What Disturbing Thing Did You Found out About Someone After They Died?

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  • @Not_An_EV
    @Not_An_EV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    Man that dad was impressive. Moving all those boxes of tapes to his workshop *AFTER* he died.

    • @possuminshirt
      @possuminshirt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      dad:*dead*
      dad:*remembers the tapes*
      dad:I HAVE RISEN ONCE AGAIN-

    • @tiffanyj4306
      @tiffanyj4306 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Right lol!! This is why sentence structure is important

    • @LovePrettyNailsLady-Jay80
      @LovePrettyNailsLady-Jay80 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tiffanyj4306 )

  • @cleonmurle2944
    @cleonmurle2944 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    3:20 “if I die bro , erase my browser history”

    • @Razor-gx2dq
      @Razor-gx2dq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I think that is unspoken "bro" code.

    • @jeremymilan113
      @jeremymilan113 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      a trick : you can watch movies at KaldroStream. I've been using it for watching all kinds of movies during the lockdown.

    • @mackaaron9842
      @mackaaron9842 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Jeremy Milan Yup, I have been using kaldroStream for years myself :)

  • @rud5101
    @rud5101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    When I was little, my aunt's boyfriend died and we were told he was killed by a ricocheted bullet while practicing shooting. Only in the last year did I think about it and ask my dad what happened. Apparently, it was actually a suicide after an argument with my aunt...

  • @coderlion1467
    @coderlion1467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    Found out that one of my friends stole a machine to help his mom survive and sold it for weed. He tried to pin it on one of my other friends, he came to my house with 5 other kids looking for him thinking he was in my house and asked me where he was ( of course i knew where he was but i didn't tell him) because i had a bad feeling after he died his mom told me why he came to my house looking for my other friend ( which was what i told y'all at the beginning of the comment)

    • @narutouzumaki-uv8zt
      @narutouzumaki-uv8zt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ????????????

    • @coderlion1467
      @coderlion1467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@narutouzumaki-uv8zt what?

    • @rattatouilletherat
      @rattatouilletherat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Well... that was a mess

    • @Hamhockss
      @Hamhockss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I do not understand

    • @coderlion1467
      @coderlion1467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Hamhockss it's about my friend who stole a machine that his mom needed to survive sold it and when his mom found out he tried to blame on my other friend

  • @The_Dudester
    @The_Dudester 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    One of my siblings did the 23 & me DNA thing and the one shocker was that a grandfather was British and not Cherokee/French as he claimed. He had come from Canada and his brother still lived there. They both had a French surname, so, most likely my grandfather's parents not only lied about where they came from, they also changed their name. The question is why?

    • @NatohDine
      @NatohDine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I'm Native American, and every person who learns this tells me about their Native great grandma...how they have "a little Indian blood" in them. Every single time. I just smile and nod. I hear it all the time.

    • @The_Dudester
      @The_Dudester 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@NatohDine I get where you're coming from. I grew up just a few miles from a reservation, so the connection to native American is a sensitive subject. On my father's side of the family I knew Italian, but that's it, nothing more. My father's relatives are close lipped. On my mother's side we knew little until I found the small town where my grandmother (she's 100% Czech) was born. The county registrar actually let me sit in the vault for two days and look up every birth/death/marriage certificate and land deed on file, and the file went back to 1856. The question mark then became her husband (the afore mentioned grandfather). I am actually paying a service to do research on said grandfather as I found him on someone else's family tree.

    • @mariannecontrino6297
      @mariannecontrino6297 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@The_Dudester That's really interesting. Just out of curiosity, is there a reason why you're doing all of this? Is it just because you want to know more about your past, or are you working on something bigger? I've always wanted to research my family's history, so was impressed by all the work you're doing. ☺

    • @The_Dudester
      @The_Dudester 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mariannecontrino6297 My grandfather told tall tales (not just repeating the lies his parents told him) and he wasn't the type of person that needed to do that. He had done legendary feats as a railroader (people saw him pull off physical feats-on two occasions, outrunning a train to throw a switch so it wouldn't crash) and he had pulled off a legendary feat as a volunteer firefighter-arriving in the nick of time with a tank load of foam to save firefighters because an oil tank had exploded. Other people witnessed these events and told me-not him-so the tall tales didn't fit.
      His parents had snuck out of England under assumed names, why? If my grandfather had these near superhuman abilities, where did he get them? His mother? Father? Is this why they had to sneak out of England? Some pieces don't fit.
      Looking into my mother's heritage, all I had to go on was the name of a small town that my grandmother spoke of affectionately. I found a cemetery, then checked the county's cemeteries until I hit paydirt and found my great grandparents and couple of my grandmother's siblings. Now that I knew for sure that the family lived in the county, I went to the courthouse, and as I stated above, was allowed access to the vault.
      I'm not trying to write a book or screenplay out of it, just satisfy my own curiosity because my family won't do something like this. After I had been to the courthouse vault, my Christmas gift to my siblings and mother was a half inch of documents about my findings, that included maps (the family had at one time owned a 460 acre farm). My mother always wondered where her mother got money (her siblings were selling off the farm piece by piece).

    • @solidstate9451
      @solidstate9451 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@NatohDine I'm pretty sure, I don't have a native American as ancestor.

  • @stawbylemom
    @stawbylemom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    When he died, turns out he left behind a mansion full of other people's skulls. The odd thing is, they never found his own, when he died.

  • @Zigzag-2
    @Zigzag-2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    My grandmother's husband ( I don't claim him anymore) had said that he would like to f*ck my sister and other women in our family. It's the fact that my grandma had been told this by someone her husband usually hangs with, and yet, nothing happened. She didn't want to let him go because she doesn't like to be alone, she has 4 kids and 10 grandchildren. Lots of us are drifting apart 'cause of her mistakes, that 54 year old man has been looking at my younger cousins, which is not okay.
    Just recently, I was told WHY my dad went to jail and it's been like 5 years. My mother told me he was doing drugs and had molested a child in our family (dad side). I understood why my sister was uncomfortable talking to him, but I've been kinda close to him as a kid. Though, he kept breaking my promise we made, me being a kid, expecting him to living up to them and was sad when he didn't. When I found out what he did, I didn't care that much. All I cared about was if I was still able to see my big brother lol.

    • @andrewsutherland133
      @andrewsutherland133 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I found out my great grandfather used to molest my mother, grandmother and likely my disabled cousin he took care of for decades

    • @2degucitas
      @2degucitas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeesh

    • @you_know_me8218
      @you_know_me8218 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@andrewsutherland133 is he hopefully dead now?

    • @andrewsutherland133
      @andrewsutherland133 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@you_know_me8218 yeah, I didn't find out until afterwards

    • @you_know_me8218
      @you_know_me8218 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@andrewsutherland133 at least he’s dead. Still sorry for your *loss* 🙂 I am sorry for sounding so heartless, I really hate these kind of people that I don’t even feel bad if they die, sorry.

  • @osasob007
    @osasob007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    "hello there distant cousin!"

    • @rain8150
      @rain8150 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hello there long lost cousin

    • @charlieclark9552
      @charlieclark9552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hello fellow cousin

    • @glanty
      @glanty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hello my cousins

    • @gerrardjones28
      @gerrardjones28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hello there distant cousin but close friend through Utube

    • @rwilliams8736
      @rwilliams8736 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂

  • @MandyBuglet
    @MandyBuglet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The man who lost his little brother and came across evidence of his depression made me sad. Poor guy. The racist grandpa was bone chilling O_O.

  • @emse1093
    @emse1093 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    8:53 oml i was listening to this in the background and it was like
    "my great grandfather passed and we found an abnormal amount of pee. this man was 85 and the pee dated back 50-60 years, lots of vintage pee"
    i was so confused and disturbed till i realised it was just censored p***

    • @shells500tutubo
      @shells500tutubo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😂🤣😁😂🤣😁

    • @explicitcomments
      @explicitcomments 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      LMAO

    • @sleazybtd
      @sleazybtd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So what would have been a normal amount of pee for a dead person to have, as opposed to abnormal amount?

    • @F1areon
      @F1areon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sleazybtd Probably none, since you pee and poop when you die :P

    • @mariannecontrino6297
      @mariannecontrino6297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for commenting this, because I DIDN'T read the post, just heard the video, and was as confused as you. Only my thought was, "How in the world did they know how old the pee was?!?! Did he have it labeled?!?!" This makes way more sense now. Too funny. Go gramps!!!

  • @SamN43GH
    @SamN43GH 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    After one of my great uncles died of cancer I was told that before he married my great aunt he had at least 20 kids back in Jamaica. That threw me because I grew up thinking he only had two sons with my great aunt and two daughters from a previous marriage. The family joked about it calling him a rolling stone.

  • @lanarose63
    @lanarose63 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Title: “what is something disturbing that...”
    Every post: “not necessarily disturbing but..”

  • @McGriddle69
    @McGriddle69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Oh I've got one! Turns out my grandpa was a cross dresser. He may have really been trans because he had told my grandma that he felt more like a woman, but this was the 70s-90s so it wasn't really socially acceptable to be Trans. He had a stroke in the 90s before I was born and so I never knew him when he could talk and walk around but he was cool. Always gave me Swiss rolls when I'd come visit him in the nursing home. It was only after he died that my mom and grandma told me. I wasn't as broken up about it as they were when they found out back in the 80s because I grew up in a society where it was more accepted.

    • @youneverseeanoldmaneatinga7416
      @youneverseeanoldmaneatinga7416 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      :( I wish he'd been able to have the freedom to be his real self back then. He probably kept so much bottled up inside. Sounds like he was an interesting person.

  • @caseyo5524
    @caseyo5524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    My dad isn’t dead but I did find a few things he’d save from my 2 sisters and I. He saved an apology letters 2 in total, 1 of each from my sisters, about whatever they did that warranted the letters when they were young. The thing from me was a voicemail he saved that was definitely 3/4 years old when I found it on his cell. I think I was helping clear some odd things out and was listening to some and he saved the one I excitedly called him just after school ended that it’s snowing on our side of town. Snowing on our side of town isn’t natural since we live in Las Vegas. He was working at the airport as a ramps supervisor at the time so it was a messy few days since, ya know, snow in a place where we don’t have the normal equipment to deal with it is a pain in the butt.

  • @indridcold8433
    @indridcold8433 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My uncle was a severe alcoholic with three overlapping marriages. After he died it was revealed he was still married to two women at once. This got the family investigating. It turned out he had lots of children all over the planet. It also turned out alcohol was a repeating curse in our family. Many in my family had lost everything to the love of it. I heard many testiments of people in my family being addicted in their first swallow of alcohol. After hearing all this, I promised myself I would never try alcohol. I will be 50 years of age in three months. I have never drank alcoholic drinks, nor will I ever. It appears my ancestry has a genetic predisposition to becoming alcoholic. Alcohol will not get me. I will never taste the stuff.

    • @jimmyseaver3647
      @jimmyseaver3647 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Godspeed in breaking that curse. It takes guts.

    • @emilybarclay8831
      @emilybarclay8831 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Alcohol tastes like shit anyway. I genuinely don’t get the appeal. Even the best fruity cocktails you can just have alcohol free and they’d taste even better

  • @petuniasevan
    @petuniasevan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Turns out that grandma at age 18 had a rocky relationship with her parents because she was seeing a much older divorced man (27 years her senior). Her parents forbade her seeing him, and threatened him with bodily harm should he come near her. Her brother backed them up on it. This was in the late 1930s. She rebelled, and to punish her brother for taking their parents' side, she slept with his best friend. She got pregnant. Her parents sent her off right away to be a housekeeper to a family in Denver while she waited to give birth. She did, under an assumed name and immediately signed away her baby for adoption.
    She came back and the family moved to Southern California to get away from rumors...and to discourage grandma in case her divorced beau still wanted anything to do with her. Well, he did. He moved to So Cal along with his two grown sons and pretty soon he and grandma eloped to Las Vegas. She never referred to the first child she gave up; only her sisters knew and the youngest one was kind enough to let me in on this family secret in 2009, shortly after grandma died. My only regret is that I can never find the adopted person as Colorado laws were strict, and we had no birthdate.
    TL;DR Grandma had child out of wedlock and and married a man old enough to be her father.

    • @mariannecontrino6297
      @mariannecontrino6297 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow, what a story!! Was your grandpa the man she eloped with, or was he someone she met later? You have the makings of a pretty great novel here, or at the very least, a good Lifetime movie. ☺

    • @petuniasevan
      @petuniasevan 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mariannecontrino6297 Yes, that man was my maternal grandfather. Grandpa had a really interesting life, for sure!

  • @bombdotcom2168
    @bombdotcom2168 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had a friend in Middle school who committed suicide a year after I transferred.
    Everyone told me that she jumped off of a bridge near the park in the city I used to live in, but later on I figured out that she purposely overdosed. She had apparently been sexually abused by her cousin on multiple occasions, and he would give her drugs to keep her quiet about it. One day she used what her cousin gave her to end her life.
    I didn't know any of this was going on until a few months after her death. I have never wanted to beat someone up more in my life than I did hearing what her cousin did to her.

  • @2degucitas
    @2degucitas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    After some friends mother's died:
    One mom was revealed to have been impregnated by her father (rape), had the baby that was given to adoption. He was in jail for it. After he got out it was expected she act like happy family and have him over on Sunday. Ew.
    Revealed my mom tried to abort me, but it failed, that's why i was born small. No hard feelings, Mom.

  • @maoama
    @maoama 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    My great uncle was a bishop in the region of Cornwall Ontario. He died recently of alzhiemers. People came forward claiming he sexually assaulted them as children which the family found odd. Mainly because he was already very much retired and into his illness. There was no legal way to prove anything because he was so far gone already. Oh well. The man baptised me as a baby. Creeps me out. I hope it was just stupid (why wait for him to be insane) an attempt at suing the family and not real allegations.

  • @emoestofall
    @emoestofall 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    6:13 it does sound like she died during the last dictatorship (1976-1983). They used to throw people from planes that way. It is estimated that 30.000 people died because of military brutality in that period of time.

  • @roguescape
    @roguescape 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    0:54 most of the stories on Reddit never makes me upset but this one actually stung a little. As someone who has a little brother that is only younger by nine months I find this heart breaking because he is in better physical shape than me (because I am very very sick most of the time) and I envy that. In a way, I want to impress my brother even though dislike but still love him (personal reasons)

  • @serpentinewoods7952
    @serpentinewoods7952 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I never got to meet my grandfather on my dads side because he was in another country and passed around the time I was born, but he was a raging alcoholic, spending his family’s money on booze and abused his wife and his kids. It horrifies me remember the story my dad told me when I was younger where my grandmother was dying from a tumor and on her death bed, she couldn’t pass in her final moments. She asked my dad to bring his father, and told him she need to forgive him in order to pass on to heaven. I’m not a religious person, but if there is a heaven, I believe she’d be there and far away from where the bastard can reach her.

    • @beastmaster0934
      @beastmaster0934 ปีที่แล้ว

      If I was your dad, I wouldn’t bring that scumbag. Your grandma didn’t need to apologize to him, HE should’ve apologized to HER, for the way he treated her and the family

  • @amarareed2432
    @amarareed2432 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When I was 15 a cousin from my mom's side of the family that I had never met passed away from an accidental overdose, I was invited over to his mother's home where she told me that her son was obsessed with me and planned to kidnap me and take me to parts unknown and no one is sure but I have a few guesses he was in his late 20's and was an avid user of psychedelics.

    • @itwontcomeout5678
      @itwontcomeout5678 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What the fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu

    • @amarareed2432
      @amarareed2432 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@itwontcomeout5678 my level of wtf has never been higher

  • @mamoodk725
    @mamoodk725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Nannie lived!! Popping babies every chance she got

  • @papaemeritus8155
    @papaemeritus8155 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The story from 17:40 sounds like the Ideal Maternity Home story. If the grandmother ever travelled or lived in Nova Scotia, in the early 1900's, she could have gone there. Its a horrifying story. It could also be a different maternity home, but with the fact that the one she went to burned down, it seems likely she could have gone to the Ideal Maternity Home.

  • @BetweenTheLyons
    @BetweenTheLyons 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    TL;DR Every post is like "My grandpa had a secret family"

  • @jaredkennedy6576
    @jaredkennedy6576 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I want to do one of those DNA things, but to a certain extent I don't want to know.

  • @turbonut6664
    @turbonut6664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    6:47 my biggest fear is to have to live without my wife/husband after they die especially if I’m not sick myself or going down the same path

    • @mariannecontrino6297
      @mariannecontrino6297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hear you....my dad passed away unexpectedly last week, and my mom's first words were, "I don't know how I'm going to go on without him?" It broke my heart...he loved her so much, took amazing care of her, woke her EVERY morning with a kiss, constantly told her how beautiful she was, and how lucky he was to have spent 35 plus years with her. He had a normal day, mowed the lawn, went to take a shower, got out, was dizzy, sat down, and his heart stopped....just like that. They thought they had a lot of time left together, and then he was gone. I see how lost she is, and even with my own pain, and sadness, I know hers is a million times worse. I'm afraid, as often happens, that she'll just give up, but in all honesty, if I was in her shoes, I'd probably do the same.

    • @itwontcomeout5678
      @itwontcomeout5678 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mariannecontrino6297 I am really sorry 😔

    • @mariannecontrino6297
      @mariannecontrino6297 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@itwontcomeout5678 Thank you, it's been really rough for her, as they truly were the epitome of "relationship goals", and had a partnership most of us could only dream of. To make it a bit easier on my mom, I've taken over a lot of the roles he had, but she's still struggling, probably always will. And nfortunately, assuming all those responsibilities has meant I haven't had a chance to properly grieve myself, but I love my mom, and know my dad would be so happy to know she's being taken care of. Also, they thankfully saved quite well for retirement their entire lives, and have great life insurance, and 401k's, so at the very least she doesn't have to worry about money to pay the bills. You know, he was such a good, selfless man, that people from all over the neighborhood have been coming by, offering their condolences, sharing stories about all the times he helped them out, and coordinating with one another to make sure our lawn is mowed, and odd jobs are done, so that too has eased the burden on her. Plus he was an organ donor, so we know he's helped improve the lives of a dozen, or so people. Which makes us incredibly happy.
      *Sorry, I realize this could be filed under TMI, or I didn't need a novel, but it was very cathartic to write this out. Anyway, thanks again, hope you're doing well, and make sure to hug the ones you love. ☺

    • @youneverseeanoldmaneatinga7416
      @youneverseeanoldmaneatinga7416 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is why it's important for people to be strong and independent before they enter relationships, so you know that if it all ends - which it could at any moment - that you can cope and rebuild and be happy alone or with another person in future.

    • @turbonut6664
      @turbonut6664 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@youneverseeanoldmaneatinga7416 it’s kinda hard to prepare for something like that tho honestly like it’s inevitable and it’s gonna happen at some point but no one rlly likes to think ab it Yk

  • @a.m.9488
    @a.m.9488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I found out my great grandmother who worked in "payroll" in the military had more security clearance than what the president is required to have

  • @MissLilianae
    @MissLilianae 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video just reinforces the idea that no one is "normal". No matter how you act, or what you do, everyone has a secret that can ruin their reputation. The idea of living a "perfect" life: Grow up, get a job, have kids, buy a house, grow old, retire, and die peacefully, etc. Is a fantasy that very few people achieve without some kind of speed bumbs along the way.

  • @C00T13
    @C00T13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I learned just how bad my grandpa's gambling was. He gambled my cousins and I inheritance at the casino boat

  • @adamwebb9545
    @adamwebb9545 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    One part of my whole family died. I was cleaning out the shed and found a ton of naked pics of my cousin.
    My uncle had tons of cameras and never used them at holidays or functions

  • @jadynescobar9118
    @jadynescobar9118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Find*

  • @blindpeopledostuff3587
    @blindpeopledostuff3587 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My grandmother actually abused my mother to the point where she lived somewhere else for a while as a kid. I knew something was wrong with this woman and I didn’t understand I still don’t understand why my mother wanted to love her anyway. Luckily she learned how to not be a mom from her and my grandma wasn’t so bad when I came along but still bad. I’m not even sorry and I didn’t really care when she died.

  • @truepercula
    @truepercula 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Had a "grandfather" on my mother's side. I grew up calling him grandpa and didn't know any different. It wasn't until I got into my 20s that I realized that he had never adopted my mother or her brother (bio dad died in WWII). He and my grandmother had two subsequent daughters together. He lived to 92 and outlived my actual grandmother. My mother has emotional/mental issues and has become a covert narcissist over the years. Her brother was married 4 times divorced 3 was a raging alcoholic. When my "grandfather" died, . . .one of my aunts got a call from a man claiming to be their step brother. So by never accepting or paying attention to my mother and my uncle he indirectly caused emotional/mental trauma to be past on to the third generation. Having an affair just makes him more of a douche. Frick that selfish ass.

  • @p1nk_love107
    @p1nk_love107 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    0:56 I am in a similar situation as the younger brother, my mom just keeps getting back with her abusive boyfriend she forgave him 2 days after an incident after telling me and the police that she won’t get back with him😐 he hasn’t been staying with us but he has been visiting almost every day but yesterday he came over and stayed. I feel like she chooses him over me even after knowing that I can get taken by the police because I’m a minor

    • @HinataElyonToph
      @HinataElyonToph 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Unfortunately she’s probably been so worn down by him that she thinks he’s the best she can get, which is sad.

  • @Shrimp_sauce
    @Shrimp_sauce ปีที่แล้ว

    3:20 the 1987 equivalent of clearing someone’s browser history

  • @cherryboi
    @cherryboi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I found out my cousin was a Pedo- because one of the victims was There (we didnt know who she was- she was 9 at the time)
    And she stopped the Service and Ran up to the mic and Was reading her paper of how he Took away her innocence and her childhood , her mother Disowned her for other reasons and i had to take her in because i was already Trying to take custody of her because her dad was a meth addict and abused her, so i have a daughter that i treat like a princess, She is the sweetest girl ive ever met, and i used to go to my cousins grave with dead flowers and Spit on his Grave twice a month- i stopped doing it once i took custody of my daughter a few weeks after that

  • @stephanietip
    @stephanietip 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My uncle was a child predator.He was accused of harm to a little bitty foster kid but it couldn't be proven,but when I look back I realize he got me and my sisters also.(Hiis first wife then he remarried.)After his death it came out if his wife disobeyed him in any way he would soil himself bad enough it would run down his legs,then force his wife to clean him and scrub the poo from the floors(he would track it all over the house,then force het to wash the poop out of his clothing by hand.Another uncle from the other side of the family was KKK

  • @ooops4064
    @ooops4064 ปีที่แล้ว

    1:21 literally bought me to tears wow

  • @valenciageode25
    @valenciageode25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I wonder if I’ll learn some interesting things about my relatives when they’re gone. Most likely my paternal side. My memaw is a hoarder, who knows what the junk piles hold.
    Although my maternal great-grandmother did have 15 siblings nobody mentioned till I was eleven.

    • @franklingonzalez1003
      @franklingonzalez1003 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow! 15 siblings!

    • @valenciageode25
      @valenciageode25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@franklingonzalez1003 Yeah people had a lot more kids in the past than now

  • @805_6HUNNIT
    @805_6HUNNIT 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My cousin committed suicide and I was tasked with cleaning out his mobile home. He lived like an utter pig wallowing in filth beyond your imagination. Cat and dog feces everywhere, dead flies by the thousands and littered with empty vodka bottles. The smell was indescribable warranting a full Tyvek suit and respirator. I filled up 2 44yd roll off dumpsters with all the crap in there. As you can imagine, I now HATE my cousin and he better hope there is no afterlife

  • @SuperTonyony
    @SuperTonyony 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Papa was a rolling stone.
    Wherever he laid his hat was his home.

  • @multidisaster6
    @multidisaster6 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i don't have any particularly shocking stories, but i have an astounding number of granduncles/aunts and distant uncles/aunts that have had messy divorces, broken homes, serial gamblers blah blah blah.

  • @pastelshadows6437
    @pastelshadows6437 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I discovered some shit last year about my grandpa and his parents. For reference, my grandpa has been dead for 12 years, my great grandpa has been dead for 19 years, and my great-grandma died back in January(though she would have still been alive at the time I learned of this).
    Essentially I found out from my grandma last year that my grandpa was raised in an abusive home, and that my great-grandpa in particular was a horrible father. Apparently my grandpa was really messed up by it, and because of how he was raised he was determined not to go into therapy, so my grandma had to try to help him on her own. His parents eventually did become more stable(although my great-grandma had always been pretty rude), so in adulthood they had more of a relationship but it's still pretty jarring to learn.
    I never got to know my great-grandpa since he died when I was a baby, but I got to know my grandpa pretty well since I had to live with him and my grandma for a year when my mom was undergoing intense chemo. I wish he would have gotten the chance to meet his other grandkids, my aunt had been married for about two months at the time he died.

  • @Hershewed
    @Hershewed 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    0:32 can we just appreciate the fact that this person got to see their great grandpa alive for that long? Man must’ve been stubborn and strong to live long enough to see their great grandkid lol

    • @beastmaster0934
      @beastmaster0934 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wish I had such a luxury.
      The two great-grandfathers that I know about unfortunately died when both of my grandmothers were very young (maternal grandmother was 12, and paternal grandmother was 16)
      I would’ve loved to meet both of them.
      Especially my maternal great-grandfather. The stories my mom-mom tells of him are great.
      He loved my mom-mom deeply, she was a daddy’s girl through and through. She had him wrapped around her finger, and was so heartbroken when he passed.

    • @emilybarclay8831
      @emilybarclay8831 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I met (and was partially named) after my maternal great grandmother, Rose. She died when I was like 4-6 so all I remember about her is that her house had a stairlift and yellow wallpaper

  • @ladyfatassii901
    @ladyfatassii901 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Told none of the family, but told EVERYONE on the internet

  • @mistingwolf
    @mistingwolf 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My mother's father died before I was born, and from the stories she has told me, I don't regret the loss. He was abusive to his family. One day I had been debating on taking a DNA test, then remembered that my sister had gotten hers and said "Well, I guess that'd be pointless then, haha," and my mom dropped a new story on me: that he had been a voyeur and forced my poor grandma to sleep with other men, and that my aunts or uncles might only be half relatives. If that man had still been alive at that point, I may have done something reckless.

  • @rebekahsearcy8986
    @rebekahsearcy8986 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My step-dad had a brother who was gay and he died of AIDS. I found this out a few months ago. I remember the day he passed away. He died in the middle of the night, and my mom told my brother and I. He was cremated and put into a white box. When my step grandmother passed away of lung cancer at age 67 in November 2023, my step-dad wanted to put his brother's ashes into the casket with his mother, but my step grandfather was against it. I wonder if my step-dad snuck the ashes into the grave secretly or kept them somewhere in his room or his car.

  • @ken45y
    @ken45y 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My grandfather on dads side died at 86. My Omar was 60. But before he met my grandmother he fathered a child with a different woman. His daughter(my aunt who is deceased from cancer) and my other Aunt look exactly alike. It's crazy.

  • @Deinzu
    @Deinzu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Found out my mother died via complications caused by hiv and not by a hereditary disease that only affected the women in our family like i was told

  • @austinl.2703
    @austinl.2703 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My Mom had 6 children. I'm number 5. When she died she had 17 grand children and 9 great-grandchildren. Holidays and summer family picnics were huge gatherings. After she died we all drifted apart. My Mom was the anchor that kept the family together. Christmas is the worst holiday now........

  • @civilwildman
    @civilwildman 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Found out after my grandma's passing of the apparent level of abuse she inflicted on my mother. My mom claims to be an unwanted child born out of wedlock to my grandma by some rich New Yorker. There may be truth to all this but I lack evidence to back all of my mother's claims. Who knows?

  • @bettyanndean7191
    @bettyanndean7191 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    After my grandfather died (my father side). I found out that he was abused my grandmother really bad, & he cheated with FAMILY members & raged my little sister & fryer to fondled me, THEN SLAPPED HIM IN THE FACE !!!!! I cried my self to sleep !¡ Was never was left alone with him ever !!!!!!! 💛🌹💜

  • @clwbchbabycakes
    @clwbchbabycakes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I found out a couple weeks after I turned 58, that my dad wasn't my bio dad. DNA tells the truth. They were married 3 years when I was conceived. I want the story. All the players are dead. This is extremely disturbing to me. I lost one whole side of my family. Now my kids, grand babies and I are related to people we've never even heard of. Don't know what that does to our family moving forward.....

    • @franklingonzalez1003
      @franklingonzalez1003 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You may want to take a DNA test and hire a private detective. You'd be surprised as to what is possible. I wish you much luck in finding your lost family.

    • @clwbchbabycakes
      @clwbchbabycakes 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@franklingonzalez1003 I did and Ancestry DNA test. They sent me a message saying they need to redo the test. New kit is supposed to be here today. The DNA will tell the truth, but I still want the STORY. How to get that when everyone involved in it are dead??

    • @franklingonzalez1003
      @franklingonzalez1003 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@clwbchbabycakes Although the main characters are dead doesn't mean the supporting cast is. Remember, you are a part of it and, therefore, there might be a chance others are looking for you as well.

  • @njl51
    @njl51 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We got lots of company here so try not to let the facts be too upsetting. I know, you may hear whispers etc..but you are your own person left to create your own legacy.

  • @zoesherwin
    @zoesherwin 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My great grandmother had an older sister who was brutally taken from us when she was late teens.
    My step-aunt found out about this and didn’t tell anyone until she was giving the eulogy at GGs funeral.......I hate my moms side of the family so much

    • @beastmaster0934
      @beastmaster0934 ปีที่แล้ว

      What happens to the great great aunt?

    • @zoesherwin
      @zoesherwin ปีที่แล้ว

      @@beastmaster0934 idk. Mom knows the story but refuses to tell me
      I’ve searched up Grandmas maiden name and I know she disappeared then was found in pieces but nothing more than that

  • @kylez8010
    @kylez8010 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    In the 1920s my great-grandmother had 4 children with at least 3 different men in the space of 7 years, before moving across the country and marrying my great-grandfather. She also apparently committed bigamy with the 3rd child's father.

  • @alichamay7012
    @alichamay7012 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    For the one with the aunt who isnt getting money from her father, he needs to give her a penny. No money will can be contest. A .01 is an inheritance and is much harder to contest.

  • @felicitybywater8012
    @felicitybywater8012 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My father died a couple of years ago. I bought the kits for AncestryDNA & 23&Me but I haven't yet done them yet because he was a child molester & I'm afraid of finding children born to under-age victims of his.

  • @funpheonix9752
    @funpheonix9752 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I found out that my grandpa (dad’s dad) was highly racist. All of my ancestry comes from Europe, and my dad said that he wouldn’t be okay with it if I dated a Black guy. I was shocked and disgusted, so I asked him, “Where did that come from?!” And my dad answered, “Your grandpa. He hated every race that wasn’t white.”
    It’s like… what the actual f*ck…

  • @keiffitz689
    @keiffitz689 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    22:25 sounds like cotton hill and Junichiro

  • @QuartuvLarry
    @QuartuvLarry 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Even after their secrets, what is your love worth if the sensational outside world can convince you that your family is “bad” and that you should feel hatred for them?

    • @youneverseeanoldmaneatinga7416
      @youneverseeanoldmaneatinga7416 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It depends on what that secret is, obviously. Who cares what the outside world thinks? You feel hatred for some one if you have a moral reason to do so and when the emotion of hatred naturally occurs when you think of that person or what they've done. Especially if they betrayed you and you find out they weren't the person you thought they were. It's natural for feelings about that person to change.
      Not sure why you think people change their opinion due to outside influence, people do have their own minds.

  • @snortyseacow7402
    @snortyseacow7402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Paulie walnuts moment

  • @thirstysnake995
    @thirstysnake995 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My great great grandfather was a very high in the KKK. No one knew, he was a clock maker

  • @Experiment53.
    @Experiment53. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Everyone just straight up ignored the Disturbing part of the post

  • @amberquartz9468
    @amberquartz9468 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    maybe about a month ago i learned that i have a step sister maybe in her 30's ; so basically years ago before my parents were together my dad slept with this one girl and she ended up pregnant , of course my dad didn't know either because he probably left (he's cheated on girls before so i'm not suprised at all that i'd be a one night stand) and he told (us) while we were eating dinner (i was in the middle of watching demon slayer its pretty good so far) and i'm honestly not upset about it my sisters Ashley & Arial feel diffrent about it but i don't blame them, all i know so far about her is that she has tattoos/ her name is aimii (i think thats how its spelt) and that she has kids i'm exited to meet her one day

    • @ShadowZone1996
      @ShadowZone1996 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That would make her your half-sister not step

  • @ruthbrent7048
    @ruthbrent7048 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My father was the “great dad”. Turns out he’s very abusive and is a rpïst

  • @TheMazimai85
    @TheMazimai85 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My great great grandfather used to treat his daughters as girlfriends and refused to let them have boyfriends.

  • @bricksloth6920
    @bricksloth6920 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My uncle was active in the KKK. We found little KKK statuettes and crap in his bureau when we were cleaning the house for my aunt after he died

  • @GG-jn4dx
    @GG-jn4dx 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    2:49 you now wished it was your grandma. Well that is what I would not mind if I discovered something like this. But my grandparents are like a open book to me... (I hope)😳😰

  • @maidprowo9546
    @maidprowo9546 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The second story broke my heart

  • @savday7153
    @savday7153 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My grandpa was racist. Said he didn’t wanna meet my moms N word child. He died and my mom got his ashes. That’s when I met him….

  • @maryforstall7298
    @maryforstall7298 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My mother had a brother that was a secret. My dad had a sister too!

  • @katherine1304
    @katherine1304 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i really REALLY thought the last one meant she was having an affair with her brother

  • @protaen3481
    @protaen3481 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The uncle may have had a cancer prevalent in AIDS patients KS or Karposi Sarcoma

  • @indyfmw
    @indyfmw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My grandfather has 10 plus kids not including my mom and aunt

  • @chae1557
    @chae1557 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    4:19-I don’t feel bad for his father for abandoning his child

  • @GrndAdmiralThrawn
    @GrndAdmiralThrawn 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    21:16 I want to hear the rest of THAT story

    • @beastmaster0934
      @beastmaster0934 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel sorry for the son she didn’t sleep with.
      Fucker must’ve been like “what the hell is wrong with my family.

  • @przemogie2329
    @przemogie2329 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    15:20 sounds like a Coco story

  • @pinkmagicali
    @pinkmagicali 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The comment at 21:17 makes no sense.

    • @itwontcomeout5678
      @itwontcomeout5678 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I noticed that too, it’s not mentioned in the upper comment either! Using “>” implies a quote, and based on the original comment’s timestamp it does not appear to have been edited, either...

  • @TheMazimai85
    @TheMazimai85 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am also related to some famous guy to do with slavery (bad guy), I don't remember his name but I know he is very hated

  • @fireiron369
    @fireiron369 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That Tom meme never fails to make me laugh 😹

  • @UglyBarnical58
    @UglyBarnical58 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have 3 grandpas

  • @BeatnikBun
    @BeatnikBun 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I knew my dad was trans but after he died I read his journal and it was....disturbing. I crossed a boundary for sure, and I regret it.

  • @lateblossom
    @lateblossom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    6th!

  • @hawaiiantitmouse
    @hawaiiantitmouse 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ********

  • @alexandera.1411
    @alexandera.1411 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The one who destroyed the work of his grandparent who passed in 1987 deserves to be shamed (this is the least harsh word I could pick). These women have long lost their youth and wanted to be felt beautiful. The man managed to use his talent to immortalize them,and then someone just destroys the whole drawer collection... Nudity is art.

    • @victoriasmith490
      @victoriasmith490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think you should be shamed for commenting this.

    • @swiftfox3461
      @swiftfox3461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sometimes, nudity is just porn, plain and simple.

  • @anitahendricks
    @anitahendricks 3 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @ImaTroper
    @ImaTroper 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    18:00 the story has nothing to do with birth control. In fact, if she had decided to use birth control the poster would not be there to post this story. What kind brain damage is required to try to shoehorn a birth control PSA into a story of granny being a deadbeat mother?

    • @orpiss
      @orpiss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The point of it was saying that if she had birth control, she would have had a better chance at living the life she wanted with what is presumed to be the one who got away. When the person you love isn’t available anymore, that’s a type of pain that won’t ever go away. Just because she had kids I’m sure she loved doesn’t mean that it was the life she was hoping for.

    • @ImaTroper
      @ImaTroper 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@orpiss that is some Olympic tier mental gymnastics to twist "granny didnt raise us properly" into "if only we werent born..." Its like the ops brain only has enough mental power for one solution to life's problems, and they chose birth control.
      Imagine if it was a father. Imagine if a daughter, partway through talking about how terrible of a parent her dad was, just interrupted herself to talk about how if he had only used a condom he wouldnt have been so unhappy. Would you be saying "well, I'm sure he loved her, buuuuuut... " then?

  • @narutouzumaki-uv8zt
    @narutouzumaki-uv8zt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Well my brother passed away a month ago and i found out he had sex with my dead grandmothers body then everyone in our family
    lol i trolled you this story is cap just like everybody else

    • @rattatouilletherat
      @rattatouilletherat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That was one minute of my life wasted, you monster

    • @introverteddawg9805
      @introverteddawg9805 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You're no less than the devil himself.

    • @REDFRLegend
      @REDFRLegend 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Knew it was fake the second this giant empty space was visible

    • @itwontcomeout5678
      @itwontcomeout5678 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      God damn how do you make all the spaces work? Lmfaoo