I am so sorry for your loss and what you're dealing with. There is no judgement here. Please do not hate yourself or apologize for crying, you're allowed to be as emotional as you feel, in fact in my opinion it's better for anyone to release emotions - I feel sorry for those who are not able to, how tortured they must be. Please add English subtitles, I for one would be honored to listen to and share your journey and hear about your beloved Mama. Arohanui from NZ 💗💞🥰💞💗
Appreciate for your kind words. It's pretty heartwarming. Yes, I will definitely add English subtitles. And I really hope my story can be encouraging to those people in a hard time and provide them power and support.
大粒,谢谢你的分享!我想生离死别可能是人生的终极课题吧!只是时不时觉得老天爷在跟我开玩笑,很不真实。我的人生很戏剧性,不止这件事情。虽然才30多岁,但让我体验了很多好的和不好的,所以也确实有很多感悟和成长。花花的新歌我都听了,很好很“花花”,可能等我心态恢复正常以后,争取在之后的节目中聊一下他的新歌。我也推荐一下,Adele的新歌,我最近总听、也是最喜欢的是“To be loved”。虽然描述的是恋爱关系,但我听了很有感觉,从中得到了很大的力量,也希望你可以找到所需的能量。我们每个人都要学会爱自己,也值得被爱。
My condolences to your lost. You are very right in saying it’s ok when you are not ok. Everyone in life certainly has to go through this kind of unwilling experience, spend your time to recall and share your mama’s stories (and with English subs please if you can), to me she was a hero as beings the single mother in Asian culture in her particular time! By the way Hua Chenyu just has the new song “Flower in a small town” you may feel some one is sharing your story when listening to it. ❤️
Appreciate for your kindness and sweetness. Yes, I will definitely add English subtitles for the new videos. I did listen to all of Hua Hua's new songs last month with the clips of his concert in Hainan. Pretty impressive. I may film another video talking about my feeling after I adjust myself to the normal. Also, Adele, the queen, is back. "To be loved" is my favorite and recently I listen to this song pretty often. Touching melody with beautiful lyrics as always. And I do get a lot of power and support. Everyone is worthy to be loved and also we need to learn how to love ourselves.
@@yutalk9278 Grief is such a difficult experience but also a massive opportunity for growth and understanding when handled in a good way. Music, its vibration and energy, can give so much healing and help our brains and our hearts to reconnect.
I am so sorry for your loss and what you're dealing with. There is no judgement here. Please do not hate yourself or apologize for crying, you're allowed to be as emotional as you feel, in fact in my opinion it's better for anyone to release emotions - I feel sorry for those who are not able to, how tortured they must be. Please add English subtitles, I for one would be honored to listen to and share your journey and hear about your beloved Mama. Arohanui from NZ 💗💞🥰💞💗
Appreciate for your kind words. It's pretty heartwarming. Yes, I will definitely add English subtitles. And I really hope my story can be encouraging to those people in a hard time and provide them power and support.
逝者开启了新的旅程 不管我们舍不舍得 这是一个合适的契机去reflect 更深入的了解自己,毕竟人生是一场孤独的旅行,有一天我们也会开启新的旅程 我想如果是我面对自己的最后一天我还是希望亲人能够easy一点。不论在哪 尽量感受当下吧。接纳自己的一切状态,毕竟自己是最了解自己的历程和不易的
很难过您没有见到您母亲的最后一面。
2018年八月我老公住进医院确认了胃癌,医生说剩下的时间不多之后他就从台湾飞到加拿大跟我们团聚,我们虽然一直没有放弃各种治疗,但最终在二月份还是失去了他。这个过程很痛也很苦,我们最后的半年是全家聚在一起度过,我们跟你一样是做了火化,但骨灰却还一直放在家里跟我们在一起,等我们回台湾时将会一起带回家乡。
现在是您最脆弱的时候,能够用录制的方式来纪念您的母亲跟让自己走出伤悲也是一个很好的方式。思念失去至亲的人需要很长的时间,我记得自己一开始只要独自一个人处在一个空间就绝对会是痛哭的状态,所以哭是很正常的,就让自己随著心情哭吧!
12月3日我刚好在大陆海口参加华晨宇的演唱会,他今年有一首新歌,据大家的猜测是为他因癌而走的母亲所写,我自己常常边听边想念我老公,也许你也可以听听抒发一下,小镇里的花 th-cam.com/video/qFXjaBTLJJU/w-d-xo.html
大粒,谢谢你的分享!我想生离死别可能是人生的终极课题吧!只是时不时觉得老天爷在跟我开玩笑,很不真实。我的人生很戏剧性,不止这件事情。虽然才30多岁,但让我体验了很多好的和不好的,所以也确实有很多感悟和成长。花花的新歌我都听了,很好很“花花”,可能等我心态恢复正常以后,争取在之后的节目中聊一下他的新歌。我也推荐一下,Adele的新歌,我最近总听、也是最喜欢的是“To be loved”。虽然描述的是恋爱关系,但我听了很有感觉,从中得到了很大的力量,也希望你可以找到所需的能量。我们每个人都要学会爱自己,也值得被爱。
My condolences to your lost. You are very right in saying it’s ok when you are not ok. Everyone in life certainly has to go through this kind of unwilling experience, spend your time to recall and share your mama’s stories (and with English subs please if you can), to me she was a hero as beings the single mother in Asian culture in her particular time! By the way Hua Chenyu just has the new song “Flower in a small town” you may feel some one is sharing your story when listening to it. ❤️
Appreciate for your kindness and sweetness. Yes, I will definitely add English subtitles for the new videos. I did listen to all of Hua Hua's new songs last month with the clips of his concert in Hainan. Pretty impressive. I may film another video talking about my feeling after I adjust myself to the normal. Also, Adele, the queen, is back. "To be loved" is my favorite and recently I listen to this song pretty often. Touching melody with beautiful lyrics as always. And I do get a lot of power and support. Everyone is worthy to be loved and also we need to learn how to love ourselves.
@@yutalk9278 Grief is such a difficult experience but also a massive opportunity for growth and understanding when handled in a good way.
Music, its vibration and energy, can give so much healing and help our brains and our hearts to reconnect.