I have a beautiful 30 year vanilla marriage. Unfortunately, he is terminally ill. I will never date again. He was my soul mate. Some people never meet theirs. I feel blessed.
I’m so sorry for your husband’s illness. Sending you love and prayers for comfort and peace during this time. And so glad you’ve had each other for 30+ years. Far more beautiful than the poly lifestyle in my opinion. 🌺
What’s over consumption for you may not be for her. At this time in my life, 4 boyfriends and them all expecting sex, sounds like a nightmare lol but for someone else- it’s a dream come true. And that doesn’t make either of us better or worst than the other.
@@jalennelson6008 I know it’s almost as if we all have different ideas about what “overdoing it” means. Why do I like five guys cheeseburgers so much? My vegetarian friends are truly disgusted.
It’s a small scene sadly yes it has become like this the attractive confident people left. (You find them more among swingers who are very looks-oriented.)
@@DevilsDisciplesI hooked up with a gorgeous swinger once. Her husband Interviewed me prior 😂 but she was the only one I really met or know from the poly/swinger scene that was gorgeous, let alone attractive
I don’t care what people do in their lives but it always baffles me when polyamorous people talk like polyamory is the highest spiritual level. Monogamy requires a lot more spiritual maturity and effort, having a strong connection with 1 person and polyamory feels lazy in comparison.
What I noticed about people in these open relationship/polyamorous lifestyles is that most of them are trying to fill a void and also create a false sense of intimacy by having casual sex and most of them are extremely self conscious deep down inside and trying to cover it up by having the feeling of being "desired" but it's very fleeting and insubstantial. Bored humans is all it is but hey to each their own.
By the way she communicates, I feel like she could use some therapy. She probably was hurt deeply by her past marriage or had some trauma as a child, and that's why she can't talk deeper about more emotional topics.
Ah exactly. I’m watching and listening to her but it just seems false. Like she’s using it to block her true feelings. She wants everyone to think she’s happy but she’s not. Sad 😔
Im a 63 yr old woman (married 42 yrs) to the same man. Weve both been 💯 % faithful throughout our marriage even though weve been through terribly hard times. Its all about trust, commitment,and honoring yourself, your partner, and the marriage. While this woman seems happy, I believe this type of lifestyle is always a byproduct of trauma or lack of self love.
@@carmelaburrone5029 bit haughty and high and mighty, to say your understanding of other people is superior to their understanding of themselves. Not that you can’t judge others. Just that it’s better to admit that you are only an authority of yourself.
@@carmelaburrone5029 so you’re saying that you’re happy and she’s happy but youde be like her if you were traumatized and she’d be like you if she wasn’t? It’s like ….somewhat sympathetic conjecture,
Interesting comment… Arrogance and self importance are often seen as self confidence. There is a fine line between arrogance and confidence. Actually I don’t think she crossed it. Her laughter, which came often and sometimes inappropriately, is probably a cover for underlying issues, like lack of self esteem. It seems to me that her quest is for validation.
@@iridescentsquids no, that's not what I mean. I'd describe it more as overconfidence fueled by delusion and unhappiness. It reads as fake and arrogant, even though my gut says deep down there may be many self-esteem issues. Ultimately, it's an opinion based off of one video. Every last comment in this comment section could be wrong 🤷♀
@@tortellini6793 interesting. For the life of me I don’t get a whiff of arrogance. She’s a bit adamant at times but I don’t recall her being dismissive of others or expressing superiority.
@kayem9909 I disagree when you say "these types" because it is too broad, but this person specifically doesn't seem to be a well-rounded healthy adult despite her claims.
@kayem9909, I totally agree. Did you hear how many times she had to stress how "happy happy" she is? No way!! She is not happy. She's using this lifestyle as a crutch. She can fool some people, but not me.
I don't agree. I dont live this lifestyle but monogamy is just what's been pressured onto people our whole lives. You can be well-rounded and pursue a different type of relationship than most people. This woman seems full of herself, though, maybe because she's been sexually repressed, but also she just seems immature and talking about things she's not fully educated on.
I noticed a contradiction too like how she said she likes being watched instead of watching others or having her picture taken instead of taking someone else's picture. Then later she talks about how she likes helping people take pictures lol. She definitely seemed a little nervous too. Also I suspect something happened in her childhood since she said she liked being nude as a child.
@@AvirxI was looking for this comment about the pictures! I think she’s doing some form of lifestyle “cat fishing” and making it all up for attention 😭
Mark: 'What are the benefits of having 4 men in you life" Kimberly: "safety, Friendship"...... She meant to say Trips to mexico, vegas , sex islands and access to 4 different bank accounts
I met one person who used fetlife, didn’t meet her on fetlife, she was genuinely insane like actually. Def a warning to not go on fetlife 😹 I’m sure all the people on there think “I’m normal there’s just some weirdos here but not me” whole time it IS them
Do not care one iota about what consenting adults do. However as the husband of a therapist (we are in business together so we do discuss cases) I am aware of dozens of cases of couples inviting in a third or starting to swing and it always ends in heartbreak. One partner is always more in love than the other and most people are not built to watch someone bang their partner then continue on with normal life. Call it “vanilla” if you want but I would caution those who think this is a fun and consequence free thing to do. I’m sure there are cases where this works long term but I am yet to know of one.
You can definitely tell she is completely obsessed with herself, someone who knows nothing but thinks she has all the answers. And oddly, given how mild her story actually is, this is one of the few interviews where I can sense Mark is genuinely uncomfortable with her
And she often contradicted herself AND I caught in her a few lies....she was almost manic....just a bad mojo from her. She's trying to convince herself she's happy.
Wow, to refer to yourself as a "come dump" says quite a lot. Sexual freedom is lovely. But that comment tells a story to me. Zero self respect. Something has run amock.
No. You are wrong. %100 wrong. Your own insecurities prevent you from comprehending it. "Cum Dump" is not an insult to her. It's a label she chose to use because she likes it. Likes herself and is happy.
@InteractiveIdea The dark hedonistic forces are amidst my dear. Damage is being done. Degradation of oneself and one's body always comes with a price, in one way or another.
One gal at the bar would bring by her boyfriend's, all super nerdy gamer beta males. She thought she was a queen and the poor guys just felt lucky. Just felt predatory, she was obviously using them
I've been around kink (though not polyamory) all my life, but as soon as she said there were no downsides, I was checking out. A little later it was "I won't take your picture, will you take mine?" and "I dont like to watch, I want to be watched." Screams narcissist. Pass.
She also said she recently lost 100 pounds, so it probably boosts her ego to have people want to watch her have sex and be naked. For someone who had six kids and used to be very overweight it probably makes her feel good. I wouldn’t consider that a narcissist.
Open marriage/relationship/poly... it means that something is missing there, your partner doesn't fulfill all your needs, having multiple partners means that you don't really love any of them, but each of them fulfills a part of your needs. Asking for an open relationship basically means that "I'll stay with you until I find someone better". Having multiple sexual relationships can give a boost in the short term, but let's not forget what we are actually giving up, a relationship, is it really worth it?. Inevitably at some point someone will fall in love with someone and then how do you manage your open relationship? I'll tell you how, give up everything and you'll stay with the person you fell in love with.
Whether you have 1 child or 5 or 6, you love them all, right? You would never say I only have enough love for 1 child. Why do you think it’s different with life partners? Do you really think it’s only possible to love one partner?
No. You are so wrong. When you are in an open relationship, you are not replacing one lover with another. You love them all in their own unique ways as everyone is different.
Where do these people get the time and money to do all this "stuff?" Between work, taking care of our house, yard, garden, pets, etc., I barely have time to breathe, much less travel around the world finding "parties" and new/multiple boyfriends - plus the expense of travel, hotels, party admission fees...$$$
i guess it just depends on what your focuses are. she probably doesn’t have pets or a garden. its sort of like how junkies manage to always have money for drugs. if you want it badly enough, you’ll find a way to get it. i do agree though it seems like it would take a lot of energy/social battery to live this lifestyle. power to her if she enjoys this and can maintain it. i’m happy with my pets and crafts!
@@laureldevine Too many people feel like they have no time…but just are very poor time managers. Assuming you want to find time for sex and vacations I assure you it’s possible. Of course if your garden is more important that’s cool.
I really and truly don't care what this woman does sexually but why TF do people like her always try to sound so wise and knowledgeable about EVERYFUCKINGTHING?
Seriously no idea what you’re talking about. My two cents: 99% of the comments around here are folks claiming to understand her better than she does herself.
That's just how you perceive it... because she says she is happy. Considering how many people are unhappy... that puts people like her and like me in the category of people who know the meaning of life.
Marriage is between a man and a woman, not eight people. Unfortunately she suffered broken trust in her marriage leading to this manic lifestyle. Her body folds when she reveals that fact. She is trying to fill a void that is not fillable in this way. I wish her the best.
I could be wrong but I think her experiences with betrayal and seeing it as a kid with her family really destroyed her before that loyalty exists. It’s almost as if she has adapted the “might as well” mind set to protect herself.
I think she is deeply hurt by her cheating ex, so this is her destructive way of feeling in control. She thinks she can't be betrayed in this lifestyle.
Agree, it is so very evident, she repeats this a number of times throughout the interview. It’s sad and frightening that so many people fall to self pity and despair. Not even realizing this is what they are doing, and think the opposite, that they are “liberating” themselves. I just can’t comprehend what makes humans choose to be so weak.
The comments here suck. If you are put off by her lifestyle, that’s fine… but why go after her looks in the comments? Have you never seen a single video on this channel? The point of the channel is to allow us into the lives of people whom most of us will never encounter on a personal level. On this channel, that encompasses sex workers, drug addicts, abuse survivors, and everything in between. It’s not a channel showcasing supermodels. Also, I’d love to see pictures of the people commenting about her looks. I’m sure you’re all in the top 10% of attractiveness. 😂🙄🙄
I had a casual relationship with a woman who was into this lifestyle, and lemme tell you, diseases like chlamydia, UTI’s, BV, all that “curable” stuff, as she calls it, runs like wildfire through these folks. I’m not judging, or trolling this lady. But notice how she deftly skirts around the topic. She vaguely mentions something about condoms, and then goes in to talk about various pharmaceuticals as being “protection “, etc. just saying. You’ll never see a condom at one of these house parties, that’s for sure.
I don’t think you can generalise. I always think about that movie “Out of Africa”. A faithful wife contracted syphilis from an unfaithful husband. It happens. It’s probably fair to say that promiscuous people are careful about using protection, especially women who don’t want to fall pregnant. When you’re in a stable monogamous relationship you never even think of protection.
@@bevturner2258 Not for nothing, but you do realize that you yourself are now making a generalization about “promiscuous people “, right? Well, take it from the horses mouth. I was the epitome of a Chicago f*ckboy at one point. About ten years ago, I had a string of about ten girls going, one -nighters notwithstanding. These were mostly professional, educated women in their 30’s and 40’s. Bankers, attorneys, professors, real estate agents, etc. all attractive , all made more $ than me, etc. and believe me when I tell you that condoms were never in the picture, and I mean NEVER. Sure, one or two may have mumbled or whimpered something at first, like “we should really use protection “ as their eyes went wide in fear and anticipation at the sight of my erect horsecock. Seriously though… it took maybe five seconds to “convince “ them otherwise. I mean seriously .. forget condoms. My thing is I would cum inside everyone, and I mean everyone. Like on the first “date” ( if you would even call it dating. That shit is for simps and beta -cucks) . Just like with the condoms, they might feign protest at first, especially the younger ones. But it was purely histrionics. I always filled them to the brim. Bottom line is if you’re tall, handsome, with a big dick ( they look all the time. Women are worse than men when it comes to that shit. They’re just more discreet about it) and have a trim , muscular body, then you basically get to do whatever you want, when you want. Believe me, or don’t believe me. Again, just a man whore here, telling it like it is.
raised catholic, that explains a LOT. ...."my daughter's are hippies and they don't wear deodorant, it's less grooming" for the love of living in a society, please wear deodorant. if you don't want to wear clothes, don't want to shave etc., want to sleep around with everyone, fine. but please do not subject other people to your nasty BO in public spaces.
Not trying to be mean or anything, I just feel like this lady is kind of overdoing it, almost trying to convince herself that all is GREAT & WONDERFUL. maybe it’s because she’s fairly new to this life. Either way, I wish nothing but the very best for her!❤️
Its called personality disorder. Its such an inward selfishness that holds no space for 'other' - you feel disconnected, detached and eventually hollow if trying to get anywhere near (inwardly) to people like this. ALL her relationships are surface for sure - thats how she holds space with them. You can not even get close to her (from a vulnerable and real emotional level)
@@easternzone7869 that too, but I'm amazed she can find any guys to have sex with, she's so old and looks worn out, who on Earth wants to be guy number 529?
@@easternzone7869 As a woman, I do not agree with you. We are free to not shave, and deodorants are for people who do not wash themselves regularly. I don't use it either 'cause I don't stink, and natural body odour from a clean body is top tier . Shaving is a choice, ya know. We're not born to please men and their sexual tastes.
@@easternzone7869Wrong, I know extremely well educated young women who do not shave. This is a newer cultural behavior. Nothing to do with "caliber". However I would say the behavior of their mother is pathological. You will never convince me she does not have deep mental health concerns.
I dunno… I can’t imagine hearing your mom describe herself as a “cumdump” makes a kid feel great, even if they happen to be adults now. Call me old fashioned, but your offspring do not need to know all this stuff at any stage in their life. She’s only been involved in this lifestyle a couple years. Ive been around poly people a long time and no matter how people try and dress it up, there is a lot of harmful elements that get swept under the rug. It attracts a lot of abusive, predatory, messed-up people, and generates a lot of hurt. It’s nice she’s happy, but she’s probably gonna learn a few hard lessons eventually
@@dagmarramgad5441 I know a lot of monogamous married people…and I hate to say it but over half of marriages end in divorce for a reason. For some reason marriage attracts tons of people who end up needing extensive therapy, who can’t manage a relationship while raising kids, different libidos and even abuse and controlling spouses. I’m kidding but not because it isn’t true.
What irritates me about poly people is how they think they are so enlightened when their “partners” are just friends with benefits that the change whenever they’re bored. All they talk about is “fun” because that’s all it is.
Sex has different meanings for different people…a means to an end…a physical expression….in various forms as she’s describing…I have never been inclined to that way of living as I am in a very loving relationship with one partner but it seems like it’s more of a play in the sandbox kind of thing as opposed to a mature relationship…variety is the spice of life…I like my one spice …we have changed and grown over the years to be a wonderful blend…but to each is own…thank you for your insight into the human experience…I love your channel❤
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Shes kinda counteracting everything shes said. The pictures of herself to pics of other women, wanting to play with more people then going to she only wants to play with her partners but explore more. Did anyone else realize that?
She seems like she was heart broken, went through this weird phase, met this guy she keeps talking about during the phase, fell in love w him (she keeps saying she’d marry him) but she is so deep and lost in convincing herself she wants the same poly life that HE wants and so she just chokes through it 😭
21:30 I think that is a wonderful point that she just made that you have to have dreams, goals, desires, and wishes. We get so much caught up in this idea that we have to be serving others that we don’t think about things that we really want or we think it’s selfish, but that is really giving so much to the people around us. If we can just have these goals that weretrying to get to then that gives other people some purpose that they get to help us reach those goals and dreams and desires. It’s really a key point in finding happiness in living.
The one thing I noticed is that she laughs often, sometimes inappropriately. My sense is that laughter is a cover for underlying issues. I didn’t see a dark side, I saw a woman looking for validation… It’s early days in her poly experience. Time will tell if this lifestyle gives her what she’s seeking.
This isn’t something that I would want to do…but, whatever floats her boat. It doesn’t affect my life. 👍😊 Thank you for sharing this video with us. 👍🇨🇦😊
It's a shame polyamory intersects so closely with degeneracy because I do think poly relationships are valid and can work, but from both my own personal experience and from what I've observed, nobody in the polycules seem to be honest, communicative, and probably aren't mentally healthy/aware enough to do so. How hard is being monogamous? Fucking hard. How hard is it to be polygamous? Multiply the original difficulty times however many partners you have, and dont forget to add your partner's partners. Polyamory is valid, but it should NOT be used as an easy out, a way to make relationships easier, an easy access to a bank account, etc
Funny how she keeps trying to convince everyone how great it is and how happy she is, but after every corny thing she says is some nervous laughter if you like it, I love it. I guess people like this are just so corny and they need something to believe in so hard I mean it odd thing to call yourself a bucket, talk about how you take all these pills. People are just coming all inside of you and that’s what you’re proud of. I don’t know. Sounds kind of nasty to me but whatever that thing try to promote it. Everyone should do it. It’s kind of gross.
I know someone who was in a regular relationship and eventually decided they were poly (my theory is that a traumatic event led to a gap in needs and wants). Ruined the relationship. Now she's in a relationship with two people, but one of them seems to me like they're too 'needy' to actually be okay with it. But oh well, as long as everyone's okay with everything, do your thing.
At 18:50, when she said, "I want to explore more...... not with PEOPLE so much......" my heart about stopped. Glad she clarified that. I was waiting for the awfulness to get worse.
The people in these lifestyles always seem extremely wealthy. Like who on earth in this current economy has the time and money to just travel the world going to sex clubs and going on several dates? Like bitch even I wanted to I have to work constantly… she must be a sugar baby to these men
I’m so surprised at the comments on this one! I know many polyamorous people the main point she is putting across is that she’s safe she loves what she does and there is consent, trust and communication. The old way of living is dying the world is waking up. Own who you are however that looks. Not everyone lives in the status quo because what even is that anymore the world has always been crazy and even if things were “normal” back in the day it was all a lie, people don’t realise there is hypocrisy in every ideology so what’s wrong with this woman sharing her story, she is allowed to live her life the way she wants to. I found this video very informative thanks mark for giving her a platform.
Totally agree. If not harming others and with consent who are we to judge. The communication between fet people are what great relationships are made of.
I agree with you. Who cares what she does if there’s consent and no one is getting hurt. Just because a lifestyle isn’t what I would do doesn’t mean it’s not for others. People need to mind their own business.
Her lifestyle doesn't interest me but she is doing her thing. I hope her heart doesn't get broken by Cliff. She seems kind of fragile. The horrible comments from people about her looks astonishes me. Based on those comments I guess only those deemed beautiful are allowed to have sex or desires.
I dunno but I find “boring” sex to be the best because it’s with the one woman I am deeply in love with. It’s immensely satisfying to a degree it is even overwhelming.
So her six kids and their friends & family - no harm done? Your mom puts out this video on a channel with 6 million subscribers with her on the thumbnail - you'd just shrug and go, "no harm done." Mom runs around the house naked, anyways. Cool, I'm sure the kids get to have normal friendships, have their friends over. "No harm done"
I have a beautiful 30 year vanilla marriage. Unfortunately, he is terminally ill. I will never date again. He was my soul mate. Some people never meet theirs. I feel blessed.
And you truly are! I'm so sorry for your husband. Yeah most people never get to meet their soulmate. Keep strong and best of luck ❤
@@Prizzy999 🤗🥰🤗
Cheers to Vanilla! You are both very blessed to have each other ❤
@@stephaniwagner637 🥰🥰🥰🥰
I’m so sorry for your husband’s illness. Sending you love and prayers for comfort and peace during this time. And so glad you’ve had each other for 30+ years. Far more beautiful than the poly lifestyle in my opinion. 🌺
as a Chinese myself, that gigantic "mother" tattoo on her left arm is aesthetically funny
same
same
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The irony 😅😅
oooooo so sorry. you buy now!
Why do people overly consume themselves with sex? I'm a sexual being myself but there's more to life than this.
Some people have no interest in sex, wondering why you have any at all.
@iridescentsquids I get it, we're all different. My point is that we over do everything.
What’s over consumption for you may not be for her. At this time in my life, 4 boyfriends and them all expecting sex, sounds like a nightmare lol but for someone else- it’s a dream come true. And that doesn’t make either of us better or worst than the other.
@@jalennelson6008 I know it’s almost as if we all have different ideas about what “overdoing it” means. Why do I like five guys cheeseburgers so much? My vegetarian friends are truly disgusted.
@@iridescentsquids to be fair, your stomach size is naturally smaller than those 5 cheese burgers. However, no one is perfect.
Is it me, or do these poly people all have a look?😅
Dirty and unattractive😩
It’s a small scene sadly yes it has become like this the attractive confident people left. (You find them more among swingers who are very looks-oriented.)
Bro that’s nuts I was thinking the same shit
I kind of said the same thing. Almost every poly person I’ve met or know is…well…undesirable looking we will say 😂
@@DevilsDisciplesI hooked up with a gorgeous swinger once. Her husband Interviewed me prior 😂 but she was the only one I really met or know from the poly/swinger scene that was gorgeous, let alone attractive
12 minutes in :
how about STDs?
-I get flu shots.
Omg
Flu shots are super important. A karachi booster might be a option.
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😅😅😅😅😅 no sniffles!
I don’t care what people do in their lives but it always baffles me when polyamorous people talk like polyamory is the highest spiritual level. Monogamy requires a lot more spiritual maturity and effort, having a strong connection with 1 person and polyamory feels lazy in comparison.
they both require maturity and effort. depends all on the people as to how much effort. it's bold to assume either one or the other requires more.
I feel that some people just want different things. Some people want a mono and some poly. I don’t think that one is holier than the other though.
You're correct but most people don't / won't see it that way.
How is having orgies all the time a spiritual thing? Words have become meaningless these days
No way. It's a balancing act. I'd be stressed as F.
I understand pleasure and owning your own pleasure. Sex is overrated. You just want connection.
I agree.
very true, I think you can kind of get the same thing/ a similar intimacy by having a few really close platonic friends of any gender
I agree.
Im so glad you wore clothes for this😂
She said she was a milf..😂😂😂
I’m a milf obviously. Is getting written across my mirror TONIGHT because I need this kinda confidence in my life.
😂😂😂me too!
same. lol
She’s far from a milf!!! 😂🤣
@@jcamaro70-19
Not to your taste then? 😊
Insta?
What I noticed about people in these open relationship/polyamorous lifestyles is that most of them are trying to fill a void and also create a false sense of intimacy by having casual sex and most of them are extremely self conscious deep down inside and trying to cover it up by having the feeling of being "desired" but it's very fleeting and insubstantial. Bored humans is all it is but hey to each their own.
"self-conscious" = insecure.
Bwahaha!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Who doesn't have a hole they're filling with something? Guaranteed you do.
@@zosothezephead837 "self-conscious" = ugly
Your exactly right
It'd be interesting to follow up with her in five years.
I ask that of every newly married couple. Lol no I don’t I’m not mean
She is just horny
Horny and empty 😅😅
Yep in five years when her vagina walls caves in 😂
By the way she communicates, I feel like she could use some therapy. She probably was hurt deeply by her past marriage or had some trauma as a child, and that's why she can't talk deeper about more emotional topics.
What does your therapist say about how you communicate? Just curious if you relate to her and that’s what’s motivating you.
You can love more than one person, just because you cant
Most likely childhood trauma
Ah exactly. I’m watching and listening to her but it just seems false. Like she’s using it to block her true feelings. She wants everyone to think she’s happy but she’s not. Sad 😔
@@star2like261 what are her true feelings?
Im a 63 yr old woman (married 42 yrs) to the same man. Weve both been 💯 % faithful throughout our marriage even though weve been through terribly hard times. Its all about trust, commitment,and honoring yourself, your partner, and the marriage. While this woman seems happy, I believe this type of lifestyle is always a byproduct of trauma or lack of self love.
Good for you! It's not.
@@carmelaburrone5029 bit haughty and high and mighty, to say your understanding of other people is superior to their understanding of themselves. Not that you can’t judge others. Just that it’s better to admit that you are only an authority of yourself.
Vastly underrated comment.
@@carmelaburrone5029 so you’re saying that you’re happy and she’s happy but youde be like her if you were traumatized and she’d be like you if she wasn’t? It’s like ….somewhat sympathetic conjecture,
Can we get an interview with Clifford! Please ! I bet he’s even more interesting 😳
Clifford the big red dog ?
Mental health is needed
Happy that she found a lifestyle that feels right for her. She has a certain arrogance and self-importance about her that's very unattractive.
Interesting comment…
Arrogance and self importance are often seen as self confidence.
There is a fine line between arrogance and confidence.
Actually I don’t think she crossed it.
Her laughter, which came often and sometimes inappropriately, is probably a cover for underlying issues, like lack of self esteem. It seems to me that her quest is for validation.
@@tortellini6793 I think you mean she’s confident and not ashamed, and you expect her to be?
@@iridescentsquids no, that's not what I mean.
I'd describe it more as overconfidence fueled by delusion and unhappiness. It reads as fake and arrogant, even though my gut says deep down there may be many self-esteem issues.
Ultimately, it's an opinion based off of one video. Every last comment in this comment section could be wrong 🤷♀
@@tortellini6793 interesting. For the life of me I don’t get a whiff of arrogance. She’s a bit adamant at times but I don’t recall her being dismissive of others or expressing superiority.
What she has and does is not "lifestyle". It's a mental disorder.
"I am a milf...ObViOuSly"
hahahhahahahaha
That's might be her perspective but not to me
And not attractive at all. Her partners must be either desperate for sex or on the blue pill all the time...
She's not a MILF.
@peggygreeby5065 She's a MIF, leave out the L 😂😂
Well she's certainly not barely legal
The flu shot is definitely going to help with STD/STI’s good call.
She’s a smart one 😂 😅
No sniffles 😅
@@jessicajennifer9827 she wants to open a club! Get out the flu shots !
She stated she’s on PrEP & Valtrex
@@tammic2016So is she trying to prevent or she been exposed or has it
I don’t trust when people uses the word “happy” tooooo much
She's trying to convince herself about that.
Vicious audience. Vicious.
I love my vanilla marriage.
I am so relived to be in a so called "vanilla" partnership
Same
lame.
@@gingyberrie found the cuck
Boredom is just the result of not being mindfull .
You can play the same guitar for your whole life and the music will just get better with practice.
Something tells me she’s not as happy and fulfilled as she says she is.
Imagine being one of her kids seeing this. WTF
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I doubt she really cares.
@@mddell58she doesn’t and it’s sad.
Her kids are grown genius, she can do what she wants, funny how you even give a shit 😅
Yeah, hearing my mom say "I'm a cum dump" is not something I'd ever want to hear lol.
Well rounded, healthy adults do not seek these types of lifestyles.
@kayem9909 I disagree when you say "these types" because it is too broad, but this person specifically doesn't seem to be a well-rounded healthy adult despite her claims.
@kayem9909, I totally agree. Did you hear how many times she had to stress how "happy happy" she is? No way!! She is not happy. She's using this lifestyle as a crutch. She can fool some people, but not me.
@@starburstppl
Trying to convince herself!
Not true at all. 😂😂😂😂😂
I don't agree. I dont live this lifestyle but monogamy is just what's been pressured onto people our whole lives. You can be well-rounded and pursue a different type of relationship than most people. This woman seems full of herself, though, maybe because she's been sexually repressed, but also she just seems immature and talking about things she's not fully educated on.
Shes either exaggerating or extremely nervous to talk about it because she keeps saying contradictions
I noticed a contradiction too like how she said she likes being watched instead of watching others or having her picture taken instead of taking someone else's picture. Then later she talks about how she likes helping people take pictures lol. She definitely seemed a little nervous too. Also I suspect something happened in her childhood since she said she liked being nude as a child.
@@cortnistone00 oh no somebody said contradictions
@@AvirxI was looking for this comment about the pictures! I think she’s doing some form of lifestyle “cat fishing” and making it all up for attention 😭
Mark: 'What are the benefits of having 4 men in you life"
Kimberly: "safety, Friendship"...... She meant to say Trips to mexico, vegas , sex islands and access to 4 different bank accounts
Yeah like how does having 4 different boyfriends equate to safety. Safety of What?
Exactly.
@@wimsylogic65safety from her own mind, depression, and mental illness.
😂😂😂
Aaaand this is why I left Fetlife and never looked back. People there seem even more broken and hurt than American population in general.
thats shocking!
I met one person who used fetlife, didn’t meet her on fetlife, she was genuinely insane like actually. Def a warning to not go on fetlife 😹 I’m sure all the people on there think “I’m normal there’s just some weirdos here but not me” whole time it IS them
Maybe the attraction factor is a problem
Ditto
This was what I found in the local BDSM scene. Broken people. No thanks. I know that's not everyone, but it doesn't surprise me about FL now.
Lights are on - but no one is home
the electrical wires aren't making any contact LOL
Do not care one iota about what consenting adults do. However as the husband of a therapist (we are in business together so we do discuss cases) I am aware of dozens of cases of couples inviting in a third or starting to swing and it always ends in heartbreak. One partner is always more in love than the other and most people are not built to watch someone bang their partner then continue on with normal life. Call it “vanilla” if you want but I would caution those who think this is a fun and consequence free thing to do. I’m sure there are cases where this works long term but I am yet to know of one.
you won't know of the ones that work out because they won't be going to therapy
30 years in January we are all good❤ now you know one😊
@@eternal_nomadWell, that's not entirely true. People attend therapy to try to improve their marriage too not just as a last resort thing.
@@AnnaA-bw5gb there are always exceptions, I'm sure that situation is a lot less common than people who are having problems.
@@zsazsa8006 congratulations 🤍🙂
You can definitely tell she is completely obsessed with herself, someone who knows nothing but thinks she has all the answers. And oddly, given how mild her story actually is, this is one of the few interviews where I can sense Mark is genuinely uncomfortable with her
Lol exactly this. Giving out Peggy Hill vibez 😂
@@aba1012don’t do that to Peggy hill😭😭😭 Peggy was amazing
What show were you watching? Lol
What are you talking about??? Just because you are an uncomfortable (little square) doesn’t mean he is.
And she often contradicted herself AND I caught in her a few lies....she was almost manic....just a bad mojo from her.
She's trying to convince herself she's happy.
Wow, to refer to yourself as a "come dump" says quite a lot. Sexual freedom is lovely. But that comment tells a story to me. Zero self respect. Something has run amock.
No. You are wrong. %100 wrong. Your own insecurities prevent you from comprehending it. "Cum Dump" is not an insult to her. It's a label she chose to use because she likes it. Likes herself and is happy.
@InteractiveIdea Good luck with your mental state.
@@AllsWell77 My mental state? What about it?
@InteractiveIdea The dark hedonistic forces are amidst my dear. Damage is being done. Degradation of oneself and one's body always comes with a price, in one way or another.
@@InteractiveIdea If you felt so sure, you would certainly not ask me about your own mental state.
She's done DP. And darn it, she's proud of it!
What's DP
@@benchlaylaurent6518my question EXACTLY!!🤣🤣🤣 I guess I’m just a VANILLA !🤪🤣🤣🤣
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👉👌🏻👈 Get it now??
@@benchlaylaurent6518it rhymes with bubble perpetration
😂😂😂😂😂
I would never have this type of life but I found her to a delightful lady. I am happy for her.
I came here for the comments and they did not disappoint
I agree. There are a lot of judgmental people with hangups here.
Anybody else wanna see what her boyfriends look like?? 😂
Yes lol 😂
One gal at the bar would bring by her boyfriend's, all super nerdy gamer beta males. She thought she was a queen and the poor guys just felt lucky. Just felt predatory, she was obviously using them
Larry the Cableguy
Like her only male.
He’s most likely white and a 🐔🐔🐔🐔🐔🐔🐔🐔🐔😂😂😂😂😂 🐔
Temptation Island sounds infested 😂
😂
You're definitely going to leave that island and it's going to burn when you pee
I love how she didn't even seem to know what Temptation Island even was. No kids though, that's refreshing!
Everyone is tested genius, you are just stuck in a nowhere relationship 😅
@@MikeHunt90731 "Everyone is tested genius" isn't the genius comment you think it is. Go to bed honey, you have school tomorrow.
I've been around kink (though not polyamory) all my life, but as soon as she said there were no downsides, I was checking out. A little later it was "I won't take your picture, will you take mine?" and "I dont like to watch, I want to be watched." Screams narcissist. Pass.
Isn't that just a exhibitionist?
She also said she recently lost 100 pounds, so it probably boosts her ego to have people want to watch her have sex and be naked. For someone who had six kids and used to be very overweight it probably makes her feel good. I wouldn’t consider that a narcissist.
Voyeur and exhibitionist... it's a desire.
Later she contradicts herself when speaking about the photographer and says she’d rather be the one taking the photo
@@Golddustwoman207yes, I noticed that too!
Open marriage/relationship/poly... it means that something is missing there, your partner doesn't fulfill all your needs, having multiple partners means that you don't really love any of them, but each of them fulfills a part of your needs. Asking for an open relationship basically means that "I'll stay with you until I find someone better". Having multiple sexual relationships can give a boost in the short term, but let's not forget what we are actually giving up, a relationship, is it really worth it?. Inevitably at some point someone will fall in love with someone and then how do you manage your open relationship? I'll tell you how, give up everything and you'll stay with the person you fell in love with.
Whether you have 1 child or 5 or 6, you love them all, right?
You would never say I only have enough love for 1 child.
Why do you think it’s different with life partners?
Do you really think it’s only possible to love one partner?
@@bevturner2258That's well put. I used the same argument before as well.
No. You are so wrong. When you are in an open relationship, you are not replacing one lover with another. You love them all in their own unique ways as everyone is different.
@@InteractiveIdea
Exactly!
@bevturner2258 Normies just don't get it. The comment section is full of these clueless assumption filled posts. Its definitely not for everyone tho.
Where do these people get the time and money to do all this "stuff?" Between work, taking care of our house, yard, garden, pets, etc., I barely have time to breathe, much less travel around the world finding "parties" and new/multiple boyfriends - plus the expense of travel, hotels, party admission fees...$$$
That's why she has to convince herself that DP "and they're on video!" is cool and something to be proud of, b/c it pays for the lifestyle
i guess it just depends on what your focuses are. she probably doesn’t have pets or a garden. its sort of like how junkies manage to always have money for drugs. if you want it badly enough, you’ll find a way to get it. i do agree though it seems like it would take a lot of energy/social battery to live this lifestyle. power to her if she enjoys this and can maintain it. i’m happy with my pets and crafts!
@@laureldevine dumb comment. You make sound like nobody with a family has time for anything else. Yet most of us do.
@@camdecay Yeah, you're right, it just seems so foreign to me.
@@laureldevine Too many people feel like they have no time…but just are very poor time managers.
Assuming you want to find time for sex and vacations I assure you it’s possible. Of course if your garden is more important that’s cool.
I really and truly don't care what this woman does sexually but why TF do people like her always try to sound so wise and knowledgeable about EVERYFUCKINGTHING?
Seriously no idea what you’re talking about.
My two cents: 99% of the comments around here are folks claiming to understand her better than she does herself.
That's just how you perceive it... because she says she is happy. Considering how many people are unhappy... that puts people like her and like me in the category of people who know the meaning of life.
@@InteractiveIdeaLMAOOOO
@@alicefrmga what's the meaning of life? Lol 😁
@@InteractiveIdeaI wish I knew.😊
Kinda sad how degenerate our society has become
@@franksantos4422 amen
It's always been like this
Watch someone come crying in the replies about “cHoiCeS” and not judging. It only gets worse with that mindset
You mean in USA, a so called Christian Nation
it hasn't always been like this. It was MUCH MUCH WORSE for almost all of history.
We are all different...I appreciate all the diff walks of life that are shown here.
I feel the same way
These are more mental disorders actually...
Is so sad when you don’t know what Love is, specially Self Love
And self respect.
What are the benefits of having 4 men in your life?
SAFETY.
From what? Yourself?
Tribal instinct but obviously there is more going on with this lady you can guess her real motivations
there is safety in numbers. not everyone's support system looks the same and that's okay.
Diversify her portfolio
Wat they all defend u in the same situation??? Smh
@@ThursdayASMR ask a person in a miserable marriage to explain it to you lol
That enough interweb for today and it's only 7:35am
Same 😂
Who says “interweb” 😂😂😂
@@BoRhapQueen1 👁️👄👁️
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Ha! Yeah, this woman tires my ass out. Maybe it is her tone, not sure, but I have had enough of her a few minutes in.
Marriage is between a man and a woman, not eight people. Unfortunately she suffered broken trust in her marriage leading to this manic lifestyle. Her body folds when she reveals that fact. She is trying to fill a void that is not fillable in this way. I wish her the best.
So we should blame marriage and its 50% divorce rate?
So much insecurity in this world. So much hate and blame.
I could be wrong but I think her experiences with betrayal and seeing it as a kid with her family really destroyed her before that loyalty exists. It’s almost as if she has adapted the “might as well” mind set to protect herself.
I think she is deeply hurt by her cheating ex, so this is her destructive way of feeling in control. She thinks she can't be betrayed in this lifestyle.
Agree, it is so very evident, she repeats this a number of times throughout the interview.
It’s sad and frightening that so many people fall to self pity and despair. Not even realizing this is what they are doing, and think the opposite, that they are “liberating” themselves.
I just can’t comprehend what makes humans choose to be so weak.
The comments here suck. If you are put off by her lifestyle, that’s fine… but why go after her looks in the comments? Have you never seen a single video on this channel? The point of the channel is to allow us into the lives of people whom most of us will never encounter on a personal level. On this channel, that encompasses sex workers, drug addicts, abuse survivors, and everything in between. It’s not a channel showcasing supermodels. Also, I’d love to see pictures of the people commenting about her looks. I’m sure you’re all in the top 10% of attractiveness. 😂🙄🙄
Your right
This ☝🏽👏🏽
People love to judge more than people love to learn
100%- 🎯
I had a casual relationship with a woman who was into this lifestyle, and lemme tell you, diseases like chlamydia, UTI’s, BV, all that “curable” stuff, as she calls it, runs like wildfire through these folks. I’m not judging, or trolling this lady. But notice how she deftly skirts around the topic. She vaguely mentions something about condoms, and then goes in to talk about various pharmaceuticals as being “protection “, etc. just saying. You’ll never see a condom at one of these house parties, that’s for sure.
Yuck.... gotta be veeeeeery careful out here.
I don’t think you can generalise.
I always think about that movie “Out of Africa”.
A faithful wife contracted syphilis from an unfaithful husband. It happens.
It’s probably fair to say that promiscuous people are careful about using protection, especially women who don’t want to fall pregnant.
When you’re in a stable monogamous relationship you never even think of protection.
No money left for condoms after those, shit load of expenses. 😂
@@bevturner2258 Not for nothing, but you do realize that you yourself are now making a generalization about “promiscuous people “, right? Well, take it from the horses mouth. I was the epitome of a Chicago f*ckboy at one point. About ten years ago, I had a string of about ten girls going, one -nighters notwithstanding. These were mostly professional, educated women in their 30’s and 40’s. Bankers, attorneys, professors, real estate agents, etc. all attractive , all made more $ than me, etc. and believe me when I tell you that condoms were never in the picture, and I mean NEVER. Sure, one or two may have mumbled or whimpered something at first, like “we should really use protection “ as their eyes went wide in fear and anticipation at the sight of my erect horsecock. Seriously though… it took maybe five seconds to “convince “ them otherwise. I mean seriously .. forget condoms. My thing is I would cum inside everyone, and I mean everyone. Like on the first “date” ( if you would even call it dating. That shit is for simps and beta -cucks) . Just like with the condoms, they might feign protest at first, especially the younger ones. But it was purely histrionics. I always filled them to the brim. Bottom line is if you’re tall, handsome, with a big dick ( they look all the time. Women are worse than men when it comes to that shit. They’re just more discreet about it) and have a trim , muscular body, then you basically get to do whatever you want, when you want. Believe me, or don’t believe me. Again, just a man whore here, telling it like it is.
raised catholic, that explains a LOT. ...."my daughter's are hippies and they don't wear deodorant, it's less grooming" for the love of living in a society, please wear deodorant. if you don't want to wear clothes, don't want to shave etc., want to sleep around with everyone, fine. but please do not subject other people to your nasty BO in public spaces.
As interesting as this is, our society is completely lost. Ewe!!!!!
End of civilizations tend to go this way… just saying…
What about this tells you that society is lost?
I can’t stomach listening to such a sick woman. I feel really sorry for her kids. Soon they’ll be on this show crying about their brokenness.
Not trying to be mean or anything, I just feel like this lady is kind of overdoing it, almost trying to convince herself that all is GREAT & WONDERFUL. maybe it’s because she’s fairly new to this life. Either way, I wish nothing but the very best for her!❤️
Man..why does she annoy me so much 😂
😂seriously! 17:44 this is my 3rd time trying to watch it 😅
Its called personality disorder. Its such an inward selfishness that holds no space for 'other' - you feel disconnected, detached and eventually hollow if trying to get anywhere near (inwardly) to people like this. ALL her relationships are surface for sure - thats how she holds space with them. You can not even get close to her (from a vulnerable and real emotional level)
Because she’s fake
she doesn't take a breath. Mark can't get a comment in very easily
Narcissistic personality and clueless.
The closest I am to this life is changing up my music all the time,,,but that's called polyjammerous!
Thsts a good one. Underrated comment 😅😅
😂
Imagine being her son and your friends see this video
The proud mention of her daughters not shaving or wearing deodorant speaks volumes about the caliber of her offspring
@@easternzone7869 that too, but I'm amazed she can find any guys to have sex with, she's so old and looks worn out, who on Earth wants to be guy number 529?
@@easternzone7869 As a woman, I do not agree with you. We are free to not shave, and deodorants are for people who do not wash themselves regularly. I don't use it either 'cause I don't stink, and natural body odour from a clean body is top tier . Shaving is a choice, ya know. We're not born to please men and their sexual tastes.
@@easternzone7869Wrong, I know extremely well educated young women who do not shave. This is a newer cultural behavior. Nothing to do with "caliber". However I would say the behavior of their mother is pathological. You will never convince me she does not have deep mental health concerns.
The deceitfulness of sin
I dunno… I can’t imagine hearing your mom describe herself as a “cumdump” makes a kid feel great, even if they happen to be adults now. Call me old fashioned, but your offspring do not need to know all this stuff at any stage in their life. She’s only been involved in this lifestyle a couple years. Ive been around poly people a long time and no matter how people try and dress it up, there is a lot of harmful elements that get swept under the rug. It attracts a lot of abusive, predatory, messed-up people, and generates a lot of hurt. It’s nice she’s happy, but she’s probably gonna learn a few hard lessons eventually
@@dagmarramgad5441 I know a lot of monogamous married people…and I hate to say it but over half of marriages end in divorce for a reason. For some reason marriage attracts tons of people who end up needing extensive therapy, who can’t manage a relationship while raising kids, different libidos and even abuse and controlling spouses. I’m kidding but not because it isn’t true.
What irritates me about poly people is how they think they are so enlightened when their “partners” are just friends with benefits that the change whenever they’re bored. All they talk about is “fun” because that’s all it is.
Sex has different meanings for different people…a means to an end…a physical expression….in various forms as she’s describing…I have never been inclined to that way of living as I am in a very loving relationship with one partner but it seems like it’s more of a play in the sandbox kind of thing as opposed to a mature relationship…variety is the spice of life…I like my one spice …we have changed and grown over the years to be a wonderful blend…but to each is own…thank you for your insight into the human experience…I love your channel❤
I totally agree!
These stories make me feel so blessed that I know the Lord!!!!❤
If or when you get a man, you’ll then be poly lol
Same here!
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“I’m a MILF, obviously…”
No. No you are not.
More like a "MIHF" and it’d be nice if she tried T.P. just to shut her up.
Exactly. She's a granny 😂😂
hahah yeah I also cringed at this part! She is definitely not 😂😂
I'm having doubts about her happiness.
She talks about sex stuff like a preteen using cuss words for the first time and feeling so cool 😭😂😂
You’re not afraid of sexually transmitted disease.. I’m healthy I get my flu shot erm just took me all the way out.
Shes kinda counteracting everything shes said. The pictures of herself to pics of other women, wanting to play with more people then going to she only wants to play with her partners but explore more. Did anyone else realize that?
YES!
People in these comments are very judgmental. If you don’t like it, cool. Let her live her life the way she wants. Thx for sharing.
The eyes never lie.
Her laugh says it all...she needs therapy. In total denial that she's lost her way.
Her laugh? Damn… you are a finely tuned drama queen lol
This woman is such a narcissist.
Exhibitionist?
@@KaiJ-f4vboth, but covertly a narcissist publicly exhibitionist
Definitely
And arrogant as hell.
And very deluded in her self confidence. I couldn't show my naked body to my partner the first time in bed, she even has DP looking like that....geez
The title is a little misleading- yes she is Polyamorous, but she mostly talks about her full time kink lifestyle. The two are not always connected
A lot of continuous nervous chatting & constantly stating “I’m happy”. Maybe she is…but I’m certainly not convinced..
She seems like she was heart broken, went through this weird phase, met this guy she keeps talking about during the phase, fell in love w him (she keeps saying she’d marry him) but she is so deep and lost in convincing herself she wants the same poly life that HE wants and so she just chokes through it 😭
21:30 I think that is a wonderful point that she just made that you have to have dreams, goals, desires, and wishes. We get so much caught up in this idea that we have to be serving others that we don’t think about things that we really want or we think it’s selfish, but that is really giving so much to the people around us. If we can just have these goals that weretrying to get to then that gives other people some purpose that they get to help us reach those goals and dreams and desires. It’s really a key point in finding happiness in living.
Everytime she says she's "happy" she is really saying the exact opposite. You can sense a dark side, a damaged soul.
The one thing I noticed is that she laughs often, sometimes inappropriately. My sense is that laughter is a cover for underlying issues. I didn’t see a dark side, I saw a woman looking for validation…
It’s early days in her poly experience. Time will tell if this lifestyle gives her what she’s seeking.
Thank you for sharing your story Kimberly...
This isn’t something that I would want to do…but, whatever floats her boat. It doesn’t affect my life. 👍😊 Thank you for sharing this video with us. 👍🇨🇦😊
It’s her life, l don’t want to judge her. She seems happy 😃
It's a shame polyamory intersects so closely with degeneracy because I do think poly relationships are valid and can work, but from both my own personal experience and from what I've observed, nobody in the polycules seem to be honest, communicative, and probably aren't mentally healthy/aware enough to do so.
How hard is being monogamous? Fucking hard. How hard is it to be polygamous? Multiply the original difficulty times however many partners you have, and dont forget to add your partner's partners.
Polyamory is valid, but it should NOT be used as an easy out, a way to make relationships easier, an easy access to a bank account, etc
Weird. Actual studies done on poly vs monogamous relationships don’t back your generalizations.
Everything is permissible, but not everything is good
Sounds like food 😂
Funny how she keeps trying to convince everyone how great it is and how happy she is, but after every corny thing she says is some nervous laughter if you like it, I love it. I guess people like this are just so corny and they need something to believe in so hard I mean it odd thing to call yourself a bucket, talk about how you take all these pills. People are just coming all inside of you and that’s what you’re proud of. I don’t know. Sounds kind of nasty to me but whatever that thing try to promote it. Everyone should do it. It’s kind of gross.
It was the laughter that I noticed too.
Its early days into her Fetlife foray 😊
Time will tell if she’s really found the lifestyle she’s looking for.
It's a free world mama watever make you happy ❤
I was thinking she had other plans for the "kitchen table".
Flu SHOT doesn't stand a chance against HSV and HPV 🤢🤮
Both of which she probably has 😂
@@Feliciations😂
Are these people using protection? Her answer about STDs seemed out there. Does she not realize there's an epidemic of Gonorrhea?
From one poly women to another. Thank you... You're so awesome queen!!! 🥰
I know someone who was in a regular relationship and eventually decided they were poly (my theory is that a traumatic event led to a gap in needs and wants). Ruined the relationship. Now she's in a relationship with two people, but one of them seems to me like they're too 'needy' to actually be okay with it. But oh well, as long as everyone's okay with everything, do your thing.
Damn this woman has the confidence of Peggy Hill. I respect it.
To each their own doesn't float my boat.
At 18:50, when she said, "I want to explore more...... not with PEOPLE so much......" my heart about stopped. Glad she clarified that. I was waiting for the awfulness to get worse.
I'm sooooooo glad people have to wear clothes in public.
The people in these lifestyles always seem extremely wealthy. Like who on earth in this current economy has the time and money to just travel the world going to sex clubs and going on several dates? Like bitch even I wanted to I have to work constantly… she must be a sugar baby to these men
@@arisunshine6559 you are joking right? Hard to tell.
totally...
@ yeah who has the money for…a vacation lol seriously you guys are lame
😂 I love how confidently she talks about herself. "I'm a MILF" I can't help it I love this LOL
Hotness is now subjective, like pronouns.
@@a.wanderer5006
Hotness has always been subjective 😊
@@bevturner2258 i mean subjective for the subject in question but if that's the case, I'll take it! I'm hot, you're hot, we're all smoking hot!
I’m so surprised at the comments on this one! I know many polyamorous people the main point she is putting across is that she’s safe she loves what she does and there is consent, trust and communication. The old way of living is dying the world is waking up. Own who you are however that looks. Not everyone lives in the status quo because what even is that anymore the world has always been crazy and even if things were “normal” back in the day it was all a lie, people don’t realise there is hypocrisy in every ideology so what’s wrong with this woman sharing her story, she is allowed to live her life the way she wants to. I found this video very informative thanks mark for giving her a platform.
Totally agree. If not harming others and with consent who are we to judge. The communication between fet people are what great relationships are made of.
If she has the freedom to exercise this lifestyle then we have the right to call it degenerate 😅
I agree with you. Who cares what she does if there’s consent and no one is getting hurt. Just because a lifestyle isn’t what I would do doesn’t mean it’s not for others. People need to mind their own business.
Her lifestyle doesn't interest me but she is doing her thing. I hope her heart doesn't get broken by Cliff. She seems kind of fragile. The horrible comments from people about her looks astonishes me. Based on those comments I guess only those deemed beautiful are allowed to have sex or desires.
THIS is what decadence looks and sounds like.
Isn’t that too harsh? Lol
You’re so dramatic lol.
Or hedonist heaven? 😊
Well. Polyamory saved my marriage... so you are wrong.
This is where crimes of passion happen when people fall out
@@afrolusofx6045 you’re making that up.
I dunno but I find “boring” sex to be the best because it’s with the one woman I am deeply in love with. It’s immensely satisfying to a degree it is even overwhelming.
Some people's comments are rude . Let her live her life she's not hurting anyone. I wish her Happiness
So her six kids and their friends & family - no harm done? Your mom puts out this video on a channel with 6 million subscribers with her on the thumbnail - you'd just shrug and go, "no harm done." Mom runs around the house naked, anyways. Cool, I'm sure the kids get to have normal friendships, have their friends over. "No harm done"
She's hurting society
She has kids, and this makes her disgusting.
She is not hurting me and I don’t care what she does.
@@holistic.health who is she hurting? Are you referring to her divorce? Or the half of all other married couples who divorce?
She needs better safe sex practices. A flu shot doesn’t prevent syphilis. Who knows what she actually has…
Prep and other antivirals. You must have missed that