You can listen to the full interview on episode 13 of our podcast, Urgency of Change: kfoundation.org/podcast, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you can listen to podcasts.
Same here. I have always tried to go deeper and deeper about this concept of love and realized this. And today I got a proper explanation on it from thia great perosn.
We tend to confuse love with affection. With a feeling when really it’s beyond feelings and actions and it’s a decision to accept the entirety of a human for all of its flaws and not requiring the person to love you in return. There is no selfishness. You can’t love another without loving yourself in this way: when you release your guilt and hatred and shame for who and what you are and you love yourself completely, the good and the bad, the success and failures and all and you realize you no longer need to forgive yourself because you are absolutely perfect in the beautiful mess that you are, you can begin to embrace all life in this way, all people in this way. True love in beyond romantic feelings. It’s beyond what it can give you or how it can make you feel. It’s cherishing and having compassion for the soul of you and the soul of another
@@MindlessTube (what is a dog?) but a word that the mind has given to a living creature. And with that label, “dog", also attaches an image of what your mind believes to be a dog. Whether from past experiences, good or bad that you have experienced with a dog, your mind will then begin to associate the word dog to the memories formed in your life. And bc Krishnamurti is attempting to point out to us that what the mind sees, think, etc., is often seen through layers and layers of our own memories, of how we view the world through our past experiences/traumas/memories, rather than being able to see the present for what is, factually and logically, without distortion. So it is not the actual meaning of the word associated the ‘dog’ that is his concern of defining, but rather an image, a memory... than what it actually is in the present-a living being, what we call ‘dog’. That’s what I grasped! He’s totally not dodging the question.
Everyone wants to feel wanted, needed and accepted and understood. Everyone wants a deep connection that we can trust in and feel comfort being ourselves. Love oneself and love easily comes towards you🤷♀️
What do you think Psychopaths though? It is said they aren't capable of empathy or love for non other than themselves. Doesn't than mean even if you love yourself, it doesn't mean you can love others?
@@Amor_fati.Memento_Mori but in a way, you answered your own question. Psychopaths *can't* love. They don't have the ability, and that includes loving themselves. Love and self-preservation are two different things (although they can coexist). So are love and arrogance (which cannot coexist, in my opinion). When you accept yourself as an imperfect being, you have now made yourself capable of accepting other imperfect beings, and so your capacity to love grows, not the opposite. This is what I think, anyway
Krishnamurti has been making me feel less like an idiot about my romantic failures. I haven’t dated in a long time, and he reminds me of how troublesome relationships can be, void of love. The people I’ve dated were just as bad at love as I was, even if it didn’t feel like it in the rejection. We all have a lot to learn. He reminds me spending time with my family and growing love where I can is a worthwhile endeavor, that I don’t need to chase partners. And he helps shine a light on those moments when I catch myself missing someone who isn’t in my life. I recently heard that one of them has maintained sobriety for a year and my heart filled up with so much pride and joy for them. I felt guilty, like I shouldn’t care about someone who isn’t in my life and doesn’t care about me. But Krishnamurti makes me feel less stupid about those moments as he makes me see it differently- we should never be ashamed of any good feeling we have toward anyone. It’s what the world needs more of. We just lose the mark when we let it turn into anger or jealousy or guilt. The truth is, I like that person exactly as they are. Why should that change on whether or not they are my partner? It doesn’t, and it shouldn’t. That’s love. It’s when I wanted them for myself that I missed the plot and created unnecessary pain for myself. I’m just really grateful for his talks at this point in my life. It’s allowing me to see things differently.
His words are not complex. His words are too simple for complex minds, especially in current generation of humanity. We are so caught into loving materials, ideologies etc., that humanity would do anything to secure it's beliefs (without solid evidence); even if it means of killing itself...
Yes. There is violence in love. As true as it is that we are made of love and capable of loving infinitely... so is also true that our bodies instinctively recognize fear. And we cannot will away our fears. And fear is the cause of violence.
@@nishakuttan2822 no siso there is no violence in love. If it exists there's no love. Always remember violence arises from ego and non fulfillment of selfiesh motives from another party. Whereas fear is just a low vibrational frequency which one should never live with. Our Indian upbringing has been in the way that our own parents used to frighten us if we didn't follow their orders. That's a result of failed parenting. That's why fear, certain form of domestic violence, verbal abuses by the closed ones seem very usual scenery to us. Because we were subjected to that in a manner that resulted in normalizing those violent norms. So a parent hitting their children doesn't seem a crime to us because our brain has accepted it as a normal practice but actually such people are criminals and even in India they're punishable under corporal punishment act. So our definition of what is obvious and normal is far away from the actual truth of happiness and idea of love. Hope my viewpoint will enlighten your thought process and help you to form a finer world for yourself and everyone around you with lots of true love 🤗☺️❤️
Thats true I had the experience of tremendous love whe i had jesus in my life The church somewhere loses the ground of this outstanding teaching of love
"Love is patient. Love is kind. Love does not put on graces!" - St Paul. As definitive as it is poetic. Krishnamurti's pronouncements are wonderfully Zen koan-ish. Outstanding guy!
“Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself. Love possess not nor would it be possessed; For love is sufficient onto love.” - Kahlil Gibran... For every think else, “love” is not. 🌻
U get the same pleasure when u listen Krishna Ji like a river flowing,a bird singing ,a child playing,moving clouds, immensity of sky, depth of sea and something more🔥,🙏
When you have mind then love stems from the ego. ...love can only be felt and can not be described on the level of the human mind. When you feel separate from the universe and self. You can never feel love or self love.... Amazing man he was.
I've had multiple opportunities to marry. I always passed, because I did not feel it would be a union I felt was in truth based on love. I understand why I felt that way, now.
Just wow. So deep his thoughts are. Through out my life I always tried to explain love to myself first , I always wanted to know and understand it more and in a more fine manner. Because of overthinking and going so deep, I got to know nobody actually understands love(though i believe there are still people who do) And so I really could not accept the kind of love people offered to me, rather I tried to give that love to people i believe in. And I have realized it shortly, because of this kind of love people want to have me in their life for no reason. Love is indivisible.
This is so beautiful. To be more loving without any ambition, without any division, than to look to be loved. God is love, so we must look to be filled with His love so we can GIVE the spirit of his love to others.
There is this thing that many interviewers do... this smirk on their face and interview like the only way it can be done is by making the person feel ridiculed... I feel like using a hammer on such interviewers to clear the energetic field 🔨 😊🙏🏼🤍🌈 lots of love and light 🌸
I never see this man satisfied and proud with his teaching the way I see so many ministers. It feels like excitement for the profoundness of the subject and of revelation of the subject, but it never feels like boasting when I see him speak.
Love is much closer to an idea of devotion, regardless of pain or pleasure, regardless of what someone does good or evil, it is beyond morality, it's devotion to other other other, which is really the only religion.
So if your partner cheats are you supposed to continue to love them? Isnt that a form of hurting the person being cheated on and if so thats violence for hurting them. How is this still considered love?
Yes, Krishnamurti asks the right questions. A pleasure to listen to this philosopher 🌹 Also, there is Thich Nhat Hanh who said: "To be loved means to be recognized as existing." 🌻 (In last half of interview with Oprah)
You may try it listening to twice or thrice, atleast that's what i did... the thing is we have become so complex that its hard for us to understand even the simplest concepts of life. It took me some time to understand exactly what he wanted to convey and its amazing!
I believe that to achieve this love with no limits there is the necessity to love those we consider as enemies. A mindset so difficult to embrace indeed
try to don't see or feel them as enemies, rather see them lost or in some way of suffer and focus in love yourself more... will be no longer a necessity...
Love is nothing but a reflection of our own psyche, its an aspiration of a person who validates our identity through emotions and affirmations, it's an attempt to fill the void and the innate desire to be fulffiled.
Does anyone know how to get this full interview? ✌️
You can listen to the full interview on episode 13 of our podcast, Urgency of Change: kfoundation.org/podcast, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you can listen to podcasts.
Krishnamurti Foundation Trust thank you so much ❤️
Love can not be born out of bizar bonds but one radical emotion !
@@kft thanks a lot for such brilliant videos ♥️♥️♥️😚😚😚
Very profound message 🙏🏿🙌🏿
"A mind that is frightened certainly cannot love" How I felt this one!!!
So true
True...
Hey! Can someone please give me an example that would play out the proposition made. Please 🙏
And perfect love casts out fear...
Same here. I have always tried to go deeper and deeper about this concept of love and realized this. And today I got a proper explanation on it from thia great perosn.
We tend to confuse love with affection. With a feeling when really it’s beyond feelings and actions and it’s a decision to accept the entirety of a human for all of its flaws and not requiring the person to love you in return. There is no selfishness. You can’t love another without loving yourself in this way: when you release your guilt and hatred and shame for who and what you are and you love yourself completely, the good and the bad, the success and failures and all and you realize you no longer need to forgive yourself because you are absolutely perfect in the beautiful mess that you are, you can begin to embrace all life in this way, all people in this way. True love in beyond romantic feelings. It’s beyond what it can give you or how it can make you feel. It’s cherishing and having compassion for the soul of you and the soul of another
So wonderfully explained thanks
Beautiful🧡
I agree and I love your name. I have experienced myself as a form of lilith before.
wow, thank you
And yet....there is no delineation of what Love....is. What does Love denotes? That....you have failed to answer. Lol.
I really love the way he could explain something by telling us what it is not instead of trying to find an exact answer. Genius
seems like dodging the question. What is a dog? well let me tell what a dog is not.... its not a building its not a cat.... u know the answer now?
@@MindlessTube It's not the dodging the question if the answer is beyond words, so it's just pointing even what he says is not it, it is now
@@MindlessTube what is a dog?
@@MindlessTube (what is a dog?) but a word that the mind has given to a living creature. And with that label, “dog", also attaches an image of what your mind believes to be a dog. Whether from past experiences, good or bad that you have experienced with a dog, your mind will then begin to associate the word dog to the memories formed in your life.
And bc Krishnamurti is attempting to point out to us that what the mind sees, think, etc., is often seen through layers and layers of our own memories, of how we view the world through our past experiences/traumas/memories, rather than being able to see the present for what is, factually and logically, without distortion. So it is not the actual meaning of the word associated the ‘dog’ that is his concern of defining, but rather an image, a memory... than what it actually is in the present-a living being, what we call ‘dog’.
That’s what I grasped! He’s totally not dodging the question.
It's something masters have used for millennia in India. I forget what it's called though. Some Sanskrit word.
Everyone wants to feel wanted, needed and accepted and understood. Everyone wants a deep connection that we can trust in and feel comfort being ourselves. Love oneself and love easily comes towards you🤷♀️
What do you think Psychopaths though? It is said they aren't capable of empathy or love for non other than themselves. Doesn't than mean even if you love yourself, it doesn't mean you can love others?
pretty sure thats not what he meant
@@Amor_fati.Memento_Mori but in a way, you answered your own question. Psychopaths *can't* love. They don't have the ability, and that includes loving themselves. Love and self-preservation are two different things (although they can coexist). So are love and arrogance (which cannot coexist, in my opinion). When you accept yourself as an imperfect being, you have now made yourself capable of accepting other imperfect beings, and so your capacity to love grows, not the opposite. This is what I think, anyway
Everyone wants to feel wanted needed and accepted that is equal to self centred. Love is more about giving than getting
I agree, what is sometimes considered " love " without consciousness is really control or soothing or addiction or obsession.
But what is consciusness without love? Doest that exist?
I really appreciate that the Greek language has several words describing the emotions that are lumped into one word in English.
Yes ❤
Krishnamurti has been making me feel less like an idiot about my romantic failures. I haven’t dated in a long time, and he reminds me of how troublesome relationships can be, void of love. The people I’ve dated were just as bad at love as I was, even if it didn’t feel like it in the rejection. We all have a lot to learn. He reminds me spending time with my family and growing love where I can is a worthwhile endeavor, that I don’t need to chase partners. And he helps shine a light on those moments when I catch myself missing someone who isn’t in my life. I recently heard that one of them has maintained sobriety for a year and my heart filled up with so much pride and joy for them. I felt guilty, like I shouldn’t care about someone who isn’t in my life and doesn’t care about me. But Krishnamurti makes me feel less stupid about those moments as he makes me see it differently- we should never be ashamed of any good feeling we have toward anyone. It’s what the world needs more of. We just lose the mark when we let it turn into anger or jealousy or guilt. The truth is, I like that person exactly as they are. Why should that change on whether or not they are my partner? It doesn’t, and it shouldn’t. That’s love. It’s when I wanted them for myself that I missed the plot and created unnecessary pain for myself.
I’m just really grateful for his talks at this point in my life. It’s allowing me to see things differently.
I agree with your interesting comment. People on first or second dates also wear masks. What is underneath shocks me. Best wishes from Scotland.
I love how passionate he is about the topic he's talking about that he's eyes almost brimmed with tears 💟
Eyes of someone who knew what love truly is and experienced it
His words are not complex. His words are too simple for complex minds, especially in current generation of humanity. We are so caught into loving materials, ideologies etc., that humanity would do anything to secure it's beliefs (without solid evidence); even if it means of killing itself...
Well said from ones own perspective of love👍
But what cani do if i donr believe anything?
What is most complex about the current generation of humanity?
"If there's any form of violence, can there be love?"
Obviously not
Yes. There is violence in love. As true as it is that we are made of love and capable of loving infinitely... so is also true that our bodies instinctively recognize fear. And we cannot will away our fears. And fear is the cause of violence.
@@nishakuttan2822 no siso there is no violence in love. If it exists there's no love. Always remember violence arises from ego and non fulfillment of selfiesh motives from another party. Whereas fear is just a low vibrational frequency which one should never live with. Our Indian upbringing has been in the way that our own parents used to frighten us if we didn't follow their orders. That's a result of failed parenting. That's why fear, certain form of domestic violence, verbal abuses by the closed ones seem very usual scenery to us. Because we were subjected to that in a manner that resulted in normalizing those violent norms. So a parent hitting their children doesn't seem a crime to us because our brain has accepted it as a normal practice but actually such people are criminals and even in India they're punishable under corporal punishment act. So our definition of what is obvious and normal is far away from the actual truth of happiness and idea of love. Hope my viewpoint will enlighten your thought process and help you to form a finer world for yourself and everyone around you with lots of true love 🤗☺️❤️
No
@@shubhidubido 💯
Love itself means the integration, unison... When u begin to feel others too as part of yourself, love starts from there
Thats true
I had the experience of tremendous love whe i had jesus in my life
The church somewhere loses the ground of this outstanding teaching of love
@@cherp5837Yes. Love becomes obscured by doctrine. In self-seeking spirituality, I try to avoid that trap. ❤
"Love is patient. Love is kind. Love does not put on graces!" - St Paul. As definitive as it is poetic. Krishnamurti's pronouncements are wonderfully Zen koan-ish. Outstanding guy!
@@joanna4237 love is state of being
Yes, I thought of Paul in 1st Corinthians.
“Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself. Love possess not nor would it be possessed; For love is sufficient onto love.” - Kahlil Gibran... For every think else, “love” is not. 🌻
Well said bro ☺️
Well said. He is way beyond time, ideology, concepts. And yet he was among us.
👌
“Goodness” is the state of non division. That got me.
U get the same pleasure when u listen Krishna Ji like a river flowing,a bird singing ,a child playing,moving clouds, immensity of sky, depth of sea and something more🔥,🙏
A mind that is temporarily frightened has a chance to find love permanently. As long as the temporary fright is overcome.
This man is so beautiful
He explains mysteries of life within the framework of 26 alphabets🐉
The level of consciousness that we are able to perceive is the level of love of awareness we can perceive
I wish, I could meet someone who think like him.
You could be that someone c:
You will get alot people
Just be one of them and you will make other like you
Go to talk to monks, or universety profesors of philosophy or artists
Than you have to start thinking like him. You attract what you are.
Look Inside
Goodness is the state of non division awesome speech
The only thing I know for sure, love is all there is.
Everything else was created by man's ego ❤🙏
This is a whole spirituality...Love means connected..not in thoughts but to feel the connection with every thing
When you have mind then love stems from the ego. ...love can only be felt and can not be described on the level of the human mind. When you feel separate from the universe and self. You can never feel love or self love.... Amazing man he was.
I've had multiple opportunities to marry. I always passed, because I did not feel it would be a union I felt was in truth based on love. I understand why I felt that way, now.
“Can there be love, if there is ambition?”
Such words of Beauty and truth......
Love is not something that you do, it is something you can become.
Preach
LIFE = Love Is For Everyone ❤️💚💙💙💛🤗🥰😍
I love how he answers back with questions...makes us try to think and come to the answer by ourselves instead of telling us what is right or wrong.
His voice is so clear in this video. ....He is of younger age than all his previous videos....Clear voice...Easy to understand..... More depth...
just a moment ago
i lost my every ounce of info on love
and now i m redefining it after just what i heard
lmao
Love is strongly related to conciousness. Lot of conciousness, lot of capacity to love.
Just wow. So deep his thoughts are. Through out my life I always tried to explain love to myself first , I always wanted to know and understand it more and in a more fine manner. Because of overthinking and going so deep, I got to know nobody actually understands love(though i believe there are still people who do) And so I really could not accept the kind of love people offered to me, rather I tried to give that love to people i believe in. And I have realized it shortly, because of this kind of love people want to have me in their life for no reason. Love is indivisible.
💯💯💯💯💯💯
Interesting comment ❤
This man had a powerful resonance 20 years ago and still 20 years later . One of the last true authentic people
Great definition and explanation of love. THANKS J.K.
Extraordinary way of understanding the concept of love. Love this explanation, manner of seeing.
I am so grateful for his wisdom.
Love is patient, caring. Love is kind. Love is kind.
True love is freedom ❤️
This is so beautiful. To be more loving without any ambition, without any division, than to look to be loved. God is love, so we must look to be filled with His love so we can GIVE the spirit of his love to others.
I agree ❤
Love isn't something we do... it's what we ARE. Trying to love makes it false!
There is this thing that many interviewers do... this smirk on their face and interview like the only way it can be done is by making the person feel ridiculed... I feel like using a hammer on such interviewers to clear the energetic field 🔨 😊🙏🏼🤍🌈 lots of love and light 🌸
he was bemused, he didn't fully understand what was being said. I don't believe he was intending to ridicule.
I never see this man satisfied and proud with his teaching the way I see so many ministers. It feels like excitement for the profoundness of the subject and of revelation of the subject, but it never feels like boasting when I see him speak.
How great this is
I have a strong feeling that Yoda was based on this guy. just pure wisdom
did the research it's wrong
Being a single parent has made me so anxious about my child's health, I lost my ability to love animals the way I loved them before.
Than you didn't really love them from the start. You can't unlove something that you claim you used to love.
"OH: Why is it we all so desperately want to be loved? K: Because we are desperately empty, lonely."
Love is much closer to an idea of devotion, regardless of pain or pleasure, regardless of what someone does good or evil, it is beyond morality, it's devotion to other other other, which is really the only religion.
well said and so true....love is unconditional, zero rules.
So if your partner cheats are you supposed to continue to love them? Isnt that a form of hurting the person being cheated on and if so thats violence for hurting them. How is this still considered love?
The best to ever speak it. Thanks.
Thank you for sharing 🙏
The best person in the world! Big respect for this interview👏 Big hello from Ukraine 🇺🇦
I admire his seasoned consciousness with no condition....maybe this is the Love I had sought to grasp a hold of ma whole Life
Great thoughts, admirable literally.
Mutual respect and understanding given to everyone- bar none- is love. Understanding IS love's other name. All else is ego.
Yes, Krishnamurti asks the right questions. A pleasure to listen to this philosopher 🌹 Also, there is Thich Nhat Hanh who said:
"To be loved means to be recognized as existing." 🌻
(In last half of interview with Oprah)
I love things that get you to think more - to ask and maybe even answer why.
I hope we can not make an opinion and just listen.
Definitely profound food for thought. Maybe there is no way to put love into words, hence, we are so confused and absorbed by it.
Damn 🤯 I ain't got nothing other than confusion
Same budd!!
You may try it listening to twice or thrice, atleast that's what i did... the thing is we have become so complex that its hard for us to understand even the simplest concepts of life.
It took me some time to understand exactly what he wanted to convey and its amazing!
Wow, amazingly beautiful how he described what love is not ❤
Krishnamurti Insinuates that love is rare and in short supply.
Thank you so much for making the interviews available! Is there a transcript of this?
So well put together
True love is putting all your wants and needs above your own, without even wanting to or trying to. Love is not a choice, you either do or you don't.
I learned much about myself from this 3 minutes and 24 seconds of video.
Finally I understood the meaning of Love
I believe that to achieve this love with no limits there is the necessity to love those we consider as enemies. A mindset so difficult to embrace indeed
try to don't see or feel them as enemies, rather see them lost or in some way of suffer
and focus in love yourself more...
will be no longer a necessity...
If you see someone like an enemy you are separated
"Indivisible with liberty and justice for all."
Proprio così! I verify and I understand that it is truth.
Thanks ❤❤
Love is nothing but a reflection of our own psyche, its an aspiration of a person who validates our identity through emotions and affirmations, it's an attempt to fill the void and the innate desire to be fulffiled.
It's really true that a frightened mind cannot love!!it's impossible to love.
Love is an entertainer, it has any stages. Self love is the first stage, after that everything is easy.
your books sir are very worth to love
How can love be ❤ I felt that deeply. Only a minority can..
He is right my ex was so jealous and it was because she was a narcissist not because she cared or loved me.
Beautiful message ❤
Be here and now 🙏
Beautiful!
I love and love AND loveeee morty and he is fabulous
Love has no pain💯
Best explanation
Iam not in love nor married. But i feel like iam surrounded by love.
I believe that in order to love ..you must accept the other person along with the differences
I love you , Wish you long life with Good Health Mentally & Physically till the end of time for all of us, Tc, Cheers👍🏼🥂, 👍😘💏💐🇱🇰🙏
Thank you sir for golden words
Goodness itself is indivisible
We need love to be alive. Without love, the emptiness will drive your existence.
It’s a coping mechanism, like everything else.
Or is it the most proeminent human emotion,and the most powerful,next to hatred,also connected to the spirit?
Mind can't love , it is the virtue of the heart of undivided person
True love is a loving of giving
Love is to make another happy!!!
another ego mind ?
Beautiful ❤️
♡ wish i woulda gotten the pleasure to meet him ♡
Thats the whole point you see wowww
Love is kind
It’s when your in the mind you can’t love at all. We don’t love with the mind.
Love is waking up at 2:00 AM to screams and squalls, so that you can change the diapers.
Love is a sense of belonging
So, correct me if I am wrong, in "Meditation", we Meditate on "Goodness", which is Love, for that is all there is.