Being kind and being loving is also telling people the truth specially when it pertains to God and his ways. We can't just live our lives anyway and however we want and expect a Holy God to forgive us. Real Christians judge and we are commanded by Jesus to judge righteous judgement not hypocritical ones. There's a reason we follow Jesus and we call ourselves Christ followers. It's because our end goal is to be like Jesus in character and deed not following every filthy ungodly unnatural desires our flesh tells us to do but yielding to God to help us with our issues and worldly fleshly temptations, period!
@@orestetorres4261 i had to disagree with you po we do not have the right to judge as well because we are sinners as well we respect and care for them in truth in the way of rebuking with love. You are not a true follower of Christ if you judge people as well do not forget that, "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God" - Romans 3:23. What to do? Love like Christ? How? Know more about Him be grounded with the Gospel...
Yeah, after all we only live once..fame amd glory may pass as we age, but the contentment and happiness from within madadala ntin whenever we go. I think jake is a very strong person.
@@piep.llorente2498 agree ako but we must know na kasalanan talaga sa mata ni God ang baguhin at pangunahan ang mga bagay na sya nag create kasi pinakialaman nya ang kagustuhan ng Dios na kung ano sya.nilalang syang babae pero pilit nyang ginawang lalaki ang katawan nya.I idolized charice eversince sobrang nadisappoint ako na naging jake na sya pero sabi nga we are only human Dios lng nakaka alam after all kung ano nagawa natin sa mundo habang tayo ay nabubuhay.Sana God will forgive us from our sins
Mental health is far more important than fame. I salute you for being brave despite of those anxiety/depression. We are proud of you at mabuhay ang mga LGBTQ+ Community❤️
What’s the difference? She left the world of celebrity and STILL has a mental illness. You think she is happy because she mutilated her body because people on the internet said they would support her? No. She has to still deal with the depression and dysmorphia and confusion that took her to the point of self mutilation. If you want to know REAL despair and depression, then look up transitioners who regret it. Sit there and listen to the stories of the hell that the mutilation process took them through, and how much they regret it.
Being an intelligent host, you have to be sensitive enough with your questions, the humor that you cannot learn from others but you can discover on your own, to provide questions with substance and to react with your guest naturally & most importantly to give advise & words of wisdom with conviction. And I think Miss Toni G have it all. 👏👏👏 She is truly one of the best!
Ndi ah .. still ktis aquino is the best talk sjow host ever and boy abunda nman sa male category.. no one will beat krissy.. sa kaprangkahan ng mga tanong
I'm struck by how confident and free Jake seems today. Contrast this to Charice, who seemed timid, shy, and quiet. What an incredible journey, struggle, and triumph he's been through. So glad Jake is living his truth and life.
It's very nice interview..now people understand that to be true to your self is more important..rather than continue to live a life that your not happy.salute you Jake cyrus
I will always support Jake! 💪 Great interview, huge wisdom coming from him. "If you don't understand me then maybe just be kind to me." So powerful! I Love from Poland❗ 🇵🇱
I’m just now seeing this interview with Jake and I’m so happy for him. I was a big fan of Charice and loved her voice! Hearing and understanding her struggles and fighting with herself to become who she really wanted to be is so touching and heartfelt. I’m so glad Jake is still with us and I look forward to hearing his music. God Bless Jake and I really love what you said that it doesn’t take any effort to be kind to others. We judge before we understand and I get it. Thank you for sharing your true feelings and letting us all get to know and understand who you really are. Best of luck in life and with your music. Take care❤️
LAW OF ATTRACTION: AKO AY MAKIKILALA DIN BILANG VLOGGER AT MARAMI RIN AKO NA MAPAPASAYA AT MA-INSPIRE NA MGA TAO. GOD BLESS PO SAYO SA NAG-BABASA NITO MAGIGING SUCCESSFUL KA❤️💙💛
I'm so proud. Charice achieved her dreams, Jake attained his happiness. Charice finished her legacy, it's Jake's turn to spend the rest of his life with a happy ending.
LAW OF ATTRACTION: AKO AY MAKIKILALA DIN BILANG VLOGGER AT MARAMI RIN AKO NA MAPAPASAYA AT MA-INSPIRE NA MGA TAO. GOD BLESS PO SAYO SA NAG-BABASA NITO MAGIGING SUCCESSFUL KA💙💛❤️
I am so very proud of you Jake for your growth in you, in your heart, in your life to become what your heart desires. It is a Blessing that your recognized what your heart told your year's ago. Yes, some times it takes years of pain to change what we hide to satisfy other's and not look inside to what our wants, needs or desires are. It takes work, and focus to accomplish what we want in our own world, no everyone else's. What a amazing transformation. Keep strong, stay happy and enjoy your life. God Bless you and your new life.
This was an excellent, insightful interview. Jake explained his transition so, so well. The interviewer was also wonderful. I'm really happy that he can be his authentic self.
Wonderful interview. Both Toni as the interviewer, as well as, Jake being able to articulate his journey so well. It definitely helped us to understand and appreciate him and what he has gone through.
All the while we all thought that his ego got big. I guess that was just his defense mechanism. I really felt bad for him. For all the judgmnt. But so proud that he was able to find peace and solace in his life now. God bless. Proud of u!
No it's not. Being kind only justify self fulfillment. It could be kind or good to your perspective but for someone it is Not. Because you can be kind and not doing the right thing at the same time. Right thing means - our obedience to our Creator. Self centeredness is a stronghold that needs to be broken, because it is not always all about us. Dying to ourselves and denying our own selfish desire is a daily battle (Mat 16:24-26). Let us cover ourselves with prayer. God bless. 💕
This is a very honest & raw revelation & interview of Jake, & respect to Toni for being such a good listener. You did not over talk Jake unlike many interviewers who do not have any substance with their questioning & not giving the opportunity for the guest to answer or tell their story. Being a good listener is as good as a good communicator ✅ Jake expressed so eloquently the struggles of people who are so mixed up & confused about their sexuality. I feel the pain & struggles you have to go through. I must say I’m proud of you for overcoming all the struggles. We, as a society should not be judgemental & condemn others, we don’t know their struggles in life. Everybody has a story to tell, good or bad. It’s all about acceptance & inclusion. Thanks both Jake for the candid interview & opening peoples narrow minds to acceptance, and thank you Toni as usual, your a good representation of a good host ❤️ That is one of the most powerful profound things to say “ if you don’t understand me, at least be kind to me”. Hope people will get it. If you don’t have anything nice to say, then say nothing. Be kind of yourself Jake, you are unique, talented & be proud. I don’t know you but I’m proud of you 🙏
Dito ko rin na intindihan talaga na lahat ng tao dapat nirirespito at ginagalang dahil hindi natin alam ang pinagdadaanan nila😊 Enjoy what you are now Jake we are proud of you
Toni is in a league of her own. Kris and Boy Abunda can’t even... she interviews people and let them tell their story. Never making it about herself. Love it! Love her!
You know Jake, i feel the heaviness in your heart. The pressures to do what you have & need to do for the sake of family, friends, commitment, people's opinion, the battle against your own will...it's difficult, it's not normal, it overwhelming...but you know what, don't bother people's opinion, that's their opinion, it's just the people's reaction, you can't please anyone...but then at the end of the day IT'S YOUR OWN LIFE, YOUR FREE WILL & YOUR HAPPINESS THAT MATTERS THE MOST"...it's your own life man. Life must go on.... No one can't stop you... And God Bless you Jake Zyrus❤ Thank you Toni for bringing up this kind of life's story that inspires people and to better UNDERSTAND....NOT to judge anyone ❤🙏
Awww…I hope Jake is at peace and happier now. Whenever I hear him sing as Jake, I can feel the confidence shine and it makes the song better because he is able to express himself better.
Jake is indeed a really strong person. Charice was a big star International and nationally and everyone love Charice, Imagine how hard it is for her to introduce Jake to the world full of judgements and expectations. He chose his happiness over everything that Charice has. A brave person, he is.
Jake exudes contentment, genuine happiness, and grounded principles. I am so proud of how he turned out. Iba lang talaga ang interview nya ngayon, parang mas confident na sya at alam na nya talaga who he really is and what he truly wants. I am an avid supporter ever since then. Thank you for the inspiration, Jake Zyrus ❤️
I was his fan since he came out the Star king show from Korea, i just admired him and his voice and songs made me think like there"s noone else in the world who can sing like him. I was deeply worried when I saw his interview crying, and telling that he was a Lesibian, bcs she looked so sad. I prayed her to be happy and i was so upset bcs I knew the voice of the haters seema to be louder than the voice and heart who really cared about him.. when there is an issue with the star"s personal life, i prayed him to overcome and find his life!!i watched this interview smiling at what he is truely are now!!though he still saying there are people who are not kind, always remember there are so many people in this world love you!! It is so sad i couldnt go his concert when he came to korea bcs I was stuck in my highschool.. one day when you come korea please please sing for us! You will share your music next at least 50 years hehe..and I will be there bcs I am around your age should go listen his songs...Btw It is just a language, dividing HE or SHE, in Korean we dont have that. We just refer somebody as someone"s name or other sub subject. You were always the same person as who you are and beautiful❤️❤️
Aanhin ung Bible verses if not everybody is religious? Spread the "truth?" what are you God's attorney? If God is a really good father to all he would see what is truly in the hearts and minds of those who perish and not base his judgements on a book? Literally why would an all powerful God limit his judgment in the Bible? Why would he use the Bible to spread what he wants to say only to be used to hurt others? God's judgment and words should be his alone! Doesn't that make sense to you? Our morals is something we improve as we experience things as we grow older and that is through human hands despite laws being based on a Bible.
@@ilyrics2775 Isipin mo nalang gaya ng ibang pagsisinungaling na mas mabuting di mo nalang sabihin para di ka makasakit and ifilter nalang yung sasabihin mo para maging kind pa rin ang kalalabasan. It not only makes you feel better but also the people around you. However, this doesn't apply to every situation.
@@babyranz79 "RIGHT THING" whatever that means...is subjective.. Whats right for you, for him, whatever.. It would be best to just go about your own day and mind your own business.
It's great that you came out and that takes a lot of courage. You can change your looks and all but part of me wishes that you kept your voice. That was your bread and butter. Sayang lang talaga to be honest. Continuous pa rin sana ang gigs mo internationally regardless of the physical change kasi your voice was truly a gift. It was magnanimous. I wish you happiness Jake, now and in the future. Treasure the life that you have ❤️. Still here to support you.
I was one of the many people who said "Sayang" when u first came out Jake, I was such a big fan yours back then, that's why I said it. Now that I heard your side, I'm now enlighten and understand you.From the bottom of my heart, I AM SO SORRY.😭🙏❤
I always felt bad for Jake especially when most of the people here in the Philippines were making fun of him just because he's being true to himself. It's sad to see how many people are still close minded up to these days. They preach about their religion and stuff but can't demonstrate some kindness towards other person. Always be happy, Jake! Proud of you.
No matter who you are right now, I sincerely appreciate and give my warmest thanks to you and your world class talent that gave our country so muchc pride and honor. ❤️
@@philopinas bakit may issue ka ba?! Mahirap bang maging kind?! You're the one wasting your time here. I highlighted Jake's statement and put my own opinion after. Is that hard to understand?!
As a foreigner and a fan of both Charise & Jake, i have had many of his same feelings he has experienced. In my own coming out, the biggest obstacle for me was “what are people going to think of me now?” I took 6 months for me to be comfortable with myself. I’m now proud to be gay!! I very open now!! I’m thrilled that he continues to be successful with his life, his amazing music and his happiness!! Masaya na ako para sa kanya at masaya ako para sa akin!! I truly enjoyed this interview Toni!!
Be Happy and do what you Love Jake, I really salute you for being so brave on showing your true self despite of so many hatred and bashers. God Bless you.
Sharing the WORD of God is not only being kind but show the true love from Christ Jesus. God wants us to love our neighbors, sharing them the truth is helping and loving them. Sharing them the truth is giving them eternal life... And God says, Do you not know that the unrighteous cannot inherit the kingdom of God? Do not deceived neither sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor men who practice homosexuality... 1 Cor. 6:9
@@lorsliciouscookingvlogs7283 when our Lord found the temple polluted by money changers and beasts, did he ask them to leave? did he cry? or did he simply walk away? no. He drove them out.
When Jake was talking about his transition, his face lit up. You can tell how happy that made him. That's how most LGBTQ feels like when they finally accept themselves. Some people will never understand but that's how it truly is with us. The best feeling talaga.
When he came out as trans, I was apprehensive to accept because I really did love Charice. I was pretty much indifferent to it but I didn't fully understand the concept of being trans. Even when I was in my anti-sjw phase, I thought the waves of hate sent his way were so uncalled for. He really didn't deserve any of that. I'm really glad that he keeps his head up despite everything. Jake, you are an inspiration and I wish you only the best moving forwards. I am so sorry for the insurmountable amount of backlash you recieved back then. You truly deserved better
And God Jesus fixed everything and God never stop working on Jake.. GOD FULL FILLED THE EMPTINESS AMAZING TLGA SI GOD I AM HAPPY AND BLESSED NA MAPANUOD ITO 🙏😊
Muchas gracias por compartirnos su historia...siempre fui una fiel seguidora de Charice y me alegró mucho saber que finalmente pudo ser fiel a si mismo. Te amamos Jake!
Toni should have a morning talk show like this. Masarap na may inspiring stories every morning na gaya nito. Yung mga questions mo sa utak, natatanong ni Toni. Good job sa buong ToniTalks team
I clearly remember the time when me and Jake competed in an amateur singing contest in Laguna, she won the title and I ended up 2nd runner up, that time she was 10 years old, while me is 7 sobrang proud ako dahil once in our lives, we used to compete with each other ❤️❤️❤️ hoping that I will also be a successful singer someday
Stay happy and be blessed jake we love u of who u are either charice or jake❤ toni always knows how to ask and deliver her question and understands people heart❤❤❤
My mom watched this, and she voice messaged me telling me she understands me now and she started comforting me about all my suicidal thoughts and stuff. I've never felt so happy and loved as well accepted all in one. I thank him for changing my mothers mind about me. It was so nice to hear the words "I'll be the parent to accept u in whatever person u think u are, I understand now, just no more being so sad now ok?"
yes its because of the hardness of the heart and the unconditional love of a mother that's why but be aware that everything we do will have its consequence on judgement day, God bless
"If you don't understand me, just be kind to me." Para toh sa mga taong insensitive at kung ano ano sinasabi sa kanya noon. Mas nakakatulong pa kayo kung tatahimik nalang kayo dahil hindi nyo alam struggles nung tao. Ang alam nyo lang makealam ng buhay ng may buhay.
Tony Talks is a good platform for those artists who have been judged by so many people. it become an instrument for those who had no chance to speak up and be listened to, from Baron, Kuya Jobert, and now Jake. we love your show, Tony. God Bless.
Kababata ko siya sa Laguna. Sobrang mabait, soft spoken, at super dedicated sa singing. Halos hindi nga pinapayagan lumabas kasi need ng rest at mag-prep lagi para sa contest. Edit: Ngayon happy na siya sa buhay niya.* Beautiful interview as always Toni.
“WE ALL HAVE DIFFERENT RELIGIONS, BELIEFS IN OUR LIVES, OPINIONS. BUT TO ME, IF YOU DON’T UNDERSTAND ME, THEN MAYBE JUST BE KIND TO ME” - JAKE ZYRUS 💯♥️
sya na nagsabi, he do not understand himself, he became suicidal, so perhaps he has not find his real self yet now that he is falling fast flat to the ground
@@chillyadanib3134 Dahil sa mga paniniwala niyo nawawala na RESPETO niyo. Yan ang nakakabwisit sa mga relihiyoso! Di marunong rumespeto sa desisyon at paniniwala ng ibang tao!
You are one of the best TONI! watching your interviews from Winnipeg Manitoba, CANADA 🇨🇦 MY BIG SALUTE TO YOU FOR. BEING THE BEST INTERVIEWER ! I also praise BOY ABUNDA... to let him know ❤️
A fan from since then you’ve discovered and by then with that kind of change you’re just being who you are with what you believe on having true to yourself in terms of all the things you were comfortable to lived in☺️🙌 Saludo ako sa iyong tapang Mr. Jake Zyrus.
Toni, you are the greatest! Jake we are very proud of you. I learned something new today: If you don't understand me , just be kind to me. God Bless you, Jake and Toni.
"if you dont understand me, then maybe just be kind to me" Naalala ko linya ni Vilma sa Anak. "Kung di mo ko kayang respetuhin bilang ina mo, respetuhin mo na lang ako bilang tao. Yun man lang Carla, Yun man lang".
Yah.. She does not consider herself better over the others.. She considers herself as imperfect as all we are.. Her being a Christian guides her to be more understanding, open minded and an instrument to show the reality of life.. That we all have different battles inside thats why we shld be more kind rather to judge... We dont walk on the same shoes... Only God cn see us inside...
Because of this Episode, I discovered that Toni Gonzaga or Gonzaga's is an active member of the United Methodist Church who supports LGBTQ+ community...
Yup, naalala ko tuloy yung nang bully sakin, obvious na hindi masaya sa buhay, sa tuwing nakikita ako nung masaya parang pinagsakluban sya ng langit at lupa hahaha
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"If you don't understand me, then maybe just be kind to me" - Jake.
Be kind everyone.
This made me sad. That we really end up in a society where we ask people to be kind... sometimes not just ask, but even beg. It's sad. 😑
shut up, you and i know that you judge anyone for their appearance as well, and you and i know never once have you been kind to a stranger.
bkt aso k b para magng KIND SAU
Being kind and being loving is also telling people the truth specially when it pertains to God and his ways. We can't just live our lives anyway and however we want and expect a Holy God to forgive us. Real Christians judge and we are commanded by Jesus to judge righteous judgement not hypocritical ones. There's a reason we follow Jesus and we call ourselves Christ followers. It's because our end goal is to be like Jesus in character and deed not following every filthy ungodly unnatural desires our flesh tells us to do but yielding to God to help us with our issues and worldly fleshly temptations, period!
@@orestetorres4261 i had to disagree with you po we do not have the right to judge as well because we are sinners as well we respect and care for them in truth in the way of rebuking with love. You are not a true follower of Christ if you judge people as well do not forget that, "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God" - Romans 3:23. What to do? Love like Christ? How? Know more about Him be grounded with the Gospel...
Pinili nya yung alam nya sa sarili nyang ikakasaya nya kesa sa fame and that's the best thing na ma gagawa natin sa sarili natin.
God still love you Charise.
Yeah, after all we only live once..fame amd glory may pass as we age, but the contentment and happiness from within madadala ntin whenever we go. I think jake is a very strong person.
totally agree
@@piep.llorente2498 agree ako but we must know na kasalanan talaga sa mata ni God ang baguhin at pangunahan ang mga bagay na sya nag create kasi pinakialaman nya ang kagustuhan ng Dios na kung ano sya.nilalang syang babae pero pilit nyang ginawang lalaki ang katawan nya.I idolized charice eversince sobrang nadisappoint ako na naging jake na sya pero sabi nga we are only human Dios lng nakaka alam after all kung ano nagawa natin sa mundo habang tayo ay nabubuhay.Sana God will forgive us from our sins
@@jjjossie3508 homophobic🤣
Mental health is far more important than fame. I salute you for being brave despite of those anxiety/depression. We are proud of you at mabuhay ang mga LGBTQ+ Community❤️
Thanks for sharing your experience,maybe U have help someone 🙏🙏🙏😘😅 Good Luck
What’s the difference? She left the world of celebrity and STILL has a mental illness. You think she is happy because she mutilated her body because people on the internet said they would support her? No. She has to still deal with the depression and dysmorphia and confusion that took her to the point of self mutilation.
If you want to know REAL despair and depression, then look up transitioners who regret it. Sit there and listen to the stories of the hell that the mutilation process took them through, and how much they regret it.
What? Proud to be SINFUL? Insanity indeed! READ the SCRIPTURES and REPENT !
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Being an intelligent host, you have to be sensitive enough with your questions, the humor that you cannot learn from others but you can discover on your own, to provide questions with substance and to react with your guest naturally & most importantly to give advise & words of wisdom with conviction. And I think Miss Toni G have it all. 👏👏👏
She is truly one of the best!
Proud of you Jake Zyrus. That was inspiring. Stay strong and safe! 💪🏻🙏🏻💛
Im surprise Lods Ovela ( spelling is right?) you're also watching in Toni G's vlog.😊 you're really one of us.👍🏼
Magandang Umaga, Ovela ❤️
Hi ovelaaa
Hi Ovela!
Ovelaaa! 👌 Thanks for supporting Toni Talks and Pinoy artists. Maraming salamat!
Toni is indeed the best female talk show host ever in the Philippines. She's so sincere and sensitive in asking her guest. Super Galing!
Grabe noh, hit na hit nya yung forte nya! One of the great hosts in the Philippines! 😍
Agree!
Absolutely true
Ndi ah .. still ktis aquino is the best talk sjow host ever and boy abunda nman sa male category.. no one will beat krissy.. sa kaprangkahan ng mga tanong
Marami nmn like Boy Abunda for me he’s one !
I learned : “No material things will make you fully happy but being true to yourself does”
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I'm struck by how confident and free Jake seems today. Contrast this to Charice, who seemed timid, shy, and quiet. What an incredible journey, struggle, and triumph he's been through. So glad Jake is living his truth and life.
I was so touched with Jake saying “if you don’t understand me, just be kind to me.” You earned my respect Jake! Love and light to you! 😘
6 to 5gggggg
You will be Charice forever to us
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It's very nice interview..now people understand that to be true to your self is more important..rather than continue to live a life that your not happy.salute you Jake cyrus
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I will always support Jake! 💪 Great interview, huge wisdom coming from him. "If you don't understand me then maybe just be kind to me." So powerful! I Love from Poland❗ 🇵🇱
Hi coach ❤️❤️
Hi Yazik. Thank you for always supporting my idol charice ..❤️
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Aww Yazik 💛
Hello sir yazik yes we popsters also love Charice
Proud of you always Jake.
I admire Toni for making all her guests so comfortably able to share their inner self, napakatalino.
"If you don't understand me, maybe just be kind to me." - Jake Zyrus, 2021 ❤️
Yeah.. Teary eye on this phrase.. Love you jake!
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Okay 👌
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I like what he said, ""If you don't understand me, just be kind to me."
Tama.
Exactly!
A basic respect to any being.
I just can't stop being moved by ate Toni's closing statements; what a motivation. 💗
I’m just now seeing this interview with Jake and I’m so happy for him. I was a big fan of Charice and loved her voice! Hearing and understanding her struggles and fighting with herself to become who she really wanted to be is so touching and heartfelt. I’m so glad Jake is still with us and I look forward to hearing his music. God Bless Jake and I really love what you said that it doesn’t take any effort to be kind to others. We judge before we understand and I get it. Thank you for sharing your true feelings and letting us all get to know and understand who you really are. Best of luck in life and with your music. Take care❤️
“If you don’t understand me, then maybe just be kind to me.” -Jake Zyrus
Point well taken. Stop judging also.
That was the most insightful part of the episode
This hit hard. Still be human❤
Yah, agree
LAW OF ATTRACTION: AKO AY MAKIKILALA DIN BILANG VLOGGER AT MARAMI RIN AKO NA MAPAPASAYA AT MA-INSPIRE NA MGA TAO. GOD BLESS PO SAYO SA NAG-BABASA NITO MAGIGING SUCCESSFUL KA❤️💙💛
I'm so proud. Charice achieved her dreams, Jake attained his happiness.
Charice finished her legacy, it's Jake's turn to spend the rest of his life with a happy ending.
LAW OF ATTRACTION: AKO AY MAKIKILALA DIN BILANG VLOGGER AT MARAMI RIN AKO NA MAPAPASAYA AT MA-INSPIRE NA MGA TAO. GOD BLESS PO SAYO SA NAG-BABASA NITO MAGIGING SUCCESSFUL KA💙💛❤️
Gusto ko to "Charice achieved her dreams, Jake attained his happiness. "
@@JRLanto .
I am so very proud of you Jake for your growth in you, in your heart, in your life to become what your heart desires. It is a Blessing that your recognized what your heart told your year's ago. Yes, some times it takes years of pain to change what we hide to satisfy other's and not look inside to what our wants, needs or desires are. It takes work, and focus to accomplish what we want in our own world, no everyone else's. What a amazing transformation. Keep strong, stay happy and enjoy your life. God Bless you and your new life.
This was an excellent, insightful interview. Jake explained his transition so, so well. The interviewer was also wonderful. I'm really happy that he can be his authentic self.
“If you don’t understand me, then maybe just be kind to me.” I’m crying right now imagining Jake’s battle way back then.
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Hug to hug🥺
@@kuyakulot147 SAMPAL ANG DAPAT AT TADYAK
kaya nga eh grabe kinain ako ng kunsensya ko..isa ako sa mga nang bash dito haaay im so sorry jake :( d ko talaga alam dapakang sama k..
@@lignagisad7229 I see you are very well educated.
Toni Talks is one of the Best contents here in TH-cam. She uses here platform well. ❤️
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Totoo yan!! 😍😍😍
Indeed ❤❤
Wonderful interview. Both Toni as the interviewer, as well as, Jake being able to articulate his journey so well. It definitely helped us to understand and appreciate him and what he has gone through.
I agree. I'm sad it took me 2 years to find this video.
All the while we all thought that his ego got big. I guess that was just his defense mechanism. I really felt bad for him. For all the judgmnt. But so proud that he was able to find peace and solace in his life now. God bless. Proud of u!
“Sometimes it’s more important to be kind than to be right” - Toni G.
No it's not. Being kind only justify self fulfillment. It could be kind or good to your perspective but for someone it is Not. Because you can be kind and not doing the right thing at the same time. Right thing means - our obedience to our Creator. Self centeredness is a stronghold that needs to be broken, because it is not always all about us. Dying to ourselves and denying our own selfish desire is a daily battle (Mat 16:24-26). Let us cover ourselves with prayer. God bless. 💕
@@hannahsavedbygrace1122 tama!
@@hannahsavedbygrace1122 Mga comments na ganito hinahanap ko. Thank you for your comment.
"If you don't understand, just be kind to me."
Louder...
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Louder lyrics and the video is 19million views and more in the future.
I wish you more blessings Jake Zyruz.. Thank you Toni for.this.interview. God bless you too Toni
This is a very honest & raw revelation & interview of Jake, & respect to Toni for being such a good listener. You did not over talk Jake unlike many interviewers who do not have any substance with their questioning & not giving the opportunity for the guest to answer or tell their story. Being a good listener is as good as a good communicator ✅
Jake expressed so eloquently the struggles of people who are so mixed up & confused about their sexuality. I feel the pain & struggles you have to go through. I must say I’m proud of you for overcoming all the struggles.
We, as a society should not be judgemental & condemn others, we don’t know their struggles in life. Everybody has a story to tell, good or bad. It’s all about acceptance & inclusion. Thanks both Jake for the candid interview & opening peoples narrow minds to acceptance, and thank you Toni as usual, your a good representation of a good host ❤️
That is one of the most powerful profound things to say “ if you don’t understand me, at least be kind to me”. Hope people will get it. If you don’t have anything nice to say, then say nothing.
Be kind of yourself Jake, you are unique, talented & be proud. I don’t know you but I’m proud of you 🙏
“Even if you dont understand me, just be kind to me.” Im so proud of Jake!!!
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Dito ko rin na intindihan talaga na lahat ng tao dapat nirirespito at ginagalang dahil hindi natin alam ang pinagdadaanan nila😊 Enjoy what you are now Jake we are proud of you
Very remarkable and full of wisdom.
Toni is in a league of her own. Kris and Boy Abunda can’t even... she interviews people and let them tell their story. Never making it about herself. Love it! Love her!
Perhaps we can stop comparing and be more appreciative. No 2 people are the same. 😊
Oh my...it says be kind...duh!
You know Jake, i feel the heaviness in your heart. The pressures to do what you have & need to do for the sake of family, friends, commitment, people's opinion, the battle against your own will...it's difficult, it's not normal, it overwhelming...but you know what, don't bother people's opinion, that's their opinion, it's just the people's reaction, you can't please anyone...but then at the end of the day IT'S YOUR OWN LIFE, YOUR FREE WILL & YOUR HAPPINESS THAT MATTERS THE MOST"...it's your own life man.
Life must go on....
No one can't stop you...
And God Bless you Jake Zyrus❤
Thank you Toni for bringing up this kind of life's story that inspires people and to better UNDERSTAND....NOT to judge anyone ❤🙏
Awww…I hope Jake is at peace and happier now. Whenever I hear him sing as Jake, I can feel the confidence shine and it makes the song better because he is able to express himself better.
Let’s take a moment and appreciate how Toni interviews those who are usually cyber bullied. Giving them the chance to be respected.
I love u jake, im here praying for u ,u come back
Jake is indeed a really strong person. Charice was a big star International and nationally and everyone love Charice, Imagine how hard it is for her to introduce Jake to the world full of judgements and expectations. He chose his happiness over everything that Charice has. A brave person, he is.
Jake exudes contentment, genuine happiness, and grounded principles. I am so proud of how he turned out. Iba lang talaga ang interview nya ngayon, parang mas confident na sya at alam na nya talaga who he really is and what he truly wants. I am an avid supporter ever since then. Thank you for the inspiration, Jake Zyrus ❤️
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I was his fan since he came out the Star king show from Korea, i just admired him and his voice and songs made me think like there"s noone else in the world who can sing like him. I was deeply worried when I saw his interview crying, and telling that he was a Lesibian, bcs she looked so sad. I prayed her to be happy and i was so upset bcs I knew the voice of the haters seema to be louder than the voice and heart who really cared about him.. when there is an issue with the star"s personal life, i prayed him to overcome and find his life!!i watched this interview smiling at what he is truely are now!!though he still saying there are people who are not kind, always remember there are so many people in this world love you!!
It is so sad i couldnt go his concert when he came to korea bcs I was stuck in my highschool.. one day when you come korea please please sing for us! You will share your music next at least 50 years hehe..and I will be there bcs I am around your age should go listen his songs...Btw It is just a language, dividing HE or SHE, in Korean we dont have that. We just refer somebody as someone"s name or other sub subject. You were always the same person as who you are and beautiful❤️❤️
Toni always respect her guest.. She’s always putting her self into the shoes of the person she interviewed. Bravo!!!
Aanhin ung Bible verses if not everybody is religious? Spread the "truth?" what are you God's attorney? If God is a really good father to all he would see what is truly in the hearts and minds of those who perish and not base his judgements on a book? Literally why would an all powerful God limit his judgment in the Bible? Why would he use the Bible to spread what he wants to say only to be used to hurt others? God's judgment and words should be his alone! Doesn't that make sense to you?
Our morals is something we improve as we experience things as we grow older and that is through human hands despite laws being based on a Bible.
@@sujinkang6678 Faxxxttzzz💅💅💅
"For you to be fixed, you must be broken. " - Toni
This speaks volume.
Not all broken can fixed.
@@juliusceazarclaveria4149 but that wasnt the thought of what she said.
@@juliusceazarclaveria4149 paano ka mabubuo kung buo ka naman? logic
@@monya0081 exactly. 😊
Dami mong alam
Oh no I’m so touched of his struggles. I’m so glad you fight for it and come out to your true self. God bless Jake.
Thank you 🙏 Jake for sharing and Toni very inspiring,
Happy Pride, Jake! Mighty proud of you since the beginning ♥️ Thank you for sharing us more of your life now 🌈 Truly inspiring ✨
Hi lods sa luv u gangsters
Hi Rhap! Fanny mo rin ako. Happy Pride! 💕
Hi Lods! ❤️
Happy Pride Month po 💞 Stay safe mga straight allies and queer people dyan.
Happy Pride month...bestfriend kau noon kabataan nyu rhap at Jake
When ate Toni said "Sometimes it's more important to be kind than to be right" it hits different🧡✨
?? how can you be 'kind' if you don't do what's right? KIND itself is RIGHT.. could you imagine it as negative? no! .. false quote
The wrong kindness doesn't mean anything. To do the right thing it ( even it means hurting) means everything. Just saying!
@@ilyrics2775 Isipin mo nalang gaya ng ibang pagsisinungaling na mas mabuting di mo nalang sabihin para di ka makasakit and ifilter nalang yung sasabihin mo para maging kind pa rin ang kalalabasan. It not only makes you feel better but also the people around you. However, this doesn't apply to every situation.
When you're kind, being righteous follows. But not all righteous people are kind. :")
@@babyranz79 "RIGHT THING" whatever that means...is subjective..
Whats right for you, for him, whatever..
It would be best to just go about your own day and mind your own business.
Go lang ng go Jake Zyrus! Great to see you here in Toni Talks , Bagay na bagay sayo ang aura mo ngayon. We are enlightened hearing your story
This interview made me cry... I Love Toni, she is really a great host, and I love Jake...
"if you don't understand me, just be kind to me." hits really hard
Wow
Parang paos ung boses..lalaki na ba sya..hehe
I love zake jyrus
and a lot of the comments can't even do that.
Love you jake.. you're still my favorite❤️
Charice or Jake Zyrus. I will still support you. Lodicakes Jake. 💯
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Yeahh
Salamt sa accept sa LGBT sr
It's great that you came out and that takes a lot of courage. You can change your looks and all but part of me wishes that you kept your voice. That was your bread and butter. Sayang lang talaga to be honest. Continuous pa rin sana ang gigs mo internationally regardless of the physical change kasi your voice was truly a gift. It was magnanimous. I wish you happiness Jake, now and in the future. Treasure the life that you have ❤️. Still here to support you.
His gift was a blessing and a curse at the same time. I'm glad that he's finally happy now. In the end, that's all that matters.
I was one of the many people who said "Sayang" when u first came out Jake, I was such a big fan yours back then, that's why I said it. Now that I heard your side, I'm now enlighten and understand you.From the bottom of my heart, I AM SO SORRY.😭🙏❤
same here. :(
Aawe, thank you for your honesty. Appreciated. ❤❤❤
I always felt bad for Jake especially when most of the people here in the Philippines were making fun of him just because he's being true to himself. It's sad to see how many people are still close minded up to these days. They preach about their religion and stuff but can't demonstrate some kindness towards other person. Always be happy, Jake! Proud of you.
What can you expect from those so-called righteous religions?
Absolutely!!
Excuse me her po.
@@Tawinvlog don't dictate us what pronouns to use. Bida-bida ka?
@@Tawinvlog LMFAOOO you don't dictate anyone whatever pronouns they wanted to be addressed with. Gtfo here
No matter who you are right now, I sincerely appreciate and give my warmest thanks to you and your world class talent that gave our country so muchc pride and honor. ❤️
Bravo to Jake, and the interviewer - such honesty and empathy!
“If you don’t understand me then maybe just be kind to me.” Being kind is not a hard thing to do. 🏳️🌈🌈
Ginaya mo lang yung comment nang iba
@@philopinas being kind is not a hard thing to do. Gets?
Tama naman si jake sa line na yan. Kumbaga kung di mo ako tanggap respeto na lang bilang tao lalo na't wala naman akong ginagawang masama sau
@@ursula8039 oo nga, bat mo pa inulit kahit nagcomment n ang iba nang ganyan, nagsasayang ka lng nang oras
@@philopinas bakit may issue ka ba?! Mahirap bang maging kind?! You're the one wasting your time here. I highlighted Jake's statement and put my own opinion after. Is that hard to understand?!
As a foreigner and a fan of both Charise & Jake, i have had many of his same feelings he has experienced. In my own coming out, the biggest obstacle for me was “what are people going to think of me now?” I took 6 months for me to be comfortable with myself. I’m now proud to be gay!! I very open now!! I’m thrilled that he continues to be successful with his life, his amazing music and his happiness!! Masaya na ako para sa kanya at masaya ako para sa akin!! I truly enjoyed this interview Toni!!
Go for it. You have all the freedom. Just enjoy life to the fullest. God bless
God loves us, but it doesn't mean He agrees with everything we do, or our choices in life. Read God's Word. God Bless.
Happy for you, Peter!
@@Sandra-gp9yw thank you!!
You're awesome, Peter! Keep being you ❤
Be Happy and do what you Love Jake, I really salute you for being so brave on showing your true self despite of so many hatred and bashers. God Bless you.
Congrats Jake Zyrus! Iba na talaga yung level of maturity mo ngayon. 🥰 Thank you din kay Ms. Toni. May aral talaga mapupulot yung mga interviews mo. ❤
"If you don't understand me, just be kind to me." -Jake 💗
Ang ganda neto..ika caption ko nga to 😆
Spot on 💖
Sharing the WORD of God is not only being kind but show the true love from Christ Jesus. God wants us to love our neighbors, sharing them the truth is helping and loving them. Sharing them the truth is giving them eternal life...
And God says,
Do you not know that the unrighteous cannot inherit the kingdom of God? Do not deceived neither sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor men who practice homosexuality... 1 Cor. 6:9
i am not obligated to be kind to someone i do not know.
@@lorsliciouscookingvlogs7283 when our Lord found the temple polluted by money changers and beasts, did he ask them to leave? did he cry? or did he simply walk away? no. He drove them out.
When Jake was talking about his transition, his face lit up. You can tell how happy that made him. That's how most LGBTQ feels like when they finally accept themselves. Some people will never understand but that's how it truly is with us. The best feeling talaga.
So true
I understand.
When he came out as trans, I was apprehensive to accept because I really did love Charice. I was pretty much indifferent to it but I didn't fully understand the concept of being trans. Even when I was in my anti-sjw phase, I thought the waves of hate sent his way were so uncalled for. He really didn't deserve any of that. I'm really glad that he keeps his head up despite everything. Jake, you are an inspiration and I wish you only the best moving forwards. I am so sorry for the insurmountable amount of backlash you recieved back then. You truly deserved better
He is so brave and honest to himself. Respect...
It's not money that makes Jake happy. It's love and peace in his heart.
CHAR
The heart is deceitful of all things, who can understand it?
And God
Jesus fixed everything and God never stop working on Jake..
GOD FULL FILLED THE EMPTINESS
AMAZING TLGA SI GOD
I AM HAPPY AND BLESSED NA MAPANUOD ITO 🙏😊
@@pearlgregorio1928 amazing. My god zake jyrus happened
but let's be honest here. money also helped him transform into the image that he wanted
Imagine having DAVID FOSTER to be the one of the first people to understand what youre going through. Sosyal! sana all.
Hahhahahaha...love your comments
Jake, respect to you 🙌 . Definitely, if they don’t agree then just be KIND… ❤️ your so humble even before.
Muchas gracias por compartirnos su historia...siempre fui una fiel seguidora de Charice y me alegró mucho saber que finalmente pudo ser fiel a si mismo. Te amamos Jake!
Toni should have a morning talk show like this. Masarap na may inspiring stories every morning na gaya nito.
Yung mga questions mo sa utak, natatanong ni Toni. Good job sa buong ToniTalks team
Respect you more Jake Zyrus..thanks Toni gor this wonderful talk with Jake☺️
yes you are right magaling nman tlga c toni eh lhat n yata ng talent nsa kanya na
💙💙💙💙
Isn't Toni a Christian?
Inglesia ni Christo po ata sila
I clearly remember the time when me and Jake competed in an amateur singing contest in Laguna, she won the title and I ended up 2nd runner up, that time she was 10 years old, while me is 7 sobrang proud ako dahil once in our lives, we used to compete with each other ❤️❤️❤️ hoping that I will also be a successful singer someday
Ipagpatuloy mo ung pagkanta mo huwag kang susuko. Db sabi nila pana-panahon lang bka one day maging singer ka din kabayan
No one can take away our access to God.. 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
GOD BE WITH YOU ..
SA TAMA PANAHON.. 😗😗😗
God's perfect time po ♥
Awww thank you everyone 🙏💓 felt so touch with your encouragements
Stay happy and be blessed jake we love u of who u are either charice or jake❤ toni always knows how to ask and deliver her question and understands people heart❤❤❤
Im crying this ❤️❤️🥰💕💕💕😭😭😭 Thank you Tonitalk program🙏🙏
My mom watched this, and she voice messaged me telling me she understands me now and she started comforting me about all my suicidal thoughts and stuff. I've never felt so happy and loved as well accepted all in one. I thank him for changing my mothers mind about me. It was so nice to hear the words "I'll be the parent to accept u in whatever person u think u are, I understand now, just no more being so sad now ok?"
So happy for you. God bless
This warmed my heart. I'm so happy for you. You really deserve it
I'm happy for you
yes its because of the hardness of the heart and the unconditional love of a mother that's why but be aware that everything we do will have its consequence on judgement day, God bless
Omg you’re making me cry hope you’re very much happy rn 💛💛💛
"If you don't understand me, just be kind to me." Para toh sa mga taong insensitive at kung ano ano sinasabi sa kanya noon. Mas nakakatulong pa kayo kung tatahimik nalang kayo dahil hindi nyo alam struggles nung tao. Ang alam nyo lang makealam ng buhay ng may buhay.
True..i agree with what u said..
indeed
Well said.! HINDI KO NILALAHAT PERO MARAMI SA MGA PILIPINO GANYAN , MAKIALAM SA BUHAY NG MY BUHAY, .
God bless you Toni and Jake.
What a touching interview and great host 👏 I love ❤️ Jake
Tony Talks is a good platform for those artists who have been judged by so many people. it become an instrument for those who had no chance to speak up and be listened to, from Baron, Kuya Jobert, and now Jake. we love your show, Tony. God Bless.
"Charice achieved her dreams
jake attained his happiness
Charice finish her legacy it's jake turn to spend his life with happy ending"
Indeed
Indeed
Indeed
Indeed
Theres life after death hindi pa ito ung huli. I pray mag sisi siya at magbalik loob sa panginoon.
Best line i have ever learned. And in all so many ways...with the battles we choose..."let us choose to be kind, than to be right"
Wowwww i am happy to hear this...praying one day God show His amazing changes completely to your life.
Kababata ko siya sa Laguna. Sobrang mabait, soft spoken, at super dedicated sa singing. Halos hindi nga pinapayagan lumabas kasi need ng rest at mag-prep lagi para sa contest. Edit: Ngayon happy na siya sa buhay niya.* Beautiful interview as always Toni.
wow totoo? sana all nawitness si charice dati .kasi dati dream ko makita sya kumanta live
wow totoo? sana all nawitness si charice dati .kasi dati dream ko makita sya kumanta live
Totoo nga yung sa mmk ni charice?? Ohhhh okay
She. Not he.
@@Ballplayerkids No. It's HE. He is now a man. He transitioned. So please respect other people's pronouns~
“WE ALL HAVE DIFFERENT RELIGIONS, BELIEFS IN OUR LIVES, OPINIONS. BUT TO ME, IF YOU DON’T UNDERSTAND ME, THEN MAYBE JUST BE KIND TO ME” - JAKE ZYRUS 💯♥️
sya na nagsabi, he do not understand himself, he became suicidal, so perhaps he has not find his real self yet now that he is falling fast flat to the ground
@@chillyadanib3134 Dahil sa mga paniniwala niyo nawawala na RESPETO niyo. Yan ang nakakabwisit sa mga relihiyoso! Di marunong rumespeto sa desisyon at paniniwala ng ibang tao!
@Chill Yadanib If Jake seeks God, who are you to judge?
@@chillyadanib3134 BOBO SPOTTED
@@chillyadanib3134 It’s 2021. Don’t you get it? Stop forcing your beliefs in everyone’s throat
You are one of the best TONI! watching your interviews from Winnipeg Manitoba, CANADA 🇨🇦
MY BIG SALUTE TO YOU FOR. BEING THE BEST INTERVIEWER !
I also praise BOY ABUNDA... to let him know ❤️
2:56 am of December 29,2021. Thank you jake for the word of wisdom. And thank you ms. Toni for the words which instill from your heart. 💕
Thanks for this Content Beautiful Toni👏💜♥️
Hellow Dr.Glam
Hi Dr. Glam❤❤
Dr. Grammmmmm❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Wow sana all
Dr. Glam❤️
One of the best interviews! Kinikilabutan ako habang nanunuod!
😯
Panong kilabot? HAHAHA
Pano yung kilabot gorl?
same
Baka may multo kang katabi
A fan from since then you’ve discovered and by then with that kind of change you’re just being who you are with what you believe on having true to yourself in terms of all the things you were comfortable to lived in☺️🙌 Saludo ako sa iyong tapang Mr. Jake Zyrus.
Toni, you are the greatest! Jake we are very proud of you. I learned something new today: If you don't understand me , just be kind to me. God Bless you, Jake and Toni.
"if you don't understand me, then maybe just be kind to me" -JZ
Forget wealth and fame. The real deal is to reach that point of maturity where youre willing to give these up for peace of mind
“Bakit? Eh pareho kami” wow, that was powerful. 🙏🏼✨
Jake whoever you are now, you are still my favorite singer. More power to you. And God bless you!
Unexpected talaga lagi mga guest ni Ms. Toni.
"...if you don't understand me then maybe just be kind to me.." hits me hard. Love yah Jake! The most sincere interviews I've ever watched.
God bless you Jake♥️🙏
thank you for still sharing your talent tstill. i hope you can go back internationally with your jake zyrus name.
"if you dont understand me, then maybe just be kind to me"
Naalala ko linya ni Vilma sa Anak. "Kung di mo ko kayang respetuhin bilang ina mo, respetuhin mo na lang ako bilang tao. Yun man lang Carla, Yun man lang".
Hahahaha
Hahahahah laban carla🤣
ilove toni for being respectful to others identity even if she's Christian🥺❤️ Salute to you Mrs Soriano✊
Yah.. She does not consider herself better over the others.. She considers herself as imperfect as all we are.. Her being a Christian guides her to be more understanding, open minded and an instrument to show the reality of life.. That we all have different battles inside thats why we shld be more kind rather to judge... We dont walk on the same shoes... Only God cn see us inside...
Because of this Episode, I discovered that Toni Gonzaga or Gonzaga's is an active member of the United Methodist Church who supports LGBTQ+ community...
Wow im happy to see this..good for you Toni and Jake.
So by watching this, I changed my mind of what thinking I have for Charice now Jake Zyrus❤️🙏✌️... God Bless & you too Toni👍❤️
What happened to his voice? When he was Charice he had a female voice, now he has a male voice. How could he change?
That's why I love Toni G. Listening to someone's story without judging them❤️
“Only people who are not happy with themselves are mean to others. Remember that.”
That's why there are bullies!
@@yojgarganera true. Mga kinulang sa aruga.
Yup, naalala ko tuloy yung nang bully sakin, obvious na hindi masaya sa buhay, sa tuwing nakikita ako nung masaya parang pinagsakluban sya ng langit at lupa hahaha
Am really touched. It's for him to find his true happiness and not others'
im crying so hard... :( i wish you all the best in life jake. we always love you no matter what!