Sun, Mercury, Mars & Saturn in Aries in the 12th house. It took me a while to figure out how to express my individuality without feeling afraid or hurt that I wouldn't be noticed/accepted. Getting into astrology has helped me discover little by little what potential I really do have. Love the vid Alyssa :)
Literally the same placements except mercury, moon in Aries. Its taking me awhile to understand how I feel, how to express that (without sounding rude), & where to direct my energy.
Sun,Moon,Mars,Saturn,Chiron & NN 12 th house. Venus & Mercury Pisces in the 11th. Hate chaos, spent my childhood quietly reading in my room. I now live in an isolated home on the water with my animals and taking care of my mother and my sisters. Always have helped people, massage therapist, hospice volunteer, cat shelter and such. People find me just like my animals. ☺️
14:47 that IS a 12th house gift! I know exactly what you're talking about. Being an empath is not easy...especially an unhealed one. I find that if something isn't quite right, the energy gets stuck and becomes your own. Do you agree?
***** I belong to a group on Facebook called Empowering Empaths, it's pretty great. I've been there for a year and have learned so much. It's always open to new members. Sometimes there's not much activity, but if you scroll you'll find helpful videos. And there are optional classes, of which a couple I've taken that are good.
"No one deserves happiness, love, and a good career." I get what you're trying to say, we are not entitled to anything and this life takes active participation; if we just sit back and don't get engaged we're not going to be very happy. But I do think we all deserve love and happiness. It is who we are at our core and so much of life is a journey getting back to it. Well at least that's what I think, anyways- love, you definitely deserve it :)
Sonoformagio i feel like she was maybe speaking in terms of her North Node Taurus journey. The give and take, the eking out, the very physical,tangible way she puts it. So perhaps that conception works for her. Mine is Virgo to Pisces so I’m learning a very different phrasing. :)
I have mars and venus in leo in the 12th House. I watched this video countless times because a lot of times I have to remind myself that with great sacrifices there are also great rewards. There is an astrologer that defends that the 12th house also indicates what kind of carrer you should take, so charity, nursing, being a doctor are amazing professions to apply the virtues of this house. Like Alyssa said this is a house where cheating, selfishness and bad intentions are not allowed. The power of the 12th house is unleashed also when your survival instincts come into play. Love and be compassionate to yourself and others, use the energy of this house to do something good and blessings wil come. When I was a child I felt my will, power and capacity to stand up for myself was difficult to grasp (mars), however with time I learnt that there is a way of acessing that if you really whant it! And I am still learning! Venus is also starting slowly to blossom, learn your boundaries in relashionships, and I am not only talking about romance, but also true friends. Believing in yourself is the key, and never giving up!
I have Mars and Venus in 12 too, and that's how I've also experienced it. "I feel love, but where is it? I feel drive, but where should it go?" 12's lessons are like learning how to be tightrope walker.
10:42- “you were just there” That hit me deep within myself. I have been feeling this for the longest. I have never felt like I belong. I just feel like I’m there. Like there’s a glass wall between me and everyone and everything else. It’s lonely, but I’m coming to terms with it Thank you so much for this video! I really really needed to hear this. My Leo sun is in the 12th house.
Coming to terms with the loneliness is something I am learning now too. It’s painful place to be, no one really understands, but there is beauty in embracing the pain. Beautiful things grow out of pain. Keep going & stay strong ❤️
Yep, I have Leo in my 12th house . . . no planets though. I used to cry because I felt so invisible/unloved. I still get in arguments with my mom over her not paying attention to what I' m saying XD.
This really really helped me alot. I have a really strong saturn placement in my 12th house over gemini, and most of my childhood my dad abused my family, and I was never allowed to talk or have friends, and at school I was bullied because of my personality and i felt so neglected, and lately, I've been really mad at everyone, everything and i never ever stopped feeling bad about everything, feeling bad about how everything i say and do is constantly ignored, and how much my mom neglected me because she left me alone with my dad every day and never left him. But i never stopped to look at the good in it either. My mom left him, and worked as a single mother for 4 years to support me and i have such a beautiful family. And im a really fortunate person to have my mom, and to have a roof over my head and to be out of the situation i was in. I cannot be thankful enough, and now i need to use my knowledge of being abandon and abused and ignored my whole life to help other people who are struggling with this every day still. Thank you Alyssa for helping me realize that i need to stop playing victim and use my pain as a way to help other people. I cannot praise this vid enough
My Saturn is in the 12th house and I was emotionally and verbally abused by my mom often (she was the authority figure). It’s true that victim mentality is bad when you dwell in it too long but I decided to emotionally cut off my mom because I needed to get away from her toxicity. I didn’t want to be selfless in a relationship that constantly put me down. Otherwise I would become nothing but miserable and negative from all the shit she tried to put in me. I learned self love. I learned I’m not entitled to control other people but at least I’m entitled to love myself and build my self-esteem and not believe every bad thing said about me. I think Saturn taught me about boundaries actually.
I'm a 12th house aries sun and north node and venus in taurus. For me, the purpose of my life is to build, develop and discover my own spiritual path and connection to my own spirituality, God and my own inner voice so that I can benefit others in some way. I think for a lot of 12th housers, it's important to first heal the self and come to terms with what exactly is lacking in your own life / identity / personality / whatever it may be and THEN you can fully devote yourself to healing others or giving true compassion to others. With 12th house placements comes a lot of sorrow but a HUGE capacity for compassion toward others, spiritual development in one's self and for other people around you as well!
I have my saturn return in Aquarius in the 12th house.. Major life shifts. And boundaries are becoming so important. To take back my own authority of myself /personal autonomy. I'm starting therapy for the first time since a teen. Healing much relational issues. I want to eventually help heal others too. Transformation is everything to me. Scorpio sun, pisces rising here. Thanks for your work, Alyssa. ♥
I have my sun, mercury, pluto and part of fortune in the 12th house! I definitely felt invisible growing up, or like my opinions didn't matter. However, as I grew up I learned that I didn't need to be the centre of attention, and that I don't need my opinions to be approved by everyone. Still learning how to be selfless, or how to be of service to others, but I'll get there someday. :D
Sevanaia, you made me go deep while thinking about my relationship with my father . I always wanted to have a close close bond with him in a more meaningful way . I wanted to feel more important and feel that I am Important to him . Well now I understand sometimes you can’t have what you want but you can change the way you see things . What matters the most is our own inner deep knowing who we are , what we need to feel fulfilled but at the same time accept things how they are . If someone can’t love you the way you dream about it , love yourself more and give yourself all what you used to think others should give you . When you start to see things from different perspective you don’t need others approval as much as you thought you need to . You just know you are who you are( most important is to feel Good of who you are without wishing others to accept you ) and it doesn’t mean everyone should love you that way . Sometimes our ego wants it all but when we let our heart to be more opened instead of desperately wanting something so bad , miracles start to Show up in our own lives . Now I truly understand that most important is to feel comfortable , to be in love with who You are . Just fall in love with yourself and other people magnetically will be pulled towards your loving energy . Just watch out for energy vampires lol
Honestly as a girl with her sun, Venus and Mercury in her 12th house I really do love and value every aspect of my life. Yes love has been the roughest one, feeling undeserving and in accepting of anything that wouldn't ultimately hurt me. Also my sun would tend for me to compromise my own desire and identity for everyone else's around me but I have been and continue to work towards what I deserve and what makes me happy. I see growth and amazing progress in each of my 12th house struggles. So to all my fellow 12th housians there is definitely hope. The ability to successfully work beyond your undoings will give you the strength and the wisdom to make up for it. Sending love to all because I know it isn't easy but I believe in you and your ability to get through it
I got teary eyed when you talked about your mom having Jupiter and Venus conjunct in the 12th. I have that placement, these are words I needed to hear thank you Alyssa your truly a gift. I was treated the same way as your mother growing up, and all through life when my love wasn't reciprocated I thought, well why is that? Am I not lovable? I have sooo much love to give doesn't anybody see that? This all makes sense and is very timely for me right now, my fiancé needs me, and I have to practice being selfless all the time or I am just not happy. Love ya Lyss thanks
Found this after having a mini breakdown. Crying naked on my apt floor LOL. (VENUS and Saturn in 12th. Aries sun and Leo moon...Pisces rising.) I’m 25 and found this video after sobbing and saying to myself “I have a fear of rejection and I ruminate on lovers not returning my love back”. It’s like I knew exactly what was wrong. I also love the subconscious and am using meditation/ subconscious guidance to help me. I’m a teacher with a desire to be a counselor. I am an unconditional lover. I have a choice in this life and I choose to love selflessly.
I have my sun in the 12th house, which resides in the sign of Libra. And from my personal experience, I feel like my identity was so strong and overpowering, for other people, especially with my Scorpio ascendant, that, I was made to feel invisible because people didn't know how to handle me. I was cast aside and left "alone" because i was, and I still am, too much of something that most people are not even the half of. I was made fun of and ridiculed, as a child, a lot by my family and in school. It did leave me scared in away, that i fear rejection and intimacy. But, with reflection, meditation and mostly astrology I know now why that happened and why it had to happen. If my power is my identity and character, then it needs to be bruised in a way, in to order to be constricted, put on hold or "imprisoned", until I learn how to use it correctly or selflessly as you said. And feeling invisible is the best teacher, to feel how most misfortune people feel, as well as to analyse and observe people around you and learn first hand, how cruel people can be. P.S: Thank you so much Alyssa for sharing your immense knowledge and wisdom with all of us for free, your take on astrology is fascinating, and so on point that it's mind blowing. God bless
Sun in Aquarius and the 12th house. You were spot-on with the description of being left out, not fitting in and thus being ignored. This made me cry, and I rarely do so. Thank you so much for this.
If someone thinks s/he will be rewarded for giving something selfless, it's obviously not selfless. We should never push ourselves (or others) to being selfless. If someones wants to give out love, money or whatever, without expecting something in return, it's totally fine, but we should never force ourselves and telling ourselves that we have to be selfless.
Alyssa Sharpe For my point of view the main items of the 12th house are about guilt feelings, feeling powerless, slave dynamics, hypersensitivities in certain areas of our lives ect. Mainly the 12th house symbolizes our subconscious and all the 'dirt' but also the 'treasures' which are swimming in this 'pool'. It's not a personal house, sign and planet, so we can absorb all the stuff which is 'swimming' in the collective subconscious. This can bring us to a place of self undoing, which is nothing more than loosing the ego in the end, but since we need an ego in this world, it can be extremely scary to loose it. Since a lot of us are motivated by guilt and pity, we are trying to raise our value by thinking 'I just have to give more, and then I will be loved, then I will be accepted...' ect. Usually it doesn't work out, because if we don't get back what we have expected, the inner conflict between guilt and blaming runs in circles... It will probably take a long time until humans can get rif off all the guilt, blame and slave consciousness, because it is rooted so deep in our history and nowadays the media is doing their best to keep up the f*cked up belief systems of our past. They are just putting it in a new drag. There is also a lot of subtle and mainly subconscious blaming and spreading guilt feelings going on in the New Age scene through trying to make people believe they have to be able to never judge, to never criticize, to love everybody and everything unconditionally and a lot of other half-cocked beliefs which are spread in the New Age movement, which don't empower the people in the end.
Symbolsysteme This is a great point, and one that I've had to learn recently in some harsh ways, but I think this is why Alyssa explained that we must respect our own boundaries and work through them in our relationships. I don't think shes necessarily saying that we need to give more in order to fulfill our 12th house karma, more that we need to determine our deep boundaries, solidify them and make them known, and only then will we be able to truly know ourselves and how to give appropriately. When the ego moves from the "why doesn't anyone see all this unconditional love etc. in me, why is the world unfair" to "here is what I have to give, I hope you'll accept it, if not then that's a reflection of your struggle not mine" we move to a higher place of consciousness and we can give in an enlightened and streamlined way, rather than just throwing our ego all over the place. The problem isn't unconditional giving/consciousness/love, its finding healthy and appropriate ways to do so (boundaries). It allows us to stop beating ourselves down with the cycle of guilt and shame, because we have more realistic and fulfilling expectations. Its incredibly empowering. Alyssa Sharpe, thanks so much for this video, it made me mindful of my own lessons and what i still need to work through. Can't wait for the signs and planets!
I see a lot of people forcing themselves to give, give, give. I wouldn't want to receive, if I am feeling that it doesn't come from the heart. A lot of people seem to see relations as kind of a deal= if you give me this, I will give something back to you. If I understand someone is giving something to me, because s/he feels obliged to, I loose interest. Except in business of course. But in my private relations I would never want to force someone openly or in a manipulative way to give me something.
This is a classical case of projection, because it seems you are taking my comment too personal (maybe also the Mercury r in Gemini) I picked up one sentence out of this video, but my comment was not so much about what you've said. I am thinking more about the New Age movement in general. ps: I think we shouldn't take things personal. Best Lia
I agree. My mother does that thing of purposely doing things for other people to feel better about herself and it kinda bothers me. Not only that, but when people point out something I did along those lines, I feel like the moment I become aware of it it's 'ruined'. My 12th house Moon is wired in a way that I'm selfless in a lot of things, but I think I do the most good both for others and myself when it's organic and I don't even acknowledge it consciously or else it's not selfless anymore.
Oh, man, you made me cry so hard! hahahaha But in a good way, I promise! I have my Sun, Mercury, Venus, and other asteroids in the 12th house. I've been going through a phase of self-undoing, self-loathing, self-bad-things, mixed with my oh so great anxiety and I keep thinking every day that it's too much to handle, "what's the point in life, anyway?". Watching your video today gave me hope! Things can get better if I allow and teach myself to be selfless, not only sacrifice myself and expect something in return. This will be a hard path, but I love challenges! Thank you, Alyssa, you made me feel at peace today
Wow, you made me cry. For the first time, I get it. I have my cancer sun, Venus, mars and mercury in this house. Amazingly, I just happen to be going through some major 12 house issues at this very moment. I needed this at this very moment in time. Knowing this, I know exactly how to handle the things I am going through. Thank you so, so very much!!!
I have my Moon, Venus, and Pluto In my 12 house. And I'm a Sagittarius rising so Scorpio is in my 12th house. And boy do I feel I love and care for people so much and people don't ever look out for me. And I don't even want to go into the live department I always end up braking my partners heart. I'm just not sure what Pluto is doing there. I'll have to research that.
My 12th house is in Aries with Mars and Lilith in it. I have so much problems in love relationships, since I always meet and attract weak men in my life. So I always left because I always thought I deserved a stronger man. But now I realize I need to give my strength to them in a selfless way. I dreamed about this too. I can't tell you who told me so in my dreams (because it is too personal) but they said something like: "the man you love will never be strong enough without you. You need to share your strength with him, do not reject him for his weakness". Now watching this video I realized that wasn't only a dream. Thank you so very much. ❤❤
This is by far the best description of the 12th house I have come across on the internet.The 12th house is actually the house of 'liberation from the self' or 'moksha' and that is why the south node of the moon does so well here. Lol Imagine my plight, I got most planets in the 12th house and the cherry on the cake is south node of the moon in the first house. I cannot even begin to put down into words the identity crisis I have endured most of my life. But I got through to it when I realized something really important..... The thing is, you're never really going to find the 'ultimate truth' of life unless you let go of life as you know it. Your material self needs to be undone so that you may discover the ultimate truth. I discovered this lesson and my life changed a lot after it. I have found that the lesson for people with important planets in the 12th house (more so if you have the south node of the moon in the first house) is to learn to 'let go'. The more they let go of mundane things and physical things and the more they learn not to attach their sense of personal identity to such things, the more they get to understand themselves. I frankly think this is probably the best house in the entire chart because if you have the appetite for it and the guts for it, this house will connect you to the other realms of consciousness to an extent that you will just scoff at what everyone calls life and happiness and how they go about these things. The 12th house is like an advanced course to 'life' lol. It teaches you to look beyond these material things. It is the house of mystics, healers, highly spiritual people and also extremely imaginative people. If you look at it, these are the kinds of people that really change the world....
im a leo with sun in the 12 house and im very happy :-) im a v spiritual person who is healing and wants to heal others in the process!!! i think in my past life i probably "killed my ego"" or something thats why im so connected to the spiritual realm in this one life.. i tend to proyect my fears into others as in "what others might say about me" so im working on that and im also working in self love and im very happy rn!! neptune is an amazing planet, you just have to know whats illusion and whats not, 12 house is a placement with so many gifts
There is no past life. All your lives are occurring simultaneously in the NOW. You are not this one single person you think of yourself. You are multidimensional living, existing and experiencing in many realities all at the same time. Oh well, just saying. ;)
Your story about your parents made me tear up! One of my earliest memories is when my parents (my mom and I share a sun in the 12th, one degree apart!) were breaking up, and I was asked who I wanted to live with, and I chose my mom because at all of three or four years old, I knew she needed me. I've already thanked you for this on Facebook, but honestly, thank you. I needed to hear this.
This marks the end of my journey through the twelve houses. I learned a lot and I have been profoundly affected by this. Thank you Alyssa, for your time and the sharing of your knowledge and experience. Your expertise is astounding. I cannot express my gratitude to you for all that you've done. This is an excellent channel and I look forward to future videos.
I have Scorpio moon in the 12th house. I love to venture on my own and be alone. I need it to keep myself sane and calm. From this I feel very out of place but at the same time I feel I do belong. I belong in the feeling of imagination and mystery. I do find myself wanting attention when I am in a deeply emotional space from those I trust. I realize every time It is not healing to do so. I realize I need to find maybe balance or self assurance or peace within myself to find that "comfort" I need.
I also have moon in 12H (aries) but I try to see it as something positive. My emotions are hidden, I need time to retreat, meditate etc. At the same time I'm very sensitive to my surroundings and am really good at understanding other people's emotions aka highly empathetic. This makes me a really good listener and I've realised I understand my own emotions better when helping others understand theirs; as long as I return inwards later, reflection is really important for me. Moon in 12H usually means we are healers in one way or another. I think Alyssa explains it really well about we being here to help selflessly. It truly is a gift.
Sun in Leo in my 12th house. There's not a bit of this that I don't relate to. As I get better at preforming healing magic the more good karma finds me. When I was younger I found something that said my last name was used to describe witches who use magic selfishly or without thought so for the past 8 or so years I've become a totally different person. I used to lash out at just about everyone because I felt like I was constantly being attacked because whatever positive attention I received was never enough. I grew to be more comfortable with myself and less stuck on people's ideas of me and though I know I'll always have room for improvement I've come a long way. Planning on going to school for astrology this fall c:
wtf is wrong with you guys ?? this is mainly the house of your hidden talent and the sign that sits there is the talent . i have taurus in the 12th house and taurus rules the throat so i sing really good ..check it out its so cool
Alyssa, thanks for this video it really helps me a lot. I have my Libra Sun in 12th house (and moon in pisces, damn!) and I never feel like a true libra. I always feel depressed and things would never go my way. I feel ignored and I always crave for attention, but no matter what I did to seek attention, I never got it. I seem to absorb other people's negativity and opinions. If my friends said that I should like someone, I would think that I like that person. If someone bullied me because of an ridiculous flaw, I would start to believe in it and felt so insecure and miserable. In relationships, I usually give a lot and expect them to give me something back so I can feel balanced, but I never get that same amount of effort that I spent so I always feel unloved and unwanted. This year I am in a very dark place, I don't feel belong anywhere, I feel that I am too weird for this world and people have been cruel to me. I am left with the feeling of being very angry to the point that I imagined to torture people who said and did bad things to me, teach them how to behave and change the way the society work. I guess I imagined to play God like you said. Until last month, I was exhausted and tried to shut off everything. I disappear to all the people who know me, I only contact some of my good friends who I can trust, family and co-workers. I spend more time for myself to find balance, to know what I really want and to figure out who I am. Now I feel a little bit better as I take time to heal myself but I am still lost and confused about what I'm gonna do with my life to make it better.
You have literally been the only person who has made me actually want to sit down and watch a video concerning astrology and care about what you're saying and actually relate with (as relatable as watching TH-cam gets, anyways), as opposed to me only trying to figure it all out by myself; you are incredible and you've made such a huge impact on me. Thank you, sososo much.
I have Sun, Venus, Mercury, Saturn and Pluto in my XII. I could write a thousand books. I feel like in conjunction with your North Node (Life Path), planet placements in the 12th indicate the blockages in the way of being your best self. These blockages are usually resultant of childhood or past life traumas. Venus in 12th house people are usually made to feel ugly, then grow to have self image issues, when in actuality they are physically beautiful. Saturn placement people have to remember they are somebody and that wealth and materials mean very little. Sun placements have to put themselves out there with no expectations or need for validation outside of self. Understanding astrology is the formula for self mastery and the undoing of Karmic debits.
I LOVE my 12th house!! I have my sun, my moon, my mercury (rx) and venus all in the 12th house. Even though I am a Virgo, I feel a lot of the pisces coming through strongly.
wow thanks for this. Have sun,moon and mars in the 12th. I have two adopted boys and lost my husband to cancer 2 years ago on Christmas Day. It is an uphill climb most days. This made me cry. It is exactly right. I need to be selfless and absorb their pain at being adopted , or black with a white mom, or their dad dying, or whatever. I do struggle with feeling like a victim, even though I know it doesn't serve me. You have given me some real strength, or at least reminding me what I was put here to do. :>
Sun, Venus, Mercury, and South node in the 12th house. 🤦 For a long time I felt invisible, and like I had no idea who I am. Had to spend a lot of time alone to build myself an identity and get to know myself because it was all a fog. I still feel like an outsider a lot, like I'm watching others from the periphery as opposed to being an active participant of life. I have to snap myself out of that mentality. I have the right to exist and shine, not just stay in the shadows all the time.
I am ansolutly in tears right now. You are speaking anput things that no one around me would comprehend about me. I am so unbelievably grateful for this video. I am Scorpio Sun, Saturn, and Pluto with Scorpio in 12th house (Sag rising) Thank you so much. This is perfect
There is no past life. All your lives are occurring simultaneously. Thus you cannot refer to any past life when you have so many of them occurring NOW. We are multidimensional beings; meaning that our soul (or rather our Oversoul) can split into many of itself and experience many lives in different timelines and dimensions all at the same time. I wonder if any astrologer understands this. They would then have to come up with a new meaning for the 12th house.
So does thatt mean our soul being split into tiny pieces is exprirencing the past ,the present and the future both in this dimension and other dimensions?But Our soul and our solar placement remains the same?So our lives are pretty much the same except for the difference of time and dimension?Is that what you are saying?
Peggy Guo Yep, exactly that......we are experiencing the past, the future and the presently simultaneously thru our other selves. Each one of your other selves has its own individuality. Thus each will have a different horoscope, a different life experience, etc.
Peggy Guo For example, in another life, you (another you) are probably an alien living in a different dimension. Your experience in that dimension will be completely different from this life you have here on Earth. Or maybe you have another life where you experience as a very enlightened being.
What do you base this theory on? I agree, that there are no human past lives. We live first as minerals, then plants, animals and finally have one human experience before either ascending or dying forever. Through this evolution the spirit gains self-experience. It makes more sense to me, that the soul splits only into two spirits: the masculine and feminine. These are so-called Twin Spirits or Twin Flames.
I’m 25 with a tight 12th House stellium in Virgo (22-25 degrees; Sun, Mercury, Jupiter) + Ascendant. Along with Moon in Taurus in the 8th. What you said about not having it figured out = dead on. This year I officially gave up on ever having anything regarding my life “figured out.” I’ve known conceptually this would be medicine for me for a while, but this feels like the first time I’ve embodied it. A wise fellow astrologer once said to me that 12th house people’s lessons in this life are to learn to let go again & again & again. Life is sweeter when I let myself be in the mystery & just trust 💜✨🙏
Thank you so much for this video! Described me perfectly. My Sun and Venus are in the 12th house, and its tough to avoid being self destructive. Its hard right now, but I know that in the end I'll be better because of it :) (darn my 4th house in Capricorn being all wise and stuff). You're the best!
Wow Alyssa you blew my mind with this.I have Moon Mars Saturn and Jupiter in Virgo in the twelth house.Fear, surpressed anger, loneliness, feeling overwhelmed by people,restlessness etc. No one explains the houses better than you.I am not a newby to astrology at all , you manage to make me think and look at it yet from another angle.You would help a lot of people if you did more on 12th house issues.You talking about your parents made me cry.And the talk about "deserving" and using others because one lets others infiltrate wow true.A 12th house person will never be happy living "on the selfish side" they're not being true to themselves but they need to learn about boundaries and know they work bothe ways like you said.I'm totally fanning out right now!YOU ROCK!!
I think you're more able to take energy and release it for others..than you think you are. Thank you so much for this. I have Jupiter, Saturn, and Pluto in the 12th. You seriously made me cry. I think you totally respected the pain that people go through regarding this house, enough to hear out your advice. :)
I feel like I'm doing the opposite to what you're saying to do :( Growing up I was physically abused by my dad & put in hospital twice, as well as badly abused in school. I have Pluto in 12th in Scorpio. As a teen I was still selfless with friends and I'd always ask them to meet up with me and they only would if I paid for everything for them. They would even, "borrow" money that they would never return & I would never hear from them again. I was used that way by men too (I have Venus in Taurus on cusp of 7th house). Anyway now that I'm older I do 2 things. 1) I isolate myself & don't leave my home for weeks which is hard with an 8 month old baby & I know the worst thing to do 2) I refuse to pay for other people no matter what (even though it hurts me that I can't help but I've been burned too much) and I actually use my fiancé for money a lot as I feel it's owed to me (yes bad I know!). I had him buy me as car, pay off my university fees & he's paid for our house (the deposit & mortgage) & yet my name is on the house with his. I just feel it's use people or be used :( My fiancé has 12th house sun in Leo and since doing Astrology it's weird how the only handful of friends I've ever connected to have 12th house planets... Anyway I don't know how to break out of this selfish and isolating cycle...It's either stay indoors & don't contact people for weeks & my depression gets worse....or use people. With Pluto in 12th I can't be friends with people long as we end up having a major argument and stop talking. Pluto always transforming everything in the worst way. I've tried being selfless but I just get used. I've been to psychics before argument and they all say I have healing abilities and I should become a healer...but it's not like you can just go to a school for that is it? Ughhh. 12th house is a bitch!!
@@sheabutter7948 strange how things have changed for me in 5 years! I am much more outgoing etc and positive and spend a lot of money on my hubby as I totally trust him. I actually bought him an SUV for his 30th! As for the healer part - I quit my job and am back at University. Just finished my first year of Nursing/Midwifery! I have also privately paid to become a reiki healer :) So going into healthcare or doing reiki healing are both great options for you. Since I've found my true life path, my life is so much happier and fulfilled!
Sorry just to say - I am the Sole911 account! I changed my email address but my account is still linked to Sole911 which is why your comment was still emailed to me x
True. I have a Stellium in 12th in Pisces. Shit childhood but learnt to heal the trauma. Venus starts the Stellium and I read that in Vedic astrology, that it means I can resurrect. And yes I can but only when I use love. I feel that 12th house planets are like a Key to unlock Spiritual gifts for humanity and those around you. But as there are Dark entities who want the Earth in Darkness they attack 12th house people. This is why it seems to be the House of loss or self undoing because of the temptations of the dark entities. Get better not bitter is the encouragement for this house. And my advice for any parent with my Stellium is plenty of soft toys and cuddles as the dreams/nightmares are VERY vivid. And find a really good Dream symbology book and write the child's dreams down. Many of mine were premonitions. Still are.
I have the Sun, the Moon, Mercury and Pluto in the 12th house. You are 100% accurate, only after I accepted that I have to give selflessly did everything change. The 12th house saved me.
Lilith 12th house.. I refuse to be the other woman. I’m a girls girl. So it projects. Becomes my hidden enemy my ex would always bring “other women” into our relationship. 12th house (12th house -things that are hidden, hidden enemies+ Lilith “other woman”) anyway just one way it manifested for me.. No way to escape it even if you try someone will bring it to you.. Even if it is through a partner... Oh and usually other woman do not like me jealously issues sometimes even if I try to be jolly.. Hey, I try..
i started tearing up when you described your mom and felt so called upon/seen the rest of the way through. i have 3 planets in my Gemini 12th house - Venus @ 0, Mercury @ 6 and Jupiter @ 11 (sun is next door in Taurus, 20 degrees). I see myself so much in your mom and can feel my partner in your dad's confusion/bewilderment. thank you for this heart/mind/eye/ opening video. my north node is is pisces, ruler of 12th house...
Leo in the 12th, Sun in 10th in Cancer I'm only a big deal to myself, ig I'll get back to loving and nurturing others selflessly... The story about your parents is beautifully bittersweet.
Its ur hidden talent Gemini represents talkative ness, Writing etc. Ur an exilant salesman Just tap into it with all ur energy. People say u dont talk much Sometime u feel the same too bt if u do some effort u will discover u talk the most amazing sthit of the world, & people will be amazed by u....
That was the most profound way of explaining the 12th house journey as well as the planets in it Thank you very much for that, I am very sure anyone on this planet is very grateful for your time and efforts in sharing all this with us
Definitely feels scary but makes us stronger people, I have Pluto intercepted in my chart so Pluto is in my 12H and 1H making it FELT. My dreams have always been dark with common themes of death,sex & just overall bad vibes lol. Can you relate? I find this placement so interesting and strongly felt
@@Outofbounds7 -- My Pluto is actually more towards my 12th/11th house cusp. My dreams are random. Sometimes I don't even remember them, even though I try to. But last night's was particularly eerie and dark. Guess the full moon in Scorpio had something to do with it 🤣
eunoia Someone very close to me has this placement, I am very sorry if this too invasive or personal but what are your views on sex?like how important is it to you? Or do you not care about it that much?
12th house, WTF???? The 12th house has an extreme amount of my natal chart's energy. Which fits with my strange experience so far. Oh look, there's a video with 12:12 playtime in my suggested videos list right next to this text! Then 13:13 above it. That's perfect for what I originally wanted to say here, basically that I think the 12th house contains your psychic potential. If I were as dumb as I was a year ago, I'd still be resenting my 12th house for "sucking up" my vital energy and causing massive identity issues. I have Mars and Venus conjunct in my 12th house which are both squared with Uranus, with a rising Pisces sign. But now I think this is why I see constant synchronicities, like the one I mentioned above (12:12, 13:13). The 12th house is powerful stuff. I have been way more empowered by reading it with a positive bent, because it contains so much of my chart's energy I would just be harming myself otherwise. I think I'm starting to see "the hidden" in countless ways now, and it's probably because of the huge BLESSING that is the 12th house. Long story short.... the 12th house is your best friend!! It's more "you" than "you". It's the iceberg below the "tip" of our identity and sensations. Listen to the 12th house and it'll talk to you even more the next time you need it to! Our intuition has been very badly mistreated as a whole, and I think this is largely where it rests. Try to befriend it even if it seems to be vile at first; it's just got a lot of shit to shake off, that's all.
Alyssa, this was your best video of this series. Loved it!!! Thanks for sharing your knowledge and experience. I dated someone who has many planets in the 12th house and he is everything you said. It's amazing! The 12th house is the one I have more dificulties on understanding. Thanks again.
Very nice video Alyssa, you've come along quite nicely. For me, the 12th has always felt like the 'big one'. The one I've always been fascinated and yet scared shit-less about. It's taken a long long time for things in there to reveal themselves to me. It's my favorite house by far. ;)
Venus, Mars, and Jupiter in 12th house of Gemini. Venus is in Cancer though. I’ve been dying to know when this was all going to be relieved, when I could let go of that yearning and hope for things to be different. This my life you are describing. Thank you so much for giving me the answers I needed to survive this lifetime. It’s been so unbelievably painful. Thank you Alyssa.
Hello Alyssa I do not normally comment on your videos because I generally agree with what you have to say most of the time, but when you said "nobody DESERVES" such and such was the poorest choice of words I've heard you say. People whether they are (relatively) "good or bad" deserve everything their hearts desire. That does not mean that it should be GIVEN to them; i.g entitled to them (all if not most of the time) without working for them. From my perspective it seems as if you have confused the two, which is very detrimental to someone who might have subconscious hang ups/beliefs systems built around a preconceived notion that they don't "deserve" such and such. A lot of people suffer through this life because somewhere in their life they were made to believe they don't deserve happiness, love, prosperity, abundance or whatever the longings of their souls are. I hope this makes sense to you, love and light.
@@eveeboss yeah it's confusing but I watch another video it's like people won't appreciate the love you give and you will think they don't love you back but it's clear for others the person loves you but you don't see it
My libra is in the 12th house which is supposed to show a traumatising past life which makes me fear relationships. Since I was a kid I was so uncomfortable with romance!! Love to explore this Ps. I’m a sun in fifth house and I’m a vessel for reiki healing, I’m also really good at counselling. There’s a few placements in my chart which make me able to be selfless and empathic! Not your typical Aries sun and Venus. These videos are so insightful!! Thanks for teaching
Anyone else has Neptune/Uranus/Saturn/Lilith/North Node in your 12th House Capricorn ? I have those aspects & it's suffering every single day. Walking through thousand hells & dying in my mind over & over again...
Thank you so much for this video! Truly. I come here every time I start feeling sorry for myself or start thinking why everything happens to me. I don’t like feeling that way but I’ve noticed there’s so much unclearness that there’s no logical reasoning to back up with any of the situation I’m dealing with (Neptune). Which I guess is the reasoning in itself, about letting go and having no reason. I swear this sounds crazy but I hope 12th house people get what I’m saying.
buythestars Taurus Moon in my 12th house...also Saturn in Aries in the 12th, ugh!! Kinda wish she would've gone through how each planet affects someone when it's in the 12th house though.
+buythestars I'm a lunar Leo too but it's not in the 12th. Being a lunar Leo is not easy to begin with so I can only imagine it being in the 12th house. Much love
+Kassandra Dea Yay Leo moon! Haha, it's not exactly ideal, especially when the transit moon goes through my 12th house, but it's all I really know so it's okay! Thank you for your kind words, sending love to you too!
SPOT ON....I have my Sun, Mercury, and Venus in the 12th house of my Sun Sign Cancer. And to top it off I'm a Leo Rising. Also, all of the planets are within 2 degrees with my sun being 1 degree Cancer. Also I have a 5 as my life path and was born on 6/22/1984 so my birthdate is a MASTER 22 and if you add my sequence for my whole birth year you get 22....there are no mistakes! Did I mention I am a Human Resources manager...talk about giving yourself to others !!!
Im a Virgo rising, which puts Leo in the 12th house, where Jupiter is. In my own life, Ive found Ive gained a lot of understanding in 12th house places that I get sent to, and only there does my Leo energy "shine" in this near-invisible realm. I actually gain a lot of pleasure (being a Virgo rising) when I am unwound, though it is not an easy place to find. It's easier if you are delivered there.
Venus and Mercury in 12th. i've been getting better at expressing myself, but the Venus part is quite hard! i keep attracting or being attracted to addicts, unavailable or cold people, or those who shun intimacy... i crave reciprocity and i feel i have so much to give, and i crave all that intimacy and somehow it is always kept (or subconsciously i keep it) at arm's length... maybe i feel like i don't deserve it? or am afraid of getting it and losing all that piscean dreamland? (i have venus in cancer btw, which probably doesn't help at all ;)
Alyssa, thank you for this video. It is a very good video. I like your explanation about the 12th house. I have only Saturn in my 12th house and it is make itself known to me like what you said, like a MOFO. I don't know how to handle it. I have a hard time letting go of anything. Every feelings, every experiences are stewing within and I can't release them unless I pray and help others. I'm fortunate enough to be in the position of helping others that at times, like my brother told me that I forget that I need to be selfish. Also, the sign in the 12th house is Leo. I like to hear your explanation of Saturn in the 12th in the sign of Leo. Maybe you can make videos of them. I am a Virgo sun Scorpio moon and I have been listening to your videos for like forever. :)
I have my rising sign(Scorpio) in the 12th house....shet 😂 I can relate to some. feeling ignored and not wanted. but my moon sign is cancer and my sun sign is gemini. whenever I'm negative, my mind is always having an argument and encouraging myself to be positive 😂 pretty weird. I know I'm loved by atleast my family and I'm quite optimistic most of the time. I don't like negativity, it just spreads to me 😅
+Ari Ni yeah well because the ascendent is literally the first degree of first house -meaning the ascendent is the beginning of the whole birth chart ;-) can't see the tagging :-(
You are describing, my now ex, perfectly! He has his Sun(Pisces), Moon(Pisces), Mercury(Aries), Venus(Aries), and North Node (Taurus) in the 12h House! He said he feels his brains is all messed up... I feel like he feels he doesn't deserves to have love or be loved at times. But then it's the other side of it and he feels like I'm not loving him enough, even though I've countless times have given it (Aries Sun - 1H, Scorpio Moon - 8H, Aries Mercury - 1H, Pisces Venus - 1H, Pisces Rising, Aries North Node - 1H). He also has a Taurus Rising. I think from what you said about the house need ing to be SELFLESS is so true! He has issues with bottling up with what he feels. The week his father said something awful to him and his sister, he told me, but he never went into great detail. He came over and acted like nothing happened, but then was expecting me to automatically know how to respond but he seemed fine, his vibes seemed fine. And he was doing this in the moment when my own mother was having a manic episode from her Bipolar (Capricorn Sun/Aquarius Moon/Sag Rising Mother). And he said I was putting out all these negative emotions. But I think he was holding on to a lot of negative emotions instead. I do feel like he selfish broke us up out of fear.
Ryan Silvernell I don’t really know, I tried to get some info out of this video but it was tricky, I don’t think I learned something new today. Well maybe the part where I’m trying to give affection to other person (a guy) and it’s not returned, and if it is it’s not on the same level. Like I give a 100% and I get 20% back. Besides... one thing I remember about Venus in 12th from other source was about the house being linked to travel. It was interpreted that with my Venus in 12th I’ll find someone abroad or that my future partner would be exotic (May find people from other ethnicities attractive) and that’s really true. Blond guys with blue eyes are not my thing at all.
@@eveeboss hmm. Idk.. It was quite the opposite in my experience with her. I loved her hard and gave her a lot but she told me she didnt think she could love me enough or as much as i loved her bcuz she is having issues with having love for her self..
My Mars, Venus (Aquarius) and Saturn (Capricorn) are in the 12th house in my chart. I'm thankful that my Sun (Pisces) & Mercury (Pisces) are in the 1st house though. I get to express my thoughts and feelings through my writing! That is a great outlet for me. ( Yes in my teen years I had a diary. I still have a diary now.)
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Not feeling where you belong hits the nail on the head for me. The eternal search for your home.
I've always felt that way...always!
that's why I never wanted to get married, have kids, own a house, I just want to go home!
We're probably starseeds haha
Sun/moon/Venus on the 12th.. I feel you
This helps me understand why I've had a lifelong dream of being lost, or having to move but having no new place to go
I literally cried when she talked about that part🥺
Sun, Mercury, Mars & Saturn in Aries in the 12th house. It took me a while to figure out how to express my individuality without feeling afraid or hurt that I wouldn't be noticed/accepted. Getting into astrology has helped me discover little by little what potential I really do have. Love the vid Alyssa :)
Literally the same placements except mercury, moon in Aries. Its taking me awhile to understand how I feel, how to express that (without sounding rude), & where to direct my energy.
Sun,Moon,Mars,Saturn,Chiron & NN 12 th house. Venus & Mercury Pisces in the 11th. Hate chaos, spent my childhood quietly reading in my room. I now live in an isolated home on the water with my animals and taking care of my mother and my sisters. Always have helped people, massage therapist, hospice volunteer, cat shelter and such. People find me just like my animals. ☺️
14:47 that IS a 12th house gift! I know exactly what you're talking about. Being an empath is not easy...especially an unhealed one. I find that if something isn't quite right, the energy gets stuck and becomes your own. Do you agree?
Alyssa Sharpe I can't believe how much this video resonated. Aha moment today. Thank you!!
***** I belong to a group on Facebook called Empowering Empaths, it's pretty great. I've been there for a year and have learned so much. It's always open to new members. Sometimes there's not much activity, but if you scroll you'll find helpful videos. And there are optional classes, of which a couple I've taken that are good.
Did you take reiki courses or just learn it yourself?
Word. That's why I hang out with air sign frens on the regular.
@@RunninUpThatHillh thanks
It's incredible how deeply you understand the 12th house. I feel really understood.
"No one deserves happiness, love, and a good career." I get what you're trying to say, we are not entitled to anything and this life takes active participation; if we just sit back and don't get engaged we're not going to be very happy. But I do think we all deserve love and happiness. It is who we are at our core and so much of life is a journey getting back to it. Well at least that's what I think, anyways- love, you definitely deserve it :)
Sonoformagio i feel like she was maybe speaking in terms of her North Node Taurus journey. The give and take, the eking out, the very physical,tangible way she puts it. So perhaps that conception works for her. Mine is Virgo to Pisces so I’m learning a very different phrasing. :)
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I have mars and venus in leo in the 12th House. I watched this video countless times because a lot of times I have to remind myself that with great sacrifices there are also great rewards. There is an astrologer that defends that the 12th house also indicates what kind of carrer you should take, so charity, nursing, being a doctor are amazing professions to apply the virtues of this house. Like Alyssa said this is a house where cheating, selfishness and bad intentions are not allowed. The power of the 12th house is unleashed also when your survival instincts come into play. Love and be compassionate to yourself and others, use the energy of this house to do something good and blessings wil come. When I was a child I felt my will, power and capacity to stand up for myself was difficult to grasp (mars), however with time I learnt that there is a way of acessing that if you really whant it! And I am still learning! Venus is also starting slowly to blossom, learn your boundaries in relashionships, and I am not only talking about romance, but also true friends. Believing in yourself is the key, and never giving up!
I have Mars and Venus in 12 too, and that's how I've also experienced it. "I feel love, but where is it? I feel drive, but where should it go?" 12's lessons are like learning how to be tightrope walker.
Maybe we should direct it towards ourselves?I love being selfless and it's always been taken advantage of,i guess I just have to be more self-awear?
10:42- “you were just there”
That hit me deep within myself. I have been feeling this for the longest. I have never felt like I belong. I just feel like I’m there. Like there’s a glass wall between me and everyone and everything else. It’s lonely, but I’m coming to terms with it
Thank you so much for this video! I really really needed to hear this. My Leo sun is in the 12th house.
Coming to terms with the loneliness is something I am learning now too. It’s painful place to be, no one really understands, but there is beauty in embracing the pain. Beautiful things grow out of pain. Keep going & stay strong ❤️
@@Forestpmiriashesn this was beautiful. At least we know we are aren’t alone in the loneliness. I hope you are getting along well!
Yep, I have Leo in my 12th house . . . no planets though. I used to cry because I felt so invisible/unloved. I still get in arguments with my mom over her not paying attention to what I' m saying XD.
I know how you feel. I have a 12th house stellium.
I also have Leo in the 12th house and it’s empty too. And literally same!
I have Chiron in my 12th house. So, I guess my greatest wound is a mystery. 😂😂
JeNanni, let it go and it will come.
Luna Mayhem what kind of illogical reasoning is that lol
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@@r011ing_thunder6 no u I and us stop arguing 😅
This really really helped me alot. I have a really strong saturn placement in my 12th house over gemini, and most of my childhood my dad abused my family, and I was never allowed to talk or have friends, and at school I was bullied because of my personality and i felt so neglected, and lately, I've been really mad at everyone, everything and i never ever stopped feeling bad about everything, feeling bad about how everything i say and do is constantly ignored, and how much my mom neglected me because she left me alone with my dad every day and never left him. But i never stopped to look at the good in it either. My mom left him, and worked as a single mother for 4 years to support me and i have such a beautiful family. And im a really fortunate person to have my mom, and to have a roof over my head and to be out of the situation i was in. I cannot be thankful enough, and now i need to use my knowledge of being abandon and abused and ignored my whole life to help other people who are struggling with this every day still. Thank you Alyssa for helping me realize that i need to stop playing victim and use my pain as a way to help other people. I cannot praise this vid enough
WOW my story is similar to yours
My Saturn is in the 12th house and I was emotionally and verbally abused by my mom often (she was the authority figure). It’s true that victim mentality is bad when you dwell in it too long but I decided to emotionally cut off my mom because I needed to get away from her toxicity. I didn’t want to be selfless in a relationship that constantly put me down. Otherwise I would become nothing but miserable and negative from all the shit she tried to put in me. I learned self love. I learned I’m not entitled to control other people but at least I’m entitled to love myself and build my self-esteem and not believe every bad thing said about me. I think Saturn taught me about boundaries actually.
In my case my mom and sister are the supporting people!
I'm a 12th house aries sun and north node and venus in taurus. For me, the purpose of my life is to build, develop and discover my own spiritual path and connection to my own spirituality, God and my own inner voice so that I can benefit others in some way. I think for a lot of 12th housers, it's important to first heal the self and come to terms with what exactly is lacking in your own life / identity / personality / whatever it may be and THEN you can fully devote yourself to healing others or giving true compassion to others. With 12th house placements comes a lot of sorrow but a HUGE capacity for compassion toward others, spiritual development in one's self and for other people around you as well!
I have my saturn return in Aquarius in the 12th house.. Major life shifts. And boundaries are becoming so important. To take back my own authority of myself /personal autonomy. I'm starting therapy for the first time since a teen. Healing much relational issues. I want to eventually help heal others too. Transformation is everything to me. Scorpio sun, pisces rising here. Thanks for your work, Alyssa. ♥
I have my sun, mercury, pluto and part of fortune in the 12th house! I definitely felt invisible growing up, or like my opinions didn't matter. However, as I grew up I learned that I didn't need to be the centre of attention, and that I don't need my opinions to be approved by everyone. Still learning how to be selfless, or how to be of service to others, but I'll get there someday. :D
Sevanaia, you made me go deep while thinking about my relationship with my father . I always wanted to have a close close bond with him in a more meaningful way . I wanted to feel more important and feel that I am
Important to him . Well now I understand sometimes you can’t have what you want but you can change the way you see things . What matters the most is our own inner deep knowing who we are , what we need to feel fulfilled but at the same time accept things how they are . If someone can’t love you the way you dream about it , love yourself more and give yourself all what you used to think others should give you . When you start to see things from different perspective you don’t need others approval as much as you thought you need to . You just know you are who you are( most important is to feel
Good of who you are without wishing others to accept you ) and it doesn’t mean everyone should love you that way . Sometimes our ego wants it all but when we let our heart to be more opened instead of desperately wanting something so bad , miracles start to
Show up in our own lives . Now I truly understand that most important is to feel comfortable , to be in love with who
You are . Just fall in love with yourself and other people magnetically will be pulled towards your loving energy . Just watch out for energy vampires lol
Honestly as a girl with her sun, Venus and Mercury in her 12th house I really do love and value every aspect of my life. Yes love has been the roughest one, feeling undeserving and in accepting of anything that wouldn't ultimately hurt me. Also my sun would tend for me to compromise my own desire and identity for everyone else's around me but I have been and continue to work towards what I deserve and what makes me happy. I see growth and amazing progress in each of my 12th house struggles. So to all my fellow 12th housians there is definitely hope. The ability to successfully work beyond your undoings will give you the strength and the wisdom to make up for it. Sending love to all because I know it isn't easy but I believe in you and your ability to get through it
I have the same placement, it certainly has not been easy.
Cap Sun, Scorpio Moon, Cap Rising, Sag Mercury, Scorpio Venus, Cap Mars
Sun & Mars in my 12th house.
All I can say is my years have made me wise.
I got teary eyed when you talked about your mom having Jupiter and Venus conjunct in the 12th. I have that placement, these are words I needed to hear thank you Alyssa your truly a gift. I was treated the same way as your mother growing up, and all through life when my love wasn't reciprocated I thought, well why is that? Am I not lovable? I have sooo much love to give doesn't anybody see that? This all makes sense and is very timely for me right now, my fiancé needs me, and I have to practice being selfless all the time or I am just not happy. Love ya Lyss thanks
Found this after having a mini breakdown. Crying naked on my apt floor LOL. (VENUS and Saturn in 12th. Aries sun and Leo moon...Pisces rising.) I’m 25 and found this video after sobbing and saying to myself “I have a fear of rejection and I ruminate on lovers not returning my love back”. It’s like I knew exactly what was wrong. I also love the subconscious and am using meditation/ subconscious guidance to help me. I’m a teacher with a desire to be a counselor. I am an unconditional lover. I have a choice in this life and I choose to love selflessly.
I have my sun in the 12th house, which resides in the sign of Libra. And from my personal experience, I feel like my identity was so strong and overpowering, for other people, especially with my Scorpio ascendant, that, I was made to feel invisible because people didn't know how to handle me. I was cast aside and left "alone" because i was, and I still am, too much of something that most people are not even the half of.
I was made fun of and ridiculed, as a child, a lot by my family and in school. It did leave me scared in away, that i fear rejection and intimacy. But, with reflection, meditation and mostly astrology I know now why that happened and why it had to happen.
If my power is my identity and character, then it needs to be bruised in a way, in to order to be constricted, put on hold or "imprisoned", until I learn how to use it correctly or selflessly as you said. And feeling invisible is the best teacher, to feel how most misfortune people feel, as well as to analyse and observe people around you and learn first hand, how cruel people can be.
P.S: Thank you so much Alyssa for sharing your immense knowledge and wisdom with all of us for free, your take on astrology is fascinating, and so on point that it's mind blowing.
God bless
Sun in Aquarius and the 12th house. You were spot-on with the description of being left out, not fitting in and thus being ignored. This made me cry, and I rarely do so. Thank you so much for this.
If someone thinks s/he will be rewarded for giving something selfless, it's obviously not selfless.
We should never push ourselves (or others) to being selfless. If someones wants to give out love, money or whatever, without expecting something in return, it's totally fine, but we should never force ourselves and telling ourselves that we have to be selfless.
Alyssa Sharpe For my point of view the main items of the 12th house are about guilt feelings, feeling powerless, slave dynamics, hypersensitivities in certain areas of our lives ect. Mainly the 12th house symbolizes our subconscious and all the 'dirt' but also the 'treasures' which are swimming in this 'pool'. It's not a personal house, sign and planet, so we can absorb all the stuff which is 'swimming' in the collective subconscious. This can bring us to a place of self undoing, which is nothing more than loosing the ego in the end, but since we need an ego in this world, it can be extremely scary to loose it.
Since a lot of us are motivated by guilt and pity, we are trying to raise our value by thinking 'I just have to give more, and then I will be loved, then I will be accepted...' ect.
Usually it doesn't work out, because if we don't get back what we have expected, the inner conflict between guilt and blaming runs in circles...
It will probably take a long time until humans can get rif off all the guilt, blame and slave consciousness, because it is rooted so deep in our history and nowadays the media is doing their best to keep up the f*cked up belief systems of our past. They are just putting it in a new drag. There is also a lot of subtle and mainly subconscious blaming and spreading guilt feelings going on in the New Age scene through trying to make people believe they have to be able to never judge, to never criticize, to love everybody and everything unconditionally and a lot of other half-cocked beliefs which are spread in the New Age movement, which don't empower the people in the end.
Symbolsysteme This is a great point, and one that I've had to learn recently in some harsh ways, but I think this is why Alyssa explained that we must respect our own boundaries and work through them in our relationships. I don't think shes necessarily saying that we need to give more in order to fulfill our 12th house karma, more that we need to determine our deep boundaries, solidify them and make them known, and only then will we be able to truly know ourselves and how to give appropriately.
When the ego moves from the "why doesn't anyone see all this unconditional love etc. in me, why is the world unfair" to "here is what I have to give, I hope you'll accept it, if not then that's a reflection of your struggle not mine" we move to a higher place of consciousness and we can give in an enlightened and streamlined way, rather than just throwing our ego all over the place. The problem isn't unconditional giving/consciousness/love, its finding healthy and appropriate ways to do so (boundaries). It allows us to stop beating ourselves down with the cycle of guilt and shame, because we have more realistic and fulfilling expectations. Its incredibly empowering.
Alyssa Sharpe, thanks so much for this video, it made me mindful of my own lessons and what i still need to work through. Can't wait for the signs and planets!
I see a lot of people forcing themselves to give, give, give. I wouldn't want to receive, if I am feeling that it doesn't come from the heart. A lot of people seem to see relations as kind of a deal= if you give me this, I will give something back to you. If I understand someone is giving something to me, because s/he feels obliged to, I loose interest. Except in business of course. But in my private relations I would never want to force someone openly or in a manipulative way to give me something.
This is a classical case of projection, because it seems you are taking my comment too personal (maybe also the Mercury r in Gemini)
I picked up one sentence out of this video, but my comment was not so much about what you've said. I am thinking more about the New Age movement in general.
ps: I think we shouldn't take things personal.
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Lia
I agree. My mother does that thing of purposely doing things for other people to feel better about herself and it kinda bothers me. Not only that, but when people point out something I did along those lines, I feel like the moment I become aware of it it's 'ruined'. My 12th house Moon is wired in a way that I'm selfless in a lot of things, but I think I do the most good both for others and myself when it's organic and I don't even acknowledge it consciously or else it's not selfless anymore.
Oh, man, you made me cry so hard! hahahaha But in a good way, I promise! I have my Sun, Mercury, Venus, and other asteroids in the 12th house. I've been going through a phase of self-undoing, self-loathing, self-bad-things, mixed with my oh so great anxiety and I keep thinking every day that it's too much to handle, "what's the point in life, anyway?". Watching your video today gave me hope! Things can get better if I allow and teach myself to be selfless, not only sacrifice myself and expect something in return. This will be a hard path, but I love challenges! Thank you, Alyssa, you made me feel at peace today
I have sun, Venus and Mercury in the 12th house too
100.
Venus is in my 12th house, no wonder I've been single forever lol
felt that, cancer in Venus 12 house...
You can find your mate in a hospital or foreign place or foreigner himself
same ☹️ venus in aries 12th house
Lol I relate to this
Same o same😞
Wow, you made me cry. For the first time, I get it. I have my cancer sun, Venus, mars and mercury in this house. Amazingly, I just happen to be going through some major 12 house issues at this very moment. I needed this at this very moment in time. Knowing this, I know exactly how to handle the things I am going through. Thank you so, so very much!!!
Yeah me too 😭💔
I have my Moon, Venus, and Pluto In my 12 house. And I'm a Sagittarius rising so Scorpio is in my 12th house. And boy do I feel I love and care for people so much and people don't ever look out for me. And I don't even want to go into the live department I always end up braking my partners heart. I'm just not sure what Pluto is doing there. I'll have to research that.
reffi_e omg I have those same placements minus the Pluto in Scorpio
My 12th house is in Aries with Mars and Lilith in it. I have so much problems in love relationships, since I always meet and attract weak men in my life. So I always left because I always thought I deserved a stronger man. But now I realize I need to give my strength to them in a selfless way. I dreamed about this too. I can't tell you who told me so in my dreams (because it is too personal) but they said something like: "the man you love will never be strong enough without you. You need to share your strength with him, do not reject him for his weakness". Now watching this video I realized that wasn't only a dream. Thank you so very much. ❤❤
moon in 12th house!
Berra Un Same
Same!
Same here ;-;
I have sun, moon, mercury and Jupiter :p
ME! :(
This is by far the best description of the 12th house I have come across on the internet.The 12th house is actually the house of 'liberation from the self' or 'moksha' and that is why the south node of the moon does so well here. Lol Imagine my plight, I got most planets in the 12th house and the cherry on the cake is south node of the moon in the first house. I cannot even begin to put down into words the identity crisis I have endured most of my life. But I got through to it when I realized something really important.....
The thing is, you're never really going to find the 'ultimate truth' of life unless you let go of life as you know it. Your material self needs to be undone so that you may discover the ultimate truth. I discovered this lesson and my life changed a lot after it. I have found that the lesson for people with important planets in the 12th house (more so if you have the south node of the moon in the first house) is to learn to 'let go'.
The more they let go of mundane things and physical things and the more they learn not to attach their sense of personal identity to such things, the more they get to understand themselves. I frankly think this is probably the best house in the entire chart because if you have the appetite for it and the guts for it, this house will connect you to the other realms of consciousness to an extent that you will just scoff at what everyone calls life and happiness and how they go about these things. The 12th house is like an advanced course to 'life' lol. It teaches you to look beyond these material things. It is the house of mystics, healers, highly spiritual people and also extremely imaginative people. If you look at it, these are the kinds of people that really change the world....
im a leo with sun in the 12 house and im very happy :-) im a v spiritual person who is healing and wants to heal others in the process!!! i think in my past life i probably "killed my ego"" or something thats why im so connected to the spiritual realm in this one life.. i tend to proyect my fears into others as in "what others might say about me" so im working on that and im also working in self love and im very happy rn!! neptune is an amazing planet, you just have to know whats illusion and whats not, 12 house is a placement with so many gifts
There is no past life. All your lives are occurring simultaneously in the NOW. You are not this one single person you think of yourself. You are multidimensional living, existing and experiencing in many realities all at the same time. Oh well, just saying. ;)
dontaskme oh thats nice!! hahaha
Camila c ty lol ;)
Lol.. Leo in the 12th house here..
Your story about your parents made me tear up! One of my earliest memories is when my parents (my mom and I share a sun in the 12th, one degree apart!) were breaking up, and I was asked who I wanted to live with, and I chose my mom because at all of three or four years old, I knew she needed me. I've already thanked you for this on Facebook, but honestly, thank you. I needed to hear this.
This marks the end of my journey through the twelve houses. I learned a lot and I have been profoundly affected by this. Thank you Alyssa, for your time and the sharing of your knowledge and experience. Your expertise is astounding. I cannot express my gratitude to you for all that you've done. This is an excellent channel and I look forward to future videos.
I have Scorpio moon in the 12th house. I love to venture on my own and be alone. I need it to keep myself sane and calm. From this I feel very out of place but at the same time I feel I do belong. I belong in the feeling of imagination and mystery.
I do find myself wanting attention when I am in a deeply emotional space from those I trust. I realize every time It is not healing to do so. I realize I need to find maybe balance or self assurance or peace within myself to find that "comfort" I need.
I have cancer In the 12 house
@Don X LOL!
Moon in the 12th house.. And it makes me so sad... :(
Same here.. Moon conjunct pluto in the 12th house.. Heavy!!
Fasho
Same here 😔
Same. Cancer moon 12h. I feel like I have an insane amount of emotions and they are completely ignored and I do not feel emotionally seen or heard.
I also have moon in 12H (aries) but I try to see it as something positive. My emotions are hidden, I need time to retreat, meditate etc. At the same time I'm very sensitive to my surroundings and am really good at understanding other people's emotions aka highly empathetic. This makes me a really good listener and I've realised I understand my own emotions better when helping others understand theirs; as long as I return inwards later, reflection is really important for me. Moon in 12H usually means we are healers in one way or another. I think Alyssa explains it really well about we being here to help selflessly. It truly is a gift.
Sun in Leo in my 12th house. There's not a bit of this that I don't relate to. As I get better at preforming healing magic the more good karma finds me. When I was younger I found something that said my last name was used to describe witches who use magic selfishly or without thought so for the past 8 or so years I've become a totally different person. I used to lash out at just about everyone because I felt like I was constantly being attacked because whatever positive attention I received was never enough. I grew to be more comfortable with myself and less stuck on people's ideas of me and though I know I'll always have room for improvement I've come a long way. Planning on going to school for astrology this fall c:
Mary Alice aaaand I just noticed I also have Venus in Leo in my 12th house. Makes too much sense lol
Mary Alice I have this placement as well. working on finding myself, I find that tarot and palm reading really feed my energy.
My Sun (Pisces), Mars, Mercury, and Saturn are all in my twelfth house. It's an emotional rollercoaster.
wtf is wrong with you guys ?? this is mainly the house of your hidden talent and the sign that sits there is the talent .
i have taurus in the 12th house and taurus rules the throat so i sing really good ..check it out its so cool
Same! I am also a vocalist!
Hold on. I'm a Capricorn ☀ in 12th house with 4 other planets there including Uranus. I sing damn well too
i also have mars in taurus in the 12th house, can u explain to me what it means? i’m very confused about this i keep hearing bad things about it. xoxo
Well I have Scorpio in the 12th house... so my hidden talents must be really... REALLY good... ;)
Same I have a stellium there also, Its teaching me to speak my truth and standing firm within myself🧡🌙♉
Alyssa, thanks for this video it really helps me a lot. I have my Libra Sun in 12th house (and moon in pisces, damn!) and I never feel like a true libra. I always feel depressed and things would never go my way. I feel ignored and I always crave for attention, but no matter what I did to seek attention, I never got it. I seem to absorb other people's negativity and opinions. If my friends said that I should like someone, I would think that I like that person. If someone bullied me because of an ridiculous flaw, I would start to believe in it and felt so insecure and miserable. In relationships, I usually give a lot and expect them to give me something back so I can feel balanced, but I never get that same amount of effort that I spent so I always feel unloved and unwanted. This year I am in a very dark place, I don't feel belong anywhere, I feel that I am too weird for this world and people have been cruel to me. I am left with the feeling of being very angry to the point that I imagined to torture people who said and did bad things to me, teach them how to behave and change the way the society work. I guess I imagined to play God like you said. Until last month, I was exhausted and tried to shut off everything. I disappear to all the people who know me, I only contact some of my good friends who I can trust, family and co-workers. I spend more time for myself to find balance, to know what I really want and to figure out who I am. Now I feel a little bit better as I take time to heal myself but I am still lost and confused about what I'm gonna do with my life to make it better.
You have literally been the only person who has made me actually want to sit down and watch a video concerning astrology and care about what you're saying and actually relate with (as relatable as watching TH-cam gets, anyways), as opposed to me only trying to figure it all out by myself; you are incredible and you've made such a huge impact on me. Thank you, sososo much.
I have Sun, Venus, Mercury, Saturn and Pluto in my XII. I could write a thousand books. I feel like in conjunction with your North Node (Life Path), planet placements in the 12th indicate the blockages in the way of being your best self. These blockages are usually resultant of childhood or past life traumas. Venus in 12th house people are usually made to feel ugly, then grow to have self image issues, when in actuality they are physically beautiful. Saturn placement people have to remember they are somebody and that wealth and materials mean very little. Sun placements have to put themselves out there with no expectations or need for validation outside of self. Understanding astrology is the formula for self mastery and the undoing of Karmic debits.
I LOVE my 12th house!! I have my sun, my moon, my mercury (rx) and venus all in the 12th house. Even though I am a Virgo, I feel a lot of the pisces coming through strongly.
wow thanks for this. Have sun,moon and mars in the 12th. I have two adopted boys and lost my husband to cancer 2 years ago on Christmas Day. It is an uphill climb most days. This made me cry. It is exactly right. I need to be selfless and absorb their pain at being adopted , or black with a white mom, or their dad dying, or whatever. I do struggle with feeling like a victim, even though I know it doesn't serve me. You have given me some real strength, or at least reminding me what I was put here to do. :>
Sun, Venus, Mercury, and South node in the 12th house. 🤦 For a long time I felt invisible, and like I had no idea who I am. Had to spend a lot of time alone to build myself an identity and get to know myself because it was all a fog. I still feel like an outsider a lot, like I'm watching others from the periphery as opposed to being an active participant of life. I have to snap myself out of that mentality. I have the right to exist and shine, not just stay in the shadows all the time.
I am ansolutly in tears right now. You are speaking anput things that no one around me would comprehend about me. I am so unbelievably grateful for this video. I am Scorpio Sun, Saturn, and Pluto with Scorpio in 12th house (Sag rising) Thank you so much. This is perfect
There is no past life. All your lives are occurring simultaneously. Thus you cannot refer to any past life when you have so many of them occurring NOW. We are multidimensional beings; meaning that our soul (or rather our Oversoul) can split into many of itself and experience many lives in different timelines and dimensions all at the same time. I wonder if any astrologer understands this. They would then have to come up with a new meaning for the 12th house.
So does thatt mean our soul being split into tiny pieces is exprirencing the past ,the present and the future both in this dimension and other dimensions?But Our soul and our solar placement remains the same?So our lives are pretty much the same except for the difference of time and dimension?Is that what you are saying?
So does that mean we live the same life make the same mistakes over and over again in other dimensions also?That's pretty depressing lol
Peggy Guo Yep, exactly that......we are experiencing the past, the future and the presently simultaneously thru our other selves. Each one of your other selves has its own individuality. Thus each will have a different horoscope, a different life experience, etc.
Peggy Guo For example, in another life, you (another you) are probably an alien living in a different dimension. Your experience in that dimension will be completely different from this life you have here on Earth. Or maybe you have another life where you experience as a very enlightened being.
What do you base this theory on? I agree, that there are no human past lives. We live first as minerals, then plants, animals and finally have one human experience before either ascending or dying forever. Through this evolution the spirit gains self-experience.
It makes more sense to me, that the soul splits only into two spirits: the masculine and feminine. These are so-called Twin Spirits or Twin Flames.
I’m 25 with a tight 12th House stellium in Virgo (22-25 degrees; Sun, Mercury, Jupiter) + Ascendant. Along with Moon in Taurus in the 8th.
What you said about not having it figured out = dead on. This year I officially gave up on ever having anything regarding my life “figured out.” I’ve known conceptually this would be medicine for me for a while, but this feels like the first time I’ve embodied it. A wise fellow astrologer once said to me that 12th house people’s lessons in this life are to learn to let go again & again & again. Life is sweeter when I let myself be in the mystery & just trust 💜✨🙏
Thank you so much for this video! Described me perfectly. My Sun and Venus are in the 12th house, and its tough to avoid being self destructive. Its hard right now, but I know that in the end I'll be better because of it :) (darn my 4th house in Capricorn being all wise and stuff). You're the best!
Wow Alyssa you blew my mind with this.I have Moon Mars Saturn and Jupiter in Virgo in the twelth house.Fear, surpressed anger, loneliness, feeling overwhelmed by people,restlessness etc. No one explains the houses better than you.I am not a newby to astrology at all , you manage to make me think and look at it yet from another angle.You would help a lot of people if you did more on 12th house issues.You talking about your parents made me cry.And the talk about "deserving" and using others because one lets others infiltrate wow true.A 12th house person will never be happy living "on the selfish side" they're not being true to themselves but they need to learn about boundaries and know they work bothe ways like you said.I'm totally fanning out right now!YOU ROCK!!
I think you're more able to take energy and release it for others..than you think you are. Thank you so much for this. I have Jupiter, Saturn, and Pluto in the 12th. You seriously made me cry. I think you totally respected the pain that people go through regarding this house, enough to hear out your advice. :)
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She went live on Instagram today I made her talk about narcissistic people me being Leo rising cancer sun Capricorn moon Gemini mars 😂😂❤️❤️
I feel like I'm doing the opposite to what you're saying to do :( Growing up I was physically abused by my dad & put in hospital twice, as well as badly abused in school. I have Pluto in 12th in Scorpio.
As a teen I was still selfless with friends and I'd always ask them to meet up with me and they only would if I paid for everything for them. They would even, "borrow" money that they would never return & I would never hear from them again. I was used that way by men too (I have Venus in Taurus on cusp of 7th house).
Anyway now that I'm older I do 2 things. 1) I isolate myself & don't leave my home for weeks which is hard with an 8 month old baby & I know the worst thing to do 2) I refuse to pay for other people no matter what (even though it hurts me that I can't help but I've been burned too much) and I actually use my fiancé for money a lot as I feel it's owed to me (yes bad I know!). I had him buy me as car, pay off my university fees & he's paid for our house (the deposit & mortgage) & yet my name is on the house with his.
I just feel it's use people or be used :(
My fiancé has 12th house sun in Leo and since doing Astrology it's weird how the only handful of friends I've ever connected to have 12th house planets...
Anyway I don't know how to break out of this selfish and isolating cycle...It's either stay indoors & don't contact people for weeks & my depression gets worse....or use people.
With Pluto in 12th I can't be friends with people long as we end up having a major argument and stop talking. Pluto always transforming everything in the worst way.
I've tried being selfless but I just get used.
I've been to psychics before argument and they all say I have healing abilities and I should become a healer...but it's not like you can just go to a school for that is it? Ughhh. 12th house is a bitch!!
So sorry for the typos! Hate this new phone and predictive text.
I have Chiron and Pluto in the 12th house and been told that I could be a healer but I don’t know how to become one
@@sheabutter7948 strange how things have changed for me in 5 years! I am much more outgoing etc and positive and spend a lot of money on my hubby as I totally trust him. I actually bought him an SUV for his 30th! As for the healer part - I quit my job and am back at University. Just finished my first year of Nursing/Midwifery! I have also privately paid to become a reiki healer :) So going into healthcare or doing reiki healing are both great options for you. Since I've found my true life path, my life is so much happier and fulfilled!
Sorry just to say - I am the Sole911 account! I changed my email address but my account is still linked to Sole911 which is why your comment was still emailed to me x
True.
I have a Stellium in 12th in Pisces.
Shit childhood but learnt to heal the trauma.
Venus starts the Stellium and I read that in Vedic astrology, that it means I can resurrect. And yes I can but only when I use love.
I feel that 12th house planets are like a Key to unlock Spiritual gifts for humanity and those around you. But as there are Dark entities who want the Earth in Darkness they attack 12th house people. This is why it seems to be the House of loss or self undoing because of the temptations of the dark entities.
Get better not bitter is the encouragement for this house.
And my advice for any parent with my Stellium is plenty of soft toys and cuddles as the dreams/nightmares are VERY vivid. And find a really good Dream symbology book and write the child's dreams down. Many of mine were premonitions.
Still are.
I have venus in the 12th house and it makes so much sense to how I deal with feelings and who I'm attracted to
I have the Sun, the Moon, Mercury and Pluto in the 12th house. You are 100% accurate, only after I accepted that I have to give selflessly did everything change. The 12th house saved me.
Would you ever to a video about the 'Lilith'?
I'm not exactly sure what it is and I can't really find any videos on it..
Omg Lilly What is that? its in my 12th house
Lilith represents your shadow self and sexual deviations when triggered
@@2deep2hard YEESH, Lilith is in my 7th house, which represents your shadow self.... Maybe I should be a dominatrix?
@@rockstarr8786 i have my lilith in my seventh too, in Aries
Lilith 12th house.. I refuse to be the other woman. I’m a girls girl. So it projects. Becomes my hidden enemy my ex would always bring “other women” into our relationship. 12th house (12th house -things that are hidden, hidden enemies+ Lilith “other woman”) anyway just one way it manifested for me.. No way to escape it even if you try someone will bring it to you.. Even if it is through a partner... Oh and usually other woman do not like me jealously issues sometimes even if I try to be jolly.. Hey, I try..
i started tearing up when you described your mom and felt so called upon/seen the rest of the way through. i have 3 planets in my Gemini 12th house - Venus @ 0, Mercury @ 6 and Jupiter @ 11 (sun is next door in Taurus, 20 degrees). I see myself so much in your mom and can feel my partner in your dad's confusion/bewilderment. thank you for this heart/mind/eye/ opening video. my north node is is pisces, ruler of 12th house...
anyone in the comments a 12th house person who had middle child syndrome growing up? show of hands? 🖑😂
Geekella 🖑
same. i got my sun, mercury, venus, and jupiter all in the 12th. le sigh....
Moon in 12th
3rd of 4 kids
Geekella north node in 12th - Taurus between a Pisces and Virgo 💚💚💚
🙋🏽♀️
Leo in the 12th, Sun in 10th in Cancer I'm only a big deal to myself, ig I'll get back to loving and nurturing others selflessly... The story about your parents is beautifully bittersweet.
I have Gemini in my 12th house 🤔 I still don't know what that means lol 🙈
Same
Gemini moon in 12th house as well
Its ur hidden talent
Gemini represents talkative ness,
Writing etc.
Ur an exilant salesman
Just tap into it with all ur energy.
People say u dont talk much
Sometime u feel the same too bt if u do some effort u will discover u talk the most amazing sthit of the world, & people will be amazed by u....
wow that was a lot of info, what do you know about scorpio in the 12th house?
So, what are you hiding? Lol Jk ;)
That was the most profound way of explaining the 12th house journey as well as the planets in it
Thank you very much for that, I am very sure anyone on this planet is very grateful for your time and efforts in sharing all this with us
Scorpio is in my 12th house...
Same here!!! It feels and sounds so scary.....
Definitely feels scary but makes us stronger people, I have Pluto intercepted in my chart so Pluto is in my 12H and 1H making it FELT. My dreams have always been dark with common themes of death,sex & just overall bad vibes lol. Can you relate? I find this placement so interesting and strongly felt
@@Outofbounds7 -- My Pluto is actually more towards my 12th/11th house cusp. My dreams are random. Sometimes I don't even remember them, even though I try to. But last night's was particularly eerie and dark. Guess the full moon in Scorpio had something to do with it 🤣
I'm the other way around! Pisces moon in my 8th house, guess I understand y`all
eunoia Someone very close to me has this placement, I am very sorry if this too invasive or personal but what are your views on sex?like how important is it to you? Or do you not care about it that much?
12th house, WTF???? The 12th house has an extreme amount of my natal chart's energy. Which fits with my strange experience so far. Oh look, there's a video with 12:12 playtime in my suggested videos list right next to this text! Then 13:13 above it. That's perfect for what I originally wanted to say here, basically that I think the 12th house contains your psychic potential.
If I were as dumb as I was a year ago, I'd still be resenting my 12th house for "sucking up" my vital energy and causing massive identity issues. I have Mars and Venus conjunct in my 12th house which are both squared with Uranus, with a rising Pisces sign. But now I think this is why I see constant synchronicities, like the one I mentioned above (12:12, 13:13).
The 12th house is powerful stuff. I have been way more empowered by reading it with a positive bent, because it contains so much of my chart's energy I would just be harming myself otherwise. I think I'm starting to see "the hidden" in countless ways now, and it's probably because of the huge BLESSING that is the 12th house.
Long story short.... the 12th house is your best friend!! It's more "you" than "you". It's the iceberg below the "tip" of our identity and sensations. Listen to the 12th house and it'll talk to you even more the next time you need it to! Our intuition has been very badly mistreated as a whole, and I think this is largely where it rests. Try to befriend it even if it seems to be vile at first; it's just got a lot of shit to shake off, that's all.
This is such a great explanation... Even people who don't have "twelfth-house" issues per se can learn from this. Thank you!
Alyssa, this was your best video of this series. Loved it!!! Thanks for sharing your knowledge and experience. I dated someone who has many planets in the 12th house and he is everything you said. It's amazing! The 12th house is the one I have more dificulties on understanding. Thanks again.
Very nice video Alyssa, you've come along quite nicely. For me, the 12th has always felt like the 'big one'. The one I've always been fascinated and yet scared shit-less about. It's taken a long long time for things in there to reveal themselves to me. It's my favorite house by far. ;)
Venus, Mars, and Jupiter in 12th house of Gemini. Venus is in Cancer though. I’ve been dying to know when this was all going to be relieved, when I could let go of that yearning and hope for things to be different. This my life you are describing. Thank you so much for giving me the answers I needed to survive this lifetime. It’s been so unbelievably painful. Thank you Alyssa.
Hello Alyssa I do not normally comment on your videos because I generally agree with what you have to say most of the time, but when you said "nobody DESERVES" such and such was the poorest choice of words I've heard you say. People whether they are (relatively) "good or bad" deserve everything their hearts desire. That does not mean that it should be GIVEN to them; i.g entitled to them (all if not most of the time) without working for them. From my perspective it seems as if you have confused the two, which is very detrimental to someone who might have subconscious hang ups/beliefs systems built around a preconceived notion that they don't "deserve" such and such. A lot of people suffer through this life because somewhere in their life they were made to believe they don't deserve happiness, love, prosperity, abundance or whatever the longings of their souls are. I hope this makes sense to you, love and light.
Sun in Leo 12th house here. Thank you so much for this.
“Venus in 12th house -My ability to love was meant to feel invisible”. I don’t have a clue what that even means...
She meant like nobody would want your love because it's on the 12th house it's like hidden from you
Suny Jimenez still very confusing
@@eveeboss yeah it's confusing but I watch another video it's like people won't appreciate the love you give and you will think they don't love you back but it's clear for others the person loves you but you don't see it
Suny Jimenez ooooh this makes sense now 👌 cheers
I'm totally going to buy a video reading on my chart from you once you've had the baby and things have settled a little. I'm so excited for it! :)
My sun is in the 12th house which is libra, my rising sign is also libra.
I am so moved by this reading. In tears which is rather rare for me. Deeply grateful!!! There is truth and clarity in your words.
Your thoughts on Venus on the 12th house hit home, thank you for posting this
My libra is in the 12th house which is supposed to show a traumatising past life which makes me fear relationships. Since I was a kid I was so uncomfortable with romance!! Love to explore this
Ps. I’m a sun in fifth house and I’m a vessel for reiki healing, I’m also really good at counselling. There’s a few placements in my chart which make me able to be selfless and empathic! Not your typical Aries sun and Venus.
These videos are so insightful!! Thanks for teaching
You're so beautiful I love you.
5:00 sun mercury 12th house
I have pluto in 12th house conjunct my ascendant in scorpio idk what to do
Same but i have scorpio in 12th house and pluto in the 1stconjuct ascendant
Anyone else has Neptune/Uranus/Saturn/Lilith/North Node in your 12th House Capricorn ? I have those aspects & it's suffering every single day. Walking through thousand hells & dying in my mind over & over again...
Wow. This was awesome. Thank you Alyssa.
Thank you so much for this video! Truly. I come here every time I start feeling sorry for myself or start thinking why everything happens to me. I don’t like feeling that way but I’ve noticed there’s so much unclearness that there’s no logical reasoning to back up with any of the situation I’m dealing with (Neptune). Which I guess is the reasoning in itself, about letting go and having no reason. I swear this sounds crazy but I hope 12th house people get what I’m saying.
This video hit me so hard
5 planets in 12th house, 2 in 8th and Lilith in Aries, I have an amazing combination
Great video! I've got my Leo moon in the 12th house.
buythestars Taurus Moon in my 12th house...also Saturn in Aries in the 12th, ugh!! Kinda wish she would've gone through how each planet affects someone when it's in the 12th house though.
Alyssa Sharpe Awesome! Your blog posts are great btw :)
Alyssa Sharpe Oh, that's good...I'll look for that!
+buythestars I'm a lunar Leo too but it's not in the 12th. Being a lunar Leo is not easy to begin with so I can only imagine it being in the 12th house. Much love
+Kassandra Dea Yay Leo moon! Haha, it's not exactly ideal, especially when the transit moon goes through my 12th house, but it's all I really know so it's okay! Thank you for your kind words, sending love to you too!
SPOT ON....I have my Sun, Mercury, and Venus in the 12th house of my Sun Sign Cancer. And to top it off I'm a Leo Rising.
Also, all of the planets are within 2 degrees with my sun being 1 degree Cancer.
Also I have a 5 as my life path and was born on 6/22/1984 so my birthdate is a MASTER 22 and if you add my sequence for my whole birth year you get 22....there are no mistakes!
Did I mention I am a Human Resources manager...talk about giving yourself to others !!!
sun, mercury and Venus in the 12th house 🌚✨
Im a Virgo rising, which puts Leo in the 12th house, where Jupiter is. In my own life, Ive found Ive gained a lot of understanding in 12th house places that I get sent to, and only there does my Leo energy "shine" in this near-invisible realm. I actually gain a lot of pleasure (being a Virgo rising) when I am unwound, though it is not an easy place to find. It's easier if you are delivered there.
Venus and Mercury in 12th. i've been getting better at expressing myself, but the Venus part is quite hard! i keep attracting or being attracted to addicts, unavailable or cold people, or those who shun intimacy... i crave reciprocity and i feel i have so much to give, and i crave all that intimacy and somehow it is always kept (or subconsciously i keep it) at arm's length... maybe i feel like i don't deserve it? or am afraid of getting it and losing all that piscean dreamland? (i have venus in cancer btw, which probably doesn't help at all ;)
Alyssa, thank you for this video. It is a very good video. I like your explanation about the 12th house. I have only Saturn in my 12th house and it is make itself known to me like what you said, like a MOFO. I don't know how to handle it. I have a hard time letting go of anything. Every feelings, every experiences are stewing within and I can't release them unless I pray and help others. I'm fortunate enough to be in the position of helping others that at times, like my brother told me that I forget that I need to be selfish. Also, the sign in the 12th house is Leo. I like to hear your explanation of Saturn in the 12th in the sign of Leo. Maybe you can make videos of them. I am a Virgo sun Scorpio moon and I have been listening to your videos for like forever. :)
Wow .. learning how to selfless with my love.. I’m a Venus 12 house too.. also libra which is also my sun sign.
This was great. I've got mercury, mars, uranus and neptune all in capricorn and in the 12th house. Thank you for sharing your knowledge!
Same!
I have my rising sign(Scorpio) in the 12th house....shet 😂 I can relate to some. feeling ignored and not wanted. but my moon sign is cancer and my sun sign is gemini. whenever I'm negative, my mind is always having an argument and encouraging myself to be positive 😂 pretty weird. I know I'm loved by atleast my family and I'm quite optimistic most of the time. I don't like negativity, it just spreads to me 😅
u cant have your rising sign in 12th house because your rising sign is always in the 1st house!
Lilla Kecskes really?? My Ascendant is closer to 12 than 1, can I tag u and show u the pic of my birth chart??
+Ari Ni yepp u can :-) but it doesn' t matter whereabout it falls within the first house, it will still belong there :-)
Lilla Kecskes I tagged u in it 😊
+Ari Ni yeah well because the ascendent is literally the first degree of first house -meaning the ascendent is the beginning of the whole birth chart ;-) can't see the tagging :-(
When I don't know where I belong
I just have myself
Being happy and talking to myself
I know its crazy but I do that
I have neptune and uranus in the twelfth house in capricorn? does anyone care to explain?
You are describing, my now ex, perfectly! He has his Sun(Pisces), Moon(Pisces), Mercury(Aries), Venus(Aries), and North Node (Taurus) in the 12h House! He said he feels his brains is all messed up... I feel like he feels he doesn't deserves to have love or be loved at times. But then it's the other side of it and he feels like I'm not loving him enough, even though I've countless times have given it (Aries Sun - 1H, Scorpio Moon - 8H, Aries Mercury - 1H, Pisces Venus - 1H, Pisces Rising, Aries North Node - 1H). He also has a Taurus Rising. I think from what you said about the house need ing to be SELFLESS is so true! He has issues with bottling up with what he feels. The week his father said something awful to him and his sister, he told me, but he never went into great detail. He came over and acted like nothing happened, but then was expecting me to automatically know how to respond but he seemed fine, his vibes seemed fine. And he was doing this in the moment when my own mother was having a manic episode from her Bipolar (Capricorn Sun/Aquarius Moon/Sag Rising Mother).
And he said I was putting out all these negative emotions. But I think he was holding on to a lot of negative emotions instead. I do feel like he selfish broke us up out of fear.
I have a 12th house stellium and I understand nothing. 🥺😭
K. Youre good. Recently, i learned to stop taking everything personally. Growing up takes time.
i have my Venus in the 12th
how is this for you? what sign is it in??
Same here, Libra Venus 12th house :-/
@@eveeboss how does this work for you? Im trying to understand a girl i love and this placement
Ryan Silvernell I don’t really know, I tried to get some info out of this video but it was tricky, I don’t think I learned something new today. Well maybe the part where I’m trying to give affection to other person (a guy) and it’s not returned, and if it is it’s not on the same level. Like I give a 100% and I get 20% back. Besides... one thing I remember about Venus in 12th from other source was about the house being linked to travel. It was interpreted that with my Venus in 12th I’ll find someone abroad or that my future partner would be exotic (May find people from other ethnicities attractive) and that’s really true. Blond guys with blue eyes are not my thing at all.
@@eveeboss hmm. Idk.. It was quite the opposite in my experience with her. I loved her hard and gave her a lot but she told me she didnt think she could love me enough or as much as i loved her bcuz she is having issues with having love for her self..
I have this placement and I've mastered this.... Mars and mercury in cancer 12 house. Plus the sun in 12th house in Gemini.
I've got my gemini sun, venus retrograde and mercury in my 12th house :(
My Mars, Venus (Aquarius) and Saturn (Capricorn) are in the 12th house in my chart. I'm thankful that my Sun (Pisces) & Mercury (Pisces) are in the 1st house though. I get to express my thoughts and feelings through my writing! That is a great outlet for me. ( Yes in my teen years I had a diary. I still have a diary now.)