Thank you for sharing ❤️ 💕 same here but the Doctor said l can have children if l want them but I will never have them because I am not married yet no wedding no child.
Im exactly like Sizwe Dhlomo, also the same age - I also dont have kids, but I also refuse to have kids out of wedlock. If I dont get married, then unfortunately I wont have kids. Very well said
I've noticed something. Even if you have 100 kids when you die it doesn't matter because there will come a day when someone says your name for the last time on earth and that's the last death. So weather you are Mandela or who, there will come that day. So you can't live life to make kids and continue the "legacy" when you don't feel like it. For example, you don't know about your great grandfather who lived in 1900. The same thing will happen to you when you've long been gone. As long as you have lived your life happily and to the fullest. You are doing great. Living for legacies and lineages it's a waste of time because those change along the way. You'll be fighting a losing battle. Just be a good person and live your life. If you want kid's have them, if not, don't. But be honest with yourself and be happy, that's pretty much it
I don't have children and I am fertile. I am 53 but I don't care maybe I am afraid to have fatherless child. I have seen a lot of problems to fatherless children
So quick to turn the whole thing.... blaming men...If you don't require the most skills as a young lady, you will end up blaming men for your wrong choice..You choose who you make a baby with period
I used to worry that I ll never have Children of my own but wen the time comes God will see u through and if not God will make sure your heart won’t broken into pieces because of that ❤
I am 27 and don't have kids too but my reason is I have a disability condition I have already been to hospital 2 twice going to appointments so for me having kids is a lot of work especially when having a disability and I am still recovering
No one will ever understand this painful situation, only those who struggle & really need a child, children. It so hurting iNkosi iyabazi ubuhlungu benu never doubt him never loose FAITH🙏
Yhoo girl! I have been insulted, tormented and gossiped, made a laughing stock by my colleagues at work, pain but you wait and see what they experience with their "golden gifts."?
Don't fall for it y'all, people like to recruit others into misery. Have kids only when you want them. When you are emotionally, mentally and spiritually ready to have them. Don't listen to the community, they won't be there to help you raise them. They won't be there on rainy days too👀
When they asked some years back I would just tell them that I don't have a child because I'm not married. I've never felt I should have a child. Now I'll be 42 this year and 8 years into our marriage and we have a 6 year old hyper active boy. He came unplanned after contraceptive problems but raising him is such a good experience filled with many fears. Raising kids in this world which is undergoing the worst moral decay is very scary.
I wish fertility testing was standardised and affordable in SA. So many young people have undiagnosed fertility issues and only find out when its too late
True. I found out at the age of 39 that I'm infertile. I wish I knew sooner 😢 I was waiting to get married first before I could have children but got married at 36 yrs then found out later that I have to go through IVF 😢 it's a very expensive and emotionally draining journey. I'm 44 yrs now and I'm no longer trying. It's not easy 😢
@LeratoMotaung-n1c i'm so sorry about your experience sis. It's such a heartbreaking experience that no one should go through💔 I'm 33 and just found out that my fertility is compromised. I only found out because I asked my gynae to perform some tests on me, which is crazy to think about
Engwe eyetswa ke hose match HOA Madi den Mahe ha catch up,my brother was married for 5 years hose ngwana den ba ba seperate for 2 years both bajola out den as we speak my brother have a baby out side and my sister in law also have a child now they are back together to raise their children
Having kids and not having kids is not a bad thing only if its intentional,,,i wish pple who wanted to have kids could all have kids its so sad to see a woman cry like that coz they cant conceive.and i hope those who are content with not having kids can be respected for their decisions.
Most of the time the unseen robs people's nature,but what I can say nothing is impossible to Christ if someone whom Is authorized by God to cater the secrets of God that reveals those principalities that are making people not to have their own babies.Believe I can help I mean it
That’s such a heartwarming perspective! The love you share with your nieces and nephews is priceless, and it’s so true that family bonds can bring so much joy. Everyone’s path is different, but it sounds like you’ve found a lot of fulfillment in your own way!
Hello dear God said, tsamayang le yo atisha lefase when if yo don't want a child even one what will you tell God what you have done on earth , money that u leave and criminal came and stole, God give us pelegi belegang le ateng bangwe re ya feta mo Lefaseng. My the Lord bless you those who want kids with kids Amen.
Man can you justify, it's like you know me the way you talk,I need one of those people to come with you ,so that you can see my scam as you say,we are helping people not what you are talking about
Why can't people just be honest if they have to go public about their lives? What is ' I'm too afraid to bring children into this cruel world' ? Or I'm fertile but grew up suffering. Lies.
Charlize adopts and changes kids gender? Shouldn't there be an age restriction for such. Why not let kids grow to decide for themselves if they want to do that creepy thing. Who changed her, she was allowed to grow naturally, why forfeit that right for the kids?
I wonder bangenaphi cause its not anyone's business if people dont have kids. Something are not anyones problem 🫠 This is painfully and a sensitive topic also very personal
Theres some spirit in u which the sacking ur kids ,but u guys u dont know that, so if u can go to the Anointing man of God the will rebuke that bad spirit out
You celebrate u hv alot of money ,u have to go the people of God ,theres alot of people of God overseas which the can pray for u ,it is a party of demons in u,its not God has created u for without kids ,no but u dont have time to seek God than to complain God
Children are a gift from God. WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT GOD WILL MAKE IT HAPPEN
God who remembered Elizabeth, Sarah and Hannah may he remembers you guys 🙏
AaaaaaaMeN
Amen ❤
Amen 🙏
Makubenjalo jeso.
UNkulunkulu wabusisa uSarah ngengane usekhulike u-Abraham wayena mdala kwayena onguyise wengane , uNkulunkulu wenza ngendlela yakhe ngicela ningadikibali uyazi yena ukuthi uzomnika nini okungenzeki kubantu kuJehova kuyenzeka ngegama elinamandla likaJesu waseNazaretha 🙏🙏
what a stupid story
Thank you for sharing ❤️ 💕 same here but the Doctor said l can have children if l want them but I will never have them because I am not married yet no wedding no child.
Im exactly like Sizwe Dhlomo, also the same age - I also dont have kids, but I also refuse to have kids out of wedlock. If I dont get married, then unfortunately I wont have kids. Very well said
Good girl
It's rare to find such people nowadays #raregem
May God answer your prayer🤍🙏 I love people who are stubborn in Faith✝️/in what they believe in🤲❤️
@@SimphiweNgcecewhy
I've noticed something. Even if you have 100 kids when you die it doesn't matter because there will come a day when someone says your name for the last time on earth and that's the last death.
So weather you are Mandela or who, there will come that day. So you can't live life to make kids and continue the "legacy" when you don't feel like it.
For example, you don't know about your great grandfather who lived in 1900. The same thing will happen to you when you've long been gone.
As long as you have lived your life happily and to the fullest. You are doing great. Living for legacies and lineages it's a waste of time because those change along the way. You'll be fighting a losing battle.
Just be a good person and live your life. If you want kid's have them, if not, don't. But be honest with yourself and be happy, that's pretty much it
I don't have children and I am fertile. I am 53 but I don't care maybe I am afraid to have fatherless child. I have seen a lot of problems to fatherless children
Let's trt
Let's try
How do you know you are fertile , if you dnt have kids , unless they have passed, miscarried or terminated ..
My dad abandoned all 7 of us and we all turned out just fine..my mother did a wonderful job eventhough it was not easy
So quick to turn the whole thing.... blaming men...If you don't require the most skills as a young lady, you will end up blaming men for your wrong choice..You choose who you make a baby with period
I used to worry that I ll never have Children of my own but wen the time comes God will see u through and if not God will make sure your heart won’t broken into pieces because of that ❤
I am like sizwe i dont want to have kids before marriage. I was raised by my both parents so i wish that for my children too. I am 28.
I am 27 and don't have kids too but my reason is I have a disability condition I have already been to hospital 2 twice going to appointments so for me having kids is a lot of work especially when having a disability and I am still recovering
Try me you will get one
Don't lose hope guys God will answer 🙏 Amen
Guys let's stop judge each other it's God will to have a child ❤🫶💖✌️🇿🇦
@@xolimjekula5856 True that, we must be strict with ourselves and open with others
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No one will ever understand this painful situation, only those who struggle & really need a child, children. It so hurting iNkosi iyabazi ubuhlungu benu never doubt him never loose FAITH🙏
@@Yazondinja ❤️
Some men don't even take care of their kids 🤌🏾,it's better not to have if so.Have them for the right reasons.
Yhoo girl! I have been insulted, tormented and gossiped, made a laughing stock by my colleagues at work, pain but you wait and see what they experience with their "golden gifts."?
@@TembelaniDyantyi going through exactly the same thing, even as a man. Not just at work, even at church.
Don't fall for it y'all, people like to recruit others into misery.
Have kids only when you want them. When you are emotionally, mentally and spiritually ready to have them.
Don't listen to the community, they won't be there to help you raise them. They won't be there on rainy days too👀
May the ALMIGHTY bless all who doesn't have kids to hold them one day
Thank you 🙏
When they asked some years back I would just tell them that I don't have a child because I'm not married. I've never felt I should have a child. Now I'll be 42 this year and 8 years into our marriage and we have a 6 year old hyper active boy. He came unplanned after contraceptive problems but raising him is such a good experience filled with many fears. Raising kids in this world which is undergoing the worst moral decay is very scary.
Gcina nkosi 👌he deserve child she is smart shem
I love Lerato Kganyago with my body mind & soul, she's so cute❤❤❤
Propose. 🔥Goodluck 👍🌹
Try your luck. You will never know
@@dukemasengana I'm a chick
@@TsekoMofokeng-v2o what luck now?🤷♀️
@@TsekoMofokeng-v2o😅😮😢😊😊😊😅😮😢😅
I wish fertility testing was standardised and affordable in SA. So many young people have undiagnosed fertility issues and only find out when its too late
True. I found out at the age of 39 that I'm infertile. I wish I knew sooner 😢 I was waiting to get married first before I could have children but got married at 36 yrs then found out later that I have to go through IVF 😢 it's a very expensive and emotionally draining journey. I'm 44 yrs now and I'm no longer trying. It's not easy 😢
@LeratoMotaung-n1c i'm so sorry about your experience sis. It's such a heartbreaking experience that no one should go through💔 I'm 33 and just found out that my fertility is compromised. I only found out because I asked my gynae to perform some tests on me, which is crazy to think about
@@lindal3841 I really wish you all the best in your journey Sis 🙏❤️ sending you hugs and prayers
True ❤
Yebo kunjalo omunye no munye uyathanda ukuba umama noma utata,nami anginayo ingane I love my brother's children
One needs to be ready to be a parent beçause there is just so much evil happening in this World
Engwe eyetswa ke hose match HOA Madi den Mahe ha catch up,my brother was married for 5 years hose ngwana den ba ba seperate for 2 years both bajola out den as we speak my brother have a baby out side and my sister in law also have a child now they are back together to raise their children
Never give up if your trying your time will come children are a gift😊from God Amen.
Happiness is not depended on kids,approach life the way one likes no need to have pressure
I have kids and i cant imagine life without them but i think life can be just as full and happy without biological kids .
David Mashabela, Loyiso Gola and Sdumo Mtshali can also be added onto this list.
@@SihleTheOne wait, even David Mashabela???🤯😱
Nothing wrong about not having kids
There is
Ujehova uyazi yena ningakhali
Maningi amadoda anezingane 🤌🏾 anga zinakekeli futhi 🤷🏽♂️, abafazi 🙎🏾♀️ abambalwa bakhona.Kungcono uku ngabi nayo kunalokho.
It's not wrong ...not to have kids jst enjoy your life with no regrets God Almighty knows why.....
@@lusindisibooi2908 Nyani angathi ekhona namadoda anezingane 🤌🏾 anga zinakekeli nje 🤷🏾♂️?
Words of support, please leave to God ,it's always comes from him and there's a reason about that,don't blame yourself I know it's painful.
Having kids and not having kids is not a bad thing only if its intentional,,,i wish pple who wanted to have kids could all have kids its so sad to see a woman cry like that coz they cant conceive.and i hope those who are content with not having kids can be respected for their decisions.
As man/women we are not supposed to be alone marriage is gift from GOD .
Stop lying . God knows not all of us will get married. You should start reading your Bible properly before you make such statements
Anything is possible with Christ Jesus
Sorry guys you will have kids God love all of us
😢
God bless
Thank you 💕...
ngi zoku nika into engaqwali sandla
Inhlungu yokungabi nabantwana but konke kwaziwa uMdali
Are you sure everyone who doesn’t have children is feeling pain for not having?? Stop exposing your stupidity!
I declare and decree that they shall be fruitful in Jesus name.
Most of the time the unseen robs people's nature,but what I can say nothing is impossible to Christ if someone whom Is authorized by God to cater the secrets of God that reveals those principalities that are making people not to have their own babies.Believe I can help I mean it
Iam a 40 years old woman with no kids the love i have with my nieces & my nephew's im good
That’s such a heartwarming perspective! The love you share with your nieces and nephews is priceless, and it’s so true that family bonds can bring so much joy. Everyone’s path is different, but it sounds like you’ve found a lot of fulfillment in your own way!
I feel your pain
Clementine Mosimane has been acting since the 80s.
God's a healer trust in him❤
This is so Painful but God's plan are not ours😢🙏❤
Gods time is perfect
Thobile Mseleku is 35 and been married for 15 years. Maths doesnt add on…did she get married when she was 10 years old
Relax, don't do that to yourself!
If you fertile that means you runaway from responsibility.
Children are too troublesome its ok for one to decide not to hv one
Just wait until you are 60yrs plus and wanted to buy bread at a nearby shop it's when you will realize the need of having children
I don't HV children it's painful but it's only God knows why
When you let go of the pain it will happen. Enjoy your life be grateful for all you have & the universe will align ive seen it time & time again
Mimi im here baby
Some women lie, they know what courses them not have children and man too it's not always infertility,bathwele abantu ngenzalo yabo.
I have my first born at the age of 35 now I'm 44 married I don't have second we try N try nothing so have children it a God plan
Hello dear God said, tsamayang le yo atisha lefase when if yo don't want a child even one what will you tell God what you have done on earth , money that u leave and criminal came and stole, God give us pelegi belegang le ateng bangwe re ya feta mo Lefaseng. My the Lord bless you those who want kids with kids Amen.
these people focusing on making money not because they can't, especially Thando Thabethe she already made money,time to make child, time is vaing.
God's timing it's God's timing please guys don't judge people,
Charlize wenzani manje ay
Mfwethu 😢😢
I love Sizwes response. Marriage first if no Marriage no kids.
If u never did abortion in your life then there is nothing to worry, if you did then u have to worry coz blood is sacred.
This is definitely not true. Many people struggle with infertility and they have never had abortions
Give up children for fame and money, another sacrifice after selling your soul, "SOME" fall there....
Marriage first dear
Sorry magals but i do have muthi to help those people who don,t Consive its onlyR250 a 750 bottle
Really
respect your ancestors than we can help you
Meet the great man of God to pray for you like Paste Christ,Prophet Shepherd Bushiri and Prophet Alpha Lukau and others not doctors
Is it God will with teenage pregnancy???
I love kids, but gay can't change things the way they are
Kids are blessing frm God no need to judge them
Can someone or anyone who wish to have kids,talk to me so that we can fix that 🙏
You want to scam others
Man can you justify, it's like you know me the way you talk,I need one of those people to come with you ,so that you can see my scam as you say,we are helping people not what you are talking about
@@sandtee Aa, don't fall for such.
May you ask the experienced general practitioners to explain the possible causes of infertility?
Some people are naturally infertile, and some are just a choice not to have kids
There are so many causes. Environmental, genetic, biological, hormonal, trauma, psychological, etc. It can happen to anyone unfortunately
That is not Thami with Lerato on the video
It is them. But if it was not them, so what?
Abanye bathwele hayingoba bengazifuni izingane
Wasn't Thando pregnant recently?
Thando Thabethe?? No
Abanye bathwele ngezibeletho nangezidoda
The love of money and fame is what made some people to join secret societies that doesn't allow them to have children
this thing i so eazy for you to have kids it wont take time not evin a manth
Kungcono uyabazi
Without. kid's no joy nometter how rich you are.....😮😮
It's not the end that's God's plan
Why can't people just be honest if they have to go public about their lives? What is ' I'm too afraid to bring children into this cruel world' ? Or I'm fertile but grew up suffering. Lies.
What about male celebrities?
Don't warry god Nou,s 😢❤❤
If many would marry then they would easily have kids. People please have sex in marriage and marriage is till death keeps you apart no divorce.
Kids are from God nothing wrong if u don't have them
Guys can i have one to those who dont have kids?especial to my crush please
Charlize adopts and changes kids gender? Shouldn't there be an age restriction for such. Why not let kids grow to decide for themselves if they want to do that creepy thing. Who changed her, she was allowed to grow naturally, why forfeit that right for the kids?
🙏🙏🙏
So there no one that tells her that she s gonna get sick?
i can help for this lady's for them to have kids
Abayeke ukuthwala izinnyoka ezidla izingane
is very easy for one to hover kids
Please believe in God you will get children you get the wrong people
guys lets stop priventing
Jehova kuyazi wena😢
sizwe jusyt had kids ,i think 2. ( saw his tweet)
I wonder bangenaphi cause its not anyone's business if people dont have kids. Something are not anyones problem 🫠 This is painfully and a sensitive topic also very personal
im disable(crippled)&i dnt have a kid&i love having one one day bt not my biological 💔my yonger brother got 2 kids.i dont have even 1 💔😭
you can say you are female but you dont have kids
Keketso Semoko is NOT 60 😂😂😂
mlasa.com/actors/keketso-semoko/
1964 is 60 this year😂
...BT Charlize why??....they should have chosen themselves to be girls...
Yaz ngavele ngamzonda nje
guys all of you you a caperble to cary children i can help
Try me
you swallow you get pregnent
Thatha lento kayilabungozi😅
Kule sikhathi esiphila kuso uyajabula ongenYo cause izimo zinzima ezami ngathi ngingazi gwinya ngiziphindisele lapho zazihleli khona isizathu drugs,human trafficking,abuse ,rape um ngazange ubhekane nengane ewela kuma drugs ngyambongela ayikho into e uhlungu njengokubona ingane edla ama drugs 😭😭😭😭
Theres some spirit in u which the sacking ur kids ,but u guys u dont know that, so if u can go to the Anointing man of God the will rebuke that bad spirit out
Come to me u I'll se
You celebrate u hv alot of money ,u have to go the people of God ,theres alot of people of God overseas which the can pray for u ,it is a party of demons in u,its not God has created u for without kids ,no but u dont have time to seek God than to complain God