Nah, the gender confusion isn't the issue and I doubt it was even that. I know some NB people and they don't have these kind of notions. Hell, from what OP said it was closer to genderfluid than NB. I really think the kid got brainwashed by a psychopath.
So according to your theory every teenage pregnancy is because of gender confusion. As most teenage pregnancies occur in the bible belt, LGBTQ bashing states, you must be so unhappy to live alongside so many queer girls. She/they fucked up as all teenage girls do and they have to weather the consequences, not OP. I know a lot of non-binary and fluid people and they don't act like OP's child.
Nah, OP’s kid isn’t nonbinary, they’re genderfluid if anything but is also uninformed, that’s why they call themselves nonbinary. It’s the same with people saying they’re bi but only like people based on their personality and their sex and gender identity don’t influence their choice, which would be pan, or saying they’re bi but wouldn’t have sex with one of the genders (which means they’re either biromantic but homo/heterosexual, or one of those people who are just “testing” themselves, since there are people like that). It’s either OP’s kid is uninformed, settling for taking a term that’s not actually accurate to what they are, or (as much as I don’t like saying it because it gives a bad rep to people who are actually lgbt+) is doing it just for dramatics. Edit: considering some of the additional things OP’s kid was trying to get her to call them, I’m leaning towards them doing it for clout rather than actually being nonbinary/genderfluid Edit after watching the whole video: yes, OP’s daughter doesn’t sound like she’s actually lgbt+, she’s just an easily influenced delusional nutcase riding a high of believing she’s more important than she actually is.
As someone Agender who was AFAB pregnancy scares the absolute hell out of me. I mean the fact that I'm AroAce (sex repulsed) means it's really improbable, but still terrifying
Okay, first of all. Gender Fluid, Not Non-Binary. Second of all, Honestly the OP should just call it quits, I get it completely abandoning a child is aweful, but givin the state of things, if the OP leaves the door open even slightly, the cycle will just repeat, its pretty clear the daughter just wants their parent to simply use them for what they need and want, nothing more.
Yeah it was more gender fluid than nb. I know some nb people and they don't really switch pronouns. Where as the 2 genderfluid people I know do tend to switch depending on current "mood", but you don't need to ask them if you see them in real life. Their clothes usually give it away, one especially is easy to see the he/him mood as they wear flanel cargo shorts depending on the season.
Listen. My butt is nonbinary too, and I get it. Gender is hard for anyone. I use they/he pronouns and getting misgendered at work every dang day sucked butt, but I also recognize that no one did it out of malice. I just had to put up with it. Her gender identity isn't the issue at all, she's just using it as an excuse for all her poor decisions and entitlement.
Not people using this story as a ‘Gotcha’ moment to discriminate against people who identify as NB. As someone who has several friends who identify as NB they’re all stellar people. They work honest jobs, are kind, and loved by the most important people in their lives (family + friends). OP’s child in this story very obviously suffered from some mental health problems, I kinda got BPD vibes and some slight schizophrenia vibes which are both AWFUL to deal with undiagnosed + unmedicated.
This is a perfect example of why Father's are important. This mother raised a monster by playing into her delusions. She should have put her daughter into therapy as soon as she was confused about who she was.
as someone who is genderfluid, (Im only a few seconds in so sorry if i get something wrong!) OP's daughter saying they are male somedays and "non-binary" somedays, i can cnfirm as someone who is genderfluid and had a non-binary friend, they are definetly most likely non-binary lol-- non-binary is not having an exact gender, so feeling "male" or the other things some days is very likely genderfluid
the rare case where someone in the community really is confused 😂 nonbinary and genderfluid are not the same and the daughter irks me for thinking that. because they’re literally the opposite of each other. nb is not a trend or a defense mechanism and it sounds like that’s what’s happening here.
@@exalpergames90 sorry I was about to do chores when I was texting that should have been more clearer- they seem to be genderfluid yes, anyone can identify as whatever, so if they want to be identified as non-binary that’s fine! But they seem to fit more into being genderfluid lol
HOOOLYYYY HELL. This was BY FAR the craziest story I have ever heard. The sperm donor though.. Making orgasm noises and walking up to OP while mimicking you know what.. This is something that you'd see straight out of my shit-show personal crap writing project 😂
Holy crap that was wild. I feel bad for OP. It must be heartbreaking to see your child fall like that.
That girl is crazy
What gave it away
Man when you want to fit in so bad you join a cult😂
Sound real to me. The way the daughter shifts blame to everyone else and keeps changing gender depending on her mood.
The problems started with the gender confusion. Change my mind.
So you have no idea about puberty? Kids behave stupid since forever thanks to puberty.
Nah, the gender confusion isn't the issue and I doubt it was even that. I know some NB people and they don't have these kind of notions. Hell, from what OP said it was closer to genderfluid than NB. I really think the kid got brainwashed by a psychopath.
@@uwetheiss970 Puberty makes kids go crazy, but being confused about your own gender isn't one of them. It's a much deeper issue than that.
@@BleedingGrafittiagree
So according to your theory every teenage pregnancy is because of gender confusion. As most teenage pregnancies occur in the bible belt, LGBTQ bashing states, you must be so unhappy to live alongside so many queer girls. She/they fucked up as all teenage girls do and they have to weather the consequences, not OP. I know a lot of non-binary and fluid people and they don't act like OP's child.
As someone who is nonbinary, OP NEEDS TO RUN.
You need to grow up
Nah, OP’s kid isn’t nonbinary, they’re genderfluid if anything but is also uninformed, that’s why they call themselves nonbinary. It’s the same with people saying they’re bi but only like people based on their personality and their sex and gender identity don’t influence their choice, which would be pan, or saying they’re bi but wouldn’t have sex with one of the genders (which means they’re either biromantic but homo/heterosexual, or one of those people who are just “testing” themselves, since there are people like that). It’s either OP’s kid is uninformed, settling for taking a term that’s not actually accurate to what they are, or (as much as I don’t like saying it because it gives a bad rep to people who are actually lgbt+) is doing it just for dramatics.
Edit: considering some of the additional things OP’s kid was trying to get her to call them, I’m leaning towards them doing it for clout rather than actually being nonbinary/genderfluid
Edit after watching the whole video: yes, OP’s daughter doesn’t sound like she’s actually lgbt+, she’s just an easily influenced delusional nutcase riding a high of believing she’s more important than she actually is.
@@jaybird5218
You bring up a good point.
Yeah thats definitely a cult
Pretty sure I heard this one but I’ll listen to it anyways 😊
Fatherless behaviour
why noones said anything about how it d fuck up the kid beeing brought up as a sister to his mother?
Ok the crazier the story the more real it is
As someone Agender who was AFAB pregnancy scares the absolute hell out of me. I mean the fact that I'm AroAce (sex repulsed) means it's really improbable, but still terrifying
Okay, first of all. Gender Fluid, Not Non-Binary.
Second of all, Honestly the OP should just call it quits, I get it completely abandoning a child is aweful, but givin the state of things, if the OP leaves the door open even slightly, the cycle will just repeat, its pretty clear the daughter just wants their parent to simply use them for what they need and want, nothing more.
Yeah it was more gender fluid than nb. I know some nb people and they don't really switch pronouns. Where as the 2 genderfluid people I know do tend to switch depending on current "mood", but you don't need to ask them if you see them in real life. Their clothes usually give it away, one especially is easy to see the he/him mood as they wear flanel cargo shorts depending on the season.
They sound more Genderfluid than Non-Binary... 🤔
They sound more insane than anything.
@@bjj1132 oh, yeah, most definitely. Honestly. They need help, but they may be too far gone... 😰
Mane, she/her/they/them/ze/zhe/zer/zim/he/him need to go on somewhere
Listen. My butt is nonbinary too, and I get it. Gender is hard for anyone. I use they/he pronouns and getting misgendered at work every dang day sucked butt, but I also recognize that no one did it out of malice. I just had to put up with it. Her gender identity isn't the issue at all, she's just using it as an excuse for all her poor decisions and entitlement.
Ok, the line: my butt is nonbinary too, cracked me up. Like, just your butt, but not the rest of you. Made me chuckle.
@@svenhendrickx2783 I didn't even think of that before and now I'm cracking up with you lmao
Non-binary daughter?
Not people using this story as a ‘Gotcha’ moment to discriminate against people who identify as NB. As someone who has several friends who identify as NB they’re all stellar people. They work honest jobs, are kind, and loved by the most important people in their lives (family + friends). OP’s child in this story very obviously suffered from some mental health problems, I kinda got BPD vibes and some slight schizophrenia vibes which are both AWFUL to deal with undiagnosed + unmedicated.
This is a perfect example of why Father's are important. This mother raised a monster by playing into her delusions. She should have put her daughter into therapy as soon as she was confused about who she was.
That feels more like being genderfluid.
This feels like her daughter has a weak personality that was easily swayed by stronger ones (evidenced by the fact she ends up basically in a cult)
as someone who is genderfluid, (Im only a few seconds in so sorry if i get something wrong!) OP's daughter saying they are male somedays and "non-binary" somedays, i can cnfirm as someone who is genderfluid and had a non-binary friend, they are definetly most likely non-binary lol-- non-binary is not having an exact gender, so feeling "male" or the other things some days is very likely genderfluid
the rare case where someone in the community really is confused 😂 nonbinary and genderfluid are not the same and the daughter irks me for thinking that. because they’re literally the opposite of each other. nb is not a trend or a defense mechanism and it sounds like that’s what’s happening here.
@@junebugfun6697 so, wait, are you saying that they are genderfluid or that they’re not genderfluid?
@@exalpergames90 sorry I was about to do chores when I was texting that should have been more clearer- they seem to be genderfluid yes, anyone can identify as whatever, so if they want to be identified as non-binary that’s fine! But they seem to fit more into being genderfluid lol
HOOOLYYYY HELL. This was BY FAR the craziest story I have ever heard. The sperm donor though.. Making orgasm noises and walking up to OP while mimicking you know what.. This is something that you'd see straight out of my shit-show personal crap writing project 😂