i am scrolling through the comments in tears because i have had anxiety & depression for a while now & its hard to know that other people are going through the exact thing as me. if anyone needs a friend you can ALWAYS count on me. ❤️❤️
I have depression sometimes, and feelings of loneliness. which is strange, cause I have two amazing little sisters and very loving parents, yet I still feel lonely. does anyone else feel like that?
Looking through the comments, I realized I'm not the only one that feels broken or empty. I have depression, and I have cut, and I've felt alone to the point where I almost committed suicide. But knowing there's other people like me, it's reassuring that I'm not really alone. If we all stick together, isn't it possible that it could get better?
same. i don't want to live with my parents. that's basically asking me to be completely independent at 16. i cant depend on my parents. theyre like a bunch of kids. i'm depressed.
please always show how big and beautiful your heart is. never let the mean people of this world stop you from being kind. one day your heart will find its way to someone who loves like you do.
My dad hung himself when I was 8, in '99. My mother had to uproot our lives from NC to NJ to live with her mom. It was a hard hit, & my sister, who was 4, can remember him more than I can. Only because my depression took over. I wasn't diagnosed & medicated until 2004, when we finally found a doctor who could understand my description of inside my head. I was on Zoloft until 2013, when I was 20 weeks pregnant. 9 years of being a content, semi-zombified person. I have been better since having our son, although I think the depression has turned me into a more irritated person. I'll be seeing a therapist soon... My whole life, I worried I wouldn't get better, that I'd get worse, to the point of ending my life like my dad did. But BECAUSE of my dad, because of everything I went through, every time I get broken, I realize just how broken everyone else could be if I left & couldn't come back. & I can't do that to them. Even though sometimes I feel like no one cares, that I'm not good enough or I'm a burden, I breath deep, & I open my eyes & think about why I'm feeling this way. Is it truly THEM breaking me down? Or is it me? & 90% of the time, it's ME. We can get better. By talking about these mental illnesses, by helping each other through it, & through others learning how we feel & how to help us through our lives, by medication or meditation- anything- we can feel better. We need to live for tomorrow, when something exciting can happen. When we can smile again. Because we WILL smile, & I want to see you smile. I'm here. You can contact me...
Erin K Exactly. All I see are self pitying posts. I've been through shit. Am I complaining? .. Yes .. Yes I am. But I'm not searching for people that pity me. I enjoy the song because it has a beauty to it. It tells my story and many others in just a couple words. Very relatable..
Every Time time I hear this song it's brings back traumatic memories of the past that I've been subconsciously trying to forget about like that one time I told the waiter "you too" when he said "enjoy your meal".
Lol, I did something similar while working at a snack bar. The lady ordered nachos and out of habit of people ordering pretzels I asked if she wanted cheese with that...
I always feel like the one girl that nobody pays attention to. Nobody listens to me, I feel like my friends don't care for me at all, and I feel like an ugly outcast. I hope I just die soon. I cry some nights after thinking about how much I'm not needed, and how nobody wants to be friends with someone like me. This song makes me feel a bit better, even if it's supposed to be a sad song.
Thank you, those who have made comments and reached out to those who have a need. Thank you for being caring and compassionate human's. I thank you for caring even though some of you are suffering as well. You are what it means to be human.
Your life is beautiful. You are beautiful. You are worth it. You are here for a reason. You are wonderful. You are strong. You are smart. You are you.Don't self harm, don't commit suicide. I'm here, I care💙
sad faces are good Just trust me and paxtoncat i know its hard now but its getting better and better in my life and i was down i wannet to kill myself. Sry 4 bad english iam german
thanks you Jungle Or FEED and I can understand where you are coming from it just feels like I have no future at the minute because I'm sick of it all you get what I mean? Xx
You have all of us on hear :) So sorry you are feeling blue :( Hugs and happiness to you!! :) You can get through it. You have your whole life ahead of you and just try to remember a day that you had a super happy thing happen or a day that you were at peace and just know that it will come around again.
Listen to ' her last words' by Courtney Parker. That song is how I feel everyday battling with this invisible illness that people tell me it's nothing and to get over it.
+kayla mosby somewhere there is a god, just pray for yourself and the whole world. I have also many healthy problems, but now i am here again. There is nothing impossible in life. good luck
most emotional song I have ever heard... It makes me feel so little and I can't listen to it without crying and then cyberbully the movie makes me feel hopeless, I was terrified to go back on social media cuz life is all to precious to throw away and its sad not to trust and to fall upon the thought of cutting and slowly passing. I used to have fights with these people I called friends and one day I broke. I cried and placed the razor on my skin but remembered every other person who may have it harder. All I am saying is that lots of people have it worse and life is to full of good to just throw away.
I feel ya it's so hard to just do things when you're so depressed and trust me I know how depressed you are because you think your not good enough but you are and you always will be
To everyone who's feeling suicidal or very sad, this songs takes you to that dark place because it comes from a dark place. As much as sometimes we tend to listen to sad music when we're sad, we shouldn't. I recommend everyone who feels bad to not listen to this song, it just makes things worse. Me, for instance, was fine but then when I listened to this I started thinking about bad stuff. So I can only imagine what it does to people who are already sad... It's a very deep song but it has a lot of emotion too and is easy to feel the pain through the song, which can either make you remember your own pain or just give you more pain. Try "You Are Never Fully Dressed Without A Smile" instead. I know I will.
you know there are a lot of diffrent people arround the world. and you cant say what they shuld do! look its a sad song because you feel this way.. but for some poeple it helps to understand! how they feel, how they are, how they do! this song also says clearly what to do .. HELP ME scream it out! its the only way .. you are not alone on the wolrd!!!!!! search for help you want it why dont you do it! since i was young i had mental problems but after 10 years of help i noticed that i am not alone like so many others here!! HELP!!
ZrowLimitZ it was just my advice, if this song helped you that's great. It seemed in the comments that a lot of people was feeling worse while listening to this so I felt the need to write what I wrote.
***** It really depends on the severity of the depression. When it's mild to moderate, happy songs might do the work. However, from my experience, happy songs pissed me off and found solace in depressing songs. Thanks for your input though, it might help some people.
true but I also think that it can show you that you're not alone in that place dark place and that other people resonate with feeling this way. Sia expressed her feelings through this song and I think that its beauty can be reliefing to people rather than depressing though that is of course an entirely subjective opinion and matter of debate.
About 4 years cut free :) lost count since its been so long. I listen to this song to remind me of how much progress I've made since then. I remember exactly how it felt and I will never let myself slip back again. For those currently going through something, I'm living proof it will all turn out alright. It's a fight everyday but it eventually gets easier once you become friends with yourself and get to know yourself a little better. Stay strong :)
Everyone who has gone through bulling, taking there own lives, cutting. You can get through it I promise just stand up for yourself that's all you have to do, please don't do anything bad to yourselves I promise your perfect, don't let people judge you. Maybe you don't want to stop cutting and you want to stay the way you are. I want to help you, I told my dad if I make it big one day I will help all the people that want my help. Your beautiful don't let anyone tell you your not. If your waiting for that one person in life to appear and help you I want to be that person to help you heads up high good luck
+Lauren Palmer I stood up for myself.... It made everything worse. Now I'm ignoring the person whos trying to cyberbully me on my comment on this song and they keep replying since I've stopped replying back to there hate. It's better to just ignore it or something rather than stand up for yourself against bullies.
A message to all self harmers, your life was made for YOU. Not your mum, your dad, friends or relatives. Believe in yourself and if you suffer from bullying, try to be STRONGER. Face your weaknesses. Be brave. Be happy and CHEERFUL. Your life was made to be taken to the limits of fun. Not hurting yourself over somebody calling you fat or ugly or even useless. You are YOU. Remember that. BTW you are beautiful in any way possible. Even with braces. Or crooked teeth. Or freckles. Dimples in fact. They are part of you. Don't judge yourself. We somehow all LOVE you. These three things: 🔪💉🔫 are what YOU SUICIDAL teens use to die. You are priceless. No one can place an exact price on you! It's because you are BEAUTIFUL! That is IT from me. Remember, No one is perfect - that is why pencils have erasers. ❤❤❤❤ - M Love you all! ALSO I have experienced this sort of thing also. My ex boyfriend Blade says I wasn't his type. I get harassed every dag cause I am ugly. They make me feel like crap! I need advice cause I cannot deal with it myself. I still really like my ex and I think he secretly still does as well. He is scared to admit it. I catch him staring at me while I play a game with him and his friends. Once he was staring at me, he looked away and grinned. I just KNOW he must still like me! Please tell me if he does. Also, this girl in my grade bashed me up and called me a whore etc. Some of my friends didn't care. Especially one of my BFFs named Chloe. She hung around with the bullies!! WHAT DO I DO?! ❤❤
hey listen if you ever want to talk about anything you can to me cause I'm doing it tough at the moment cause I just lost my cat called Fire on Sunday she was hit by a car and died of internal bleeding so yeah I'm hurting a fair bit cause she was very much loved ok
I'll be a friend. :) It's a depressing song. Life is just another moment to experience. We should! Life is beautiful. We should remember that there is no situation that is no way out. There is another day tomorrow and it will take care of yesterday and today. There is future for all of us! Live it!
I'm not suicidal or anything, but reading these comments reminded me of how I felt when I was younger. When the world revolved around how others saw me. It was a really dark time. Reading the comments here makes me realize that no one is alone, we all have these thoughts at some time or another. It's so beautiful to see a community like this driving together by this awesome song. I hope that everyone stops hurting themselves, it's not worth it. It's hard to find a place in the world to be happy. Sometimes you just have to create your own.. And maybe someone will see the world you have created and want to live there too. Find a happy place in your life. Everyone needs something to make the smile. :) This song is amazing, and very inspirational. Even if you just need a nice chill tune to listen to at night. :3
Just remember that at the end of the tunnel there is a light some tunnels are longer than others but go to the people that help I go to my bff/sister and she helps just look for someone cause I promise someone is there for you just keep looking.
TheGirly Gamer I'm here to help you ❤️ you probably don't trust a stranger but I promise you won't regret talking to me. Please some how message me on something. I want to help
jessa R, you're not alone. I can understand that, being different. But everyone is different but they decide some things are too different. YOU ARE NOT ALONE, and you are loved
I love this, not just the song but the comments. It's great to see everyone helping others in their darkest times and remember, these comments can change lives. This has made my day a little bit better:-)
♥ This heart goes out to anyone who need's a little love. Even if I don't know you, or can't physically see you, YOU'RE made for great things. So keep your head up and show the world how strong you can be. I believe in you! (Feel free to message me any time. Everyone deserves to be listened to)
Really? What's the point of living? What about that new season of show your waiting to come out? You need to know how that cliff hanger ended. Or your favorite bands new album? You need to hear their new music before you go. Your best friend? If you killed yourself right now it'd kill them. Crying every time they saw your parents or siblings, crying in the shower, in the hallways at school, everywhere.They'd blame them self and carry the weight the rest of their lives. Probably get depressed and end up killing them selves too. Your little brother or sister not understanding why you did this, they love you soooo much! Sure they can be such brats but they love you! Or THAT teacher who's a bitch, she's trying to make you better because you remind her of herself. Your ex boy/girlfriend who wasn't over you who was just getting up the courage to ask you out. Your parents, what would they think? They would sob for years every time they saw your picture and just didn't have the strength to take it down. Your mom laying in on your bed crying so hard she was choking, thinking she was so mean for never letting you go out. Your dad not being able to forget you laying on the bathroom floor with pills and razor blades in your hands, blood dripping down your wrist. Who says it was his fault for always yelling and pressuring you. The bully in the hallway who made you cut the first time, always calling you names, really just has a major crush on you and can't deal with it the right way. He'd kill himself too, not being able to get the though about if his head think it was his fault. The boy who sits behind you in math class who talks to you anytime he gets the chance, helping you with everything loves you too, he really needs a friend. The nice girl who's locker is right next to yours, she has scars too, all up her arms and thighs, want to know what keeps her going? You. She has major anxiety ands been getting the courage up to talk to you about your scars. Thinking she'll have a friend and some who gets it, she says he can get through it so can I. It kills her. JUST KEEP GOING!! ALWAYS MOVE FORWARD!! You could get better tomorrow, or maybe the next. You could meet your future husband or wife tomorrow, just try. Please for me.
The series finale of "Six Feet Under" brought me here, and the comments break my heart. I have days where I feel so dark and alone, the worst part is when I'm there, I don't feel like it'll end. I just want people to know they are not alone, thousands of people feel this way. And, while our pain may not be the same, there's always someone who's trapped in that same place. It's a dark place, so you can't see them, but you are not alone. 🕯
I remember over the years since I was a kid there were so many times when I was crying every night feeling so alone, it upsets me to remember and there is no way I can go back and change it. the only reason I'm not still like that is I have someone I can count on but I'm probably to dependant on this person. I hope I have grown and improved. stay strong all.
I love Sia's songs. She makes us think more about our suicidal thoughts. If you feel suicidal, read this. I hope it'll stop you from committing suicide. You are not worthless. You may think no one cares, no one likes you, But you are wrong. Even if you don't know me, and I don't know you, I still like you, personally. You may think cutting will help? But think, how does cutting make you feel better? It may feel good for a few seconds, but is that solving any of your problems? Don't say you want to die. You'll make everything worse. Everyone around you that cares and thinks about you, will be hurt. They'll miss you. And just you, away, will change everyone's life. You're not just affecting yourself, you're affecting the people all around you. And even if you're an atheist, God gave you life. And he gave you life because he wants you to be on this world with him. It may not seem like he's there every time, but he really is. You just can't see him. Stop cutting, stop everything. Think before you pick the blade up. Think before you do anything to harm yourself. You think it'll make everything better, but just remember, it'll get worse. Everything will change. Stop Committing Suicide. Start Thinking About Yourself And The People Around You.
Hi I'm not trying to hate or anything bad Sia did an interview and the man said to her where did the song "Breath Me" come from? Sia said I wrote that song when I was at my lowest by thinking suicidal and alcohol and she locked herself up in her apartment so that's were the song came from:)
Kiadeiaz Claire Yup Cutting Helps. I Love Cutting... Im Crazy I Guess Thats What Most People Say, I Hanged Myself And Failed Its Just My Life Now.., Trying to commit suicide...
I've never been able to relate to this song so much. Lately i've just fallen down such a deep hole in my life, i go through stages where i'm extremely depressed, i don't eat, i isolate myself from everyone. I've even had really dark thoughts and i have no idea what to do about it, i've been to counselling and it hasn't helped. I just need someone. So much has happened in my life in the past few months and i just need to let it all out.
I am so sorry to hear this. I struggle through a lot to and I know what it is to be so confused, lost, broken, an desperate. But through it all, my Lord and savior has helped me. I don't know where I would be without Him. (please, nobody get offended at this comment, it really is meant to help and I am not wanting to get anyone mad.) I know I have eternal hope. God sent His son to die for all of us. He loves you more than you could ever imagine. Sometimes hard trials bring people to Christ. I think a lot of it is because we realize we can't do life on our own. If we admit this to Christ and repent and turn away from our sin, and choose to give and dedicate your life to God we can find true joy and peace and have eternal life in heaven after death. Although I still feel worthless and uncared for sometimes, I am human, but I know in my heart that God loves me more than I can ever imagine and he leads me through my trials, and they have made me a stronger person. I really hope you take this chance, because I have found it is the only way to true happiness. God made you and loves you so much. I really hope I helped in some way, God bless you. John 3:16 Romans 10:9
I'm 24 years old, never kissed a girl, never had a girlfriend. All my life I've felt like some outsider, like a freak. I've tried my best to fit in but it never happens. I've gone to nightclubs every weekend for 2 years to meet women, but I get rejected each and every time. I'm not ugly, I'm at-least cute. I dress well, smell nice. But women don't like me, they'll never like me. I'll just live the rest of my life alone and miserable and then it will end. What the point in living then? Just so my parents aren't sad that their son killed himself!?
oh come on. Please,you need to try and try. Ofc. you're going to get reject,we all do...just so you know you cannot find good and nice girlfriend in clubs. Most of them are hoes and that shit..
Kristina Zero Maybe you're right. I'm going to try to meet women in better surroundings. And I'm not going to give up, I'm a good person who has a lot of love to give I just hope I'll meet someone soon. Thanks, your comment made me feel better :)
girls aren't even the beginning to your answer in life, God is, go to him, his arms are open, and he loves and wants you more than you could ever imagine. try it, you might surprise yourself, he makes me feel better when I feel low :) trust me, do it! you're wanted believe me
i don't mean to be rude, but if you limit yourself by going to only nightclubs, chances are you won't meet the right kind of people. i'm not saying ALL people who go to nightclubs are tacky or whatever... just the majority. widen your locations like pubs/bars where people want to actually (or mostly) engage in interesting conversation. maybe find a new hobby which might make the right kind of people approach you. just some advice :) good luck.
rachel mcewan I think I'm just going to start up chatting women everywhere in the day time. Somethings gotta give, I can't just spend my life alone anymore, it's not much of a life.
This song definitely brings me back to when I was really depressed and alone :( I feel like my life is getting better now. I am older and realizing my self worth more than when I was younger
I remember listening to this song for the first time about ten years ago when I was 14. I came across the song again today and it gave me goosebumps. It made me feel the same way I felt back then and is still relevant. The helplessness we can sometimes feel... Still there. Stay strong.
Cheyenne Howard I know you're trying to be helpful but that's probably the worst thing you can say to a suicidal/depressed/etc person. I guess it's ok on youtube but if you know someone that's depressed and you say that to them it'll make them feel like shit. It'll make them feel like they're not trying hard enough or that they're selfish, ungrateful, lazy and that makes them feel as if they have one more failure on their list. Sorry but I feel like I had to point this out, a lot of people say things like that when it actually doesn't help. The best thing to do is SHOW them you care, be a shoulder they can cry on and tell them you don't completely understand what they're going through but you'll try your best to help.
Cheyenne Howard lol I just felt strongly bout the subject at the moment. That whole rant was really bout how I feel, idk bout anyone else....yea now I feel stupid :P
To all of you out there feeling depressed, at the lowest low you've ever been. To all of you who feel alone, hurt, trapped. Trust me. Someone loves you. And life is worth it. Find what you love, and invest your time in it. It connects you to the others who love it as much as you. Fight for life, because life is the most beautiful gift you have. Let yourself experience it to its fullest. Travel, meet new people, see the world for what it truly is! Surround yourself with those who lift you up, not those who tear you don't. Be defiant to those who try to tear you down. I know depression, I know suicide, I know how terribly exhausting life can be. But I also know the pure joys of being alive. Climbing a 6000 meter mountain, dancing in the streets of Columbia, diving in Thailand, working with children and animals in Zimbabwe, anything you set your mind to is possible. Set goals and work hard to achieve them. Because they are worth it, your life is worth it, you are worth it.
"Ouch! I have lost myself again. I lost myself and I'm know where to be found." I can relate to that part so much. When ever I'm upset I listen to this song. I always seem to get lost when something simple happens. Like getting called a name.
Ok i see others posting the pain they are going through. this song has always helped me try and push through depression, bullying, mental abuse. I had coped well until last august when i watched my mum die in front of me and could do nothing. i physically watched her take her last breath as she lay cold on the floor and i was helpless... i am angry everyday all day with myself knowing i should have done more i should have tried to help even though i couldnt do anything. I miss her every fucking day and they say you learn to live with it but i feel as though each day just crushes me even more. So for those of you out there struggling with depression and bullying and any other pain however serious. we can stand strong when we support each other
if anyone needs someone to talk to ill be here, i know what its like to be laying in your bed crying at 2 am because you don't know what to do with life. but i realized that if i cant help myself, then i can at least try to help others who are going through the same thing as me. i might not have the right words but i will always listen to what you have to say and try to give your encouragement. but to anyone reading this. you are worth it. you have an amazing life ahead of you. go live it(:
My parents were abusive and I found out I had cancer when I was just 3 and then my parents abandoned me because they didn't want a broken kid. Then i have people at my school who bully me so I have tried suicide 15 times but every time I survive because my body just doesn't want to let go. I have the help I need and it os people like you and people who are there to help that have made me realize that I was put on the earth because I'm special and I shouldn't take that away from me I love myself now and I get help everyday while fighting through cancer
+samantha ketring im so sorry to hear about all that happening to you. but im very proud that you've made it this far. your a survivor. its people like you, who give others the hope and strength they need to move on. the people at your school obviously don't know you very well. i mean i know i don't know you that well, but you deserve to be happy and not have to worry about other people being mean. i'm glad you shared your story. you are 100 percent right. you were put on this earth for a reason. all you have to do is grow up, live your life and figure out what that reason is. good luck (:
Jazzie B trust me. your not doing anything wrong. if anything there making a huge mistake by disappearing from your life. dont be so hard on yourself. i know how hard it is to stay positive but dont blame yourself for what others do. stay strong
+samantha ketring I'm so sorry to hear this,your parents were stupid to do this to you because it's not your fault.Them bullies who bully you are only jealous that you have a really beautiful personality.Dont let the bully stop you and I'm glad that your still alive.Now you know that God really needs you in this world.God bless you :)
I enjoy songs like this. Most people would call it depressing emo music, however, I like focusing on the lyrics. Whenever I pay attention to the words of melancholy songs, it helps me remember that there is someone worse off than me. I'm not taking pride in the fact that someone else is hurting, it just convinces me that I don't deserve to be sad when other people can get through the day just fine, and come home to hell. It's a reminder for me to get over what ever is keeping me down.
This is the side of TH-cam I admire. I cry watching the comments upload. It shows we are humane. Everyone saying I'll help you. This is the side of the earth I'm proud of. I respect all of you guys.
omg, i was listening to this song and reading the coments at the same time. i cried so much.... so many people are hurting.. and almost nobody cares. that's so sad, because its so many people out there who need help... don't you agree?
I am only 13. The first time I listened to this, I was 11. When I was only 11, I cried myself to sleep every night after self harming and I fell in love with the idea of killing myself. And I nearly did, and had to be taken into eating disorder treatment when I was 12. I am still not fully recovered. But, I am so much better than I ever was. I just find it crazy that at the age of 11, I experienced so much, and I shouldn't have. I should have been dancing in the shower, playing with barbies, laughing at the park but instead I was enclosed in my dark bedroom breathing onto my computer searching up ways to kill myself. And now, really, I am just scared for everybody else. But listen to me when I say that I am so much better now. I graduated from eating disorder treatment even though my body still refuses to gain as much weight as it should, but man, I'm eating and that's fantastic. I rarely even think about self harm, but I am over a month clean. I get out and I breathe. I now dance in the shower. I go out and let myself laugh with my friends. I get good grades now. I just got accepted into art school. I wouldn't let myself think about recovery, or accomplishing anything. I am happy. I miss being sad often, but at the same time I am so glad I am okay. I am so glad I've survived. Even though it was small, I just want to say I survived. And that you can too. I'm so sorry for what everyone is going through.
I'm an adult who self harms; not by cutting, but still serious. Love this song! There is help and hope out there. I'm in therapy and on meds; it's helping. Stay safe; stay strong.
Im turning fourteen and ive been selfharming for a year about to be two years My question everyday is.. How am I supposed to stay strong or How am I supposed to stop when all I ever do is fuck up??? How am I supposed to get help when I have no home support system and im trying to help myself which doesnt work..?? How is anything supposed to get better if no one notices and no one listens?? But I guess thats life right??? You have to learn to fend for yourself right? I wish it would all just stop!
Stay strong beautiful you will get through this, im not gonna say STOP NOW, cause that's like telling someone who has been smoking for 10 years to just stop, just telling someone to stop is not gonna help i understand, try things like drawing butterflys on your wrist or family or friends name, stay strong i believe in you :)
Justine Mcewan Just keep your chin up and try to stay positive, I understand I am 18 and still recovering from self harm so I get what you are going through. I know it may seem like things won't get any better, but hold on tight girl. What got me through it was the support from friends, I didn't have any support at home either. If you need someone to talk to you can feel free to message me anytime.
Honestly You are beautiful if you ever need me dont be afraid to reach out to me message me on here i will always be here for you and to anybody out there reading this i will be there for you to dm on instagram @/maygensalyer please do hurt yourself talk to me please
this... a thousand times over. i think everyone has/will feel depressed at some point in their life. and it's like a never ending battle... feeling stuck in a dark hole. but it DOES get better. people will always be there to pick you up
Well, when I was inn2nd grade i'm 12 now.. I was bullied and called 'stupid' worthless' 'pathetic' and I was confused, it continued to grade 3 I finally told me momm and she went in to talk the princible and teacher, thankfully it stopped for a week, but it came back later on and I cryed everyday and sat alone and people walked by me like I was some monster.. it stopped in grade for but in grade 5 it got 100 times worse.. people called me a b*tch now and one girl pushed me to a fence and told me to go cry for all she cared.. I suffer depression an cry myself to sleep every night. I moved .. immin a better place now. but my depression got worse. im scared to do anything, I cant do this anymore, I just cant :"(
Leah Hawkins hold your head up high, beautiful. don't let them get the better of you. they are clearly jealous and insecure. i am so glad you moved away and i'm sorry that you've been through what you have. i was also bullied and it only got worse as i got older. the scars still remain. emotional wounds are worse than physical ones. but over time, trust me, it gets better and builds you into a strong person :)
For all the depressed and the lonely people commenting on here. It will get better. I am now 29 and remember the darkest days I went through in high school and college. I was an outsider. I still have never had a boyfriend or any guy like me back until this day. My life was out of control in so many ways. I was severely bullied, I was blamed for things I didn't do, I had friends abandon me left and right. I felt a loneliness for so many years, a deep loneliness that almost killed me. I have an abusive mother, and a sick and dying father. I gained 130 pounds in less than a year. I was completely broke and owing so much money. My credit score is/was very low. My outside was such a mess and my insides were broken. Then it finally happened: depression. Severe depression in which I could not even go to school, and all I did was sleep for about 1 year straight. Now I look back and my life is almost back. I'm positive and focused on goals. I promise, stay strong and focus on the positive!
“Help, I have done it again, I have been here many times before ” Me: (currently going through a pretty bad relapse and makes a joke out of everything) BITCH YOU GUESSED IT!
I love this song, because shes talking about how she's not this way because shes bullied or hated. I've always been really attached to this song for that reason, I'm an unhappy person and its not cause of anyone other then me. and I always feel like a terrible person for it, cause basically every one has it worth then me, and i just feel stupid for hating myself so much, but this song helps a lot.
I listen to this song everyday its how in feel I hurt myself and I don't know y I wish it would all stop I wish I felt safe every time I try and make friends they hurt me and all my head can do is rethink those moments u know sometimes the girl thats in pain isn't always how u would expect
This song means a lot to me, I'm getting bullied, no one helps, silence is my loudest cry, I think about suicide sometimes I'm sorry to say, I cut, I do have family and friends but I feel really alone....words hurt, so please use them wisely....
i've been suicidal lately and maybe about 2 or 3 of my friends are trying to help me through it.......i enjoy getting on the bus and seeing my little brother with the pretty blue eyes and blonde hair he has....my mom knew at one point and i dont think she cared that much...... almost everyone that i told about my problem didnt seem to care.....
CassieLicious Squad thanks....i told my mom and she asked me if i wanted to go to a theripast ( idk how to spell it) but i said no but ever since my heart hasnt been hurting and i havent been crying over the smallest things.....and things were getting better
Just remember that all life is precious. Don't let the small things get you down, even though it may be hard. There are many people willing to help you through it as I can see from these replies. I have many friends in the same situation as you and I will tell you the same thing that I have told them....No matter how bad things may seem, no matter how much it seems that the whole world is against you, or that no one cares, just remember that there will always be someone to help you through it. Someone in this comment section has given you their email address, and there are many more that would be willing to talk to you about it and help you through it. Me included. So don't give up. :)
Sad songs like these reminds of the things I never got to have or experience in life. Such as being able to love or what it would be like to have a best friend. I question myself and try conceptualize what love feels like but I cannot process it. The same thing about having a best friend. Someone that will always be there and never leave you sounds imaginary. But I realize that I'm the only one that doesn't have a best friend or can love.
This is what what i am listening to... right now in this moment!!! Trying to control but its to powerful its crushing me down... and its to much... the world is on my shoulders... and im bout to drop and wait...
I can't listen to this song anymore...this song corroded my insides after playing it so much. It reminds me of being 16 again and hating life and dreading high school. I'm 20, in university now and still struggle immensely...but I don't cut anymore and never think about killing myself. If you are suicidal or even just depressed in the comments section, I am with you. You have a future. Live the life you want, let what is be and don't beat yourself up too harshly. Life begins when you fall in love with yourself. I came here to leave that comment. One day, I'll be able to listen to this whole song again. It currently brings back flashbacks of being curled up in the bathroom cutting myself.
Why do people of our generation hurt ourselves? We have the lowest mortality rates from disease, poverty and war yet we give ourselves this hurt. Let's face it. This is reality, there's no one who can make us happy for ourselves. And whether you find reality shitty or not, it doesn't matter because we have nothing to do but accept. Happiness is not an entitlement but it is a choice. A choice we all have. But if you keep defining happiness by what other people tell you or what you think it should be then you're never gonna be happy. Because it does not ever matter what you think, life is what it is. And yes i agree life is shitty but I'm not gonna kill myself because there's obviously something we're missing if we do.
![[LIVE] : ONE ลุมพินี 82 วันนี้!! คู่เอก | ยอดไอคิว vs อับดัลลาห์](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/hSsyTl_9bqs/mqdefault.jpg)
![หล่นหายระหว่างทาง - Phumin [Official MV]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/jHiW2LsCz3I/mqdefault.jpg)
i am scrolling through the comments in tears because i have had anxiety & depression for a while now & its hard to know that other people are going through the exact thing as me. if anyone needs a friend you can ALWAYS count on me. ❤️❤️
kaming tse no but i have snapchat
CuteCatsAJ yes but i dont know how to use it
I have depression sometimes, and feelings of loneliness. which is strange, cause I have two amazing little sisters and very loving parents, yet I still feel lonely. does anyone else feel like that?
if I had a boyfriend I think this feeling would go away. I don't know, perhaps I am just a love sick teenager .
I feel kinda silly now for saying that.
No one should ever feel broken to the point of hurting themselves. Especially a child. The world we live in scares me.
Keanna Stephen me too
Not me :)
I'm 12 and I cut,
yeah ik but there is so many
+Keanna I think all of us hurt ourselves. It's not just physical!
Looking through the comments, I realized I'm not the only one that feels broken or empty. I have depression, and I have cut, and I've felt alone to the point where I almost committed suicide. But knowing there's other people like me, it's reassuring that I'm not really alone. If we all stick together, isn't it possible that it could get better?
I'm here for you 😅 I have the same thing
I feel you❤️
Batman fan101
as the skeleton squad says
stay strong. xx
It is possible when I grow up I want to do this thing with people who feel alone or want to committee suicide and we go out and do things we love
So nice to see so many people helping each other in the comments... kinda restores my faith in humanity a little
This song describes my life. Anxiety and depression paired with my fucked up past...this song really hits home.
Ava Sanders same
same...
same. i don't want to live with my parents. that's basically asking me to be completely independent at 16. i cant depend on my parents. theyre like a bunch of kids. i'm depressed.
I love the comment section like everyone is helping each other 💚
same ❤
keep being kind and helpful we need people like that and here your one of them makes me proud 😁
please always show how big and beautiful your heart is. never let the mean people of this world stop you from being kind. one day your heart will find its way to someone who loves like you do.
Honestly the only reason I haven't killed myself is because I don't want to hurt people.
even though people are hurting me.
Anyone else listen to sad songs when they feel alone and depressed? That's what I do... It doesn't help
who doesnt..
WillowForest Sprite me...
Three years clean from drinking and cutting ❤️
❤️❤️❤️
proud of you❤
thats good stay that way you have a bright future ahead of you 💯
your amazing
congrats I'm one week clean from cutting
The worst part is having to force a smile everyday
My dad hung himself when I was 8, in '99. My mother had to uproot our lives from NC to NJ to live with her mom. It was a hard hit, & my sister, who was 4, can remember him more than I can. Only because my depression took over. I wasn't diagnosed & medicated until 2004, when we finally found a doctor who could understand my description of inside my head. I was on Zoloft until 2013, when I was 20 weeks pregnant. 9 years of being a content, semi-zombified person. I have been better since having our son, although I think the depression has turned me into a more irritated person. I'll be seeing a therapist soon... My whole life, I worried I wouldn't get better, that I'd get worse, to the point of ending my life like my dad did. But BECAUSE of my dad, because of everything I went through, every time I get broken, I realize just how broken everyone else could be if I left & couldn't come back. & I can't do that to them. Even though sometimes I feel like no one cares, that I'm not good enough or I'm a burden, I breath deep, & I open my eyes & think about why I'm feeling this way. Is it truly THEM breaking me down? Or is it me? & 90% of the time, it's ME. We can get better. By talking about these mental illnesses, by helping each other through it, & through others learning how we feel & how to help us through our lives, by medication or meditation- anything- we can feel better. We need to live for tomorrow, when something exciting can happen. When we can smile again. Because we WILL smile, & I want to see you smile. I'm here. You can contact me...
I usually cry when I hear this song.
Yeah
+Kennikitty99 Same
same..
+Ashley Michelle same.
+Kennikitty99 Me too
this song seems to be what all the sad people listen to, but i just think the sadness and desperation just makes it beautiful.
Erin K Exactly. All I see are self pitying posts. I've been through shit. Am I complaining? .. Yes .. Yes I am. But I'm not searching for people that pity me. I enjoy the song because it has a beauty to it. It tells my story and many others in just a couple words. Very relatable..
Literally just balled my eyes out....
ikr, and the cyberbully movie does not help....
+Shadow Luna I literally cried my eyes out at that part. I couldn't stop crying. That movie was so sad.
+Stephanie Risley ikr I literally cried for like an hour
• Ouhshesnina • yeah this one can get ya sweetie *hugs*
Anyone else tired of saying "I'm ok"
Clean since May 30th, 2015❤️
Thanks😘 Kate Foster
Great job gorgeous ❤️
+Krista McComas luck i have been clean up until last Thursday ):
I just want to die already.. but i cant!!!!!!!
Congrats on idina menzels birthday u go girl!!!
thats amazing
Every Time time I hear this song it's brings back traumatic memories of the past that I've been subconsciously trying to forget about like that one time I told the waiter "you too" when he said "enjoy your meal".
This made me cry of laughter 😂
lol I have done that.. so awkward xD
Lol, I did something similar while working at a snack bar. The lady ordered nachos and out of habit of people ordering pretzels I asked if she wanted cheese with that...
Why would you laugh at this. This is serious
Chloe, would you like a prescription of chill pills?
Am I the only one who isn't crying when I listen to this song? I just relate to it too much to cry...
Plus, I'm not an easy crier ._.
I'm not
Both your usernames are so lit, always find my fandoms
Same:/
same
I freakin love your name so much
I always feel like the one girl that nobody pays attention to. Nobody listens to me, I feel like my friends don't care for me at all, and I feel like an ugly outcast. I hope I just die soon. I cry some nights after thinking about how much I'm not needed, and how nobody wants to be friends with someone like me. This song makes me feel a bit better, even if it's supposed to be a sad song.
Thank you, those who have made comments and reached out to those who have a need. Thank you for being caring and compassionate human's. I thank you for caring even though some of you are suffering as well. You are what it means to be human.
Your life is beautiful. You are beautiful. You are worth it. You are here for a reason. You are wonderful. You are strong. You are smart. You are you.Don't self harm, don't commit suicide. I'm here, I care💙
Three words:
It gets better.
It doesn't get better it never does get better..
sad faces are good Just trust me and paxtoncat i know its hard now but its getting better and better in my life and i was down i wannet to kill myself. Sry 4 bad english iam german
thanks you Jungle Or FEED and I can understand where you are coming from it just feels like I have no future at the minute because I'm sick of it all you get what I mean? Xx
Yea i know what u mean i was in the same situation but now i can feel good again just dont give up no matter what happen to u some people would miss u
+XxEnzerukagexX don't be negative it gets better, angel.
For some reason this calms me down during my panic attacks
Same.
i'm crying to this song right now cuz this totally explains my life so far
stay strong ❤
Mine to and I'm only 11😭😭I have no one
be strong♥
You have all of us on hear :) So sorry you are feeling blue :( Hugs and happiness to you!! :) You can get through it. You have your whole life ahead of you and just try to remember a day that you had a super happy thing happen or a day that you were at peace and just know that it will come around again.
same here...
my nieces and nephews are what keep me going ❤ I'm a week clean from self harm ❤
Only song that can make me cry!
Listen to ' her last words' by Courtney Parker. That song is how I feel everyday battling with this invisible illness that people tell me it's nothing and to get over it.
+kayla mosby I feel u I love her last words and stolen inocence
Same
+kayla mosby somewhere there is a god, just pray for yourself and the whole world. I have also many healthy problems, but now i am here again. There is nothing impossible in life. good luck
the same for me and it gives me goose bumps!!!
i love the little sigh before the lyrics begin. it adds to the pain of the song.
most emotional song I have ever heard... It makes me feel so little and I can't listen to it without crying and then cyberbully the movie makes me feel hopeless, I was terrified to go back on social media cuz life is all to precious to throw away and its sad not to trust and to fall upon the thought of cutting and slowly passing. I used to have fights with these people I called friends and one day I broke. I cried and placed the razor on my skin but remembered every other person who may have it harder. All I am saying is that lots of people have it worse and life is to full of good to just throw away.
true asf, I feel you girl 😭😔💕 but youre right, so much ppl have it worse. I hope youre doing better the :)
I feel ya it's so hard to just do things when you're so depressed and trust me I know how depressed you are because you think your not good enough but you are and you always will be
Ashley hola
I understand! BUT YOU ARE WROTH IT
YOU are cared about
BY me and many others you may not know care
To everyone who's feeling suicidal or very sad, this songs takes you to that dark place because it comes from a dark place. As much as sometimes we tend to listen to sad music when we're sad, we shouldn't. I recommend everyone who feels bad to not listen to this song, it just makes things worse. Me, for instance, was fine but then when I listened to this I started thinking about bad stuff. So I can only imagine what it does to people who are already sad... It's a very deep song but it has a lot of emotion too and is easy to feel the pain through the song, which can either make you remember your own pain or just give you more pain.
Try "You Are Never Fully Dressed Without A Smile" instead. I know I will.
you know there are a lot of diffrent people arround the world. and you cant say what they shuld do!
look its a sad song because you feel this way.. but for some poeple it helps to understand! how they feel, how they are, how they do! this song also says clearly what to do .. HELP ME
scream it out! its the only way .. you are not alone on the wolrd!!!!!! search for help you want it why dont you do it! since i was young i had mental problems but after 10 years of help i noticed that i am not alone like so many others here!! HELP!!
ZrowLimitZ it was just my advice, if this song helped you that's great. It seemed in the comments that a lot of people was feeling worse while listening to this so I felt the need to write what I wrote.
***** It really depends on the severity of the depression. When it's mild to moderate, happy songs might do the work. However, from my experience, happy songs pissed me off and found solace in depressing songs. Thanks for your input though, it might help some people.
***** wtf you just commented before that everyone should kill themselves your sick.
true but I also think that it can show you that you're not alone in that place dark place and that other people resonate with feeling this way. Sia expressed her feelings through this song and I think that its beauty can be reliefing to people rather than depressing though that is of course an entirely subjective opinion and matter of debate.
Sia is very talented. I'm so glad she made the decision to bless us all with her presence in music.
whos here because their depression?
me
Taylor MSP me..
me
Taylor MSP me
Me
About 4 years cut free :) lost count since its been so long. I listen to this song to remind me of how much progress I've made since then. I remember exactly how it felt and I will never let myself slip back again. For those currently going through something, I'm living proof it will all turn out alright. It's a fight everyday but it eventually gets easier once you become friends with yourself and get to know yourself a little better. Stay strong :)
Hated this song when it was on the radio but now when I saw the lyrics...Damn it hit me hard :/
same
Maximalus same
So tired of faking smiles everyday.. I just want to be okay
Everyone who has gone through bulling, taking there own lives, cutting. You can get through it I promise just stand up for yourself that's all you have to do, please don't do anything bad to yourselves I promise your perfect, don't let people judge you. Maybe you don't want to stop cutting and you want to stay the way you are. I want to help you, I told my dad if I make it big one day I will help all the people that want my help. Your beautiful don't let anyone tell you your not. If your waiting for that one person in life to appear and help you I want to be that person to help you heads up high good luck
+Lauren Palmer I stood up for myself.... It made everything worse. Now I'm ignoring the person whos trying to cyberbully me on my comment on this song and they keep replying since I've stopped replying back to there hate. It's better to just ignore it or something rather than stand up for yourself against bullies.
I wish I had a friend like you .
+Lauren Palmer i wish i knew you, your friends are very lucky
:''( be my friend .
it's hard.
A message to all self harmers, your life was made for YOU. Not your mum, your dad, friends or relatives. Believe in yourself and if you suffer from bullying, try to be STRONGER. Face your weaknesses. Be brave. Be happy and CHEERFUL. Your life was made to be taken to the limits of fun. Not hurting yourself over somebody calling you fat or ugly or even useless. You are YOU. Remember that. BTW you are beautiful in any way possible. Even with braces. Or crooked teeth. Or freckles. Dimples in fact. They are part of you. Don't judge yourself. We somehow all LOVE you. These three things: 🔪💉🔫 are what YOU SUICIDAL teens use to die. You are priceless. No one can place an exact price on you! It's because you are BEAUTIFUL! That is IT from me. Remember, No one is perfect - that is why pencils have erasers. ❤❤❤❤
- M
Love you all!
ALSO
I have experienced this sort of thing also. My ex boyfriend Blade says I wasn't his type. I get harassed every dag cause I am ugly. They make me feel like crap! I need advice cause I cannot deal with it myself. I still really like my ex and I think he secretly still does as well. He is scared to admit it. I catch him staring at me while I play a game with him and his friends. Once he was staring at me, he looked away and grinned. I just KNOW he must still like me! Please tell me if he does. Also, this girl in my grade bashed me up and called me a whore etc. Some of my friends didn't care. Especially one of my BFFs named Chloe. She hung around with the bullies!! WHAT DO I DO?! ❤❤
Day**
Also I did cut once. 6 months ago. ❤
hey listen if you ever want to talk about anything you can to me cause I'm doing it tough at the moment cause I just lost my cat called Fire on Sunday she was hit by a car and died of internal bleeding so yeah I'm hurting a fair bit cause she was very much loved ok
KeepCalmBBY but lives where made for like 7 billion other people In the world
Sharnee Hogan Oh my god I am so sorry! R.I.P Fire ❤
I'll be a friend. :)
It's a depressing song.
Life is just another moment to experience. We should! Life is beautiful.
We should remember that there is no situation that is no way out. There is another day tomorrow and it will take care of yesterday and today. There is future for all of us! Live it!
Am I the only one who actually just likes the song,and is not depressed or suicidal :p
no ur not my friend😄
me lol, but for anyone that is battling bullying we all love you guys sty strong bbys xoxo💜
+Armin Alert™ Me too.
I'm not suicidal or anything, but reading these comments reminded me of how I felt when I was younger. When the world revolved around how others saw me. It was a really dark time. Reading the comments here makes me realize that no one is alone, we all have these thoughts at some time or another. It's so beautiful to see a community like this driving together by this awesome song.
I hope that everyone stops hurting themselves, it's not worth it. It's hard to find a place in the world to be happy. Sometimes you just have to create your own.. And maybe someone will see the world you have created and want to live there too.
Find a happy place in your life. Everyone needs something to make the smile. :)
This song is amazing, and very inspirational. Even if you just need a nice chill tune to listen to at night. :3
+Armin Alert™ no me too. but i was open minded i´m into this theme and i´m scared to see what my kids may expect when they go to school...
im hurting so bad I need help I feel like im alone in this world im falling in a deep black hole I feel alone
One days, you will find your best friends. He will help you and will like you ! :o Just wait ...
Just remember that at the end of the tunnel there is a light some tunnels are longer than others but go to the people that help I go to my bff/sister and she helps just look for someone cause I promise someone is there for you just keep looking.
TheGirly Gamer I'm here to help you ❤️ you probably don't trust a stranger but I promise you won't regret talking to me. Please some how message me on something. I want to help
I'm a young teen mom I feel so alone
im not a teen mom, but you're not alone
jessa R, you're not alone. I can understand that, being different. But everyone is different but they decide some things are too different. YOU ARE NOT ALONE, and you are loved
how old are u and our not alone💞
you're not alone. we're here. your baby loves you 💘💘
Be proud of you !! :)
I love this, not just the song but the comments. It's great to see everyone helping others in their darkest times and remember, these comments can change lives. This has made my day a little bit better:-)
so true , I had not taken in this way, but you're right , yes, it's great. :)
I just everyone to know who is hurting that it gets better, life is beautiful and its all because of you are here alive and breathing. I love you.
you are a amazing person this comment just made my day thank you❤
Thank you ♥
♥ This heart goes out to anyone who need's a little love. Even if I don't know you, or can't physically see you, YOU'RE made for great things. So keep your head up and show the world how strong you can be. I believe in you! (Feel free to message me any time. Everyone deserves to be listened to)
This comment made my day. You are truly amazing. Thank you!♥
Andrijana Markovic Thank you very much! I just want to help. If you ever need anything I'm here to talk :)
Best comment ever !! thank you so much from france :)
luc Hermes Epouhe You're very welcome :)
***** Awe thanks!! I enjoy hugs :) *hugs*!
hey, I just wanted to let you know that I love you. today may be hard but tomorrow will be beautiful. Stay strong.
Listening to the song +reading the comments :(
What's the point of living
there is always a reason to live, you just have to find it, it may not show up now but it will show up later ^^
Probably Gonna get better....
because if you leave you will pass the pain to someone else.
there's so much to life you just have to find something or someone worth living for trust me I have been there it will get better stay strong!
Really? What's the point of living? What about that new season of show your waiting to come out? You need to know how that cliff hanger ended. Or your favorite bands new album? You need to hear their new music before you go. Your best friend? If you killed yourself right now it'd kill them. Crying every time they saw your parents or siblings, crying in the shower, in the hallways at school, everywhere.They'd blame them self and carry the weight the rest of their lives. Probably get depressed and end up killing them selves too. Your little brother or sister not understanding why you did this, they love you soooo much! Sure they can be such brats but they love you! Or THAT teacher who's a bitch, she's trying to make you better because you remind her of herself. Your ex boy/girlfriend who wasn't over you who was just getting up the courage to ask you out. Your parents, what would they think? They would sob for years every time they saw your picture and just didn't have the strength to take it down. Your mom laying in on your bed crying so hard she was choking, thinking she was so mean for never letting you go out. Your dad not being able to forget you laying on the bathroom floor with pills and razor blades in your hands, blood dripping down your wrist. Who says it was his fault for always yelling and pressuring you. The bully in the hallway who made you cut the first time, always calling you names, really just has a major crush on you and can't deal with it the right way. He'd kill himself too, not being able to get the though about if his head think it was his fault. The boy who sits behind you in math class who talks to you anytime he gets the chance, helping you with everything loves you too, he really needs a friend. The nice girl who's locker is right next to yours, she has scars too, all up her arms and thighs, want to know what keeps her going? You. She has major anxiety ands been getting the courage up to talk to you about your scars. Thinking she'll have a friend and some who gets it, she says he can get through it so can I. It kills her. JUST KEEP GOING!! ALWAYS MOVE FORWARD!! You could get better tomorrow, or maybe the next. You could meet your future husband or wife tomorrow, just try. Please for me.
The series finale of "Six Feet Under" brought me here, and the comments break my heart.
I have days where I feel so dark and alone, the worst part is when I'm there, I don't feel like it'll end.
I just want people to know they are not alone, thousands of people feel this way.
And, while our pain may not be the same, there's always someone who's trapped in that same place.
It's a dark place, so you can't see them, but you are not alone. 🕯
Been struggling with severe mental health issues since I was six. I am the soul arcitect of my own downfall.
I remember over the years since I was a kid there were so many times when I was crying every night feeling so alone, it upsets me to remember and there is no way I can go back and change it. the only reason I'm not still like that is I have someone I can count on but I'm probably to dependant on this person. I hope I have grown and improved. stay strong all.
"A strong person knows how to keep their life in line with tears in their eyes still managing to say "nah im fine"
I love Sia's songs. She makes us think more about our suicidal thoughts.
If you feel suicidal, read this. I hope it'll stop you from committing suicide.
You are not worthless. You may think no one cares, no one likes you,
But you are wrong.
Even if you don't know me, and I don't know you, I still like you, personally.
You may think cutting will help? But think, how does cutting make you feel better?
It may feel good for a few seconds, but is that solving any of your problems?
Don't say you want to die. You'll make everything worse.
Everyone around you that cares and thinks about you, will be hurt.
They'll miss you. And just you, away, will change everyone's life.
You're not just affecting yourself, you're affecting the people all around you.
And even if you're an atheist, God gave you life. And he gave you life because he wants you to be on this world with him. It may not seem like he's there every time, but he really is. You just can't see him.
Stop cutting, stop everything. Think before you pick the blade up. Think before you do anything to harm yourself. You think it'll make everything better, but just remember, it'll get worse. Everything will change.
Stop Committing Suicide. Start Thinking About Yourself And The People Around You.
Hi
I'm not trying to hate or anything bad
Sia did an interview and the man said to her where did the song "Breath Me" come from? Sia said I wrote that song when I was at my lowest by thinking suicidal and alcohol and she locked herself up in her apartment so that's were the song came from:)
That's how Sia expresses her thoughts through music:)
Kiadeiaz Claire Yup Cutting Helps. I Love Cutting... Im Crazy I Guess Thats What Most People Say, I Hanged Myself And Failed Its Just My Life Now.., Trying to commit suicide...
"no one can make you feel infirior without your consent.'
I've never been able to relate to this song so much. Lately i've just fallen down such a deep hole in my life, i go through stages where i'm extremely depressed, i don't eat, i isolate myself from everyone. I've even had really dark thoughts and i have no idea what to do about it, i've been to counselling and it hasn't helped. I just need someone. So much has happened in my life in the past few months and i just need to let it all out.
Talk to me babe.
Kennedy Bradley There's people that care about you. I care about you. just let them reach out to help you.
I am so sorry to hear this. I struggle through a lot to and I know what it is to be so confused, lost, broken, an desperate. But through it all, my Lord and savior has helped me. I don't know where I would be without Him. (please, nobody get offended at this comment, it really is meant to help and I am not wanting to get anyone mad.) I know I have eternal hope. God sent His son to die for all of us. He loves you more than you could ever imagine. Sometimes hard trials bring people to Christ. I think a lot of it is because we realize we can't do life on our own. If we admit this to Christ and repent and turn away from our sin, and choose to give and dedicate your life to God we can find true joy and peace and have eternal life in heaven after death. Although I still feel worthless and uncared for sometimes, I am human, but I know in my heart that God loves me more than I can ever imagine and he leads me through my trials, and they have made me a stronger person. I really hope you take this chance, because I have found it is the only way to true happiness. God made you and loves you so much. I really hope I helped in some way, God bless you. John 3:16 Romans 10:9
I'm 24 years old, never kissed a girl, never had a girlfriend. All my life I've felt like some outsider, like a freak. I've tried my best to fit in but it never happens. I've gone to nightclubs every weekend for 2 years to meet women, but I get rejected each and every time. I'm not ugly, I'm at-least cute. I dress well, smell nice. But women don't like me, they'll never like me. I'll just live the rest of my life alone and miserable and then it will end. What the point in living then? Just so my parents aren't sad that their son killed himself!?
oh come on. Please,you need to try and try. Ofc. you're going to get reject,we all do...just so you know you cannot find good and nice girlfriend in clubs. Most of them are hoes and that shit..
Kristina Zero
Maybe you're right. I'm going to try to meet women in better surroundings. And I'm not going to give up, I'm a good person who has a lot of love to give I just hope I'll meet someone soon.
Thanks, your comment made me feel better :)
girls aren't even the beginning to your answer in life, God is, go to him, his arms are open, and he loves and wants you more than you could ever imagine. try it, you might surprise yourself, he makes me feel better when I feel low :) trust me, do it! you're wanted believe me
i don't mean to be rude, but if you limit yourself by going to only nightclubs, chances are you won't meet the right kind of people. i'm not saying ALL people who go to nightclubs are tacky or whatever... just the majority. widen your locations like pubs/bars where people want to actually (or mostly) engage in interesting conversation. maybe find a new hobby which might make the right kind of people approach you. just some advice :) good luck.
rachel mcewan
I think I'm just going to start up chatting women everywhere in the day time. Somethings gotta give, I can't just spend my life alone anymore, it's not much of a life.
This song definitely brings me back to when I was really depressed and alone :( I feel like my life is getting better now. I am older and realizing my self worth more than when I was younger
I remember listening to this song for the first time about ten years ago when I was 14. I came across the song again today and it gave me goosebumps. It made me feel the same way I felt back then and is still relevant. The helplessness we can sometimes feel... Still there. Stay strong.
this song hits me hard every time.
me too expecially when i have no idea why i am alive i need to be dead!!!
Cheyenne Howard I know you're trying to be helpful but that's probably the worst thing you can say to a suicidal/depressed/etc person.
I guess it's ok on youtube but if you know someone that's depressed and you say that to them it'll make them feel like shit. It'll make them feel like they're not trying hard enough or that they're selfish, ungrateful, lazy and that makes them feel as if they have one more failure on their list.
Sorry but I feel like I had to point this out, a lot of people say things like that when it actually doesn't help. The best thing to do is SHOW them you care, be a shoulder they can cry on and tell them you don't completely understand what they're going through but you'll try your best to help.
Cheyenne Howard lol I just felt strongly bout the subject at the moment. That whole rant was really bout how I feel, idk bout anyone else....yea now I feel stupid :P
To all of you out there feeling depressed, at the lowest low you've ever been. To all of you who feel alone, hurt, trapped. Trust me. Someone loves you. And life is worth it. Find what you love, and invest your time in it. It connects you to the others who love it as much as you. Fight for life, because life is the most beautiful gift you have. Let yourself experience it to its fullest. Travel, meet new people, see the world for what it truly is! Surround yourself with those who lift you up, not those who tear you don't. Be defiant to those who try to tear you down. I know depression, I know suicide, I know how terribly exhausting life can be. But I also know the pure joys of being alive. Climbing a 6000 meter mountain, dancing in the streets of Columbia, diving in Thailand, working with children and animals in Zimbabwe, anything you set your mind to is possible. Set goals and work hard to achieve them. Because they are worth it, your life is worth it, you are worth it.
No I'm not
yes you are!
Sia can touch people souls and hearts, this song is so pretty and moving :(
Someone be my friend ;~;
Msp coolcat me! i love u
what up
+Msp coolcat here I am! :3
xD yay ***** and ello
+Msp coolcat me
"Ouch! I have lost myself again. I lost myself and I'm know where to be found."
I can relate to that part so much. When ever I'm upset I listen to this song. I always seem to get lost when something simple happens. Like getting called a name.
Ok i see others posting the pain they are going through. this song has always helped me try and push through depression, bullying, mental abuse. I had coped well until last august when i watched my mum die in front of me and could do nothing. i physically watched her take her last breath as she lay cold on the floor and i was helpless... i am angry everyday all day with myself knowing i should have done more i should have tried to help even though i couldnt do anything. I miss her every fucking day and they say you learn to live with it but i feel as though each day just crushes me even more. So for those of you out there struggling with depression and bullying and any other pain however serious. we can stand strong when we support each other
Sia is a lyrical genius
if anyone needs someone to talk to ill be here, i know what its like to be laying in your bed crying at 2 am because you don't know what to do with life. but i realized that if i cant help myself, then i can at least try to help others who are going through the same thing as me. i might not have the right words but i will always listen to what you have to say and try to give your encouragement. but to anyone reading this. you are worth it. you have an amazing life ahead of you. go live it(:
My parents were abusive and I found out I had cancer when I was just 3 and then my parents abandoned me because they didn't want a broken kid. Then i have people at my school who bully me so I have tried suicide 15 times but every time I survive because my body just doesn't want to let go. I have the help I need and it os people like you and people who are there to help that have made me realize that I was put on the earth because I'm special and I shouldn't take that away from me I love myself now and I get help everyday while fighting through cancer
+samantha ketring im so sorry to hear about all that happening to you. but im very proud that you've made it this far. your a survivor. its people like you, who give others the hope and strength they need to move on. the people at your school obviously don't know you very well. i mean i know i don't know you that well, but you deserve to be happy and not have to worry about other people being mean. i'm glad you shared your story. you are 100 percent right. you were put on this earth for a reason. all you have to do is grow up, live your life and figure out what that reason is. good luck (:
Well, im just trying to deal with the fact that every person that means something to me in my life slowly disappears...what have I done wrong?
Jazzie B trust me. your not doing anything wrong. if anything there making a huge mistake by disappearing from your life. dont be so hard on yourself. i know how hard it is to stay positive but dont blame yourself for what others do. stay strong
+samantha ketring I'm so sorry to hear this,your parents were stupid to do this to you because it's not your fault.Them bullies who bully you are only jealous that you have a really beautiful personality.Dont let the bully stop you and I'm glad that your still alive.Now you know that God really needs you in this world.God bless you :)
I came here for Christina. RIP Christina Grimmie
Christina Grimmie died?!!??!!?!?!? 😭WHYYYY
+Arissa Chan Do you live under a rock?
+Arissa Chan she was shot at a concert
+Nellie Jones ikr
+Arissa Chan we have the same name😇
I enjoy songs like this. Most people would call it depressing emo music, however, I like focusing on the lyrics. Whenever I pay attention to the words of melancholy songs, it helps me remember that there is someone worse off than me. I'm not taking pride in the fact that someone else is hurting, it just convinces me that I don't deserve to be sad when other people can get through the day just fine, and come home to hell. It's a reminder for me to get over what ever is keeping me down.
the lyrics are what makes it "depressing emo music"
Trust me, I know it's hard. Believe me, I know. Look for the bright light in the darkness. If you ever need anyone, I'm here.
I didn't know this was Sia's song. It's so beautiful and moving
I feel so alone most of the times I love this song 😔😊
Autumn Allie you're not the only one
Autumn Allie I am here for you
Autumn Allie you don't have to be alone :)
Autumn Allie You are not alone
me to I love to listen to this song when I cry my eyes out in the corner of my dark room
This is the side of TH-cam I admire. I cry watching the comments upload. It shows we are humane. Everyone saying I'll help you. This is the side of the earth I'm proud of. I respect all of you guys.
I'm finished Six Feet Under and I'm here.What a sad song.Amazing end ı can't stop crying :(
omg, i was listening to this song and reading the coments at the same time. i cried so much.... so many people are hurting.. and almost nobody cares. that's so sad, because its so many people out there who need help... don't you agree?
I am only 13. The first time I listened to this, I was 11. When I was only 11, I cried myself to sleep every night after self harming and I fell in love with the idea of killing myself. And I nearly did, and had to be taken into eating disorder treatment when I was 12. I am still not fully recovered. But, I am so much better than I ever was. I just find it crazy that at the age of 11, I experienced so much, and I shouldn't have. I should have been dancing in the shower, playing with barbies, laughing at the park but instead I was enclosed in my dark bedroom breathing onto my computer searching up ways to kill myself. And now, really, I am just scared for everybody else. But listen to me when I say that I am so much better now. I graduated from eating disorder treatment even though my body still refuses to gain as much weight as it should, but man, I'm eating and that's fantastic. I rarely even think about self harm, but I am over a month clean. I get out and I breathe. I now dance in the shower. I go out and let myself laugh with my friends. I get good grades now. I just got accepted into art school. I wouldn't let myself think about recovery, or accomplishing anything. I am happy. I miss being sad often, but at the same time I am so glad I am okay. I am so glad I've survived. Even though it was small, I just want to say I survived. And that you can too. I'm so sorry for what everyone is going through.
Congratulations!! You should be proud of yourself!! 💕 have a nice day
congrats girly!!!!!!!!
stay positive :)
You should be so proud of yourself
You're a smart girl, spread your plan and help others. You could save lives, nicely done my friend :)
Im just like you. except im only 11 and i do the things you did. when will me 13 days come? ha never :/
I'm beating depression. You can all get through this.
That's good! Stay Strong!
I've been through it. It's awful. But it will get better I promise. Stay strong
I beat it its a dark place! Good luck
Been there too. Keep holding on :)
I´m with you.
This video latterly saved my life xxx
literally*
I'm an adult who self harms; not by cutting, but still serious. Love this song! There is help and hope out there. I'm in therapy and on meds; it's helping. Stay safe; stay strong.
Im turning fourteen and ive been selfharming for a year about to be two years My question everyday is.. How am I supposed to stay strong or How am I supposed to stop when all I ever do is fuck up??? How am I supposed to get help when I have no home support system and im trying to help myself which doesnt work..?? How is anything supposed to get better if no one notices and no one listens?? But I guess thats life right??? You have to learn to fend for yourself right? I wish it would all just stop!
Stay strong beautiful you will get through this, im not gonna say STOP NOW, cause that's like telling someone who has been smoking for 10 years to just stop, just telling someone to stop is not gonna help i understand, try things like drawing butterflys on your wrist or family or friends name, stay strong i believe in you :)
Justine Mcewan Just keep your chin up and try to stay positive, I understand I am 18 and still recovering from self harm so I get what you are going through. I know it may seem like things won't get any better, but hold on tight girl. What got me through it was the support from friends, I didn't have any support at home either. If you need someone to talk to you can feel free to message me anytime.
Stay Strong..Dont hurt urself cause of people. Stay who you are and be proud of it!!
Honestly You are beautiful if you ever need me dont be afraid to reach out to me message me on here i will always be here for you and to anybody out there reading this i will be there for you to dm on instagram @/maygensalyer please do hurt yourself talk to me please
Find GOD! that's your savior!
this is the day I found out I can sing
goals
this... a thousand times over. i think everyone has/will feel depressed at some point in their life. and it's like a never ending battle... feeling stuck in a dark hole. but it DOES get better. people will always be there to pick you up
Well, when I was inn2nd grade i'm 12 now.. I was bullied and called 'stupid' worthless' 'pathetic' and I was confused, it continued to grade 3 I finally told me momm and she went in to talk the princible and teacher, thankfully it stopped for a week, but it came back later on and I cryed everyday and sat alone and people walked by me like I was some monster.. it stopped in grade for but in grade 5 it got 100 times worse.. people called me a b*tch now and one girl pushed me to a fence and told me to go cry for all she cared.. I suffer depression an cry myself to sleep every night. I moved .. immin a better place now. but my depression got worse. im scared to do anything, I cant do this anymore, I just cant :"(
Leah Hawkins hold your head up high, beautiful. don't let them get the better of you. they are clearly jealous and insecure. i am so glad you moved away and i'm sorry that you've been through what you have. i was also bullied and it only got worse as i got older. the scars still remain. emotional wounds are worse than physical ones. but over time, trust me, it gets better and builds you into a strong person :)
:)
For all the depressed and the lonely people commenting on here. It will get better. I am now 29 and remember the darkest days I went through in high school and college.
I was an outsider. I still have never had a boyfriend or any guy like me back until this day. My life was out of control in so many ways. I was severely bullied, I was blamed for things I didn't do, I had friends abandon me left and right. I felt a loneliness for so many years, a deep loneliness that almost killed me. I have an abusive mother, and a sick and dying father. I gained 130 pounds in less than a year. I was completely broke and owing so much money. My credit score is/was very low. My outside was such a mess and my insides were broken. Then it finally happened: depression. Severe depression in which I could not even go to school, and all I did was sleep for about 1 year straight.
Now I look back and my life is almost back. I'm positive and focused on goals. I promise, stay strong and focus on the positive!
“Help, I have done it again, I have been here many times before ”
Me: (currently going through a pretty bad relapse and makes a joke out of everything) BITCH YOU GUESSED IT!
You should all know:
*The night is always darkest before the dawn*
*It will get better*
Freaking love this song.
me too its sad but such a good song
Yeah
I don't want this to happen again.. help...
stay strong dear
Lunar Therian I'm here 😔❤️
Lunar Therian... stay strong, you got this
Lunar Therian i can try to help you out
Hey.. was this song played in the movie 'cyberbully'? It's very familiar.
Yeah, it was when she tried to commit suicide.
I think it is
yes.
Yes.
I love that movie.
yes! that movie is fuckin awesome!
I love this song, because shes talking about how she's not this way because shes bullied or hated. I've always been really attached to this song for that reason, I'm an unhappy person and its not cause of anyone other then me. and I always feel like a terrible person for it, cause basically every one has it worth then me, and i just feel stupid for hating myself so much, but this song helps a lot.
I listened to this that night. Now I cry every time I hear it.
cyberbully brought me here
same
samee
Same
yeah i knew this song from somewhere wich is cyberbully
Sameeee
I listen to this song everyday its how in feel I hurt myself and I don't know y I wish it would all stop I wish I felt safe every time I try and make friends they hurt me and all my head can do is rethink those moments u know sometimes the girl thats in pain isn't always how u would expect
thxs :)
You're welcome :)
This song wakens the soul! :)
This song means a lot to me, I'm getting bullied, no one helps, silence is my loudest cry, I think about suicide sometimes I'm sorry to say, I cut, I do have family and friends but I feel really alone....words hurt, so please use them wisely....
sia is so inspartional this song is a remake of my life
i love this song it describe what i feel inside. instead of hurting myself i listen to it and just cry. this song saved me
i've been suicidal lately and maybe about 2 or 3 of my friends are trying to help me through it.......i enjoy getting on the bus and seeing my little brother with the pretty blue eyes and blonde hair he has....my mom knew at one point and i dont think she cared that much...... almost everyone that i told about my problem didnt seem to care.....
rylee mull I care..
CassieLicious Squad thanks....i told my mom and she asked me if i wanted to go to a theripast ( idk how to spell it) but i said no but ever since my heart hasnt been hurting and i havent been crying over the smallest things.....and things were getting better
CassieLicious Squad ok
rylee mull I'll be here for you. 🙂
Just remember that all life is precious. Don't let the small things get you down, even though it may be hard. There are many people willing to help you through it as I can see from these replies. I have many friends in the same situation as you and I will tell you the same thing that I have told them....No matter how bad things may seem, no matter how much it seems that the whole world is against you, or that no one cares, just remember that there will always be someone to help you through it.
Someone in this comment section has given you their email address, and there are many more that would be willing to talk to you about it and help you through it. Me included. So don't give up. :)
No matter what you've done. Who you've hurt (even if its yourself). Today is a new day. Don't be the person you were before. Be better.
Sad songs like these reminds of the things I never got to have or experience in life. Such as being able to love or what it would be like to have a best friend. I question myself and try conceptualize what love feels like but I cannot process it. The same thing about having a best friend. Someone that will always be there and never leave you sounds imaginary. But I realize that I'm the only one that doesn't have a best friend or can love.
This is what what i am listening to... right now in this moment!!! Trying to control but its to powerful its crushing me down... and its to much... the world is on my shoulders... and im bout to drop and wait...
I can't listen to this song anymore...this song corroded my insides after playing it so much. It reminds me of being 16 again and hating life and dreading high school. I'm 20, in university now and still struggle immensely...but I don't cut anymore and never think about killing myself. If you are suicidal or even just depressed in the comments section, I am with you. You have a future. Live the life you want, let what is be and don't beat yourself up too harshly. Life begins when you fall in love with yourself. I came here to leave that comment. One day, I'll be able to listen to this whole song again. It currently brings back flashbacks of being curled up in the bathroom cutting myself.
Why do people of our generation hurt ourselves? We have the lowest mortality rates from disease, poverty and war yet we give ourselves this hurt. Let's face it. This is reality, there's no one who can make us happy for ourselves. And whether you find reality shitty or not, it doesn't matter because we have nothing to do but accept. Happiness is not an entitlement but it is a choice. A choice we all have. But if you keep defining happiness by what other people tell you or what you think it should be then you're never gonna be happy. Because it does not ever matter what you think, life is what it is. And yes i agree life is shitty but I'm not gonna kill myself because there's obviously something we're missing if we do.
i am 20 years old and I am 7 years free from self harm 💚
Dream Team you give me hope ❤