. He comes to kill steal and destroy. I pray the Lord hears my prayers and breaks these curses for my children and grandchildren and great grandchildren and so on.... No more, stops here. Never let go of Jesus 🙌🏼🙏🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼 know matter what.. He’s not letting go of you. 💜
This is an interesting real life example. It's funny how every time we hear one, we hear about what the husband had to give up and how bad a person he was, but we never hear about the wife's portion of what wasn't right. I'm sure there's a radical feminist just waiting to hammer her keyboard to rebuke me, but it would be a rare situation where blame were 100/0.
I have watched, and been to, many of these seminars and you are exactly correct. Interestingly they never address Ephesians 5:22-33. Men are supposed to lead and men should be the first to initiate the repair of a marriage, but women seem to be allowed to wrap their concept of love into their emotions, therefore they are allowed to withhold love until they "feel" love for the other person.
Yep! And I gave and gave and gave as a submissive Christian wife for DECADES fasting, praying, and giving, and all it did was it just feed the selfish monster!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I’ve been so severely verbally abused, and neglected for so long, I AM COMPLETELY BROKEN.
A pleasant day to you Mr. Jimmy and to all. I really need your help. I really want to save my marriage. but what should i do if i lost my husband's trust in me? even if all that he do is accuse me of cheating on him,me but God knows i don't cheat, i never cheated on him. we are living separately cuz i am here in the Philippines and he is in the U.S. cuz my visa is not processed yet. he is filing for divorce now. God knows i am living with my vows and promises to God and to him. i am not cheating on him. and this is what i am fighting for here. he is so self righteous and selfish. he doesn't care whatever happen to me. we just got married 3 months ago. please help me. please pray for me.
Have faith in God, and pray, pray everyday and read books, sermons and focus on your self and with God, God doesn't want divorce but he wants us to pray to him everyday. Good luck I'll be praying for you.
My husband is a narcissist, abusive, manipulator, and we have separated for my safety and the kids of safety and he has found another girlfriend within less than a month later. He will not commit himself to a job or a pastor or his family I don't know what else to do but move on!
What if their was not a lot of love in the first place from one partner and the other had total love and inlove with the not so much. Actually has trouble showing and giving love.. I think we need a relationship counsellor or something
Nice... but I felt I was betrayed from the start. My wife is sweet and loving and has been from the day I met her. But she became more abrasive and uncompromising ever since we got engaged. She hit and physically intimidated me our first year of marriage. Love is patient and kind... she wasn't. Any time I wanted to discuss it she became defensive. So... instead of fighting I withdrew. After a while I tried the passive aggressive approach... I denied her intimacy. Every time she whined I'd deny intimacy for another month. Years went by and I found myself feeling more and more distant. Eventually I developed a physical aversion to her.... the thought of kissing her makes me sick. I finally confessed to her and she could tell. It was saddening because I still love her but as a parter, parent to our child, and as a friend. But I don't want to look back and regret another 40 to 50 years. I've lived a lie for over 20... I'd best learn from my mistakes.
I wish my husband wanted to make my marriage work with me but he doesn’t. He really doesn’t. So I have no hope in anything changing. Only God can change this if He wants to.
My husband is a cheater, I stood up with this man for all my life and now this man at 63 yrs old divorces me behind my back we have been married for 34 yrs and I know it's the devil but help me pray that God will bind Satan in the marriage that he may be planning, please,please.
SIMPLE...DAILY BREAD WITH GOD....BOTH HAVE TO PUT GOD FIRST!!! ITS NOT COMPLICATED!!!...........BUT IF PREACHERS DIDNT MAKE IT COMPLICATED THEY COULDNT BECOME AND CONTINUE TO BE MILLIONAIRES!!! JUST SAYING THE TRUTH!!!!!!!!
(THIS IS THE GOSPEL MESSAGE OF JESUS CHRIST) JESUS CHRIST DIED ON THE CROSS FOR OUR SINS AND HE WAS BURIED AND HE ROSE AGAIN ON THE THIRD DAY BY FAITH IN GOD'S SON THE LORD AND SAVIOR JESUS CHRIST AND JESUS CHRIST ALONE SALVATION SHALL BE YOURS AND ETERNAL LIFE WITH GOD IN HEAVEN SHALL AWAIT YOU WHEN YOU DIE THE BIBLE JOHN CHAPTER 3 VERSES 16 THROUGH 21 AS WELL AS 1ST CORINTHIANS CHAPTER 15 VERSES 1 THROUGH 5 THE BIBLE
Unless you can turn toward Jesus for your satisfaction and comfort, living in a loveless situation is impossible. If you read Ephesians 5:22-33 you will understand the responsibility God places on husbands shoulders. Add to that 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 and you will be able to identify your own inadequacies, that is how it effects me. God has given men the strength to fight through these situations, but only if we disconnect from our own self interests and focus on God's Spirit. Praying for you.
Please Lord touch my husbands heart and soul and give him the will to fight for our marriage and love. I pray for restoration and renewal of my marriage in Jesus name. Amen
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This is how I wanted to feel a few months ago when I started seeing the signs on the wall. My ex husband showed a lot of disinterest in the relationship and I was really going to let them go if the wanted. unfortunately I was too curious to know what really happened and if there was something that could be fix in there. He was a gentleman and I trusted but he showed strong signs of infidelity and it made uncertain unwanted most of the time, i wanted to know. My friend told me it was possibe to find out everything without risks through phone spying. she introduced me to a guy " Binaryreap3r @ gmial com " who helped me spy on my ex's phone until I found out he was having a same-sex affair all along. I still let him go but I did that knowing I am totally perfect....you can stop the hurting
Amen.
I love how honest this man is...Karen is a blessed woman.
easy to talk on a platform!
I knw she is
True, but she had to stay to get to this place. Plenty of people could save their marriages if they endured.
iam crying watching this he repented because he a man of God i wish all couples would do the same
👏 such a humble and vulnerable guy.. Sharing yours and your wifes experience, situation can help thousand of spouses across the world..😀 what a God sent. Thats really impressive and rare for pastors especially on t.v
The use of porn needs to be addressed badly! It's damaging marriages and Its damaging our youth! Its teaching them lust instead real true love. And lust is a sin!
There is more than enough porn talk. It's everywhere. My church talks about it and affairs like it's going out of style. You know what they NEVER talk about? Withholding sex from a spouse. That's what needs to be talked about more. I read a quote that said....Satan likes sex without marriage as much as he likes a marriage without sex. Why does the church only address one of these?
Snook On the fly
I wish my church talked about either of these subjects but no. My church doesn’t even talk about divorce or male or female roles within marriage/family structure. We need to talk about these things.
April Murray Yes they do. Most churches these days only talk about the mushy Kushy feel good stuff. It brings in more people that way. I personally like the nitty gritty make you feel uncomfortable stuff. It keeps you in check.
This is how I wanted to feel a few months ago when I started seeing the signs on the wall. My ex husband showed a lot of disinterest in the relationship and I was really going to let them go if the wanted. unfortunately I was too curious to know what really happened and if there was something that could be fix in there. He was a gentleman and I trusted but he showed strong signs of infidelity and it made uncertain unwanted most of the time, i wanted to know. My friend told me it was possibe to find out everything without risks through phone spying. she introduced me to a guy " Binaryreap3r @ gmial com " who helped me spy on my ex's phone until I found out he was having a same-sex affair all along. I still let him go but I did that knowing I am totally perfect!
You can have lust without any porn
Feelings ebb and flow; we can't live by them. We don't feel like going to work every day, but we do so. Why? Because we're committed. Same as with a marriage. You're not going to have loving, happy, or romantic feelings every day. The trick is that there is no trick or quick fix. You choose to show love and stay with the relationship.
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I would appreciate having the same experience, with a husband seeing things clear changing life
Pray for Ollie and Melvin marriage to be restore with Love and Forgiveness. And my husband salvation...
Ill pray 🙏🏻
Amen, I know I took alot for grant it. I deeply owe my husband apology. I needed to be there for him emotionally. I was pretty wrapped up in our farm. I will be the wife I'm suppose to be. No more routine day to day all the time. I love this man. Thank you God for helping us heal and grow together
May you both experience all the joy your hearts can hold. God bless your union abundantly!🙏
Thank you for sharing an awesome and a very powerful testimony!! And I give your video a huge thumbs up!!!👍👍👍👍👍👍
the covenant of grace ...Jesus is the only Way
My husband is not here for me and he gets angry if I confront him. He always threatens to leave and guess I need to just let him go. I'm sick and tired of it.
Stacey.....I'm going through the same thing right now. How did you get through?
Release him to God , process forgiveness for him , pray for him is all you can do
I pray you ain’t giving up am 23 and sum time me and my wife go thru it but because of god and her trying with me we are better god can heal all and anything I know you had a time where you thought it was impossible and he show you different I love you and pray he heal your marriage in the name of Jesus amen
Same here
a lot of times, i want my husband to understand this and a lot of people also don't understand that this is what i'm fighting for. i hope God would move and make my husband realize the message of this preaching.
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Please pray for my marriage. My wife Stephanie has moved out and says she is done and filled for divorce. I am standing for my marriage and fighting for it. Lord bring back the feelings and she says that she is not in love with me anymore after 17 years married.
How did it go?
May the Lord Jesus Christ destroy the work of the devil in your home. Father may the stronghold of offense be broken from their spirits in the name of Jesus.
Let every accusation of the wicked one be quenched by the blood of Jesus Christ.
Father, may your Holy Spirit be the mediator and advocate of these ones to each other in Jesus name, Amen!
Same for me. 18 years marriage and she left me 10 months ago. Please 🙏 that God will intervene and restore our family. I love her unconditionally and forgive her for leaving. I just want to be the man and husband God wants me to be. 🥹
my husband is a Narcissist. I am trying to get myself together after 2 1/2 decades of emotional abuse. He abandoned me for another woman and I struggle with why I wasn't worth love.
Krissy Schoppert why are you still with this man????
Lisa bug
I'm not. I filed for divorce last week and he discarded me over a year ago. I have been no contact for 6 months. Have no fear, I'm done with abusive partners. Thanks for the response.
Krissy Schoppert praying that things have worked out for you and that you are living a much happier life now. Best wishes ❤️
You can’t fix narcissism.... Very selfish! His words... 💔🚩💔🚩💔🚩
Sorry to hear
thank Lord took me out of abusive marriage of 24 years 🕊😀😍Lord messiah king my true love
Even if you’re not religious, I love the way he explains this.
I would love to try this same thing as a solution to improving my marriage.
Lesly Nixon, you look stunning 🌹 🌹🌷 🌷🥀🌹 🌹🌺 🌺🌹🥀🥀 🥀
I've neglected God. I've neglected my wife. She left me because I neglected her and God. I've fallen in love with Christ. I never stopped loving my wife. My wife says she doesn't love me anymore and wants divorce. She says God told her that she can stay or go and things will work to her good either way. Our 4 children are suffering because of this. As I get even closer to God I feel the Holy Spirit comforting me. I pray that we reconcile and have God rebuild as the foundation of a renewed marriage together. Praying for a miracle in the name of Jesus.
718jef
718jef - I'm on the same boat bro. Keep fighting!
What happened a year later?
I am in the same place, the only difference is that my wife has moved out, so I am getting closer to God and trusting that he will ressurect my marriage. In Jesus name.
jef178 same exact story in my house. Praying for you and for a miracle for me.
It works!! It changed our marriage of 30 yrs.
Tina Woodward I'm praying for my marriage. My husband stopped loving me. 😔
He left for another woman a few years later.. read about it above........ My story from a narcissistic abusive husband, now ex. They don’t change. It’s completely evil... Jesus never left me!
husband, your wife will be what you treat her as.
and I might add that loving your wife sexually is one of the most deepest ways to love her. don't make the mistake of neglecting that area.
There's a flip side to this statement. Wife, your husband will be what you treat him as. My wife, right after marriage told me flirting is only for new couples. Started having sex only once every 2 or 3 months only because she was tired of hearing me bring up sex. Told me flat out that she made the mistake of putting her ex boyfriend before her parents and will never put a man before them again. Makes decisions for our kids with her parents behind my back and tells me to get over it. Opened and maxed out a credit card after we discussed we will not be getting into the credit card routine. 15 years later, I've lost hope in us being what God intended us to be when we became one in marriage and the because of the years of this I now treat her like a bad roommate. Now I keep hearing from everyone what you said. They always seem to forget what drove me there.
AestheticEmotionGHL I did and still do pray daily. I have changed one aspect in what I do in this matter. I started letting God show me that my focus was to be on him and his promises and not what other people were doing wrong. Because of that shift in focus, the splinters in my eye haven't grown into a log and are being removed by god through his word. I can't change how people treat me, but with God's guidance I can change how I react. It's a hard pill God has asked me to swallow, but it has helped draw me closer to his love and guidance. I'm sorry you are going through this too. I pray that god opens our spouses eyes and comforts us in his perfect love while we wait on his timing.
AestheticEmotionGHL thank you. I pray for healing in your marriage.
Father, Your word is light unto my path. I trust Your love for me.
This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. And if we know that he hears us - whatever we ask - we know that we have what we asked of him.
I John 5:14
Amen
Please, Jesus, save and transform my husband and our marriage! In Your mighty Name!
I have been with my husband for almost 10 years, however it to has been a grueling struggle. I really feel hopeless and like giving up. I have lost faith in myself and in him and I know I should look to God but I am just do tired and over my marriage. I have children so it's hard but once again I feel like something drastic needs to happen.
It is hard to see this... Married for 23 years and always passionately in love with my husband... until he confessed cheating on me several times... choosing alcohol above me. Now I am out ofove, my heart is broken and I do not know if I want to stay with this man.
Anna Suzanna praying for you , my spouse chose alcohol over our 39 yr marriage we have been separated 5 yrs , I had to process forgiveness for him and myself and I pray for his salvation , I suggest reach out and get help for you your worth it
This is divine...
i just dont feel him in my heart no matter how hard i try.was hurt beyond repair
Quote: If you wanna enjoy the benefits of your relationship you gotta plant the seeds: Eboni King
I am the problem in my marriage and wrecking it from the outside in 💔 #depression is real
Great teaching.
Please Lord touch my husband's heart, soul and remove the anger, wrath and unforgiveness in him. Help him to draw closer to you and to give his life to you. Show him his purpose in life amen.
Quote: Everything grows when it's nurtured : Eboni King
Boy 😒 I wish my husband would here this
Lol. My wife just had me watch this video and I realized that it's so true. Gl with ur marriage God bless
Send it 2 him. I sent it
Quote: Where there's no nurture there's no growth: Eboni King
Quote: Honor is given in many different ways. It's only shown through marriage: Eboni King
Wow, really great teaching.
Powerful!
I feel that god wants us to be happy no matter what,divorce or marriage. Sometimes its not healthy to stay. If you're miserable i feel god wouldn't want that for anyone. My husband looks at every woman that walks by i feel like I'm falling out of love with him because I don't like doing anything with him we can't have any fun together. We are not friends anymore just husband and wife.
No where in Scripture does it say God wants us to be happy no matter what. And you said you don't have fun together, you're just husband and wife???? Seriously?
@@tstephens8530 she is talking about how she feels. Feelings are not right or wrong. I don't think she was making that statement to prove anyting to someone. I certainly do not know her and therefore believe what she says on face value. Plenty of couples live in the same house without touching each other. Sometimes for financial reasons, sometimes because of the kids. But whatever the reason, it does happen.
Thank you!
Growing up in church I was never popular, handsome or rich. I saw many girls going after the jerks, the popular, and the rich. Me and other good Christian friends didn't stand a chance. Now I see many of those women divorced and having all kinds of problems in life. My friend said that he actually enjoys to know that they had marriage problems. He says that they deserve to be punished for making the wrong decisions when God had lots of good guys around but they decided to marry the jerks. Women choose wrong and than buy lots of books and go to seminars to try to figure out what is wrong. Pretty much they married a jerk. The right guy was the one that was not so popular and you rejected and humiliated him. The most sincere description of women is in the TV serie " Two and a Half Man" . They go after the jerks.
Your friend has some maturing to do if he still thinks like that. As for the girls that's their business. That just means you had less mistakes to choose from in my opinion. Because if they can't see what's good for them they don't have much in them to begin with. You focus on yourself not other. It's your desire to be married. Prepare yourself for it, work on improving yourself and it will happen.
Satan came to kill, steal, and destroy. I pray God will heal my marriage through me. Change me Lord so that I can live and love like you. 🙏
This is my wife in a nutshell. She loves her job to the point where she is always at work even on the weekends. She loves spending time with her students and best friends. Whenever I try to hold a conversation with her after work about her day, she just says it was fine and goes back to texting her friends. Because she is so busy I am stuck doing all of the chores around the house.
It is especially hard because she said that is not attracted to me. I am physically fit and clean shaven but I still feel physically repulsive. I know I am not the perfect husband as there are always some areas I am lacking but I honestly feel like I am single. I have tried explaining that I wish we would spend more time together but recently she told me that she wants to be her own person, find out who she is and live a single life for a while, not date other people just move out and not worry about things at home.
If anyone has been in my shoes, any advice? I want to remind her that I am still around and send her a cards to speak to her love language but I am afraid too.
That is so sad and seemingly selfish on her part. I said seemingly because I don't know her side of the problem. We should find out what it is like to be single before we get married not after but, it doesn't always happen that way. Was she attracted to you earlier on in the marriage? I would suggest you get Christian Counseling ASAP. Our priorities as Christians should be God first and our spouse next. Sadly sometimes we have to realize that the problem is not our attractiveness or whether or not we are perfect but, it can be the other person is checked out or not willing to work on the marriage. These are things a good Christian Counselor can help you with. I feel for you. I have experienced similar situation for years. I pray that all works out for you.
I am so sad for you after reading this. Sometimes people don’t realize what they have until it’s gone. I pray that things are better for you. How are things going now 5 months later? Can you please give us an update?
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Cucks always end up rejected. You are not in control and you wonder why everything is going down the drain ?
You are not the head of your wife , she is ruling over you .
LEAVE
She does not love you and you can not force people to love you. Just leave her alone until she finds out what she wants . Just be patient
This is SO GOOD!!!!!
wow i love this
Please pray over us Melvin and Ollie Hall ❤ 🙏 😢 💔 😞 😔 ❤ 🙏 😢 💔
Thanks for your videos my name is Brian I live in Denver Colorado me and my wife have been married for 25 yrs however I’ve made bad choices in m marriage well she decided to leave we are separated now for 2 months when I tried to talk to her she tells me there’s nothing to work on. Well I’ve been crushed by my choices that I’ve made however my question is when do I know when to give up she will only talk to about Business only what do I do should I walk away ? Need advise. Thanks Brian
If you haven't divorced her yet, follow God's guidance. Avoid dating, show your wife you have changed for the better and pray every day
Awesome testimony!
my husband is impotent and refuses to get medical help, says the doctor are too expensive.
he's probably addicted to porn and that causes erectile dis-function...pray and God will show you
Mikhi Ferreira I understand. My husband needs testosterone therapy. God please help us.
HE NEEDS BETTER EATING HABITS AND EXERCISE...HE NEEDS FRUIT AND GREEN VEGETABLES 6 DAYS OUT THE WEEK
My husband was a mental abuse person. When I decided enough was enough I was out the door. He got saved and now I'm told we have to stay together. I'm not in love any more its been gone for a while. Dont know what to do
God is able to rekindle your love for him (all things is possible with God) but I would first wait until he demonstrate a change in his attitude and behavior towards you( test the spirit to see if it is genuine- 1st John) before even thinking about going back. I certainly would pray about going back before doing anything connected with him (sometimes two people weren't meant to be together in the first place) and if God say yes, then He will give you that renewed love and a change of heart towards him( Psalms 23rd-He restores my soul). Trust this help and encourages you how to proceed. God bless and make your life beautiful.
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10 women to 1 man! BEST Society ! period
I never was never, ever in love with her...in fact I was always embarrassed that someone would see me with her and think I was attracted to her as she was very homely. I was in love with someone else and I was a very immature kid, who had the maturity of about a 16 year old and was bugged and begged, time after time till I finally gave in to marry this woman and was told by an older guy from her church that if I married her and tried to love her, that I would eventually feel the same for her, like I did for the one who I was actually still in love with, but didn't love me back. Of course that was ridiculous and finally got my nerve up and left after a few months. So to me, I was never really married in God's eyes, because I never made a true vow, nor was I a Christian. That was decades ago, but it still bothers me that this is on my record, so to speak. I am still single and I dread having to tell a lady, when they ask if I was ever married?
pepjrp big dummy
Your wrong , when you are married god wants you to be committed to that person no matter what. There is no other option no matter what to God. And I tell you this if you ask god to love her like Christ loved the church you will feel even more love for her then the other person.
Lisa bug Yes I was...and I was an immature kid and not a Christian, who was on the rebound and was missing that other person who I did love and was desperate to stop the hurt and to feel that love again. And ironically, 40 years later, I still love that woman, who didn't feel the same about me. When I love someone, it is forever! Also she kept calling for weeks. I finally answered the phone thinking I was free and it was her on the line. if only they had had caller ID back then.
Misha Petrovich I agree with you that when you freely marry someone, that you need to be committed. But I didn't marry freely and never gave a free vow, nor made any true commitment. Decades has also shown what a dishonest, evil woman she truly was and is today.
Marriage has nothing to do with emotions or feelings. Its about covenant with God and fullfilling role God assigned. Did you have a shot gun wedding? If you are not selfish enough, you coud have prevented the marriage if you are not sure if you can commit. Now you blame the situation for not loving your wife. Grow up and be a man. Work your relationship with God first because once you have Jezebel spirit, it will be hard to let go of the selfishness.
My husband and I are living like roommates. We're not emotionally connected an have not been intimate in a long long time. I'm not in love with my husband don't want to be intimate with him anymore. He knows all this he wants to stay married. I'm not sure if I want this marriage healed.
My question is can God heal a narcissist?
Krissy Schoppert , ONLY GOD can heal a narcissistic person
God can heal anything!!!!
Don't kid yourself. You are asking for a once in a lifetime miracle. Yes, it can happen but only after you have suffered tremendously. It's not worth it. Walk away now before it ruins not only you, but your children too. That hope you have is not worth the damage he does in the interim. Really, it won't be. If he changes later, then maybe you can take him back. But don't let him continue to damage you and and your children. You will regret it, and your children will resent you for staying. Good luck.
No. Notice that even the Pharisees, Yahusha (Jesus) Himself did not run after them, try to get them to repent or preach & beg them to repent to them. He rebuked them in front of everyone and walked away. Look at 2 Timothy 3:1-9 and Titus 3 where it says, “Rebuke someone once, then a second time, then have NOTHING to do with them.” Notice it says nothing else....not run after them, beg them to change, nothing like that. And if God Himself says, “have nothing else to do with them” that’s exactly what He means. I was married to a Narcissist/ Sociopath for 17 years. Loving them more and more got me nothing but more and more abuse. These people will use you and abuse you until the day you decide you’ve had enough. Don’t walk...run from these type of people and don’t look back. And don’t wait 17 years to do it. These people don’t change and God Himself knew there were people like that & instructed us to stay away from them.
LORD PLEASE HELP ME AND MY HUSBAND IN OUR MARRIAGE LIFE..
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years. For the past months I just started to believe that I don’t love him anymore and I don’t know what to do. I know I want to save it but I don’t know if the love is truly gone I don’t know if it can come back.
Why don't you begin by prayerfully asking yourself why did your love leave in the first place.
I know that your post is from a year ago, so if I had to make a guess, I would guess that you and your boyfriend are no longer together, in less perhaps the two of you went through some type of unplanned radical change of life experience (such as pregnancy, or something of the like). But please update , as I would love to know what you finally decided to do, about the lack of feelings you had for your boyfriend, a year ago.
Please read up on the science behind the phrase, “love is blind” and the science behind “love. It will explain infatuation and how long it lasts, before stage 2 of the process of love begins (and when the blinders come off), and will also explain why those “blinders,” come off in a period of 18months to 2.5 years after you first began dating.
Kristal Joyner we broke up last Monday and were about to be 4 years we agreed that I just need a break
I have no confidence in the flesh! Lord help me get over offenses in Jesus name, Amen 💕
How can you love someone that has hurt you very much? My husband broke my heart and it literally aches. I believe in God and I don't believe in divorce but the betrayal is hurting me a lot. I'm angry and disappointed.
I'm sorry
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Togami Zen did he cheat or abuse you? If so divorce him!!!!!
Where on the bible says divorce is acceptable for adultery or abuse, God divorces you because you commit adultery putting other things first and not God, Jesus says unless for porneia, read hosea, thank you
How have you been doing , did god help you ?
I pray God wants to save our marriage
Yep.
If a wife wants out you can't stop her from leaving or divorce. I never wish to marry again it been 17 years. She is on marriage #2.
My husband said he gave up on me. 😭
I wish God would touch my wife, her heart is so cold towards me. I’m asking myself why should I stay in this loveless marriage 😢
I really believe my husband still loves me we've been married five years but he just doesn't want sex anymore I don't know what's wrong I'm here for him anytime he wanted or needs it he just doesn't seem to want it he kisses me and hugs me and does wonderful things for me but just doesn't seem to want sex anymore what can I do I love him very much
my husband left me again the 2nd time onto adultery. how with her now. God walked me through the first affair and he came back to me 3 1/2. yrs ago. Now he's with our old neighbor who chased him. I still love him. but I can't live with a verbally abusive man. God brake that spell on him. but heal both of us. I didn't do everything right either. I've been texting him saying I forgive him, them. Lord, open our hearts to do the right thing. give us a gift us a great marriage. 33 1/2 yrs. Don't let me fall in that whole. forgive me of my sins and hurts I did to him. she a Jezebel. block her from him. open his heart to you and hear your words. break this curse that's got him on bondages. let him see the wife of his youth. what you have joined together let know man separate. thank you God for hearing me and answering and bringing back the man you gave me. we where 19 & 20. I TRUST and have FAITH in you GOD!! Amen
for our family, our 3 boy's, our grandchildren. for us!!!! I still love him. you can heal us. don't let Him see her at all that way. PRAISE GOD!!
Tina Woodward
I'm heartsick from hearing your pain. I have figured out that my husband is a narcissist, mostly because of severe emotional abuse along with pathological lies. Affairs are abuse! Mine left me for a younger woman too, and you deserve better! God bless you and you are not alone.
That was so beautiful:)!!! What ended up happening ?
I pray that thins have worked out for you. I pray that God has brought you through this pain and that you have now found happiness. Can you update us please? Would love to know how you are doing?
Tink Boyce ; Misha Petrovich ; Judith Davis My ex ( a narcissists and she is too, I think) is still with that neighbor he left me for. She paid for the divorce, bought him a huge beautiful home in Alaska. Left me homeless for 3 weeks up there. But PRAISE GOD for Change Point Church and the wonderful people that are lead by the Holy Spirit. I moved back down in the same place as 2 of my boys and families.. my grandchildren are my world. But this has hit my family so hard. My sister who had mental illness committed suicide this last January 23, 2019.. Emotionally I’m a wreck. But this church in town Victory Life Church has a wonderful Lady who helps with women who have been through traumas. I know God is setting things up. My health is not good and emotionally all I can do is cry, financially broke. Narcissistic abuse is of the devil... anyone in a relationship like that. Get out ASAP. I fought for my marriage and know is off playing house with his new supply and her money. But I’m sure she has felt that sting from the wrath of evil he carries. She is not a Christian and has mocked God. Jesus saved me and is helping on healing me. I’m so grateful for the people who have entered my life and helped me walk through some of these trails. Jimmy Evans and Robert Morris the “Free Indeed “ series was so helpful with walking me through the most difficult experiences. We do not fight against flesh and blood, but principalities and spirits of this world. Just know HOW BIG OUR FATHER GOD IS AND JESUS IS THE ONLY WAY TO GET TO HIM.... I know my sweet little sister (she was 51) is with Jesus. She loved him so much. But mental illness is horrible (schizophrenic is even worse).. Jesus has mercy on those who are hurting, broken-hearted and the ill. I’m so grateful for Jesus love for us... I see myself married to Jesus. If I ever marry again, it will be Jesus who sets it up. . Jesus’s is my whole world. He saved me from living in that world of chaos. I am working on building my future and waiting for the Lords direction. I do know that my grown children have lost respect for their father and don’t like his new supply. They are heartbroken to have watched everything take place. All they had ever known was a loving family growing up... so this came as a complete shock to them as well. The worst part started after the kids moved out. So they did not see the verbal abuse along with everything that happened. He became a different man. Alcoholism was and is a big factor for that. I’m asking God to break those generational curses that has happened to us and his grandparents on his mother’s side of the family. Almost exactly... Satan has no new tricks, same old ones. He comes to kill steal and destroy. I pray the Lord hears my prayers and breaks these curses for my children and grandchildren and great grandchildren and so on.... No more, stops here. Never let go of Jesus 🙌🏼🙏🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼 know matter what.. He’s not letting go of you. 💜
This is an interesting real life example. It's funny how every time we hear one, we hear about what the husband had to give up and how bad a person he was, but we never hear about the wife's portion of what wasn't right. I'm sure there's a radical feminist just waiting to hammer her keyboard to rebuke me, but it would be a rare situation where blame were 100/0.
I have watched, and been to, many of these seminars and you are exactly correct. Interestingly they never address Ephesians 5:22-33. Men are supposed to lead and men should be the first to initiate the repair of a marriage, but women seem to be allowed to wrap their concept of love into their emotions, therefore they are allowed to withhold love until they "feel" love for the other person.
Yep! And I gave and gave and gave as a submissive Christian wife for DECADES fasting, praying, and giving, and all it did was it just feed the selfish monster!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I’ve been so severely verbally abused, and neglected for so long, I AM COMPLETELY BROKEN.
Keep your eyes on Jesus. I’ll pray for you 🙏🏼
awesome
Zero intimacy in my marriage, I don't want him touches me or anything. I'm to the point I just want to move on honestly. Help!!!!!
I pray my husband will see this 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Please can you subtitled or translate to spanish ,thanks
A pleasant day to you Mr. Jimmy and to all. I really need your help. I really want to save my marriage. but what should i do if i lost my husband's trust in me? even if all that he do is accuse me of cheating on him,me but God knows i don't cheat, i never cheated on him. we are living separately cuz i am here in the Philippines and he is in the U.S. cuz my visa is not processed yet. he is filing for divorce now. God knows i am living with my vows and promises to God and to him. i am not cheating on him. and this is what i am fighting for here. he is so self righteous and selfish. he doesn't care whatever happen to me. we just got married 3 months ago. please help me. please pray for me.
Have faith in God, and pray, pray everyday and read books, sermons and focus on your self and with God, God doesn't want divorce but he wants us to pray to him everyday. Good luck I'll be praying for you.
My husband is a narcissist, abusive, manipulator, and we have separated for my safety and the kids of safety and he has found another girlfriend within less than a month later. He will not commit himself to a job or a pastor or his family I don't know what else to do but move on!
What if their was not a lot of love in the first place from one partner and the other had total love and inlove with the not so much. Actually has trouble showing and giving love..
I think we need a relationship counsellor or something
Hi everyone. My wife fell out of love. She doesn't want to work on it. How do I get that person to fall in love with you
Nice... but I felt I was betrayed from the start. My wife is sweet and loving and has been from the day I met her. But she became more abrasive and uncompromising ever since we got engaged. She hit and physically intimidated me our first year of marriage. Love is patient and kind... she wasn't.
Any time I wanted to discuss it she became defensive. So... instead of fighting I withdrew. After a while I tried the passive aggressive approach... I denied her intimacy. Every time she whined I'd deny intimacy for another month. Years went by and I found myself feeling more and more distant. Eventually I developed a physical aversion to her.... the thought of kissing her makes me sick. I finally confessed to her and she could tell. It was saddening because I still love her but as a parter, parent to our child, and as a friend. But I don't want to look back and regret another 40 to 50 years. I've lived a lie for over 20... I'd best learn from my mistakes.
I’m not married yet
I wish my husband wanted to make my marriage work with me but he doesn’t. He really doesn’t. So I have no hope in anything changing. Only God can change this if He wants to.
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To be honest I don't want this marriage healed I don't know if God can fix probably not the way I feel
I live sin and evil free
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My husband's new loves are video games and MMA fights. He has an alarm.on.his phone to let him know when it's time to play.
Its clear women wear the pants in a relationship , if they are not in charge then the marriage won't work . *WOMEN HAVE TO GET WHAT THEY WANT*
It's not always like that
Please god please help me 💒💒💒😭😭😭😭please god
My husband is a cheater, I stood up with this man for all my life and now this man at 63 yrs old divorces me behind my back we have been married for 34 yrs and I know it's the devil but help me pray that God will bind Satan in the marriage that he may be planning, please,please.
SIMPLE...DAILY BREAD WITH GOD....BOTH HAVE TO PUT GOD FIRST!!! ITS NOT COMPLICATED!!!...........BUT IF PREACHERS DIDNT MAKE IT COMPLICATED THEY COULDNT BECOME AND CONTINUE TO BE MILLIONAIRES!!! JUST SAYING THE TRUTH!!!!!!!!
(THIS IS THE GOSPEL MESSAGE OF JESUS CHRIST) JESUS CHRIST DIED ON THE CROSS FOR OUR SINS AND HE WAS BURIED AND HE ROSE AGAIN ON THE THIRD DAY BY FAITH IN GOD'S SON THE LORD AND SAVIOR JESUS CHRIST AND JESUS CHRIST ALONE SALVATION SHALL BE YOURS AND ETERNAL LIFE WITH GOD IN HEAVEN SHALL AWAIT YOU WHEN YOU DIE THE BIBLE JOHN CHAPTER 3 VERSES 16 THROUGH 21 AS WELL AS 1ST CORINTHIANS CHAPTER 15 VERSES 1 THROUGH 5 THE BIBLE
It’s hard to stay in a marriage when your wife and 7 year old son treat you like dirt. Why stay where I’m not wanted?
Unless you can turn toward Jesus for your satisfaction and comfort, living in a loveless situation is impossible. If you read Ephesians 5:22-33 you will understand the responsibility God places on husbands shoulders. Add to that 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 and you will be able to identify your own inadequacies, that is how it effects me. God has given men the strength to fight through these situations, but only if we disconnect from our own self interests and focus on God's Spirit. Praying for you.
My thoughts are Satan free
Got nothing to do with the 1 years sexless marriage I have been trapped in.!
Why?
Quote: Satan has nothing new or nothing true
This makes too too too much sense. My wife says divorce is okay bc Christ died for our sins?????
MGTOW, Red Pill!!!
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