From someone who lived with an undiagnosed brain injury for nearly four years: do not leave any stone unturned. You are worth every test, every result, and worth finding answers for. Unexplained illnesses take such a deep emotional toll on you and in my experience became emotionally detrimental. I found great healing and help in seeing a counselor who empowered me with tools to cope with what I was going through. I HIGHLY recommend it to anyone struggling with ongoing/unexplained health issues. You are such a beautiful woman, wife, and mom. I love how you are so present with your kids despite everything going on. You are so incredible and such an inspiration. Thanks for your bravery in sharing your life with us. I will continue to pray for answers/healing for y'all and that the Lord would encourage your spirits.
Carlin-please don’t feel like you are ranting or even complaining. I believe when you share your burdens we all know how to intercede for you in prayer. I hope you have answers soon! 💜 Blessings!!!
Layla is absolutely a beautiful big sissy…”you can do it you can do it” I just love these precious years…such a wonderful thing to have your children in your vlogs! Praying for Carlin 🙏🏻♥️
Carlin is going through so much not knowing is going on with her and trying to take care of the children. I am glad of the support she gets from both families.
Fillings are never fun when you need freezing. That wouldn't be part of the problem would it? Things like that can make little issues into bigger issues especially in the body or brain.
Carlin... your plan to take it slow and know that answers won't come in one day is a great strategy. You are brave and strong! So blessed to have such a supportive husband too!
Super cute video. Layla singing "we don't talk about Bruno" and cheering on Zade and showing him how to roll is the sweetest! Such a great big sister! Sending many continued prayers your way Carlin. You are LOVED & Supported completely ❤️ 🙏🏻
The love that the two of you share for one another just brings tears to my eyes. Evan, the support you give Carlin and always thinking about how to make things safer for her makes my heart swell. The love you have for her shows in your eyes🥰 Carlin, the love you have for Evan also shows in your eyes and your appreciation for him is undeniable. I feel like there is nothing that the two of you, along with God, can’t get through. I love your little family so much and will continue to pray for you! 🙏
Carlin looks like she's doing much better than she did on the last vlog. I really hope you guys get answers soon or just that all of Carlin's symptoms go away and never come back. You guys are in my prayers! ❤
I have the same medical problems . I was admitted to Johns Hopkins for a week and I had episodes and it was determined mot to be epilepsy but rather a movement disorder. I haven’t had clearance to drive in 5 years. I moved to North Carolina and now being evaluated by a new team of Neuromuscular doctors. I wish you the best and don’t give up searching for answers.
This was so exciting! I was watching and cheering Zade on. And Layla, singing and performing looking to be Mommy and Daddy's excitement. I'm so glad y'all realized that immediately. Y'all are wise beyond your years and very attentive. Good job. Can't wait to see that full roll of Zade's next week.
I know this is hard! But nothing is impossible for GOD! He will give you guys an answer. I am praying for you guys. It doesn't say long suffering in the good book for nothing. But GOD is still good. Blessings 🥰🥰🥰
I've been to Mayo Clinic previously (for neurology) & all I needed was a referral by my primary care doctor & that got me onto the wait-list. If you're interested in getting a clinic like that, I would just call them to ask what is required to get onto the wait-list. I only had to be on the wait-list for about two months before I got an appointment.
Perhaps their neurology department is different, but my husband was able to get an appointment with their urology and oncology departments without a referral, as Mayo is in- network for his insurance. He waited less than two weeks for his appointments.
I got a referral to Mayo Ped Urology from my primary doctor, but a friend from our church just reached out to them! I think insurance requires it for certain situations (they will cover it as in network if you have a referral).
Like one mentioned prior, call whatever larger clinic you are interested in and just ask what is required. See if In-Network on your insurance, and speak to a financial specialist so you know what to expect . My first time , I was referred. Years later, we were in -network but Doctor referred too and we had an appointment within two weeks. We worked with Mayo for seven years or more, once or twice a year follow up appointments and they would go over everything and f needed to do a test, test again, or have me see another specialist, it was sometimes same day or next day.
Get into an Epileptologist which is just a neurologist who specializes in epilepsy. They know exactly what to look for to rule out or confirm neurological deficits.
@@michelle3445 it was just a suggestion from personal experience. I spent decades with neurologists and no clear diagnosis for decades. I would hate to see anyone else go through that. As I said, just a suggestion.
Ya’ll are literally my favorite YT channel to watch. Despite your trials you are still so positive and upbeat. Your love and support for each other shines through and you’re not afraid to be outspoken about your faith and how you’re trusting God, not just with Carlin’s health, but in every aspect of your lives. What a wonderful example to the world. Thank you for letting us walk life with you and pray for you.🙏🏼 You guys are pretty darn awesome!
It’s good to rant! It’s good to cry! In 2009 when I was struggling to get a diagnosis I felt better after doing both! Still struggle with my health issue and still rant and cry. It’s a good thing and we are here to listen to all and pray it all gets resolved! God bless.
Have you heard of F.N.D? I just saw a 24 year old woman on Instagram and at around 18 or 19 years old she started having seizures, blanking out, had tics and feels foggy after an episode. I have Epilepsy that came about in my 20’s, I had absent seizures and grand mal seizures. It’s absolutely horrible to just drop without warning and “lose time” and often have injuries. It took about a year to get the right medication but I found Epilum and I haven’t had a seizure in over 7 years. I wish you all the best, you are loved and supported by so many. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Layla is the sweetest big sister, cheering little brother on was adorable!😍 Keeping Carlin in my prayers, hopefully you'll get the answers you want soon!🙏💜
Carlin,it can be frustrating wanting answers about your health and having to wait for them. Just be encouraged, God is still in control. It's in the waiting on Him where he does miraculous things in our lives. You have such a great support system with Evan and both families. Layla singing is so precious. Don't worry,Zade will roll over really soon-he's so close.😊💖
Bless your heart Carlin! It can’t be easy going through this. Just know there are a lot of people lifting you and your family in prayer. You have an amazing husband and kiddos.
I just love y'all so much ! I'm incredibly sad that Carlin has to go through all of this. I'm tearing up as I'm saying this . Your children are beautiful and I'm so happy that Evan is there with you every step of the way ! Prayers for answers !!!!
Sweet Carlin! Don’t ever feel like you’re ranting is for nothing because just your testimony of a real life ride in the “struggle bus” could be comforting so many.
My heart goes out to you both. Of course you get overwhelmed and emotional. The waiting, and not knowing what's wrong is so hard. I'm happy that you have sweet times with your sweet babies, that will help you get through things.
One thing is for sure....you both are blessed with patience, peace, and a positive nature. God gives you the grace and He holds your hands thru this trial.
Sweet Carlin ~ My heart goes out to you as I watch the continuing saga of trying to find answers. I will save you the details, but I've been there and I'm there again. My life changed dramatically when I was in my late 20's. I'm 47 next month. I have been blessed to find my "tribe" of other ladies with the same diagnosis. We hold each other up in prayer. I know the waiting is the hardest of all, save for the answer. We all have had our share of breakdowns. You are in good company. Something I heard spoken in my devotional yesterday was that "God wastes nothing" that we face in our lives. I knew that but needed a reminder. I know it's frightening and you just want your life back. Been there sweetie. Will be praying over you. Many blessings.
So good to see baby boy! He's adorable just like Layla! Thanks for keeping us up on Carlin's health. Can't imagine how hard it is waiting for answers. Hang in there and just enjoy each day.
I was just rewatching your wedding video and thr song you sang to each other. This video shows that you are living out the vows you made that day.God bless you!
Hello there. I just came across your vlog and I am extremely impressed. Can't wait to watch your other content. When you said you are your son's best friend, I literally fell in love with you all. What words for a son to hear!!!! Respect, Sir. I pray for complete recovery and I pray with all my heart that you and your family be blessed for ever. You are creating wonderful memories. Thank you for being such a profound gentleman. You are truly an inspiration. My son is the greatest gentleman in the world and I know you are as well. It makes us ladies extremely proud. Blessings from South Africa 💖
Zade and layla are both just adorable!! I'll be praying for y'all!! God's timing is perfect and I know that he is healing you right now. Stay safe! Love y'all!
Carlin, I’m new to your channel and I have to say I am happy to finally see you talking in your videos. Your husband seems to be the talker of your relationship :) Nothing wrong with that, it’s just nice to hear YOU talk about all the issues you are having. Continued prayers for you all!
I prayed for Carlin several times. I hope she can get answers soon, so sshe can start living her life, and get back to normal things. Bless you guy's, and much love Debbie
Evan and Carlin, I'm pretty sure you won't see this - I didn't realize you had so many followers, but glad you do! :) I just wanted to tell you we have been praying for you both, that God will give a full healing for you, and give grace and strength to your family. We have been following Carlin since her days on Bringing Up Bates. We actually were camping in the cabin next door to you all in Pigeon Forge a couple of summers ago, and I met Gil and got to talk with him for a few minutes. The world needs more people like you all - you are such a blessing to us. Thank you for letting us follow your journey as a family!
Layla is so sweet encouraging her baby brother to turn over. It was nice to see both of the kiddo's they are growing way too fast. Prayers still coming you'r way . It is so nice that you keep us updated. I for one love your whole family and truly appreciate it. ❤️to you all
My heart goes out to you. So hard to deal with all the unknowns. So hard when you can't find an easy fix. So hard when you feel like prayers go unanswered. You and Evan are doing such a good job navigating through all the uncertainty. It's okay to have breakdowns, rants and bad days. You are not alone! You two are such a great example of patience, faith and hope. Keep the faith and God bless you.
Keep your hair long! It’s beautiful!! When you part it down the middle and put it up, it’s absolutely class act!! Shorter hair is always in the way! Beautiful family!
I love your little family. You two are so young and I think y’all are doing a great job in facing this health challenge. You are so fortunate to have such a large supportive family. Praying that you get answers soon. 🙏🌷❤️
It’s great that you all keep it real. That’s what we’re watching for. Layla sticking her nose, Carlin feeling upset, it’s real. It’s so bad timing for Evan just qualified, and now can’t work, and you just purchased your house. It’s stressful too! Real makes us feel. ♥️🇳🇿
My husband had an issue that no other doctors could figure out. Our family doctor sent us to a cardiologist, he found nothing. Cardiologist sent him to an gastroenterologist and he couldn’t find anything. So my husband went online to find a phone number to Mayo Clinic. There was an online form he filled out explaining his issue, they called him back and set up an appointment. He went and they did all the tests and found the issue!! They are amazing!! Hope this helps Carlin find out what’s going on! ❤️
Been following and praying for a while. I had a freak grand mal seizure a few years ago and can totally relate what you’re going through. It took months to figure out. But I was so weak physically afterwards and it took a long time but I did recover. For me it was all due to low sodium and I never really got clear answers. Just one by one they would test me for things, but I’d always have people pray over me before appointments for healing, and every test the results would be negative. It was a gradual process, but as long as I have enough salt and electrolytes I feel ok. But that’s my story and everyone’s is different. But I do believe God is a God of miracles and He still heals today, so praying you get answers and complete healing.
Your kiddos are so adorable! Sorry your walking through this. If you get frustrated with the allopathic medical system the functional medicine route is an option. In my experience during the first visit ,( it was a neurological issue) they knew what was wrong and helped fix some of the symptoms. (Its a long appointment but worth it). They didn't just fix it with meds, or tell me there was nothing they could do but went to the root of the problem. It was a really good experience. Praying you find answers and healing.
Zade is an amazing baby, I hardly every hear him cry. Carlin you are being so strong and I am sure many prayers have been sent for you and God is helping... so remember to thank Him. I was happy to see you used a wheel chair in Vegas. I will continue to pray for you to get answers and a plan that will allow you peace of mind.
Aw Carlin, I'm sorry you still have no answers for your health issues. I know how frustrating and scary that can be, I went 18 months without a diagnosis so I've been there and can empathize with you totally. Prayers for answers and healing for you. FYI I think you would look adorable with a pixie haircut, you have such awesome bone structure and beautiful eyes but I know you'll look great whatever you do. God Bless.
I can definitely empathize with your feelings. I started having heart rate issues out of the blue last year and to this day they still don't know what's causing it, but I've had so many doctor's appts and they continue to this day. Lots of prayer and leaning on Jehovah as well as listening to my body and taking it easy when I need to and when I feel good, trying to be as normal as I can be. It's an adjustment. Be kind to yourself and hang in there! ❤️ I hope they're able to get to the bottom of your issues soon as well.
Carlin please continue to share your heart. Like others have said, that gives us more ways to pray for you. I personally understand what it feels like to have something wrong and not get answers. Yes it's beyond frustrating. I have cried more times then I can count to my husband saying "I just want to be normal". Continuing to pray for you, all the Dr's treating you and of course your family. Evan is an amazing husband and daddy!
My daughter experiences the same things and I’ve commented about her POTS syndrome before. Carlin- the breakdowns and tears I’ve had w my daughter in a search for answers and frustrations. You are totally normal🥰
Dorinda Davis, I also think that POTS is what Carlin has. One of my son's sisters-in-law has it and she has all of these same issues, including tachycardia.
@@suzannerodriguez8600 I think maybe she has POTS and other conditions that have aggravated that response. Sometimes breast feeding or pumping or hormones fluctuating at all can aggravate a situation w POTS. And the high responses we are seeing due to Covid inflammation from active infections or the vaccination have made the cases I see dramatically higher. I hope Carlin gets answers and remission is possible, it’s so scary when it’s so unknown. Compression socks really make a huge difference with venous return of circulation- but my daughters having a hard time balancing that with the Florida heat right now too. Because temperature changes can really inspire episodes of convulsant syncope (the passing out). I pray for answers - it’s scary, dont I know😰🥰❤️
@@lesliejones6086 yes, when she was old enough to receive it she did get it. But I never noticed any connection. She got The other naughty vaccine (Moderna) because her daddy (my husband) got the original strain of the virus and almost died. She wanted to see him so badly. Although she received her required vaccines for school, etc... she still had her first pass out with seizure-like activity, when she was going through puberty. At that time the episodes were once a year at most. Now it’s weekly. It’s scary. Temperature change, hormones, illness, not wearing her compression socks, stress, and fatigue all seem to exacerbate it. The compression socks helped so much- gave that venous return to the heart- and now she is taking very strong heart medication that I hate she has to take. It’s really controversial medication and she will have to come off of it when she wants to have a baby (it’s dangerous for bleeding AND toxic to a developing baby/pregnancy.) But she was so desperate. The socks were great, but it’s summer in Florida, and temperature sensitivity is part of the initiating symptoms- so she’s trying everything. Failed a stress test within 4 minutes (her heart rate went over 180) and failed a tilt table. EKG and EEG fine. Our next step is a brain MRI (she’s had a clean CT) and she’s frustrated, discouraged, and so stressed- which makes it worse. She’s seeing rheumatology now, with neurology and cardiology, and that doctor has helped her the most. She has been placed on hydroxychloroquine actually now in addition to her other meds and so far, so good. But the short answer is that , yes, she received the HPV Gardasil vaccine... but it was years after she started with the episodes of “convulsant syncope.” It looks so much like seizures and Carlin’s story is almost identical. My daughter is also on a high sodium diet. I would suggest Carlin goes to rheumatology also... THEYVE discovered some inflammatory markers in her blood that are not within normal limits. Rheumatology gave a whole different perspective and we are trying everything. My daughter is 24 and needs her life back. She’s scared to leave the house! She’s having a hard time working at all, as the socks have helped but they are HOT. I pray for her everyday we need answers. The unknown is the scariest part. Curious- what is the relationship to Gardasil?
@@Dorinda-Sevvy, POTS is really hard to treat. One of my son's sisters-in-law has it. The only thing that helps her, when she is having a flare-up, is intravenous Benadryl. Oh do I understand your daughter's battle with compression stockings. I live in South Carolina and I can only tolerate them from November thru April. After that, it's just too hot and getting overheated really triggers my issues. I hope your daughter feels better.
I was Diagnosed with MS at a very young age 23, still had 3 kids. Just know my heart feels for everything you are going through. I think going to a cardiologist wouldn't hurt either. Hang in there guys 🥰
I was diagnosed with POTS at age 28. My kids were 10 and 8. My husband left with a mutual friend. My sons are now taking care of me and living with me. Sending ♥️ and 🙏! Hopefully they figure out what is wrong with Carlin.
@@ronbutler9986 Yeah I went through 8 neurologist until one @Cleveland Clinic ordered a tilt-table test. They also put radioactive dye into my body to watch blood and how it moved around in my body. My diagnosis was Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome or POTS. Keep going until you get answers. Praying 🙏 for all of us, who are chronically ill.
Carlin, please don’t apologize or think your complaining. We don’t think that at all. Girl, we are praying 🙏🏻 so hard for you. Definitely keep the safeguards in place until you find out some answers. I’m praying for a miracle!! Evan Great job taking such good care of Carlin and your family!
I am happy to see Carlin feeling better compared to previous times. Hugs to you guys in how you are handling everything. Praying for you to have an open door to someone who can give you the answers. Prayers also for you to feel God taking care of you every step of the way.
Layla you're so good at rolly pollys, running🏃♀️ jumping on trampoline👏. Zade is almost there rolling over. Glad Carlin you're closer to a diagnosis, looking forward to hair reveal🙆♀️
You guys have such beautiful mind sets. Your smiles both encourage and break my heart. You both do such a solid job at supporting one another and care for your children during this really difficult time. Continuing to pray for all of you🙏
Carlin.... you guys are gonna get to the bottom of what's going on. I can imagine it must be incredibly frustrating. But.... I along with many are praying for you to get the answers and solutions for whatever is going on. Just know you have a strong support base. I love your family and your videos. Thank you for allowing us to share in this part of your journey. Hang in there sweetheart. God has you and yours in His hands. By the way, your children are adorable.
I suffered most of my life until I went to a true naturopathic Dr & got diagnosed with chronic Lyme. It’s always worth seeing someone who will figure out what is wrong by looking at things from a different point of view. Sending lots of prayers to Carlin 🙏🏻
It’s a marathon not a sprint but God knows the outcome and He will guide you every step of the way. I’m glad you are letting the emotions out. It IS difficult.
I’m so sorry to hear you are still having issues. Continued prayers that you will begin to get answers! Layla was so cute singing and dancing!! Zade is such a cutie and will roll soon!! Many prayers for your beautiful family!!
@@Evanescence1231001 they could train one themselves. But it would take time. Some dogs have instincts already that are untrained which helps because it's less the dog needs to learn. I have several dogs that have been used and trained for service work even though I don't breed them specifically for that. Hopefully they'll find out what's causing these episodes.
@@sheriturner6118 I agree. Izzy could receive the training but not sure how they’d go about financing their own dog for this purpose. Maybe a second dog? But that’s also expensive.
With my Catamenial Epilepsy, all of my EEGs are normal, always. Not once has an EEG shown anything. My seizures were triggered by hormones. My Dr. did blood work once a week for 4 weeks to show the drastic change in my hormones during my menstrual cycle. Not average changes, chart busting estrogen levels causing my brain to seize. Getting my hormones balanced and taking Lamictal gave me my life back. Wishing you & your family continued answers!
Carlin, you're still in my thoughts and prayers and hopefully you'll have answers soon. Love you all and you've been a blessing! Hopefully by now Zade has rolled over! Really enjoyed your video and love Layla's running and she's just absolutely adorable and so precious just like Zade! God Bless You, Evan, Layla and Zade!❤️❤️❤️❤️
Love hearing Layla singing “We don’t talk about Bruno” Hang in there guys, you are working through this wonderfully. God has great things in store for you.
When seeking health related illnesses it depends on your health insurance policy on if you need a referral or not. I’m extremely happy with my neurologist he is so very thorough checks on anything. I wish he saw toddlers because my 3 year old grandson has been having seizures every time he gets a fever so scary. Both my son in law and I have epilepsy. We are just watching him for now . I’m praying for you Carlin ❤️❤️
Layla singing "We Don't Talk About Bruno" had me cracking up! It's Neurological all together 🤣 Oh no honey don't get your hopes so high that you're gonna just find out after a day or a week or a month! Believe me you'll set yourself up for quite a bit of disappointment! Sometimes these things take a long time!
@LoveAuntAshley- I don't mean to contradict you, but since Carlin has a history of a blood clotting disorder (as do a couple of her sisters). Other issues make Carlin's condition not "neurological altogether". Dr. Vick- her former OB or Perinatologist, had some sisters while they were pregnant taking blood thinners for the clotting disorder. If I remember correctly, Carlin went to a different OB Dr. who decided she would not take the blood thinning injections (heparin)while pregnant, but I think wait until afterwards?? She has a history of anemia, and has had iron infusions. She was also in the ER soon after Layla was born, feeling terrible!! I think they diagnosed her with "Aseptic Meningitis. " per Carlin. Her sister, Alyssa, has heart issues. All of these factors are important when coming up with a diagnosis. NurseKellyfromMD💜🙏🦀
Have you had a tilt table test for POTS? My daughter has that and it was very similar to what you have been dealing with. Also had a bad concussion as well. She did about 40 treatments in a hyperbaric chamber. Definitely check into that!!! She is healed!
Carlin, I know you have awesome medical and familiar support around you. Your symptoms made me sit up and take notice because they were very similar to my own. During my pregnancy I began having light headedness, nausea and a few other symptoms. I was diagnosed with a heart arrhythmia called Long QT Syndrome. Just know you are all in our prayers.
Honestly her positively throughout this journey is how I pray to handle hard situations. I become so anxious and shut down or pessimistic. I pray to be more positive moving forward
From someone who lived with an undiagnosed brain injury for nearly four years: do not leave any stone unturned. You are worth every test, every result, and worth finding answers for. Unexplained illnesses take such a deep emotional toll on you and in my experience became emotionally detrimental. I found great healing and help in seeing a counselor who empowered me with tools to cope with what I was going through. I HIGHLY recommend it to anyone struggling with ongoing/unexplained health issues. You are such a beautiful woman, wife, and mom. I love how you are so present with your kids despite everything going on. You are so incredible and such an inspiration. Thanks for your bravery in sharing your life with us. I will continue to pray for answers/healing for y'all and that the Lord would encourage your spirits.
Carlin-please don’t feel like you are ranting or even complaining. I believe when you share your burdens we all know how to intercede for you in prayer. I hope you have answers soon! 💜 Blessings!!!
Amen👍 🙏🏼
Totally true!
AMEN to that! 🙏 PRAYING that Carlin gets some answers soon! 💞
I just love Evan. He's a great husband and father. Carlin is lucky to have him. I wish my sons were like him.
Layla is absolutely a beautiful big sissy…”you can do it you can do it” I just love these precious years…such a wonderful thing to have your children in your vlogs! Praying for Carlin 🙏🏻♥️
Carlin is going through so much not knowing is going on with her and trying to take care of the children. I am glad of the support she gets from both families.
That’s how family should be. Happy for her as well.
Fillings are never fun when you need freezing. That wouldn't be part of the problem would it? Things like that can make little issues into bigger issues especially in the body or brain.
Please check sudo tumer in the brain. My daughter has it . And it seen like it. Good luck and God's love
@@cindyheyman5452.
Despite the difficulties and the unknowns, both of their spirits are amazingly positive and bubbly 😇
Carlin... your plan to take it slow and know that answers won't come in one day is a great strategy. You are brave and strong! So blessed to have such a supportive husband too!
Super cute video. Layla singing "we don't talk about Bruno" and cheering on Zade and showing him how to roll is the sweetest! Such a great big sister! Sending many continued prayers your way Carlin. You are LOVED & Supported completely ❤️ 🙏🏻
Love how Layla encourages Zade. So sweet. And her rendition of “We Don’t talk about Bruno,” adorable.
The love that the two of you share for one another just brings tears to my eyes. Evan, the support you give Carlin and always thinking about how to make things safer for her makes my heart swell. The love you have for her shows in your eyes🥰
Carlin, the love you have for Evan also shows in your eyes and your appreciation for him is undeniable.
I feel like there is nothing that the two of you, along with God, can’t get through. I love your little family so much and will continue to pray for you! 🙏
Carlin looks like she's doing much better than she did on the last vlog. I really hope you guys get answers soon or just that all of Carlin's symptoms go away and never come back. You guys are in my prayers! ❤
Layla singing “We don’t talk about Bruno” is precious, she’s got the cutest voice💗
I have the same medical problems . I was admitted to Johns Hopkins for a week and I had episodes and it was determined mot to be epilepsy but rather a movement disorder. I haven’t had clearance to drive in 5 years. I moved to North Carolina and now being evaluated by a new team of Neuromuscular doctors. I wish you the best and don’t give up searching for answers.
The small family moments are so sweet. Praying for Carlin. 😊God Bless
Layla is so stinking cute! Her singing “we don’t talk about Bruno” is going to have it stuck in my head all day 😂 Zade is getting so big!
This was so exciting! I was watching and cheering Zade on. And Layla, singing and performing looking to be Mommy and Daddy's excitement. I'm so glad y'all realized that immediately. Y'all are wise beyond your years and very attentive. Good job. Can't wait to see that full roll of Zade's next week.
I know this is hard! But nothing is impossible for GOD! He will give you guys an answer. I am praying for you guys. It doesn't say long suffering in the good book for nothing. But GOD is still good. Blessings 🥰🥰🥰
I've been to Mayo Clinic previously (for neurology) & all I needed was a referral by my primary care doctor & that got me onto the wait-list. If you're interested in getting a clinic like that, I would just call them to ask what is required to get onto the wait-list. I only had to be on the wait-list for about two months before I got an appointment.
Perhaps their neurology department is different, but my husband was able to get an appointment with their urology and oncology departments without a referral, as Mayo is in- network for his insurance. He waited less than two weeks for his appointments.
It may be out of network with their insurance.
I got a referral to Mayo Ped Urology from my primary doctor, but a friend from our church just reached out to them! I think insurance requires it for certain situations (they will cover it as in network if you have a referral).
Like one mentioned prior, call whatever larger clinic you are interested in and just ask what is required. See if In-Network on your insurance, and speak to a financial specialist so you know what to expect . My first time , I was referred. Years later, we were in -network but Doctor referred too and we had an appointment within two weeks. We worked with Mayo for seven years or more, once or twice a year follow up appointments and they would go over everything and f needed to do a test, test again, or have me see another specialist, it was sometimes same day or next day.
Layla is so sweet with Zade!! I'm pretty sure she was singing "we don't talk about Bruno". That was adorable. Both your kids are adorable!!
And that sums up parenthood pretty well. Watching your child struggle to succeed and cheering them on with every milestone. God bless this family.
Get into an Epileptologist which is just a neurologist who specializes in epilepsy. They know exactly what to look for to rule out or confirm neurological deficits.
She sees doctor at Vanderbilt. I think they have it under control and know exactly who she needs to see.
@@michelle3445 it was just a suggestion from personal experience. I spent decades with neurologists and no clear diagnosis for decades. I would hate to see anyone else go through that. As I said, just a suggestion.
@@michelle3445 She was just recommending something that helped her. No need to be snippy.
Ya’ll are literally my favorite YT channel to watch. Despite your trials you are still so positive and upbeat. Your love and support for each other shines through and you’re not afraid to be outspoken about your faith and how you’re trusting God, not just with Carlin’s health, but in every aspect of your lives. What a wonderful example to the world. Thank you for letting us walk life with you and pray for you.🙏🏼 You guys are pretty darn awesome!
💯 agree
My fav YT couple also, hands down
It’s good to rant! It’s good to cry! In 2009 when I was struggling to get a diagnosis I felt better after doing both! Still struggle with my health issue and still rant and cry. It’s a good thing and we are here to listen to all and pray it all gets resolved! God bless.
Have you heard of F.N.D? I just saw a 24 year old woman on Instagram and at around 18 or 19 years old she started having seizures, blanking out, had tics and feels foggy after an episode. I have Epilepsy that came about in my 20’s, I had absent seizures and grand mal seizures. It’s absolutely horrible to just drop without warning and “lose time” and often have injuries. It took about a year to get the right medication but I found Epilum and I haven’t had a seizure in over 7 years. I wish you all the best, you are loved and supported by so many. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Layla is the sweetest big sister, cheering little brother on was adorable!😍 Keeping Carlin in my prayers, hopefully you'll get the answers you want soon!🙏💜
Carlin,it can be frustrating wanting answers about your health and having to wait for them. Just be encouraged, God is still in control. It's in the waiting on Him where he does miraculous things in our lives. You have such a great support system with Evan and both families. Layla singing is so precious. Don't worry,Zade will roll over really soon-he's so close.😊💖
Just wondering if Alyssa's heart condition and Layla's could be a family link to what Carlin is going through?
Bless your heart Carlin! It can’t be easy going through this. Just know there are a lot of people lifting you and your family in prayer. You have an amazing husband and kiddos.
I just love y'all so much ! I'm incredibly sad that Carlin has to go through all of this. I'm tearing up as I'm saying this . Your children are beautiful and I'm so happy that Evan is there with you every step of the way ! Prayers for answers !!!!
Sweet Carlin! Don’t ever feel like you’re ranting is for nothing because just your testimony of a real life ride in the “struggle bus” could be comforting so many.
Carlin…just know that whatever GOD brings you to, he will bring you through!!! Just keep looking to GOD for strength. Y’all are the cutes family!!!
I’m proud of the way you guys are handling it. Especially when you guys are new to married life with two little ones. You guys are great.
My heart goes out to you both. Of course you get overwhelmed and emotional. The waiting, and not knowing what's wrong is so hard. I'm happy that you have sweet times with your sweet babies, that will help you get through things.
I hate it when all day long I’ve been waiting for new content and realized it’s not Saturday yet. It’s just Thursday. Love y’all!!!
One thing is for sure....you both are blessed with patience, peace, and a positive nature. God gives you the grace and He holds your hands thru this trial.
Sweet Carlin ~ My heart goes out to you as I watch the continuing saga of trying to find answers. I will save you the details, but I've been there and I'm there again. My life changed dramatically when I was in my late 20's. I'm 47 next month. I have been blessed to find my "tribe" of other ladies with the same diagnosis. We hold each other up in prayer. I know the waiting is the hardest of all, save for the answer. We all have had our share of breakdowns. You are in good company. Something I heard spoken in my devotional yesterday was that "God wastes nothing" that we face in our lives. I knew that but needed a reminder. I know it's frightening and you just want your life back. Been there sweetie. Will be praying over you. Many blessings.
So good to see baby boy! He's adorable just like Layla!
Thanks for keeping us up on Carlin's health. Can't imagine how hard it is waiting for answers. Hang in there and just enjoy each day.
I was just rewatching your wedding video and thr song you sang to each other. This video shows that you are living out the vows you made that day.God bless you!
Praying Carlin.
You are loved!
Hello there. I just came across your vlog and I am extremely impressed. Can't wait to watch your other content. When you said you are your son's best friend, I literally fell in love with you all. What words for a son to hear!!!! Respect, Sir. I pray for complete recovery and I pray with all my heart that you and your family be blessed for ever. You are creating wonderful memories. Thank you for being such a profound gentleman. You are truly an inspiration. My son is the greatest gentleman in the world and I know you are as well. It makes us ladies extremely proud. Blessings from South Africa 💖
Zade and layla are both just adorable!! I'll be praying for y'all!! God's timing is perfect and I know that he is healing you right now. Stay safe! Love y'all!
Carlin, I’m new to your channel and I have to say I am happy to finally see you talking in your videos. Your husband seems to be the talker of your relationship :) Nothing wrong with that, it’s just nice to hear YOU talk about all the issues you are having. Continued prayers for you all!
I prayed for Carlin several times. I hope she can get answers soon, so sshe can start living her life, and get back to normal things. Bless you guy's, and much love Debbie
Evan and Carlin, I'm pretty sure you won't see this - I didn't realize you had so many followers, but glad you do! :) I just wanted to tell you we have been praying for you both, that God will give a full healing for you, and give grace and strength to your family. We have been following Carlin since her days on Bringing Up Bates. We actually were camping in the cabin next door to you all in Pigeon Forge a couple of summers ago, and I met Gil and got to talk with him for a few minutes. The world needs more people like you all - you are such a blessing to us. Thank you for letting us follow your journey as a family!
Love the “Don’t talk about no no no 😂 “ Layla is too cute and Lil Boyd’s getting so big❣️
Layla is so sweet encouraging her baby brother to turn over. It was nice to see both of the kiddo's they are growing way too fast. Prayers still coming you'r way . It is so nice that you keep us updated. I for one love your whole family and truly appreciate it. ❤️to you all
Zade seems very calm! I bet your very blessed 🙌
Carlin, you are blazing a path for many! God won't waste this. Many will watch, learn and be encouraged! 🙏
Praying for Evan too! He’s such a good husband. 🙏🏼
My heart goes out to you. So hard to deal with all the unknowns. So hard when you can't find an easy fix. So hard when you feel like prayers go unanswered. You and Evan are doing such a good job navigating through all the uncertainty. It's okay to have breakdowns, rants and bad days. You are not alone! You two are such a great example of patience, faith and hope. Keep the faith and God bless you.
I love y’all so much. I continue praying for you Carlin for a full recovery. I’ll keep praying until you’re healed. Love your channel
Keep your hair long! It’s beautiful!! When you part it down the middle and put it up, it’s absolutely class act!!
Shorter hair is always in the way!
Beautiful family!
I love your little family. You two are so young and I think y’all are doing a great job in facing this health challenge. You are so fortunate to have such a large supportive family. Praying that you get answers soon. 🙏🌷❤️
It’s great that you all keep it real. That’s what we’re watching for. Layla sticking her nose, Carlin feeling upset, it’s real. It’s so bad timing for Evan just qualified, and now can’t work, and you just purchased your house. It’s stressful too! Real makes us feel. ♥️🇳🇿
My husband had an issue that no other doctors could figure out. Our family doctor sent us to a cardiologist, he found nothing. Cardiologist sent him to an gastroenterologist and he couldn’t find anything. So my husband went online to find a phone number to Mayo Clinic. There was an online form he filled out explaining his issue, they called him back and set up an appointment. He went and they did all the tests and found the issue!! They are amazing!! Hope this helps Carlin find out what’s going on! ❤️
That is true about Mayo Clinic, just call them and they will help you. Both my husband and I have been there and they are wonderful.
Been following and praying for a while. I had a freak grand mal seizure a few years ago and can totally relate what you’re going through. It took months to figure out. But I was so weak physically afterwards and it took a long time but I did recover. For me it was all due to low sodium and I never really got clear answers. Just one by one they would test me for things, but I’d always have people pray over me before appointments for healing, and every test the results would be negative. It was a gradual process, but as long as I have enough salt and electrolytes I feel ok. But that’s my story and everyone’s is different. But I do believe God is a God of miracles and He still heals today, so praying you get answers and complete healing.
Praying for Carlin and for the whole family 🙏💖💐
There are no words for how loving and cute Layla is!! God Bless
Check for Dysautonomia. Specifically, POTS (Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome). Tilt Table Test.
Prayers still coming. Your faith is strong. He is with you. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️
I had a cavity after my second child! You guys are doing a good job. Hang in there. This will not be forever. You will get answers.
Your kiddos are so adorable! Sorry your walking through this. If you get frustrated with the allopathic medical system the functional medicine route is an option. In my experience during the first visit ,( it was a neurological issue) they knew what was wrong and helped fix some of the symptoms. (Its a long appointment but worth it). They didn't just fix it with meds, or tell me there was nothing they could do but went to the root of the problem. It was a really good experience. Praying you find answers and healing.
This is definitely the “in sickness and in health” part of the vows.
So sweet 🥹
Zade is an amazing baby, I hardly every hear him cry. Carlin you are being so strong and I am sure many prayers have been sent for you and God is helping... so remember to thank Him. I was happy to see you used a wheel chair in Vegas. I will continue to pray for you to get answers and a plan that will allow you peace of mind.
Carlin, I am praying for you. Zade looks so much like Layla! You are such a sweet family. Blessings
I just noticed that this time ! They are so precious !!!
Carlin once again. We love you girl. You got this momma. 💕🙏
Aw Carlin, I'm sorry you still have no answers for your health issues. I know how frustrating and scary that can be, I went 18 months without a diagnosis so I've been there and can empathize with you totally. Prayers for answers and healing for you.
FYI I think you would look adorable with a pixie haircut, you have such awesome bone structure and beautiful eyes but I know you'll look great whatever you do. God Bless.
I can definitely empathize with your feelings. I started having heart rate issues out of the blue last year and to this day they still don't know what's causing it, but I've had so many doctor's appts and they continue to this day. Lots of prayer and leaning on Jehovah as well as listening to my body and taking it easy when I need to and when I feel good, trying to be as normal as I can be. It's an adjustment. Be kind to yourself and hang in there! ❤️ I hope they're able to get to the bottom of your issues soon as well.
Praying God gives you answers soon. Your little ones are so cute. Thank you for your time to update all of us.💖
Carlin please continue to share your heart. Like others have said, that gives us more ways to pray for you. I personally understand what it feels like to have something wrong and not get answers. Yes it's beyond frustrating. I have cried more times then I can count to my husband saying "I just want to be normal". Continuing to pray for you, all the Dr's treating you and of course your family. Evan is an amazing husband and daddy!
My daughter experiences the same things and I’ve commented about her POTS syndrome before. Carlin- the breakdowns and tears I’ve had w my daughter in a search for answers and frustrations. You are totally normal🥰
Dorinda Davis, I also think that POTS is what Carlin has. One of my son's sisters-in-law has it and she has all of these same issues, including tachycardia.
@@suzannerodriguez8600 I think maybe she has POTS and other conditions that have aggravated that response. Sometimes breast feeding or pumping or hormones fluctuating at all can aggravate a situation w POTS. And the high responses we are seeing due to Covid inflammation from active infections or the vaccination have made the cases I see dramatically higher. I hope Carlin gets answers and remission is possible, it’s so scary when it’s so unknown. Compression socks really make a huge difference with venous return of circulation- but my daughters having a hard time balancing that with the Florida heat right now too. Because temperature changes can really inspire episodes of convulsant syncope (the passing out). I pray for answers - it’s scary, dont I know😰🥰❤️
Was your daughter given the Gardisil vaccine? Mine was and this all came on for my daughter also.
@@lesliejones6086 yes, when she was old enough to receive it she did get it. But I never noticed any connection. She got The other naughty vaccine (Moderna) because her daddy (my husband) got the original strain of the virus and almost died. She wanted to see him so badly. Although she received her required vaccines for school, etc... she still had her first pass out with seizure-like activity, when she was going through puberty. At that time the episodes were once a year at most. Now it’s weekly. It’s scary. Temperature change, hormones, illness, not wearing her compression socks, stress, and fatigue all seem to exacerbate it. The compression socks helped so much- gave that venous return to the heart- and now she is taking very strong heart medication that I hate she has to take. It’s really controversial medication and she will have to come off of it when she wants to have a baby (it’s dangerous for bleeding AND toxic to a developing baby/pregnancy.) But she was so desperate. The socks were great, but it’s summer in Florida, and temperature sensitivity is part of the initiating symptoms- so she’s trying everything. Failed a stress test within 4 minutes (her heart rate went over 180) and failed a tilt table. EKG and EEG fine. Our next step is a brain MRI (she’s had a clean CT) and she’s frustrated, discouraged, and so stressed- which makes it worse. She’s seeing rheumatology now, with neurology and cardiology, and that doctor has helped her the most. She has been placed on hydroxychloroquine actually now in addition to her other meds and so far, so good.
But the short answer is that , yes, she received the HPV Gardasil vaccine... but it was years after she started with the episodes of “convulsant syncope.” It looks so much like seizures and Carlin’s story is almost identical. My daughter is also on a high sodium diet.
I would suggest Carlin goes to rheumatology also... THEYVE discovered some inflammatory markers in her blood that are not within normal limits. Rheumatology gave a whole different perspective and we are trying everything.
My daughter is 24 and needs her life back. She’s scared to leave the house! She’s having a hard time working at all, as the socks have helped but they are HOT.
I pray for her everyday we need answers. The unknown is the scariest part.
Curious- what is the relationship to Gardasil?
@@Dorinda-Sevvy, POTS is really hard to treat. One of my son's sisters-in-law has it. The only thing that helps her, when she is having a flare-up, is intravenous Benadryl. Oh do I understand your daughter's battle with compression stockings. I live in South Carolina and I can only tolerate them from November thru April. After that, it's just too hot and getting overheated really triggers my issues. I hope your daughter feels better.
Ohh my goodness Layla is getting so big and her sweet personality is really starting to show! So stinking adorable!!
I was Diagnosed with MS at a very young age 23, still had 3 kids. Just know my heart feels for everything you are going through. I think going to a cardiologist wouldn't hurt either. Hang in there guys 🥰
I was diagnosed with POTS at age 28. My kids were 10 and 8. My husband left with a mutual friend. My sons are now taking care of me and living with me. Sending ♥️ and 🙏! Hopefully they figure out what is wrong with Carlin.
Ask for a tilt table test. My son went undiagnosed until he had one. Never take no for an answer, insist on tests.
@@ronbutler9986 Yeah I went through 8 neurologist until one @Cleveland Clinic ordered a tilt-table test. They also put radioactive dye into my body to watch blood and how it moved around in my body. My diagnosis was Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome or POTS. Keep going until you get answers. Praying 🙏 for all of us, who are chronically ill.
Carlin, please don’t apologize or think your complaining. We don’t think that at all. Girl, we are praying 🙏🏻 so hard for you. Definitely keep the safeguards in place until you find out some answers. I’m praying for a miracle!! Evan Great job taking such good care of Carlin and your family!
This video brings back so many precious memories of my babies! I love this, watching these babies!!
I am happy to see Carlin feeling better compared to previous times. Hugs to you guys in how you are handling everything. Praying for you to have an open door to someone who can give you the answers. Prayers also for you to feel God taking care of you every step of the way.
Don’t feel guilty for feeling emotional and frustrated during these hard times! You are stronger than you know!
Layla you're so good at rolly pollys, running🏃♀️ jumping on trampoline👏. Zade is almost there rolling over. Glad Carlin you're closer to a diagnosis, looking forward to hair reveal🙆♀️
Zade is looking more like Layla! Continued prayers for Carlin! Love you guys!
You guys have such beautiful mind sets. Your smiles both encourage and break my heart. You both do such a solid job at supporting one another and care for your children during this really difficult time. Continuing to pray for all of you🙏
Carlin.... you guys are gonna get to the bottom of what's going on. I can imagine it must be incredibly frustrating. But.... I along with many are praying for you to get the answers and solutions for whatever is going on. Just know you have a strong support base. I love your family and your videos. Thank you for allowing us to share in this part of your journey. Hang in there sweetheart. God has you and yours in His hands. By the way, your children are adorable.
I suffered most of my life until I went to a true naturopathic Dr & got diagnosed with chronic Lyme. It’s always worth seeing someone who will figure out what is wrong by looking at things from a different point of view.
Sending lots of prayers to Carlin 🙏🏻
It’s a marathon not a sprint but God knows the outcome and He will guide you every step of the way. I’m glad you are letting the emotions out. It IS difficult.
Just hoping for the BEST for Carlin,sending huge hugs and positive vibes
I’m so sorry to hear you are still having issues. Continued prayers that you will begin to get answers! Layla was so cute singing and dancing!! Zade is such a cutie and will roll soon!! Many prayers for your beautiful family!!
Those kiddos are cutie pies! You all are blessed...even in the midst of some rocky storms. Praying for a complete recovery for Carlin.
Have you thought of getting a service dog who would be able to alert when there is a episode coming on? Praying for you Carlin!
I thought about that too. They are also trained to help catch a person.
Izzy could be trained I bet
The only problem is that a fully trained service dog is very expensive. Around 25000,
@@Evanescence1231001 they could train one themselves. But it would take time. Some dogs have instincts already that are untrained which helps because it's less the dog needs to learn. I have several dogs that have been used and trained for service work even though I don't breed them specifically for that. Hopefully they'll find out what's causing these episodes.
@@sheriturner6118 I agree. Izzy could receive the training but not sure how they’d go about financing their own dog for this purpose. Maybe a second dog? But that’s also expensive.
Loved watching the way you guys are Balcony People! Cheering on your babies. Teaching Big Sister to be her brother's cheerleader.
Praying for answers and strength to get through this difficult time!
With my Catamenial Epilepsy, all of my EEGs are normal, always. Not once has an EEG shown anything. My seizures were triggered by hormones. My Dr. did blood work once a week for 4 weeks to show the drastic change in my hormones during my menstrual cycle. Not average changes, chart busting estrogen levels causing my brain to seize. Getting my hormones balanced and taking Lamictal gave me my life back. Wishing you & your family continued answers!
Carlin, you're still in my thoughts and prayers and hopefully you'll have answers soon. Love you all and you've been a blessing! Hopefully by now Zade has rolled over! Really enjoyed your video and love Layla's running and she's just absolutely adorable and so precious just like Zade! God Bless You, Evan, Layla and Zade!❤️❤️❤️❤️
Love hearing Layla singing “We don’t talk about Bruno”
Hang in there guys, you are working through this wonderfully. God has great things in store for you.
Can't wait to see what you did with your hair, hopefully you'll get the answers very soon, keep us posted 🌞
When seeking health related illnesses it depends on your health insurance policy on if you need a referral or not. I’m extremely happy with my neurologist he is so very thorough checks on anything. I wish he saw toddlers because my 3 year old grandson has been having seizures every time he gets a fever so scary. Both my son in law and I have epilepsy. We are just watching him for now . I’m praying for you Carlin ❤️❤️
Layla singing "We Don't Talk About Bruno" had me cracking up!
It's Neurological all together 🤣
Oh no honey don't get your hopes so high that you're gonna just find out after a day or a week or a month! Believe me you'll set yourself up for quite a bit of disappointment! Sometimes these things take a long time!
@LoveAuntAshley- I don't mean to contradict you, but since Carlin has a history of a blood clotting disorder (as do a couple of her sisters). Other issues make Carlin's condition not "neurological altogether". Dr. Vick- her former OB or Perinatologist, had some sisters while they were pregnant taking blood thinners for the clotting disorder. If I remember correctly, Carlin went to a different OB Dr. who decided she would not take the blood thinning injections (heparin)while pregnant, but I think wait until afterwards?? She has a history of anemia, and has had iron infusions. She was also in the ER soon after Layla was born, feeling terrible!! I think they diagnosed her with "Aseptic Meningitis. " per Carlin. Her sister, Alyssa, has heart issues. All of these factors are important when coming up with a diagnosis. NurseKellyfromMD💜🙏🦀
Oh no you're totally fine! I didn't know about her history of a blood clotting disorder! That might make it risky to have a spinal tap too!
Have you had a tilt table test for POTS? My daughter has that and it was very similar to what you have been dealing with. Also had a bad concussion as well. She did about 40 treatments in a hyperbaric chamber. Definitely check into that!!! She is healed!
Carlin, I know you have awesome medical and familiar support around you. Your symptoms made me sit up and take notice because they were very similar to my own. During my pregnancy I began having light headedness, nausea and a few other symptoms. I was diagnosed with a heart arrhythmia called Long QT Syndrome. Just know you are all in our prayers.
This!
Possibly POTS syndrome 🤔
They should give her a heart monitor, such as the Zio patch, to wear at home for 1-2 weeks. Maybe a lot of answers could be found in those results.
We need to upvote this
Long QT is quite a dangerous arrhythmia and a quick diagnosis is very important.
Honestly her positively throughout this journey is how I pray to handle hard situations. I become so anxious and shut down or pessimistic. I pray to be more positive moving forward
Praying for you and your whole family and for answers soon hang in there have an awesome blessed week ❤️❤️❤️
You guys are just so funny in the midst of your trial. I will continue to pray for you to find peace in your valley.