Would You Tell Your Friend If You Found Out They Were Being Cheated On?

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  • @yonnithebeauty8022
    @yonnithebeauty8022 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +201

    Of course because i would want someone to tell me. If its a real friend

    • @Bella-qd6bq
      @Bella-qd6bq 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Exactly

    • @rybaxter5424
      @rybaxter5424 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Agreed! UNLESS it’s a recurring situation… I may say something the first and second time but if they keep going back, why even do that to yourself?

  • @davorianware1382
    @davorianware1382 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +173

    Lots of bad friends out there. If you can't tell them the truth about everything they're not your friend

    • @specialk4049
      @specialk4049 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

      For real!!! I don't care if you're a friend of a friend --- I want to know AND I will protect your identity. The problem is that too many people want to laugh behind your back or have something to gossip about. Sad 😔

    • @michaeldunson2531
      @michaeldunson2531 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      What if you are friend with both of them? That happen to me but they both was cheating so I stayed out of it, they have been married for over 40 years now! If you are only friend with one of them then yes tell them! That also happen to me! My high school sweetheart got pregnant in the 12 grade and I though I was the father but one of my high school friend told me that his uncle was the father so I confronted her and she admitted it! So by him being a real friend he saved me from a life time of taking care of another man child!

    • @Bella-qd6bq
      @Bella-qd6bq 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      FACTS !!!!!!!!!

    • @MsANAIT
      @MsANAIT 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      We can tell. But can they receive is the question. I lost a 10 year friendship. I saw him , snapped a pic, and confronted him. Even gave him the opportunity to talk to my friend first. He didn’t, so I did. She cried, I offered her kind words and support either way. A few days later I haven’t heard from her so I send a text, no response. Called her , no response. A week goes by I pull up. She was very stand off-ish. But I chopped it up to the situation. Over the next few months she fell back. Because I know she’s still with him, so why are you being weird to me and I didn’t do sh!t. So I texted her my concerns. She wanted to work on her situation with him alone…. Ok…. I gave her space. Then she hit me with this n!gga thought I was getting in her head. 😂😂😂😂bye ma’am . I admit I was hurt. But I decided never again. Just looking at our friendship, she doesn’t like confrontation, so I don’t know why I was shocked. So for me it’s case by case.

  • @creepinoutdaziploc3115
    @creepinoutdaziploc3115 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +202

    Its 2024 you can just send a picture. Aint got to tell them nothing

    • @SuperMurray2009
      @SuperMurray2009 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      😂😂😂.

    • @doctordl7757
      @doctordl7757 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      Facts no need to be troubled with the burden of proof, a pic says it all

    • @yungnflashytv
      @yungnflashytv 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      It was AI

    • @gl3936
      @gl3936 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@yungnflashytvyou can send a video too. Not many people even know how to use AI

    • @yungnflashytv
      @yungnflashytv 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @gl3936 shhhhh that was AI too if it was me lmao

  • @EllyzGoodwill
    @EllyzGoodwill วันที่ผ่านมา +163

    It’s common for relationships to hit rough patches, yet there’s always a way to move forward. My own marriage faced serious obstacles, but with the right support, my wife and I overcame them and grew closer. With effort and teamwork, solutions are possible. Don’t give up-answers are attainable

    • @SERIKAmrabat
      @SERIKAmrabat วันที่ผ่านมา

      My relationship is going through major troubles, and losing her is unbearable for me. I love and miss my partner more than words can express and am ready to do whatever it takes to have her return. Any suggestions or guidance would be greatly appreciated.

    • @EllyzGoodwill
      @EllyzGoodwill วันที่ผ่านมา

      Saying farewell to someone you love dearly is never easy, but in my case, I had the assistance of a spiritual counselor who saved my marriage from falling apart. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

    • @SERIKAmrabat
      @SERIKAmrabat วันที่ผ่านมา

      Your guidance is well-received. I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; her absence is keenly felt.

    • @EllyzGoodwill
      @EllyzGoodwill วันที่ผ่านมา

      I promise you will not regret it.

  • @mpho87
    @mpho87 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +103

    You not a real friend if you do not tell.

    • @Moneystayswithme
      @Moneystayswithme 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Until that man's fist land in your face or you're jumping a fence to get away from your friend's man after she tells him.

    • @michaeldunson2531
      @michaeldunson2531 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      What if you are friend with both of them?

    • @mpho87
      @mpho87 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@michaeldunson2531 why would I be friends with my boys girl? Does not make sense

    • @TriggaTreDay
      @TriggaTreDay 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      If you have told them 10 times before, at some point it pointless.

    • @mpho87
      @mpho87 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@TriggaTreDay True, I am not warning him more than once.

  • @ToriChanel
    @ToriChanel 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +34

    I’ve learned to keep my mouth shut, people will hate you because of truth.

  • @doctordl7757
    @doctordl7757 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +85

    Remember silence 🤫 makes you an accomplice!

  • @anthonygreene297
    @anthonygreene297 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +31

    I’m minding my business, they’ll stay together and ice you out

    • @roseblack6057
      @roseblack6057 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      This!

    • @shestayready
      @shestayready 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      If that's my friend I'm telling. If he/she mad because I speak the truth, then that's a "you" problem

  • @MikeThaPhilosopher
    @MikeThaPhilosopher 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +50

    I would absolutely want my friend to tell me if they caught my partner cheating .

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      no friend , mind yo business because you don't know what kind of arrangements they could be having bts that you needn't even be privy to.

    • @MikeThaPhilosopher
      @MikeThaPhilosopher 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @ i said for myself…. Can you read?

  • @ayeciahuie414
    @ayeciahuie414 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +49

    Just take a photo of him in action and send it. Let him explain to her what is going on.

    • @TheRealCueenFoodie
      @TheRealCueenFoodie 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Literally what I do! 😂❤❤ the realest

    • @kroxx2
      @kroxx2 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Catch me in the bed doing it.. it wasn't me.. ITS THE DEMON IN ME.. HOW CAN I DO THAT

    • @newdestiny3371
      @newdestiny3371 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Right let them explain

    • @raymondben36466
      @raymondben36466 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Exactly what I said. I sent the picture(s), ask your wife.

  • @AmiriHipHop
    @AmiriHipHop 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +83

    If you have concrete proof, then 100% Yes.
    Any person that has proof that your partner is cheating and STILL wouldn't tell you is not truly your friend. There is no Ifs, Ands or Buts about it.

    • @ssbell2011jcsu
      @ssbell2011jcsu 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Unless you've told that friend before and they keep deciding to look the other way or make excuses, etc.

    • @AmiriHipHop
      @AmiriHipHop 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      @@ssbell2011jcsu In that case, I wouldn't even be friends with that person to tell them the 2nd time.
      If I show my homie concrete proof of his girl messing around with someone else and he says anything in the realm of:
      "Bro that picture/video fake af. You probably made that yourself. You just want us to break up so that YOU can have her".
      That will be the day me and him stop being friends. I'm not being cool with no mf that reacts like that when the proof is in your face.

    • @mp4455
      @mp4455 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      💯

    • @ssbell2011jcsu
      @ssbell2011jcsu 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@AmiriHipHop makes sense.

  • @Charlise.Evelyn
    @Charlise.Evelyn 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +75

    i understand minding your business….but it’s your friend! If my friend’s man is outside with someone else, why wouldn’t I mention it? I’m not a friend if I don’t.

    • @Lkmsundastood
      @Lkmsundastood 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      I still would tell her, but if we’re very close. Cause if we’re not she’ll either cut you off or won’t believe you anyway cause they think you’re being jealous of what they have.

    • @Charlise.Evelyn
      @Charlise.Evelyn 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      @@Lkmsundastood i see what you’re saying. but my FRIEND would never think that lol now if they were asking if I saw an associate or co workers man outside cheating then i’m definitely minding my business…but a FRIEND? I’m definitely telling.

    • @daweeza42
      @daweeza42 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Exactly!

    • @princessbc9791
      @princessbc9791 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Agreed, I’ve always told and no one has ever gotten mad at me. That be extremely weak women doing that ish!

    • @bororobo3805
      @bororobo3805 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Your friend will think you wants to snatch him 😂
      Y'all women do that sometimes

  • @DaniTheAlchemist33
    @DaniTheAlchemist33 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +335

    Unless you have hardcore proof, mind your business

    • @InfernoHeadtv
      @InfernoHeadtv 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +45

      You definitely been cheated on

    • @ShervierJ
      @ShervierJ 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

      I’m still minding my business

    • @InfiniteCoreXD
      @InfiniteCoreXD 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      That’s some sad stuff

    • @pakananani6397
      @pakananani6397 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Teaching my daughter to stay away from women like you

    • @balorklub
      @balorklub 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      ​@@InfernoHeadtvoh cheating herself 😂

  • @Blk.Philip
    @Blk.Philip 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +73

    I have a rule I’ll tell you one time and you can do with that info what you will but everyone deserves at least one heads up

    • @Bella-qd6bq
      @Bella-qd6bq 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Facts

  • @bigboi_88
    @bigboi_88 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    Lauren is such a breath of fresh air ......

  • @1320771
    @1320771 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    Mind your business because 9 out of 10 they’re going to be right back together. They also end up taking his or her side, now they mad at you!!! I’ve seen this so many times.

    • @cget
      @cget วันที่ผ่านมา

      Who cares if they get back together? Whoever is being cheated on deserves to know regardless

  • @TheMrMasterChief12
    @TheMrMasterChief12 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    I don't understand this? Why would you NOT tell your FRIEND?! We're not talking about a distant cousin, coworker, or friend of a friend, we're talking about YOUR FRIEND! Typa friends are y'all?!😂 It's no way you can call someone your friend and you would have them out here looking goofy like that

    • @TeawthT
      @TeawthT 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Right

    • @0neMoment
      @0neMoment 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @cidneymc
    @cidneymc 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    You can’t be my friend if you think I should not tell you about your man cheating. That makes me think you would hide that true from me if it was in your position.

  • @curryshotyou1538
    @curryshotyou1538 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +89

    No but be prepared to lose a friend if you do tell them

    • @beth-h1z
      @beth-h1z 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      Yup I will never again tell.

    • @kittykatcongregation
      @kittykatcongregation 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      Yeah but why is this normal?

    • @creepinoutdaziploc3115
      @creepinoutdaziploc3115 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Not in these days and times unless a mf just ignorant

    • @Myshelleallen
      @Myshelleallen 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      💯

    • @devin3955
      @devin3955 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

      Tbh if that’s what ends the friendship were we ever really friends?

  • @gummybear9797
    @gummybear9797 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    That lady in Ghana is trying to give wisdom, hope everyone was listening! Have a productive week yall!❤

  • @Prismatic9008
    @Prismatic9008 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    I would tell. I wouldn't want that being kept from me. I would say be prepared for pushback or even having to end the friendship. It happened to me after I told a friend that I saw her boyfriend in plain sight cheating. The friendship ended, and she eventually broke up with him because she was able to see it for herself that he was cheating.

  • @Oso_99
    @Oso_99 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    I don’t care about anyone’s feelings, if someone you know is being unfaithful to you I’m letting you know the moment I find out, it’s a lose lose so you may as well go out with a bang 💯

  • @McHotti
    @McHotti 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    This happened before my homegirl man was cheating. We told her & when she talked to him, he flipped it on her & said we’re just jealous, she needs to watch us blah blah blah. The friendship was never the same after that & we seen him cheating. I vow to myself to not tell her or anyone anything from that point on & if I lose the friendship because of that then it must not have been a friendship for me no one has to tell me if someone’s cheating on me what happens in the dark will come in the light!

    • @filmadcamp1512
      @filmadcamp1512 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Women love to claim that these men are swinging or misleading them when in reality they just wanna be ignorant so they can say they have a man.

  • @rosetopaz
    @rosetopaz 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Should have asked CTG and Envy, would you want your friend to tell your spouse you’re cheating 👀

  • @positive___soul
    @positive___soul 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    Depends on the extent of our friendship. Some people don’t want to believe you because they don’t want to lose their relationship and be quick to end the friendship over their relationship.

    • @lcoleman6046
      @lcoleman6046 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Also, some people get offended when you talk about their spouse, so there's a no-win situation.

  • @brandypeay5350
    @brandypeay5350 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Depends on the friend. At one point in my life I would, but now I use decernment☺️I’m not getting involved in nobodies situationship and then the tables are turned on me, I’m now the enemy and he/she are still with their partner❤🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @kelsblair5963
    @kelsblair5963 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Yall weird im telling my friend. If they don’t listen or come at me sideways then GOOD RIDDANCE! Same applies for if my friend was the one cheating I would tell the about themselves for doing that person dirty. Yall not real friends. You be honest with the person with PROOF. All that mind my business stuff is irrelevant once you send proof

  • @maryfields877
    @maryfields877 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    If it was my BFF, she telling the truth. I'm rockin with her; these men are something else.

  • @sharonquinn5193
    @sharonquinn5193 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Yes, I would because I would want someone to tell me if my man was cheating.

  • @jnjozma2012
    @jnjozma2012 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Nope. I don’t care how much proof I have. I helped a friend catch her husband cheat once (at her request) but when they decided to work things out, he told her that she couldn’t be friends with me anymore because I “was in their business.” She didn’t speak to me for almost two years. I will never do that again. I don’t care what I know or see.

  • @mrlondon1278
    @mrlondon1278 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    I would and if our friendship ends it shows that it wasn’t that strong anyway. I wouldn’t if my friends partner is a serial cheater and they know.

  • @ButtahBeauty
    @ButtahBeauty 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Calling women whores on radio for cheating as if all the men on this show haven’t cheated is ridiculous

    • @patricialilly6782
      @patricialilly6782 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Okkk both of those men have cheated on there wives

    • @Ememewhrgrvr
      @Ememewhrgrvr 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      If you listen closely you can hear their noses grow while they talk 🤥 😂

  • @kendracosey
    @kendracosey 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Something similar happened to me. My really good friend (female) was cheating on her husband with my best friend (male).
    I told her how I felt about it and recommended that she stopped. But they did what grown people do and continued the affair.
    Her husband found out and I got blamed anyway. Luckily, she was woman enough to admit to her husband that I had nothing to do with it and that I even tried to get her to stop. He later apologized to me, and they divorced.
    This is the short version. All of the extras that happened in between is literally a movie. 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @XShadowWolf1926
    @XShadowWolf1926 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Charlamagne was on one and I'm here for it 😂

  • @TheRealCueenFoodie
    @TheRealCueenFoodie 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    I’m Charlemagne !!! I’m too old for games 1:25 😂😂

  • @shestayready
    @shestayready 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Now ask CTG if it's his guy friend that's cheating, would he tell his wife?

  • @jeremiahking7816
    @jeremiahking7816 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I was with Charlemagne all the way up until he said he was a messenger of God😂😂😂

  • @theqs7289
    @theqs7289 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    No question I am telling and I am about to be loud AF about it to, right there at the crime scene lol 😂

    • @mshill2406
      @mshill2406 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      That part 👍🏿

  • @zjfamusbeatz
    @zjfamusbeatz 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Loren is the most educated n this show, give her the job 😂😂😂

  • @JEGlobalConcepts
    @JEGlobalConcepts 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Now that CTG and envy got caught they turn informants

  • @1234pixy1
    @1234pixy1 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    The right answer is... if he's been doing it and she knows... keep your mouth SHUT.

  • @mybookoflife748
    @mybookoflife748 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    If I see the signs, my friend does too. They are just choosing to ignore them

  • @dwaynejordan6750
    @dwaynejordan6750 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    There's a Thin Line between Love and Hate, so Act accordingly.

  • @CynnamonBrown770
    @CynnamonBrown770 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    It depends on the friend. 😂

  • @ginabrown1686
    @ginabrown1686 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I believe in staying out of married folks business a boyfriend or girlfriend is different

  • @ADopeGoddess
    @ADopeGoddess 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    “Black women don’t cheat either, We just order the groceries and help our cousins!”
    TELL EM QUEEN👏🏾😭🤭

  • @mynameiszu
    @mynameiszu 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    « black men dont cheat » ???? What did I just hear?? 😂 Come on Charla. 😂 It literally hurts to hear that, don’t joke like that. Better try and keep all them y’all responsible. (And YES - i would ABSOLUTELY tell my friend if i saw their partner cheating. Only fake friends shallow weak ass people wouldn’t.)

  • @caligirl10
    @caligirl10 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Yes I have told someone about their man cheating and it didn’t go well but I will still do it again. I have never understood women getting mad at the friend for telling them. Also, if you’re my friend you better tell me!! Don’t have me out here looking stupid. My cousin, sister, and one of my friends didn’t tell me what was going on until after I found out on my own. They didn’t want to get involved or risk me being mad at them. I’m not like these other women… telling me doesn’t piss me off but not telling me does!

  • @guyedmondson-hm5nx
    @guyedmondson-hm5nx 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Yall love yall friends that much idc we grown he or she know what there doing😂💯

  • @iBryanDBrown
    @iBryanDBrown 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Done it before, he got back with the girl and married her…we’re no longer friends. Won’t do it again!

    • @newdestiny3371
      @newdestiny3371 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      At least he found love

    • @LDR411
      @LDR411 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Same thing happened to me but I KNEW our friendship would end because it wasn’t our first conversation concerning their relationship and I was tired or their drama. I excused myself from the friendship after I had a heart to heart. It was painful but I know have PEACE. I don’t ever want to be in that position again. Some ppl you can tell. Some you can’t.

  • @Scorpiovib3z
    @Scorpiovib3z 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Mind your business period‼️ what's done in the dark will come to light eventually ❤ ✌🏽️

  • @KINGDOMDAUGHTER
    @KINGDOMDAUGHTER 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    WE SHALL KNOW THEM BY THEIR FRUIT.
    Charla and Envy, when you were cheating did you tell your wife before someone told her or she found out. Have any friends addressed you both for your past indiscretions and you cut them off for being a friend. So you best be thankful to God that both your spouse stayed in that marriage and forgive you both for your cheating. But you are now on the other side of doing the upright thing, to try to save a marriage and not divide a marriage. THAT IS WICKEDNESS in your heart to quick to tell your friend to go file that irreconcilable divorced documents. WHEN YOU YOURSELVES WERE RIGHT THERE LIKE IT WAS YESTERDAY, HAVING ADULTEROUS AFFAIRS ON YOUR WIFE'S.
    MORALS AND STANDARDS ARE SO LACKING.
    ONES CHARACTER, CONDUCT, COMMUNICATION AND CONVERSATION SPEAKS VOLUMES OF A PERSON FRUIT OF UPRIGHTNESS

  • @keepitfunky1858
    @keepitfunky1858 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Don’t say shxt!!! bcoz when that person decides to stay with that person regardless, your the one what becomes the bad guy.

  • @LiveCuts
    @LiveCuts 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    9:40 GHANA 🇬🇭 All day every day. Peace and pan africanism my people

  • @sonyap8253
    @sonyap8253 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    A serial cheater going off like this is crazy work ..

  • @jeanwesleynew
    @jeanwesleynew 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Depends on the friend, depends on what i know.

  • @dantrellswint5996
    @dantrellswint5996 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Foreal i feel Charla lil broke ass just passing out that broke ass box 😂😂😂😂

  • @patricialilly6782
    @patricialilly6782 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Cha telling and he Cheated on his wife and sure did not respect his vows to his wife...

  • @treybikes
    @treybikes 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Both charlamenge and envy cheated on their wife’s, so when he say black men don’t cheat is the cringiest shit on the planet

  • @rybaxter5424
    @rybaxter5424 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Charlemagne is definitely triggered by this conversation😂all that cheating he was doing…and I personally don’t believe in cheating on my man but he’s being very judgmental since he’s wife didn’t give him a taste of his own medicine🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @0neMoment
    @0neMoment 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    A real friend will tell the Truth & hold your friend accountable with proof 🤷🏽‍♂️

  • @georginawilliamsriley8134
    @georginawilliamsriley8134 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Well if we were that good of friends hell yes

  • @617boston6
    @617boston6 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wrapped in a blanket like an old woman and trying to sound manly is nasty work. Envy one of those "it dont count" dudes

  • @Cherry_lotus
    @Cherry_lotus 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I did this and it wasn’t even my friend. Like I’ve always been a party girl and one of my friend’s friend boyfriend always cheated when I saw him at the club every weekend. I told her and I was hated but I didn’t care cause I tried to save her and she wasn’t really my friend - she was my friend’s friend

  • @ErickP3768
    @ErickP3768 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Get video or photo evidence then send it to them using a burner phone, or email. You let them know whats happening and you just need to pretend like you don’t know anything.

  • @leebrown2368
    @leebrown2368 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I’m snitchin snitchin, ain’t no mind ya business, if we locked in ima protect them anyway I can and idc how I’m judged. I’m standin on business point blank period!!

  • @gjuannajenkins2107
    @gjuannajenkins2107 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    It's always kill the messenger 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @SmlThngz2aGIANT
    @SmlThngz2aGIANT 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    PREACH CHARLA! AYE Envy stop hanging up on ppl!

  • @otcwavie9485
    @otcwavie9485 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Hell yea dafawk if it's the homie. First I gotta understand the context of the situation.

  • @ChanelStar1
    @ChanelStar1 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    *If you don't have a photo or a video just keep it to yourself.*

  • @TheRealCueenFoodie
    @TheRealCueenFoodie 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I TELL EVERYTHING !!! On God and I be PRAYING MY real friends tell me

  • @shaquilhoskins3078
    @shaquilhoskins3078 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    11:44 Charla had a lot of beef for brokies on this segment 😂😂😂

  • @leahleon_
    @leahleon_ 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    7:25
    “Acting like he ain’t no where around”
    ‘Fantasia - You got me waiting’
    🙌

  • @Mstruebeauty25
    @Mstruebeauty25 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Everything Saucy said is facts that's why I mind my business 😂

  • @joneschilufya867
    @joneschilufya867 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sometimes ur friend don’t wanna know. Lost a friend after telling them this. They reconciled and felt like a fool 😂

  • @mariahwhitneycelinejanetmadona
    @mariahwhitneycelinejanetmadona 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Kentucky and Tampa? I see why you left for Ghana

  • @MsBrit_
    @MsBrit_ 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    YUP! My loyalty is to my friend, not that hussy. LOL... 🤣😂😅😆☺🤭

  • @Theambershow_
    @Theambershow_ 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yep, just let them know. They better keep their head on the swivel.

  • @mybookoflife748
    @mybookoflife748 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wasn’t Charla cheating on his wife?!!

  • @HITTHEHAZARD
    @HITTHEHAZARD 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    12:44 When women came out with “No Scrub” we came out with “No Pigeon”😂 Just birds for the skreets

  • @kimberlyjohnson651
    @kimberlyjohnson651 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Lauren you are the GOAT

  • @desireesimmons842
    @desireesimmons842 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    If the answer is no, then that means you can't tell anyone else either. Because they may not have the same loyalty to your friend. If your friend finds out, you know now, you have betrayed her too and gossiping about her in the streets. It's a double-edged sword.

    • @LADYDIVAful
      @LADYDIVAful 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      There’re levels to this: I will not say a word to my friend or relative, but I have confronted the cheater and the cheater got it right. All is well today!

  • @monilolalove9361
    @monilolalove9361 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I most certainly would. Having said that, if I made the decision to tell; I would be prepared to also lose that friend. It’s a hard one; if you do not tell and they found out you knew - understandably they’d be upset and you’d still lose a friend!.

  • @hectors535
    @hectors535 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Proud of you char hell yea!! 😂😂😂

  • @bloodgang3537
    @bloodgang3537 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Shes back

  • @crystalhickman2640
    @crystalhickman2640 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Santana hit the nail on the coffin😂😂😂😂😂 I'm iced out😂🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @R.Outler
    @R.Outler 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wait. Are we talking about 'friends' or associates? My friends get the info. My associates get the gas face. 😂

  • @themandinkafamily
    @themandinkafamily 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Nope. There was a time my homegirl's boyfriend came at me. I told her and she said I was just jealous and the friendship ended for a few years. Fast forward she caught him cheating on her own and they're no longer together. Moral of the story: Don't say nothing.

  • @princessbc9791
    @princessbc9791 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I would if I had proof! I’ve always told and I haven’t been wrong once!

  • @InfiniteCoreXD
    @InfiniteCoreXD 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You gotta tell them especially if that friend got a family. No family isn’t a big deal.

  • @bg_supreme
    @bg_supreme 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’ve been in this exact situation. I told my friend & they were 100% glad I did. I guess it depends on the person.

  • @doctordl7757
    @doctordl7757 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hell yeah! And if they don't that's not your friend

  • @freyastar4399
    @freyastar4399 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    If I know they are being cheated on, that means I have proof. I would have had to see it with my own eyes. That’s the only way you can know… anything else is a rumor… so yes, I’m telling my friend what I saw/witnessed. If I had time to get pictures or videos, she’ll be presented with them as well.
    If you were walking down the street with your friend and you guys were at a crosswalk, she takes a step to go into the street. You look and see a bike coming but she doesn’t. Do you let her get hit by the bike you seen coming? Possibly getting seriously hurt. Or do you grab her and point at the bike that was on the path to collide with her?
    If you are my friend and you see something coming my way that can cause me harm/pain… you better speak up. Or you were never truly my friend…

  • @MazterP28
    @MazterP28 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Nope. Now that’s my drama too.

  • @yochacole6704
    @yochacole6704 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You could lose a friend rather you tell them or not,

  • @phyllisjones3088
    @phyllisjones3088 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Didn’t CTG cheat talking the most mess

  • @WilliamNobleBonninActual
    @WilliamNobleBonninActual 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I would hope my friends would too.

  • @JayJay-v2y
    @JayJay-v2y 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You definitely tell on the woman and let the man determine how he handles her

  • @Juzeejuice
    @Juzeejuice 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’ve told a best friend and said girl do not tell him I told you. He was a crazy person. She definitely told him I told. Never again will I tell. Staying out of it. Had that man looking for me!

  • @katrinaholmes395
    @katrinaholmes395 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    This is how people get killed 😡

    • @LADYDIVAful
      @LADYDIVAful 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      💣💥🪃!