Listen, marrying someone you are not physically attracted to is a recipe for disaster! It's not the only thing that matters but it does matter! lol Thanks for watching!!
@@ChrystleJonesthank you for saying this. I had a friend tell me that I shouldn’t be with someone because of their looks, it should be for their heart. She meant well but looks matter to me too just like the man’s heart does. I can’t be turned on by someone or be excited about having sex with someone I’m not attracted to lol, & I won’t enjoy the sex like that either. I wanna think my husband is handsome & I want to be thrilled by him. I get what you said about the feelings part, and I get it’s not based of feelings but I also believe God wants you to be in love with that person, to have feelings of excitement when when you see that person. He’s not going to make you marry someone you don’t want to be with. Adam was thrilled by and had romantic feelings for Eve and the same thing for Solomon and his wifey.
I believe I met the one 3 years ago when I was leaving the gym. The chemistry was like something I’ve never felt before but I guess I was so afraid to get hurt again I sped walked to my car and drove away before he got the chance to talk to me. I’ve never seen a grown man cry over me but he looked pretty close and he was a complete stranger! I got the confirmation last year that he was the one for me. I pray everyday I get to meet him again now that I’m ready.
If he was the one for you God can bring you back to each other. Or God may be planning to send you someone else I actually did a video about this 😊 th-cam.com/video/seoQd4NzaRQ/w-d-xo.html
As crazy as it sounds this happened to me about 10 years ago in Savannah. I was there for a family reunion and we went on this little casino/tour boat. I started talking to his family as if I has known them my whole life. His gf turned around looked at me and rolled her eyes. It wasn’t until we got into the parking lot that our eyes met. My heart started beating like crazy and he smiled so big as if he wanted to say something. We both walked our separate ways still looking T each other. I still remember his mom calling his name Keith. I often think about what that could have been or if I was tripping 😩
I been in love with my soon to be husband since I was 16 we been nothing but the best of friends he is my best friend and I Love him a lot and I know he loves me God sent him to me when I was 16 he ask me to Merry him a month ago and I so ready 🥰❣️
OMG! Thank you so much! You have no idea how encouraging these words are. Knowing I’m helping is what keeps me going! Glad you enjoyed the video and took the time to comment 💞
I seen him and I didn’t think about him but every other woman was watching him. He is handsome but I was more attracted to his spiritual side. My spirit leaped & I had to pray and ask God what was that feeling in my gut. I then began receiving different signs from that day. We do connect by purpose & I’m waiting for God to speak to him about me. Im waiting while in my purpose.
No lie, back in April I had a dream of the man who the Lord has revealed to me as my husband, in the dream he had a nose piercing and didn't want to get the other side of his nose pierce so when you mentioned about two nose piercing it made me think of the dream
I know you are my sister in Christ Chile. Lol. Everything you had said I had got chills and was very excited. I’m on a season of God purpose for me and this made me so excited that I wanted to shout and run at work 😂. May God continue to bless you my sister Queen. Thank you for being a inspiration for us through Christ.💕🙏🏾🙌🏽💯
God bless you too!!! I am praying for your journey! Stay encouraged and follow God’s direction. Whatever He is saying to do, do it. He has you covered 💕
@@ChrystleJones Thank you so much for praying for me that truly means a lot. I had already received it in Jesus Name Amen! May God continue to cover you and your family in everything you do.🙏🏾💕🥰
I love your personality 😁 My conversations with my Heavenly Father is just like this, real and uncut. Beautiful testimony on meeting your husband. Thank you for your message. Blessings to you, and everyone. 🙏🏽💖 #stillwaiting
this video is awesome. I loved your message I'm waiting on God to bring me someone and giving it to God and I pray I meet the one soon. Whenever someone asks me why I'm still single and not married I tell them I haven't found the right guy yet and its all in God's timing and they are so taken back by my answer they don't say anything else lol
I think I met the one in 2019, I went on a Honduras mission trip and we served together there, but we never really made conversation, I then fell into the world until about half a year ago, and now this same man shows up into my presence again. And he invited me to go to these Wednesday prayers, and I’ve been going, but last Wednesday he caught me as I was standing in line for the bathroom and he really asked me how it was going when I had my back faced against him, I turn around it felt like a normal conversation, we were both awkward and that’s okay, because I thought it was cute but then I saw him on Sunday with this girl but I’m pretty sure it was his sister, and he didn’t make conversation this time. I don’t know , I’m asking God for clear signs but then that Sunday, it through everything off completely, and I’ve been so emotional too lately, it’s just so much, and I’m patiently waiting for what God has planned next.
I would say right now focus on continuing to building your relationship with God. If he is the guy for you he will make it known he has interest beyond just being friends. God doesn’t want you hyper emotional or confused so just rest in knowing He knows you desire marriage and when the time is right that person will be revealed whether it is this gentleman or someone else.
Hey, sounds like some healing needs to take place. If you aren’t together it’s for a reason. I would love it if you emailed me so we can talk some more 💕 my email is chrystle@apurposefulpursuit.com Even if you don’t reach out I would just say remember comparison is a trap that will always leave you unsatisfied. Praying for your journey 🤍🤍
You never miss out, if God takes someone out of your life its for a purpose. Some people are put in your path to teach you valuable lessons, they are never meant to stay forever, they're just passing by, it doesn't mean you missed out. God has someone for you and it wasn't that past person
Hey there. New subscriber here! I found your channel because of your marriage story video. I have always wanted to get married at a younger age and have lots of children. So far it hasn't happened yet. I hope soon 🙏😆 I don't think I've met the one yet and also hope that I haven't 😂. I haven't met anybody that I would be interested in for a spouse.
Lol and that’s okay if you haven’t met them yet, just be sure to keep these things in mind as you await the one! So glad you found the channel and can’t wait for you to see some of the upcoming content that will hopefully help lead you to your future spouse faster 😊
@@ChrystleJones thank you so much! That's so encouraging! I will admit I feel like I've "pushed" a few guys away, or my parents would say ohh how about this guy, but I said no because he didn't meet my preferences. This video is very convicting and I will try to be more open! Thank you💕
Awe thank you so much. I love when I connect with the God in someone! As I tell all my subscribers don’t be shy! Leave a comment or send an email anytime 🤗💕
I'm still in prayer about it, but I do believe that I may have met the one God has for me. I met this man early on in the year (while fetching nephew from pre-school), there was always something about him, although I was not in any way romantically attracted to him. About 6 months later, my sister fetched her little one from from pre-school asked me if I had noticed him, of course I did. But not in any mushy kinda way...but after the conversation I had with her, it was as if whatever veil that was put over my eyes was removed. He is not in any way the type of guy I would normally go for, but something in me shifted where he's concerned. But like I said, I'm praying about it and hoping to hear from God soon. Thanks for this video!
I know my husband was not the “type” of guy I normally would date but am so glad I did. Sometimes the best thing we can do is forget our type and let God lead! Thanks for watching will be praying for your clarity. 💖
Thaaank youuu! I was wondering why it didn't happen for me yet but, y'all, there are only TWO guys in my reach right now - literally. 😅 One I don't like at all because we are not on the same page, I don't like his personality, we don't go along well at all, also I don't find him cute and all that. And the other one never was an option as he simply never has been my type, but I tried to imagine though as he is a close friend. But it did not work, guys. I couldn't convince myself. On top of that, there are like 12 girls for those guys. 😂 I am practically in full time ministry and have little to no time to get out to meet people. Y'all, pray for me. 😂😂 But seriously, being 32 years old, I was reviewing my standards and this encouraged me to not settle. I am okay though if God moves around my preferences. Fine, if he meets my standard and we can do Gods work together. Keep going, girls!
Hey, don’t don’t limit yourself to two people! God knows how to relocate people to where you are or relocate you! What you desire matters to God 🤗 definitely keeping your journey to Mrs. In prayer 💕
This video made me realize/confirm that I think I'm the hold-up because although I feel I know my purpose, I've been procrastinating because I doubt my abilities. And I've always been into the nerd, who some will call corny, type. Maybe my guy has lived and past ain't so pretty.😂
Don’t doubt yourself! If God called you to it He equipped you to do it! My husband had an ugly past, but I did too so I wasn’t judging at all 😂. Glad this video was able to shed some light on things God may already been speaking to you about! 🤍
To be honest, no. because I was doing it all the wrong way. I was not satisfied, I was jealous. I didn't have the peace that surpasses all understandings. I've been single for 8 years (never goes on date)
Well thankfully you could identify what was wrong. There is nothing wrong with not dating. I actually stopped dating so I could meet my husband but I will get into that another video coming soon. We’ll be praying for your journey to your spouse 💞
So I would say desiring marriage is important but being lonely is not a good reason to get married. Knowing your God given purpose and God showing/ telling you what He wants to do through you will have a greater impact because you are married is a good reason. Also knowing your purpose first will help your more easily identify who your kingdom spouse should be and lead to a long lasting marriage 💕 will keep you in prayer on your journey to meeting your spouse!
I also don't want to marry anybody younger than me. It seems like every guy I meet is younger😢. Sometimes I wonder if I will end up marrying someone younger.
@@ChrystleJones I do agree that it's ok, and your testimony of this is encouraging. This has been a preference of mine for a long time. Like you said it's something that I want, not a conviction. Lately I've been feeling like the Lord wants me to marry someone younger for some reason. It's just kind of weird how every guy I seem to meet is younger than me, almost seems like God is trying to say something to me.🤷♀️ I recently visited a new church and there were quite a few single guys there... I'm praying the Lord works😁. My mom is always telling me everytime I visit a new church or go to an event that I might meet my future husband there. I've been hearing that for a few years now quite often so I kind of gave up hope. I feel like I'm the only girl in my twenties that's not dating or in a relationship 😭. Other than my sister and a couple other girls I know. I know I'm still young, but it confuses me that ever since I was a little kid my dream has never changed of wanting to be married and have children. And the desire keeps getting stronger, but yet I haven't ever even dated anyone at all. I am starting to feel like I don't put myself out there anymore/enough. I just wanted to say that your video was a huge encouragement for me today. Recently an old friend of mine who is younger than me got married. I couldn't help but feel jealous and feel like I wanted to cry. Like this would never happen for me. But the Lord used you to encourage me and give me hope! And I thank you for that! I'm sorry for the long comment🤦🏻♀️😖. God bless you🙏💕
First of all don’t be sorry for the length of your comment I read EVERY WORD! I am here to support and build community for women just like you who desire marriage! I was in your shoes before wondering when it would happen for me. I hadn’t been on a date in 3 years then out of the blue I meet, got engaged and married my husband all with in 9 months! (I have a video about it here on the channel). Saying that to say, if the desire to be married is there it is because God put it there and I will be praying for you to hear clearly so that God can order your steps and align you with the spouse He has for you! 💞 You may still be on the journey from Miss to Mrs. But you are not on it alone I’m here with you now, praying for you and believing with you. And maybe you will even join the MIMS (Married in Months Club) with me ☺️
@@ChrystleJones thank you so much! That is soo encouraging! When I came across your channel today I watched a few more of your videos and that's one of them I watched! They are so encouraging! Thank you so much for the prayers and advice you are giving to others. I know it's a blessing to all your subscribers! What's the, Married in Months Club?
@@johnsonfamilynaturals The ladies who got married in Months of meeting the one God has for them and the ladies who desire for that to be their testimony 😊 As I’ve prayed God showed me the testimony of being married in months isn’t a one off thing and so I tailor my content on the channel to fit women who desire that.
I met the one and did not realize it and when I did my sister gave me a complex about him and I shyed away from him and I missed out and now he's resting with our heavenly father.
I love the way she is describing this....however......since relationships serve the purpose of OUR FATHER could relations that don't work out serve a purpose also??....such as those two ppl are not ready for relations with no one because they don't recognize a higher power???.... what I mean is have those two realized that they are too into the world to be in a purpose-filled relationship???.....this talk has opened my mind .
I definitely agree relationships that do not work can serve a purpose. God is able to bring purpose and growth from many things in our life if we allow Him.
Hey!! I love your videos and if you see this I'd love some advice... So I'm 17 and felt like I met the one, but I feel like were being separated because its not our time yet, its just a lot happened between us and we dont rlly talk anymore so I'm kinda loosing hope that we are supposed to be together but something is still tugging on my heart to be with him and I cant tell if that's my fleshly desires or if God is trying to say something or to still have hope in a way idk...😅
Hey Hannah, thanks for reaching out. I would need more details for sure. Can you email me @ chrystle@apurposefulpursuit.com Without any additional details I would say focus on following your purpose and it will ensure if you are meant to be together it will happen. Hope you send me an email 💕 Thanks for watching!
there was this one guy who literally met ALL my standards except for he wasn’t a man of God so we stopped talking, i miss him everyday and i always pray for him. i tried to text him but the messages turned greeeen😫. i’m still praying to be in contact with him again😢
I’m sorry you are sad. I had to leave some relationships behind before meeting my husband because they were not men of God. Living in marriage I can say I am 100% glad I walked away! Definitely praying for your comfort and strength to do what God is telling you to 💕
@@drehnapaige851 I know that is hard to do but it will work out for your best in the long run. Find ways to stay encouraged during the journey (spend time with God and doing things you enjoy) and I will keep you in prayer as well!
SISTER 😭 I BE REAL WITH YOU I HAVE ATTRACTION TOWARDS A GUY AT MY OFFICE A LOTTTTTT BUT HE SMOKES AND DRINKS I DO GET HUSBAND VIBES FROM HIM MANY A TIMES I'VE SEEN HIM WATCHING ME AND WE'VE HAD AN INSTANCE WHEREIN WE HAD AN EYE CONTACT FOR LIKE 10 SECONDS BUT I AM JUST WAITING FOR HIM TO WALK UP TO ME AND APPROACH ME SPEAK TO ME TO GET CONFIRMATION THAT HE IS THE ONE 😂 IF THAT DON'T HAPPEN THEN HE IS NOT THE ONE🙈 ALSO HE PRETTY OLDER THAN ME IN BOTH RANK AND AGE 😂
Oh no. We’re there any signs things weren’t going well? Normally there are some red flags. Or did something happen? Either way I’m sorry you had to deal with that but I pray there is better for you on the way. Sometimes our greatest gift from God is not getting what we thought we wanted and getting even better from Him.
@@ChrystleJones yes there was😭found out he cheated on me but I forgive him even he dont say sorry because he denied it. Well I realised now he dont deserve me at all. God let this happen because that guy is weak for a strong woman like me. I like your videos theu are so inspiring💕
@@itsdermolt yes be with someone you deserve! And I 100% understand what it’s like to be a woman with a strong personality and the type of man needed to support and not suppress that strength. So glad you are here!
Hmmm, not sure if I fully understand your comment but from what I can gather I will say this, I believe it’s important for the man and woman to both value and respect each other in a relationship. That is one of the keys to keeping the relationship healthy. The dynamics in every relationship will look different but the core from which the dynamics come should be the same, love, value and respect 💞 Thanks for watching!
Let’s connect link with me on IG @APurposefulPursuit Email Relationship Questions to mystilettomil@gmail.com Thanks for watching! 💞 Do you think you may have already met the one? Let me know in the comments!
I know I've met the one but has the 1 realized she met me we both prayed for the same desire and came into each others lives that same year and we became a couple and were doing well until everyone got into her head about our age gap she began to doubt if she had the life's experience to be my one and I tell her yes I do approve. 💯❤ So now she's on this journey to find herself. Pray her protection and preservation from Evil
@@theprolificnetwork4670 I actually have two videos coming up to cover, what to do when God shows you the one and another video on what to do when your friends or others don’t approve… In the first video I actually will be covering what you should do now that she is unsure about how to move forward. For now I would say to you keep hearing what God is saying now. The videos will be coming up starting in the next two weeks!
I have and have been receiving so many confirmation over the past two months, now am praying the Holy Spirit confirms to him as his scared that we are on the other side of the world and with responsibilities in our home countries.
I love the fact that you said that God's not going to make you marry somebody who beauty you don't want to behold
Listen, marrying someone you are not physically attracted to is a recipe for disaster! It's not the only thing that matters but it does matter! lol Thanks for watching!!
@@ChrystleJonesthank you for saying this. I had a friend tell me that I shouldn’t be with someone because of their looks, it should be for their heart. She meant well but looks matter to me too just like the man’s heart does. I can’t be turned on by someone or be excited about having sex with someone I’m not attracted to lol, & I won’t enjoy the sex like that either. I wanna think my husband is handsome & I want to be thrilled by him. I get what you said about the feelings part, and I get it’s not based of feelings but I also believe God wants you to be in love with that person, to have feelings of excitement when when you see that person. He’s not going to make you marry someone you don’t want to be with. Adam was thrilled by and had romantic feelings for Eve and the same thing for Solomon and his wifey.
I believe I met the one 3 years ago when I was leaving the gym. The chemistry was like something I’ve never felt before but I guess I was so afraid to get hurt again I sped walked to my car and drove away before he got the chance to talk to me. I’ve never seen a grown man cry over me but he looked pretty close and he was a complete stranger! I got the confirmation last year that he was the one for me. I pray everyday I get to meet him again now that I’m ready.
If he was the one for you God can bring you back to each other. Or God may be planning to send you someone else I actually did a video about this 😊 th-cam.com/video/seoQd4NzaRQ/w-d-xo.html
I pray that if he was the one, that God may have your paths meet again in the name of Jesus. Amen.
As crazy as it sounds this happened to me about 10 years ago in Savannah. I was there for a family reunion and we went on this little casino/tour boat. I started talking to his family as if I has known them my whole life. His gf turned around looked at me and rolled her eyes. It wasn’t until we got into the parking lot that our eyes met. My heart started beating like crazy and he smiled so big as if he wanted to say something. We both walked our separate ways still looking T each other. I still remember his mom calling his name Keith. I often think about what that could have been or if I was tripping 😩
I been in love with my soon to be husband since I was 16 we been nothing but the best of friends he is my best friend and I Love him a lot and I know he loves me God sent him to me when I was 16 he ask me to Merry him a month ago and I so ready 🥰❣️
Oh wow, this could be a beautiful love story in the making 💕😊
Yes someone speaking who is actually married omg lol
Lol, welcome to the channel 💞 Hope you enjoy the videos!
I love your message. Understanding Gods purpose vs emotions
Thank you, I hope you are finding the content helpful. I appreciate your support 💞
Everyone should listen to this, this is GOLD! And wisdom 🥰
OMG! Thank you so much! You have no idea how encouraging these words are. Knowing I’m helping is what keeps me going! Glad you enjoyed the video and took the time to comment 💞
Thank You- stumbled on this, exactly what I needed to hear.
Unexpectedly I know met mine he is everything I’ve prayed for and building the kingdom together is our desire! And he is everything and more
I’m so happy to hear that! Meeting your kingdom spouse is AMAZING! 💕 Praying for your journey!
I seen him and I didn’t think about him but every other woman was watching him. He is handsome but I was more attracted to his spiritual side. My spirit leaped & I had to pray and ask God what was that feeling in my gut. I then began receiving different signs from that day. We do connect by purpose & I’m waiting for God to speak to him about me. Im waiting while in my purpose.
Remaining in your purpose while you wait is key!! Keep listening to the voice of God! 💕
No lie, back in April I had a dream of the man who the Lord has revealed to me as my husband, in the dream he had a nose piercing and didn't want to get the other side of his nose pierce so when you mentioned about two nose piercing it made me think of the dream
Oh wow! Well what’s also cool is I have a video coming up on what to do when God shows you who your husband is! It will show early next week 😊
I love your personality and transparency. Lovely testimony.
Thank you so much. I appreciate you watching 💕
I know you are my sister in Christ Chile. Lol. Everything you had said I had got chills and was very excited. I’m on a season of God purpose for me and this made me so excited that I wanted to shout and run at work 😂. May God continue to bless you my sister Queen. Thank you for being a inspiration for us through Christ.💕🙏🏾🙌🏽💯
God bless you too!!! I am praying for your journey! Stay encouraged and follow God’s direction. Whatever He is saying to do, do it. He has you covered 💕
@@ChrystleJones Thank you so much for praying for me that truly means a lot. I had already received it in Jesus Name Amen! May God continue to cover you and your family in everything you do.🙏🏾💕🥰
That's my best friend.. That's my best friend!!
Hey best friend! And May I add best husband of all time ❤️😘
@@ChrystleJones Dang, I need a best friend right now. Idc if my spouse & I start off as friends. Btw I’m a guy
@@multicreativeartist6579 and there is nothing wrong with starting out as friends everyone’s journey will be different.
@@ChrystleJones I’ve made aquantence with a girl in one of my classes in 11th grade so I hope that if she’s from God that he’ll strengthen the bond.
@@ChrystleJones as long as if she ends up as my wife. Lol
I know one day I will meet my future godly husband, God is in control
Yes He is! 💕💕🙏🏽🙏🏽
I love your personality 😁 My conversations with my Heavenly Father is just like this, real and uncut. Beautiful testimony on meeting your husband. Thank you for your message. Blessings to you, and everyone. 🙏🏽💖 #stillwaiting
Thank you so much! Glad you are enjoying the content and will be hoping you meet the one for you soon!
@@ChrystleJones Thank you so much!!! I hope to meet him soon too.
God is in control
Amen! 🙏🏽💕
IDK if I have met the one but I definitely had certain thoughts about what would happen lolol. Another great video! Thanks!
Thanks for watching! Prayerfully you meet him soon 💞🙏🏾
this video is awesome. I loved your message I'm waiting on God to bring me someone and giving it to God and I pray I meet the one soon. Whenever someone asks me why I'm still single and not married I tell them I haven't found the right guy yet and its all in God's timing and they are so taken back by my answer they don't say anything else lol
Yes! I love your answer because it’s not just about having someone it’s about being with the one God has for you!
This is the first time I watch your videos. You're amazing! Thank you for bringing positivity to our lives. Love from Algeria
Awe yay! Thanks for watching!! 🤍🤍🤍
Girl, you go do you. I can't have no one younger than me. I dont want nobody too old for me either.
I respect that
Exactly am not being superficial or anything like that some attraction is important
It really is you have to look at this person forever! Lol
I think I met the one in 2019, I went on a Honduras mission trip and we served together there, but we never really made conversation, I then fell into the world until about half a year ago, and now this same man shows up into my presence again. And he invited me to go to these Wednesday prayers, and I’ve been going, but last Wednesday he caught me as I was standing in line for the bathroom and he really asked me how it was going when I had my back faced against him, I turn around it felt like a normal conversation, we were both awkward and that’s okay, because I thought it was cute but then I saw him on Sunday with this girl but I’m pretty sure it was his sister, and he didn’t make conversation this time. I don’t know , I’m asking God for clear signs but then that Sunday, it through everything off completely, and I’ve been so emotional too lately, it’s just so much, and I’m patiently waiting for what God has planned next.
I would say right now focus on continuing to building your relationship with God. If he is the guy for you he will make it known he has interest beyond just being friends. God doesn’t want you hyper emotional or confused so just rest in knowing He knows you desire marriage and when the time is right that person will be revealed whether it is this gentleman or someone else.
@@ChrystleJones thank you 🫶🏼
I met the love of my life at 19. I’m now 24. We broke up. Hardest decision ever and most painful few years ever. Everyone after him never measured up.
Hey, sounds like some healing needs to take place. If you aren’t together it’s for a reason. I would love it if you emailed me so we can talk some more 💕 my email is chrystle@apurposefulpursuit.com Even if you don’t reach out I would just say remember comparison is a trap that will always leave you unsatisfied. Praying for your journey 🤍🤍
If we’ve missed out on a past person.... will god put another person in your life?
Thanks for the question! I will make a full video on this because I’m sure many have this question but the short answer is yes. 😊
You never miss out, if God takes someone out of your life its for a purpose. Some people are put in your path to teach you valuable lessons, they are never meant to stay forever, they're just passing by, it doesn't mean you missed out. God has someone for you and it wasn't that past person
Hey there. New subscriber here! I found your channel because of your marriage story video. I have always wanted to get married at a younger age and have lots of children. So far it hasn't happened yet. I hope soon 🙏😆
I don't think I've met the one yet and also hope that I haven't 😂.
I haven't met anybody that I would be interested in for a spouse.
Lol and that’s okay if you haven’t met them yet, just be sure to keep these things in mind as you await the one! So glad you found the channel and can’t wait for you to see some of the upcoming content that will hopefully help lead you to your future spouse faster 😊
@@ChrystleJones thank you so much! That's so encouraging! I will admit I feel like I've "pushed" a few guys away, or my parents would say ohh how about this guy, but I said no because he didn't meet my preferences.
This video is very convicting and I will try to be more open! Thank you💕
This is so good! PURPOSE matters
It really does! It lays the foundation for a great marriage
Watching from Suriname🇸🇷
Welcome! So happy to have you on the channel! Feel free to email me anytime if you ever have questions about anything @ mystilettomile@gmail.com 💕
@@ChrystleJones Thank you..Sure😉
Love your humor! Love the message!
Awe thank you so much 😊
I love your energy! I loved your message, and most importantly the God in you spoke to the God in me. I subscribed so quick chiiile😂❤
Awe thank you so much. I love when I connect with the God in someone! As I tell all my subscribers don’t be shy! Leave a comment or send an email anytime 🤗💕
I'm still in prayer about it, but I do believe that I may have met the one God has for me. I met this man early on in the year (while fetching nephew from pre-school), there was always something about him, although I was not in any way romantically attracted to him. About 6 months later, my sister fetched her little one from from pre-school asked me if I had noticed him, of course I did. But not in any mushy kinda way...but after the conversation I had with her, it was as if whatever veil that was put over my eyes was removed. He is not in any way the type of guy I would normally go for, but something in me shifted where he's concerned. But like I said, I'm praying about it and hoping to hear from God soon. Thanks for this video!
I know my husband was not the “type” of guy I normally would date but am so glad I did. Sometimes the best thing we can do is forget our type and let God lead! Thanks for watching will be praying for your clarity. 💖
Thaaank youuu! I was wondering why it didn't happen for me yet but, y'all, there are only TWO guys in my reach right now - literally. 😅 One I don't like at all because we are not on the same page, I don't like his personality, we don't go along well at all, also I don't find him cute and all that. And the other one never was an option as he simply never has been my type, but I tried to imagine though as he is a close friend. But it did not work, guys. I couldn't convince myself. On top of that, there are like 12 girls for those guys. 😂 I am practically in full time ministry and have little to no time to get out to meet people. Y'all, pray for me. 😂😂 But seriously, being 32 years old, I was reviewing my standards and this encouraged me to not settle. I am okay though if God moves around my preferences. Fine, if he meets my standard and we can do Gods work together. Keep going, girls!
Hey, don’t don’t limit yourself to two people! God knows how to relocate people to where you are or relocate you! What you desire matters to God 🤗 definitely keeping your journey to Mrs. In prayer 💕
This video made me realize/confirm that I think I'm the hold-up because although I feel I know my purpose, I've been procrastinating because I doubt my abilities. And I've always been into the nerd, who some will call corny, type. Maybe my guy has lived and past ain't so pretty.😂
Don’t doubt yourself! If God called you to it He equipped you to do it! My husband had an ugly past, but I did too so I wasn’t judging at all 😂. Glad this video was able to shed some light on things God may already been speaking to you about! 🤍
To be honest, no. because I was doing it all the wrong way. I was not satisfied, I was jealous. I didn't have the peace that surpasses all understandings. I've been single for 8 years (never goes on date)
Well thankfully you could identify what was wrong. There is nothing wrong with not dating. I actually stopped dating so I could meet my husband but I will get into that another video coming soon. We’ll be praying for your journey to your spouse 💞
@@ChrystleJones thank you so much. I truly appreciate it.
I met the one already I decided to walk away from it and leave it in God hands
The best place it can be is in God’s hands! You made the right decision.
Thank you for another GREAT video!!!!
Thank you so much for watching and commenting! Support really means a lot 💞
I’m tired of being lonely. I need my future kingdom wife as soon as possible
So I would say desiring marriage is important but being lonely is not a good reason to get married. Knowing your God given purpose and God showing/ telling you what He wants to do through you will have a greater impact because you are married is a good reason. Also knowing your purpose first will help your more easily identify who your kingdom spouse should be and lead to a long lasting marriage 💕 will keep you in prayer on your journey to meeting your spouse!
Love this! Great video 💗
Awe thank you! 💕💕
I love your energy lol
Awe thank you!
Lol, I love your personality. God bless
Awe thank you so much! Thank you for watching!!
I also don't want to marry anybody younger than me. It seems like every guy I meet is younger😢. Sometimes I wonder if I will end up marrying someone younger.
I am a witness it’s okay if he is younger than you. Unless you believe his age is attached to your assignment as a couple
@@ChrystleJones I do agree that it's ok, and your testimony of this is encouraging. This has been a preference of mine for a long time. Like you said it's something that I want, not a conviction. Lately I've been feeling like the Lord wants me to marry someone younger for some reason. It's just kind of weird how every guy I seem to meet is younger than me, almost seems like God is trying to say something to me.🤷♀️
I recently visited a new church and there were quite a few single guys there... I'm praying the Lord works😁. My mom is always telling me everytime I visit a new church or go to an event that I might meet my future husband there. I've been hearing that for a few years now quite often so I kind of gave up hope. I feel like I'm the only girl in my twenties that's not dating or in a relationship 😭. Other than my sister and a couple other girls I know. I know I'm still young, but it confuses me that ever since I was a little kid my dream has never changed of wanting to be married and have children. And the desire keeps getting stronger, but yet I haven't ever even dated anyone at all. I am starting to feel like I don't put myself out there anymore/enough. I just wanted to say that your video was a huge encouragement for me today. Recently an old friend of mine who is younger than me got married. I couldn't help but feel jealous and feel like I wanted to cry. Like this would never happen for me. But the Lord used you to encourage me and give me hope! And I thank you for that!
I'm sorry for the long comment🤦🏻♀️😖. God bless you🙏💕
First of all don’t be sorry for the length of your comment I read EVERY WORD! I am here to support and build community for women just like you who desire marriage! I was in your shoes before wondering when it would happen for me. I hadn’t been on a date in 3 years then out of the blue I meet, got engaged and married my husband all with in 9 months! (I have a video about it here on the channel).
Saying that to say, if the desire to be married is there it is because God put it there and I will be praying for you to hear clearly so that God can order your steps and align you with the spouse He has for you! 💞 You may still be on the journey from Miss to Mrs. But you are not on it alone I’m here with you now, praying for you and believing with you. And maybe you will even join the MIMS (Married in Months Club) with me ☺️
@@ChrystleJones thank you so much! That is soo encouraging!
When I came across your channel today I watched a few more of your videos and that's one of them I watched! They are so encouraging!
Thank you so much for the prayers and advice you are giving to others. I know it's a blessing to all your subscribers!
What's the, Married in Months Club?
@@johnsonfamilynaturals The ladies who got married in Months of meeting the one God has for them and the ladies who desire for that to be their testimony 😊
As I’ve prayed God showed me the testimony of being married in months isn’t a one off thing and so I tailor my content on the channel to fit women who desire that.
Teaching 🙌🏽❤
Thank you!
I tell people they better stop going off of looks looks can be deceiving you going to forever find yourself single
Right. You should be attracted to the person but having a detailed list of what someone has to look like is a recipe for singleness
I met the one and did not realize it and when I did my sister gave me a complex about him and I shyed away from him and I missed out and now he's resting with our heavenly father.
Awe I’m sorry to hear that. Trust that if you still desire marriage God can send you someone again. 💕💕
I graduated from GSU!
Yay GSU! Go panthers 😊
I love the way she is describing this....however......since relationships serve the purpose of OUR FATHER could relations that don't work out serve a purpose also??....such as those two ppl are not ready for relations with no one because they don't recognize a higher power???.... what I mean is have those two realized that they are too into the world to be in a purpose-filled relationship???.....this talk has opened my mind .
I definitely agree relationships that do not work can serve a purpose. God is able to bring purpose and growth from many things in our life if we allow Him.
Hey!! I love your videos and if you see this I'd love some advice... So I'm 17 and felt like I met the one, but I feel like were being separated because its not our time yet, its just a lot happened between us and we dont rlly talk anymore so I'm kinda loosing hope that we are supposed to be together but something is still tugging on my heart to be with him and I cant tell if that's my fleshly desires or if God is trying to say something or to still have hope in a way idk...😅
Hey Hannah, thanks for reaching out. I would need more details for sure. Can you email me @ chrystle@apurposefulpursuit.com Without any additional details I would say focus on following your purpose and it will ensure if you are meant to be together it will happen. Hope you send me an email 💕 Thanks for watching!
I know I haven't because my husband lives in another country.
Okay, what makes you think that? Did God tell you that?
there was this one guy who literally met ALL my standards except for he wasn’t a man of God so we stopped talking, i miss him everyday and i always pray for him. i tried to text him but the messages turned greeeen😫. i’m still praying to be in contact with him again😢
I’m sorry you are sad. I had to leave some relationships behind before meeting my husband because they were not men of God. Living in marriage I can say I am 100% glad I walked away! Definitely praying for your comfort and strength to do what God is telling you to 💕
@@ChrystleJones i’ve finally decided to just let him go and let God do what’s best for me, everything isn’t gonna go my way because it’s God’s way!
@@drehnapaige851 I know that is hard to do but it will work out for your best in the long run. Find ways to stay encouraged during the journey (spend time with God and doing things you enjoy) and I will keep you in prayer as well!
@@ChrystleJones thanks so much !!
SISTER 😭 I BE REAL WITH YOU
I HAVE ATTRACTION TOWARDS A GUY AT MY OFFICE A LOTTTTTT BUT HE SMOKES AND DRINKS I DO GET HUSBAND VIBES FROM HIM
MANY A TIMES I'VE SEEN HIM WATCHING ME AND WE'VE HAD AN INSTANCE WHEREIN WE HAD AN EYE CONTACT FOR LIKE 10 SECONDS
BUT I AM JUST WAITING FOR HIM TO WALK UP TO ME AND APPROACH ME SPEAK TO ME TO GET CONFIRMATION THAT HE IS THE ONE 😂 IF THAT DON'T HAPPEN THEN HE IS NOT THE ONE🙈 ALSO HE PRETTY OLDER THAN ME IN BOTH RANK AND AGE 😂
Email me lol chrystle@apurposefulpursuit.com
I thought I met the one for me but he just blocked me after more than 2yrs we dating😑
Oh no. We’re there any signs things weren’t going well? Normally there are some red flags. Or did something happen? Either way I’m sorry you had to deal with that but I pray there is better for you on the way. Sometimes our greatest gift from God is not getting what we thought we wanted and getting even better from Him.
@@ChrystleJones yes there was😭found out he cheated on me but I forgive him even he dont say sorry because he denied it. Well I realised now he dont deserve me at all. God let this happen because that guy is weak for a strong woman like me. I like your videos theu are so inspiring💕
@@itsdermolt yes be with someone you deserve! And I 100% understand what it’s like to be a woman with a strong personality and the type of man needed to support and not suppress that strength. So glad you are here!
Can you miss out on your future spouse?
The short answer is no. If something happens that causes a potential spouse to no longer be a potential God knows how to send someone else.
most women are confused just do not know what they want
Some are but not all. The same is true for men, some are confused and don’t know what they want but not all men are confused.
Now a days woman is the problem thinking they the man but u only speak in favors for woman witch are being ungrateful now a days
Hmmm, not sure if I fully understand your comment but from what I can gather I will say this, I believe it’s important for the man and woman to both value and respect each other in a relationship. That is one of the keys to keeping the relationship healthy. The dynamics in every relationship will look different but the core from which the dynamics come should be the same, love, value and respect 💞 Thanks for watching!
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Let’s connect link with me on IG @APurposefulPursuit Email Relationship Questions to mystilettomil@gmail.com Thanks for watching! 💞
Do you think you may have already met the one? Let me know in the comments!
I know I've met the one but has the 1 realized she met me we both prayed for the same desire and came into each others lives that same year and we became a couple and were doing well until everyone got into her head about our age gap she began to doubt if she had the life's experience to be my one and I tell her yes I do approve. 💯❤ So now she's on this journey to find herself. Pray her protection and preservation from Evil
@@theprolificnetwork4670 I actually have two videos coming up to cover, what to do when God shows you the one and another video on what to do when your friends or others don’t approve… In the first video I actually will be covering what you should do now that she is unsure about how to move forward. For now I would say to you keep hearing what God is saying now. The videos will be coming up starting in the next two weeks!
I have and have been receiving so many confirmation over the past two months, now am praying the Holy Spirit confirms to him as his scared that we are on the other side of the world and with responsibilities in our home countries.