This is so powerful JOYCE,I lost my great courtship by just few words,he had given me the phone to take photos and then a girl send a msg to Him then without his knowledge he continued talking to me and i responded shouting 'i dont want to talk now ' am telling u that was the last day i dated that man,crying up to now,i tried to convince him but ,,,,God help us.
Thank you for the wonderfull topic this was very serious cause my husband feel small we went for counselling, but it did not help and has lead to divorce I'm single now with my 4 children when counsellor ask him questions, he said nothing hes tired cse everything and the bills was paid by me I try my best 2 safe it bt he end up marry someone with a lower position bt nowadays women are CEOs and even Ministers in government African men must start to except us
Individual itemised response For you who is spoiled by a man with sweet words and sweet names but you feel you don't love him, please a stop to that relationship so that he doesn't invest so much money and emotions then later you dump him. Put yourself in his shoes! When you tell your partner something but he/she responds with open ended brief words harshly or with arrogance it means your relationship has much more issues to be addressed that you often ignore. The harsh response is to tell you, all is or well, don't sweet-nothing me. In some cases, men especially respond with repulsion words to connote nagging or avoiding fights. "I use harsh words to build a wall and shield myself " madam you need immediate counselling before things out of hand. When the wall has cracked, it should be repaired not postponed. You are inviting a catastrophic ending which is unwarranted. Invite a 3rd party and resolve underlying issues. Assault, death or incurable diseases are the result of your action. Kiama's story of marriage with exit strategy is regrettable and dangerous. Those are not words from serious married couple but individuals with ulterior motives beyond marriage-Exploitation The lady that is a group discussing her husband then coming home to tell her husband what they discussed needs serious counselling. She is 100% wrong. Things discussed in gossip groups never build any home but destroy. Secondly any woman that discusses her husband outside is cheap and planning for disaster. I disagree with my two colleagues there- the hubby is not guilty instead he is disappointed that the wife he loves is discussing family maters with outsiders. Home issues must remain home unless where a counsellor is called upon to intervene on a matter. About the man who is talking to the wife but she is harsh or impolite to him, the best thing to do is seek for a rapport to iron out issues or invite a 3rd party to resolve any issues therein. It is a sign that she is not happy over some matters. Women can keep grudges or anger for long but with deliberate effort, it can be resolved.
I agree ☝🏻 with Joyce think before you talk here goes my story,I’m married to someone who had married before but they are not together.when we were dating the guy was nice 👍🏻 but there’s a time I found a lady chat when I asked 👋 him instead of him being being polite he went to a friends house 🏡 and drink 🍹 after that he came with words like he can go back to his wife since she was better than me and she used to be understandable than me .Oh my God !i cried that day having a 5 month baby 👶 but later he apologized up to now but everyday I wake up I remember the trash he was telling me before his friends though he is pretending to be nice but I said I will ignore but never to give birth to another baby since I don’t know what’s ahead me
Marriage Corner CH yes let him give outside why should I sacrifice myself for someone who doesn’t know the pain we women go through before getting that baby
Tongue contributes almost 70% of relationship troubles and it always starts from one sided party. Tongue venom coupled with attitude and disrespect grounds a marriage in an instant. Often such individual does not calculate words before uttering them. A Tongue takes the affected partner to another bed in a silver platter. True but hard for the the partakers to agree as usual.
This is so powerful JOYCE,I lost my great courtship by just few words,he had given me the phone to take photos and then a girl send a msg to Him then without his knowledge he continued talking to me and i responded shouting 'i dont want to talk now ' am telling u that was the last day i dated that man,crying up to now,i tried to convince him but ,,,,God help us.
Darling God saved u from disaster. Not everything is from God.wipe ur tears .cheer up. U should giving a thanksgiving offering.
Thank you for the wonderfull topic this was very serious cause my husband feel small we went for counselling, but it did not help and has lead to divorce I'm single now with my 4 children when counsellor ask him questions, he said nothing hes tired cse everything and the bills was paid by me I try my best 2 safe it bt he end up marry someone with a lower position bt nowadays women are CEOs and even Ministers in government African men must start to except us
Communication is everything! Tame the tongue, Approach with compassion, Listen deeply and you can knock down any barriers! Great show 👌🏾
EXACTLY.
Individual itemised response
For you who is spoiled by a man with sweet words and sweet names but you feel you don't love him, please a stop to that relationship so that he doesn't invest so much money and emotions then later you dump him. Put yourself in his shoes!
When you tell your partner something but he/she responds with open ended brief words harshly or with arrogance it means your relationship has much more issues to be addressed that you often ignore. The harsh response is to tell you, all is or well, don't sweet-nothing me.
In some cases, men especially respond with repulsion words to connote nagging or avoiding fights.
"I use harsh words to build a wall and shield myself " madam you need immediate counselling before things out of hand. When the wall has cracked, it should be repaired not postponed. You are inviting a catastrophic ending which is unwarranted. Invite a 3rd party and resolve underlying issues. Assault, death or incurable diseases are the result of your action.
Kiama's story of marriage with exit strategy is regrettable and dangerous. Those are not words from serious married couple but individuals with ulterior motives beyond marriage-Exploitation
The lady that is a group discussing her husband then coming home to tell her husband what they discussed needs serious counselling. She is 100% wrong. Things discussed in gossip groups never build any home but destroy. Secondly any woman that discusses her husband outside is cheap and planning for disaster. I disagree with my two colleagues there- the hubby is not guilty instead he is disappointed that the wife he loves is discussing family maters with outsiders. Home issues must remain home unless where a counsellor is called upon to intervene on a matter.
About the man who is talking to the wife but she is harsh or impolite to him, the best thing to do is seek for a rapport to iron out issues or invite a 3rd party to resolve any issues therein. It is a sign that she is not happy over some matters. Women can keep grudges or anger for long but with deliberate effort, it can be resolved.
Joyce I like your language. I do not understand it. Can’t follow even when I sense it’s important. Please translate or explain what you said.
I love you my you my family and amen pray uuuuuuuuu
Speak life.
Can you translate what you said around 9-10min
Once i said:i dont know where i collected you in an argument. He regrets to date.
The tone, makes the musik.
I agree ☝🏻 with Joyce think before you talk here goes my story,I’m married to someone who had married before but they are not together.when we were dating the guy was nice 👍🏻 but there’s a time I found a lady chat when I asked 👋 him instead of him being being polite he went to a friends house 🏡 and drink 🍹 after that he came with words like he can go back to his wife since she was better than me and she used to be understandable than me .Oh my God !i cried that day having a 5 month baby 👶 but later he apologized up to now but everyday I wake up I remember the trash he was telling me before his friends though he is pretending to be nice but I said I will ignore but never to give birth to another baby since I don’t know what’s ahead me
Wow. I feel your pain. And i like the fact that u are smart. He sounds like a narcissist, they feel good when they hurt others feelings.
Empress Tee sure he is
Sorry for that pain. And good for you you decided no more babies...
Marriage Corner CH yes let him give outside why should I sacrifice myself for someone who doesn’t know the pain we women go through before getting that baby
Great conversations, although in heaven there are no misunderstandings, THE TRINITY WORKS IN ONE ACCORD...
FULL CIRCLE IS VERY RICH TEACHINGS .👏👏👏
interesting topic.
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Tongue contributes almost 70% of relationship troubles and it always starts from one sided party. Tongue venom coupled with attitude and disrespect grounds a marriage in an instant. Often such individual does not calculate words before uttering them.
A Tongue takes the affected partner to another bed in a silver platter. True but hard for the the partakers to agree as usual.
Maybe to add to the point. It is not always the words said but the tone that is used or the angle in which the speaker uses to communicate
Nice talk