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i got emotional when the mom said she wishes she couldve had her daughter’s cancer and when she said she lost friends because of her daughter’s diagnosis
My 39 year old daughter died of Cancer I would have love to taken it from her.
@@karengonzales431I’m sending you my entire heart. I’m so sorry
Nine cats does feel somewhat illegal
6 cats is unhinged, girl needs a boyfriend or some friends lol
Or awesome!
@@SM-hf1enthe brother is the one with the 6 cats, she has 3
@@SM-hf1en I have 5 cats lol
@@SM-hf1en the dude has 6 cats
I took a deep sigh when I clicked on this knowing it would make me cry, and I was right.
Seriously. If I had a choice to remove one thing from this planet it would be war or cancer man. Absolutely devastating. A video full of warriors though 🤍
Same.
This is gonna sound annoying but GUYS PLEASE FIND GOD. PRAYING DOESN'T HURT ANYBODY, DON'T LET YOUR DOUBT ,EGO OR IGNORANCE ABOUT GOD SPLIT YOU AWAY FROM HIM FOR ETERNITY.
@@girlbye4522 it does sound annoying tho, you were right!
@@picante28 how is it annoying to at least hope that there's a GOD that's gonna hear you and know that you were looking for him
Congratulations to the woman who beat cancer and best of luck to the two still fighting. Fuck cancer!!!!
When I got diagnosed with CAIS (genetic deformity that made me sterile). My mom offered my her uterus. That was the sweetest and most disgusting thing anyone have ever offered me! 😬❤️
That's so cute AND weird🥹😅
Why is this so funny
I'm sorry, but this little story is making me howl with laughter 😂
Did you... accept?
real question is... would its biological clock reset or would you go through menopause like SUPER early
"Dying is part of the story." So true. ❤
am I the only who doesn't understand the losing friends because my daughter has cancer situation
you'd be so surprised - lost my dad and stepdad and my mom and I were treated like the plague
friends/family members have such different reactions when you tell them a loved one has cancer.. at first they say they're there for you but over the next few months/years they slowly stop reaching out. ( i know this because its currently happening to my mom rn ).
Ppl act like you are a burden and never going to be happy and it’s to sad so ppl es alt so they dodge a bullet which is messed up fr
My aunt got cancer and her best friend of several years ghosted her after she found out. Some people aren't built or made to withstand that kind of pressure and sadness. Why? I don't know
it's a known issue! women are also 6 times more likely to have to deal with separation or divorce when they are a cancer patient/receive a difficult diagnosis (A la MS).
the rate of divorce or separation for cancer patients is around 11% (which is pretty average), but the rate is around 20% when the woman is sick vs 3% when the man is sick
I'm bawling my eyes out. Fuck cancer.
This is gonna sound annoying but GUYS PLEASE FIND GOD. PRAYING DOESN'T HURT ANYBODY, DON'T LET YOUR DOUBT ,EGO OR IGNORANCE ABOUT GOD SPLIT YOU AWAY FROM HIM FOR ETERNITY
The mother daughter duo are a major slay ❤️🔥
My dad passed away from glioblastoma when I was 12. It’s one of the deadliest forms of brain cancer. He lived with it for 5 years, a major chunk of my childhood. Still so much trauma surrounding the whole situation. Cancer is literally the absolute worst and it steals so much from everyone involved. Can’t imagine what it was like for him to go through or what it was like for my mom to have to support him and our whole family. So sorry to everyone who has to deal with this.
oh wow, we’re so similar. my mom battled glioblastoma for 18 months, and passed 13 days ago. definitely so much trauma i need to work through. i’m also in my teens. i hope you’re doing okay now. ❤
Same here, my dad had gbm for 17 months and passed when I was 17, which was 6 years ago. It’s so unfair and I fully agree with the lady saying ‘it sucks so fucking much, it’s shit’ and you just need to acknowledge that. There isn’t a reason or a silver lining for it, yes there’s lessons within it and yes it makes you into the person you are today but it’s still just shit.
My brother was diagnosed with glioblastoma in late 2022, he’s so far been stable but we’re just watching him and trying to enjoy him.
This hit me in the feels my 2 year old is currentky fighting Neuroblastoma cancer and it’s been a hard journey 😭 but praying for a long beautiful life with my son 💞
🙏🏾❤️
This is gonna sound annoying but GUYS PLEASE FIND GOD. PRAYING DOESN'T HURT ANYBODY, DON'T LET YOUR DOUBT ,EGO OR IGNORANCE ABOUT GOD SPLIT YOU AWAY FROM HIM FOR ETERNITY
Prayers to you and your son.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🤍
Prayers and love to you ❤️
praying god keeps your little man cancer free 🙏🏾❤️ stay blessed and strong
those duos really hit, hope they all make it
One of my nephews had leukemia, he’s been cancer free since last year, it was a hard time we watched him lose his hair, his mood changing, losing so much weight, through all that he managed to smile through his treatments, always putting a brave face
Just buried a family member almost 2 week's ago now who beat cancer of the female part's and then it came back in March all over in all the organs and was stage 4 and it broke my heart to know she said she didn't want to die and she wasn't ready!!! She was a busy woman especially with her grandchildren, going to their dance competitions and all the thing's they were in and just hanging out together, they were her life!!! #CANCERSUCKS
same here, it’s been 9 days since i buried my mom, f cancer
@suolucarim_ my condolences to you and your family!!!
As another Fibrolamellar patient and survivor, I cannot tell you how much this impacted me to have more representation for such a rare and underfunded cancer. You all are such bright and wonderful people, thank you for being real and using your testimonies to make a difference in the lives of those with rare YA cancers. ❤
I just peeled and choped some onions. That's all
Same
Nothing wrong with crying and admitting to crying.
It’s a joke lol
I have a chronic illness and 100% agree I would give anything to go back and be the naive younger pain free version of myself. I have also lost friends because I'm not the fun friend anymore. Some people just can't cope with sad things, even when it's not even happening to them.
I lost my mom in March to cancer and for 2 of the 3 years she fought it no one knew she even had cancer she lived life like it was normal. She tried her best to kick stage 4 cancer’s ass but she didn’t leave without a fight.
ugh i love the brother and sister. so nice seeing siblings love and care for each other
I’m an avid cut watcher and this is my second time commenting on one of their videos. The first being Keep it 100 Have You Lost Someone to Cancer. I’m a leukemia survivor and have finished my treatment 2.5 years ago. Coming into this video I knew I would start crying yet it didn’t hesitate me to instantly view it anyways. Through watching this video and reading some comments there’s some comfort yet sorrow in hearing the mother say that her friends would stop communicating with her. I lost many of what I what I thought were my close friends at the time. Once they came through my hospital door, I had never heard from them again since. Anger, rage, disappointment all filled my body. As the years passed and I get a bit older I understand with what the mother mentions. It’s too heavy on some people to have to deal with. That they can’t manage knowing that something like that to happening to someone they know. That there’s some bad juju to it.
Well fuck that shit and fuck them. That has always been one of the most selfish decisions anyone has ever made, especially when someone that you’d consider friends or even family. They needed the most support at that time and for those people to remove themselves out of their lives is disgusting. I could never understand how people do that.
That being said, check in on loved ones, it doesn’t have to be always, it doesn’t have to be every week. Just a check in here and there to be remembered and thought of is always appreciated.
I have a longtime friend that was given 2 years. I love her dearly, I just don't know how to be the best friend I can be, like, I know she doesn't feel good and maybe she doesn't want to talk. She lives in another state so I can't just stop by. I just wish I knew better what to do.
@@andreabradley5837i think the best thing to do is just be there for her, and it doesn’t have to be physically. mentally, emotionally, virtually. i’m not saying drop everything off to tend to her but to be present, listen to her, care for her needs. it doesn’t seem like much but i know she’ll be thankful for it. i am for the people that did stick by me towards the end.
@@andreabradley5837 the best thing you can do for her is just be there for her, doesn’t mean it has be physically. mentally, emotionally, virtually. whatever she needs and whatever you can personally handle. sometimes simply asking a “how are you” can mean a lot and open up some things. and a real genuine, how are you doing, not a “how are you doing?” “good”. really ask her and if she gives you that answer maybe ask again. don’t be afraid to sometimes ask the hard questions, but still, you asking about her already shows me you care plenty for her and i know she knows that.
just had to drop a comment to say how amazing this video was.
this were so emotional - sad and beautiful at the same time. I would love to see all of them again!
My dad has liver cancer, and watching this got me super emotional 😔 fuck cancer
Just lost my mom to cancer on 6/13/2024 after she battled a stage 4 rare terminal cancer around a year after her diagnosis. This video had no reason to pop up so soon BRUUUUH
My deepest condolences, I lost my mom 3 days before you did (to cancer as well), and this video hit me in the feels!! Hard to believe it’s almost been 2 weeks!
@@suolucarim_ It truly is a blur after the fact... My anticipatory grief was severe and long, which is why I think I am doing better than I thought I would. Of course I'm not GOOD, but I am not in the trenches mentally right now. A day doesn't go by where I'm not constantly thinking of her. Thanks for the kind words and I'm so so very sorry for your tragic loss. I hope you and your family find the peace you need in this immensely difficult time. ♥ My mother's celebration of life event is this Saturday, and I am ecstatic about it. (She wanted one instead of a funeral.)
@@apolloollopa1653 anticipatory grief is something barely talked about but it’s so real. i cried more before she passed than after, and had more of a sense of impending doom. it’s almost a relief that she’s not suffering anymore, but i also miss her terribly. i hope your mom’s celebration of life goes well, and i wish you and your family all the best. this is going to be tough, but we will work through the grief day by day. ❤️ xoxo
@@suolucarim_ I was in the exact same boat. Dreading each second of each day, worrying when I'd get the call from my grandmother... I had touching moments in her home hospice care in the meantime, and I am grateful for the time I got to spend with her. 22 just feels too long to lose an only parent. I'm sorry to hear you also went through such a horrible time before your mom's passing. :( I am so glad your mom's suffering is gone and she's at eternal peace. ♥ Thank you for the well wishes.
(Sorry I'm yapping.) One of my fears of my mom passing is that people I meet in life won't know what a good person she is and sharing stories with her would feel hollow when explaining them because they didn't KNOW her. A friend said something that helped me a lot, along the lines of: Your mom is a part of the person you have become, and they will see that part of her in you, and that has brought me a lot of better feelings. I hope your funeral/celebration of life/ANY ceremony (if you guys do one) goes great.
I am Soo sorry, that was just a few days ago… I feel terrible. You will get through this! I know it hurts not having a mother with you but you have other people that now loved you even more! You are amazing!
I don't have cancer, but I've lived with Type 1 diabetes for thirty years. I haven't had too many critical lows, but had a seizure on Monday evening. The thing so many people don't understand about diabetes is that death is always lurking around the corner. You can do everything right and still have a fatal low blood sugar or high sugar leading to ketoacidosis. I'm not sure what happened or went wrong exactly on Monday night. There have been times in my life where I didn't want to go on living, where this low blood sugar wouldn't have scared me so much. Although it sucked, I was so scared to die on Monday as I'm finally reaching a place where I actually want to be here. If you are a healthy person, you are truly privileged and blessed. Offer your support to your ill friends and loved ones, and let us know you love us. We need your love to keep us fighting.
My mom died when i was 23(29 now), from cancer and till this day it still really hasnt hit me. I stay clued to my bed and to sleeping and just working. I have no friends, no life. I just stay at home every day and keep to myself... #depression
I really hope you’re able to get help and get out of the hole you’re in 💜
This is really sweet, my brother got non Hodgkin lymphoma, and it was really hard, I had just turned 12 and was going through puberty, but my mother was unavailable to help me get through it. B”H now he is in recovery and doing well!!
I’m a breast cancer survivor (25 years since diagnosis). I’ve heard that friends ghost their friends who’ve been diagnosed. It disgusts me that anyone would do this. There’s no excuse. I’m a baby boomer with baby boomer friends. Back 25 years ago, none of my friends left me. I hope it’s not a generational thing that people now have less empathy.
I had testicular cancer. I was tired and had a nap after the nap i felt something i never felt before like it was already dead. I felt it and one of em felt bigger than normal. 2 days later it got removed now i got one and am cancer free for almost 5 years now.
I had cancer at 18 and 100% agree I would go back to the old me any day over this new me that has had all these “battles and lessons”. F!€% that honestly lol the long term effects of chemo and radiation is not worth it to me. The emotional/mental toll is not worth it.
This was really well done, I love all the people y’all brought on!
Everyone was so sweet. As a recent cancer survivor, i really felt everything that was said. Love to them all X
The first girl has the most brightest, vibrant, precious personality. All of them do. I hope they all make it even stronger and live on their greatest dreams!
this is one of the best shows. Prayers for all
I can totally relate with the older brother, when my younger brother got sick I dissociated too because I couldn’t comprehend him being sick but donating my bone marrow to him was the full circle of knowing we were supposed to be brothers 🤍
This was heavy, but good. Thanks for putting this one together
the mother daughter duo tore my heart
3:03- Oh, girl,I am so sorry! It seems that many people are just not built to be able to deal with tough emotional things/being friend supportive, especially now when everyone is so self focused, and so the only thing they can do is disappear/ghost. Please, PLEASE know it's not a reflection on you, but on themselves!
Source: I am that person who helps everyone else before herself so no one ever has to go through what I did, because i learned the hard way that i'm on my own (no true emotional support system, even from family members). I've seen, and encountered, and heard, a lot, and your experience is very very common. I am so glad you have that person you're close to to help you through!
There’s no excuse for not being there for a friend in need. Shitty people.
Thank you for making this a healthy conversation. Having a support system benefits so much
Whewwwww, couldn’t get past 1 minute. I’ll come back to this when I’m home to cry cause my goodness 🥺
megan!!!
I remember the first time I heard that Fucking C word.
Dad was driving our 1963 VW bus home, on Broad St.
And Mom yelled for him to Pull Over, and STOP. He did.
She saw our 13 year old neighbor Erica, walking home
from Einstein Hospital. (she had been very weak for 6 months)
Watching her walk, every step was heavy. She looked 90 years old.
Dad went and picked her up into his arms, and it took 5 steps before
she even realized it was my Dad holding her. Hi Charlie, was all she
got out before she passed out, and Dad put her in the back with Mom.
Dad drove her the next 16 blocks home, and he carried Erica in behind Mom.
Once safe and asleep on the sofa, we all went into the Kitchen to talk to her Mom.
It was 1966. Her parents had 1 car, that her Dad used daily for work. She had
missed her bus, and was trying to walk home.
Mom asked Mrs. what they had found?
Hodgkin's lymphoma it said on the papers her Mom, gave Mom.
Her Mom said, they talk to us, but we're farmers, we don't know what that is!!
Mom asked to use her phone, and called my Aunt Alice, who was a RN.
I remember my Mom just started crying, and hung up.
Mom told us it was cancer. First time I saw my Dad cry.
Erica came in, and open her bill for the day. There was a $3.00 charge for a D&C,
along with 6 other things. Mom asked why are they giving her a D&C?
Her Mom said, they give her one every week, and we don't know why?
Mom asked if she could go talk to the Doctor, on Mrs. H's behalf.
She said it was fine.
We went right to the Hospital to see her Doctor. He was to busy,
but we could hear him on the phone talking with his secretary.
Mom was mad as F**k. She asked about the D&C first. The Doctor laughed,
and said, "Well you know those forgine girls, if they think they're dying,
their going to run out, and get knocked up!" My Mom all but tore the door
Off it hinges to get in Dr. Feldman's office. I do believe Mom would have killed him.
He told her she's got a 5% chance. We're just testing thing on her for future patients.
Erica beat everything they did to her, and lived to 64.
She got married, and a son, and beat cancer 3 more times.
I miss her every day.
So Fuck You Cancer!
this was so hard. blessings upon all of them forever
They were all very sweet and open. Great episode!
Megannnnn i miss you! So glad you’re doing another video, scar buddy ❤❤
Love the sister, with the blood cancer.... her soul & mind are beautiful
Someone is definitely chopping onions
Congrats to the one in remission, and prayers for the two still fighting. Not many of these videos make me cry, but this one did. Especially when the girl was talking about how she had to have a hysterectomy and being so young
Crying my eyes out
Um 5:06 that loss of fake people is a gain, you GAINED time away from toxicity!
Wow, this was a lot. But we all knew this coming into this video. I wish nothing but the best to all these brave individuals, and I am just so glad for them all to have a really good support system . I hope they all beat this curse they didn't deserve. Thank you for sharing all of your stories, and may there be many more remission stories ahead for everyone! ❤
This was such a lovely watch… so real
These ladies rock💪🏾 As a fellow former 20 something cancer patient I can definitely relate #keeppushing
Cancer took my mother and my cousin is battling cervical cancer. Cancer definitely sucks . I took the BRCA test after my mom died and tested positive so I made the decision to get a hysterectomy.
My father was diagnosed with cancer 2 months ago and life has been hard adjusting. Thank you for this video. It came at the right time.
Adding my hope to your and sending thoughts of comfort your way. (((Hugs)
my dad was recently diagnosed with acute myeloid leukemia. When I first heard the diagnosis, I was struck with the five stages of grief. Not necessarily grieving the loss of my dad, because I know he’s strong enough to get through this, but grieving the loss of normalcy that my family once had. From being all together in the living room watching TV to switching off spending nights at the hospital with my mom and sister, everything changed. Please join the bone marrow registry if you have not already as my dad is still looking for a bone marrow donor!
This was a really good one 🥺💔❤️
I am 6+ years cancer free and Rebecca and Megan remind me so much of my mom and myself. Wishing all of the people in this video and anyone watching who is going through something similar so much strength and love. ❤️
The wheezing laughter makes everything so much funnier
This video was so good but mostly because it was so heartbreaking 💔
This was one of the best episodes of this series hands-down.
A real video about real people and the unfairness of life that most of us just want to sweep under the rug.
Of course life is “unfair.” Fairness is a human concept. Biology DGAF about what’s fair. I get why people, especially young people, feel that, if they develop a cancer, but it’s railing against the universe. I had breast cancer, btw.
@@Ceerads Agreed, but we live in a world where people, many, if not most people believe that a "God" is pulling all the strings. Just demonstrates that we just emerged from caves in the scale of time.
I'm going to cry, aren't I?
This video came around at the perfect time, I just found out my dad has cancer, and he's only been in my life for about almost 3 months I really don't want to lose him, at only 15.
My mother passed in February from breast cancer, definitely emotional but glad I watched 😢
I know exactly how they feel. My mom was just diagnosed with ovarian cancer. It is not a good news to hear
My grandma passed away from cancer four years ago. She was my best friend. She raised from a baby. So to watch her go from being out going person to ending up in hospice , to needing me to do everything for her was the worst. I pray that you guys can live a long happy life. Because god can work a miracle. #FuckCancer
This video means a lot to me as a brain tumor survivor!
how do i get a diagnosis? ive been ill for years but my doctor is useless and only tests specific things i ask for. im lost at this point on what to do
This was heavy. My momma passed away from castle during my senior year of high school and she has had cancer possibly since after I finished 7th grade. It was hard, confusing, sad and it made me angry and hyper focused on others opinions on my mom’s diagnosis which made me want to shield her and I am now questioning if I wanted to shield her because I actually felt shame or embarrassment from her diagnosis. I’m surprised I wasn’t emotional watching this segment. I hope the two who are still fighting cancer will be in remission!
This hits so hard. I just hit one year remission for Hodgkin’s Lymphoma. These individuals are so inspiring. Faith also was a huge component on getting me through this journey. Survivorship is brutal.
I lost my younger sister (25yo) in March to a rare form of sarcoma. That question of wishing you could take the cancer from them and the brother saying he wish he could really struck a cord in me.
My Grandma just lost her battle with her cancer. Might as well grab the tissues before I watch this.
25 and I have incurable cancer. This hit me hard.
I also have langerhan cell and it’s not easy to do a lot of things day to day because ur breathing is affected. I fell for her so such
Hey whats the name of that classic music playing in the background 🤔
such a touching video
Chloe and Keaton’s fan club right here !!!
wow lookit, im crying again
My dad died of cancer when I was 30, which was 6 years ago. I really wish it had been me. I wish it to this day.
My mom just got diagnosed with colon cancer and hepatocarcinoma in May, and every day thus far is a living hell. I was just about to finish school, start working, and take care of her, and then my worst nightmare became true. I hear all these stories and feel sorry, but it was never supposed to be my mom. It sucks knowing that she won't be there for all my future accomplishments, and it's even worse seeing the constant pain she is in. I don't think it'll ever get better, and I don't think I will ever be the same again. If anyone is reading this and going through something similar, let's stay strong for all of our loved ones who are battling it together
I didn't pay attention well at the beginning and thought Chloe&Keaton were also siblings, so imagine my shock when they kissed
8 years in remission, and it's so crazy to think about everything I went through when I was 20-21. Even to this day, im kinda scared it's gonna come back. Fuck Cancer! 💚
Green shirt is sooo cute
My mom is in her 2nd season (stage 2 breast cancer) of cancer after being cancer free for 10 years( stage 4 breast cancer). We literally just celebrated her 10 years Christmas.
Brb crying
My brother passed away from brain cancer three months after my dad passed it was the hardest time in my life but I know everything happens for reason.
I worry more bout my niece than anything else she’s so young. But cancer does suck that’s all you can say.
Thought I wouldn't cry, I did. Immediately on the question of would the other side switch to have cancer, because I would too.
I lost my cousin to leukemia last year. He would’ve been 21 in may.
Day 1 of asking for a ‘Guess My Favorite Music Genre’ lineup
Ugh my fucking heart. I am just sitting here crying from the moment she said she was angry when she had to have a hysterectomy "like why did it have to take this from me? I wanted to have babies" but when her mom just broke down and said she prayed for her to just have it and she said "I am the one with the cancer but I am also okay." #FUCKCANCER
Given my family history, I'd be pleasantly surprised if cancer didn't take me out.
Dead: Mom (ovarian), grandma on mom's side (liver), 1 cousin on mom's side (breast), uncle on mom's side (lung), one cousin on dad's side (lung). Still fighting: 1 cousin on dad's side (breast).
Sorry if this is too invasive, but have you tested for the BRCA gene or any other genetic condition?
i got cancer when i was 1 week into being 15. I relate to nearly everything they were saying. Cancer forever changes your life and it won’t ever leave you, regardless of how long you’re in remission. the universe simply isn’t fair. F*CK CANCER!! 🖕🎗️
Diagnosed with Testicular cancer last year, currently cancer free after 3 rounds of chemotherapy. This was a great video even though it made me tear up, I felt a lot of what they said.F*ck Cancer
I don't have cancer, neither any close family or friends. But Fuck Cancer!
My dumb butt just watched this in the waiting room at a doctor's office. My husband is currently getting a biopsy done to determine a) malignancy of his chest wall tumor, and b) how much tissue they will have to remove during the surgery to come. I'm trying to keep my chin up, but after losing 2/3 of my own family to various cancers, I'm scared as hell. 😔
I lost my mother to cancer, so any person I see with cancer being happy makes me happy!
Fuck cancer!
Stage 4 stomach cancer here… fighting every day! F*ck cancer!
I wonder why her brother and family were against her or dismissive when she first got cancer?
Look into the psychology of it, very interesting. Unfortunately, I think most people aren’t capable of handling that level of emotion, happens very often