Trying to Fake Being Happy: Samantha Davis v Matthew Davis S24 E13
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 1 ต.ค. 2024
- Samantha says she feels trapped in her marriage with Matthew who is verbally abusive cheater who won’t pay bills. Matthew wants her to grow up and to be a good wife to him.
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It's so depressing knowing that there are people out there- mostly women- who wasted their time, youth and reproductive abilities on straight up monsters and predators like this. It's never too late but this is so damn sad.
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As an older woman, I can honestly say that the worst manipulative or abusive men I put up with have repeated the pattern continuously. We must teach our girls not to think 'bad boys' are fun and can be rescued. We must help girls feel better about themselves and their rights to decent treatment.
I wasted my 7 yrs too
Walk away girl
She needs to be strong and walk away from him.
After hearing how he treats her I'm baffled on how she kept letting him get her pregnant. LEAVE THAT CHEATER!
I think he controls her through emotional abuse, which if that's the case, I can understand why she kept getting pregnant.
@@wolfmancool yea..sad but true. I agree it's the emotional abuse that is draining her self esteem and self worth. And he definitely knows what he's doing #Selfish
She was 19 when they started dating he groomed her to not leave unfortunately
@@Sabrewood13 sad but true
Tbh I would of never been able to have sex cause chileeeeeee
If he cheats once and you take him back, you've opened a door because he will do it again and again. There's nothing wrong with being single ladies, it's not a disease.
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Facts
Amen 🙏👍💯❤️.
Aaaaaamen!
Say it all the time better to be single and have peace of mind
She’s cried the whole show. It’s time to move on. 😢 she’s beautiful. She’ll be ok.
EXACTLY 😢
That's the sad thing...she cried the whole time, but says she still wanted to make it work. If you're experiencing more bad times than good, it's time to go! She's young and probably feels trapped. But she can do much better in life on her own.
@@MsBizzyRae she said at about the 7:20 mark that she doesn’t want her kids to grow up in a broken home like she did. So I don’t think she will leave. People don’t realise that just because you stay married and in the same home, it doesn’t mean that it isn’t a broken home, especially when things are as bad as they are in this case.
@@kyliemarie6386 very true!
Leave him!!!!! He is a narcissist he blames her for EVERYTHING instead of just taking accountability!!!! He puts her down then blames her for not doing the very thing he told her he hates, what?! She's better off without him!
Bingo 🎯
Yes
This fool hates himself and takes his insecurities out on every woman he deals with. Straight up demon! 🤬🤬
This man is so abusive and narcissist. He doesn’t leave her alone because he enjoys bullying her.
Right! Look how he laughs when she's in pain. It's ridiculous!
She needs to leave him alone
If someone says any variation of "I hurt you because you hurt me." That's toxic and overall childish and can easily snowball into abuse; first verbal, then emotional, and then physical.
Arguments are normal and they happen, but when things get heated to the point of verbal attacks; someone needs to walk away, calm down and address the issue later on
Absolutely!
👏🏽👏🏽well said👏🏽👏🏽
Amen!!!
Yep; that's the biggest crap of hooie ever. If you been deeply hurt you know how miserable that made you feel so instead of repeating that....just move on. It's ridiculous to say you have to hurt someone because they hurt you....what does that fix? That man is user.....you can do wayyyy better.
If a man is making you cry like this LEAVE HIM!!!
Star hit the nail on the head when she said it was cute when he had a young girl then she got pregnant gained some weight and it’s not sexy anymore. He’s for the streets. So many excuses. She needs to get some self esteem.
He blames her for all his bad decisions 🤨. He's just a nasty individual
This was hard to watch. He’s emotionally destroyed her, she needs to take them kids and runnnn
This woman has been crying the entire 20 mins. I know she's hurt and going through a lot, but can you stop crying for a second? She doing all of this and still want to be with him. Just divorce and be done with it!!
I'm glad somebody said it.
Ooh.... I thought it was just me....🤪
Thank you for saying this. Stop wasting your tears on this bum huge crybaby. Stop crying and start running. Take your kids and that bus ticket and run girl. At certain point the pity party has to end.
She wants to be a victim when she allows him to treat her this and then he has the nerve to tell her the truth about it…I think he wants out and she acts like she can’t leave…saying he wouldn’t get the divorce!!! LEAVEEEEEEE and file for divorce your damn self!!! Stop playing victim…
I hate when people talk cry I had to pause every few minutes to watch this case.
Girl, stop crying, get some bigger walnuts that he has and Walk!!!!! Let him see you pack up your stuff with the kids and leave...you have the ammunition he's admitted in court that he's cheated...LEAVE!!!
Seems like hes changing his tune now that he's in court. He is absolutely nasty in private & blames her for his actions. I hope she picks herself up & does what's best for her & those babies
This was just sad. She was crying the entire episode. I hope she leaves him but I know she won’t. A broken home is better than a toxic home
What? It's broken AND toxic.
Honestly all the bad talk about judge star 🌟 .... am loving her. I still miss judge Lynn but judge Star she's raw in a nice way. 👌
Exactly, she’s doing a phenomenal job.
I love Judge Lynn and Judge Star, they both
bring something different and special to Divorce Court
.Dang. .She Cried the Whole Show.. ..Before the cameras started rolling and after they cut off. .Time to Leave O'buddy!
He's not cute, he's not kind, he's not faithful, he's not honest. She only loves him because they spent years together, not because he's good in any way. She's still young enough that she could leave and start a completely different life.
Some women just love bad guys no matter how much they get hurt , abuse and cry about it
This couple was on paternity court and their stories were COMPLETELY different. On paternity court, she was the one that was cheating and he was the good guy. Even her mom came on there saying he wasn’t their baby’s father & it turned out that he was. The only thing that’s the same is that she cried the entire time on that show too!
WOW! That is sad. So they each got to play the victim? I know this is entertainment but come on now.
I swore I was trying to figure out where I seen here
This is unbelievable and ridiculous. What is going on here?
What’s go happening here? So is this a set up?
I have to look back through the episodes for the 100th time. I don't recall this couple.
Robbed the lady of her innocence. She needs counselling to be able to leave. He doesn't deserve her she's such a beautiful lady.
I don't understand how someone who isn't in shape calling someone fat..ummm buddy you don't even look like you in shape...
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They're so delusional. They wanna tear women down but look like they're on their third trimester!! lol
Man: I'm a piece of 💩 only because you annoy me.
Woman: You abuse me.
Them: Let's go on TV!🙄😱
He may be 10 years older but he is the one who needs to grow up!
I would never cry over a man like that you would think someone she loved died!! She needs to see someone his a pathetic excuse for a man when he was saying how beautiful she is he sounded so fake!!! He doesn't want her lady get some backbone.
When she started explaining herself. Narcissist popped into my mind. Narcissist are very image conscious. They think their spouse has to.look a certain way and if she changes for any reason the discard begins. And they themselves be busted. Narcissist don't apologize. He's only saying that in front of people. That bas...d broke this woman.
Being a mom is more then the just cooking and cleaning. Hell my dad 98% of the cooking, cleaning my mom did that,also cleaning isn't that hard. You can knock out everything on a Tuesday afternoon.
He seems vile, and the way he will not address the fact that she is crying in court is frustrating.
why should he?🙃
vile is the perfect word for him, matter fact I'mma re-add that to my vocab for ppl like him, thanks for the reminder! :D
This judge is so beautiful and classy.
A house can be broken whether the parents are spilt or living in the home together. The kids will know disfunction in the home and that is not healthy either way. So people need to stop making that excuse “oh I didn’t want to raise my kids in a broken home” staying with an emotionally abusive Cheater isn’t much better!
Or the age old excuse I’m staying for the kids when in all actuality they’re staying for their own selfish reasons cuz being with in that toxic relationship is more important than raising their children in a loving more stable environment!!!
Thank u , a lot of people don't know this !!
Ommmmmmg I don't know how many times I've said just this!!!! Children will recognize the tension before the adults acknowledge it!! Kids are smart they know!!, they may not be able to voice it but they know. I wouldn't raise kids in that situation. I want my kids to know peace.
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Poor woman...she could've done bad all by herself, she too young to be going through all this.
This is a good example of why some older men “ prefer “ younger women. When you’re young you are more susceptible to being taken advantage of or mistreated because you might not have the skills, knowledge, and confidence to advocate for yourself. I’m only 6 minutes in but it looks like he preyed on this young woman. Getting entangled with a bad man can change the trajectory of your entire life.
he even looks angry and abusive tbh
also that 9 years when the girl is barely past legal age is a bigger deal than 9 years later in life...
Judge star is amazing keeps it real.
That's a Poor excuse to say your Wife is cheating, U know why? Because U are the Cheater
I love her as a judge!!
she will find someone that appreciates her. she's beautiful tbh
The pandemic has certainly revealed many narcissist (many is an understatement). Its amazing how many of these men are emotionally stagnant and cruel to their significant others. I've never been so tired 😴
Once’s a man cheats and u allow it they will never stop until u stop it
Star said exactly what I would’ve said
"I love him."
No, Sis, that's not enough!!! You've got to do something more important than that. You have got to learn to love YOURSELF!!! FIRST, before him!!! The best protection for your daughters from his brand of selfish idiocy is for you to love yourself enough to leave. He's a brat boy in a man's body. Neither you nor your girls deserve that!!!
Jekyll and Hyde. He hasn’t any real emotions that go beyond himself and desires. He expects to be reward with sex and devotion for confessing his sins and isn’t even truly repentant. She looks way older and it isn’t weight. It’s the stress and heartbreak she has allowed him to perpetrate on her. She feel felt lucky when she got the guy of her dreams and he knows that “innocent little girl” he woo’d and lied to is always going to keep her from making the big girl panty moves of kicking him to the curb. That is the only thing he is invested in... keeping her hopelessly devoted to thinking he can still be the guy she fell for. Her friends should just show up and move her out. The will to stay is great, cause it really don’t take much to get divorced- she needed to have served him on the show if she was serious. Let’s hope they follow up and see where she is a year from now.
It’s hard to have empathy when she’s not realizing the reality
The judge makeup is flawless here😍😍😍
FOR REALLL
Leave him girl
You don't be together to raise a child or children
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Run Woman Run
He thought he found himself a young, dumb, lil thing that he could use and manipulate and abuse then say “ I love you so much!” And she’ll forgive and forget! She need to get a backbone cuz he’s ridiculous
I seen them on paternity court a while back
I just looked it up and yep she crying in that thumbnail to smh
@@arlenedennis9446 exactly it doesn’t make sense you can’t keep up the same behaviors and expect better results. He keeps cheating and she keeps acting childish in my opinion. It’s hard because I have been in her shoes emotionally and it’s super exhausting both ways. People have to let go when it’s time to and they both need to figure that out. It just hurts the children in the long run I was in her shoes about 6 years ago. My children and I are so much happier
@@Passion85031 yes ive been there and done that to so i cant be to harsh on her. Eventually i woke up and will never put myself in that situation again . Had to learn to love myself more than that person who was no good for me . Feels good to have peace of mind. It’s priceless . Glad you are happy and have overcome your situation as well ♥️
@@arlenedennis9446 thank you likewise
Woman when you see a drastic change in your husband, it’s time stop and check out what you have observed from him if it’s more than you can except, don’t have anymore children and perhaps it’s time to make a change for your BEST, you can’t continue on this path forever, it’s damaging to your HEALTH!
I am the only one who thinks this man is not remorseful? This beautiful woman deserves better and that is moving on without him🤷🏾♀️
They just like being on TV I guess
Ms.Samantha you are a Beautiful Lady Love shouldn't hurt, it should bring you joy. You can stop this pain by taking responsibility today, and showing your children a healthier way to live this isn't fair to you or your children. Please stop believing, trusting, & allowing this immature man any further opportunity to hurt you.. Take Responsibility for the roll you're playing Take Your Power Back it's time for you to Go... Move on without him he thinks you're a sucker... No matter what he does you suck it up & take it,,,, Why(??) Why do you think you deserve to be treated like trash(?) Please, for your Children get help through Domestic Violence you are being Mentally Abused.
Praying you take your life back & make the right decision.
It's better to come from a broken home then to live in one
This man is an abusive narcissist. However I can understand that her crying and moaning would get on his nerves. It's hard for someone to respect you when it's clear you don't respect yourself. She should have left him, for the children's sake, long ago.
Really? She needs to grow up?! This guy is ridiculous. Really hope she leaves him truly. She deserves better but unfortunately doesn’t know better cause he trapped her so young.
That's not a good Husband at all, belitting your wife, she is a dam good looking Woman, as the Judge said, she definitely will find someone to love her for who she is, Run if U can woman
love yourself if you didn't have your father's love this is the result. insecurity, low self steam no self love. Leave this man she said there are people to help her to get out of this toxic life. both are not living just existing. The girls are already messed up.
He came on the show projecting. He claimed she was immature, when in fact, he's the immature one. He's creating the chaos and discord in his house.
She needed those words from Judge Star. My dad told me I was no one's doormat, and I carry those words with me to this day!
He enjoys hurting her. He can barely contain his glee. I hope she stopped all that damned crying, found her backbone and left him.
Gurlfriend, you don't have to ask for a divorce. You can go file, whether he signs the papers or not. You need to leave him for your sanity.
This lady is soooooo beautiful even though she gained weight. Girl, love yourself enough to move on from this toxic relationship. He is a monster, he is abusing you because of your age. He is a narcissist, abuser, and mean-spirited boy. I don't even know why he keeps on F*king laughing all the time, like seriously 😳
Girl what are you trying to fix please???RUN!!
I just read the comments that they were on paternity court and she was the one cheating they deserve each other 🤢
Psss this man is MEAN and abusive and l would stay far away from him kids or no kids❤️🖤💚
My blood boiled when this man open his mouth. How can one treat a woman this way.my dear accept your friends offers, you are blind to see , tasteless to taste, listen to your friends RUN.
EMPTY APOLOGIES!!!!
That's why you NEVER MIX BUSINNES WITH PLEASURE!!!
She needs to according to the judge get a backbone, geez 🙄 She's to broken & has to get it together
OMG girl RUN!!! He is far too selfish and he is still justifying all his behaviour. Why is he getting counselling for her when he is the only one who needs any!?! Gtfo asap!!!!
I am with Judge she needs to get a backbone.. she cried the entire time!
Judge you look beautiful as usual, and thank you for all you do, some of your shows get into me emotionally and I cry. Thank you judge 👩⚖️
I maybe a nobody like max dillon, but at least im not a liar, cheater, user and abuser like these womanizers thats a fact. Another fact is that im 23 and ive never nor ill ever be in a relationship because theres no good women out here, otherwise they wouldnt ignore me and they would accept me for who i am.
This is why young girls ain’t got no business with dudes this much older than them, a 19 year old girl is not emotionally ready for this type Of situation, & this is the reason she has tolerated this FOOLS nonsense for so long, it is sad!
This man is pathetic and he has tried to break that woman. I hope she finds a better, more loving, and positive path forward. ❤
Did he just laugh 😭😭 this is insane, ik the word narcissist is thrown around but........
If a person has to fake being happy, get the hell on… These women need to put their foot down and stop accepting this mess.
He's a sorry bastard! Girl, cut him loose! Save yourself and your children! He does not give a hoot about you😞 Realize how beautiful and smart you are! You deserve someone who appreciates you 🤗💗 Believe in yourself always...
That age gap is serious ok 🚀
Been together for 6 years 🚀
Been married for 3 years 🚀
She was 18 he was 28 years old
She got pregnant n had a baby congratulations now stress on top of stress dealing with a man who looks mental all inn the eyes
Cheated and bought an engage ring. Taking money out the household.
he is an awefull bully, but she's annoying crying like that! wake up girl! you too much in your victim side, you too miserable
Judge Star is doing an awesome job!😍👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Girl your homes is BROKEN!
That was disgusting to watch! I hope she gets the hell away from him!
She cried this entire case, if he makes her so sad, why is she with him?
24 and 33?😧😧already not starting off well….
Why is this guy calling her immature?
You brought your side piece to the house 🏠?
Ladies you got to know your value
Sooooo she just gon cry and sniffle for 30 minutes?!? Okaaaayyyy. Ma’am, LEAVE!!!!! 🙄😒 This episode is annoying
Some times I ask my self why are women so emotional when a man is cheating on them like if the man is cheating on you while pregnant or not why u making your self stress out about that mess n u can brake up n send his ass packing kick him out your damn house 🤔 n make a police report so it can be on file just in case something tragic happens to you or your kids men out here are evil n mental n wicked n ready tooo kill somebody for no reason it's sad I keep seeing these tv shows about couples in the tragic after math of anger
AMEN CHECK THEM BS MISTAKES .....FINALLY!!!!!! ........WILLINGLY WRONGFULLY DOING SOMETHING IS NO MISTAKE AT ALL!!!!!
UNFIT?? for aleged bad house keeping "FOR HIM"? Wow NARC AT ITS BEST!!!! IRONICALY THE PERSON HAVING MULTIPLE RELATIONSHIPS says UNFIT.
What do YOU want with His Raggedy, Trifling, No Count Behind? ? ? WHY are You Crying over Him, With Your PRETTY SELF? ? ? You're the PRIZE!
All I got to say is Love YOURSELF!! Like It’s NOBODY else’s BUSINESS “ GURRRRRL Just in case Nobody have told you Lately Your BEAUTIFUL! Dry your eyes 😢and don’t shed another Tear over Him😫
Heyy Samantha if you ever see this start watching theteaonnpd here on TH-cam. Please start taking control of your life again. This nothing of a boy is a narcissist. Run!🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
He called her a pig, & made the oinking noise??? This guys a narcissist!!! Leave this man sister!!! The lawnmower example is absolutely correct!!!!
Then he said “ I have to stop talking to you like IN FRONT OF THEM” sooooo behind closed doors is better??? Mmm 🤔
I know she’s hurting and all that but I wished she stopped crying for a bit and talk? She’s doing all that and still stay with him? He definitely groomed her, where was her family? 19 dealing with a 29 year old man? 😳
She seriously needs to take her power back and she will feel better about herself. Love yourself NOW. Don't let any man definitely you. He can't even handle himself. Put your heart away until someone is worthy of your love. Value yourself. Be proud so that your children can learn from you. Don't let your weight be you. Join a gym to have a routine, but do it for YOU, not your mean mouthed husband who has damaged your self esteem.
He has all the excuses in the world just trying to look decent on TV.
AT SOME POINT, LADY YOU GOTTA LEARN AND MOVE ON. How many lessons do you need?!
I'll say it again...people can only do what we allow. We set ourselves up believing we can change people!!! You have one time to cheat on me and it's done !!! No repercussions, no change Something is terrible wrong with women who put up with this!!!! THIS IS US!! we tolerate this behavior then boo hoo about it. Girl put the woman panties on and if for no other reason do it for your children!!!! This woman won't leave him... love yourself and this is a broken home that you are now raising your kids in Generation 🤬 curses