VLOG | I’m Single.. How to get over your EX… in 3 days.. CHAI!!!

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  • @Itstorobaby
    @Itstorobaby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +407

    See the views in less than a day 🥺❤️❤️ Sophia you are loved and there’s no doubt about that ❤️ forever an inspiring woman

  • @SoNgBiRd63100
    @SoNgBiRd63100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +937

    Heads up y’all, the stages of grief isn’t linear. You can actually move between the stages back and forth at different moments until the grief period is over. It’s OK and normal to feel you’ve accepted something but then feel angry again. Again, grief isn’t linear, give yourself space to feel and heal. ❤️

    • @shaenichole5378
      @shaenichole5378 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I’ve every emotion possible, I’ve cried daily at a drop of a dime. I dry my face and move on with my day. Grieving is needed and it’s okay to go through it. I’m not rushing it bc I need heal from this fully

    • @coachzaynab355
      @coachzaynab355 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you!

    • @npayne7776
      @npayne7776 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yes hunni! You think you're good and then BOOM you are going through the emotions.... Strength out of the window, down the street and around the corner. I'm glad she is in good spirits now but Healing is a moment by moment thing. Not even day by day. You could be living your best life and get triggered instantly. Praying for her healing. It takes time.❤

    • @moreafterthistime
      @moreafterthistime 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It took me 4 months to get over it

    • @PaigesOfJordan
      @PaigesOfJordan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I needed to see this. thank you for this

  • @missabigail1366
    @missabigail1366 2 ปีที่แล้ว +725

    Hey Sophia, be comfortable with the fact that you don’t have all the answers.. your only 24. It’s ok not to get over an ex in 3 days, it may take you much longer considering you were together for years. All you need is inner-peace, great company and positivity - and you will be alright ❤️

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you, View profile

    • @genevafacon3479
      @genevafacon3479 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Beautiful words! Blessings to you!

    • @palesarampesi1536
      @palesarampesi1536 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well said ❤️

    • @Msqueen_d
      @Msqueen_d 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Facts sis you not the first or last

    • @sharonhassan9286
      @sharonhassan9286 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This really helped me lost3years of reletionship

  • @Nita.b
    @Nita.b 2 ปีที่แล้ว +647

    I’m about to be a year single after a 7 year relationship. It has been hard as hell grieving but once that person literally doesn’t exist to you anymore (acceptance) it’s smooth sailing. LET’S GO OUTSIDEEE 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

    • @Seekwhatwillbefound
      @Seekwhatwillbefound 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Your so gorgeous

    • @Nita.b
      @Nita.b 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Seekwhatwillbefound thank you love 💖💖

    • @soniajohn
      @soniajohn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I can relate. I became a year single today after a 7 year relationship. It felt like I was mourning someone, so painful. But after acceptance comes blossom.

    • @livinlifewithla7142
      @livinlifewithla7142 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@soniajohn I agree I was also in a long term relationship of 8 years and it hurt like hell even noticing I was letting go , but once a woman has accepted that this person is not mines anymore and the emotions are no longer in the way ….it’s no returning

    • @thulilekhoza818
      @thulilekhoza818 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know... Been there

  • @chloeways3832
    @chloeways3832 2 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    This just shows how WHOLE you were as a woman in your relationship! A lot of women get out of relationships feeling empty, incomplete, and just not themselves ( I used to be one of them). However, this proves that when you show up to a relationship WHOLE and in CHRIST and when you continue to pour into YOURSELF that no matter what transpires you will be okay. James 1:2-4 "Consider it a great joy when you experience various trials because in the end, you will be complete lacking nothing." It's only up from here girl! Always supporting you fine babe!!!

    • @itsci
      @itsci 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I love the self awareness because this is so true.

    • @ManiJ.
      @ManiJ. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This was real. I love it.

    • @JenniferRenae
      @JenniferRenae 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      speak the truth ♥️

  • @gloriadickson03
    @gloriadickson03 2 ปีที่แล้ว +556

    It’s actually so significant that you got your TH-cam plaque when you needed it the most!! Look at God!!! You are lifted Sophia❤️

  • @FisayoGracieAbby
    @FisayoGracieAbby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    "Even though it's just a breakup, it really does feel like somebody died" That really got to me. I just found you Soph and i love you already! Wow you're amazing! Just keep going girl

  • @Jazzyroseyy
    @Jazzyroseyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    My friend sent me this video and I definitely needed it. After 4 years together, I broke off my engagement a few days ago. Still processing but I’m hopeful that I can find peace within myself. Thanks for sharing!🤍

  • @danikaherman7847
    @danikaherman7847 2 ปีที่แล้ว +270

    Worst and best feeling in the world is when I walked away from my kids dad. 9yr relationship but known him for 12yrs. Haven't looked back and my life got 10x better. Love and support coming from Tampa, FL.

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you

  • @lwilliams418
    @lwilliams418 2 ปีที่แล้ว +280

    The stages of grief comes in waves… It won’t happen over 2 days. It may not come in 2 months. You feel ok right now because you may still be in shock but it’s not over🥺 Allow yourself all the time you need because those feelings will arise again. I ended a 8 year relationship 3 months ago and it still hurts! My heart goes out to u❤️

    • @teeshastrio915
      @teeshastrio915 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Just ended a 7 year relationship and it definitely comes in waves.

    • @ByRenz
      @ByRenz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      I was just about to say the same thing. I kind of wish she didn't post this video yet because it feels ok now, but months after, when the dust settles, it burns so bad. I remember after my first break-up, I didn't experience the hurt until about five months later, especially when I found out that he had moved on.
      Sophie, I enjoy your videos so much, but please take this time to focus on your transition.

    • @nessawithsmiles
      @nessawithsmiles 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I know exactly what you’re talking about. But I pray that she don’t experience the waves, and that she just experiences calm and peace long-term.

    • @ByRenz
      @ByRenz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@teeshastrio915 Each wave hurts differently.

    • @StarringShameka
      @StarringShameka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes yes yes to this comment

  • @jasminejackson4877
    @jasminejackson4877 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Don't let them grief specialist tell you that you need 6 months to heal. When you are ready then YOU are ready. 🙌 I hope everything works out for you 🥰

  • @folayemi_aina
    @folayemi_aina 2 ปีที่แล้ว +242

    This comment section is for me! You all rock! Sending love to you Soph, on my very bad days i thank God for the little things like moving my hand freely without assistance from someone else.
    You will be okay and love you.

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you

    • @TyVonNorth
      @TyVonNorth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Loved this. Heavy on the thanking God for the little things just like that. It can be so easy to forget the simplest blessings, bc it gets clouded by other disheartening things we face. Thank you for the reminder 🤍

    • @patricewashington888
      @patricewashington888 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen

    • @thatchickdriaa
      @thatchickdriaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aweeee this is so wholesome 😢 and you are so right often we forget about Gods blessings upon us and it’s things like what you just said

  • @JayniaAnsha
    @JayniaAnsha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +199

    just got out of my 3 year relationship a couple days ago and i’m also doing well. i feel more relieved than sad or mad and people keep telling me that i’m “faking it” but in reality i’m not. when you know you’re a good person and you put good out into in the universe you receive all things good in return (ten-fold). you’re blessed and highly favored, this relationship was just one of God’s tests and you passed! you’re poised, classy and handling it with grace which is very hard to do but everything will be okay you’ll continue to do amazing things in this world 🤍

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you, View profile

    • @naylajackson5151
      @naylajackson5151 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love how you think about it . You continue to learn that they are lessons and your getting ready for your blessing .

    • @ms.polishjohnson8031
      @ms.polishjohnson8031 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I honestly get over it in less than 5 hours lol but something maybe severely wrong with me lol so I don’t recommend 🤔

    • @melliethemortician
      @melliethemortician 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sometimes that's how it ends up being for the best. My last relationship after it ended it felt more like a weight had been lifted off my shoulders and they said the same, the relationship was no longer good even though we tried our hardest and so it became a burden instead. Knowing when to let go helps shorten that grieving process because you know you tried

    • @Msqueen_d
      @Msqueen_d 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sis I think we all have to be selfish and stick to it

  • @Kaymaxwelldevelops
    @Kaymaxwelldevelops 2 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    Editing and story organization…..music selection and placement….!!!!!!! Let’s take a moment to acknowledge the impeccable flow of this Vlog!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 You will and always have grown, adapted and overcome on this channel. This is a lesson in life. Love to see it🌹🌹🌹

    • @SpiceItUp_5150
      @SpiceItUp_5150 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yesssss. What is the name of the 1st. song

    • @ToyaSooooDope
      @ToyaSooooDope 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SpiceItUp_5150 broken promises by summer walker

    • @SpiceItUp_5150
      @SpiceItUp_5150 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ToyaSooooDope thank you.

  • @prettybrown6247
    @prettybrown6247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +410

    Haven’t even watched but ain’t nothing wrong with being single. Live your best life! 😍 You got the whole world ahead of you, and you got everything going for you. 💞

    • @diamondwilliams1207
      @diamondwilliams1207 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is so true

    • @GrowwithNaomie
      @GrowwithNaomie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True that

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you now

  • @ohsovee
    @ohsovee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I am 6 months post breakup from my 10 year relationship. Even after these months there are days that I get sad & reminisce about the past. Healing takes time & doesn’t follow the normal “steps of grief”. Have patience with yourself & your healing. Don’t forget that you’re loved. Sending you love & light ❤️

  • @TheLeanneSarah
    @TheLeanneSarah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +321

    nah like i'm genuinely in disbelief... I was over here thinking a proposal was going to become in the next year or so chaiiiii, sophia we love you and continue to live your best life in peace!!

  • @zakiyadaniels7639
    @zakiyadaniels7639 2 ปีที่แล้ว +419

    It’s not normal to go through the stages of grief in 3 days… It’s amazing that you’re helping ladies to acknowledge their grief but please know ladies that it’s totally okay to not be fully through your grieving process in three days🙂

    • @krimezofkolor4683
      @krimezofkolor4683 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you

    • @HydenNoway
      @HydenNoway 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      you're comment caught my eyes because it make sense then i saw your last name.. we have the saaaame yay

    • @fadyanassor6934
      @fadyanassor6934 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      its unrealistic also especially whe you been with them for long

    • @yesBUTnoable
      @yesBUTnoable 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I was thinking the same thing. At the time of the video it was only 2 days later so those stages of grief may not have even been fully felt or experienced at their full capacity just yet. Wishing her all the best tho💕

    • @palesarampesi1536
      @palesarampesi1536 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly!!!!!!

  • @efiadams
    @efiadams 2 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    Aww Sophia…I’m sorry you’re going through this. Now…3 days to get over someone you invested almost 3 years with…that’s very unlikely. Like a lot of people mentioned in the comments…grief comes in waves. I’m not hoping you get back to the sadness and the loneliness…but don’t be surprised if it comes back. There’s no timeline to healing. May God cover you through this journey 🤍

    • @lovelydae7455
      @lovelydae7455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah maybe she’s accepted it but nah

    • @badbxtchtee
      @badbxtchtee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Don’t say when say if😭😭

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you

    • @efiadams
      @efiadams 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@badbxtchtee Oh yeah you’re right! I’m gonna edit my comment, thank you!

    • @badbxtchtee
      @badbxtchtee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@efiadams no problem babes🤍🤍

  • @emmiesworld2435
    @emmiesworld2435 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Just got out of a 4 year relationship with my high school sweetheart . We have lived together this whole time and have been friends for 7 years. I feel like my whole world is crashing down but I know there’s light at the end of the tunnel. This video was in my recommendations and the universe did that on purpose. Thank you for simply being transparent. You never know who your helping and you definitely helped me just watching this ❤️

    • @damarisjohn5847
      @damarisjohn5847 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your right dear , it's a healing process

    • @denaliMone
      @denaliMone 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re not alone 💓

    • @rachelngatia3753
      @rachelngatia3753 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It really does help. You're not alone in this❤️

    • @zandilemoletsane6066
      @zandilemoletsane6066 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You'll be alright. These things happen.

  • @imkayelle
    @imkayelle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    I’m so happy that you chose yourself! Toxic relationships and situationships are glorified in the media and look at you, taking the healthier more mature route. Thanks for continuing to be a role model. We love you Sophia and we can’t wait to see how God continues to bless you. Happy healing beautiful ❤️.

    • @miimonalisa
      @miimonalisa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I jumped through the video. What exactly did she say the issue was?

  • @TheBrieEffect
    @TheBrieEffect 2 ปีที่แล้ว +242

    My great grandmother told me once that I didn’t get over a break up easily or quickly it’s just that the grieving process started while I was in the relationship and before the break up even happened. I am a firm believer of that 💜. I know this is just a small part of your journey girl. Wishing love and light.

    • @Sophiology
      @Sophiology  2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      I love that, shout out to grandma ❤️

    • @Ny.Lynette
      @Ny.Lynette 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Had to add this to my Instagram story cause chile 🙏🏽

    • @TheBrieEffect
      @TheBrieEffect 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She was an amazing woman 😊

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Ny.Lynette do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you

  • @dorisn.6640
    @dorisn.6640 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    As someone who has been divorced twice, you are going to be alright lil sis. Your attitude towards the breakup is right. Its been just couple of days, you are still in the grieving phase. Some days you'll feel gd and others you may feel sad. If you do, its alright. Give yourself that grace to feel sad that day. Eventually as the days turn to weeks, the weeks turn to months, the sadness won't be there anymore when you think of him. Again you are doing great. Your energy is in the right place. keep doing you and keep stepping forward.

  • @PRETTYASSP
    @PRETTYASSP 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Love everything about this video except the “Luckily I’m still young comment” Doesn’t matter if you’re young, older or old if you have breath in your body you can always START OVER!!! If something is not serving you then you know what ya gotssss to do! When you realize you are the CREATOR you’ll see a MAN is the least of the worries 💟💫 much love to you babesss

    • @AboutBritney
      @AboutBritney 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely agree 🙌🏾

    • @stacyhugues1806
      @stacyhugues1806 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree with you but you are not the CREATOR though you are the bearer of life. Only GOD is the creator

  • @mandimandss
    @mandimandss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +228

    What an intro, absolutely amazing ! Keep the faith Sophia, nothing lasts forever, you are never stuck. Love your content and God sees your heart, been through this before and trust me last last hits 🤣🤣🤣. I love how self aware you are too, going through and analysing the entire thing. Keep your mind positive is one thing I’ll say, don’t allow one situation to stop you from fully opening up again in the future, but as the Lord says guard your heart!

  • @DC.DYNASTY
    @DC.DYNASTY 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I always jump straight to acceptance.. my life is mine and the one who fits, will fit.

  • @tierrastark7258
    @tierrastark7258 2 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    I’m rn crying over a breakup That’s about to happen. I feel like this has been a cycle for me I’m 30 and can’t seem to find a stable love

    • @Oneakaell
      @Oneakaell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Hugs!

    • @lilliekjordan7444
      @lilliekjordan7444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      DON'T GO LOOKING FOR LOVE❣️ BE YOURSELF THE RIGHT ONE WILL FIND YOU!!!! NO JOKE IT WORKS..

    • @beccabexx
      @beccabexx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Girl you are worthy of peace and love! You got this and stay strong! ❤️

    • @dannidan4794
      @dannidan4794 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      You need to figure out what about you that keeps attracting unstable love. It starts with us baby girl

    • @LBenedicta_M
      @LBenedicta_M 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love and light 🤗

  • @AndreaAvanha
    @AndreaAvanha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Girl, you are so dope! Been watching you for a long time and you’ve always stayed true to yourself & YOU ARE REAL!! Come on now, ain’t nothing you can’t overcome. You are a strong woman as you said & although this is a change, you will overcome. I love that you continue to open your videos with a biblical verse. Keep on keeping on girl, Gods got you ❤️

  • @megan-renee
    @megan-renee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    Sophia! sending love your way heartbreak isn't easy ... I know you only show a small part of your day but your positivity in a time like this is truly inspiring! there's nothing like a woman standing up and choosing herself! love that for you wishing you happy happy happy days ahead fine babe🥰

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you now

    • @teamlaureas
      @teamlaureas 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sending you love girls 😘😘 washin from France

  • @chillwithnyya8140
    @chillwithnyya8140 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Stay beautiful, Soph!! I'm going through a breakup while 7 months pregnant and I can actually say that life is better when you love yourself more. Men come and they go but you stay with yourself forever. Cherish you and love yourself. Hugs and Kisses from NY in Dallas 💕

  • @teresaelaine_
    @teresaelaine_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    We love a transparent queen! Sophia, I wish you nothing but the best during your new chapter. As long as you continue to walk by faith, God will continue to bless you beyond measures. I learned the hard way that the people you love the most can be the same people that’ll hurt you the worst. I’m not going to lie, break ups hurt. So it’s okay to be sad, it’s okay to feel hurt. Just know God has something in store for you bigger than your eyes can see. But fine babe it’s just in time for you to have a HOT GIRL SUMMER! Love you Sophia!

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you

  • @jewellies3653
    @jewellies3653 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I needed this vlog so bad ! Five years and I’m going through a heartbreak as we speak . Thank You for posting 💜

  • @Citygirlll
    @Citygirlll 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I was hoping the title was a clickbait 😭😭. I’m shook. Sending you virtual hugs Sophia, God has bigger plans for you, xx❤️

  • @sewaoluwa
    @sewaoluwa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Y'all in the comments are the sweetest 🥺 I'm so happy she knows she has supporters and well wishers, God bless everyone sending her love. Girl never forget you are enough ❤️

  • @SimplyVie__
    @SimplyVie__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    The way my heart hurt just reading the title😩 but I know God has a plan.. sending my love ❤️❤️

  • @preciousmoloi6761
    @preciousmoloi6761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Exactly. Fr grief that relationship and that person. Literally allow yourself to feel all the emotions and cry for as long as you need to. Eventually you'll be alright. Don't rush that process. There is no such thing as getting over someone you loved easily or quicker.

  • @KimoraMyliaa
    @KimoraMyliaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Proud of you for doing what’s best for you! I’m 4 months into my breakup and I’ve been the happiest girl ever.

  • @ToriUptown
    @ToriUptown 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    the five stages of grief is some BS. grief does not have a play book. it’s literally different for everyone. we have to stop trying to turn everything into logic. FEEL your feelings. that’s the only way through 💕

  • @ThembelihleBhengu
    @ThembelihleBhengu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    South Africa 🇿🇦 we are here. Good luck on your healing process babe. We’re going to continue supporting you. ❤️❤️

  • @yardvibz85
    @yardvibz85 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Nothing wrong with being single! It gives you the chance to find yourself and other things that was being ignore, be strong, you got this!

  • @shaunaajay
    @shaunaajay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    The gym, travel, work, journaling, prayer, therapy, being around love, music, podcasts, TH-cam…just listing some of the things that have really helped me in some of my lower times 💕

  • @keepingupwithfrancine
    @keepingupwithfrancine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    It’s crazy how everyone is always alerted when someone is going through a breakup, the views increase even the comments, it’s as if everyone was waiting for this moment… may we not be waiters of bad news but forever always remain supportive be it the good or the bad🙏…To Sophia babe stay strong and hang in there,it’s not easy losing someone you loved, no matter how we try to put on a cute smily face, it hurts and it’s good to admit…. Have a blessed journey and continue in God

    • @johndre8673
      @johndre8673 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so happy having my former partner back , after being separated for months . All thanks to Mr Ehijator whom help me to get back my ex again , I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours

  • @lifewithalafia7016
    @lifewithalafia7016 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I’m shocked, but I wish the best healing for you Sophia! I’m so excited for your new chapter in life. *Sending prayer, hugs & love* ♥️♥️♥️

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you

  • @tiarramonet
    @tiarramonet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +259

    Sending you love babe 🥺

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you, View profile

  • @accordingtomarise
    @accordingtomarise 2 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    Seems like all the 2019 relationships ended this year. Took me 3 months to get over mine but I’m now living my best life. ☺️
    You’re amazing ❤️

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you, View profile

    • @JennyAdebayo
      @JennyAdebayo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Literally babes mine ended 3 days ago

    • @prophetess7771
      @prophetess7771 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Mine ended last week

    • @venusqueen1456
      @venusqueen1456 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mine ended 5 months ago💔

    • @kiara_lofi
      @kiara_lofi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mine ended 4 months ago its crazy 😭

  • @rstyles9070
    @rstyles9070 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Cried the whole way through this video. Struggling to leave a 4 year relationship that serves me no purpose *alexa play “foolish” by Ashanti*.
    Love to you Sophia. Beautiful beautiful lady. Glad you’re doing well

    • @corina6772
      @corina6772 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wishing God gives you the heart and energy the start a new
      Best

  • @kumag4530
    @kumag4530 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Wow I’m genuinely shocked! Thank you for being so open & honest with us. You’ve always been so real & you’ll get through this with so much grace ❤️

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you, View profile

  • @Lizorlose
    @Lizorlose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is hella dramatic and I love it. We both know you deserve better sis. A fine babe like you don’t need to talk about a break up because you will be making up in other forms like winning and God.

  • @TaiwoCapodanno
    @TaiwoCapodanno 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    So proud of how you’re handling this though, it’s giving, “my Heavenly Father will fight for me jare, let me enjoy my life, who has time to be crying?” 💕

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you, View profile

  • @msslr
    @msslr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Break ups/heartbreaks are never easy. I wish you nothing but the best during this time. I'm sending love and light your way. Continue to enjoy life and remember who you are queen!

  • @patiencendori1119
    @patiencendori1119 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Kudos to you for finding laughter and joy throughout this process. Three years is a lot of time to have someone in your life, not including the time yall were friends prior. I love your openesse and the fact that you are sharing your testimony and thanking God through it all. Single or not I'm so proud of the woman you are becoming!

    • @damarisjohn5847
      @damarisjohn5847 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sophia u are strong and can walk through the process.

  • @asiaafox8578
    @asiaafox8578 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I resonated with this video so much. It’s been about 2 weeks and finally at peace with everything. Part of getting to this peace was realizing that we would never be together again and being okay with that.

  • @iamqueenama4233
    @iamqueenama4233 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    I’m so sorry that you are going through this. Thank you for being real and transparent. May God carry you through this time period. Forever a strong fine babe! ❤️

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you, View profile

  • @kimeshablair4362
    @kimeshablair4362 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I absolutely needed this video! Literally! I’m 3 days in, this is the hardest breakup but you just helped me realize and wake up and choose myself. Thank you beautiful I literally love you ❤️ I’m going to go through this grief process .

  • @coleencowell
    @coleencowell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You remind me so much of myself. One day after my breakup, I got the job offer that I always wanted and a response from uscis regarding my citizenship.
    God definitely has a plan sweetheart 🤞🏾
    Continue to trust in him.

  • @ferociouscherub9819
    @ferociouscherub9819 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    IM NOT TRYING TO BE MESSY BUT…..but when he couldn’t be there for her on New Years🤔, AND didn’t pick the phone when she called MULTIPLE TIMES🤔…that was 🚩🚩🚩🚩…. Her disappointed face was heartbreaking. ☹️I just had a bad feeling during that vlog. Sophia, YOU WILL BE FINE!! I pray that you have strength during this difficult time 🙏🏾

  • @halorose
    @halorose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    New Subscribers alert 🚨 This video is so different and much needed for the culture NO ONE talks about these things that are needed. Thank you. I too am going through the grief process. This helped so much.

  • @shukyarije9337
    @shukyarije9337 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    It takes a real person to sit and talk about their break up, especially with so many subscribers. Thanks for being authentic, your so relatable thats why you are my favvv youtuber. You keep it real!!! This one hurts but I know you are a fine babe, keep your head up and you will be fine!! It happens its okay to be sad for now. Stay strong gurl!! We here for you!

  • @BeautyByOsa
    @BeautyByOsa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Been through a break up as well after a 4 year relationship and I know how you feel when you describe it as feeling like someone died. His loss at the end of the day!! Praying that God continues to give you his peace. Sending lots of love your way girl! 💕💕

  • @breannalang5139
    @breannalang5139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Even in a heartbreaking moment.. you’re still shining bright &’ your energy is still beautiful. Wishing you a safe return back to yourself 🤎

  • @__Ivori
    @__Ivori 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This couldn’t have done at a better time. 😩 I’m in this space right now & this was so inspiring

  • @efemenajuweto8915
    @efemenajuweto8915 2 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    It really felt like I was on FaceTime with you sophia and there’s no better way to handle this than the way you handled it. God will see you through babes cuz you’re forever a fine babe ❤️❤️

  • @baddielu1870
    @baddielu1870 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love how transparent and open you are with your breakup. Definitely helped to hear that it’s normal to just feel. Wishing a peaceful healing journey 💕

  • @MariahKierra
    @MariahKierra 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m currently going through the stages of grief from a 3 year relationship. I’m somewhere between anger and bargaining!!! My heart is so broken!! I wish you nothing but the best throughout your new journey 💕💕

  • @Iamdanackc
    @Iamdanackc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    It’s something about God’s peace🤍 preach Soph! God has something way better in store. I love you girly, you will definitely get through this. A day at a time. Praying for you love!

  • @beingsixtine6431
    @beingsixtine6431 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amazing music curation, Broken Promises, Last Last..
    Amazing aesthetics,
    Refreshing honesty and vulnerability.
    This feels like a talk with a friend, about something we’ve all or might all go through at some point. It feels like both accountability and just expressing where you are, and advice for us.
    Thank you for being open, and showing real life.
    You got this, God has you, we got you too.

  • @bballbrittany
    @bballbrittany 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Aww. Praying for Sophia! Grieving will have you feeling different everyday. But God will continue to order your steps. The single life is better than being treated less than what you deserve and can be fun while learning yourself, no pressure 💕

  • @faithmartina4144
    @faithmartina4144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Wishing you light and love babes sometimes God has a way of laughing at our plans, in this next transition God will make a way out of no way. You always come out on top 🥰🥰🥰

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you, View profile

  • @gracefullymarieange
    @gracefullymarieange 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Honestly you’re off to a great start. This may sound cliche but with God you will get through this with a breeze. You will have your moments but the more you cling to God and let Him do a work in you, you will come out refined and better. Weeping May endure for the night but joy comes in the morning. Take in what God is trying to elevate in you in this new season. Realign yourself with His Word. I love you boo, you got this. ♥️

  • @c.nicholle8250
    @c.nicholle8250 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    💕✔️Love you Sophia!! This message was meant to be shared, and I needed to hear it!! 🥺

  • @Ife-z6d
    @Ife-z6d 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    “Allow God to do it”.
    Sending love Babe❤️

  • @coffeenomilk
    @coffeenomilk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    omg bestie 🥺 I’m so sorry but happy for you at the same time because it’s the beginning of a new season and chapter of your life. and God really has plans to prosper you so keep finding peace in that verse. love you lots ❤️🫶🏾

  • @divinemajesty5600
    @divinemajesty5600 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This was so encouraging and Uplifting! You are amazing and I thank you for sharing and motivating other women to Get up and Keep it moving For themselves. You teach women To LOVE themselves First over anything.

    • @johndre8673
      @johndre8673 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so happy having my former partner back , after being separated for months . All thanks to Mr Ehijator whom help me to get back my ex again , I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours

  • @sibahlemnyandu5397
    @sibahlemnyandu5397 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    It's 6:07AM rn in South Africa & the way I just sang "Last Last" out loud with you LOL, it's the only song I've been listening to the whole week since I'm going through a break up. Please let's chop our breakfast & keep it moving, sending you so much strength & LOVE. Can't wait to be apart of your new journey 💖💖💖

    • @boipelo_k
      @boipelo_k 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @VennesaM
      @VennesaM 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      💜💜💜💜

  • @TheReallUnique
    @TheReallUnique 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The production 🔥 I hope this transition is filled with immense self-love, favor from God, and tons and tons of fun! You deserve all the happiness 🤍🤍 sending love and hugs!

  • @britneycook5975
    @britneycook5975 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is crazy I was in the same predicament a year ago ending a 4.5 relationship I know exactly how you felt or are feeling
    I can just tell you my year of singleness was everything I needed.
    God is definitely revealing to you that you made the right decision
    You got this fine babe

  • @Ma.Ndabezitha_
    @Ma.Ndabezitha_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    ATLEAST YOU CRIED IN BUSINESS CLASS!!! 😭😂👏👏 Sophia I love you!!! 😂😂❤️

  • @jjupiter1218
    @jjupiter1218 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The level of empathy you have for your viewers about your break up is mind blowing. I also love how you respect your privacy and still find a way to let us see your amazing personality. Sis you sound like you’re in the right headspace. Also girl you looking GOOODDDTTT in the transition to the Girls Room like we see you babes😍😍😍

  • @inspiredbysi
    @inspiredbysi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wow what a woman of God you are! That’s how you know when ur whole with urself, whatever the reason was of the breakup you were strong enough to let go and for most women it’s hard because of the battles of loneliness, insecurities, etc 🤍 Ladies a relationship with God is so necessary ✨🤞🏽

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you, View profile

  • @ohsosoph___
    @ohsosoph___ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video LITERALLY couldn’t have come at a better time. God sent, thank you from one Sophia to another.

  • @tavilyfeofmusic
    @tavilyfeofmusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Also everyone should understand this about Sophie, she been maturing, Divinely and gracefully growing into her divine Feminine power and beauty! She been healing and giving us the tools to be successful, I watched her go through ups and downs through her channel! So this is just a bump in the road, I know she gone be okay! Beautiful Soul 😍

  • @Cash_mom
    @Cash_mom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What people don’t realize this break up is traumatic and you have to just let your mind body and soul just go through it and just purge it out of your system and then one day you’ll realize hey I’m not sad again I’m me again. You’ll be OK baby girl❤️

  • @sherikac4426
    @sherikac4426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    SIS IM SHOOKETH! But that fact that YOURE GOOD, we’re good 🤍

  • @bougiebaby985
    @bougiebaby985 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I needed to see this , even though you are younger than me you have been teaching me for years i been here since DAY ONE !
    I’m so happy I watched this video because I needed to see this I really did because I’m going through it!
    But I know the plans God has for me !

  • @cicilewis2043
    @cicilewis2043 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Wow..I'm shocked! I was saying to myself how I thought u and Carlton looked so happy when I was watching yall on I believe it was your insta stories..you looked so happy and how he looked at u was so adorable..wow u just never know what's going on in people's relationship. Huns I'm so sorry and you look refreshed and looking good. Stay strong!

  • @MrGansters2
    @MrGansters2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Being single can be very fun! Live your best life love. When God says it’s time he will send the right mate for you. Keep the content coming beautiful, we are here for you!!!

  • @kaysteph02
    @kaysteph02 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My jaws is on the ground right now😢😭😭😭
    Honestly I love you both together, but God know the best for YOU ❤️❤️❤️

  • @larrissaosei3812
    @larrissaosei3812 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Y’all when I tell y’all I understand her a 100% I just went through this recently and I’m super proud and happy to see her standing up for herself love her !❤️

  • @KingBunnyxo
    @KingBunnyxo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Going through a divorce! Thank you for the video love 💕 strong gals will always be good 🥰

  • @jamilewilliams6100
    @jamilewilliams6100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Heart break is grief especially when it was genuine, but ALLOW yourself to heal from the inside out. Remember that before all you are human, you are a woman, you have feelings. I think the public puts this magnifying glass on influencers that is not fair, so be fair to yourself and allow yourself to heal Sophia! All Nija strong woman influencer behind! Allow yourself to heal I beg. But go fine babe! Cause you got this!

  • @blessingalomaja6533
    @blessingalomaja6533 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Our fine babe! You’re going to be fine by the Grace of God! Sending you love and healing! ❤️🙏🏾

  • @johannanicole6604
    @johannanicole6604 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That intro IMPECCABLE!! Praying for you Sophia! ❤️❤️ you got this girl, healing is definitely a journey

  • @TheSharmiyao
    @TheSharmiyao 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Sending you the biggest hug girl. You spoke with such maturity. I know it’s an up and down thing. I’m praying for you on this journey. You are very much loved and appreciated.Congrats on all the success continuing to come your way.🤎 Btw, tapping in from SoCal.✨

    • @hannahspiritual7875
      @hannahspiritual7875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      do you need any help like love spell to bring your ex back, win case in court, ex wife back, ex husband back, money spell, pregnancy spell, job spell, sickness spell (cure to any sickness) do you want to be the best in all you do or rather lay your complaints let me help you, View profile

  • @lisakaye3919
    @lisakaye3919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So much respect tht you’re actually addressing it. Its so annoying when youtubbers just act like carry on. They don’t have to tell all details but damn act like you care abt your viewers. Much respect to you. And you will get through this. 💕

  • @lovella1888
    @lovella1888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Aww🥺. I hope you’re well, you’re still shining and will continue to shine regardless❤️. Love you soph x

  • @stina104
    @stina104 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Truly been with you for a long while! Literally since you were in school! So proud of your growth and the peace that God had laid upon you! Though this was some sad news so glad and happy to see God cradling you through this!! You are one of the most beautiful souls to watch ❤️ so excited for what next for you because we know it will be immaculate ❤️ sending all the love!!!

  • @princessalee2554
    @princessalee2554 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Sophie I honestly see so much growth since watching in 2018 I know there’s so much more and I hope your heart heals❤️❤️

  • @salishajay19
    @salishajay19 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    We still want a fully furnished apartment tour! 🥰

  • @lilmamajaiteh
    @lilmamajaiteh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “Open your pocket, let me see” 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
    Also the song Last Last couldn’t have at a better time for most of us. Sending you lot’s of love ❤️

  • @tomioke1448
    @tomioke1448 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The way my heart hurts 💔just reading the title😖
    Positive vibes baby girl❤️‍🔥, you got the world ahead of you 🥰