Dude! I hope everything gets better for you, keep pushing! Try to stay safe, I know things are difficult right now but I'm sure we can make it through all this!
@@luminousmistakes sorry for replying so late, but a month later and I can say I’ve gotten better. I’ve gotten help and I’ve stayed clean this entire month ^^
@@SOLARPOWER_ good job! 🍰🎉 I am glad to hear you've gotten better and have been getting help, hope everything goes well, remember to keep staying safe n taking care of yourself, I believe in you!
I remember in geology when presented with the term "neptunian dyke" and I blurted out "yeah thats actually my artist name". "Really?" Said my professor. "No" said I, "I was just joking". "That's pretty good" he said and looked super happy, "ground breaking musik 😉" Imagine that in the thickest French accent you ever heard
17:03 just made me feel really bittersweet. I love her being happy about swimsuits but all I can think about is how I always wear a shirt and full pants to the beach when all I really want to wear are swim trunks but I can't because I have extra flesh on my chest.
out of all of this, the thing that made me the most emotional is the queer youth camp. Man I wish I could have that experience, I only ever got church ones.
Anthony Bowens being openly gay in the ring and massively beloved by wrestling fans (notoriously homophobic in an industry that killed careers over queerness) makes so beyond emotional.
Anyone who wants to rant about a current interest/hyperfixation, go for it! I love hearing people talk about things that really interest them, and I know that it can feel awkward to talk about it irl, especially if other people don't share your interests. I just had an entire conversation about cool bugs and it made me really happy :) (Oh also happy Disability Pride Month!)
I keep sewing things! A lot of my stuff is pretty ratty so I have been sewing a bunch of stuff. It’s also just very relaxing. I had a big hole in my bedsheet, numerous socks, some shirts… I have also been doing a lot of felting. I just take a bunch of different colours and then make them into a ball. It can take me days to finish one, and they are very nice once finished for when I’m anxious. They are really really hard, so I can squeeze them. Thank you for coming to my Ted talk.
@@ultimate_yippee Oh cool! I haven't sewn anything in a while, but I used to make a bunch of tiny stuffed animals :) Felting is really cool, I've always wanted to learn how. You need special tools, right? Maybe I'll try to learn over the summer.
Hey there purplebean!! Ok I'll never get tired of talking about my fixation!! My main one is video games, specifically the Dragon Age series! It's probably the best rpg of all time (personal opinion lol) it's definitely the best I've ever played! I bring it up every chance I get... more specifically I bring up my mc partner Dorian alot lol. Bioware (the dev) is releasing the forth game in April of next year... and yes I am counting down the days lol If anyone likes video games I highly (HIGHLY) recommend playing the DA series, the game changed my life. It's the reason I figured out I'm trans lol Also sculpting... in other words I like to play with dirt /j (clay)
I’m currently working on a novel about a gay couple turned into sentient pigeons by a wizard. It has a vibe similar to bojack horseman, taking place in a type of world that would typically be seen with comedy, but telling a heartfelt and human story. My favorite part is the b story though. This explores the lives of wizard twins, one labeled from birth as evil, one as good. It shows the harm of stereotypes and profiling with two drastically different, lovable brothers. Character design has been even more fun than the writing, with The “Evil” Forest Wizard easily being my favorite. His mischievous, caring, and childish nature just makes him incredibly lovable. Thanks for giving me a chance to talk about this and get to hear from other people!
I absolutely love crystals and anything earthly. Just the way it feels and looks. Been studying bio engineering technology and geography for awhile too^^
Hi! :) Dw, the question makes sense. The first thing I though of was a clip of Bluey that I found while scrolling, that shows a kid going nonverbal and finding other ways to communicate. It made me really happy to see that kind of representation in a kid's show, because it'll help little kids be more understanding of different needs, especially since that's treated as a very taboo topic sometimes.
@@purplebean7 Hello :) (thanks for the reassurance about my question making sense) And wow; the more I hear about Bluey, the better and better this show sounds to be /sincere :D Also, how are you doing today? (^^)
Hello again! :) I'd say my favorite character would have to Sera from the DA series! She's autistic coded, even though I've never been diagnosed I see myself in Sera somewhat. I'm not as blunt as she is (I don't think) but I do use humor as a defense mechanism like she does. I'll never understand why she gets do much hate from the fandom, she's 100% one of my favorite characters! ^^
I relate to the swim trunks one because when I was a child I wanted wear swim trunks without a shirt but my mom told me that only boys could do that, I was very annoyed and I told her that it was stupid that I couldn’t wear swim trunks just because I was a girl.
@@Putting_the_Bi_in_Big_Nerdhey there! I'm doing well, a little burnt-out so I'm taking a break from people today, but I'm good! How are you today? ^^
@@imkyledude Glad to hear you're doing well and hope that break helps you with recovering from your burn-out /sincere :) I'm doing good, thanks for asking :P
@@Putting_the_Bi_in_Big_Nerd yeah it usually does, I'm lucky that I able to just take this day to recharge my brain :) And happy to hear you're good dude :D
Just remember that you are you. Don’t let other people brush off your sexuality or gender, you are the only one who can define that. Have a lovely day 🤗
Honestly, I came here to get away from all the homophobia. I was trying to defend pride month and I got comments like “Pride month isn’t real” “Stop talking about stupid pride month” “I hate that we just forget men’s mental health month exists because of pride month” “Tbh, pride month doesn’t exist people just made it up” And then I get an ad which I thought was about accepting transgenders but it was in fact, talking about how transgenders don’t exist and how people are forcing parents away from their children when the people were just trying to help kids with their homophobic parents. What happened to this society, man…
Hey you yes you, take a deep breath let it out slowly, and lower your shoulders. Know that you are important to someone even if you feel like no one loves you, guess what I do. I'm so proud of you being here. Thank you. Now make sure you take care of yourself and drink some water, eat something and take a stretch break.💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗
Yo shout out to all the Boomers who support the LGBTQA++ y'all are amazing and show that it doesn't take someone from a newer generation to understand that it's okay to be Trans, Gay, ect.. and thank you for being supportive ❤
4:44 this kind of stuff is what I love, as a queer theater kid that is only friends with queer theater kids, this is literally the way we are every time we see each other.
at the Walmart that I go to the pretzels during pride month were literally the trans flag colors like they are in that tik tok and the label was 'red, white and blue American chocolate covered pretzels' and I thought it was really funny for no reason
That was me yesterday with fellow queer and a female bisexual, they understood me and the fellow queer had the same haircut as me and I was thinking I think I’ve met my twin, we are a group now and the bisexual is the one that makes sure us two queer gremlins don’t make chaos at the school (thx Freya for the luck to find the friend) 0:16
when that guy said all trans-masc ppl have an obsession with spiderman i literally had to paus the video and rest my head against my hands, staring down at the table and trying to breath through the unidentifiable feeling his statement inflicted me with
4:09 Or you become like me and be both suicidal (multiple failed attempts)with an entire life that they have no clue about(I have to be closeted as trans till I move out or bad sh*t will probably happen).
15:25 bit off topic but i live in america and im veryfortunate to not live in like an active war zone but im still not very patriotic for obv reasons. was in middle school band and for the memorial day parade the cello, oboe etc carried flags. cello was a nerd who ended up right in front of me. he was tired after marching but he didnt put ghe flag down. i asked wh and he said it wasnt supposed to touch thr ground. which i guess okay bud? i made a cringy middle schooler joke, forgot what it was. he was like "why are you so disrespectful of our great country" "name one other country where you can bring a gun into a walmart" "Afghanistan" mf you do not want to compare your country to an active war zone
7:15 yea, he’s gay as fuck, and so is that tag team’s merch last I saw. Shoutout to pro wrestling for being the fruitiest thing my dad accidentally introduced me to
Hi there I’m leaving this comment here because I don’t know any other welcoming place to put. Anyways if someone tries to bother you and say “what’s a women then seems like I could just say I’m one and be one” they usually say this to leave you stumped and thinking for a while for the anwser (or maybe that’s just me) so remember what I’m going to tell you: a women is a female adult but also there are 2 types of women cis women and trans women a cis women is a person who identifies with the sex they were born with which is female(and has xy chromosomes). While a transgender woman was born as a male but her gender is a girl. It’s important to remember they are both woman (Feel free to correct me)
Happy Disability Pride Month!!!
*happy disabled noises*
❤️
hahdjdkakb YO WHAT?? I DIDNT KNOW THAT WAS A THING??? THANK YOU
Happy disability pride
MOAR HAPY DISABLED GAY NOISES
0:46
The mum: "are you gay?"
Person wearing the Lumity shirt: "no.... why do you ask?"
As a young, closeted lesbian, I just wanna say thank you, I feel safe here!
Note: I came out!
Yoooo congrats!
A tad late lmao but hope you're doing better after coming out
10:43 that grandma is so sweet and kind. protect her at all costs
4:07 as a soft-hearted trans kid that made me cry in two seconds-
As a resilient trans person, I can totally relate to the vid. I be having my own secret world that my parents aren’t allowed in.
@@theEVILonionRAT seems like we are the two different kinds of kids.
Dude! I hope everything gets better for you, keep pushing! Try to stay safe, I know things are difficult right now but I'm sure we can make it through all this!
@@luminousmistakes sorry for replying so late, but a month later and I can say I’ve gotten better. I’ve gotten help and I’ve stayed clean this entire month ^^
@@SOLARPOWER_ good job! 🍰🎉 I am glad to hear you've gotten better and have been getting help, hope everything goes well, remember to keep staying safe n taking care of yourself, I believe in you!
I remember in geology when presented with the term "neptunian dyke" and I blurted out "yeah thats actually my artist name". "Really?" Said my professor. "No" said I, "I was just joking". "That's pretty good" he said and looked super happy, "ground breaking musik 😉"
Imagine that in the thickest French accent you ever heard
I love how these videos are always a mix of just fun silly videos, and then some that are more serious
THERE'S SO MUCH DIMENSION 20 REPRESENTATION IN YOUR COMPILATIONS AND I LOVE IT
Same! Also the lesbian with the tiktok about BLeeM in drag, very relatable xD
The guy about talking to his cis therapist just resonated on 35 different levels holy shit I need a therapist
It is not ''cis'' smh, only male and female words should be used soo, stop the nonsense and do not feed into the words promoted by those wackos.
Bye.
17:03 just made me feel really bittersweet. I love her being happy about swimsuits but all I can think about is how I always wear a shirt and full pants to the beach when all I really want to wear are swim trunks but I can't because I have extra flesh on my chest.
as in a chest or like a stomach cause if its just a stomach go for it but if a chest i can see your struggle
4:41 this furuvhrubcking made me cry omg 😭😭 I wish I could go somewhere like that rn
Same omfg 😭😭😭
SAME I WANNA BE THERE SO BAD😭😭😭
Same
out of all of this, the thing that made me the most emotional is the queer youth camp. Man I wish I could have that experience, I only ever got church ones.
Wish I had had a youth camp. Instead, I broke my arm on the first day and spent the next week in hospital.
Anthony Bowens being openly gay in the ring and massively beloved by wrestling fans (notoriously homophobic in an industry that killed careers over queerness) makes so beyond emotional.
17:03 she's literally so pretty and her swimsuits are so cute too!!! ❤❤❤
Anyone who wants to rant about a current interest/hyperfixation, go for it! I love hearing people talk about things that really interest them, and I know that it can feel awkward to talk about it irl, especially if other people don't share your interests. I just had an entire conversation about cool bugs and it made me really happy :)
(Oh also happy Disability Pride Month!)
I keep sewing things! A lot of my stuff is pretty ratty so I have been sewing a bunch of stuff. It’s also just very relaxing. I had a big hole in my bedsheet, numerous socks, some shirts…
I have also been doing a lot of felting. I just take a bunch of different colours and then make them into a ball. It can take me days to finish one, and they are very nice once finished for when I’m anxious. They are really really hard, so I can squeeze them.
Thank you for coming to my Ted talk.
@@ultimate_yippee Oh cool! I haven't sewn anything in a while, but I used to make a bunch of tiny stuffed animals :)
Felting is really cool, I've always wanted to learn how. You need special tools, right? Maybe I'll try to learn over the summer.
Hey there purplebean!!
Ok I'll never get tired of talking about my fixation!! My main one is video games, specifically the Dragon Age series! It's probably the best rpg of all time (personal opinion lol) it's definitely the best I've ever played! I bring it up every chance I get... more specifically I bring up my mc partner Dorian alot lol.
Bioware (the dev) is releasing the forth game in April of next year... and yes I am counting down the days lol
If anyone likes video games I highly (HIGHLY) recommend playing the DA series, the game changed my life. It's the reason I figured out I'm trans lol
Also sculpting... in other words I like to play with dirt /j (clay)
I’m currently working on a novel about a gay couple turned into sentient pigeons by a wizard. It has a vibe similar to bojack horseman, taking place in a type of world that would typically be seen with comedy, but telling a heartfelt and human story. My favorite part is the b story though. This explores the lives of wizard twins, one labeled from birth as evil, one as good. It shows the harm of stereotypes and profiling with two drastically different, lovable brothers.
Character design has been even more fun than the writing, with The “Evil” Forest Wizard easily being my favorite. His mischievous, caring, and childish nature just makes him incredibly lovable.
Thanks for giving me a chance to talk about this and get to hear from other people!
I absolutely love crystals and anything earthly. Just the way it feels and looks. Been studying bio engineering technology and geography for awhile too^^
Happy Disability Pride Month from your local (digitally-so) bi demi dad; how are you all doing this day/night? \(^w^)/
💜💜🤗🤗
@@broken_queer_but_fighting8589 \(^w^)/
How are you doing today, my friend? (^^)
Hi! :) Dw, the question makes sense. The first thing I though of was a clip of Bluey that I found while scrolling, that shows a kid going nonverbal and finding other ways to communicate. It made me really happy to see that kind of representation in a kid's show, because it'll help little kids be more understanding of different needs, especially since that's treated as a very taboo topic sometimes.
@@purplebean7 Hello :) (thanks for the reassurance about my question making sense)
And wow; the more I hear about Bluey, the better and better this show sounds to be /sincere :D
Also, how are you doing today? (^^)
Hello again! :)
I'd say my favorite character would have to Sera from the DA series! She's autistic coded, even though I've never been diagnosed I see myself in Sera somewhat. I'm not as blunt as she is (I don't think) but I do use humor as a defense mechanism like she does. I'll never understand why she gets do much hate from the fandom, she's 100% one of my favorite characters! ^^
I relate to the swim trunks one because when I was a child I wanted wear swim trunks without a shirt but my mom told me that only boys could do that, I was very annoyed and I told her that it was stupid that I couldn’t wear swim trunks just because I was a girl.
Hello there, your trans big brother's here! And Happy Disability Pride Month!!
Howdy Kian; how are you doing today, little dude? \(^^)/
@@Putting_the_Bi_in_Big_Nerdhey there! I'm doing well, a little burnt-out so I'm taking a break from people today, but I'm good! How are you today? ^^
@@imkyledude Glad to hear you're doing well and hope that break helps you with recovering from your burn-out /sincere :)
I'm doing good, thanks for asking :P
@@imkyledude💜💜🤗🤗
@@Putting_the_Bi_in_Big_Nerd yeah it usually does, I'm lucky that I able to just take this day to recharge my brain :)
And happy to hear you're good dude :D
4:32 that's like a scene in a movie. it's so important to have these spaces
2:09 the Spider-Man phase is the collective transmasc canon event
4:36 this made me so happy - queer kids having a completely safe space and dancing and having fun…❤❤❤
I want the trans pretzels
That last one was the one I needed the most, thank you friendo 💙
Same!!
Just remember that you are you. Don’t let other people brush off your sexuality or gender, you are the only one who can define that. Have a lovely day 🤗
‘Talk to girls awkwardly, I don’t have to tell you to do that.’
7:56 "if a nonbinary person bites you, you contract it" as an enby, I can confirm, the uncle is correct
Edit: timestamp
That whole thing was so wholesome
time _chomp_
glad I'm not the only one who saw brennan in drag and was like "okay so I am attracted to men now"
13:01 i needed that. The other day i had gotten really depressed that i didnt and couldn't have a normal childhood like cis boys
Honestly, I came here to get away from all the homophobia. I was trying to defend pride month and I got comments like
“Pride month isn’t real”
“Stop talking about stupid pride month”
“I hate that we just forget men’s mental health month exists because of pride month”
“Tbh, pride month doesn’t exist people just made it up”
And then I get an ad which I thought was about accepting transgenders but it was in fact, talking about how transgenders don’t exist and how people are forcing parents away from their children when the people were just trying to help kids with their homophobic parents.
What happened to this society, man…
@@guacamolebolt well, thats okay that you don’t agree with pride month, as long as you’re not rude about it.
@@guacamolebolt I know, I’m saying at least you’re not rude like some people would be. Thanks for being chill, dude
2:08 - 2:14 canon event
Hey you yes you, take a deep breath let it out slowly, and lower your shoulders. Know that you are important to someone even if you feel like no one loves you, guess what I do. I'm so proud of you being here. Thank you. Now make sure you take care of yourself and drink some water, eat something and take a stretch break.💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗
Same to you, friend \(^^)/
@@Putting_the_Bi_in_Big_Nerd🤗🤗💜💜
tell me why I got an ad for detransition right before this video damn
I’m gay and this scares me I hate labels and being put in some kind of box
That mario to Maria one is hilarious love it
Yo shout out to all the Boomers who support the LGBTQA++ y'all are amazing and show that it doesn't take someone from a newer generation to understand that it's okay to be Trans, Gay, ect.. and thank you for being supportive ❤
8:45 she looks so happy showing off her swimsuits i hope she has the best pool/beach day ever
4:44 this kind of stuff is what I love, as a queer theater kid that is only friends with queer theater kids, this is literally the way we are every time we see each other.
🦊Free fluff hugs for my queer friends!🦊🤗
at the Walmart that I go to the pretzels during pride month were literally the trans flag colors like they are in that tik tok and the label was 'red, white and blue American chocolate covered pretzels' and I thought it was really funny for no reason
That was me yesterday with fellow queer and a female bisexual, they understood me and the fellow queer had the same haircut as me and I was thinking I think I’ve met my twin, we are a group now and the bisexual is the one that makes sure us two queer gremlins don’t make chaos at the school (thx Freya for the luck to find the friend) 0:16
How in the world did they survive that ginsang drink i would have 💀
Oof that last on hit me hard as a trans masc
Been working on nearly that exact thing lately in therapy
Much love ❤
2:53 pov you’re once again trying to convince your mom to get the trans mini cupcakes from Walmart that you’re allergic to but look so damn good
4:07 THAT ONE HIT HARD
17:58 I’m like actually in love. That dark red is SOOOO her color 😍😍🥰
“She’s so cute” YES YOU ARE. IM GONNA SOB I LOVE WOMEN
7:21 LGHGTV MONTH 😭
That whole thing was so cute tbh
17:03 omg is no one gonna talk about how good her makeup is? like girl teach me your ways for eyeliner
when that guy said all trans-masc ppl have an obsession with spiderman i literally had to paus the video and rest my head against my hands, staring down at the table and trying to breath through the unidentifiable feeling his statement inflicted me with
just saw a short of blair white spitting some bs so I needed this 😭😭
4:35 camp and queer youth usually do not jive together.
The person mentioning Brennan Lee Mulligan gets it XD
4:09
Or you become like me and be both suicidal (multiple failed attempts)with an entire life that they have no clue about(I have to be closeted as trans till I move out or bad sh*t will probably happen).
That Grandma is so sweet I love her ❤ 11:38
3:24 Queer people and Hozier, name a better combo
Do you know where the original audio is from ?
DUNGEONS AND DRAG QUEENS IS AMAZING I HIGHLY RECOMMEND
2:10 TIL this is a common thing... -eyes Spiderman being my favorite superhero, looks away-
1:38 STOP BC ONE OF MY FRIENDS USED MY PREFERRED NAME IN FRONT OF MY PARENTS AND MY KNEES GAVE OUT.
THE OWL HOUSE LUMITY SHIRT!!!
oh my gosh I've it so much!! I need one!!
0:29 I'm a montrealer and I missed pride becase of this 😭
15:25 bit off topic but i live in america and im veryfortunate to not live in like an active war zone but im still not very patriotic for obv reasons. was in middle school band and for the memorial day parade the cello, oboe etc carried flags. cello was a nerd who ended up right in front of me. he was tired after marching but he didnt put ghe flag down. i asked wh and he said it wasnt supposed to touch thr ground. which i guess okay bud? i made a cringy middle schooler joke, forgot what it was. he was like "why are you so disrespectful of our great country" "name one other country where you can bring a gun into a walmart" "Afghanistan" mf you do not want to compare your country to an active war zone
As if afghanistan had walmarts to begin with 😭 omfg what an idiot
17:23 my raw reaction was like OMG GIRL YOUR SO PRETTY!!!!!
0:30 lol
Guess what
I was born on gæ dæ (June 1)
I AM THE CHOSEN ONEE
2:11
Oki would anyone like to discuss the Scrunkly pavitr and goobie hobie?
16:41 IN MADE OF MINERALS?!!!😮 How epic
7:15 yea, he’s gay as fuck, and so is that tag team’s merch last I saw. Shoutout to pro wrestling for being the fruitiest thing my dad accidentally introduced me to
3:40 I literally do this, and have never related to something more in my life!
The wrestling one really got me😂
I'm a simple queer I see Jess and Josie I click
1:30
#relatable 😃
2:11
I’m not trans but have an obsession over Spiderman lmao
4:09 I had to take a screenshot
Hi there I’m leaving this comment here because I don’t know any other welcoming place to put. Anyways if someone tries to bother you and say “what’s a women then seems like I could just say I’m one and be one” they usually say this to leave you stumped and thinking for a while for the anwser (or maybe that’s just me) so remember what I’m going to tell you: a women is a female adult but also there are 2 types of women cis women and trans women a cis women is a person who identifies with the sex they were born with which is female(and has xy chromosomes). While a transgender woman was born as a male but her gender is a girl. It’s important to remember they are both woman
(Feel free to correct me)
Aww the grandma
maria is my inspiration.
0:56 listen… I‘m bi… the amount of panic this gives me…
2:29 why does she sound so much like Hank Green. like literally exact same voice what the heck
At 4:50
WHERE IS THIS
I NEED THIS
AAAAAAA
THATS WHAT IM SAYIN
MY THEATER CAMP IE LIKE 50% THIS SILLY I NEED WHATEVER THAT IS
@@Corvustheguy I NEED A CAMP WHERE ITS JUST GAYS BEIN GAYS
@@Waddles_The_Penguin FR I NEED THIS
LETS MAKE ONE /hj
@@Corvustheguy YEAHHHHHHHHH
Uff I wish I was thinner... I would pass so much better
congrats on being trans! so am i! were buddies! also feel free to talk about literally anything in this comment im all ears
9:39 "🌒👄🌘 wHy NoT?"
6:19 you ever catch me doing this, my dad’s lurking behind me somewhere, send help /j
4:23 aroace on a youtube compilation of lgbtq+!? What a nice surprise :D
I was taught that they were called intrusions! So my earth science teacher in junior high was a coward as well as a climate change denier, huh?
If I show these to my mom will she finally love me? 🥺
16:17 Oh no, keep them up, please
Happy late disability pride! :3
And that is why i love AEW
11:31 she still looks 60 genetics go crazy
4:09 ✨why not both✨
4:44 POV ur sydney sargent
❤️
0:37 lol me :P
4:52 where’s that camp, can I please go too🥺🥺🥺
lghtv month 😭😭
0:56 REAL
1:11 this is me and i still haven’t figured it the fuck out
4:23 yes they do i know because i am a closeted (to people i know) aroace
I've never seen those diabetic (???) patches on the legs, can anyone confirm / explain :(
18:08 slayyy bishhh
4:40 WHERE DO I SIGN UP PLEASE GIVE IT TO ME I NEED IT GIVE ME IT PLEASE
13:41 already have done that to one
BRENNAN!!!!!!!!