Do You REALLY Submit To Paul, Would Ya’ll Ever Consider Deconstructing? (Honest Q&A) | After Dark

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  • @PaulandMorgan
    @PaulandMorgan  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Hey guys, well this turned out to be one of the most raw videos we’ve done. It’s tough going live when the day has been crummy, when parenting and work have been hard and when our communication hasn’t been great. It’s real life and sometimes things are hard. Hope it wasn’t too real, we love you guys and had a lot of fun❤️
    Be one of the next 10 to sign up for the 24$ tier on Patreon and recieve a hand written letter plus a 24HRS WITH pin and stickers! Thank ya’ll so much for your support with this project!❤️
    www.patreon.com/paulandmorganshow

    • @williamkyles3804
      @williamkyles3804 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You guys are awesome life is not easy I had some really hard days one last month and one this month it’s not easy being a firefighter stay strong the best has yet to come god is going to do big things for you guys

    • @sambailie4773
      @sambailie4773 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      What about 24 hours with Emma Mae McDaniel?

    • @Brookewalma
      @Brookewalma 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I second the comment above ☝🏻 Emma Mae McDaniel would be SO full of truth!

    • @sambailie4773
      @sambailie4773 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Brookewalma I adore her, she's on fire for the Lord x

    • @seekingtruthandcompassion1707
      @seekingtruthandcompassion1707 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Would love a video update on your guys views on ivf and birth control are they ethical can they be used ethically by christian couples ? Love some good controversy

  • @megan7506
    @megan7506 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

    Raising kids is expensive. It’s why my husband and I are delaying it for a few years. Especially in this economy, I think it’s perfectly reasonable for one or both of you to get a consistent guarenteed income outside of social media.

  • @EmmaZ-h6x
    @EmmaZ-h6x 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Paul and Morgan! Side money suggestion! I know you prefer flexible work for Luca. Look into doing process service on the side. In my area (south U.S.), you can make anywhere from $35-65 per legal delivery. Which is much better price as a delivery driver than Instacart or what have you. It's honestly quite safe and I can count on one hand out of hundreds of papers when people were mean. Also, the vast majority of legal document deliveries are routine paperwork to banks, hospitals, businesses, etc. In Kentucky you don't have to be licensed so you would just need to find a company that needs a server in your area. I'm a woman and have never felt uncomfortable doing it, so I think Paul would enjoy it. It's also fun to get out and chat some with bank people or hospital staff etc.

  • @sam_wirley
    @sam_wirley 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Being a SAHM doesn’t mean you have to literally be stuck at home by yourself all day everyday! About to have 3 under 4, SAHM myself, and I only thrive when doing fun outings a lot and surrounding myself with other moms/Christian women to do life with *often.* It’s hard but worth it! Also I joined an incredible mom group at church which is a lifeline. Wanting the best for you guys ❤️

  • @emilyunger2035
    @emilyunger2035 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    I personally find it easier when my husband works out of the house. Knowing that I don’t have anyone but myself to take care of the kids almost makes me more productive and I have to just do it. But yes, either way, it definitely has its hard moments. 🥰

  • @aew2001
    @aew2001 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    You do not have to have the same conception of deconstruction as other folks, but I wonder why it’s fair to define the words that make sense to other folks as they go through the “pruning process”? For me I do think I deconstructed. But I remained Christian. Although perhaps you wouldn’t consider me a Christian at all because I am progressive.
    I won’t get into the specifics of my deconstruction because it was traumatizing and such a long process. But I will say, most of my deconstruction had little to do with any problems I had with the Bible and had much more to do with the church as an institution. I am autistic. I wasn’t diagnosed until adulthood. And I’ve discovered that in many ways, religious institutions have been constructed in ways that harm disabled folks. Maybe that’s a symptom of a larger societal problem, but…
    The church is supposed to be agents of God in this world. And I can accept that the church is made up of humans. But they have on a mass level failed to hold space to marginalized folks. And that causes real harm and trauma. So part of my deconstruction did involve realizing that I don’t feel I have much space to critique the people who are harmed and do choose to leave. Because the church has harmed people claiming it’s in the name of God.
    I wish y’all no ill will. Deconstruction has been the hardest thing I’ve ever done and it sort of happened TO me rather than BY me. I grieved. So much. I have no expectations of y’all to deconstruct or not. I just wish occasionally that you could hold space for the people who do. Hold space for why it happens and figure out why they leave and if something needs to be addressed.
    One fantastic book by a Christian author: On the Spectrum by Daniel Bowman Jr.

    • @kaitlinrose6352
      @kaitlinrose6352 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Out of curiosity, how do you believe the church has harmed autistic people? The two churches I have been a part of in the past 5 years have had several people with autism and several others with other pretty severe forms of disability, yet they were pretty happy participants, and I think their lives flourished more specifically because they were in and a part of and loved by the Church. I would be interested to hear how you see the church failing people with disabilities, because my observations have been very different. Unless you mean it in such a way where it’s like how Brant Hanson talks about in his book, ‘Blessed are the Misfits’ where it has more to do with the church culture at large being slightly harder for more introverted or high-functioning autistic folk. But that isn’t really a “church” problem or even a sin problem. It’s just reality of how things are. Everybody has problems fitting in in some way. That’s why we have to be specifically reminded to be loving, welcoming, and the like :)

    • @aew2001
      @aew2001 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@kaitlinrose6352 I think it’s the symptom of a wider culture so I don’t know that it’s specifically a problem with Christianity, but I do believe that the church has a way of reifying the problem. Based on my anecdotal experience, some of the problems I ran into were:
      An expectation to sit still and hold back my stimming behaviors to “respect God” even though those behaviors help me not melt down.
      LOUD music and bright lights that made me incredibly overstimulated, which made the problem worse. When I raised the problem with church authorities they told me to just not come.
      Admittedly we had some quiet rooms but because I needed to stim I was often told I was being disruptive anyway.
      Theology that disability won’t be in heaven. That we’re dysfunctional because we’re disabled. Like we’re made less in the image of God.
      And overall church culture in my experience makes a spectacle out of disability.
      Kevin Timpe at Calvin University (a Christian University where I went for undergrad) writes a lot about the philosophy of disability and has talked about it as well, if you want to learn more about how we moralize and conceptualize certain aspects of disability in ways that dehumanize rather than uplift. Even in the church. I think there’s a video somewhere on TH-cam that also talks about disability in heaven.

    • @aew2001
      @aew2001 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kaitlinrose6352 As a secondary response, there’s an idea that disability has to be eradicated in heaven to make people whole. And to an extent…I do believe pain will be gone in heaven. But to say that disability will be gone in heaven feels really invalidating of my experience. I like my brain and my disability. It’s not overly compatible with the world as it stands. But I don’t want it gone in heaven and I think it’s really messed up to be told that it will be.

  • @Lindsey.w
    @Lindsey.w 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    I’ve only watched the beginning so far, but I think social media has a huge part to play in this. My husband and I got married and had our first baby at 18 (second at 21). We have both always had a full time job. We were lucky that both our parents were able to watch our boys until they started school. But, I wouldn’t say it was ever extremely hard. It was our normal. We got kids ready in morning, dropped off at parents, worked, then had our evening routine. I think social media has placed unreasonable expectations to an extent. Should add our kids are now 16 and 19 and we’re a very happy family and we both still work full time 😊

    • @SauceLore
      @SauceLore 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I think the standards built on constant hypothetical philosophical questioning by her arrogant partner is what is draining her though to be honest!

  • @amanda_weber1
    @amanda_weber1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    I'd love to hear more depth from Morgan. I look forward to hearing her perspective on something but she unfortunately laughs it off and says a lot with out saying anything (not addressing the topic).

    • @alissakain9302
      @alissakain9302 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I sometimes laugh when I’m overwhelmed and stressed out. Laughing is kind of my way of saying “I feel like if I focus anymore on this topic I’ll stop breathing due to anxiety, but yes I agree-it’s tough”.
      I know I just do it when I’m anxious/uncomfortable/stressed/distracted/etc. So it definitely could be the same for her🤷🏻‍♀️ I’m not making assumptions either way, I’m just offering my own experiences as perspective😊

    • @HazyPinkSky
      @HazyPinkSky 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Yeah, I often wish Morgan would “finish the thought” because she’ll often back out of something with a sound and then move on, and sometimes that feels dismissive and other times has me wanting to hear her express herself more.

  • @christina3971
    @christina3971 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I always watch you guys but I instantly watched this because of Paul’s comments addressing the first few minutes on Instagram and I was so confused because I don’t think you guys have any explaining or apologizing to do whatsoever 😂 You guys are completely normal parents just going through new stages and it’s confusing, exhausting, overwhelming and wonderful. As someone who was a single mom for 5 years, the first one is the most stressful. Everything is new and it’s a different level of exhaustion. I now have a daughter who will be one at the end of this month and I can say, it gets MUCH easier and my husband is not the most helpful 🤣. You guys got this! You’re just in the trenches right now ❤

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤️❤️🙏

  • @cheschifocaro
    @cheschifocaro 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I keep getting these videos recommended to me and I have no idea why but I feel compelled to leave a comment now. I don’t know these people or anything about them other than what I’ve gathered from the combined five minutes of the past two or three so I could be wrong.
    So y’all are purporting to spread the gospel of Jesus Christ through your channel. The first five minutes of every single video I’ve watched have been two people, who snipe at each other like siblings but are apparently married? with a kid and one on the way, uncomfortably snipe at each other and make extremely passive aggressive digs at one another while passing judgment on anyone who’s not as good as them. So I got curious and watched a few more videos and have come to the conclusion that you two got married because you were getting too close to 30 and one of you hadn’t had sex yet. The other one of you continues to hold it over their head like a little toy you bring out when you want to get something from her. That’s pretty weird but I was also raised with a strict Christian upbringing and thought I’d spontaneously combust if I wasn’t married with children by 30.
    Look I don’t want to write a whole essay on people who I don’t know but who live surprisingly close to me but my personal suggestion before things get real bad for you, because I promise you that while God provides he has also provided you with the free will to get yourselves jobs outside of this clearly failing TH-cam thing and medical care and you have not taken advantage of those provisions. Maybe you should?
    I love my husband and my kids more than anything else in the world and would move heaven and earth for them. I also realize that a happy mom is a productive mom and I am NOT HAPPY when I’m feeling trapped in my life. And my husband is supportive of everything I do, which means he lets me leave or he leaves when we need to. No shame in feeling overwhelmed and decompressing. No shame in therapy, or bringing in others to help, or simply ASKING FOR HELP when you are overwhelmed.
    Paul, you’re the headship. If you’re not pulling in enough to support your family then you need to find something that does. Morgan, you’re not an invalid. You can work outside the home too. Plenty of pregnant and postpartum women do it every day. You’re not special. Neither of you have any reason to not have a job if this isn’t working out. Morgan’s mom essentially lives there now. Paul’s entire family is nearby. You have childcare. There are zero excuses. All of this is information you have shared with us publicly on this very channel.
    Crazy how looking at people with a “limited lens” doesn’t apply to all of the people you have been horrible towards, doesn’t feel great does it?

    • @josieann5031
      @josieann5031 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well said.
      They are hoping that patreon and online begging will be enough to support them. That's not going to happen. They need to grow up and realize that responsible adults have to work in order to survive in this world.

  • @anitazimmerman8412
    @anitazimmerman8412 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I just gotta say, i believe you. It is as hard as you say and feel that it is!! Life is hard! I just got a full time job for the first time since being married for almost 2 years, (i worked part time at another job for a while) and my husband has always worked. It is hard! To find time to be together, make food, take care of the house and get proper sleep on top of everything! And we aren't even considering kids! 3 fur babies 😉 as soon as anything different comes into our schedule, like trying to find time for family or friends, or going out, it really throws a wrench in the schedule because I feel like there is so little wiggle room! I feel for you guys, but just wanna encourage you! This is a season, everything has a season. You are doing good work, keep pressing on! ❤ much love. For myself, I appreciate you being REAL. We all have something going on, we're all human. 🤗

  • @Jordiepoo
    @Jordiepoo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Thank you for sharing your struggles with us. Let’s us all feel less alone. It’s hard out here!! You guys aren’t alone. Marriage, kids, working is so tough.
    You guys.. Thank God for his GRACE. We are all a mess lol

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you Jordan❤️

  • @addyzee1335
    @addyzee1335 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I was reading the comments before listening to the video and thinking “oh wow Morgan & Paul must have been super negative or rude to each other” Then I watched the video and was confused 🤔 Wait, people think THAT’s too much?? Or too raw? Or too negative? How ridiculous! 😂
    It’s actually people in the comment section that have their panties in a bunch. Geez! 🙄
    This couple is displaying NORMAL HUMAN behavior.

    • @KaylasMusicalDigest545
      @KaylasMusicalDigest545 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yeah, a lot of these comments are strange. I hate how some people are literally here just to bring stress/drama/ gaslight or push how great "deconstruction" is lol. I thought it was a good livestream and they just seemed a little exhausted. That's normal because they are literally humans living life! Lol!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🙏❤️

  • @olivedoves
    @olivedoves 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Hey Paul and Morgan, I really hope you read this. I’ve been praying for you guys and I think what you guys are experiencing is spiritual warfare. Whether that is fear, challenges in marriage, exhaustion etc.
    I really believe that Morgan and Paul love what they do but Morgan may just be burnt out (i commented this in another place also) I think she might just be overwhelmed because she is pregnant. I would continue doing videos/lives Paul by yourself and talk about culture etc. maybe not going 24 hours with Morgan as well. I think Morgan can benefit from resting and recharging. I would just keep her for p and m after dark. It’s hard because 9-5 jobs have maternity leaves and you can leave your job to rest and go home but you guys will have to find out how not to cross that fine line as it could impact marriage. I’m sure you both can do it. I really enjoy your content and I’m praying for both of you. God bless you and your family 😊❤

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Appreciate the comment❤️🙏

    • @mollygraves5558
      @mollygraves5558 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      how kind and loving of you - thank you for praying for them. We should pray for all married couples because satan hates marriage and is always prowling trying to find ways to strike and break down the relationship.

  • @meggie945
    @meggie945 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    I found happiness and fulfillment after deconstructing at 13 (turning 40 tomorrow) I am happier and less depressed an atheist

  • @seekingtruthandcompassion1707
    @seekingtruthandcompassion1707 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I do really love how relatable you guys are ! Morgan you dont make pregnancy and motherhood out to be easy and i feel a lot of christian couples do ! Its so refreshing 😌 ❤and paul being a provider is hard and being a dad and husband thankyou for being honest and open 😊

  • @Homewithlinds
    @Homewithlinds 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I’m totally here for the unfiltered Morgan 😂😂😂

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😁❤️

    • @amber9842
      @amber9842 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yesss, Morgan is so funny

  • @lonnajoy
    @lonnajoy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I taught school for four years was a nanny and a waitress, but there was never anything that I did that was as challenging and rewarding as being a parenting.

  • @starbursttwister4994
    @starbursttwister4994 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    I really appreciated the person who asked “why do you believe in God?”. To be honest, I felt that Morgan’s answer was typical of a lot of Christians who base their faith on their experiences. I don’t think anything Morgan said was wrong, but I would respectfully suggest that it was a superficial or shallow answer (and one often given by people of faiths other than Christianity to support their own religion). There is so much meat to the Christian faith as several other people alluded to. It is backed by science, philosophy, history, archeology, and logic. In fact, the God of the Bible is actually the originator of the aforementioned areas of study and the originator of objective, absolute morality (someone else pointed this out). If anyone is at all interested in examining these claims for themselves I would recommend reading the book Mere Christianity by C. S. Lewis. It had greatly helped me to wade through and answer the many questions I have also had about Christianity, including this exact same question “why do you believe in God?”

    • @starbursttwister4994
      @starbursttwister4994 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Love this channel btw! Thanks for all the hard work y’all do!
      Also, I would’ve been really interested to hear what the unbeliever who posted in the live chat had to say about pain in the death of a loved one and how they deal with it, because as a Christian I too have wondered how unbelievers handle this.

    • @YoungSavedAfricanz
      @YoungSavedAfricanz 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I have a copy of Mere Christianity and it was my first book purchase in my life. I only read it once and forgot most of what I read ,so I'd really like to go back and put a lil bit more intentionality in reading so that I can get the meat out of it
      Thanks for this post

    • @ohuntermc9321
      @ohuntermc9321 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      The philosophical argument just takes you down a rabbit hole, and I don't think its the most efficient method to answering the question. In terms of scientific, archaeological, and logic, I don't see how you think any of them back up the Christian ideology, it actually seems to do the opposite.
      "In fact, the God of the Bible is actually the originator of the aforementioned areas of study and the originator of objective, absolute morality (someone else pointed this out)." Even if this was the case, and I have my doubts about Yahweh being the "originator" of absolute morality (There were many different gods in that period who likely had similar codes), that doesn't give credence to the god of the Judaeo-Christian ideology having any grounds in actual reality. Even if has shaped our society today, it doesn't equate to being supernatural.

    • @annieonpaper
      @annieonpaper 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      theres is absolutely no concrete, scientific proof of god and c.w lewis is nowhere near a scientist nor did he prove anything

    • @annieonpaper
      @annieonpaper 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@starbursttwister4994when someone dies we face the reality that they are gone instead of pretending to have an invisible friend like a child...

  • @williamehlers5158
    @williamehlers5158 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I don’t think anyone said anything bad/wrong. I think it was pretty relatable. Y’all are feeling what a lot of us are all feeling, regardless of religion, or social class. I think you were just expressing your real feelings.

  • @kyairamarbury
    @kyairamarbury 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Raising kids can be tough but because it’s so rewarding I rarely find myself viewing it that way. I had 2 miscarriages before I had my beautiful son and precious daughter so my perspective on getting to be a mom is different. I’m beyond grateful even on the more hectic days. I must say though my babies have been extremely easy going. They both slept good through the night and now as toddlers (2 & 3) they get along so well they literally can play in their play room for hours if I need a break so there’s a huge caveat! Praying you guys get a routine that works best for yall 💛 sometimes it just takes more time to get adjusted to parenthood.

  • @raynewolfenstein
    @raynewolfenstein 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I agree with you both in very little, but I’m drawn to your content because I truly feel like you are maybe the only ACTUALLY real Christians who post. Seeing your issues honestly encourages me, like even at the start of this video. I have a baby and it’s so hard to always get along or see eye to eye with my husband. We both are doing our best, but that doesn’t mean we both feel seen by the other. I just really appreciate you being actually honest, and not painting a perfect picture. I get turned off by a lot of other Christian influencers because even their “being real” moments feels extremely curated and luxurious. I understand having wealth and whatnot, but I find it a bit tiresome when often their "being real" is like, 2 hairs out place and a scripted sounding conversation with their husband and looking like they are always madly in love. I trust you two more than all of those channels. I know marriage is hard. Thank you for being real, for real.

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Means a lot❤️❤️

  • @faithfulwhispersASMR3
    @faithfulwhispersASMR3 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So funny because when y'all asked about favorite movies watched this year, mine was Hands Down Wonka!!!! I loved every bit of that movie, it's actually now one of my favorites, I think they did a wonderful job! Way better then Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, Just goes to show how different we all are 😅 love u guys!💞

  • @ColleenBlevins-gr6pm
    @ColleenBlevins-gr6pm 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    There's many people in this comment section that are coming down hard on Morgan. I truly cannot imagine how much I'd struggle if i was pregnant with my 2nd child that happens to be very close in age with my first child. On top of that, she openly has discussed her battle with mental health. Please ya'll, give a sister a break...ALL married couples can get on each others nerves lol!! All of you must be perfect, happy with no trials or tribulations. Paul and Morgan, ya'll are absolutely fantastic and do not let the negativity dull your light or question your mission. This appears to be a trying season for you both but we all know that our Heavenly Father will direct your steps.

  • @mariavictoriadeleon6881
    @mariavictoriadeleon6881 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Idk how much you guys will agree with me on this, I don't tend to demonize everything or give more power to the enemy than he has, but I do believe that in ministry spiritual attacks happen. And if this keeps happening when you're going live, you might just consider that it may be that. The enemy sometimes does stuff like this, give us an emotional trap or something to unfocus us. And you guys are doing ministry, you dare to talk about topics that others don't and give a godly perspective. The enemy doesn't want that and will attack us. Please don't misunderstand, I'm not saying that you're giving the enemy this power, but like peter (from the Bible) says: "be alert". 1 peter 5:8-9. Keep putting on that armor, guys. You're doing great.

  • @amberkennett7544
    @amberkennett7544 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I recommend the book “The Deconstruction of Christianity’ by Alisa Childers and Tim Barnett. You may change your mind on how and when you use the word deconstruction.

  • @1okimurasan
    @1okimurasan 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I watched up until you told Emal he should basically pray the gay away. Seriously?!

  • @victoriahenry8501
    @victoriahenry8501 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Pleeeaaassee get Jackie Hill Perry for 24 HOURS WITH 🙏🙏

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😁🙏

    • @sydneyrios753
      @sydneyrios753 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This would be awesome!! Love JHP

    • @noahduncan4095
      @noahduncan4095 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      3rd this!

  • @aliceevans2180
    @aliceevans2180 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Also Jinger would be a great 24 hours guest, as what "detangling" looks like without forsaking one's faith! ❤

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      She’s on our list!

    • @aliceevans2180
      @aliceevans2180 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wonderful! That will be such a powerful conversation, and hopefully be an example to people for how to "disentangle" without losing one's faith or going unbiblical.

  • @lindsayedgin4672
    @lindsayedgin4672 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just love y’all so much! Paul tell Morgan I said that since she doesn’t read the comments 😂

  • @brittanyhoward9186
    @brittanyhoward9186 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would like to speak to Emal’s question.
    Just to add to Paul and Morgan’s response. Yes, spiritual discipline is absolutely necessary and it can be beneficial to talk to those who have been through similar struggles. I will say also that in cases where you’re doing all you can do and you feel bound, seeking deliverance and talking to someone Biblically sound such as Isaiah Saldivar may very well be exactly what you need.
    I read a quote that says “You can’t cast out the flesh and you can’t crucify a demon.” Sometimes when you are doing all you can to crucify the flesh, it could very well be deliverance that you need.

  • @metanoia1990
    @metanoia1990 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Yall spoke about whether atheists could experience joy/ peace but what about people in other faiths ?

  • @shannone1471
    @shannone1471 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    P & M its ok, life is hard. Tough times come and go. Parenting/marriage etc is a part of the sanctification process. It isn't easy, but it will bring forth fruit for God's glory. Pray together when it gets hard. Praying for you! 🙏🙏

  • @alissakain9302
    @alissakain9302 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I’m confused as to why people are persecuting Morgan. If you think this is bad, y’all should hear me vent when I’m frustrated and not feeling good😅 Seriously though, I’ll just start monologuing and go on and on and on haha. I have to externalize what I’m going through just to be able to make sense of it all.
    I’m shocked people think this is anywhere close to “negative”. In my opinion, she’s doing absolutely fantastic all things considered☺️

    • @andraste6746
      @andraste6746 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do you do that publicly on a social media platform though?

    • @alissakain9302
      @alissakain9302 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@andraste6746 I don’t, but I totally would😅 It’s their platform and they’re just being real about their lives, and personally, I think it shows strength and integrity😊 We have the privilege of free speech and we should make the most of it🤍

  • @litgirlablaze3432
    @litgirlablaze3432 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Glad to hear that you are having a calmer/more enjoyable pregnancy this time! The haircut looks pretty too. Very healthy !

  • @carolinecaylee
    @carolinecaylee 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Just wanted to say you’re both amazing & doing a great job ❤️ social media can be ROUGH these days. It takes bold character to stand firm 🙏🏼 thought this bible verse is very fitting…
    “My dear friends, stand firm and don't be shaken. Always keep busy working for the Lord. You know that everything you do for him is worthwhile.”1 Corinthians 15:58

  • @josephbenzjr.2849
    @josephbenzjr.2849 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Would love to see 24 hours with Allen Parr.

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He’s on the list😊

  • @mrsjaydie
    @mrsjaydie 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Parenting helps you die to self. So, yeah... enough said. 😂

  • @susanzumback7711
    @susanzumback7711 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Watching anyone deconstruct is the parable of the dower from mark 4 playing out,may we all recieve the grace to be the good soil.

  • @angeler105
    @angeler105 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    In that moment, like 2 minutes in, I know that feeling. As a Christian, just stop and pray. Ask God for grace and to change your hearts. Your viewers will not mind

  • @coral5429
    @coral5429 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I know a lot of ppl with no faith that live super happy fulfilled lives and are at peace with there being no eternity. I think there is a way to achieve this without God, but faith sometimes is the only way for some people.

  • @lucymusakali8945
    @lucymusakali8945 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for all you do P & M. God bless you so much❤️

  • @tinymouse2876
    @tinymouse2876 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    How about you deconstruct into better people and stop being so hateful to others.

  • @fifiesforte
    @fifiesforte 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Gosh... Morgan i think you need a break.
    You seemed frustrated.... very, very.
    It must be overwhelming juggling being pregnant and having a toddler .
    Paul I'm only few minutes into the video and you're handling Morgan's frustration quite well.
    I love you guys so much and parenting and working isn't easy.
    I pray for strength and divine provision in Jesus name.

  • @kristinmac4559
    @kristinmac4559 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Good explanation of the hope we have as believers in Christianity that transcends this life on earth.

  • @KytiaLamour
    @KytiaLamour 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Love you guys and praying for you. It takes a lot of faith to commit to living a life working directly for God. So many Christians refuse to do that and it’s why people think it’s weird to have a day to day dependence on Him.
    Not all missionary work is overseas in a village somewhere. Sometimes it’s sitting in front of a camera sharing the truth of the gospel with the world online. People want to put worldly standards on Christians as if you need to answer to other people or follow a certain life path. Keep being obedient to Christ because it’s the souls that you’re reaching at the end of the day that matter. God has you in more ways than you can imagine. Keep up the great work. 💛

  • @trinalynnb
    @trinalynnb 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As a former evangelical, I can confidently say that the ones who don’t fake being slain in the spirit are the ones still standing lol

  • @Homewithlinds
    @Homewithlinds 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You guys seem like you are growing and learning a lot right now😊 it’s totally a learning process.

  • @brittaneyvargas
    @brittaneyvargas 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ve never been slain in the spirit but have witnessed close friends

  • @rosezimmerman3821
    @rosezimmerman3821 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I want to like Morgan. I feel like she is suppressing some emotions, anger and frustration being 2. I'm picturing Paul walking on eggshells around her. I've been following them for years and Morgan seems to be more miserable each episode than the one before. She used to be fun, upbeat, and perky. Now it's just sighing and moaning and honestly, I don't enjoy when she's on. Her persona is one of "Why do I have to be on here?" She doesn't look like she is enjoying herself and I don't like watching someone who comes across as miserable. A chat with a medical doctor or psychiatrist would be good. I think, Morgan, you would feel 10 times better if you were on an antidepressant or mood stabilizer. I believe at one point years ago you were on an antidepressant and/or antianxiety medication or mood stabilizer, but stopped taking it due to the Holy Spirit providing wellness there. Meds can be amazing! 🙌🏼
    If you need to take a break from TH-cam, that's okay! Even 2 weeks or a month and reevaluate if you want to continue this as a career path or not.

    • @rosezimmerman3821
      @rosezimmerman3821 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      th-cam.com/video/UDC8okRNAH8/w-d-xo.htmlsi=32BUEX48RR9eX_P3

    • @rosezimmerman3821
      @rosezimmerman3821 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is a really good early video from them!

  • @rue751
    @rue751 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I like your haircut Morgan ❤

  • @HeyGal4041
    @HeyGal4041 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I appreciate the real and raw. It’s real life. ❤️

  • @brittanyhoward9186
    @brittanyhoward9186 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Please do a 24 hours with episode with Mike Winger and also Naela Rose!

  • @sasscass22
    @sasscass22 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Musical lover here so I have to say Journey to Bethlehem was my fave movie in the past movie.

  • @elizabethnoble7832
    @elizabethnoble7832 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I once asked a very wise & Christian man if my dog 🐶 would go to Heaven & I have loved this answer for myself ever since. Can we say dogs will go to Heaven? No, not for sure anymore than plants 🪴 that die. However, would the God that we know who desires life and loves His creation bring them back on the New Earth? I can’t see why He wouldn’t. So not 100% because I’m not God, but I think that’s beautiful. 🥹

    • @ArabellaPenrose
      @ArabellaPenrose 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I hope and pray my little pup is with us enjoying the new heaven. Why make a new one when he is already so perfect ❤

  • @paintpuddleart
    @paintpuddleart 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Morgan is so done. She needs to hibernate. 😂

    • @kristinmac4559
      @kristinmac4559 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Maybe so! Bless her Mama heart 💗 Most moms need that season before new baby

    • @playfulpuffinstudio
      @playfulpuffinstudio 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@kristinmac4559 💯 agree!!!

  • @katelynsprenkle3919
    @katelynsprenkle3919 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Married mom of 2 under 2 here! You guys are NORMAL. There will always be stuff like this on this side of glory. You guys are doing a great job with your ministry. Arguments are part of a normal marriage. Yes, even a Christian one. Praying for y’all 💜💜

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ❤️❤️🙏

  • @miguelzayas8797
    @miguelzayas8797 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I rarely comment but.. I recommend a pastor named Greg Violi, God has used him greatly in our marriage.

  • @aliceevans2180
    @aliceevans2180 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Are you going to B Haney? 🤔 I didn't see her in the past as necessarily a "Christian content creator", but some of the comments you've made makes me wonder.. especially with the videos she's made about you , I could see why you'd block her and she'd call you out on your views. You also indicated you might talk to someone a tad more progressive, but not sure how far you mean by that.
    I guess I'll have to see😅

  • @VanessaQuintanilla-m3b
    @VanessaQuintanilla-m3b 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for not slurping on the can Paul! Haha less cringe
    Also, I hope yall pray for answers, many times the Lord shows us that we must pivot to see changes. Hope to hear your testimonies of yalls continual sanctification.

  • @brittanyrosales6151
    @brittanyrosales6151 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love y’all !! I’m only into almost year 3 of our marriage and we still bicker some times

  • @smilestylez2488
    @smilestylez2488 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is the beginning a preview of 24 hours with Paul & Morgan themselves?... 😁😁

  • @brittaneyvargas
    @brittaneyvargas 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love you guys

  • @JohnTorres1987
    @JohnTorres1987 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s not hard having kids. Try talking your girlfriend into having third consecutive abortion. You’re just inconvenienced.

  • @kimbers1238
    @kimbers1238 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    U can change who u r.

  • @joshweatherly8715
    @joshweatherly8715 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow NO WAY.. i have friends in TX with 2 boys Luka and Judah (shoutout Richardsons) and my nephews are Luke and Jude. Pretty wild

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Woah! Thats WILD!

  • @redeemernegativ
    @redeemernegativ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yall the LIB finale is finna come on.

  • @aaricalovezaragosa
    @aaricalovezaragosa 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Guest request

  • @scepafall5117
    @scepafall5117 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Godzilla -1 blew me away

  • @betsiecrother1443
    @betsiecrother1443 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    guys I think a lot of what you experience before your YT lives is spiritual warfare.. i will pray the Lord gives you stregth and wisdom. Also you shouldnt feel pressure to schedule a live right after an "event". . . I know you want to keep to the schedule but we will understand if you have to put it off for a bit. It's ok to be raw and real in a video but I will just challenge you a little bit on allowing too much negativity to come through the video as you are an example to others. I'll be honest the beginning of this video made me not so much want to watch the rest of the video,,, , , and I usually don't feel that way watching your vids. Just being honest as I know you value our feedback. Praying for you guys!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Appreciate the honest comment🙏

  • @shelbiecarson2843
    @shelbiecarson2843 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    My second birth was way smoother - your body just knows what to do! It’s really cool. Praying for a better second experience for you Morgan! ❤

  • @jodiepope0303
    @jodiepope0303 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My one sentence is, ive tasted and ive seen the goodness of the Lord 😊

  • @countrylass5637
    @countrylass5637 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Morgan I feel you with the pee, I have kidney stones and its the same ...... desperately need to go but the tiniest amount appears. Repeated multiple times an hour.

  • @hiscanvasofgrace3391
    @hiscanvasofgrace3391 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I think you guys handled the unexpected curveball thrown at you with Dav being in the interview instead of Kristen for Girl Defined, super well. You were gracious and open and didn't take advantage as you very well could have- so many take advantage of you guys and Girl Defined in their videos.
    It really is sad to me that Bethany thought she was marrying a man who lead her and her children towards Christ- and has now been surprised by a wandering from Christ 😢 praying for them.

  • @elizabethnoble7832
    @elizabethnoble7832 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m a Christian because God chose me when I was a child to be a believer in the midst of a difficult environment. I have struggled with His choosing me as an adult, which occasionally makes me envious of adult converts because I think they’ve been able to wrestle with God & see His light “fresh” from an adult perspective. I’ve struggled with my faith these last few years especially, but for some reason God has not let me go & I have hope that I am going through something that will strengthen my faith.
    One thought that always makes me think of God is the infinity of space itself. How?? From a worldly perspective how?? Infinity of time and space? The world can’t answer a beginning there or an end and my mind gets blown 🤯

  • @bjenks2766
    @bjenks2766 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You should do a 24 hours with Marcus Rogers!!!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He might be on our list😊😊

    • @bjenks2766
      @bjenks2766 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@PaulandMorgan yay! You guys are awesome! 😎

  • @elizabethnoble7832
    @elizabethnoble7832 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think people can feel fulfilled & happy & even hopeful without being a Christian, but that isn’t a saving faith bottom line. That being said I have been that person at the funeral crying so hard because I will never see that person who died ever again. I need 2 hands now to count how many people I’ve lost these last 3 years & only a couple of them were Christians. ❤

  • @amber9842
    @amber9842 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Morgan your shirt is cute, where’d you get it?

  • @karenmazzu
    @karenmazzu 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why do i believe in God?
    He revealed Himself to me and answers prayer, and the way things are in the world only makes sense because of God (the sky, the trees, gravity, etc.)

  • @laurenholdeman5715
    @laurenholdeman5715 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Good convo as always guys!

  • @isabellamccarthy-womeldorf2844
    @isabellamccarthy-womeldorf2844 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You guys are gonna kill it becoming parents I’m not a parent myself. I’m not even married so I don’t even know if I should be saying any of this but I’ve watched my mom and my dad raise us and it’s not easy and I think what I wish my mom would would’ve said to us is that we’re not gonna be perfect All the time we’re gonna mess up we’re gonna screw up and screw up in our relationships each other but that’s why we have Jesus and God and that is why we don’t have to have that say all be all but he does and he has the final say so you should give your guys his self some grace on trust me you guys are gonna be great parents honestly I wish my parents were more serious about Jesus and the enemy so you guys just keep doing what you guys are doing. Ignore the haters about them.

  • @berviffy30
    @berviffy30 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Do all dogs go to heaven? Well God memtions how animals are going to be dolcil in heaven, why wouldn’t He allow dogs?

  • @aliceevans2180
    @aliceevans2180 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    As the person who asked you about the emotional toll of 24 hours with, I so appreciate your answer and the way you have handled the Dav situation. I know it must have been so hard seeing someone clearly forsaking Biblical faith and wanting to do your job and respond whilst also remembering this is such an emotionally difficult situation for Bethany, and wanting to be mindful of that. There's so many wrong ways you could have responded, but you didn't. Gives me so much hope for how you can sensitivity handle difficult conversations in 24 hours with!

    • @HazyPinkSky
      @HazyPinkSky 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree. I am not religious at all and have been VERY critical of Paul and Morgan but giving credit where it’s due, they were so impressive with how they facilitated, presented, and responded to this. I’m guessing we still don’t agree on a lot but I have so much respect for them and I unfairly made assumptions about their abilities to challenge themselves and hold up others. Good lesson for me to learn and I’m invested in them more as people now.

  • @LizS817
    @LizS817 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Yall know you're on the right path when the devil starts attacking. If something happens before a live every time? Yep that's a spiritual attack! ❤

  • @sambailie4773
    @sambailie4773 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Paul, did you just drink an energy drink? You seem busy in your body....sorry, 😔 hope thats not viewed as an insult....just wondering....my hubby can be like that with Skittles x

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Haha no. I get high energy some times😊

    • @kristinmac4559
      @kristinmac4559 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Also Paul has back problems so I think that may be why he shifts position alot

    • @sambailie4773
      @sambailie4773 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@PaulandMorgan my apologies...I hope I didn't offend. I love you guys. My hubby gets like that when he eats Skittles (candy).

    • @sambailie4773
      @sambailie4773 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@kristinmac4559 that's right, I forgot xxx

  • @charismagustafson9976
    @charismagustafson9976 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wait! Im confused on what Morgan's beliefs are on submission 😅
    The Word is very clear in multiple spots on this topic so I'm just assuming that that is her view 😆

  • @rodnajean9508
    @rodnajean9508 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What about Hannah?

  • @KabirSingh93327
    @KabirSingh93327 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why are you Paul and Morgan not into professional modeling? You are both extremely atractive. Why not to make it a profession?

  • @4elizabeth
    @4elizabeth 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hey yall. I was gonna suggest putting a cash app or an option for a one time donation somewhere. I’m surprised there isn’t an option anywhere for that 😆

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Appreciate the suggestion😊 We actually do have our Venmo link in description!

    • @4elizabeth
      @4elizabeth 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@PaulandMorgandang I’m blind. It’s why I need glasses 😅🤓 thx!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@4elizabeth bahaha thanks for looking out❤️

    • @HelloTygr
      @HelloTygr 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@PaulandMorganHeads up: Venmo is great for people in the USA, but the best link to share is PayPal because it’s international.

  • @sami5261
    @sami5261 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I think Paul is being so sweet here. Morgan is kind of rude to Paul and the viewers... 😅 But maybe it's her style and people like it 😊

    • @kristinmac4559
      @kristinmac4559 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I didn’t find her rude I think she’s pregnant, mothering a young child & just trying to let people in to what their life is really like. I appreciate that rather than her pasting on a smile or energy that isn’t authentic to all they are trying to juggle.