Stealing is a psychological issues. She has unresolved trauma from childhood. The loss of both of her parents with no family to account for her existence is traumatizing. Since she was so young when she endured these trauma she subconsciously and internalized everything. I hope she gets the counseling that she desperately needs. It’s not her fault, she’s the product of her situation and environment. Good luck!
She was just 2 when her parents died. She would've had no understanding of death. So no, she did not endure any trauma. She was adopted not long after by her loving uncle and aunt who provided everything for her. Spoiled her! So no, she's not a product of her environment. It does seem like she has a psychological problem but there's no one to blame except herself. She's a grown a$$ adult who knows what she's doing. She just doesn't want to change, just like all serial thieves who get caught, go to jail, get released, and then just repeat the cycle.
Stealing is a disease and an addiction just the same as drugs and alcohol and gambling. She needs professional help. I hope you guys will consider that for her.
I want to hear from the daughter story. Trust me, she didn't get enough love. Hmong parents back then can't love anyone else child. Seriously, the parents just talked to her. She probably got her ass beat. I know how it feels I seen so many orphans not receiving love from the step parents. Especially the women.
Hais rau tus uas muab zaj neej neeg no tuaj, koj hais tias lub sijhawm ntawd twb tsi tau yug koj Tabsi zaj neej neeg ko yog lawv qhia rau koj xwb no tej zaum yuav yog li ntawm 90% dag lawm xwb, yuav tsi teeb li koj muab tuaj os tus vivncaus.
We used to have a nyab who steals everything from anywhere in the house. If you’re not careful she would sneak and suddenly steal your unwashed clothes to clothes in the dryer and from new clothes in your bedroom to taking my parents collection of $2 and $50-$100 from the photo album to my deceased brother photo album (memory), etc. After all those time of her stealing we finally heard she stole a gold necklace from one of her aunty when she was younger too.
This started at a young age, she was raised by your parents from a young age… where were your parents in disciplining her? Sounds like the consequences were never harsh enough. The consequences were “dont do that, well get you what you want”… I don’t understand why hmong people like to blame everything on genetics … sounds like she was spoiled by your parents. They loved her too much and always making excuses for her actions. Once she is old theres little chance of changing that habit. Koj niam koj txiv muab hlub dhau lawm thiaj li xyaum tsis tau zoo xwb. Hmong people are very passive about addressing bad habits/character, just like how we hmong people tolerate condescending/nasty people in our own families to “avoid problems”. No one is willing to address the actual issues. Now thats she older she is creating her own issues, let the consequences get her so she can learn the reality of life.
Yes, that's all true. I believe that had the parents also disciplined physically and verbally at the same time, then she might have stopped stealing as a young child. She obviously didn't get to experience real consequences of her actions so she had no fear. It's stupid to blame stealing on genetics but that's hmong people with stupid excuses/reasons.
It’s not the parents’ fault when she is an adult. She has choices but she chose to take the easy ones and steals. Her parents did love her and provided for her till she’s an adult.
I not trying to defend the older sister but i think she has a mental health and needs help. Kleptomania is a mental health condition where a person feels an uncontrollable urge to steal things.
The older sis needs self reflection. Accept accountability for your actions and dont blame the parents. No self respect and morals at all it sounds like.
Cov neeg ua ua ntxhais sab ua ua tub sab no mas txawm tuav hais npaum li cas nyob hauv lawv cov hlwb los yog cov ntshav yeej muaj qhov tub sab ntxhais sab nyob rau hauv tus neeg ntawd lawm leej twg yuav pab los tsis tau.
Sometimes orphans will steal as a form of self love due to lack of attachment. Your sister lost her parents during the time a child is most attached to their mother and father. This must have traumatized her dramatically especially to a child who wouldn't understand at that age. She needs professional help. Most people who don't understand or walk her shoes will label her like she's just a bad seed. Parents who adopts these children to be to patient and understanding and be willing to work on redirecting their behaviors from a young age.
Yes going be karma anytime so you no need to worry...just focus 😢 yourself xwb... person who do bad thing like this not go get good life or no blessed at all.. seriously
Cov ntxhais tub sab thiab nyab tub sab no koj hais hais tuag kiag los lawv yeej tsis yuav leej twg hais. Nws yeej tsis ntseeg kev npam thiab tsis paub txaj muag li. Koj yim hais nws ces koj yog tus yuav npam xwb. Koj txoj kev npam ces yog nws yim ntxub koj es haj yam yuav tuaj steal from you. So just stay away from them, watched them carefully when you are around each other’s and make sure you have camera installed in your houses.
I have to be honest that when you’re on the receiving end, it does feel like hell. Maybe not technically correct as the title but it is very frustrating and mentally exhausting to have someone like this around. Nothing breaks trust and relationships like stealing and lying.
The adopted daughter has kleptomania. A mental disorder in which she has the urge to steal something that has no value or no use. You can't change a person, let them learn the hard way.
😢 tej zaum nws roj tsha yeej yog hom coj li ntawv ces yeej zoo li tseev yus cob vim nws yeej yog noob li ntawv txawm yog li yus thiaj tsi xav mus yuav luag tej me nyuam los tus
The poor bastard that suffers the most is the husband. The younger sister and the parents don’t have to deal with her daily and they don’t live with her so they don’t have to see her if they don’t want to. But the husband is the one that has to live with her and deal with her daily. Feel sorry for him. 😂😂😂 But on a serious note, this lady has issues that’s beyond her conscious mind. She doesn’t choose to steal because she needs the item or is poor. She steals as a type of mental satisfaction like people get from gambling. It’s the same type of addiction as gambling, it makes them get a super high from it when they do it. She needs professional help.
This is a trait of Antisocial Personality Disorder. Not anti the social. An actual disorder of people who we say, tsis leem cai. Ua txhaum tas los ua dua... To the point where muaj kev tu siab tas. Ib txhia ces coj mus kaw jail tas li tsis paub yuav kawm cauv lub txim txhaum li.
Jenny, koj pheej nyiam 2 hais lo lus PAWV no es raws li kuv paub mas lo lus no hais rau megnuam yaus me 2 tsis tau paub tab xwb, yog koj hais rau tag nrho sawv daws tus hlob tus yau sawv daws hmoog koj hais PLOJ no mas zoo hmoog dua… Koj twb tsis hais rau megnuam yaus mloog ne… Nej muaj 2-3 tug hais dab neeg no pheej hais Lo lus no nas…
Your title was mean. Yes, she may have mental issues. He also had a great loss too of her parents. I know it’s not an excuse but you have to try to understand. Telling people that she’s the sister from hell is not helping either. Plus you didn’t even say sister you say adopted sister.
If the story is true, she is so ungrateful for a person who has no parents. With another set of parents, her life might of been worst. Maybe she is hurt. So she does crap like that to get attention from your parents. If not, she is a lost cause. Just let her be. Sometimes she gotta hit rock bottom for her to learn.
Jenny, love the beautiful photo of my two favorite story tellers together!❤️
Yes agree!!! Came to say the same thing
thank you!
I grew up with a adopted girl like this. Her hands are quick.
We lived in a duplex long ago and had a neighbor’s daughter who was very quick with her hands too. It’s unbelievable how bold and quick they are.
Stealing is a psychological issues. She has unresolved trauma from childhood. The loss of both of her parents with no family to account for her existence is traumatizing. Since she was so young when she endured these trauma she subconsciously and internalized everything. I hope she gets the counseling that she desperately needs. It’s not her fault, she’s the product of her situation and environment. Good luck!
She was just 2 when her parents died. She would've had no understanding of death. So no, she did not endure any trauma. She was adopted not long after by her loving uncle and aunt who provided everything for her. Spoiled her! So no, she's not a product of her environment. It does seem like she has a psychological problem but there's no one to blame except herself. She's a grown a$$ adult who knows what she's doing. She just doesn't want to change, just like all serial thieves who get caught, go to jail, get released, and then just repeat the cycle.
@@MonaLisa-de4cp Exactly. 💯
Stealing is a disease and an addiction just the same as drugs and alcohol and gambling. She needs professional help. I hope you guys will consider that for her.
Yes, kleptomania.
I want to hear from the daughter story. Trust me, she didn't get enough love. Hmong parents back then can't love anyone else child. Seriously, the parents just talked to her. She probably got her ass beat. I know how it feels I seen so many orphans not receiving love from the step parents. Especially the women.
Hais rau tus uas muab zaj neej neeg no tuaj, koj hais tias lub sijhawm ntawd twb tsi tau yug koj Tabsi zaj neej neeg ko yog lawv qhia rau koj xwb no tej zaum yuav yog li ntawm 90% dag lawm xwb, yuav tsi teeb li koj muab tuaj os tus vivncaus.
We used to have a nyab who steals everything from anywhere in the house. If you’re not careful she would sneak and suddenly steal your unwashed clothes to clothes in the dryer and from new clothes in your bedroom to taking my parents collection of $2 and $50-$100 from the photo album to my deceased brother photo album (memory), etc. After all those time of her stealing we finally heard she stole a gold necklace from one of her aunty when she was younger too.
This started at a young age, she was raised by your parents from a young age… where were your parents in disciplining her? Sounds like the consequences were never harsh enough. The consequences were “dont do that, well get you what you want”… I don’t understand why hmong people like to blame everything on genetics … sounds like she was spoiled by your parents. They loved her too much and always making excuses for her actions. Once she is old theres little chance of changing that habit. Koj niam koj txiv muab hlub dhau lawm thiaj li xyaum tsis tau zoo xwb. Hmong people are very passive about addressing bad habits/character, just like how we hmong people tolerate condescending/nasty people in our own families to “avoid problems”. No one is willing to address the actual issues. Now thats she older she is creating her own issues, let the consequences get her so she can learn the reality of life.
Yes, that's all true. I believe that had the parents also disciplined physically and verbally at the same time, then she might have stopped stealing as a young child. She obviously didn't get to experience real consequences of her actions so she had no fear. It's stupid to blame stealing on genetics but that's hmong people with stupid excuses/reasons.
It’s not the parents’ fault when she is an adult. She has choices but she chose to take the easy ones and steals. Her parents did love her and provided for her till she’s an adult.
Vim muaj tej tus neeg zoo li tus ntxhais ntsuag no thiaj li ua rau neeg ntxub tej tub ntsoj ntxhais ntsuag, tsis xav hlub xav pab.
Yog kawg
Tshai tub sab mas tshai tshaj tshai dab!
I not trying to defend the older sister but i think she has a mental health and needs help. Kleptomania is a mental health condition where a person feels an uncontrollable urge to steal things.
She is ungrateful. Stay away from her. Some people can not be helped.
The older sis needs self reflection. Accept accountability for your actions and dont blame the parents. No self respect and morals at all it sounds like.
Cov neeg ua ua ntxhais sab ua ua tub sab no mas txawm tuav hais npaum li cas nyob hauv lawv cov hlwb los yog cov ntshav yeej muaj qhov tub sab ntxhais sab nyob rau hauv tus neeg ntawd lawm leej twg yuav pab los tsis tau.
Vim muaj tej tus ntxhais ntsuag zoo li tus no thiaj puas rau cov menyuam ntsuag txhua tus os lawv.😮😮
Love the title. Some people are just born evil.
Jenny you and kailiab look so beautiful 😍
Sometimes orphans will steal as a form of self love due to lack of attachment. Your sister lost her parents during the time a child is most attached to their mother and father. This must have traumatized her dramatically especially to a child who wouldn't understand at that age. She needs professional help. Most people who don't understand or walk her shoes will label her like she's just a bad seed. Parents who adopts these children to be to patient and understanding and be willing to work on redirecting their behaviors from a young age.
It's not your parents fault. She made her bed. She's ungrateful. Don't worry she will get her karma.
Yes going be karma anytime so you no need to worry...just focus 😢 yourself xwb... person who do bad thing like this not go get good life or no blessed at all.. seriously
Sounds like the older sister has some serious issues. She needs professional help. She steals for a reason.
Cov ntxhais tub sab thiab nyab tub sab no koj hais hais tuag kiag los lawv yeej tsis yuav leej twg hais. Nws yeej tsis ntseeg kev npam thiab tsis paub txaj muag li. Koj yim hais nws ces koj yog tus yuav npam xwb. Koj txoj kev npam ces yog nws yim ntxub koj es haj yam yuav tuaj steal from you. So just stay away from them, watched them carefully when you are around each other’s and make sure you have camera installed in your houses.
Nws tau teev ntshav tub sab los ntawm nws niam lossis nws txiv ib tug ntag.
Yog kawg
I sense jealousy from the younger sister. It's more like "my sister steals" but not from hell. Stealing is an addiction and there's help for it.
I have to be honest that when you’re on the receiving end, it does feel like hell. Maybe not technically correct as the title but it is very frustrating and mentally exhausting to have someone like this around. Nothing breaks trust and relationships like stealing and lying.
I don't think the little sister is jealous. She'd embarrassed and ashamed.
I agree. Stealing is an addiction. It is also a form of trauma response. I'd get her help if I were you.
Kleptomania
Tus neeg phem ces yeej phem kom nkag qhov kiag Av rov lim mas thiaj ua tau neeg zoo
Tuaj koom koj txhua hnub
The adopted daughter has kleptomania. A mental disorder in which she has the urge to steal something that has no value or no use. You can't change a person, let them learn the hard way.
😢 tej zaum nws roj tsha yeej yog hom coj li ntawv ces yeej zoo li tseev yus cob vim nws yeej yog noob li ntawv txawm yog li yus thiaj tsi xav mus yuav luag tej me nyuam los tus
Nyob lub teb chaws twg los cov tub sab yeej tseem coj li nos os
Cov ntshaav phem tes hlub hab muab txhua yaam rua los yeej tsis txaus nwg le os.
The poor bastard that suffers the most is the husband. The younger sister and the parents don’t have to deal with her daily and they don’t live with her so they don’t have to see her if they don’t want to. But the husband is the one that has to live with her and deal with her daily. Feel sorry for him. 😂😂😂
But on a serious note, this lady has issues that’s beyond her conscious mind. She doesn’t choose to steal because she needs the item or is poor. She steals as a type of mental satisfaction like people get from gambling. It’s the same type of addiction as gambling, it makes them get a super high from it when they do it. She needs professional help.
Thanks you
Tus neeg liam yeej ib txwm xeeb txawm yug los liam yam tsis tau muaj neeg cob kom nws liam li ntawv.
This is a trait of Antisocial Personality Disorder. Not anti the social. An actual disorder of people who we say, tsis leem cai. Ua txhaum tas los ua dua... To the point where muaj kev tu siab tas. Ib txhia ces coj mus kaw jail tas li tsis paub yuav kawm cauv lub txim txhaum li.
Jenny, koj pheej nyiam 2 hais lo lus PAWV no es raws li kuv paub mas lo lus no hais rau megnuam yaus me 2 tsis tau paub tab xwb, yog koj hais rau tag nrho sawv daws tus hlob tus yau sawv daws hmoog koj hais PLOJ no mas zoo hmoog dua…
Koj twb tsis hais rau megnuam yaus mloog ne…
Nej muaj 2-3 tug hais dab neeg no pheej hais Lo lus no nas…
Wow,,,,,,that mean nws niam yog noob tes nkhaus paub. Tub sab yog ib yam uas tsis zoo kiag
Your title was mean. Yes, she may have mental issues. He also had a great loss too of her parents. I know it’s not an excuse but you have to try to understand. Telling people that she’s the sister from hell is not helping either. Plus you didn’t even say sister you say adopted sister.
If the story is true, she is so ungrateful for a person who has no parents. With another set of parents, her life might of been worst.
Maybe she is hurt. So she does crap like that to get attention from your parents. If not, she is a lost cause. Just let her be. Sometimes she gotta hit rock bottom for her to learn.
Wat an evil, thief sister u have there. No need to socialize with people like that. They will never change.
Not all nstuag are good. Cov phem ces tsis txhob yuav tsam yus mob stroke