When the show started (BET Africa) I didn't understand Jeannie (extra) but when Tamar(love her) left everyone started being themselves and their personality started showing. Jeannie is the only constant personality rain or sunshine.
This is why I'd prefer to have kids close in age. That way none of them get too comfortable to "how things used to be" before their baby brother/sister came along. I know it can be hard to control when to conceive though- also, I love what Loni said about older siblings. Middle children get left out as well, maybe even more so. People's birth order can contribute greatly to their personalities later in life, so it's important to be aware of such things
Jessica Locy totally. Where you are in the family can make a huge difference. I was the baby of the family for almost 7 years before my sister came. It was SOO hard
Katie Mann I was always the baby of the family, but the thought of having a sibling made me angry and jealous as a child hahah. How did you cope with your sister coming? Do you remember your parents trying to make you feel better about it?
HeatDamageJourney no actually- my main reason is so that they are more likely to have a closer relationship. But also to avoid making one or more of them feel like a huge change is coming that will detract the usual attention they get isn't a bad reason. I should have been more clear though
You worded it just fine since nothing about replacement was mentioned in your comment. It's natural for anyone to get settled into a certain pattern of things and when that shifts, or changes, it can easily cause discomfort in some people in many different ways. So, it's understandable and considerate of you to not want your child to get too comfortable knowing that things may change at some point in the near future.
Well said Loni. As an older "sister" I always was, and still am today at the age of 22, in second place. Not just my mum, but my whole family only seem to remember I exist when they need a favour =) So please, if you're having a second child, please remember your first child is still your CHILD and still needs love, attention and support. Don't expect them to raise themselves just because you have another child to raise.
Loni is right, we always tend to gravitate towards the younger ones because they are smaller and cuter...it's natural. On a side note, I wish Tamera added a bit of sparkle to her lipstick to go with her beautiful dress.
As the oldest of 3, I was put into a parenting situation over my siblings at a very young age. I feel like I got looked over and when I became a teen, I began to get into trouble for attention. I even had a baby at a young age because I wanted love and attention from my parents. I was always an overseer for my siblings, but the way I understand it now, my sister has carried a lot of resentment towards me because of the situation our mom put me in as their overseer. Needless to say, my two kids are 16 years apart and they love each other. My son looks up to my daughter and loves it when she is around. I never put her in the situation my mom did to me because he was my baby, not hers, and I made sure to make time for my daughter and give her the attention she needed for her productive development.
I am 7 years apart from my oldest brother and 4 years apart from my other brother and we get along great as adults. We definitely had our moments when we were kids and we really started to appreciate one another once we were grown. Our mother became ill about 3 years ago and it was a wake up call for us to really be able to lend emotional support for each other because sadly our mom passed away in 2016 from cancer at 49. Now it's just my brothers, my dad, and me and the 4 of us all get along amazing
Oh, wow. I would say I'm sorry to hear that but you've probably hear enough of that to last you a life time. So, instead, I hope those relationships continue to be close knit and reassuring. And good luck in like.
Y’all are always talking about Adrienne but can you imagine if she wasn’t involved with her step kids y’all would drag her. As long as HER kids love her leave it at that
Why is even Adrienne talking? Isreal Houghton came on the show and said his youngest kids are 12 and 13. He plainly lied. I believe Tamara who has very high morals recognize Isreal for the dog that he is. She uses a lot of wisdom. Loni knows the truth but doesn’t get involve. What I don’t understand is if it were some else they would have already called them out! Why does Isreal Houghton gets a pass from these women for destroying two beautiful women. He is a womanizer, cheated over and over on his wife of 23 years, have two kids with the side chick, cheated on her with 2 small babies and left and marry Adrienne. This man is so wicked for a so called gospel singer He won’t even recognize his 2 last boys and the real is giving him a passs?..... Seriously?
Cynthia Sunn they might have it as a clause in their contract to not say anything but I do notice when they are on this topic the panel’s mood changes.
it was never a secret, she mentioned once that she is a very selfish person and wants her husband just all for herself. so I applaud her for not pleasing freddy and ending up not loving them kids as much as a mother would love her kids..
it was never a secret, she mentioned once that she is a very selfish person and wants her husband just all for herself. so I applaud her for not pleasing freddy and ending up not loving them kids as much as a mother would love her kids..
Mamobo Ogoro in my family, the middle child is the star child. She was always the glorified one. She could get away with murder and do absolutely no wrong. I hate that stereotype that the middle child is forgotten. The younger ones and me being the oldest were always forced to revolve our Lives and patience around her as much as my parents themselves did. Lo and behold she grew up to be the biggest drama queen of the family.
+Mamobo Ogoro.....I am the middle child but I quickly learned by age 5 to follow my Dad around like his shadow. I learned to do the things my Dad did like hunt, fish, carpentry and construction work, paint....even though this was a no-no when we went home for short-term stays, it was acceptable in America for a girl to do such things. I was determined that somebody was going to know I existed in my family---lol.
Hi. I just have to say that I'm so glad that my daughter has a sibling, because I have siblings. I just think that if you have one child, that child needs someone to play with, especially someone who lives in the same household, because it's more fun. :) I had a hard time carrying my babies so when I got pregnant and actually had my daughter who's the oldest, I was overjoyed. Then when I finally found out I was pregnant with my second child, I was nervous, but I had him. Sorry this is so long. They are the best of friends. My daughter is 5 and my son is 16 months.
Monique Wilson oh my goodness! That’s so amazing! I’m so happy for you ❤️❤️ I cannot wait to have that. You’re truly blessed mama! Thank you for sharing 🤗❤️
@@jenny.belle_fille your comment is petty. You didnt have to spend so much time typing it. You could've just used it to look into your insecurities and dig deep to find the reason why you think speaking ill of someone validates you.
I have two brothers. The oldest is 29 and the other is 26 and i'm 22. We're all super tight now but we definitely got into it as kids. But after our mom died of cancer we became closer than before and leaned on each other while we were grieving
My sister and I are 12 years apart. Ever since I was born, my mother wanted to have other children. To be completely honest, I think she blamed her fertility issues on me. It was very hard growing up and I had a really bad relationship with my mom. When my sister was born, she reminded me of my mom, and it made me hate her. I had to spend a lot of time fixing myself and my relationship with my mom before I could love my sister.
Most people spend their lives angry and never figure out why. Good for you for having the courage to be honest with yourself and for caring enough to make the changes necessary to change your relationships.
Adrienne, always forgets about Israel's kids with his mistress Devawn (from his first marriages) those two kids are both under 5 or 6, so there won't be that big of a gap, between her kids and all of her "bonus" kids.
my oldest was 3 when our youngest was born. she was really excited for like 2 weeks. After that time frame she asked "when is the baby going back?" lol They love each other so much now I couldn't imagine them without each other.
Jeannie, I feel you, I have a 9-10 year gap with my sisters. I'm almost 20 and just now starting to change the way I am with them. Its not so much jealousy as much as no connection because of the gap. Now that they're older, its easier
JackGeezy So why do you watch? She's not going anywhere. How can you say that she brings haters onto herself just because you don't like her personality? You seem really pressed about everything she does when she's just out here living, making her coin and enjoying her family. There is a reason that there are multiple co-hosts, to give different energies and opinions. I guarantee you she's not pressed about your opinions.
It really happens all the time. We argue, we shout, we don't talk to each other sometimes but of course at the end of the day siblings are always be a siblings and it always end up loving each other unconditionally.
Loni is right,and I did the same thing with mine,even applied the same technique as Tamera when I had my first babies and my baby sister was small and felt they were taken her place. The older child need to not feel replaced.
I love what Loni said about paying attention to the older child. I am six and a half years older than my sister and I remember when family came to visit and they payed her lots of attention, I got so jealous. We're much older now and I'm not jealous or mad anymore, but I wish my family had the same mentaility as Loni in this situation.
My sister and I are 6 years apart; she’s older; and she told me she never felt bothered about having a sibling cuz she had 6 years with our parents all by hair self; I was born at her request LOL she was more than ready and we played together and she carried me and still are close like when we were kids. If you just had a kid; spend some time with him or her and then a few years later after building their love and confidence; have another child. They’ll look forward to it
Omg I totally agree with loni, being the oldest of 4, I knew I’d follow that same logic and focus on the oldest while the parents are lovin on the new one
Anybody else feel like Adrienne has fertility issues? 🤔 I might be looking into it too much but she got married quick so I figured as much as she talks about kids she’d be pregnant by now lol but idk.
When I heard that... the first thing I thought of was season 1 during the 2nd half of the season and she talked about how Aiden was very iffy at times sometimes he would be happy and then he threw her baby shoes downstairs 😂😂😂 me and my brother are 6 years apart and tbh we still lowkey beef lol
I agree with Loni. Anytime I went to a baby shower I got a gift for the older child too so they could be included. 1st birthday the older kid got a gift too especially if their birthdays are close together.
Loni is a great god mother/ aunty to all her babies. It's really sweet to see that strong nurturing side that Loni has to her. It's easy to forget cause she's always going on about and sex, hard liquor, and partying( which is fine, I have nothing against that) but it's nice to be reminded that there are many many sides too miss Loni Love. In general she really has a soft spot for children and for people who take on that parental role for thoses kids who may not have it and educators who really care about their students. You can tell she really has a caring soul.
I have 2 kids and my son is sometimes jealous he is 3 years older than my 3 year old daughter yes they argue but whenever I turn around he is nice to her he loves his sister but he says mom “Ava sometimes just erks my nerves” and I would laugh and say “ you’re sibilings yeah their annoying but you guys will always have each others back don’t fight it”
As the oldest child It’s different once you hit a certain age. I hated that I was having siblings at 13,14, & 16. Life changed drastically but now that I’m older and they are teens we we are close. As for my daughters who are 3 yrs apart, I let my oldest be involved with everything. I also showed her photos of my baby shower, ultrasound, etc so she knew everything we are doing for her sister we did for her. Also, when she first came to the hospital I had the baby in my arms and she wouldn’t come to me. But the second time I didn’t and she was happier and more open to seeing her new sister.
She never talked about how they hated each other before. That's a common thing, I guess she was really embarrassed though...It's helpful for people to know the truth about how it can be with 2 kids..People don't do that often enough
Yes, older ones have it hard when the younger siblings arrive. However, it's important to note that the harshest feelings are with the youngest. They come into a world where they are being hated for no reason of their own. They didn't do anything except be born yet they get targeted for foul treatment. That causes severe problems as they grow up. It's also why so many younger siblings are the introverted, scared types.
Adrienne reminds me so much of my stepmum, the way she seems to have integrated so greatly into her husbands family. That is to be seriously respected. My parents split when I was 6, my Dad basically raised me and my older bro completely alone, and my stepmum came into our lives at probably one of the worst moments, and being a Greek-Cypriot family, we weren't too fond of her at first because she was Turkish haha (the history lol), but years on, she is one of the closest people to me, and I now have a little greek/turkish brother who I love more than anything. I just love that Adrienne calls them her kids, because it takes a REAL woman to step up and raise somebody elses kids, a real MAN too! But you don't hear many single father stories.
I think the age gap is also important. The older the firstborn the easier he gets it that there's coming another baby. I'm currently pregnant with baby no 2 and my firstborn is 1.5 years old. So I'm scared he will be shocked cause he's too young
My moms friend had a baby (close family friends) just about a year ago and obviously I wanted to buy some clothes for her but there’s an older sibling so I had to get him something too. Her mom felt bad and said “oh you didn’t need to get him anything” but I feel like I have to. They need to both feel loved.
*Loni didnt make sense, she said make sure not to just fan over 1 child yet she says everytime she goes over tameras house she talks to Aiden first.. before Ariah..*
When my lil sis was just a few months old .. I was 5 yrs and I hit her with my fav brown bear 😂 she screamed and it was the best feeling I had!! Am 23 now..
My sister and I are a year a part so I didn’t have no time lol but me being the first grandson and oldest I got babied a lot and my sister hated me for years because of it 😂 but for me to be 31 and independent I still get spoiled to this day by my grandma
I wish my parents had taken Loni's advice xD In my house, it was the exact opposite of what she's saying, because it was a lot of my being the oldest being used as the excuse/reason I had to give up certain things for the sake of my younger siblings. Growing up, I resented the attention one of my younger siblings got in particular (due to medical reasons), and I had plenty of Jeannie Mai moments, where I had to keep checking myself not to become resentful that the focus had to be on her
If you’re interested in astrology, Ayden is a Scorpio moon and Ariah is a Capricorn moon. When I looked up their charts, I was shocked. I would’ve thought their moons would’ve been in cancer or taurus.
I love how close Loni is to Tamera's kids!!! Their friendship is beautiful
Jordi Em its really real .love it too
I love it too! It's awesome 😍😍 auntie Loni lol
“and he CLOCKED Ariah straight in the head” LMFAOOOOOOO
Jeannie started preaching man!! Once my younger sibling got here the fun disappeared and I low key hated my brother for a grip 😂😂😂
Is it just me but ever since Jeannie's split her style has been boring & plain. I used to love her edgy style before.
@@MrBrooklyn06 Plain and boring? Please!!!!! Nothing is ever plain and boring when it comes to the legendary Jeannie Mai. 💕💕💕
Gm edagdwg love Jeanny and Loni and Tamara sad fake Miss A. Linda j. Peace
I'm literally waiting for the day for Adrienne to announce her pregnancy! 😀
Nathaline Germain yesss
Me too.I have a feeling strong feeling that it's gonna be soon.
Nathaline Germain 🤗🤗😋😋 glad
Me too
Same she would make a wonderful mother.
When the show started (BET Africa) I didn't understand Jeannie (extra) but when Tamar(love her) left everyone started being themselves and their personality started showing. Jeannie is the only constant personality rain or sunshine.
Refilwe Mazibuko yes!! And the energy is more positive without Tamar, no more shade.
Marlène Manguette I agree. Hooray to The REAL fans
Truth
I can see that but I LOVE Tamar 🤷🏾♀️
This is why I'd prefer to have kids close in age. That way none of them get too comfortable to "how things used to be" before their baby brother/sister came along. I know it can be hard to control when to conceive though- also, I love what Loni said about older siblings. Middle children get left out as well, maybe even more so. People's birth order can contribute greatly to their personalities later in life, so it's important to be aware of such things
Jessica Locy totally. Where you are in the family can make a huge difference. I was the baby of the family for almost 7 years before my sister came. It was SOO hard
Katie Mann I was always the baby of the family, but the thought of having a sibling made me angry and jealous as a child hahah. How did you cope with your sister coming? Do you remember your parents trying to make you feel better about it?
Your reason for having babies close together so they arent old enough to feel replaced? Oh ok.
HeatDamageJourney no actually- my main reason is so that they are more likely to have a closer relationship. But also to avoid making one or more of them feel like a huge change is coming that will detract the usual attention they get isn't a bad reason. I should have been more clear though
You worded it just fine since nothing about replacement was mentioned in your comment. It's natural for anyone to get settled into a certain pattern of things and when that shifts, or changes, it can easily cause discomfort in some people in many different ways. So, it's understandable and considerate of you to not want your child to get too comfortable knowing that things may change at some point in the near future.
"You have to remember the oldest child." Thank you.
Well said Loni. As an older "sister" I always was, and still am today at the age of 22, in second place. Not just my mum, but my whole family only seem to remember I exist when they need a favour =)
So please, if you're having a second child, please remember your first child is still your CHILD and still needs love, attention and support. Don't expect them to raise themselves just because you have another child to raise.
Jeannie always get me on my feels 😔😢😍❤
I fight with ALL 7 of my siblings! It’s our thing 😂
AmandaStyleBeauty M 7?! God bless you all and your mother lol
Nathaline Germain especially my mother lol! 🤣
Ugh i would love to have 7 siblings. I would fight them all and steal all my siblings' clothes😂😂.
AmandaStyleBeauty M You are STUNNING! Can I borrow your face for 15 20 years so my profile pic wont be of snow lol!
AmandaStyleBeauty M I have 7 siblings too! I legit just got out of a fight with one of them.I guess fighting with your siblings, is our thing too🤔😂😂
I wanna hear the sibling rivalry between Tia vs Tamera!!!
Watch their reality show. They fight/disagrees a lot. Love the Mowry family
My brother tried to cough on me to get me sick when I was born 🙃
hahaha that is actually funny uno. I'm sorry that happend to you aww
lool your brother was smart
lmfao
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Jenna 😂😂😂😩
I fight my five siblings like it’s nobody’s business! But I’d die protecting them. It’s a sibling thing!!
Loni is right, we always tend to gravitate towards the younger ones because they are smaller and cuter...it's natural. On a side note, I wish Tamera added a bit of sparkle to her lipstick to go with her beautiful dress.
Adrienne and Tamera shouldve switched lipsticks.
Ahhh...the good old days when it was just the four pack. This was a good segment.
As the oldest of 3, I was put into a parenting situation over my siblings at a very young age. I feel like I got looked over and when I became a teen, I began to get into trouble for attention. I even had a baby at a young age because I wanted love and attention from my parents. I was always an overseer for my siblings, but the way I understand it now, my sister has carried a lot of resentment towards me because of the situation our mom put me in as their overseer. Needless to say, my two kids are 16 years apart and they love each other. My son looks up to my daughter and loves it when she is around. I never put her in the situation my mom did to me because he was my baby, not hers, and I made sure to make time for my daughter and give her the attention she needed for her productive development.
I am 7 years apart from my oldest brother and 4 years apart from my other brother and we get along great as adults. We definitely had our moments when we were kids and we really started to appreciate one another once we were grown. Our mother became ill about 3 years ago and it was a wake up call for us to really be able to lend emotional support for each other because sadly our mom passed away in 2016 from cancer at 49. Now it's just my brothers, my dad, and me and the 4 of us all get along amazing
Adam Granger Sorry for your loss, 49 is pretty young but she’s in a better place now. Also, it’s good that you and your brothers get along.
My dad is almost 70 so my brothers and i need to be able to support each other going forward
Oh, wow. I would say I'm sorry to hear that but you've probably hear enough of that to last you a life time. So, instead, I hope those relationships continue to be close knit and reassuring. And good luck in like.
Adam Granger i'm so sorry for ur loss , god bless u & ur familly 💗
I’m sorry for your loss ❤️
I'm pregnant again with my second child. So this information is helpful for me having a 9 month old son. Love you ladies!👍😍😍😍😍
Awww congratulations! Enjoy it & God bless!
Wow I hope you delivered safely ❤️😍
Y’all are always talking about Adrienne but can you imagine if she wasn’t involved with her step kids y’all would drag her. As long as HER kids love her leave it at that
Kiara G I know she's damned if she do damned if she don't. They need to let it go.
Why is even Adrienne talking? Isreal Houghton came on the show and said his youngest kids are 12 and 13. He plainly lied. I believe Tamara who has very high morals recognize Isreal for the dog that he is. She uses a lot of wisdom. Loni knows the truth but doesn’t get involve. What I don’t understand is if it were some else they would have already called them out! Why does Isreal Houghton gets a pass from these women for destroying two beautiful women. He is a womanizer, cheated over and over on his wife of 23 years, have two kids with the side chick, cheated on her with 2 small babies and left and marry Adrienne. This man is so wicked for a so called gospel singer He won’t even recognize his 2 last boys and the real is giving him a passs?..... Seriously?
Cynthia Sunn Regardless it doesn't impact your life. That's his issue to deal with with his family and God.
Cynthia Sunn they might have it as a clause in their contract to not say anything but I do notice when they are on this topic the panel’s mood changes.
Maybe they drag her privately 🤷🏾♀️
Damn. No wonder Jeannie doesn't want kids. Good choice though.
it was never a secret, she mentioned once that she is a very selfish person and wants her husband just all for herself. so I applaud her for not pleasing freddy and ending up not loving them kids as much as a mother would love her kids..
it was never a secret, she mentioned once that she is a very selfish person and wants her husband just all for herself. so I applaud her for not pleasing freddy and ending up not loving them kids as much as a mother would love her kids..
Aïcha Never implied that it was a secret.
The middle child is always forgotten
Mamobo Ogoro agreed!
Yes smh 🤦🏾♀️
Mamobo Ogoro in my family, the middle child is the star child. She was always the glorified one. She could get away with murder and do absolutely no wrong. I hate that stereotype that the middle child is forgotten. The younger ones and me being the oldest were always forced to revolve our Lives and patience around her as much as my parents themselves did. Lo and behold she grew up to be the biggest drama queen of the family.
Kindah lol it’s a generalisation, that is somewhat true for most not all😋
+Mamobo Ogoro.....I am the middle child but I quickly learned by age 5 to follow my Dad around like his shadow. I learned to do the things my Dad did like hunt, fish, carpentry and construction work, paint....even though this was a no-no when we went home for short-term stays, it was acceptable in America for a girl to do such things. I was determined that somebody was going to know I existed in my family---lol.
I can’t wait for my daughter to have a sibling some day!! Great tips ladies! ❤️❤️
AmandaStyleBeauty M my 3 year old said she wants a baby brother and a baby sister I busted out crying
karla nava
Oh my god!!! How cute! My daughter has been asking me for one too 😭😭 aren’t they the cutest! 😩
AmandaStyleBeauty M they are the cutest I'm just scared of having another cesarean
Hi. I just have to say that I'm so glad that my daughter has a sibling, because I have siblings. I just think that if you have one child, that child needs someone to play with, especially someone who lives in the same household, because it's more fun. :) I had a hard time carrying my babies so when I got pregnant and actually had my daughter who's the oldest, I was overjoyed. Then when I finally found out I was pregnant with my second child, I was nervous, but I had him. Sorry this is so long. They are the best of friends. My daughter is 5 and my son is 16 months.
Monique Wilson oh my goodness! That’s so amazing! I’m so happy for you ❤️❤️ I cannot wait to have that. You’re truly blessed mama! Thank you for sharing 🤗❤️
Lmao there's not one video where someone isnt hating on Adrienne so hard. Like damn, what did she do to yall lol
Yami right ! I mean if she’s getting along with the step kids then what’s the problem ?
Also they have nothing better to do. I feel like some people hating and being jealous is becoming a hobby for them.
Am like wtf...?
Yami lkr
@@jenny.belle_fille your comment is petty. You didnt have to spend so much time typing it. You could've just used it to look into your insecurities and dig deep to find the reason why you think speaking ill of someone validates you.
Adrienne looked *SCINTILLATING, STUNNING AND SULTRY* in all RED!!!!! 😍🙌🏾✨💃🏻👄💄💋👠
I'm sure my sister felt the same as Jeannie. We're 9 years apart. So I darn near felt like an only child growing up,which was fine for me lol.
I have two brothers. The oldest is 29 and the other is 26 and i'm 22. We're all super tight now but we definitely got into it as kids. But after our mom died of cancer we became closer than before and leaned on each other while we were grieving
jealously is the worst emotion
Yes it's true!!
My sister and I are 12 years apart. Ever since I was born, my mother wanted to have other children. To be completely honest, I think she blamed her fertility issues on me. It was very hard growing up and I had a really bad relationship with my mom. When my sister was born, she reminded me of my mom, and it made me hate her. I had to spend a lot of time fixing myself and my relationship with my mom before I could love my sister.
Hillary I’m so sorry you feel that way, am sure her issue weren’t your fault, and it’s not always family that love you the most ❤️❤️
Wow. I'm sorry, that must have been really hard to deal with. Thanks for sharing
You ain't the only one. I had a similar situation with my little brother.
Most people spend their lives angry and never figure out why. Good for you for having the courage to be honest with yourself and for caring enough to make the changes necessary to change your relationships.
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Adrienne, always forgets about Israel's kids with his mistress Devawn (from his first marriages) those two kids are both under 5 or 6, so there won't be that big of a gap, between her kids and all of her "bonus" kids.
N C exactly
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Awww they didn't even try to blend Loni's foundation on this day huh, they said Fu*k it! 😂
Crispy Avocado yes cuz their makeup is the key issue right now? Girl take a SEAT this ain’t no fashion show it’s all about what the ladies have to say
Someone's a bitch
Crispy Avocado thank you I wondered if anyone noticed
Loni: “The cute little one”
Hugs Adrienne
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my oldest was 3 when our youngest was born. she was really excited for like 2 weeks. After that time frame she asked "when is the baby going back?" lol They love each other so much now I couldn't imagine them without each other.
Annie Miller lmbo
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I'm a single mother with a 2 yr old but when I find the one and hopefully have/adopt/foster I hope my love doesnt hate his siblings
Jeannie, I feel you, I have a 9-10 year gap with my sisters. I'm almost 20 and just now starting to change the way I am with them. Its not so much jealousy as much as no connection because of the gap. Now that they're older, its easier
Just trying to find a video where people don't come for Adrienne for no reason other than just to be petty.
Jessica Brinson she brings it on herself. I've watched The Real since the start, she was always annoying.
JackGeezy Wow the haterism is strong.
Jessica Brinson So is the Truthism
JackGeezy So why do you watch? She's not going anywhere. How can you say that she brings haters onto herself just because you don't like her personality? You seem really pressed about everything she does when she's just out here living, making her coin and enjoying her family. There is a reason that there are multiple co-hosts, to give different energies and opinions. I guarantee you she's not pressed about your opinions.
Jessica Brinson You can think what you want, I give The Real TV views, so they need me more than you.
It really happens all the time. We argue, we shout, we don't talk to each other sometimes but of course at the end of the day siblings are always be a siblings and it always end up loving each other unconditionally.
Loni is right,and I did the same thing with mine,even applied the same technique as Tamera when I had my first babies and my baby sister was small and felt they were taken her place. The older child need to not feel replaced.
I love what Loni said about paying attention to the older child. I am six and a half years older than my sister and I remember when family came to visit and they payed her lots of attention, I got so jealous. We're much older now and I'm not jealous or mad anymore, but I wish my family had the same mentaility as Loni in this situation.
My sister and I are 6 years apart; she’s older; and she told me she never felt bothered about having a sibling cuz she had 6 years with our parents all by hair self; I was born at her request LOL she was more than ready and we played together and she carried me and still are close like when we were kids. If you just had a kid; spend some time with him or her and then a few years later after building their love and confidence; have another child. They’ll look forward to it
Jeanie is always so relatable and god her spirit makes me so happy , she's glowing !!
Siblings hate each other more than anything and also love each other more than anything
If Israel's kids want baby siblings maybe he should introduce them to his other kids.......
SDEE2009 YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Shhhhhhh those other two kids dont exist!😉🤫🤐😊
Omg I totally agree with loni, being the oldest of 4, I knew I’d follow that same logic and focus on the oldest while the parents are lovin on the new one
Anybody else feel like Adrienne has fertility issues? 🤔 I might be looking into it too much but she got married quick so I figured as much as she talks about kids she’d be pregnant by now lol but idk.
Tela Lopez I was thinking the same
I cancel that In Jesus name!🔥
Omg Loni so right !!! My mom always told me before you always don’t wanna forget the older one
As much as I know Loni loves being auntie loni she would of made an amazing mother someone you can have jokes with but still really respect
Loni is on point with this topic!
Someone mentioned that Chrissy n her husband look like sibling themselves LMAO I can see it now ewww
Alina Mus alot of ppl are attracted to ppl that favor them
You know who really looks like siblings- Steph and Ayesha Curry
Yes they really do look like sibling
whaaat na I guess haha I've seen worse lol
Tasha Monique i just thought of all the Kodak black type dudes 😂
I love how A calls them my kids
i need to take notes from Jeannie.... shes the best at story telling!
When I heard that... the first thing I thought of was season 1 during the 2nd half of the season and she talked about how Aiden was very iffy at times sometimes he would be happy and then he threw her baby shoes downstairs 😂😂😂 me and my brother are 6 years apart and tbh we still lowkey beef lol
“We went to sizzler” LMAOOOO I love Jeannie
Thats so cute tam outfit matches her cup
I agree with Loni. Anytime I went to a baby shower I got a gift for the older child too so they could be included. 1st birthday the older kid got a gift too especially if their birthdays are close together.
Jeannie is SO real, that's what I LOVE her!!😍🤗🤗👌
Tamera is so gorgeous, she's so discipline. I love the way she carry herself.love uuuuuu girl
"oh oh get it one" loni kills me tho😂😂😂😂😂
Tamera is such a good mum ❣️
All looking fab as always but Jeanie is glowing! Love the whole pink look ! 😍
Loni is a great god mother/ aunty to all her babies. It's really sweet to see that strong nurturing side that Loni has to her. It's easy to forget cause she's always going on about and sex, hard liquor, and partying( which is fine, I have nothing against that) but it's nice to be reminded that there are many many sides too miss Loni Love. In general she really has a soft spot for children and for people who take on that parental role for thoses kids who may not have it and educators who really care about their students. You can tell she really has a caring soul.
I have 2 kids and my son is sometimes jealous he is 3 years older than my 3 year old daughter yes they argue but whenever I turn around he is nice to her he loves his sister but he says mom “Ava sometimes just erks my nerves” and I would laugh and say “ you’re sibilings yeah their annoying but you guys will always have each others back don’t fight it”
On another note my sis is the favorite. Could yall bring up Favoritism .... even that goes into adult hood . Please!
As the oldest child It’s different once you hit a certain age. I hated that I was having siblings at 13,14, & 16. Life changed drastically but now that I’m older and they are teens we we are close. As for my daughters who are 3 yrs apart, I let my oldest be involved with everything. I also showed her photos of my baby shower, ultrasound, etc so she knew everything we are doing for her sister we did for her. Also, when she first came to the hospital I had the baby in my arms and she wouldn’t come to me. But the second time I didn’t and she was happier and more open to seeing her new sister.
She never talked about how they hated each other before. That's a common thing, I guess she was really embarrassed though...It's helpful for people to know the truth about how it can be with 2 kids..People don't do that often enough
I thought Adrienne's Husband has two other " Cheatation" kids . Or do we pretend they don't exist 🙁
Don't be sour.
Wait!!! What!?! For real???
rosecreeper yep
Patience Mtembo spill the tea girl lol
Patience Mtembo can y'all let Adrienne be happy, always spreading rumours and hate
Yes Jeannie, I got everything I wanted until I turned 10 & my younger siblings came into the picture 😂
I'm the youngest and I wouldn't know but as I got older, yeah we had our moments
Aww I love how Adrienne said my older kids
Yes, older ones have it hard when the younger siblings arrive.
However, it's important to note that the harshest feelings are with the youngest. They come into a world where they are being hated for no reason of their own. They didn't do anything except be born yet they get targeted for foul treatment. That causes severe problems as they grow up. It's also why so many younger siblings are the introverted, scared types.
Adrienne reminds me so much of my stepmum, the way she seems to have integrated so greatly into her husbands family. That is to be seriously respected. My parents split when I was 6, my Dad basically raised me and my older bro completely alone, and my stepmum came into our lives at probably one of the worst moments, and being a Greek-Cypriot family, we weren't too fond of her at first because she was Turkish haha (the history lol), but years on, she is one of the closest people to me, and I now have a little greek/turkish brother who I love more than anything. I just love that Adrienne calls them her kids, because it takes a REAL woman to step up and raise somebody elses kids, a real MAN too! But you don't hear many single father stories.
Sibling love is the strongest love there is!
I think the age gap is also important. The older the firstborn the easier he gets it that there's coming another baby. I'm currently pregnant with baby no 2 and my firstborn is 1.5 years old. So I'm scared he will be shocked cause he's too young
When Tam talks about her kids,I get chills man😍😍😍
I was blessed my boys got along in their younger years. They are three years apart, the oldest one took care of his little brother.
I never heard of step children wanting their step parent to have a child.
Perhaps that's because they don't have a close relationship with their stepparent as Adrienne has with hers.
Yesss for the longer clips!
My moms friend had a baby (close family friends) just about a year ago and obviously I wanted to buy some clothes for her but there’s an older sibling so I had to get him something too. Her mom felt bad and said “oh you didn’t need to get him anything” but I feel like I have to. They need to both feel loved.
Both my brothers put me in a suitcase and told my Mom they were shipping me off to our grandma's. 😭😭😭 bastards 🤦♀️🤦♀️
Loni would be such a great mom ❤️
Adrienne " My Older Kids" 😂😂😂😂😂. Sucks for her.
*Loni didnt make sense, she said make sure not to just fan over 1 child yet she says everytime she goes over tameras house she talks to Aiden first.. before Ariah..*
The oldest is usually the smartest, but they are so jealous of the youngest!
Tamera's dress and the mugs though ❤
Loni acts like she knows so much about raising kids
Tiffany Haddish Groupon commercial: “Pool boy... POOL BOYYY!!! ... Hiiii”
I was 9 when my brother was born and I’ve loved him ever since. He’s always been my best friend and will forever be my bestie
My family 3 boys and 3 girls!all my siblings we got along real good! We had no choice! It was still inside of us you be close to your siblings.
When my lil sis was just a few months old .. I was 5 yrs and I hit her with my fav brown bear 😂 she screamed and it was the best feeling I had!! Am 23 now..
My sister and I are a year a part so I didn’t have no time lol but me being the first grandson and oldest I got babied a lot and my sister hated me for years because of it 😂 but for me to be 31 and independent I still get spoiled to this day by my grandma
Tamera looks beautiful!
It's the parents job to make the kid excited and be like your going to be an older sibling and your little brother or sister is on the way
I wish my parents had taken Loni's advice xD In my house, it was the exact opposite of what she's saying, because it was a lot of my being the oldest being used as the excuse/reason I had to give up certain things for the sake of my younger siblings. Growing up, I resented the attention one of my younger siblings got in particular (due to medical reasons), and I had plenty of Jeannie Mai moments, where I had to keep checking myself not to become resentful that the focus had to be on her
As a California girl, I relate to that Sizzlers part so much! 😂
Well, Adrienne, if YOUR older kids want new sibling, have YOUR husband introduce them to the ones he had outside of their actual mother.
Jennie imitating her mom is the best😂
The older kid gets ignored sometimes. Or the one that is less adorable.
I wish i can meet these girls ! theyre such powerful strong human beings with such good hearts!
I am OBSESSSED with Loni's hair
If you’re interested in astrology, Ayden is a Scorpio moon and Ariah is a Capricorn moon. When I looked up their charts, I was shocked. I would’ve thought their moons would’ve been in cancer or taurus.
Great advice about getting the older kids to help with the new baby. My mom did that with me and my jealously didn’t last very long