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yes bro, yes! This line of thought needs to be more mainstream.
Yikes
Which one
Bro? 😅 Which one are we talking about?
you know its a joke right lmfao.... yikes!
@@Pipi_030 the not depressed guy. We all ups and downs but to treat everything like the end times is silly.
This is the conversation I have with myself whenever I struggle 💀
imposter syndrome be like: 👀
Same. I cycle thru thinking I'm weak for feeling that way while other people have it alot worse and just telling myself it's no big deal
I suffer with it aswell. Having a greater perspective that other people suffer much worser things is slightly comforting in a weird way.
@@supes323 Cuz you think life isn't that bad compared to others so why complain. It could be exponentially worse so u try to be grateful. Which is indeed weird yes.
Same
This is basically the pep talk I give myself, just before I tell myself to forgot about it because it’s not a big deal.
I mean, I’ll think back on it and start getting upset again, but I’ll just remind myself it’s not a big deal.
Even though this is a skit, he genuinely made me rethink my mentality and my life. Big ups man💪🏾
Yessirrrr
Imagine not seeing that this character is of a person hurt and sensitive to other people's feelings, one who is upset that different people have different ways of fighting through problems and that he's just ignorant to that.
@@mensatico umm actually if you can’t tell there isn really a punchline to this video. He is being serious 😂😂. Imagine not seeing that.
@@mensatico do u have ptsd from getting a C+ aswell?
@@mensaticoImagine feeling attacked by the message in this video, but not wanting to admit it lol.
The subtle look directly into the camera after saying “to let stupid people understand” *Chef’s kiss* you sure truly have an amazing grasp at subtle comedy (which I personally love and find usually hard to pull off). Thank you having real depth to your videos. This is just one tiny example of the many reasons I think you are a truly skilled creator
Dear God please let this be ironic
Thanks Turner, means so much.
I get the feeling that line was put there so that stupid people could also feel smart for noticing that that line was aimed at stupid people and I hate that I fell for it😂😂😂
Also the slight boom sound effects are literally golden they’re so soft yet add so much to the skit
@@Sango23 i pity you
I'm serious. Jaden is the most based comedy creator on TH-cam. Never has one of his videos NOT made me laugh. Thanks Jaden.
Good man
I was expecting some "epic turnaround" nope I just finished the video and could only utter one word. "Based."
this is my #1 favorite video on youtube
dont forget aljokes tho
@@cucubob9535W
Ok that sideways glance felt personal💀
Fr though that was an amazing skit
Ayo you forgot to change accounts 💀💀
@@Sviwawa oh my bad
@@guhb1531 wtf 💀
@@guhb1531 lol 🤣🤣🤣
Theres a stark difference between the emotion and the mental illness. Someone who has anxiety very likely would have a panic attack over minor stressors.
The key difference is frequency. Having a bad day doesnt mean you have anxiety. But if you have high levels of stress every single day then thats anxiety, and tiny things can and will send you over the edge.
You both have good points, but I would add that panic attacks and anxiety attacks are entirely different. Yes some people get both-but panic attacks are experiencing the feeling that you are about to die in the next second constantly for sometimes hours, to the point where your body is mimicking the precursors of a oncoming heart attack, which therefore increase the panic attack in a vicious circle. I have panic attacks but don’t have social or general anxiety at all, sometimes I get one when I’m in the middle of a happy mood in fact
Suck. It. Up.
@@ShyFly221 Depends on what kind of stress though. I could be stressed from weeks straight doing a project and it wouldn't be anxiety necessarily I think.
@@jeal5022 yeah but is it just the test or is everything freaking you out and the test is just ontop of that. You really have no way of knowing what someone is going through so theres no reason to call someone out for saying they had a panic attack when you have no idea of they did or not, or what a panic attack looks like for them.
He's right, it is normal to be stressed. However, if you're stressed about almost everything, that's a sign of an underlying issue (like an anxiety disorder).
Not an out right disorder. Just need to change your life style
HOW DARE YOU you cant even see trough the denial- jaden williams
Wonder how many people in third world countries have these so-called "anxiety disorders"
@@I-agree-with-you-butA good few? What are you even talking about, have you backed this with research? Y'know, like some of us have?
@@memulonallred5715 I don't see you presenting any evidence, and I never made any fact-based claims. I see these types of issues as things like social contagions, like anorexia, tourettes, cutting, etcetera. Most of it is caused by the internet. If you have something to disprove my stance, I'd be happy to see it. My goal isn't to ridicule anyone but to dig deeper and find the truth.
I expected the guy to say that he had an actual mental illness at the end but he just ended up trying to cancel them
I mean he takes medication so im pretty sure they have something
You expected an actually funny ending to the joke.
@@thatfedoraguy1112 u mean xanax? didn’t he touch on that in the video?
@@garmen- Yes it is intended to fix anxiety. There is indeed a possibility that it was given willy nilly by big pharma.
But either you slander someone with an actual mental illness or you expose a faker. Is it worth it?
@@thatfedoraguy1112 You can get medication without getting diagnosed with anything. In fact, it's the far more common way to get medication. So even though you ARE pretty sure, you shouldn't be
big yikes on this one bud. sure, people are faking mental diseases here and there, but you can’t fix everyone who says they have something with a “suck it up”…
some people do have real problems and anxiety attacks and this mentality really blurs the lines of what is a true problem and what is a fake one.
Gotta love the people with genuine anxiety in here telling him he's wrong. If you genuinely have a problem, he's obviously not talking to you.
This ⬆️
I know it's for comedy but I gotta say:
There's a difference of depression from a traumatic event happening and depression because your brain decides you're going to be sad for no reason, against your own wishes.
Clinical depression is the latter one.
Yeah I'd say grief, trauma, sadness are very different things from depression. Depressed people aren't "sad" usually, they're just numb. They don't cry or laugh, they don't really feel anything at all, nothing sounds fun etc
@@lawnmower16 Depression is classified as an emotion and an "illness".
Dude just does not understand what depression is
@@beaugantz4888 who?
Jaden
many people are like this
but also many people have genuine stress disorders and many other things not because they had one big traumatic event but because they had many many many things happen over a long course of time and pile up and they just kept going and just kept trying and that messed them up, and it takes a lot of time and effort to even try to fix that, and the world we live in punishes people that need to devote time to that and dont have extra money for it
there are also many who have issues not just because of their nurture but because of their nature, a guy with adhd or autism cant really help having it, they can only try living with it and improving on the things they can improve, and they'll allways have stuff that they'll not have such an easy time as others no matter what they do
there are also a lot of complicated personal factors like familial relationships and such
he never said other people didn’t have stress problems. he actually pointed out that people do for 100x bigger reasons. he is saying don’t act like you have a big problem over a small bit of stress and hard times
@@rhysp9818 I am aware
I am just saying, big singular traumatic events arent all the reason for someone to have stress problems
I know he doesnt mean any wrong and the video can be funny, but well, if you've had certain experiences you'll still get peeved with oversimplifications on certain topics
@@0whatman it’s a short and those were examples he gave
did you want him to give hundreds of events to add up to one of those?
@@0whatmanYou are extremely right and correct in everything.
@@rhysp9818 I want him to not upload garbage videos that spread misinformation
If you've had a REAL panic attack, you don't mistake it for stress lol. You think you're gonna die
I understand the premise of the joke, but mental talks are case-by-case. Personally, I have a friend who I also think blows things up way out of proportions - stressing over things that, also in my opinion, are just small things and calling it depression. Then I learned of the personal things that makes them be like that and it makes sense, after years of them supressing it to avoid being called "soft". I guess it's better to have compassion than just tell someone to suck it up since you can never put yourself exactly in the shoes of others.
Exactly my thoughts
My brother uses mental health as an excuse to be the laziest mfr in all of reality. There's another issue of mind over matter and the power of mentality.
There's a reason therapy even works in the first place. Sitting down, talking, sorting out your thoughts, and getting solutions from a doctor.
There's a reason placebo can work, too. The brain is powerful.
Illness can manifest itself even when there isn't any if you believe you're I'll. There are studies finding that some of these kids of tiktok who think they have stuff wrong with them in some cases are literally causing real damage with their delusion.
The mass psychosis and glorification of mental illness on tiktok and social media among young kids is literally creating mental illness from nothing.
This kind of hard talk is a necessity.
Also "stressing excessively over minor things" is a sign that you're mentally unwell. Not necessarily a mental disorder, but definitely a sign that you're going through something else in the background.
Been there, done that.
Yeah I had similar thoughts watching the video, I feel that the joke is somewhat in bad taste when it comes to mental health. There are definitely people who blow things out of proportion for "silly" reasons and it's easy to laugh at them and tell them to "suck it up," but anxiety is a real thing that real people struggle with, and you don't have to go through immense amounts of trauma to have it. All and all I just think the joke is a little off and misses the mark for me
I've had a similar experience to your friend's, but I still think people need to point this out. You're letting actual snowflakes get away with it because you're scared of hurting someone. It's got to a point where you either keep quiet out of fear of hurting someone, or justifiably call them out.
Heyo. I rarely make comments, but I enjoy your content, and as a soon to graduate psych major and someone with personal experience with mental illness, I'd at least like to lay out some disclaimers. I'll preface this by saying I'm not offended by this content or anything, nor do I think you're entirely wrong. Big pharma is a giant scam, healthcare overall sucks. But I've seen the take in this video growing a lot recently, and idk how I feel about it, at least in reference to my experiences and what I've learned in college over the years.
An important thing to keep in mind is that, while it may seem like mental illness has become "so mainstream/acceptable" now that people are "abusing" it's language, this is predominantly the case in cis-white cultures. Multiple studies have shown that minorities struggle to be seen and heard when voicing similar struggles, to receive diagnosis, treatment, or medication. This is especially true of black communities.
Also, many non-white cultures still carry HEAVY stigma against mental illness or therapy of any kind. Even in white, intellectual spaces like my college, I have been discriminated against by my own professors and not given the accommodations I am legally allowed to have under disability law. People don't "believe" its "that bad" because of how casually I can speak about it, and how smart, successful, and happy I look on the outside. But I am very mentally ill. I have been suicidal, have had to be pulled out of school for months to go to intensive psychiatric care. The first time I hurt myself was to convince my parents I was mentally ill because I kept telling them I didn't feel good, that I was suffering, but they didn't believe me enough to want to sign me up for therapy until I crossed that line. And I knew many people in my high school, at my current college, who are avoidant of therapy because of that internalized stigma that's still there.
Yes, things are better in our culture, and maybe some people are being wrongly diagnosed and using these terms as a crutch. But everyone's pain is relative. I never went through anything awfully traumatic, and I still became suicidal. And that doesn't make my feelings any less valid. I would just be very careful of invalidating people's experiences and steering those away who need treatment from getting it. It's my personal opinion that I would rather some people be possibly overdiagnosed but everyone who needs treatment gets it rather underdiagnose populations that need help.
I still really enjoy your content, and don't think you're entirely wrong, but I wanted to share my opinion because I also don't entirely agree, and this is something I'm educated in. I'm not intending to start a fight of any kind, only sharing my views.
Psychiatrists become Psychiatrists to try and understand why they're so messed up. And instead of forcing themselves to grow stronger than their illness, they learn all the excuses as to why it's okay that they're so mentally and emotionally weak.
I pity everyone who comes to you for help, they'll receive nothing but commiseration in your shared weakness.
@@Zachary-this is a very rude and inconsiderate tone that gives me the impression you have no clue what youre talking about whatsoever
@@DarkShard5728 Tone can not convey one's knowledge, no matter how rude of an impression it gives you.
@@Zachary- people who don't know what they're talking about absolutely convey a different tone unless they're extremely good at controlling that, and you aren't because you would have
@@DarkShard5728 You might be mistaking "tone" with "attitude." I recommend looking up both words in a dictionary and trying again.
This cured my depressive mood swings. 10/10 would cry again👍
Being shouted at made you feel more valuable and responsible?
Shi thead, don't know if you really felt bad or not but you made me laugh IRL. 10/10 would laugh again 👍
@@jonnoM1 lol wish I was joking about the mood swings part
@@shithead616 you're the entire group of people this video is calling out and the fact that you use 'mood swings' as an excuse for acting however you want in order to get as much attention as possible is exactly why normal people feel the need to kindly ask you to stfu
@@Cxntrxl no bitches?
I think we’ve got to strike a balance, in my opinion this goes a little to far into gatekeeping emotions, however I completely agree our society throws these words out too easily
Well said.
We can accept and value the genuine struggle of everyone without desensitizing ourselves to what anxiety attacks, panic attacks, PTSD, ADHD, OCD, and all of the other words people just throw out actually represent
And it would go a long way to all of those who actually suffer from those illnesses feeling accepted or understood
@@JJStylies I completely agree with this!
emotions aren't mental illnesses tho
That's the point
Love your content, this immediately cured my ADHD and chemical imbalances. Transformational, keep up the good work.
Lmao exactly, i usually love this guys content but this video seems kinda like an over generalisation of mental health issues, especially trying to compare different people's experiences.
@@caligustohe literally said some people actually have it but half the people saying it on the internet are just being over dramatic
@@caligusto you missed the entire point of this video then. Guy was talking about how some people just has a little stress and immediately said "Oh I have trauma, anxiety, and PTSD". Being stressed is normal, it's a human reaction. Having PTSD and depression however isn't as simple as that, and the guy in the vid said some people does have PTSD and depression but not over some little goddamn stress.
@@potato_person but every "woke" mf won't understand! don't bother
@@Jalapos1 time-stamp where in the skit he said anything along the lines of “some people genuinely have this problem”
i don't think this video is "oh people with mental illnesses need to suck it up"
i think it's more of people just saying that they have anxiety or depression over the most mundane things you've ever heard of
i had a friend who said he had depression because he had to watch a powerpoint presentation in class in the morning
people just don't say that they're 'stressed' or 'sad' anymore they just jump straight to panic attacks and depression almost numbing the phrases
and it's so often just an excuse not to work as hard as everyone else, it's really tiring.
Yeah, this video is a joke skit. However, mental illness can make the small seem big. So, getting stressed constantly over everything, big or small, is a sign that one needs help.
Reality is the middle ground. Far too many people call stress anxiety and sadness depression. Anxiety is not eating for a week because you’re too scared to leave the house, but it’s also calling in sick to work because you woke up feeling dread about having responsibilities. Depression is my grandmother getting bedsores because all she can do is cry and sleep for 9 days straight, but it’s also failing a University paper because you can’t bring yourself to feel anything resembling motivation or hope. Mental illness is irrefutably a real and debilitating condition, but using it as a crutch to get away with being a bad person is very rarely acceptable.
Agreed
Thank you! I felt like trash watching this video until he mentioned genuine trauma, which… my baby brother dying when I was a child, getting kidnapped, SA…yeah I do actually have PTSD for very valid reasons lol
Though I would like to say, if a therapist or a proffesional diagnoses you as depressed or having anxiety, then yea u are. Also stop gatekeeping mental illness. Instead of slandering people who in your view falsely identify with a certain condition, talk with them to find out why. It feels like ya'll are the type to just assume and then insult.
@@eileensnow6153You don't need someone else to decide whether or not you have a "valid reason" for PTSD. You just have it. Don't feel pressured to meet arbitrary standards set by others.
@@BeyondTrash-xe1vs Touch grass dude.
A quote that's stuck with me for a while now is "We all lead equally complicated lives". Obviously, on the surface, that isn't true; I don't have the same trials and tribulations as a firefighter or a police officer, but my personal struggles are real for _me._ I will agree that the looseness of terminology these days is definitely getting out of hand, but no one is holding a competition to see who has the shittiest life.
Different people in different circumstances are exactly that.
Best point from all the comments tbh
Yep. It's like saying you can't be positive and smile because someone else has a better life than you. You can't have it one way and not the other. Comparison is honestly almost NEVER good in any circumstance.
This. This is the most important thing we can do.
That's why fighting to be better everyday is the only pill that works... unless you have an actual physical disorder for that specific path
The best and worst ratios for good and bad days will always be the same for every living thing on this earth... but the difference in value is as clear as day... and I'm at the bottom of the bucket.
Also personal struggles have to be relatable and have to be accepted into society, to say that your personal struggles were real for you is the same as saying you did good by punching a pole even when other people don't see it, and they don't see it because you did nothing good, all you did was punch a pole and hurt yourself, nothing good comes from something so close to useless and barely worth it.
This is literally spot on, as someone who genuinely struggles with genetic and mental disorders it really makes the world a ridiculous place with everyone pretending to have these problems just to fit in or have some kind of an excuse not to work hard
Fr, and now you got people taking mental health mondays at work like ffs
stress and anxiety/depression are not the same thing. while there are many people out there pretending they have anxiety just to get attention, anxiety disorders and other mental illnesses shouldn't be written off as stress. mental illnesses are out of our control, and people have them for different reasons, from genetics to trauma. today a lot of mental illnesses are thrown around like adjectives, but we shouldn't let that discredit people who are actually suffering from them.
I felt that in this video exactly this discrediting was happening because there was no evidence the dude was just stressed about an exam and that's it.
Honestly made it difficult to appreciate the speech xD
Just asking , isn't anxiety an emotion? Not a disorder? Correct me if I'm wrong.
@@seekingdeen. if you are sad all the time that's depression even though sadness is an emotion. Same logic 😀
@@seekingdeen. it is, and there are many types, the most common being GAD (generalized anxiety disorder) and social anxiety
@@Dark_Slayer3000 thanks. I only get anxiety like once a month just mainly due to pressure on my future
the fact this goes for 1:57 is crazy
I understand that people deffinately go overboard with this stuff, but i would also like to note that it doesnt mean everyones lying. We are currently going through a period for one of the first times where people accept that they might actually have a problem. Many people with actual issues think they dont. I have ptsd from my parents but i didnt know for years until i took a psych class, asked a question and it shattered my view of reality, because i had always thought i had a good relationship with my parents and it was healthy... if i had this happen then, that would have caused me to think i was wrong and avoid a serious issue i had in my life... ptsd as an example is incredibly. Most people have experianced ptsd but that doesnt mean its always some extreme thing, and while yes there is deppression the disorder, but there is also depression as a mood that can really effect people and be harmful. Have a normal conversion istead of yelling at someone... this isnt helpful.
This is a type of "chosen" ignorance, really nothing to do about it.
More pills?
This is more of a message than an example on how to treat people with supposed mental illnesses. I disagree with you on almost everything.
There's a difference between having the emotional maturity to recognize there's a problem, and blowing it out of proportions to cope with *other* issues you may have but don't want to deal with and try to sweep under the rug, in most people's cases not being happy with where they are in their lives and the book full of goals and dreams they haven't fulfilled yet. Sure, you can say your parents bad parenting is the cause of misfortune in your life and spend a fortune on psychologists, psychiatrists, and medications... in the end, if there's even one, you have achieved nothing though and only learn to be content with your boring, unfulfilling life... *that doesn't help*
@@neitherlink6612 case in point of choosing ignorance
@@neitherlink6612 im not saying that i used that fact to cope or that i went to a psychologist and took medication i didnt and my point is that because i didnt know i was constantly dealing with mountains of stress to the point where if my parent even talked to me i would freak out thinking i did something wrong because that was how bad it had gotten. Because i hadnt know it exsisted i couldnt deal with it and that made everything in my life worse. After i learned i started talking to a freind about it and found ways to reduce my overall stress so that now im significantly happier with my life and can appreceate the things i have in it.
I don't think exams are trivial if you consider how harsh different cultures can be about education. Several friends of mine have been threatened to be disowned and kicked out of their home by their parents if they didn't perform to their expectations which was practically perfection.
Some even committed suicide because of it.
This video generalizes an extremely complicated topic into a single perspective from a single culture and treats it like fact and I'm honestly disappointed with Jayden for this. It's incredibly misinformed and shortsighted.
1:01 I mean I guess but 2 things can be hard at once. Just because a mother lost a child or a soldier died in battle doesn't make anyone else's struggles easier simply because it could have been worse
I know you mean well, my guy. But I hope you didn't overly generalize. Some people can't get the help they need because they're being told to just suck it up. Stigma around mental health is still very real. And the pain of one person is not 'more valid' than another's suffering.
I don't know man I think this video is kinda tone deaf.
First thing is associating depression and anxiety with gen z, like is something that showned up because "genz can't handle a little inconvinience" but you have to consider that mental health problems weren't considered a thing by society until very recently, so one of the reasons why more people are showing up with anxiety or depression is that more people are going to a psychiatrist and being diagnosed.
Secondly, the socialeconomic status of people overall declined over the last 30 years, people are earning less and paying more, and that tends to make people very stressed constantly, being stressed constantly leads to things like burn out and anxiety that if not treated can lead to panic syndrome and/or maniac depression.
Thirdly, people and their enviroment react diferently to certain things, a thing not being a big deal to you can be a big deal to others, and if someone deals with anxiety that can be a trigger for a panic attack, who are you to judge?
This video just reinforce the shitty idea that mental health issues are "just being dramatic" and it's really disppointing to see such an insensitive video out you.
As someone who genuinely has really bad depression, I whole-heartedly agree. So many people these days are using words that actually mean something and turning it into a ha-ha goofy fun time.
What really bugs me is when they use it as an excuse to not work as hard - That's not how it works (At least for depression - I can't say for other mental illnesses) Your mental illness may be the reason you don't get as much done, but it's not an excuse - NEVER an excuse. It just means we have to work harder, fight fiercer, and be ever more aware of what we're doing.
Huge props to my other depressed homies out there - Good luck fighting the good fight!
there's a discussion to be had to about things like self-diagnosing, poor ways to handle stress, absolutely. But starting that conversation by making fun of mental illness and disabilities? denying the existence of depression, throwing this masculine "suck it up" attitude all over? awful man. very suddenly learned that I'm not the audience you want to cultivate :(
ah, I didn't know about his twitter, this *is* the type of audience he wants. that sucks. Really I couldn't give a crap if you made political, right wing videos. Denying mental illness is a different thing. Hope I simply misread the skit.
Yeah, I was really hoping this would go in a better direction, but it was just a straight-up rant against... what, tolerance of mental illness? That really sucks...
He's talking about the people who make it their whole personality, my sister has this problem and shuts out everyone that she doesn't agree with. If I even talk about advice like her getting a job (she's 18) she just yells at me until I shut up. She acts like she has been traumatized by my mother?? Who was just trying to make her more independent and have her progress in life and blames all her problems on her.
@@AmericanIdiot7659 If you actually watched the video, dude with the panic attack only got two sentences in and the whole time was just getting words put in his mouth and getting talked down to. He didn't do anything near making it his personality, he just mentioned it while talking about his day, and the plaid shirt version got triggered.
@@AmericanIdiot7659 how did this character make it their whole personality
Jaden you know there's something sour in your words but a sweet meaning behind every skit.....that is amazing.
I- Didn't see the sweet ending? I Just saw someone saying that most people who are diagnosed with anxiety and depression are actually lazy sheep ^^'
@@SilverdennTo me I can see a distinction between someone who suffers from anxiety and someone who suffers from “anxiety” in this video. I guess the sweet meaning would be that not everything is a reason to cry about something.
Whats sweet about this hes basically just saying that people make depression up, its a horrible anti-scientific message that people already get all the time
@@licbeshs5625 validated by who, licbeshs5625? lol
@@lady_deaths_headno, he's pretty much correct.
First off, antidepressants barely help. There's scientific data on it but of course no one is reporting on it.
Big pharma DOES want you hooked on pills. This is not some big conspiracy lol.
Most people DON'T have the illnesses they claim they do. You really think 70% of Americans actually need to take a pill every day? No lol. Don't be dumb.
Nothing what he said was anti scientific. If it is, you're free to send some research.
As an emt who's worked on ambulances and ERs, having seen countless f*cked up situations and death, this vid really resonated on how it feels to talk to a lot of people that have not really suffered in their lives.
They don't know what depression is, they don't know what ptsd is. Many patients I've seen and cared for have had a real right to define their state with those, but the irony is: the people that actually have these want to change that. Those who have dealt with true hardship want to improve because they know what hell can be like in their lives
Bullshit take, you don't need to witness a gory death or be close to dying to feel worthless, powerless or totally numb
@@friedrichjaeger367 Well it certainly does make those feelings more prominent in one's mind and it usually is only those who have been faced with lifes true hardships, it's not only about gore or death but "TRUE" hardships meaning illness poverty lack of a meaning in life such as no one to care about and all of lifes horrible woes including but not limited to DEATH AND NEAR DEATH EXPERIENCES.
Edit: Miss spell.
While I understand where you're coming from, not all, or even most of the people who have suffered want to get better. I have seen people with major depressive disorder slowly rot away, they don't even seem like the same person anymore.. Like they have nothing left in their soul to give to anyone or anything. Depression and anxiety are illnesses that exist, and are crippling. This entire thing of people constantly claiming to have depression or anxiety with no diagnosis and no genuine symptoms just overshadows those who don't leave their rooms for weeks at a time, people who just can't do it anymore and take their own lives.
Have had one or two people go off on me like this, they usually stop talking like that when I tell them it's cause I got a chronic illness that's slowly killing me.
I’m so sorry man. I honestly don’t know how else to respond because I am still in awe that Jaden would stoop so low as to degrade and stereotype everyone who says they have mental issues regardless of whether or not it is actually true. I pray that by some miracle your condition gets better.
I have something thats slowly killing me too.. I get your struggle..
@@AD03_ Get your head out of your butt. This is a real problem with society these days. Mental health problems are actually extremely rare, but now everybody is acting like they’re a dime a dozen. Jaden isn’t stopping or anything.
I have seriously bad issues that almost got me in serious trouble and I really appreciate Jaden speaking up about this. Obviously he’s not talking about the people with true problems, he’s made it extremely clear that this is aimed at the VAST majority of people who only think or pretend they have problems.
I was fully expecting a reversal at the end so respect for sticking with it XD. The freaking side eye nearly killed me too.
-Framed for stupid people! *glances at camera* brilliant xD
Last line should have been "You're a terrible therapist!"
@@KingCarrotRL that would have turned this video from a 0/10 to a 10 in record time
I’ve always felt this but could never out it into words. Thank you for making this video. I can now send this to people instead of typing all my emotions 😋
I think this one is complicated. some of his points were right, but some were misunderstanding the definitions of depression and stuff. Some people genuinely have mental illnesses and need help and some people have such bad home lives that they develop mental illnesses. but at the same time you also have plenty of people pretending to be mentally ill to get sympathy
a bunch of people think that he's trying to attack people with mental illness, he's just trying to make fun of posers and people who exaggerate their problems. I can see that he drew a pretty fine line between the two when he was talking about it, but the line is still there
You know it sucks because I can't tell if I have actual depression or not.
@@thenickstrikebetterspeak to a professional about getting diagnosed
@@thenickstrikebetterif you really feel that bad then get medical help. But 90% chance that you're just sad. Like every mfer who thinks they have depression
@@MaddSpazz2000I've been going to counselling since the start of the issues and I think I'm feeling a lot better. (If you're wondering what happened. I lost my grandfather and one of my dogs in the same week, and some effects from the 2020's)
I still don't know but I actually don't think I care too much because I think I'm getting better.
My brother is exactly that character, can't talk to him about anything without telling me depression, anxiety, and my daughter's autism are all in my head. But this was entertaining lol
I think the guy in blue is the one he is making fun of by the ending. I think he is just giving a bad take.
@@uku4171 i get that! Just saying people like that really exist LOL
@@uku4171 yep. Bad take. My gf was like "wtf are you listening to?" And I said don't worry, it's a bit. Got to the end and saw his comments and had to be like "Ok, so it wasn't a bit 🫤"
Was it? I just thought it was kinda traumatic :]
@@kuro.hitsuji Well yes, they exist, and the creator of this video is one of them, is what I'm saying.
I genuinely can’t tell if Jaden is for or against the “suck it up” attitude
he dumbed it down as much as possible and ya still missed it. No hope
@@THESLlCKI think he's smarter than to say that millions of people's life experiences aren't real Lmao
@@skyyy7544He saying Western people are pathetically mentally weak. Which is true it seems nowadays everybody wants to be a victim. I rarely see this in any culture besides Americans.
@@skyyy7544 I'd hope so, but doesn't seem like it.
@@skyyy7544 Pretty common take so it wouldn't be a surprise unfortunately
Gotta give a fat disagree there
Some people are actually predisposed to intense random bouts of depression
We've come a long way since my parents' generation to realize this, you absolutely positively do not have to like reach a supposed "threshold" of depression to "justify" it to someone.
Doctors diagnose people for a reason
exactly dude. Doctors/psychologists/psychiatrists/years of research say it’s depression, but Jaden says it’s Gen Z being soft. He’s usually funny but he is just uninformed right here
Having moments of intense sadness and actual depression are different. Same with panic attacks and just being anxious.
The guy was making fun of the people who overreact to stress and immediately call it depression, dont take it too literally
@@beaugantz4888 totally agree man
And even if it is y'know as they say "just a joke" it's still giving those people who like "don't believe" in mental illnesses a voice. And that is something we absolutely do not need
Very boomer mentality
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Messed up. It's not about "getting cancelled" and people being "too sensitive", but recognising that the global population can experience more than one problem simultaneously.
There are people who overanalyze their problems and self-diagnose issues they don't have, either because they're not willing to work hard or because they are internalising what the media shows them - but there are ALSO people who haven't been through "traumatic events", yet still experience chemical imbalances that make them numb or miserable without external causes.
We can recognise both without reducing mental health to a joke to be cancelled over.
he did not reduce mental health to a “joke”. he created a *skit* out of a real problem with people these days.
1:03 but sometimes some people are depressed not because they're sad or something, but because they aren't motivated enough to live, they can't reach happiness even if they have all they could wish, depression is way more complicated than just sadness
Noticed how the guy with no hat is continually getting angrier at his friend for nothing over the course of this video. Makes it seem like he's taking out his own stress and denials by talking down to dude in the cap.
I don't know, maybe what you said is right, that's the hidden meaning. But I think its an actual satire for relevant problem these days, when kid easily diagnosed themselves with hundred of mental ilnesses for some minor inconvenience and use it as an excuse to lazying around.
@@navdalf3643 But the video doesn't give you any reason to think that. There's no meat on that bone because the guy who might be mentally ill only gets to speak like one time, and that's him casually talking about his problems. He never even mentions self diagnosis or faking, he just makes it seem like the idea of being mentally ill is ridiculous.
@@navdalf3643 if satire doesn’t clearly define what’s being caricatured, it’s bad satire
@@navdalf3643 ok so let's say that this is what is happening in most cases of depression, why would someone care honestly?
why would you guys care and get angry about tons of teenagers that say they have depression but according to the video it's just because they're still childs who can't deal with stress and are making this a excuse to "lazy around" like why? why would someone get angry at this? it's really that important?
"I take meds you know"
"I don't give a f what your DOCTOR said you have, you're just someone who don't know how to deal with stress because you're a man child, the old times were better, you just want a excuse so that you don't need to work as hard as everyone else"
he take meds... you don't go to the drug store and grab meds for depression like candy you to a doctor appointment and I don't know jaiden but, hear me out ok hear me out I think just a thought
I think a doctor knows more about depression than a TH-camr who makes comedy shorts
To be fair, you can get panic attacks from schooling if the people around you are unsupportive, highly pressuring, degrade any effort and insult anything you show an interest in because they "wish you were that good at studying".
Took about 6 years of that before I started having panic attacks from not being able to meet deadlines.
I once failed out of two classes because i couldn't study without legitimately hyperventilating and a falling apart. I couldn't focus on studying because my brain was stuck in a panic loop. My doctor said i have ptsd connected to failing in school, and it made a lot of sense. Even then i kind of doubted his professional diagnoses because of toxic attitudes like in this video. The person depicted in this video is medically diagnosed. I like jaden's content, but this is a swing and a miss
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School has a huge impact on your life too
Well that sounds like your lazy me personally.
@@dr0gonb0y53 0/10 rage bait. you suck
Ive had panic attacks before so the difference is obvious 2me. Stress is just discomfort. Panic attacks are when a switch flips and the world around you become your enemy. Hyperventilating, legs bouncing around from muscle spasms, drenched in cold sweat, and when its over ur body has been through so much u just fall asleep. I dont have them anymore and i dont know what caused them but they are not a casual experience they are brutal.
Can be triggered by thought patterns or tons of different stimulus depending on the person and situation. It's the brain going into hardcore fight or flight mode without a genuine trigger like a life or death situation. Panic attacks exist mostly of abstract fear and lots of adrenaline (thus the feeling super tired afterward). I've had plenty of them.
Best advice: Sit down somewhere calm, focus on deep breathing (as you'll naturally want to hyperventilate with small breaths), and think about everything positive in your life. Friends, family, possessions, religion, whatever you're grateful for and happy you have. If you can muster up enough willpower it'll end in 5-10 minutes. I've had one that lasted for 8 hours :D But that was also fueled by bad choices.
Is it that one thay feels like you're having a heart attack?
Sick people: "My blood sugar is messed up"
Everyone: "Cool bro, have some insulin"
Other Sick People: "I have a chemical imbalance in my brain"
Assholes: "ROFL suck it up then!"
I'm just so tired of trying to fight against this closed-minded idiocy...
I’m conflicted. Some of these points are accurate, but it’s very oversimplified and lacks nuance. I think people do overuse these terms, but at the same time there are people like me who are working every day to be better. These labels might seem strange or irrelevant to some, but they help me find solutions and move through my problems. I think society is just in a vulnerable place. Yelling at people to suck it up won’t do much. Just because someone’s trauma isn’t as simple as someone dying doesn’t mean it isn’t valid. Of course there are those who call a slightly uncomfortable experience “traumatic” which makes the word redundant. This video feels more like hitting someone down when they are weak rather than helping them up and letting them take time to heal and move on. I don’t know if that was the intention, but society has just become self aware. The problem is we only have two view points that people love to support. Either everyone is a victim and life is horrible, or stop being a wimp. No getting stronger or trying to become a better person while acknowledging your flaws and insecurities and trials… people only care about making bold statements for views and attention. I don’t know. I kind of understand because I’ve known people who have done really crappy things and just said “yeah sorry it was my anxiety” but I struggle a lot. SO MANY PEOPLE DO. I think our role in society is to help others and let others help you, all heal and become better people together. Not just “get over it”- that’s the issue. Society has been about building up anger and then taking it out on someone and it’s a horrible cycle. We (in the western world) are just over correcting. I sob over the stupidest crap. It doesn’t make me feel any better to know that it’s worthless to do so. I just have to let go and eventually move on. I don’t know. This approach might be bold and trendy but it’s just not it. I won’t unfollow you or anything, there are just people I won’t agree with and that’s life, but I hope you at least read some of the comments disagreeing who aren’t just plain offended and lashing out. Have a good one.
"as simple as someone dying" Lord have mercy that sounds so heartless. Other than that I pretty much agree, but see how you managed to describe your issues without using "depression", "panic attack" or any self-harm related terms ? That's all it is about
Really. A 2 minute comedy skit is overly simplifying a nuanced issue? Alert the media, this is a headline story.
IT WASNT DIRECTED AT YOU SPECIFICALLY! HE’S NOT SAYING YOU DONT HAVE PROBLEMS HE’S SAYING TOO MANY PEOPLE OVERREACT ABOUT A BIT OF STRESS NOW!
The first couple sentences were all I needed, just take my like and leave, I don’t have the energy to read all this ,_,
It literally filled my entire screen.
@@rhysp9818 if that was his point, then he made it poorly
@Jaden Williams its not an experience problem buddy its a mental issue lots of ppl have depression but a lot of ppl fake it so its not just about loss.
People have entire personal and internal lives beyond what you see on the internet. Even though it might look to you like they're overreacting, that doesn't mean their issues can't be very real.
I get what you're trying to say, but to insinuate you need to have some big traumatic thing happen is just flat out wrong. My mom was fucking depressed to the point she let herself die. She had a good life with plenty of people that loved her. She was still depressed. Was it because she was weak or because she had an illness? From what you're saying its because she wasn't trying hard enough to see the good side and because she didn't embrace the stressful situation she was in. Man you really need to reconsider your position. =/
It seriously sucks to see someone I've thought was pretty funny go from comedy to a poorly thought out generalization about something they clearly don't understand.
I am sorry about your loss and agree that it is wrong of him to condense such a deep topic in a 2 min video and it can't possibly cover all the related topics which should be considered when discussing mental illnesses and depression
but here's what I believe he is trying to portray.
He is talking about minor inconveniences such as exams, having to do a little over the expected margine and such which can be gotten over with a little hardwork. It is very much possible that anyone would fall under depression due to current social structure and no one is discrediting anyone nor saying that depression can be cured by hardwork.
@@MagicallyamazingStuff I don't think exams are trivial if you consider how harsh different cultures can be about education. Several friends of mine have been threatened to be disowned and kicked out of their home by their parents if they didn't perform to their expectations which was practically perfection.
Some even committed suicide because of it.
This video generalizes an extremely complicated topic into a single perspective and treats it like fact and I'm honestly disappointed with Jayden for this. It's incredibly misinformed and shortsighted
that’s the main problem with this, he just does not understand this topic and made never effort to.
@@MagicallyamazingStuff
he literally says most teens say they have depression because they're childs who can't deal with stress
what happened to the old days when people tried just to be better
why do you feed into this? is because you're lazy? and you just want a excuse so that you don't need to work as hard as everyone one else?
and WHAT THE ACTUAL F is he trying to say with all the pharmaceutical conspiracy?? like "they want you to believe you have depression so they can get money"??
Jaiden you don't go to a drug store and buy drugs for your depression casually like "hey let me get this highly strong drug for me cause I diagnosed myself yesterday yay!!" No you...
you go to a doctor ffs, so like you're saying that ALL DOCTORS FROM ALL OVER THE WORLD (cause idk if you know depression exist on other places outside of the USA) are in this big conspiracy for money? so instead of giving the Gen Z a reality check they say that they have depression so that they can sell drugs for kids WOW GENIUS
nothing that this guys says on the video makes sense, maybe it's just the character maybe it's not jaiden but there are people defending what this character said on the comments and it makes more difficult to separate this character from jaiden when you see that he liked a lot of comments agreeing with this message
This is the smile your depression away of comedy videos. Usually love your stuff but this was just lame.
It’s true tho
@@yessir5913 in general no. It rings a small amount of truth, But most of it is downright ridiculous and harmful to those who actually struggle with mental illnesses.
@@yessir5913 Umm... no. Its possible to push through some degree of anxiety or depression, but severe bouts don't leave you enough willpower to push through.
It's like being told to do hard labour while exhausted: being told to stop being lazy isn't going to do much when your muscles give out. Circumstances might trigger you to manage a little more, but there's a limit.
@@BeeTreeOil it’s true tho about the smile your depression away not what ever your saying it was a joke about the smile your depression away and obviously I’m not very funny
That glance to the camera at "stupid people" XD
Oooof. L take, my guy
While I understand the idea of not wanting people to just say they have anxiety or depression, it’s kind of demeaning to people who actually do. You don’t know how crippling it is to not be able to speak because you’re overstimulated. It’s anxiety vs people being stupid.
@@Jim-gyswry someone’s mad and looking for validation
@rubythebee3958 that would be you
@@kreativ88 Nobody asked why are you even here?
I dont agree with this video about points made, and the extremes they use to actually define depression is the most extreme of circumstances. I think the execution for the jokes need improvement for topics like this but thats just my opinion.
Yikes. Panic Attacks are no fun, and not always logical in their reasoning. I was waiting for the punchline... now I'm just kinda sad I have to unsubscribe.
same
It’s comedy
Its stress, not panic attack. Its normal, everyone feel that. There is no logical reasoning, just funny reasoning to be pitied and cared for when the reason is just a minor inconvenience like got an E in daily test. If you get stressed, don't diagnosed yourself like youre the saddest in this world and create a sad, depressed, suicidal status. Just laugh it off and do better next time. Seriously, why you guys really want to be mentally Ill when youre not 😂
@@navdalf3643 ok
@@navdalf3643 Thanks for the diagnosis homie
Hey man, I do love your skits and have been watching.
I won't lie to you though, I was born in 1991, and panic attacks suck so much and 100% real. I'm telling you this as someone who has them and hasn't gone to the doctor for the exact same reason you described.
I do agree that there are people that throw the word anxiety around and do not actually have things going on, but there are definitely others that experience anxiety in their own ways.
See, the thing is too. One way I know if people are faking anything is if they talk about it too much for attention. Since you're situation is very much real and not nearly as common as people portray in order to be able to call them panic attacks vs. stress, they'd have to be severe but I'm sure you don't have to announce or put it on blast in the speakers or make tik toks about it.
@@TheFool12-12 Absolutely, man. Nope. I'm not a TikTok user, but I don't want them nullifying the reality that some do suffer from real anxiety.
@@Haunting_Shadowhe never did state it doesn't exist yk. But it is a fact that it has become trendy to have these things, to avoid Accountability.
@@krulak292 Someone recently clarified this to me, but thank you anyway.
Very, very important distinction. People who’ve never had panic attacks before have a hard time understanding what they’re like compared to stress. I’m definitely not an expert on the subject, but stress is a lot more constant and the worst symptom is sweating and having a short temper at most. When I had a panic attack for the first time, I was struggling to breathe and couldn’t move because of how much I was shaking. I understand I’m preaching to the choir here, but I wanted to reaffirm your point because of how important it is.
God the way he glanced at the viewers for a second made me laugh harder than it should
As someone with bipolar, adhd, and really bad anxiety, (I am diagnosed don't come for me lol) I hate people who fake illnesses. I also hate people that call me lazy when I have adhd paralysis, "just sad" when they figure out I have depression, and "a scaredy cat" when I am worried or thinking of what can go wrong. Even worse, when a girl cries they get comforted, when I cry I am told to suck it up because I am a male. I had all 3 of my childhood dogs I have known for my entire life die in the span of _one month_. I just sobbed a minute ago. It sucks. Yet not a _single person_ comforted me or tried to give any sympathy at all. The only one that did anything to comfort me was my mother. If she dies I don't know what I will do. Good video dude. Love your channel.
It's terrible that these things have happened to and around you. This world is absolutely undue in it's cruelty. I hope you're able to pull through this, and get the support you need.
Bro don’t worry me and hopefully others are with u ❤❤ if no one will be a homie than I will.
ay bro you ain't alone man, I'm sorry the world's treating you like this, but you got everyone in this reply section on your side and I truly wish you the best of luck.
@@Neiroe You guys don't know how much I needed this. Thank you.
@@KingQ. You guys don't know how much I needed this. Thank you.
Wheres the comedy
Video was funny, but also cringe because mental illness is real and you can’t just deny someone’s own personal experience lol
This video will affect people. It will make people feel less about themselves and feel inadequate to the standards that are pushed onto them through their physical environment and their online ones. People are complicated, and while some make stuff up for attention, others actually need the help and support of the people around them, and videos like this perpetuate the external and internal struggle of the people who need help and push them further away from asking for the support they need.
It's videos like this that perpetuate stereotypes, isolate affected people and push others to become more judgemental, negative and unhappy. That's my two cents, and I hope anyone who is struggling with anything (whether you know what it is or not) is doing ok and takes this video with a grain of salt, knowing that not everyone thinks this way, and that there will always be people willing to support you even if you have to look for them.
This is the second time this video has popped up in my recommended, and it pissed me off way more this time than the first. Thank god there's at least a few rational people down here.
Me: “I hate myself, I have too much anxiety, and I don’t like anything anymore and nothing has meaning.”
My thoughts: “Well, other people have it worse than you.”
Me: “But what about me? Like bro I tried to injure myself a few times.”
My thoughts: “Other people have worse lives than you, so you and your feelings don’t matter. Maybe you should hurt yourself for having false feelings.”
Oh god I hate those types of people for real. "I have clinical depression" and then they respond with "There are people with REAL trauma what happened to you" like they think that clinical depression is because something made you really sad and not a disease caused by genetics.
No….no its not. Clinical depression is literally having the symptoms of depression regardless of any life event or circumstance as opposed to “post-partum depression”, “manic depression” or any form of depression defined by a circumstance context. That’s literally why clinical depression has a medical diagnosis with its own definition. What you just said is the complete reverse of the truth
@@cynicreviewer I think you missed the tone of that sentence, where he’s implying the person saying the quote fundamentally doesn’t understand that statement, whereas the commenter absolutely understands that depression is caused by a chemical imbalance and is not linked to any traumatic event.
@@nathanieleck1023 yeah, you're right. I just reread it and didnt even realize that you could read it the oppisite of what I meant. I'll see if I can edit it to be more clear what I meant.
@@nathanieleck1023 appreciate you letting me know
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I hope we're supposed to be making fun of the person facing the right and not the one facing the left 😭
I don’t think so. I wish we were because he’s the more comically misguided
Nope.
The guy facing the right has a lot of true points.
Yeah this video is really misinformed I feel.
It's like it's saying depression doesn't exist.
Very distasteful
@Paul Phoenix I don't think that was his intention (not like I know the guy). I felt like his point was more that there are people out there who struggle with depression, anxiety, ptsd, and that's valid and terrible. But there are also people who call regular everyday problems depression, anxiety, etc for attention and that's deeply frustrating.
I could be wrong, maybe the message was worse than I thought
People are different. They process stress and feelings differrently than the other. One might take a failure and thought its no big deal but the other would take a C and think its the worst thing that ever happened to them.
Yes you can do better but there are ways to go around it. The worse thing you can do is doing it by yourself. Seek help with your close ones.
While agree with your overall sentiment, I believe that chemical imbalances and differences in our physiological make-up do have psychological impacts; which medication and treatment plans do genuinely help with.
Okay just a theory but…
Maybe this is a representation of his inner monologue, him always feeling stressed and panicky and just beating himself up over it
tbh yeah I totally agree with you. I listened to the video again and it literally sounded like he was beating himself up. too bad people think that this was an attack on people with real mental illness
Why would he beat himself up? And over what? Did i miss something?
@@dr0gonb0y53 you must be new.
*proceeds to k!ll himself later due to having actual problems he never talked about due to anxiety*
Hard swing, heavy miss with this video In my honest opinion. It's very true that people toss around mental health labels because they're just edgelord sigma 12 year olds that are sad they can't stream Fortnite for a living, but this type of gaslighting is exactly is what is harming mentally ill people. This frankly feels like a take that someone who has never dealt with mental health before would say- specifically granted the specifications of the conversation, such as having panic attacks and taking meds for it. News flash, you don't need to witness a building blowing up to have a panic attack. Anxiety strikes irrationally and it strikes randomly. Instead of this lecturing, black and white method of responding to mental health problems, maybe we should try to...idk... understand more?
he isn't trying to make fun of people with genuine issues and health problems, but rather trying to call out those who hyperbole their hardships and conditions for selfish reasons. I get how people could get the opposite idea of what he wants then to when they watch the video, whether they think he's calling all mental illness and medication fake and attacking him for it, or taking the same message from the video and agreeing with it. I genuinely believe this video wasn't made to offend anyone other than posers and such, but I can definitely see where you're coming from
@@mathsasian yes yes but this needs to be delivered in better taste. writing 101: your protagonist, who is supposedly the good guy, looks like the bad guy without context. right now, it looks like a dude is beating on anyone who’s actually suffering, but a tiny bit of context would have made this video okay. hard swing, heavy miss.
There is no “genuine trauma” trauma is a response that the brain creates to cope with a…. Traumatic event.
Having someone die in your arms can absolutely cause very deeply ingrained trauma that may take a very long time if ever.
But the reality of our world, is that a parent can make a child suffer trauma that can be just as difficult, and take as long to treat, if it ever does.
But hey, I’m just someone who is not an expert 🤷♂️
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Coming from somebody who actually has depression, Thank you. I am so sick to death of people using depression as an excuse for everything, When most of the time it’s a lie. Love you for being real my man.
Gotta say, don’t really like this one. Like, I understand where you’re coming from, but I don’t the mentality in this video accomplishes anything productive. It is frustrating when people mis/overuse terms like panic attack and depression, sure. But the points in this video invalidate a lot of very real experiences.
Who gets to say whether someone is depressed /enough/ or anxious /enough/? It just doesn’t make sense to me that you would get to make that call rather than the person going through those experiences or a trained professional.
I dunno man, the message in this video is pretty fucked.
I like how they look at the camera for a split second like they know there being filmed.
it is almost as if it was framed so that stupid people could understand.
To let stupid people (looks at camera) understand
I like how you call him they. 😂😂
@@heyitsjustme.680 they clearly meant both of the people because they assumed that it happened multiple times within the video after only seeing it once from one of the characters
Mixed thoughts on this video - on one side it's a legitimately good message towards the numerous amounts of people nowadays who have Munchausen's syndrome, but it's also a direct attack on the people who legitimately have a mental disorder/illness they have to fight.
Many guys are certainly not tough enough and should suck it up, especially if they're faking it, but at the same time, many guys have also been told to suck it up so many times, they eventually become desentisized to that, and end up being worse than what they could've been had they been helped.
Very controversial video
EDIT 1: After some thoughts, ultimately, the approach the creator of this video has towards someone who's expressing their feelings is very, very questionable as well. Instead of listening to the concerns the 1st guy has, he just shuts it down.
It depends on how the 1st guy takes it, but if he doesn't take it well, that can cause trauma. Repress too much of it, and it will explode, and the 2nd guy, if his mental threshold is not strong enough, will end up doing something that will harm him.
So you are saying, that people with depression have no right to be depressed, because there are others that have expierenced worse things? If you tell that to someone with depression, you get an assist for the suicide.
exactly.
Yeah, that's what it looks like. Apparently you have no right to seek treatment for mental conditions if other people have had it worse. Maybe people should consider everyone handles life differently? video is a pretty big yikes if you ask me.
@@atanon you have depression, oh boy just be happy is that easy
Where did this come from, after all the genuinely funny skits? Like there isn't even a good joke in this one, just hopping up on your soapbox to preach to your viewer base. And this attitude of being so scared of getting "cancelled" is so silly and self-centered. Huge L
I get the meaning behinnd it but at the same time this is the exact same thing that some people who do have these things will think about. They deminish their own symptoms and say "its not that bad, someone has it worse" until its too late and it's affecting their life in a significant way. the best is to share with your doc or seek counseling and share about your worries.
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like the truth is somewhere in between, it's complicated, but I think the pendulum should swing back
IMO this vid would've gained so much by the smallest hint of context to let us know that the first guy didn't actually have a panic attack. It just looks like someone trying to play it down without that.
everyone's hating on him now bc they don't understand what kind of people it's directed to and now I'm just disappointed T-T
@@mathsasian I'm not hating on him but I do think that this here in particular is not a good skit, it's not the viewers' fault if he put no context on whether or not the other guy actually had a panic attack, which turns a potentially valid argument about the people it was targeted to, to an harmful message about playing down mental health issues of people who haven't suffered trauma but still can be depressed. On top of that it can barely be considered a comedy skit at all, there's literally just one "joke" which is "snowflake whines on twitter" which is the most overused, bland thing you could imagine. I like Jaden's videos overall but this one's a miss for me
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@@edoardocaccia6226 I don't think he was referencing you specifically.
EXACTLY
This video is so satisfying 😂😂😂 There are a lot of people out there really struggling, but there are even more just faking mental struggles as an excuse for their shortcomings or just for attention 😅
Bro, he looked me dead in the eyes then said stupid people 💀 🤣. I feel targeted I can't stop laughing
Oh man, it's stuff like this that makes me want to keep silent about my feelings, everyone says they're normal, no matter how abnormal they feel. I'm never sure if I'm being true or not, whether that's truth to myself and/or others
Well I just resort to tell these feelings that they are pure fiction and useless.
Also I got family and get to socialize and finally I always know I got the power of God to back me up when times are grim.
Average stoicism W
@@AviatorJCWell if telling yourself the feelings are fake is all it takes for them to go away, sounds like it wasn't much at all. That wouldn't work for anyone with an actual disorder.
Depression is also being unable to get out of bed, while sleeping 16 hours a day. At 1 point I thought that was normal, it went too far when food was no longer tasty and I had no fun while being with my friends
But depression can be fixed. It's a state of mind, not some severe mental illness that can't be cured. If you let yourself be depressed then you'll be depressed. The only thing you can have complete control over is your mind. If you can't control that, then you can't control anything.
@@BrothaLove-qw1ly You do not have complete control over your mind. Hormones and other chemicals control A LOT of what and how you think, people really underestimate that. If that wasn't the case, brain medication wouldn't work, drugs would have no effect, etc.
@Guilherme Fernandez if you let hormones control you, they will. I you're a guy, and you jack off because you're horny, and you're letting hormones control you. You should be able to resist temptation.
@@BrothaLove-qw1ly You have to be incredibly ignorant to think that you are in complete control of your mind
@@Gedofat the same time, the belief that you can do something can push people to do things they thought they couldnt, like a bodybuilder reaching a larger weight. The mind is psychological just as much as its physical, probably even more
I get that it’s a comedy but depression does have several causes and sometimes it just comes completely out of the blue. My generation HAS made the word depressed a sort of slang for just being sad but most of the time actual depression just isn’t caused by anything. Some people are just built differently and only feel a really small amount of happiness so it’s hard for them to not feel sad and I think that’s clinical depression, probably not PTSD. Stress is quite rational but the longer you hold onto those thoughts, the more irrational it gets. So if you’re a student with a lot of stress just remember to put the thoughts down for a few hours.
he's trying to make fun of the people who hyperbole their problems for attention and such. I get where you're coming from but I believe he knows there are people who seriously have to deal with these sort of issues, he's just trying to call out posers
@@mathsasianI would agree if he didn’t add the medication conspiracy. If someone is on Xanax then they likely need it and aren’t overblowing their issues.
Don't suck it up get professional help. Mental Health is real and some people do over use the terms. Everyone gets depressed and anxious but not everyone has depression and anxiety!
The only people who have takes like this have never had an actual panic attack. Its not like being stressed, ypu literally feel like you're dying, physically. Your hearts beating faster than ever, you consistently feel nauseous and its hard to move around. Its not something light nor is it easy
Takes like what, the blue shirt guy or the other guy
There's so much scientifically wrong in this video lol
What about people that actually have panic attacks though-
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@@flippy3930 forgetting about the part where he says depression is for people who suffered real traumas.
And even in the video he says he’s medicated. Meaning he’s diagnosed. Meaning he is one of those real people with one of those real problems.
@@nathanieleck1023 That's probably where his anger with all the "self diagnosed" people is coming from.
@@flippy3930 but in the video he’s attacking someone who is actually diagnosed, meaning this monologue is definitely meant for those people too…
@@flippy3930 oh no, sorry, only old people are allowed to be mentally ill, oh sorry, those, Ptsdeed soldiers and Grieving mothers yeah, just those, the rest can get fucked
"But i dropped to the floor and felt like i actually couldnt breathe-"
"Tsk, sounds like normal stress to me."
over an english test?
@@ameridev suprisingly yeah. If youre having thoes reactions over an english test you most likely arent normal dawg
@@ameridev Different people, different mental thresholds.
skill issue@@nathanhosea489
No he is saying people that deal with a bit of stress and are okay say there depressed THATS the skit
And he is saying quit lying about it and just say your stressed
Intense video. Loved it. But, what I love even more is being able to read the other sides of it. It's great when there are videos that challenge things and bring out discussions. Keep it up!
This video wildly miss characterizes depression, those were all examples of sadness that can lead to depression.
Yeah, depression can take many forms. For me, it's always just been an overwhelming nothingness. Just numb, and empty feeling all the time for no reason.
Depression can also come from anyone. There's a reason seemingly "happy" people kill themselves. If depression was so easy to fix as "strive to be better," people wouldn't lose their lives to it.
Watching people not understand the message kinda sucks. People are saying "oh he's saying panic attacks aren't real" or "oh depression isn't real" when that's literally the opposite of what he's saying. He's saying too many people recognize stuff like severe anxiety and depression in their lives when in reality they're just immature.
I'll report this for the wrong use of hastag
Bruh you think this is comedy💀
Avoid the overcorrection. Mental health is nuanced, like so many things are. On one hand, you are absolutely spot on, we should stop saying we are OCD about what are just pet peeves, stop calling high stress moments in life panic attacks, or feeling sad, even distraught depressed (depressed =/= sad, in fact sometimes its almost the lack of any emotion). I endured a depressive episode before, fortunately not major depression disorder, that lasted several months which I pulled myself out of by changing my lifestyle (would you have guessed it was during the pandemic, no sad event triggered this). I wouldn't call it clinical depression, but I would call it depression. I'd say more but it's probably not worth the effort for TH-cam comments section
I still think your funny. Just missed on this one.
@@jaiwallia2843Deppression can be, and is often, entirely genetic, where you have chemical imbalances within the brain.
@@hael776"wah wah wah muh genetics"
@@Idk-rb8qw You sound like a literal 12 year old who can't formulate why I'm wrong (because that would require any kind of reason or evidence). And besides, I never said I had deppresion, I just stated a medical fact.
@@Idk-rb8qwbroo forgot how to make a sentence💀💀
@@hael776completely fair, but with the amount of people saying they have depression whenever they have a sad thought... if this many people’s ancestors had depression, I imagine there’d be less people. In my personal experience, the people who’ve said they’ve had depression were attention or pity seekers. I’m not denying that it exists and that people have it, but to many people claim they have it for me to legitimately take it seriously.
... did you just look at the camera when you said "stupid people" ??????
This would be fair if you know suicide rates aren't in the million a year from primarily millenial and gen z population. Some fake it sure but it's a cold hard fact that this is the single most ACTUALLY depressed generation since the great depression.
It's not that surprising. Children right now are growing up with what, 5 crisis?
that’s exactly what he’s fucking ignoring. Whatever you want to belittle, people are dying.
@@guywithshield Every generation of children grew up with crises. It doesn't make you unique - how you deal with it defines you.
@@Corbomite_Meatballs Not every crisis is the same, especially when half of ones I can think of were outside of North America in the past 110 years. Everything from 1990 to now has school shootings, pandemics, the internet, unsolved police brutality, housing crisis, the recession, more suicides than murders, and a massive increase in the homeless population. Name a generation you can still talk to that had all that on their home land in the past. I haven't even scraped the surface of the "crisis" Millenials & gen z are competing with.
@@guywithshield minimum
i love most of your content, but perpetuating this idea that people don't have issues is extremely unproductive. I couldn't talk to strangers before i started taking my meds. when i stood up in class for presentations i nearly fainted. yes there are a lot of people that say they have illnesses that don't have them, but if you are on meds, then you actually do have an issue. not to mention i became way more productive after my meds.
Yeah you have the same in Europe though with functional farma regulation.
People can just have mental issues.
That's all