What Is "Nice Guy Syndrome?"
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 มิ.ย. 2024
- Nice Guys are not Good Guys. And Nice Guy Syndrome is a relationship killer.
Nice Guys use several harmful, manipulative, and dishonest strategies to maintain their "Nice Guy" persona, which can be found in Dr. Robert Glover's book, "No More Mr. Nice Guy."
They are explained in this video. Here are some timestamps in case you want to jump around:
0:00 - Introduction to Nice Guy Syndrome
1:15 - Nice Guys are Dishonest
2:00 - Nice Guys are Secretive
2:32 - Nice Guys are Compartmentalized
3:15 - Nice Guys are Manipulative
4:06 - Nice Guys are Controlling
5:00 - Nice Guys Give to Get
5:36 - Nice Guys are Passive Aggressive
6:18 - Nice Guys are Full of Rage
6:52 - Nice Guys are Addictive
7:29 - Nice Guys Have Difficulty Setting Boundaries
7:59 - Nice Guys are Isolated
8:31 - Nice Guys are Fixers
9:16 - Nice Guys have Intimacy Problems
9:57 - Nice Guys have Issues with Sexuality
10:23 - Nice Guys are Only Relatively Successful
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I was a lot nicer when I was younger,.. and it never resulted in reward or appreciation,.. it only lead to me being taken advantage of. I still do care about the needs and feelings of others,.. but I'm no longer willing to self sacrifice or over extend myself. I've learned to set boundaries and assert myself,.. openly and honestly express my wants/ needs and expectations,... even if it is met with disapproval from others. I haven't become selfish,.. just way less selfless than I used to be,.. achieving this level of self respect lead to gaining more respect from others,.. I'm no longer the doormat being walked all over.
You don’t get what you want because you are a pushover! Nobody likes a pushover or doormat!
Looking forward to some quick tips how to overcome this tendencies.:) NIce girl :P
I've got some good vids coming...
Oh no! I think I may be a "nice girl"! I fit like half of these descriptions😲 I thought these symptoms were part of my struggle with overcoming codependent behaviors, but maybe something different I should look into. Your thoughts?
It's just a different name for a similar problem. There's a lot of overlap between codependence and "nice guy/girl syndrome."
@@TheGrowthMarriage that makes sense. Codependent people definitely look to others for approval and find it easier to "help" others fix problems than to look at their own stuff. It's a tough way to live until you identify what's going on and can work on it when you notice the old feelings and reactions creeping in.
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i AM better than other people
Really good video ! I'll wait for more.
The principal characteristic I share with nice guys is the trade of niceness/ behaviour for sex or affection. I know that's bad but since I see all the aspects of the life as an exchange+ I've always been directly rewarded for my actions that's what I expect in love.
Ps: Jesus tbh I have most of the characteristics, specially the last ones
So.... what's a partner to do?
I've got a whole series planned out!
It's an enormous topic. If there's interest, I'll make more videos explaining what to do about it.
Dated a "nice guy" for 8 years. NEVER again.
Is the description of him accurate according to this video?
You sound like a nice guy😂
Recovering nice guy, for sure 😂
@@TheGrowthMarriage can I ask you a question where you born nice or was it environmentally
How did you become nice where you born nice or environmental
Crap😂
This whole idea is so crap.
Yee'Up.💥💯💥