'The Bachelor's' Bekah M. Says Arie Luyendyk Jr. Is A 'Manipulative A--hole' | Access
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- Former contestant Bekah Martinez sat down with Access to chat all about Monday night's shocking season finale of "The Bachelor"-and she didn't hold back. Watch to get her candid thoughts on Arie Luyendyk Jr.'s future with runner-up Lauren Burnham, his brutal televised breakup with Becca Kufrin and why she would be perfect as the next Bachelorette!
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'The Bachelor's' Bekah M. Says Arie Luyendyk Jr. Is A 'Manipulative A--hole' | Access
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Ironically, she was the youngest contestant and the only one with any common sense.
O O most think the same, she is just immature enough to think it's cute to dish out about drama
O O -And a vocabulary to match.
@O O yep, that is very ironic.
It’s immature of her to say he will “cheat on Lauren”, or break up with her. He didn’t even do anything wrong, he only has a short matter of time to pick someone as his wife so if he sees red flags he needs to make a decision. And the girls most upset are the ones he dumped. It’s better he broke it off with Becca if he was meant to be with Lauren rather than staying in an imperfect marriage. And now they have 3 kids and are doing very well.
Boy was she and all of you so wrong about Arie!! Ahaha!!!
WOOOW Bekah got some serious balls
aminaf6 Stfu. If it was rachel lindsay talking like this, you all would call her bitter and jealous.
and kinda looks like a dude too lol
name twins
Ovaries .
Never. Arie dug his own grave. the whole world wants a piece of him.
How can she actually predict that Arie would cheat on Lauren? She sounds kinda immature. Sean Lowe did say that he thought Arie really loved Lauren and it showed.
It is not fair that people are mudslinging so intensely. Arie has the right to change his mind, because this is his real life. Becca is the bachelorette now, and everyone can simply get over themselves. Becca and I are the same age, and I think her reaction to this whole situation shows her immature catty personality.
Idk I disagree. I think you could definitely see how intensely in love with Lauren he was at the end, but of course made a mistake by choosing Becca to please his family and choose the safe choice. I do think he's just following his heart. We're all human
She’s just mad because Arie said no to her
He’s not that bad jeeez. He wasn’t happy. Would it be better to stay with someone when you’re not happy? In real life this happens too. Chill out!! You’re showing your age using these bad comments. Calm yourself
Wow...Bekah's time on the pot farm aged her 20 years. Bags under her eyes, crepey, pale skin, acne...poor doll. She looks rode hard and put away wet.
I wish I could be her friend! I need someone like that in my life! Love you!
I did not watch the whole show, but I did watch the last two episodes. Arie was honest with his own feeling and was honest with Becca K. This Bekah M. is not a good person.
LOL You should watch the rest of the season if you want the real deal. Your opinion would change.
i watched the whole thing and agree with you. She's doing too much, it's so annoying how much immaturity she's showing.. It's one thing to talk about how you feel about the whole situation but you can't just be bashing people because you're mad, she sounds hurt lmao although it was wrong he did what he had to do
There is no reason to change my opinion. The goal of bachelor film set is to create parallel multi-relationships between one single man and a lot of women. The whole process is unethical. Audience use their normal life logic to judge that crazy situation. Arie was not able to judge well at limited time because he put his whole heart into the process. He was confused. I do see Arie's honest and sincere side. He took all responsibility. Bekah M is not a good person. She will continue to use this opportunity to become famous and may be go to Hollywood.
She just pissed he diddent choose her
Becca K. knew the cameras were there and that she was wearing a mike. Arie did not film her secretly. Sorry she was embarrassed but that is what she signed up for when she agreed to be filmed.
I can feel her, she is so Jealous that she is not the one arie look back. She has no filter, she is very negative and she is bringing negativity for herself. She is against anyone arie chooses, she didnt like Becca either, while she was engaged with arie, all sudden she is becca team.
Seeing this video is very disturbing.
Wow Bekah. Literally milking the situation (that doesn’t even involve her) 🙄
It's her claim to fame. Publicity to get her noticed. I can see right through her. lol
Becca, you need to move on and quit spreading hate. Not cool at all!
Sorry, but I think she is just annoying...you don't even really know him! You had your 15 min...go on...
The bullying of Arie is getting out of hand he is allowed to choose someone else and change his mind! MANY engaged couples break up in real life! I feel like Arie is just a really depressive person and hides his emotions but I'm sure all this bullying has got to get to him! I think he is like me dosn't know what to say to someone in certain situations and what can you say in the situation anyways to make it better? It's an awkward and hard situation and thing to go through! I felt he always liked Lauren the most and it was always Lauren but his family confused him and messed with his head because he really like Becca too but your families opinion is more important than anyones and a lot of people would follow their advice! When he picked her I thought BIG mistake! He should have picked Lauren they are the right fit for each other and I always felt he had more feelings for her then the other girls! This bully of Arie is relentless and it's got to stop! You would think he ki lled someone damn! I don't think he meant't to hurt Becca but Arie does not know how to talk and what to say a lot of times. Some people probably firgure it out in their heads before they go them 'act' it out but Arie is just a flew by the seat of his pants guy not train/rehearse which is more real and what can you really say in that situation anyways? I think he knew soon he made a mistake but his family convenience him and he also really loved Becca I believe but it's not the same as Lauren.
Let's move in shall we. And congratulations to the new bachelorette. I hope it is a good next season and she has a wonderful time! !!
People are being so hard on Bekah! Obviously she is being asked these questions and the interviewers are feeding into it and triggering her, but at least she is giving her honest thoughts!! I respect her for being honest in these interviews and on twitter by sticking up for her friend Becca. Mad props to you girl!! Keep staying honest and authentic 💕 it’s not like what she is saying is wrong either like he deserves this back lash, he is a total douche!!
She is so right!! He's awful and can't handle a relationship. She has always been my favorite. She's the best and actually, the most mature person on the show. What he did to Becca K was terrible. Bekah deserves so much better. Arie is horrible and a complete idiot. He never got to learn anything about Lauren cause she always had walls up. Lauren and Arie are both so bland. Honestly they deserve each other. They'll have fun for a little while with their boring life, but like Bekah said, he'll probably cheat at some point. I hope Bekah M and Becca K find the love they deserve
Oh come on. What did they expect? It's a reality show where this guy is kissing and dating many women. You really can't find love and marriage on a show, although it worked for but a few. A lot of those girls were looking for fame too. Bekah is immature for gossiping and taking it too far by sticking her nose in where it shouldn't be. Do you see any of the other girls doing what Bekah is doing? And she's only looking for fame at this point.
I agree
Well, they’re married and have a kid now. It’s been 2 and a half years. I really think his decision was the right one.
She is the who is so immature . . . it shows from what she says about someone publicly . . . her words are so strong. I wonder how she would if those words were used to describe her by someone. Though I don't justify what Arie did to Becca I kind of get where he came from. Though I have never been in his position (bachelor/bachelorrette) I can imagine it would be very difficult situation . . . so I don't want to simply trash him.
I think people think her bitterness is she didn’t get picked but I think she was close with bekah and that’s where that comes from. I would be pissed for a close friend too
shes super salty. dumped now bad talking him. crazy ex
well NOW she is acting her age
If she didn’t think it was appropriate for him to message her? Why did she respond? Why didn’t she tell him not to message her? I like Bekah....but I now see how immature she is.
Faith W. : She crave the attention.
She didn't respond? She ignored him
cat dog she did respond
Tasha can you show me evidence of this? In the screenshots she posted, she had not responded, and she hasn't said in any interview I've seen that she responded
You can see it in the screenshots she posted on her own twitter.
Going on the bachelor would be emotionally draining and hard for anyone!!
I liked Arie and I do think he was in love with the previous bachelorette the 1st show he was on. He got dumped, was devastated, so I am surprised he would do it to the girl he picked. But I read that he was going to do this, so I never watched. Love this Becca & think he really like her. She has the same birthday as me.
Aren’t Lauren and Arie still together?
Yes they are still together with 1 child and Twins on the way. They have a TH-cam channel.
Everyone hated Arie for breaking up with her on national tv but we are ALL guilty of being glued to out televisions*
Bekah, you are so right!!! He loved this Bachelor procedure...he's the worst! He's a cheater and he so enjoyed playing all these women.......
Any woman would have to be stupid to carry on like her knowing that he's been kissing many other women on a public show, and that they are taking a huge risk. She's just foolish and immature. She's just an attention seeker trying to get fame.
Out of all of the ladies that irie send home she's the only one that's still letting this get to her
Get a life Becca . The man is happily in love with Lauren. Enough with the hate!
I see marriage as a life long commitment. What he did is unforgivable.
Jack Wilson but they were preparing to get married. Fiancé or marriage, it’s still a commitment that he shouldn’t have broken.
I agree, better with the wrong girl for 6 weeks than with the wrong girl for the rest of his life. Plus how devastated could have Becca been after 6 weeks.? It wasn't 6 months or 6 years. The problem was the embarrassment that the breakup caused because it was watched by millions, more than the pain is was being dumped for another woman plus in front of the whole bachelor nation. Those two reasons were more painful for her than actually losing a 6 week boyfriend.(fiance)
Like.... What does he owe her? Arie is a grown man. He can marry whoever he wants too!!!! Why would someone get married to a person who they don't love!??! People break engagements all the time. Whatever!!!👎😚
I miss the bubbly Bekah we all loved 😕
and these are the 5 words for you: courageuos, articulate, intelligent, mature, original.
Yes, very mature of her to say "He'll definitely cheat on her" and making faces during the finale. She did acknowledge how ridiculous she was being during this interview months later when she got pregnant though so I'll give her that.
Bekah sure loves to be on TV and judge other people. She should try to take over for Judge Judy or Dr. Phil -- oh right she doesn't have any qualifications.
I mean, she has a point about him making an immature choice and mistake, but to define his character to be a manipulative asshole is a bit too far. That makes her look immature and extremely judgmental. God, I’ve lost so much respect for her after the show.
I love Bekah for her warm kind wards for Becca! So genuine and mature! Almost like a protective Lil sister💜 I wish them both all the best and happiness that they so deserve.
This is amazing. Give her her own show.
He became a great husband and father. Much Love ❤️
Her age has showed since she left the show. Very immature.
Matt Rapp oh would you prefer we females stay quiet.
sue she No just don’t go around cursing him out and spreading shit
Matt Rapp well if he wasn’t a piece of shit, there would be no shit to spread.
sue she how did you get your comment out of his comment? Stop assuming and putting words in people mouths.
Matt I’m right there with you. She has begun to feed into the drama, she clearly isn’t over it. Which is normal but it doesn’t look good to just go around and make yourself look like an ass because your mad. Let him live his life.
I can only hope she is wrong about how he will be with Lauren, especially with him being a father now. But I guess only time will tell.
just wish this was in focus
The way she confidently wishes ill on other people while laughing gives me chills.
This is before the Peter Weber season....so almost makes this guy look like a saint, lol.
Why does it not seem strange to anyone that her own mother filed a missing persons report ?? Clearly there is something behind the scenes with this chick .. talking like this is very childish also
Love you Bekah! Thank god Becca has a strong minded, intelligent awesome girl such as yourself out there defending her. And yes!! Put Arie's ass on blast. He 100% doesn't deserve to catch a break after the callous and unfeeling way he treated Becca during that break up. You could tell he just wanted Becca to tell him it was alright, so he could waltz off to Lauren. He is officially the WORST Bachelor in history.
Of error and mistakes. For 2- 3 days(engaged) or for a lifetime of deceit. Mr Arie (being truthful) just did a solution to a problem of a heart/love situation that may cause a relationship disaster between them for long term (...of lies, deceit and unhappiness). Who want or need liars, cheaters and unfaithfuls during a relationship (be engaged or married)? Sometimes it is difficult to accept the truth. And it is just plain reality of a situation. Good enough for the involved parties to know their personal needs. Wounds will heal. Men can be judged alright for certain mistakes and maybe women can find their (rightful) chosen one who have the guts to tell the necessary truth (to correct and to have transparent good relationship/goodwill) at earliest possible to avoid worst consequences. Every one can find their own needed comforts and their appropriate love interests. Maybe you as an audience deserve your entertainment and your own best understanding about the TV show how/what/why you enjoyed or displeased. Have a nice coffee.
Damn. You really need to watch the Juan Pablo season if you think he's the worst lol
I have watched Juan Pablo. Arie's worse because he's a snake. Juan Pablo was just stupid.
I'm about tired of her this girl just wants attention!
The bullying of Arie is getting out of hand he is allowed to choose someone else and change his mind! MANY engaged couples break up in real life! I feel like Arie is just a really depressive person and hides his emotions but I'm sure all this bullying has got to get to him! I think he is like me dosn't know what to say to someone in certain situations and what can you say in the situation anyways to make it better? It's an awkward and hard situation and thing to go through! I felt he always liked Lauren the most and it was always Lauren but his family confused
him and messed with his head because he really like Becca too but your families opinion is more important than anyones and a lot of people would follow their advice! When he picked her I thought BIG mistake! He should have picked Lauren they are the right fit for each other and I always felt he had more feelings for her then the other girls! This bully of Arie is relentless and it's got to stop! You would think he ki lled someone damn! I don't think he meant't to hurt Becca but Arie does not know how to talk and what to say a lot of times. Some people probably firgure it out in their heads before they go them 'act' it out but Arie is just a flew by the seat of his pants guy not train/rehearse
which is more real and what can you really say in that situation anyways? I think he knew soon he made a mistake but his family convenience him and he also really loved Becca I believe but it's not the same as Lauren.
First he did tell Becca that he wanted to talk to Lauren, and second he wasn’t engaged to Becca for months, just weeks in which they couldn’t even see each other. There was nothing wrong with those DM’s, he hurt this 22 year old and was making sure she was ok he said “Hope all is well” wow, what a scandal. For the people saying she is very mature, here are the reasons she’s not: she came on the bachelor without letting her mother know where she was, she has absolutely no idea weather or not this couple will actually last (no “he’s absolutely going to cheat on her”), she’s talking shit, she doesn’t even know half the things she said (she lied), she was on a show like the bachelor, and last but not least just because she has good social skills, doesn’t mean she’s mature, gossiping is not mature.
Yeah looking back I never really liked Bekah M and couldn't understand why everyone seemed to love her. Yes she has charisma and is very outspoken, but she just comes off as bitter in this and everyone loved her bc she was bashing Arie. Her saying things like "He'll definitely cheat on her" and her rolling her eyes/making faces during the After The Final Rose shows that she's immature and bitter. Like imagine how Lauren must have felt seeing this. But ofc she doesn't care, she just wanted her 15 minutes.
I wonder if she still feels the same today. Arie and Lauren are one the few successful marriages after the show
Exactly. She sounds SOOOOO vindictive. It’s scary how mad she sounds.
Funnily enough, I'm vieeing this after seeing an interview from a few months later when she was pregnant, when she acknowledges how ridiculous she was here, saying mean things
The whole situation is overwhelming I don’t blame him for getting confused
Yeah the whole Arie hate train upsets me even till this day. Imagine having to choose between two women who you just met a couple of months ago and have to dump one of them within hours of each other. Any normal person would feel conflicted. Yes it was sad what happened to Becca K, but it wouldn't be fair to her either if she had stayed with Arie if he was still thinking about another woman. People just hate to hate and it's sickening.
Listen, when the show ended, I couldn’t have agreed more. But look at them now! Happy and expecting twins! 🥰
Wow! I had like you on the show, but you need to stop talking bad about Arie and let him live his life. He went to fine love and that's what he did.
Becca, he made a mistake. I think that can happen when you are dating 20 something women at the same time. Lauren and Arie are married, have a beautiful daughter, and are in love. A sign of maturity is not judging others that you really don't know and speak as if you do. I hope you have matured since this video. All people makes mistakes in life, even you. Be kind and let people choose their path. Wouldn't you want others to do that for you?
Alright this girl is now just saying stuff for attention. This girl cried the hardest out of every girl who got sent home by Arie and now she's just being a bully and an asshole. We get it he made a mistake, he owned up to it. Now let the guy just live his life.
Why exactly is Arie a womanizer? WTF, b/c he hasn't gotten married at 36 he's a womanizer? Please, These armchair critics are so dumb. Bekah IS way immature and is full of sour grapes. The fact he is willing to endure the public criticism for following his heart should tell you he is taking this seriously, otherwise why do it?
Maybe Arrie should of picked Krystal lol. She may have been able to handle him and not take his crap! Or at least tell him off and warn other women better!
Ruby Leslie yes lol
and that´s why he send her home - he wants somebody who will take all his crap :D he´s an a*hole
I feel Arie is a depressive quiet type like Lauren Krystal is psycho so no I don't think they would work he is more like Lauren and I better match to her and I could tell from the beginning he liked her the most. I'm glad he broke up with Becca because I do think they would have broken up eventually anyway and not have gotten married no matter what she says.she probably would have broken up with him eventually if he didn't they were not a good match but him and Lauren are! But I like that she is not bullying him and understands. I knew he made a mistake and that he liked Lauren the most and it should have been Lauren to begin with!
qristinqa very true. Also hope if he’s at all this way with Lauren ( which I’d guess he either is or will be down the road) she gets the hell out and finds herself a better man.
You're stating a lot of opinions lol. Lauren is not a "quiet depressive type" everyone that has met her has described her as a co-dependent type of gal, including his family, and herself multiple times. Arie has already made sure that he loves being able to manipulate the world, and failed tremendously. Stop trying to justify his actions, whether him and lauren are a good match, it does not mean he isn't the one to blame for all the bullying due to his broadcasting the breakup. The bullying is what happens when you try to exploit your ex fiance.
Can we please stop giving her the opportunity to talk? She sounds like a bitter ex gf. And while it wasnt the best situation, stop letting his story be your focus. She could actually learn so much from Becca K. This just proved how immature and young minded she really is, she doesn’t have enough love in her heart for marriage if you really feel this way towards a person. Get over yourself!
"What a riveting life?" It's life...they are talking about every day things....it's so normal. Real life is not reality TV.
What do girls going on the Bachelor expect the man to be like? He is dating all 20 women at the same time. That is what you signed up for. A player.
Why doesn’t she (Bekah ) get a life. I think Arie has a life……he has three children and a wife that is totally in love with him. A beautiful home, a home in Hawaii, she (Lauren) has a new Porsche, and three beautiful kids. Since she, Bekah……has been on the Bachelor, she have been the villain. Bekah, five minutes of fame is over!
Honestly, she is just mad because she got sent home. You could tell she really wanted to be with Arie. Just my opinion.
The Bachelor wasted episode with Arie. Don’t understand why they put him in there in the first place. There’s a lot of beautiful women in this episode and they deserved better than him
cmpl24 coulnt agree more
Bc of views, that's what the show thrives off of. They loved the drama.
Good tv though
Right! He’s a huge dork who could never get women like that if it weren’t a show and s competition
Jack Wilson I actually didn’t know that about nick! Lol. But ok I guess I got a wrong read on Arie, lol. I still think he’s a huge loser! No offense if you like him! :)
What a joke. What did she expect with going on a reality show. You open yourself up for all kinds of things. She's a bit immature herself, and is using this to gain publicity. Sheesh.
I think Bekah is beginning to let the fame get to her and she's throwing herself into drama and going along with the pettiness. I truly did like her too, but in various instances I've seem her be unnecessarily catty about others in these interviews.
Honestly, she's acting like your typical 22/23 year old female...still immature and finding themselves. She's loves to act above it all and above everyone else in her age range. Let Arie breath! You're literally pressured into telling someone you JUST met like 2-5 weeks ago "i love you." I can't even imagine how much pressure Arie had. The show is ultimately about finding love at the end of the day and if he didn't feel it with Becca after then oh well. LIke, dang. STFU, Bekah.
True. That's what I'm seeing, she's just a typical 22/23 year old female, millennials I've seen, its common, still finding themselves, and the fame is getting to her! I mean, she dated him as well for a fact, now it's like she's entitled to judge and criticize him.
Yep! Typical know it all millennial.
I agree. Thought she was mature for her age but the immaturity is really starting to show
Yeah and she claims she is so mature lol She is sooooo fame hungry and attention hungry! She has talked bad about some of the other girls too then tries to act friendly one minute the next minute bichty mean comments for attention! She did the same with Arie friendly to him in a text then being catty and blasting him for a friendly hello text to her! When she wants attention smh
I liked Bekah at first, but now she's just annoying. She spends way too much time gossiping about Arie. It's unnecessary and makes her appear vindictive.
I love Bekah I feel like she’s so genuine in her answers she says what she really thinks.
Now she opens up after she finds out she’s not the next bachelorette. She was so well reserved before, cats out of the bag now! If I ever get dumped again I’m going to the pot farm for two weeks too!
Lmao he’s on a show that makes him pick a girl... what guy can really do this show and be in a positive light
She is taking her frustration out
Is it just me who doesn’t i think he’s the least bit attractive?
He’s gorgeous to me. Those eyes, and the hair 👌🏿
I miss having a cast with personality and some depth. Peter's season was just something else.
Arie being immature doesn't make you mature.....just saying
This is one annoying child like adult looking girl and I used to like her at first with her short cute hair style. Makes it hard to bash Arie's forced villain behavior for greedy ABC purposely filing raw pain for ratings as well. I get that she is still bitter and angry b/c her age wasn't picked. Arie was a jerk, but had to come true to himself later. Glad that Lauren isn't listening to everything that Bekah and other girls are saying while she figure it out herself. And don't worry about dumped Becca too much as she knew that she was lining up for more publicity as bachelorette.
Everyone is bashing Arie without trying to understand why he did what he did. He's a human. These are all just opinions and judgements that are a waist of time and energy. Its over. He did what he had to in his heart. And I feel like Lauren is protective over her heart and wouldn't marry him if she thought indifferently about him. Just leave it aloneee
Who is this girl to say anything? Seriously step down. You're not a part of this anymore!! He kicked her off for a reason. A big sign of maturity is not delving into peoples personal lives.
yes!!!!!
Oh wait...until YOU are in the same situation, you have no idea how you would react from the pressure and confusion of a crazy and extremely unusual situation. So, what? Arie should've stayed with Becca feeling like he made a mistake? People are allowed to make mistakes...and this is why Arie felt like Becca M. would be too young--riveting life? You outgrow what you do at 22. He's already gone through the phases she has yet to enter while growing up.
This girl can speak. She articulate so well
I feel, also, as much as I liked her before, my feelings are definitely shifting away from favoring her. She really is speaking on someone else's relationship and someone else's feelings and although her standards in a relationship may be different, it doesn't mean that Lauren and Arie are incapable of making a marriage last with one another.. I just find, "he will definitely cheat on her" to be a small thing to say. Not that I agree with much if what Arie says, but I just find that Bekah is REALLY juicing for attention here.
She “wasn’t planning on putting him on blast” yeah ok girl you had that screenshot locked and loaded
Lol yeah probably but I don’t blame her, also it was wise to wait for a good time to release that to the public. Bekah is a smart chick
She's just bitter.
Bekah should go play Peter Pan on Broadway!
Becca could have told the camera operators to get out, but she didn't. hmm
Boy she looks awful. And sounds so bitter and jealous. She says he would definitely cheat on Lauren when married. She wishes that Arie wanted her. She is having such a hard time moving on. She would take him back now if he asked. She is so transparent. I bet Arie is getting quite the laugh watching how he got under her skin. She complained that people mentioned her age a lot. Well this is why. If I was only hearing these remarks my guess would be they were coming from a teenager. Yet here she looks about 30. Think the stress got to her,
LOL Bekah's 22 and a jealous TWIT! Arie has every right to follow his heart my dear. How hard to choose between 2 women that you love! When watching, to me, he looked broken hearted when his family told him to choose Becca. Then, his goodbye to Lauren....you could really see how he felt about her. I'm convinced he choose Becca because he thought she would be more of a go-getter and a team player than Lauren. His whole heart really belonged to Lauren.
bekah should chill she seems to be letting her minute of fame get the best of her . Adding more fuel to the fire with that loud mouth it's not even about her why is she so involved
And yet you wanted him! As did your other costars. It just shows you the women on the Bachelor do not care if the Bachelor love them or not - they just want the ring! THIS WHOLE THING IS INSANE - HE LOVE LAUREN MORE - GET THE FUCK OVER IT ALREADY - MOVE ON! WHY WOULD A WOMAN WANT A MAN WHO IS NOT 100% IN THE RELATIONSHIP. HE MADE HIS DECISION. DESPITE HIS FAMILY LIKING LB MORE. THEY TOLD HIM BECCA WOULD BE BEST BCUZ LB IS NOT OUTSPOKEN. I'M GLAD ARIE MAN UP AND DID WHAT WAS RIGHT AND WENT AFTER HIS QUIET BEAUTY. BECCA COULD HAVE TURNED ARIE DOWN ESP AFTER HIS FAMILY BLATANTLY DISRESPECTED HER BY MENTIONING LB REPEATEDLY. YOU ALL ARE MAD BCUZ THE BREAK UP HAPPENED ON LIVE TV, YOU SIGNED UP FOR REALITY TV - SUCK IT UP AND GET OVER IT! AS A VIEWER I LOVED SEEING THE GOOD AS WELL AS THE BAD. IT SHOWS THERE ARE DOUBTS - ARIE IS HUMAN.
I don't understand why people are attacking Becca M.because Arie is sick.How can he do that on camera .He did that to show off.If a sister or a child is treated this way and you will be happy so be it on to those defending him.
someone is bitter
Ya think?
U just mad because you did not get pick bekah
how funny a few weeks ago she was talking about having the time talking to him for 30 mins in his hotel room after the show ends in LA was really good
How she can tell "he would cheat on her without a doubt"???! Is so not nice to talk like that about other people, especially on camera! It feels like she is commenting all that drama just because she wants to be on Tv and "use" her 5 minutes. Reall not cool Bekah M.! I am dissapointed, I thought you are a better person!
Barbara R sameee
It’s very disrespectful
OK, does anybody else think she is actually handling this very immature? As much as she claims to handle herself like an adult, she reminds me of a petty bitter teenage girl. I do not approve Arie’s actions, but this girl is clearly out to get fame. Not classy at all.
J N its a conflicting situation. What Arie did was completely cut throat and cruel. But she seems to be acting a little overdramatic about the whole thing.
Ok, he wasn't feeling her, he made a mistake. All this name calling is not called for. She's acting like a school girl. Adults don't act like this.
Completely agree with you. She's dramatic and very very teenage like. Not mature at all.
J N She's telling it like it is. Why do people automatically attach the word "bitter" to someone telling the truth if that person has a vagina. 😒
Erin Vandalay I would’ve called the person “bitter” regardless of their sex. Don’t bring in the sex card here.
then why were you trying to win him over, bitter much?
And now Arie lives happily ever after..
So glad he and Lauren proved the haters wrong. The whole point of the Bachelor/Bachelorette is to find love, so him following his heart and being honest with Becca about not being over Lauren was honestly admirable to me (I know there's probably a lot of people who disagree but it's an opinion). Wish Becca K the best on Paradise.
Mmmm.... couple of years equal to ever after???
@@amalianurlatifah8703 not really, but they seem very happy and genuine. You cannot deny, that the connection he had with Lauren only grew stronger, if you watch them interact together now. He is very much in love with her, he is a crappy actor and used to be not very expressive emotionally, but he changed. He really matured, and now, when he talks about Lauren his face just lights up. They have been together for a few years, get through very hard times of facing hate from the bachelor community, losing a child, moving to an island, premature delivery of their twins… and these only the once’s we know. So cut him some slack.
This same thing happened to me when I was 20 and he was 24, 45 years ago and I have never forgotten the pain I felt that day and it stays with me still. If I think of that day, I still have the same feelings now. It never goes away. I hope Becca doesn’t have to suffer to long.
I dunno I understand what she’s saying but I also feel she’s very young and kind of butt hurt she wasn’t picked and wants to pick on him back for being hurt. Bc I’m sure if he picked her, she wouldn’t be saying any of these things, she would say how amazing he is...she’s showing her age in my book
Bekah may have been set up to look petty and unforgiving here. She was broken hearted when she was let go. The manipulative media, always trying to get raw emotion and controversial clips may have encouraged her to act out and jump on the Trash Arie band wagon for their own selfish reasons, no matter who is defamed or hurt.
The more I watch the more I see why she's immature and a mean girl.
Complains everyone calls her immature then puts herself in all the drama, ya that’s not immature at all
Sounds like an ex that got dumped.
Damn girl I can’t imagine going off like this like... in front of a camera 😂