Well I think it depends on the context of the video as well as the person. Many youtubers or influencers who don't have malicious intents, actually do it for a reason like maybe an informative video on a type of controversy which is backed up with valid proof. But on the other hand, this girl said don't bully him but then proceeds to try and defame him while keeping this "But he's not that bad" persona. If that's the case, there was no need to even put out the video😭
she plays on the gender disparity that a woman is innocent until proven guilty while a guy is guilty until proven innocent. Even more of a red flag is that she altered her story from no contact deadbeat dad to "we have dinner on occassion".....which is not what total deadbeat dads do...but she's still The Victim in this story. hmmm
Talking bad about people is a red flag. They'll talk behind your back too. Stay away from people that do this. Only tell people about a person if you're warning them.
Yeahhh, “trauma” is a word that gets thrown around way too lightly nowadays. Yes, unfortunately many people suffer from trauma and mental illness. But a lot of these social media “influencers” just use it for clout, because it’s “quirky and relatable”
Seriously. She kept saying "trauma" as if this very thing doesn't happen to most fucking families. Shit, I lived in a household where my mom abused my dad for years, kicked him out for 2 years, brought him back to live in the basement, and when she finally left him for a woman, she lied to the courts saying he was an abusive drug addict and then tried to have him arrested on false claims of domestic abuse. Yet even I don't call this traumatic. It was probably way more traumatic for my dad, if anyone. (Also, thank God my brother was secretly recording that night because the video actually showed HER chasing him around the house at 1am, punching, slapping, and kicking him trying to get a reaction and when he pushed by her, she literally threw herself into the goddamn wall and called the cops. Once they saw the video from my brother, they asked him if he wanted to press charges and he said no, so they left...all that started because he put locks on the basement door to keep her away from him and she got mad that she couldn't go down there and provoke him or rummage through his belongings anymore, resulting in her taking a fvcking hammer to the door to break in and attack him and scream at him). I used to PRAY that my dad would leave her bc he was so depressed and miserable, but he was so afraid that if he did, she'd take us and he'd never see his kids again. I love my dad and would defend him to the end of the world. Hell, despite the shit my mom did, I still worked with her until we eventually came to some sort of understanding. I certainly wouldn't shout her real name from the rooftops or destroy her image by going public with all that. Anonymous, whatever, but the second you use real names and faces, you've fucked up. I don't even really care who's right or wrong, people need to stop publicly airing out their personal problems and dirty laundry. Make that shit anonymous or keep your mouth fucking shut. She's despicable either way in my eyes. And it ain't fvcking trauma. She may be hurt, but she didn't experience trauma. Pathetic childish stupid little girl.
Ben posted another video, explaining that he did pay for her medical bills growing up, which she's being disingenuous about. In college, she had a break up, and wanted to seek grief counseling. That's what he refused to pay. She states multiple times, that he just completely abandoned them after the divorce. Meanwhile, his new vid shows her at around age 10-12 along with her siblings. He took them to the beach, waterparks, and other vacations. He asked her about her passions at the time, all while still giving her mother over 10k a month. He attended graduations and other events. No where was he absent.
I hate when this happens. I hate families being torn apart by each other for fame, control, and money. It's not cool and funny to lie about someone like that.
Parental alienation is a strategy whereby one parent intentionally displays to the child unjustified negativity aimed at the other parent. The purpose of this strategy is to damage the child's relationship with the other parent and to turn the child's emotions against that other parent.
As both a daughter and a sister, this is absolutely heartbreaking, cringe, and upsetting. I have a younger sister that also makes false accusations against not just on my dad, but both my parents. She apparently has a podcast and makes TikToks about her “traumas” growing up. She went as far as accusing my hardworking, loving father of SAing her and only her. She and I shared the same bedroom our entire childhood, and obviously know that’s not true. But she blocked and cut off our entire family and people that knew us since we were kids so no one could call her out on it. She’s the youngest girl out of the 5 of us, so she was the rotten spoiled brat and was WELL taken care of (of course I can say that since she’s my sister and allowed to make fun of her lol). The TikTok girl sounds actually like my sister. Wanting to be a victim when she has never been victimized. Enough said.
You should expose her, she’ll never learn otherwise. Or your parents should take her phone away, cuz that behaviour isn’t near way okay. It’s offensive for ppl who really go tru trauma
@@vsm5787 She’s 24 now, but she started this bullshit since she was 22. My family and I could expose her but we just let “her truth” to be out in the world because no one knows her true life story and we shouldn’t force anyone to believe us since we know that at the end the real truth will come out . And besides, we’ve never tried to contacted her since she graduated from college (bc she blocked us and started her bullshit), she kept “crying out” that we won’t leave her alone and that we kept harassing her. We knew at that point she had lost her senses and no way she’ll change what she believes
My Dad literally ghosted my family when I was 4 years old. We never saw a single cent from him and I didn’t speak with him again until I ran into him when I was 18. His reason for leaving was that my mom didn’t want him doing coke anymore… I WISH he had just left to pursue Breakdancing
@@Goldburger1 Thanks man, I’m over 40 have a beautiful wife and decent kids now, and he is dead from a drug overdose about 15 years ago. So it all worked out in the end
If the dad didn't send her money, she attacks him and say he was never there for her If he sends her moderate amount or too small, she'd say he barely did anything despite earning alot and she's a bad father He sends her alot of money and she turns out the way she is RN With a daughter like this, she was always gonna bring him down so she can make a story based on her life, that's how Hollywood is😪
When I grew up my parents divorced, at first I was living with my mom and you know what she did. She tried to brainwash me about my father being a bad person but I never let that get to me. Then I moved to my father after getting tired of hearing lies about my dad, aah the peaceful days with my dad.
Thank you for giving me hope that I can achieve such. I fight hard for my son every day, and everything is always my fault no matter what I do. Dad's just aren't important to the courts or public opinion, sadly. It's been a soul crushing experience, losing so much time with my son, it's a pain id wish on nobody in this world. My love for my son is weaponized against me, when I just wanted equality in parenting and for everyone to move forward with their lives. Needless to say, it didn't go that way at all, unfortunately. Thank you so much for your comment, it's literally going to make me cry, because some days it just feels like I got left behind, just for wanting to be a dad. Thank you again, stranger, thank you.
@@HarleySLAhang in there, brother. We are one, but we are many. Divorced after 17 years & my wife left me for another man, taking my 2 boys with her. Started off having them 2 days a fortnight, which everyone told me to be thankful for. I would excitedly count down the days till I saw them and would end up devastated when that time whisked past & they departed again. That was nearly 7 years ago and we are up to 4 days a fortnight in time together. It wasn’t enough then and it’s still not enough now. But… they remember EVERYTHING… And that is what you need to hang on to if you are able to see them if at all
@@HarleySLAI’m only a child but I really feel you for this. I haven’t seen my father in 3 years but I know he doesn’t want to ditch me. We talk and call daily and he says he wants me to come all the time. He lives very far in a different country though, so we never really see each other in person/physically
How can anyone take her side of the story seriously when she can't even keep her own story straight? She said in her response that she didn't hear from him for years and then within the same breath she contradicted herself and said that he came around every 2 months and had dinner with them which would imply on no uncertain terms that you DID see your dad on a somewhat regular basis and even self admitted to have shared meals together. She came out of nowhere and publicly leveled heavy accusations of parental neglect on her dad for no reason, her dad came out in a civil manner and told his side of the story while correcting and/or expanding on certain things that he felt needed to be expanded upon and later she comes out and tries to discredit her dad's side of the story and ends up contradicting her own statements in the process. What reason does she give me to believe anything she is saying? Where is the evidence of him being a bad father? Because him forgetting her birthday is a weak argument since not everyone has a good memory, especially so if you're older and have multiple kids to keep track of.
She doesn’t want to get into it, only after she trashed her father online. She’s just a typical victim, because that’s what makes her special. I didn’t have a great dad, but I wouldn’t air his dirty laundry in public for clicks.
i was similar but after time i realised my mother did not help the situation one bit . he paid the money she had the house and moaned all the time about it
Do you ever think using the word "victim" sarcastically is harmful to real victims? And before you tell me that's her fault, remember your whole point is about accountability.
As a child of divorce and having been abandoned by my father literally over night… I still side with the dad. She’s completely spoiled and crazy. She has very little right to complain 😂
The dad responded again... with receipts. Pictures of the dad with Madi while she was growing up. At the beach, skiing, graduation etc. He answered the medical bills etc. so maybe go check it out.... the pictures don't look like he was absent.
Those are vacation photos? That doesn’t mean he raised her. Are you going to believe the parent or child about whether or not the parent was there for them when they needed it?
@@dotcom3015 According to the daughter he was completely absent... if he was around for vacations he was around at least a few times a year. For a divorced dad that's pretty common, especially if there was a bad divorce. I didn't say he was a good dad, or a perfect dad... but he wasn't the deadbeat she painted him as... he may have been selfish, childish, or petulant but he wasn't what she presented him as.
I think the old guy is telling the truth. Think about it: •He's a Father of 4 children. •If he did't help with 16K in Child support and Allomony, he'd be serving jail time so you know his ex-wife got financially secure after the divorce. •600K is A LOT towards a college fund, especially with inflation. The guy is highly intellegent otherwise he'd be living in poverty. •He is putting Facts over Feelings. •She is putting Feelings over Facts.
he showed the recipts he was divorced so he could not live with her and the amount of hate she is showing im happy he didnt she is mad because he got married well girl why cant he remarry and have a nice life
I don’t believe the TikTok girl for a second. Her response to the dad’s response seemed very malicious and forced. She’s not giving any proof of him lying and she’s speaking in a manner as if she’s upset that she’s being called out for lying. And basically everything about the video and her demeanor makes me feel like she’s a liar. Everything about the dad makes me feel like he’s telling the truth. He’s very clear in what he’s saying and he just overall seems a lot more genuine than his daughter.
No Im sure she really believes what shes saying, as the 65 year old break dancer pointed out. But it isnt true, likely brain wash by her mother. This happens so damn often Im inclined to believe the dad, if we are going off he said she said alone
@swordsunknown5226 Ben Hart, the father, made another response and showed the receipts. He was there during graduations, took them on vacations, and even paid bills. The Birthday stuff was a typo, because two days before he sent her 200 dollars ahead of the birthday.
@@swordsunknown5226 so if a man is wearing the "wrong" shirt for you, he must be a lying deadbeat? Hmmmm....can't wait for when you ever get in trouble and ppl assume your guilt or innocence purely on your fashion of the day....
the funniest part is that she’s coming out with it as an aware adult like she has to know they were divorced at that point it’s like girl you’re just mad and trying to make the story look a certain way 😂 she needs therapy that’s what he should have bought her!
@@obamabinladen-de7rtthe dad most likely cheated and got married to his affair partner. He literally says it was an at-fault divorce and it was 70% his fault. Everyone here bashing the daughter is crazy imo. You just want to seem cool cuz the dad is old and breakdances. And is rich.
@@shadamyandsonamylover it was an at fault divorce yes, but it was a divorce and not straight up abandonment, if he is at fault why would you lie to make him seem even worse?
My father also divorsed my mother when i was really young and it was not at all traumatic. More traumatic was him trying to kill me because he was an alcoholic drug addict. My brother tryed to drown me as well and i'm not bitching about it. For me the girl is lying because she is like "trust me bro, all my core family says he is lying" yet no proof of that. I think that she didnt like the dad dropping some facts and she felt like it was going to ruin her all drama of "oh i'm so special My dad abandoned me and My family but i'm joking about it". Doesnt fall for me.
People mald so much about the dad not knowing his daugther bday, because he abandoned her. Bro, i have been living with my dad for 26 years, and both of us don't know each other brithdays!! I'd probably forget my own birthday too if i could
My family makes fun of me cause my dads birthday is september 7th but i very often say september 9th cause september is the 9th month so even then i can understand forgetting cause generally dads are meant to look like the final boss of a household but often seem more like the neglectful parent (men are more passive and dont want to start trouble in the relationship so often irs because something happened years before that caused mom to be mad and so he only initiates time woth his kids when she allows it) also keep in mind you cant tell thr difference between a neglectful dad and a dad i just mentioned if you dont initiate a conversation with him and thats why some people love their dads and some think hes jist there to pay bills or something. Not saying talk to your dad, although you should, just saying at least talk to your mom about your dad or other family members cause even in my family we see how everyone says my dad is so energetic and positive but we usually dont get to see that as he works alot and basically lives in the basement (he used to work 3 jobs or so but had to stop not cause of problems but cause the tax jump from 2 to 3 didnt make sense for the hours he worked to him) im not nearly at bedt friends with dad level but im slowly getting there
How did he not "help her with her medical bills" when he'd been paying 18k a month on child support? That's completely insane, that's almost twice the money I earn in a YEAR. And of course if the divorce was nasty, the mother has an incentive to make him look bad and her young children would be heavily influenced by her. Her entire thing just seems to be for clout. If you notice, outside of "being absent" and "not helping with medical bills" she just throws around vague things like "traumatic", "unhinged" or things like that. The fact that she presented the whole story as "he abandoned us to do breakdancing" even though he started 7 YEARS later makes me doubt everything she's saying. Her story is just too vague, too full of "plot holes" and seems overall way more opportunistic than his side.
also the mother could've kept all that child support money to herself and kept lying that the dad paid nothing seeing how it seems the mother has a vendetta against him. I can see why he left her.
@@Awesom-O-40000To be fair, the 5M included the 18k a month, also him paying her 250 a week during the writers' strike and also co-leasing her appartment, and I imagine the 18k was for his 4 children, but fucking hell, 18k a month is really huge, as I said, it's almost double a month that I make in a year.
Jesus. My Dad left, lied to the CPS about his income and was told he only had to pay £2.76 a week (lol) stole the small amount of inheritance my Grandfather left me when i was 12, purchased a fancy car, and shacked up with a woman half his age (who he cheated on repeatedly, like he did my mother) and i havent seen nor spoken to him for over 20 years. Now THATS a dead beat Dad and abandonment.
Yeah mine found out I existed and was like NOPE signed his rights away now i’m 24 and did I mention i have little to no information about him? I have his name and I don’t even know if it’s spelled correctly 😂😂😂😂 edit: if there was laughable trauma please tell me that was it
Maddie is disgusting and has no idea what a deadbeat dad is. Aww poor wee Maddie how terrible it must be to be set up for life, how very terrible for you.
@@hayleyelizabeth7895 The only thing funny about it is comparing it to her so called "trauma" and how she's just a spoiled entitled brat compared to anyone else with real actual trauma/issues. 😂 I was abused and ended up homeless. This chick was rich, got everything taken care of for her, and works in hollywood and she wants to talk about "trauma." Also those medical expenses she wanted to have him pay for? It was for fucking therapy because she broke up with her boyfriend and no, I am not joking.
I don’t know anything about this situation but what ticks me off is that she basically shows her father in this negative light and expects people to not say anything.
She's a Gen Z social media "influencer"...she'd sell her soul for a single "like" and just a bit more pointless validation from strangers who wouldn't shed a tear if she shuffled off the mortal coil tomorrow.
She sounds just like my son: after having been indoctrinated/ brainwashed by their mothers. She was lucky her dad lived quite close and could see them very often. I didn't see my daughter for 10 years, and my son for 23 years. My son still spews the rhetoric and bullsh*t his mother spoon fed him. My daughter doesn't believe her mother, she has seen the truth through her own eyes and deductions. My son is totally blinded by the rubbish he is still being fed which includes I was trying to get back with his mother (wouldn't touch her with a 40' barge pole), and extremely offensive things like I was trying to get off with his half-sister. When I asked for evidence of course there wasn't any; also the fact I do not have his mother's phone number, if I did it would be permanently blocked and have no desire or will to contact her at all. This latest incident was less than two years ago. Ex was jealous because I visited Poland for 6 months where my son lives and was seeing him and his family frequently. She is a completely despicable individual saying anything to try to get my son & his family to block me from visiting.
The father's respond video was very timid and very light-hearted honestly and her reaction of that response tells me there is probably more dishonesty coming from her than him
Not timid but if you exaggerated the situation even more, it do no one better, the father trying to protect in a sense himself and her by not doing too much.
Dad has a 2nd video with ALOT of receipts. Showing Vids of them going on vacation spending time together with his fam, photos of him at their graduations/family dinners. They all seem to be having a great time. He definitely wasn't as absent of a father as she claims, could he have been there more? sure but he was def there and present for events.
Rather have a father who gives money and is absent than a dad who gives money but comes home and abuses you, smh these people are never grateful for what they have.
Fun fact: She blocked me in her response video after I asked if she remembered the situation correctly, cause between what she said and he said, it sounds more like she felt abandoned
When you’re in college, you are adult. This younger generation is so entitled, you need to pay my bills once I am an adult! Whether it’s true or not, stop playing the victim card! This generation is in the victim Olympics! It’s crazy! If you had a decent childhood, these people have to their trauma or make it up! If you’re biggest “childhood trauma is that your parents got divorced…consider yourself extremely lucky and move the eff on! SMFH!!! These people have no idea what trauma is. I mean OMG! Imagine having to pay your own medical bills as an adult… what nightmare not even comparable to the people who’s medical bills were inflicted by your parents and I am not talking about a splinter!
In college, you are an adult. Your parents can continue to help you, but they are not obligated to do so. Cold, but true. And I’m thinking he might have considered the funds he’d put in to see to their well being the financial aid towards things like medical. Maybe ask the mother what she did with the thousands per month she was paid that was meant for the children.
This is exactly what I was thinking! If she needed financial aid, why didn't she go to her mother instead of her 'deadbeat dad'? I have a sucky Dad who gave me actual trauma, and I don't talk to him at ALL. This just comes across as spoiled behaviour.
I found her dad to be a good honest guy, the daughter has to have something interesting to post or she'll get no views and that's a death sentance for social media influencers, it might be a part truth or a misunderstanding on her part
The man paid $5 million of his hard earned money for his family to live on for what, 18 years? You can live 2 lifetimes on that much. He's paid his dues, even if he wasn't present. Perhaps not father of the year, but there are many, many worse fathers, and his kids were extremely well taken care of.
She lied about quickting feminism after a guy pay her dinner(she was not feminist) went viral and now finf another cringe way of going viral. Next time she is going made other cringe stuff out.
Yeah so I have a deadbeat dad but I still love him because I can see he's not a bad person, life's complicated. I can't imagine being so entitled like this girl is.
I think being a deadbeat is due to financial reason and not really about being a bad person. Sometimes, money is the reason why couples end up separating.
@@remtanic2617No, but badmouthing him for not providing to you when he clearly did and saying he was completely absent fifteen seconds after you said he would come to visit from time to time; definitely.
The things my father did I would expose him if it meant it didn't come back on other family or myself. However with the power of forethought I know there are consequences if I were to do something close to what this girl did. Its fine enough to settle for warning the people around you irl if there is a problem and letting them come to their own decisions. Impulsive emotional thoughts happen but people need to have the mental capacity and maturity to think of the consequences before acting.
We've gotten to a point where people will do anything for attention. I watched his video where he posted proof that he's been there in her life. He's a better parent than me. I would not have been so nice if my kid tried to destroy my life over a lie. Especially over something as stupid as attention from strangers on the internet.
Paying attention to their tones of voices, facial expressions and more, and just the general story of it, yeah, the dad is 100% (to me) not lying. The way she acts just seems so typical of someone trying to get clout, and the small threats that you normally wouldn't notice makes it worse, it's like saying back off or else I'll say something about you to my millions of fans so they go to harass you, to me it just shows her character.
I love your videos, Pegasus. Your funny commentary over people being absolutely absurd is a good combo This might be my favorite video from you so far lol
The era of “exposing” your parents for their flaws is getting out of hand. None of our parents were perfect. Some were better than others. The point of life is to forgive your parents for their flaws so you don’t continue what they did.
@@AA-ed6ek Forgiving is not excusing. Forgiving someone who hurt you is a sign of healing, mentally and emotionally. The concept of forgiveness is for your self-healing, that's the whole point.
Old man's got moves 👏👏👏 Also Maddie is dumb as fuck for trying to turn trauma into something to laugh at, like imagine some dude got shot at by the mafia and the next day he's like "Haha, those guys were so funny, I should go golfing with them"
What? Are people not allowed recover in a healthy way? Laughter is the best medicine. I think the wording is weird but laughing at your own trauma is a perfectly okay thing to do if it helps
@@pootzmagootz I never said people aren't allowed to heal, but her saying "Trauma that's actually funny" is fucking insane, like I get the idea of looking back on a bad situation and having a little chuckle, but never heard of someone laughing while getting robbed in their own house.
@@factualdegree5450 on fucking god, and she didn't even phrase it in a comedic way, she just said "yeah my dad abandoned me when I was 5, so funny right 🤣"
I once was traumatized when I was eight, I don't know whether it's that serious but I was left home alone with my brother, and I took out a bagel from the freezer, it didn't fit in the toaster and I tried to cut it in half, apparently I was stupid at the time and I cut my finger deep to the point my blood just kept gushing out even when I kept washing my finger in the sink, I thought of three things at first, "Ouch, that hurts.", "Are my piano days over?", and "Why isn't the blood stopping?". Although this problem has been resolved because my brother called my parents, I have a scar on my right hand on my pointer finger, and I've sticked to using butter knives. Moral: Butter knives are better.
I think the term "deadbeat" gets thrown around to much. A deadbeat is so one who deasapears without a trace. no care for the children and often also avoiding financial help. If a parent takes itself about of the eqasion fore the childrens sake (mental health, drug abuse, criminal background e.c.t.) but still tries to support the children, the parent isn't a deadbeat. Also there are many cases, where the parents separate and the custodian deliberately keeps the other away by all means. I wouldn't count that as a deadbeat either.
She is trying too hard to have something I common with co workers, friends. Maybe he phoniness was evident to her ex boyfriend and realized she was a waste. Blame daddy because she had a wonderful life.
She calls it childhood trauma when even if he lived in Florida she said he visited every 2 Months. Please. After my parents divorced my Mum moved from Switzerland (where my dad lives and I was born) to Sweden (my dad can't speak Swedish while my Mum speaks French which is what was spoken in the part of Switzerland we lived in beforehand). I do not blame either of them for that decision cause they both thought the education and health care would be better in Sweden (honestly I didn't care for school in Sweden and would rather have grown up in Switzerland, but that's the past and what's done is done and they did what they thought was best). My dad would visit during December for 2 weeks in Sweden and we (my sister and I) would visit him in the summer every year for 2 weeks. We also moved to Sweden when I was 4. What I never get is having resentment and badmouthing your divorced ex. My mum and dad are still very good friends and just accepted they weren't a good match marriage wise and I have always and to this day still love both of them very much. I'm visiting my dad this summer again with my sister, brother in law, niece, nephew and my brother in laws parents. I also plan to move to Japan in the future and this is not due to not loving my family in Europe, but simply cause it's my dream and what I want to do. I do plan to wait until I live there, have a stable job, wife that I've been with long enough to know she's the one and a home I wouldn't wanna move from for at least 20 or so years. She just needs to grow tf up. Not everything works out how you would ideally want it and sometimes you have to live far from one of your parents, but that's just life. Accept it rather than crying that you weren't born with a perfect life cause no one is.
I didn't trust either of them. However I lean more towards the dad. He did provide financial support, and since he had remarried, his current family should be receiving the majority of his attention while not neglecting his children from the previous marriage (if possible).
Let me guess, because "women bad". Get off the internet, and go out into the real world. Posting a response video does not mean you were actually a great parent, especially if you abandoned your child when they were 5!
@@presentthough3417 dude wtf is you're statement ''let me guess woman bad'' dude there's nothing talking about the gender in this video you're just yapping you're ass off
@@presentthough3417 always somebody trying to defend the person in the wrong. Seriously though how far was that jump in logic? I only have a ruler on hand and that was pretty far.
The fact that she said new wife, that sounds like something his ex-wife would say after him leaving considering the kids liked him before but because she was mad then she had to get the kids on her side but who knows
Heck, my parents didn't even divorce, and my Mom would air out her frustrations about my Dad to me. When you're tired and stressed all the time, of course it will paint your Dad in a negative light. But, after therapy, I learned to step back and be more neutral. I had to remind my Mom to stop talking crap about Dad.
Generation Z demands their right to be victimized in every aspect of life - fortunately generation Millinial, X and Boomer ain’t having any of their tantrum shit 😁❤️🤘🏻
I 100% believe the dad. It's how he confronted the points. And her response with words like "delusional" "most of my childhood" is highly subjective, whereas his response is precise with word, address, business names, etc. Its just a professional victim trying to get views.
She is a spoiled brat! She is doing this for clout! There are visitation stipulations when you get a divorce. Her mother brainwashed her. I can tell cause i am divorced as well and i told my daughter i will explain it to her when she is older cause she is still young.
The Dad really to Mathy said: 💀☕ No Job and cant do shit while break dancing ( bro he is too kind and humble and even even defend his daughter action )
@@anaalicia5029 Made his fortune and later made her mom a fortune too! In 2024 dollar value, her mom was getting 324k A YEAR FROM HER DAD. Thats more than your average person does in a year worth of working, and her mom was doing nothing other than filling her own kid's ideas lunatic ideologies
It's so cute how to reacts to this situation, I'm so glad he can still breakdown. He seems like at least a decent father, or at the very least a decent human being
I just wanted to say you presented this video brilliantly and I can tell you’re getting better at your skills. Keep it up. I will continue to watch your videos.
A person who sets up a camera lighting and films yourself giggling and smiling talking about your "trauma" is actually traumatizing for the ppl that have to listen. Cuz no one does that
the fact that people would defend this behavior on twitter is wild, dad had every right to call her out since she aired this online first given that she is online and her dad is a big figure as well. whether either or is true, she looks worse in this situation compared to the dad in my opinion.
Imagine being ratio’d by a breakdancing crypto investor who also happens to be your father. I blame the mom for lying to her, and I hope she can repair her relationship with her dad, cuz he seems cool, if a bit crazy.
Im still trying to figure out how her dad leaving is "tramautizing" and "dark" like he left, he couldn't have done anything worse? And before anyone says anything, my dad left too. (2-3 years ago, I'm not really sure.) Its not traumatizing. Its just hard dealing with it. My dad is completely absent, like he's dead or something. I only see him a select few times, and its just like seeing a stranger in public. He doesn't even talk to me. Shes making this seem like he was there being an abusive father. No, he was gone. Grow up. Also, I would NEVER make a video about my dad online. Mainly if I knew thousands, or millions of people could see it. And sharing stuff like that for views is pathetic and sad. Find other content to post, it'll make your life way better.
The irony of the internet’s twisted logic: telling your audience not to go bully someone, is literally code for telling them to do so.
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Yet if you don't, people will accuse you of encouraging bullying
@@Rainokdamned if you do, damned if you don’t
Well I think it depends on the context of the video as well as the person. Many youtubers or influencers who don't have malicious intents, actually do it for a reason like maybe an informative video on a type of controversy which is backed up with valid proof. But on the other hand, this girl said don't bully him but then proceeds to try and defame him while keeping this "But he's not that bad" persona. If that's the case, there was no need to even put out the video😭
The internet fans do whatever they want. The internet is full of wackos
This girl is such a red flag 😐
Zero relationship with Dad, but willing to ask him to pay for her shit, even medical bills is a huge red flag
@@misterdopemusic5855 Yeah she probably has a ton of medical bills because she’s a mentally ill TikToker 😂
she plays on the gender disparity that a woman is innocent until proven guilty while a guy is guilty until proven innocent. Even more of a red flag is that she altered her story from no contact deadbeat dad to "we have dinner on occassion".....which is not what total deadbeat dads do...but she's still The Victim in this story.
hmmm
Talking bad about people is a red flag. They'll talk behind your back too. Stay away from people that do this.
Only tell people about a person if you're warning them.
Oh and not the old breakdancing bitcoin repping deadbeat? Ok lol
Bro I swear girls these days can grow up in the most safe and wealthy household imaginable and still claim to have tRaUmA to farm some clout
Literally what I was thinking!
Yeahhh, “trauma” is a word that gets thrown around way too lightly nowadays.
Yes, unfortunately many people suffer from trauma and mental illness. But a lot of these social media “influencers” just use it for clout, because it’s “quirky and relatable”
Ikr! I was facepalming everytime she said the word "trauma" she probably doesn't even know what that word really means lmao
One of Eminem's non biological adopted daughter did same shit for twitch clout a year ago. Ungrateful brats
Seriously. She kept saying "trauma" as if this very thing doesn't happen to most fucking families. Shit, I lived in a household where my mom abused my dad for years, kicked him out for 2 years, brought him back to live in the basement, and when she finally left him for a woman, she lied to the courts saying he was an abusive drug addict and then tried to have him arrested on false claims of domestic abuse. Yet even I don't call this traumatic. It was probably way more traumatic for my dad, if anyone. (Also, thank God my brother was secretly recording that night because the video actually showed HER chasing him around the house at 1am, punching, slapping, and kicking him trying to get a reaction and when he pushed by her, she literally threw herself into the goddamn wall and called the cops. Once they saw the video from my brother, they asked him if he wanted to press charges and he said no, so they left...all that started because he put locks on the basement door to keep her away from him and she got mad that she couldn't go down there and provoke him or rummage through his belongings anymore, resulting in her taking a fvcking hammer to the door to break in and attack him and scream at him). I used to PRAY that my dad would leave her bc he was so depressed and miserable, but he was so afraid that if he did, she'd take us and he'd never see his kids again. I love my dad and would defend him to the end of the world. Hell, despite the shit my mom did, I still worked with her until we eventually came to some sort of understanding. I certainly wouldn't shout her real name from the rooftops or destroy her image by going public with all that. Anonymous, whatever, but the second you use real names and faces, you've fucked up. I don't even really care who's right or wrong, people need to stop publicly airing out their personal problems and dirty laundry. Make that shit anonymous or keep your mouth fucking shut. She's despicable either way in my eyes. And it ain't fvcking trauma. She may be hurt, but she didn't experience trauma. Pathetic childish stupid little girl.
Ben posted another video, explaining that he did pay for her medical bills growing up, which she's being disingenuous about.
In college, she had a break up, and wanted to seek grief counseling. That's what he refused to pay.
She states multiple times, that he just completely abandoned them after the divorce. Meanwhile, his new vid shows her at around age 10-12 along with her siblings.
He took them to the beach, waterparks, and other vacations.
He asked her about her passions at the time, all while still giving her mother over 10k a month.
He attended graduations and other events. No where was he absent.
It's crazy how people lie to get money and attention. Ok, maybe not that crazy, but you get the point
oh my.. thanks it all adds up now. but just, gosh, she's just..
yeah man, it's her dad and this is crazy@@bigheadrat9493
going to grief counselling for a break up... lmao.. this girl lol
I hate when this happens. I hate families being torn apart by each other for fame, control, and money. It's not cool and funny to lie about someone like that.
Parental alienation is a strategy whereby one parent intentionally displays to the child unjustified negativity aimed at the other parent. The purpose of this strategy is to damage the child's relationship with the other parent and to turn the child's emotions against that other parent.
and the victim is mostly the father.
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
It's also mostly a myth perpetuated by bad parents whose kids hate them for good reasons
@@popejaimiedo you have data on this or do you just like to make stuff up that sounds good for your argument?
@@popejaimieis that why it’s standard for parenting/custody agreements required by the states to contain verbiage to prevent that sort of stuff?
As both a daughter and a sister, this is absolutely heartbreaking, cringe, and upsetting. I have a younger sister that also makes false accusations against not just on my dad, but both my parents. She apparently has a podcast and makes TikToks about her “traumas” growing up. She went as far as accusing my hardworking, loving father of SAing her and only her. She and I shared the same bedroom our entire childhood, and obviously know that’s not true. But she blocked and cut off our entire family and people that knew us since we were kids so no one could call her out on it. She’s the youngest girl out of the 5 of us, so she was the rotten spoiled brat and was WELL taken care of (of course I can say that since she’s my sister and allowed to make fun of her lol). The TikTok girl sounds actually like my sister. Wanting to be a victim when she has never been victimized. Enough said.
She needs suing so her brainwashed two brain cells left can be kicked into action
I'm sorry you have to go through that
You should expose her, she’ll never learn otherwise. Or your parents should take her phone away, cuz that behaviour isn’t near way okay. It’s offensive for ppl who really go tru trauma
@@vsm5787 She’s 24 now, but she started this bullshit since she was 22. My family and I could expose her but we just let “her truth” to be out in the world because no one knows her true life story and we shouldn’t force anyone to believe us since we know that at the end the real truth will come out . And besides, we’ve never tried to contacted her since she graduated from college (bc she blocked us and started her bullshit), she kept “crying out” that we won’t leave her alone and that we kept harassing her. We knew at that point she had lost her senses and no way she’ll change what she believes
Being a victim is trendy in America
10:59 The dad - "The main point is, it's never to late to start break dancing".
I agree. I also think that's the main point here 😂
You came here to see drama. I came here to watch an old man breakdance. My goals are beyond your comprehension.
@@reallegendgamer379 lol
My Dad literally ghosted my family when I was 4 years old. We never saw a single cent from him and I didn’t speak with him again until I ran into him when I was 18. His reason for leaving was that my mom didn’t want him doing coke anymore… I WISH he had just left to pursue Breakdancing
Skibidi toilet
Your not funny this is serious wtf does skibidi toilet have to do with this?
Bro I'm sorry for your dad leaving and that skibidi toilet kid take care👍❤
@@Goldburger1 Thanks man, I’m over 40 have a beautiful wife and decent kids now, and he is dead from a drug overdose about 15 years ago. So it all worked out in the end
@@Goldburger1jases is probably some 8 year old, ignore him.
She works in Hollywood, enough said.
She has a plastic personality
Nuff said.
she probably made those woke new disney movies^^
And she can thank her father in a way too. Since he himself worked in Hollywood. 😅
you guys DID not watch her response she doesnt work in hollywood shes a fucking assistant lmao
She is a spoiled rich kid who is trying to manufacture drama because she's never had to deal with real trauma.
If the dad didn't send her money, she attacks him and say he was never there for her
If he sends her moderate amount or too small, she'd say he barely did anything despite earning alot and she's a bad father
He sends her alot of money and she turns out the way she is RN
With a daughter like this, she was always gonna bring him down so she can make a story based on her life, that's how Hollywood is😪
When I grew up my parents divorced, at first I was living with my mom and you know what she did. She tried to brainwash me about my father being a bad person but I never let that get to me. Then I moved to my father after getting tired of hearing lies about my dad, aah the peaceful days with my dad.
Thank you for giving me hope that I can achieve such. I fight hard for my son every day, and everything is always my fault no matter what I do. Dad's just aren't important to the courts or public opinion, sadly. It's been a soul crushing experience, losing so much time with my son, it's a pain id wish on nobody in this world. My love for my son is weaponized against me, when I just wanted equality in parenting and for everyone to move forward with their lives. Needless to say, it didn't go that way at all, unfortunately. Thank you so much for your comment, it's literally going to make me cry, because some days it just feels like I got left behind, just for wanting to be a dad. Thank you again, stranger, thank you.
@@HarleySLAhang in there, brother. We are one, but we are many.
Divorced after 17 years & my wife left me for another man, taking my 2 boys with her.
Started off having them 2 days a fortnight, which everyone told me to be thankful for. I would excitedly count down the days till I saw them and would end up devastated when that time whisked past & they departed again.
That was nearly 7 years ago and we are up to 4 days a fortnight in time together.
It wasn’t enough then and it’s still not enough now.
But… they remember EVERYTHING…
And that is what you need to hang on to if you are able to see them if at all
@@HarleySLAI’m only a child but I really feel you for this. I haven’t seen my father in 3 years but I know he doesn’t want to ditch me. We talk and call daily and he says he wants me to come all the time. He lives very far in a different country though, so we never really see each other in person/physically
How can anyone take her side of the story seriously when she can't even keep her own story straight? She said in her response that she didn't hear from him for years and then within the same breath she contradicted herself and said that he came around every 2 months and had dinner with them which would imply on no uncertain terms that you DID see your dad on a somewhat regular basis and even self admitted to have shared meals together.
She came out of nowhere and publicly leveled heavy accusations of parental neglect on her dad for no reason, her dad came out in a civil manner and told his side of the story while correcting and/or expanding on certain things that he felt needed to be expanded upon and later she comes out and tries to discredit her dad's side of the story and ends up contradicting her own statements in the process. What reason does she give me to believe anything she is saying?
Where is the evidence of him being a bad father? Because him forgetting her birthday is a weak argument since not everyone has a good memory, especially so if you're older and have multiple kids to keep track of.
She doesn’t want to get into it, only after she trashed her father online. She’s just a typical victim, because that’s what makes her special. I didn’t have a great dad, but I wouldn’t air his dirty laundry in public for clicks.
i was similar but after time i realised my mother did not help the situation one bit . he paid the money she had the house and moaned all the time about it
She’s a professional victim
She lives off her clicks.
Simply she was out of content and then this happened.
Do you ever think using the word "victim" sarcastically is harmful to real victims? And before you tell me that's her fault, remember your whole point is about accountability.
"we didn't hear from him for years, and he would visit every few months".... So what is it??? Years or months??? , her instant contradiction
She’s lying 😂
yeah I didn't believe her for a second
😂😂😂
As a child of divorce and having been abandoned by my father literally over night… I still side with the dad. She’s completely spoiled and crazy. She has very little right to complain 😂
You just objectively cannot be a deadbeat when you are paying 27 grand a month. Not even accounting for the 5 million.
The dad responded again... with receipts. Pictures of the dad with Madi while she was growing up. At the beach, skiing, graduation etc. He answered the medical bills etc. so maybe go check it out.... the pictures don't look like he was absent.
thank you man for clearing it up i was looking for this comment
This is the second video I have seen on this drama that left out the Dad’s second response.
Link?
Those are vacation photos? That doesn’t mean he raised her. Are you going to believe the parent or child about whether or not the parent was there for them when they needed it?
@@dotcom3015 According to the daughter he was completely absent... if he was around for vacations he was around at least a few times a year. For a divorced dad that's pretty common, especially if there was a bad divorce. I didn't say he was a good dad, or a perfect dad... but he wasn't the deadbeat she painted him as... he may have been selfish, childish, or petulant but he wasn't what she presented him as.
I think the old guy is telling the truth. Think about it:
•He's a Father of 4 children.
•If he did't help with 16K in Child support and Allomony, he'd be serving jail time so you know his ex-wife got financially secure after the divorce.
•600K is A LOT towards a college fund, especially with inflation. The guy is highly intellegent otherwise he'd be living in poverty.
•He is putting Facts over Feelings.
•She is putting Feelings over Facts.
Intelligence and wealth are not synonymous.
@@agad1177 Not every tool can manage a business by themselves, just saying, but i'd say this guy is both intelligent and stacked
Facts
@@agad1177how many times have you copy and pasted that same comment?
he showed the recipts he was divorced so he could not live with her and the amount of hate she is showing im happy he didnt she is mad because he got married well girl why cant he remarry and have a nice life
This girl is a straight up red flag, avoid that tumor at all cost!.
TUMOR??? LOOL
I get in a divorce, the child might feel like they’re emotionally neglected, but lying about your family to strangers online is so weird
I don’t believe the TikTok girl for a second. Her response to the dad’s response seemed very malicious and forced. She’s not giving any proof of him lying and she’s speaking in a manner as if she’s upset that she’s being called out for lying. And basically everything about the video and her demeanor makes me feel like she’s a liar.
Everything about the dad makes me feel like he’s telling the truth. He’s very clear in what he’s saying and he just overall seems a lot more genuine than his daughter.
You believe a guy who wears a crypto shirt tho?
No Im sure she really believes what shes saying, as the 65 year old break dancer pointed out. But it isnt true, likely brain wash by her mother. This happens so damn often Im inclined to believe the dad, if we are going off he said she said alone
@swordsunknown5226 Ben Hart, the father, made another response and showed the receipts. He was there during graduations, took them on vacations, and even paid bills. The Birthday stuff was a typo, because two days before he sent her 200 dollars ahead of the birthday.
@@swordsunknown5226 so if a man is wearing the "wrong" shirt for you, he must be a lying deadbeat? Hmmmm....can't wait for when you ever get in trouble and ppl assume your guilt or innocence purely on your fashion of the day....
@@swordsunknown5226 wearing a crypto shirt says nothing about one’s character
"he was an absent father." BTCH YOUR PARENTS WERE DIVORCED WTF DID YOU EXPECT??😂😂😂
the funniest part is that she’s coming out with it as an aware adult like she has to know they were divorced at that point it’s like girl you’re just mad and trying to make the story look a certain way 😂 she needs therapy that’s what he should have bought her!
yeah dude she is mad because his dad married real quick like what do you expect him to mourn over it ruin his life dads a G bro.
@@obamabinladen-de7rtthe dad most likely cheated and got married to his affair partner. He literally says it was an at-fault divorce and it was 70% his fault.
Everyone here bashing the daughter is crazy imo. You just want to seem cool cuz the dad is old and breakdances. And is rich.
@@shadamyandsonamylover it was an at fault divorce yes, but it was a divorce and not straight up abandonment, if he is at fault why would you lie to make him seem even worse?
@@specificocean4176 if you cheat on your family and then leave your family to get with your affair partner - that is 100% abandonment.
My father also divorsed my mother when i was really young and it was not at all traumatic. More traumatic was him trying to kill me because he was an alcoholic drug addict. My brother tryed to drown me as well and i'm not bitching about it.
For me the girl is lying because she is like "trust me bro, all my core family says he is lying" yet no proof of that. I think that she didnt like the dad dropping some facts and she felt like it was going to ruin her all drama of "oh i'm so special My dad abandoned me and My family but i'm joking about it". Doesnt fall for me.
This poor father, wanted nothing but the best for his daughter and then she trashed on him because her mother was trash talking him
People mald so much about the dad not knowing his daugther bday, because he abandoned her. Bro, i have been living with my dad for 26 years, and both of us don't know each other brithdays!! I'd probably forget my own birthday too if i could
Same, I often forget the birthdays of my mom and dad who I've been living with 24/7 for years.
I do forget mine. I've been surprised a few times after hearing an unexpected 'Happy Birthday!".
I forget my own birthday.
My wife literally had to remind me it was my birthday this year because I completely forgot lol
My family makes fun of me cause my dads birthday is september 7th but i very often say september 9th cause september is the 9th month so even then i can understand forgetting cause generally dads are meant to look like the final boss of a household but often seem more like the neglectful parent (men are more passive and dont want to start trouble in the relationship so often irs because something happened years before that caused mom to be mad and so he only initiates time woth his kids when she allows it) also keep in mind you cant tell thr difference between a neglectful dad and a dad i just mentioned if you dont initiate a conversation with him and thats why some people love their dads and some think hes jist there to pay bills or something. Not saying talk to your dad, although you should, just saying at least talk to your mom about your dad or other family members cause even in my family we see how everyone says my dad is so energetic and positive but we usually dont get to see that as he works alot and basically lives in the basement (he used to work 3 jobs or so but had to stop not cause of problems but cause the tax jump from 2 to 3 didnt make sense for the hours he worked to him) im not nearly at bedt friends with dad level but im slowly getting there
How did he not "help her with her medical bills" when he'd been paying 18k a month on child support? That's completely insane, that's almost twice the money I earn in a YEAR. And of course if the divorce was nasty, the mother has an incentive to make him look bad and her young children would be heavily influenced by her. Her entire thing just seems to be for clout. If you notice, outside of "being absent" and "not helping with medical bills" she just throws around vague things like "traumatic", "unhinged" or things like that. The fact that she presented the whole story as "he abandoned us to do breakdancing" even though he started 7 YEARS later makes me doubt everything she's saying. Her story is just too vague, too full of "plot holes" and seems overall way more opportunistic than his side.
He made a second video. She wanted money for a therapist in regards to her break up with a boyfriend. Father refused to pay these therapist money.
also the mother could've kept all that child support money to herself and kept lying that the dad paid nothing seeing how it seems the mother has a vendetta against him. I can see why he left her.
a deadbeat that pays $5M + $18k/mo is wild 😂😂
@@Awesom-O-40000To be fair, the 5M included the 18k a month, also him paying her 250 a week during the writers' strike and also co-leasing her appartment, and I imagine the 18k was for his 4 children, but fucking hell, 18k a month is really huge, as I said, it's almost double a month that I make in a year.
@@zzygyy
So it wasn't medical bills meaning that she lied, again! Big shocker 😂😂😂😂😂
Childhood trauma? HA!! This girl woulda self terminated if she woulda had my childhood.
Ikr. They have no idea what real childhood trauma looks like.
Lol
My pain is FAR GREATER THAN YOURS!
"dad scolds his daughter then breakdances" is such a funny concept lmfao
Jesus. My Dad left, lied to the CPS about his income and was told he only had to pay £2.76 a week (lol) stole the small amount of inheritance my Grandfather left me when i was 12, purchased a fancy car, and shacked up with a woman half his age (who he cheated on repeatedly, like he did my mother) and i havent seen nor spoken to him for over 20 years. Now THATS a dead beat Dad and abandonment.
Yeah mine found out I existed and was like NOPE signed his rights away now i’m 24 and did I mention i have little to no information about him? I have his name and I don’t even know if it’s spelled correctly 😂😂😂😂 edit: if there was laughable trauma please tell me that was it
Glad yal are doing beter
Maddie is disgusting and has no idea what a deadbeat dad is. Aww poor wee Maddie how terrible it must be to be set up for life, how very terrible for you.
Damn
@@hayleyelizabeth7895
The only thing funny about it is comparing it to her so called "trauma" and how she's just a spoiled entitled brat compared to anyone else with real actual trauma/issues. 😂 I was abused and ended up homeless. This chick was rich, got everything taken care of for her, and works in hollywood and she wants to talk about "trauma." Also those medical expenses she wanted to have him pay for? It was for fucking therapy because she broke up with her boyfriend and no, I am not joking.
I don’t know anything about this situation but what ticks me off is that she basically shows her father in this negative light and expects people to not say anything.
Exactly. She leaves a trail of bread crumbs to him then unleashes her audience on him knowing exactly what's going to happen.
Nah she definitely expected her audience to troll him.
Goes to show how delusional she is, social media is shining a light to alot of crazies out there.
She's a Gen Z social media "influencer"...she'd sell her soul for a single "like" and just a bit more pointless validation from strangers who wouldn't shed a tear if she shuffled off the mortal coil tomorrow.
@@pennyproud1621 It's pretty sick what they are doing to one another just for the money.
She sounds just like my son: after having been indoctrinated/ brainwashed by their mothers. She was lucky her dad lived quite close and could see them very often. I didn't see my daughter for 10 years, and my son for 23 years. My son still spews the rhetoric and bullsh*t his mother spoon fed him. My daughter doesn't believe her mother, she has seen the truth through her own eyes and deductions. My son is totally blinded by the rubbish he is still being fed which includes I was trying to get back with his mother (wouldn't touch her with a 40' barge pole), and extremely offensive things like I was trying to get off with his half-sister. When I asked for evidence of course there wasn't any; also the fact I do not have his mother's phone number, if I did it would be permanently blocked and have no desire or will to contact her at all. This latest incident was less than two years ago. Ex was jealous because I visited Poland for 6 months where my son lives and was seeing him and his family frequently. She is a completely despicable individual saying anything to try to get my son & his family to block me from visiting.
“Couldn’t handle the breakdancing” has me crying💀💀
The father's respond video was very timid and very light-hearted honestly and her reaction of that response tells me there is probably more dishonesty coming from her than him
Not timid but if you exaggerated the situation even more, it do no one better, the father trying to protect in a sense himself and her by not doing too much.
Dad has a 2nd video with ALOT of receipts. Showing Vids of them going on vacation spending time together with his fam, photos of him at their graduations/family dinners. They all seem to be having a great time. He definitely wasn't as absent of a father as she claims, could he have been there more? sure but he was def there and present for events.
Hahaha he should sue, get some of his money back.
No he didn’t, this is completely fabricated
@@utrak Sue for 8mil dollars , 500k extra to pay the lawyers
@@dontpanic9496 🤡
he should sue both his daughter and the mom
Rather have a father who gives money and is absent than a dad who gives money but comes home and abuses you, smh these people are never grateful for what they have.
3:57 'I was pretty shagrin with what i heard.' Peagasus: "SHAGRIN!"
I just got done watching his response to her response and he brought the receipts!! 😅
Too good lmao
He brought more than receipts. More like her childhood Wikipedia
XD
HAHAA
@@zzygyyNecessary for perpetually lying victims
Fun fact: She blocked me in her response video after I asked if she remembered the situation correctly, cause between what she said and he said, it sounds more like she felt abandoned
She lying 😂
@@nashbullet3213 ik
If I have to guess, she's probably spoiled rotten by her mom
Imagine giving your kids millions of dollars and still being called a dead beat lmao. Crazy.
When you’re in college, you are adult. This younger generation is so entitled, you need to pay my bills once I am an adult! Whether it’s true or not, stop playing the victim card! This generation is in the victim Olympics! It’s crazy! If you had a decent childhood, these people have to their trauma or make it up! If you’re biggest “childhood trauma is that your parents got divorced…consider yourself extremely lucky and move the eff on! SMFH!!! These people have no idea what trauma is. I mean OMG! Imagine having to pay your own medical bills as an adult… what nightmare not even comparable to the people who’s medical bills were inflicted by your parents and I am not talking about a splinter!
In college, you are an adult. Your parents can continue to help you, but they are not obligated to do so. Cold, but true. And I’m thinking he might have considered the funds he’d put in to see to their well being the financial aid towards things like medical. Maybe ask the mother what she did with the thousands per month she was paid that was meant for the children.
This is exactly what I was thinking! If she needed financial aid, why didn't she go to her mother instead of her 'deadbeat dad'? I have a sucky Dad who gave me actual trauma, and I don't talk to him at ALL. This just comes across as spoiled behaviour.
Exactly what I thought 😭 Dad is a weird goober but he’s not 100% responsible for everything in her life ever
She's crazy, and I bet her mom is too. Her dad seems to be as good a sport about it as humanly possible. The end.
The best response and revenge is the withdraw from the relationship and live a happy life with your new found freedom.
I found her dad to be a good honest guy, the daughter has to have something interesting to post or she'll get no views and that's a death sentance for social media influencers, it might be a part truth or a misunderstanding on her part
anyone who writes a book about their own divorce is fuckin crazy
that includes kanye
@@user-mz6sh4uo7u women can drive any man crazy.
The man paid $5 million of his hard earned money for his family to live on for what, 18 years? You can live 2 lifetimes on that much. He's paid his dues, even if he wasn't present. Perhaps not father of the year, but there are many, many worse fathers, and his kids were extremely well taken care of.
that's actually a caring dad for someone who was divorced, how can someone go this low just for a clout.
This entire spoiled kid culture is pathetic. If there's a time for the dad to leave HER personally, it's now lol but I know he won't.
I’d trade dads with her 😂
avg brokie ngl
She lied about quickting feminism after a guy pay her dinner(she was not feminist) went viral and now finf another cringe way of going viral. Next time she is going made other cringe stuff out.
@@cristalblackstar8177 you cant spell so you're wrong
@FamineRoblox can't ** you don't know how to spell either so shut the fuq up.
Yeah so I have a deadbeat dad but I still love him because I can see he's not a bad person, life's complicated. I can't imagine being so entitled like this girl is.
I think being a deadbeat is due to financial reason and not really about being a bad person. Sometimes, money is the reason why couples end up separating.
Wait, so wanting your dad to do his job makes you entitled?
@@remtanic2617No, but badmouthing him for not providing to you when he clearly did and saying he was completely absent fifteen seconds after you said he would come to visit from time to time; definitely.
The things my father did I would expose him if it meant it didn't come back on other family or myself. However with the power of forethought I know there are consequences if I were to do something close to what this girl did. Its fine enough to settle for warning the people around you irl if there is a problem and letting them come to their own decisions. Impulsive emotional thoughts happen but people need to have the mental capacity and maturity to think of the consequences before acting.
Maybe you and her have different dads
We've gotten to a point where people will do anything for attention. I watched his video where he posted proof that he's been there in her life. He's a better parent than me. I would not have been so nice if my kid tried to destroy my life over a lie. Especially over something as stupid as attention from strangers on the internet.
Dad is in the right. He showed sick moves, that's undeniable evidence.
lol
If being awesome at breakdance was a crime he would be in a life sentence
She will regret this when her so-called career tanks and she needs a loan from Dad. Also, i bet she doesn't know when his birthday is.
Wait till she cry’s poor mouth “daddy I need money to buy a house” I would say , I have to give money to Salvation Army to help homeless children”
Paying attention to their tones of voices, facial expressions and more, and just the general story of it, yeah, the dad is 100% (to me) not lying. The way she acts just seems so typical of someone trying to get clout, and the small threats that you normally wouldn't notice makes it worse, it's like saying back off or else I'll say something about you to my millions of fans so they go to harass you, to me it just shows her character.
Ay it's mr psychology.
@@Yiiiiipeeee😮
@@Yiiiiipeeee
OP didn't lie. He spoke facts.
@Delimon007 Ah yes, youtube comments. The beacon of truth and the home of scholars. Please forgive my obtuse behavior and do go on.
@@Yiiiiipeeee Funnily enough, it is, since I'm about to have my bachelor's degree in psychology.
I love your videos, Pegasus. Your funny commentary over people being absolutely absurd is a good combo
This might be my favorite video from you so far lol
Team break dancing old guy
👇 (not forcing)
Me
The era of “exposing” your parents for their flaws is getting out of hand. None of our parents were perfect. Some were better than others. The point of life is to forgive your parents for their flaws so you don’t continue what they did.
yah not having a relationship with the child you choose to have is a "flaw"
@@HeoBaby24Yeah because he chose not to have a relationship with the child. Where’s her mother?
This girl is ridiculous but this culture of you Westerners excusing the behavior of horrible parents (mostly mothers) is gross.
@@AA-ed6ek Forgiving is not excusing. Forgiving someone who hurt you is a sign of healing, mentally and emotionally. The concept of forgiveness is for your self-healing, that's the whole point.
Old man's got moves 👏👏👏
Also Maddie is dumb as fuck for trying to turn trauma into something to laugh at, like imagine some dude got shot at by the mafia and the next day he's like "Haha, those guys were so funny, I should go golfing with them"
She was like "and trauma thats ACTUALLY funny" even though nothing she said was even close to making me slightly giggle.
What? Are people not allowed recover in a healthy way? Laughter is the best medicine. I think the wording is weird but laughing at your own trauma is a perfectly okay thing to do if it helps
many comedians use personal trauma/trauma as comedy. she just fails at being funny.
@@pootzmagootz I never said people aren't allowed to heal, but her saying "Trauma that's actually funny" is fucking insane, like I get the idea of looking back on a bad situation and having a little chuckle, but never heard of someone laughing while getting robbed in their own house.
@@factualdegree5450 on fucking god, and she didn't even phrase it in a comedic way, she just said "yeah my dad abandoned me when I was 5, so funny right 🤣"
I once was traumatized when I was eight, I don't know whether it's that serious but I was left home alone with my brother, and I took out a bagel from the freezer, it didn't fit in the toaster and I tried to cut it in half, apparently I was stupid at the time and I cut my finger deep to the point my blood just kept gushing out even when I kept washing my finger in the sink, I thought of three things at first, "Ouch, that hurts.", "Are my piano days over?", and "Why isn't the blood stopping?". Although this problem has been resolved because my brother called my parents, I have a scar on my right hand on my pointer finger, and I've sticked to using butter knives.
Moral: Butter knives are better.
from what I witnessed, the girls that are loud about their "daddy issues" are often the ones who have the least reasons to complain about it...
I think the term "deadbeat" gets thrown around to much.
A deadbeat is so one who deasapears without a trace. no care for the children and often also avoiding financial help.
If a parent takes itself about of the eqasion fore the childrens sake (mental health, drug abuse, criminal background e.c.t.) but still tries to support the children, the parent isn't a deadbeat.
Also there are many cases, where the parents separate and the custodian deliberately keeps the other away by all means. I wouldn't count that as a deadbeat either.
Yep that's my dad never seem him once only had 1 phone call whit him
She is trying too hard to have something I common with co workers, friends. Maybe he phoniness was evident to her ex boyfriend and realized she was a waste. Blame daddy because she had a wonderful life.
"I'm a comedian"
What she finds funny: Child abandonment.
She's paint dry level funny
@@lilzeddy paint drying is more entertaining then her.
Female comedians ☕
@@ybone8709what the hell don't do us like that
@@SheIsOats A lot of modern female comedians....aren't even funny. However, there were actual funny women back in the 60's and stuff.
My guy hitted a breakdance after winning the argument
She calls it childhood trauma when even if he lived in Florida she said he visited every 2 Months. Please.
After my parents divorced my Mum moved from Switzerland (where my dad lives and I was born) to Sweden (my dad can't speak Swedish while my Mum speaks French which is what was spoken in the part of Switzerland we lived in beforehand). I do not blame either of them for that decision cause they both thought the education and health care would be better in Sweden (honestly I didn't care for school in Sweden and would rather have grown up in Switzerland, but that's the past and what's done is done and they did what they thought was best). My dad would visit during December for 2 weeks in Sweden and we (my sister and I) would visit him in the summer every year for 2 weeks. We also moved to Sweden when I was 4. What I never get is having resentment and badmouthing your divorced ex. My mum and dad are still very good friends and just accepted they weren't a good match marriage wise and I have always and to this day still love both of them very much. I'm visiting my dad this summer again with my sister, brother in law, niece, nephew and my brother in laws parents. I also plan to move to Japan in the future and this is not due to not loving my family in Europe, but simply cause it's my dream and what I want to do. I do plan to wait until I live there, have a stable job, wife that I've been with long enough to know she's the one and a home I wouldn't wanna move from for at least 20 or so years.
She just needs to grow tf up. Not everything works out how you would ideally want it and sometimes you have to live far from one of your parents, but that's just life. Accept it rather than crying that you weren't born with a perfect life cause no one is.
I didn't trust either of them. However I lean more towards the dad. He did provide financial support, and since he had remarried, his current family should be receiving the majority of his attention while not neglecting his children from the previous marriage (if possible).
Most importantly he provide evidence
Go watch his second video towards her response. You'll be changing your tune rreealllll quick.
@@Delimon007In a “dad is right way?” Or a “dad is wrong” way?
That was fast. I just watched the dad's response to the second video. He has the RECEIPTS! 😂
I blame the mom tbh.
Where is it posted the second response
Let me guess, because "women bad". Get off the internet, and go out into the real world. Posting a response video does not mean you were actually a great parent, especially if you abandoned your child when they were 5!
@@presentthough3417 She started this, not him and he has every right to defend himself against some ungrateful, deceitful brat.
@@presentthough3417 dude wtf is you're statement ''let me guess woman bad'' dude there's nothing talking about the gender in this video you're just yapping you're ass off
@@presentthough3417 always somebody trying to defend the person in the wrong.
Seriously though how far was that jump in logic? I only have a ruler on hand and that was pretty far.
He speaks like he’s bill nye or some other school-teacher that’s doing a nice video explaining a topic
egg breakdancer seems to be tellin the thruth ngl his moves are cool
shes 24 by the way . A strong and independent feminist that needs dads money . more like Rich and entitled
The fact that she said new wife, that sounds like something his ex-wife would say after him leaving considering the kids liked him before but because she was mad then she had to get the kids on her side but who knows
Heck, my parents didn't even divorce, and my Mom would air out her frustrations about my Dad to me. When you're tired and stressed all the time, of course it will paint your Dad in a negative light. But, after therapy, I learned to step back and be more neutral. I had to remind my Mom to stop talking crap about Dad.
Generation Z demands their right to be victimized in every aspect of life - fortunately generation Millinial, X and Boomer ain’t having any of their tantrum shit 😁❤️🤘🏻
I 100% believe the dad. It's how he confronted the points. And her response with words like "delusional" "most of my childhood" is highly subjective, whereas his response is precise with word, address, business names, etc. Its just a professional victim trying to get views.
I want this man to read me bedtime stories
The dad came with receipts and home movies of him and the kids.😮 There's more to this story.
holy crap she yapping so damn much
thats hollywood baby
She's fluent in YAPanese fr
She is a spoiled brat! She is doing this for clout! There are visitation stipulations when you get a divorce. Her mother brainwashed her. I can tell cause i am divorced as well and i told my daughter i will explain it to her when she is older cause she is still young.
She can be traumatised by the divorce but she can't fake she is poor and abandoned
The Dad really to Mathy said: 💀☕ No Job and cant do shit while break dancing ( bro he is too kind and humble and even even defend his daughter action )
Most dads get birthdays wrong. Also, he was throwing money to them, couldn't she have used that to pay her medical bills???
yeah what was it $5mil and $18k a month or something
who else loves this guy? >>>>
He first made his fortune, and he became a breakdancer later, it’s none of her business
@@anaalicia5029 Made his fortune and later made her mom a fortune too! In 2024 dollar value, her mom was getting 324k A YEAR FROM HER DAD. Thats more than your average person does in a year worth of working, and her mom was doing nothing other than filling her own kid's ideas lunatic ideologies
It's so cute how to reacts to this situation, I'm so glad he can still breakdown. He seems like at least a decent father, or at the very least a decent human being
I just wanted to say you presented this video brilliantly and I can tell you’re getting better at your skills. Keep it up. I will continue to watch your videos.
shame he left out the dad response that literally proved her wrong by providing both pictures and receipts
A person who sets up a camera lighting and films yourself giggling and smiling talking about your "trauma" is actually traumatizing for the ppl that have to listen. Cuz no one does that
The dad just fortnite dances after putting his daughter into place. What a legend
He's a Madlad
the fact that people would defend this behavior on twitter is wild, dad had every right to call her out since she aired this online first given that she is online and her dad is a big figure as well. whether either or is true, she looks worse in this situation compared to the dad in my opinion.
Imagine being ratio’d by a breakdancing crypto investor who also happens to be your father. I blame the mom for lying to her, and I hope she can repair her relationship with her dad, cuz he seems cool, if a bit crazy.
is this real chat
Watch the video
this looks real chat
"So the main point, is its never too late to start breakdancing."
absolutely the main point, love it.
If they are both lying, then Apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.
Long story short: she's mad he won't give her more money.
Facts 😂
Honestly, I'd trust the breakdancing grandpa with my life
Sounds like a family of narcissists.
That man invented what we know today as hitting the gritty yo respect 👍💯
The fact that some people believe everything on the internet
For a moment I thought he was really dancing to the gsc goldenrod city theme. Made me laugh
Maddiheart sounds like she's the one that's delusional
She went to a liberal college and works in hollyweird. I trust the dad.
I believe his father was telling the truth
Im still trying to figure out how her dad leaving is "tramautizing" and "dark" like he left, he couldn't have done anything worse? And before anyone says anything, my dad left too. (2-3 years ago, I'm not really sure.) Its not traumatizing. Its just hard dealing with it. My dad is completely absent, like he's dead or something. I only see him a select few times, and its just like seeing a stranger in public. He doesn't even talk to me.
Shes making this seem like he was there being an abusive father. No, he was gone. Grow up.
Also, I would NEVER make a video about my dad online. Mainly if I knew thousands, or millions of people could see it. And sharing stuff like that for views is pathetic and sad. Find other content to post, it'll make your life way better.
This is lowkey her moms fault lying to her and intentionally making her dad look bad
Your parents getting a divorce will NEVER be funny.
She keeps saying "Trauma" she is a professional victim.
I've noticed this. Those well off tend to be the loudest. They think having it hard is so great but it's tough.