More than 41k people need to see this, there’s so much pressure on “grand weddings” in India, I hope the bubble bursts after COVID19 and people wisely spend their live long savings
This dropping the trousseau thing is so true. I bought hell lot of sarees, salvaar kameez, bags, shoes etc and I haven’t used more than 10% of it. It’s been 2 years and everything seems outdated or too gaudy to be worn now. I wish I had saved all the money and invested in something better.
I have been planning for intimate wedding but dropping the trosseau didn't come to my mind but now it seems like a wise decision bcz now a days no one wears only traditional clothes after wedding so that will remain unused and become outdated
Most Indians take wedding as pride. They think that bigger the wedding bigger the fame in community. All those people need to watch this for sure. Love the content sherry❤️
Even before the pandemic, I and my bf have always wanted a small wedding (50 guests) that we ourselves would pay for and the wedding is our way. We would rather spend the money on our travels rather than wasting it all on just one day of partying where people would still find things to complain about. Also I don't even want to buy the dress if I can't even wear it on any other day. I would rather rent a designer dress for the day. But unfortunately my parents are not up for a small wedding, they are okay with us waiting it out to get married post vaccination but after our own small wedding, they want the "real wedding" on their own terms in their own way. (I am 24, he is 28 and we are in a relationship since 2 years.)
I never wanted a big wedding. Not even a social festival with 20 people. If I ever want a person who is ready to get married to me, I would prefer just signing a court paper. As for the honeymoon, a backpacking trip will be the best thing.
I wish weddings happen this way alwys ...where people dont have to invite neighbours and criticising relatives ...u save money also u have people that matter 👍
And you made me restore my love for you with this video Sherry! I love this is so practical and more people in India need to follow this!!!! Specially “ Pay for your own wedding “ it’s soo basic yet extremely important! Loved it.
I really thought that getting married now will be such intimate and real romantic wedding. I hope the vedio reaches out to people who are really planning the wedding soon or who had to postpone due to pandemic.. ❤️
I don't understand big weddings am a small wedding person and this video is a gem!!!! Am not gonna get married soon but when I do I'll come back to this video ❤️ loads of love ❤️
That's so true Sherry small wedding is always an advantage. The couple can plan their wedding and not the families and it's just a close affair without judgements being passed
Love the fact that she makes versatile content even though there are restrictions of lockdown. 😃😃 I got married in the lockdown and it was at my home with just the family members. I still feel that I want an actual wedding. But we don't know how that will ever work out now.
Hiiii Sherry, I have my wedding scheduled in first half of December. Me and my boyfriend are okay with a small guest list but his parents are very social people. They were really getting very emotional about not being able to invite a 1000 people to the wedding. This video of yours couldn't have come at a better time than this. I am definitely showing this to them this Sunday when I meet them. Thanx a lot. You are wonderful. Love.
Pandemic postponed my scheduled wedding...but don’t worry I will be having a minimalist wedding as soon as my groom comes to India...definitely will be keeping your tips in mind...
I also feel like getting married right away, the way you talk about romance and love in a small wedding. I'm all up for a small wedding. I just need a boyfriend for that :) Rest I'll arrange.
Love you for being so real and understanding the ground realities! very rare amongst other TH-camrs! Im about to get married and I cudnt agree more with you. My fiance wants that big fat wedding , so Im gonna send him this video to convince him!! :) :)
Absolutely loved the concept of this video. The best one and so meaningful from the quarantine series any blogger has done so far. I'm no where close to getting married but still watched it and loved it! You definitely changed my views about the small weddings. And yes, totally agree on how romantic the whole idea is rather than a curse as it is being made about. Way to go Sherry! Sending lots of love your way. xx
This video idea is so fresh and people should learn how to turn difficult situations into something positive from you. Lots of love from kolkata. And and and , after marriage people generally forget the idea of dating your partner , but what you mentioned about going for walks was super beautiful.
not just saving for wedding, financial independence will give you so much satisfaction at every stage, started my internship at age of 19 -20 yr and have been investing since then be it FD, Mutual fund, shares etc. Trust me guys the earlier you start investing the better.
Can you tell us how to get started with investing? People always seem to gloss over the terms without going into the details. Or would you know a credible source where we can learn about this? A fellow Indian here, thanks!
Aneeta Lalrinzuali Hi, I have an Instagram page called Money_mahila, to help people learn everything about personal finance and investing! I hope it helps.
in this day and age of fragile marriages people should only go on a honeymoon if they have survived a year without falling apart and going to the courts
My wedding is planned by the end of this year! This video definitely helps.. sending sweets, and card sayibg we got married is the idea i am definitely gonna do!!🤩❤
You gave me a sweet impulse to marry right now without absolutely any big plans, vivid arrangements, or even a guy! Just something pinteresty and beautiful! :")
Thanks Sherry for sharing this. I had a small wedding myself in my in-laws' living room. Literally! It was small yet beautiful. The good thing is you get to enjoy your special moment and can experience it all with only a handful of your loved ones as opposed to a crowd of 400 people who you hardly know. I remember every face and smile at my wedding. I don't understand the concept of big fat weddings anyway. I feel it's sch a waste of money (especially given today's economic situation) and puts so much burden on you and your family. Many do it to just show off their wealth or are under the pressure of friends/family would think. Your wedding should be 'your' day rather than it becoming about others. But I guess, each to their own. Lovely wedding clips btw!
Oh my god, personally, I absolutely hate the trend of "THE BIG FAT INDAN WEDDING" mainly because it has become so damn expensive. I wouldn't like to spend hard earned money/ take a loan for a day and then repay it my entire life. Whenever I get married, I want it to be the way you described it to be. Small yet personalized. I liked how you mentioned that it should be the couple who should pay for the wedding... I would be so proud if we're able to pay for our own wedding. ❤️ If all the above said things come true by god's grace, I'll invite you over a Zoom call for sure. 😘😜🙌🏼 P.S. Your hair is 🔥.
We need to and we should pay for our own wedding.. I dont know why sons and daughters in our country mostly let their parents pay for their wedding.. I mean, ur parents raised u up since you were born, got u in a good school, pay ur bills, and still on your wedding they pay lakhs and even upto crore.. Some parents even take loan or even spent all their savings for a so called wedding and some parents even pay for their kids honeymoon trips.. .. It is high time that we as youth of today should bring the change.. Kudos Sherry for bringing up this topic..
I guess in small weddings there is no need to stress ourselves to put more efforts to impress people rather than in small weddings special people of our life should enjoy and give blessings ...love from Kashmir ☺️
In an arrange marriage, in a joint family, it is really difficult to spend time together, because there is someone around every time. And honeymoon is the only way out🤣 secondly in an year, elders start demanding kids. So delaying it for 2 years is🤪😒 (just sharing what small town people still go through, it isn’t a suggestion for honeymoon during this pandemic anyway)😛
Not getting married anytime soon. But just loved this video 😂you look sooo cute sherry ❤️ hair and the butterfly thingy especially. I will definitely send an invite for my wedding 🙈after n years. And ya, small weddings are the best 😍Lots of love ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I remember watching your wedding video and tips I was 18 or 19 back then n I got inspired to have a small wedding I’m still not anywhere close to getting married but still I got inspired 😂
This was sooooo good. Thumbs up to you sherry. I had a small wedding and I was ok about it. But then , my friends , cousins got married a grand way and I was like did I miss out on something. And now I am not liking my trousseau, my shaadi videos , or even photos 😁😁😁 Or maybe it's just that my small wedding was not that beautiful. I could have made it much more beautiful.
PLUS spending half your earnings in one day doesn't sit right in my head. Pandemic can provide a very good excuse for those that genuinely don't care for the big far wedding but would have had a big wedding due to societal pressure and for not looking cheap.
Such an apt idea to show in this pandemic. Wow. Sherry bai I’m always amazed of your brains hehe. And also your dress from Gaurav will be my destination too whenever i plan to marrry lol. This hairstyle of urs since last video is catching our attention way too often❤️🙈
Sherry ....I am a big fan.you are really very real . and give practical advise and reviews.unlike many other vlogg ers who just flaunt expensive buys and pose around half naked
Believe it or not sherry, I wanted to dm you to do how to plan a small wedding video. Coz each time I thought of small wedding or thoughtful wedding, I again watch your video
I am just 21years old, no where near to getting married. 😂😂 Still watching the video because... Its sherry ..comeonn🤣🤣😍💕
Same 😂 even the age ❤ It's
Sherry after all. Also when she uploads I knw its what day 😂
Same😂😂!!!!
@Siya yeah they live in first for many years, only then get married
I'm 18... 👉👈
Same!! Turning 23 in a few days. I understand how important wedding is for us. 😅
More than 41k people need to see this, there’s so much pressure on “grand weddings” in India, I hope the bubble bursts after COVID19 and people wisely spend their live long savings
This dropping the trousseau thing is so true. I bought hell lot of sarees, salvaar kameez, bags, shoes etc and I haven’t used more than 10% of it. It’s been 2 years and everything seems outdated or too gaudy to be worn now. I wish I had saved all the money and invested in something better.
I have been planning for intimate wedding but dropping the trosseau didn't come to my mind but now it seems like a wise decision bcz now a days no one wears only traditional clothes after wedding so that will remain unused and become outdated
Ayushi Raj True! If you are into bags invest that money into some classic designer bag.
Most Indians take wedding as pride. They think that bigger the wedding bigger the fame in community. All those people need to watch this for sure. Love the content sherry❤️
Even before the pandemic, I and my bf have always wanted a small wedding (50 guests) that we ourselves would pay for and the wedding is our way. We would rather spend the money on our travels rather than wasting it all on just one day of partying where people would still find things to complain about. Also I don't even want to buy the dress if I can't even wear it on any other day. I would rather rent a designer dress for the day.
But unfortunately my parents are not up for a small wedding, they are okay with us waiting it out to get married post vaccination but after our own small wedding, they want the "real wedding" on their own terms in their own way. (I am 24, he is 28 and we are in a relationship since 2 years.)
I never wanted a big wedding. Not even a social festival with 20 people. If I ever want a person who is ready to get married to me, I would prefer just signing a court paper. As for the honeymoon, a backpacking trip will be the best thing.
Goals😍😍😍
You already look out of age aunty ji lol 😂
@মনে নেই Mane Neigh But girls can't reject me cause I'm already a girl 🤣🤣🤣🤣
PS : Jokes on you 😂😂😂
@মনে নেই Mane Neigh where are you my 101 internet troller / hater? 😂😂😂😂 Fire me with your hatred, that's not gonna bring me down 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Same thought. Hoping to find someone who agrees like this.
I wish weddings happen this way alwys ...where people dont have to invite neighbours and criticising relatives ...u save money also u have people that matter 👍
I was actually a fan of small wedding and this video is my dream wedding planning ♥️☀️
And you made me restore my love for you with this video Sherry! I love this is so practical and more people in India need to follow this!!!! Specially “ Pay for your own wedding “ it’s soo basic yet extremely important! Loved it.
*I think this is the best time for marriages.. Bcoz it will save lots of money*
I really thought that getting married now will be such intimate and real romantic wedding. I hope the vedio reaches out to people who are really planning the wedding soon or who had to postpone due to pandemic.. ❤️
I don't understand big weddings am a small wedding person and this video is a gem!!!! Am not gonna get married soon but when I do I'll come back to this video ❤️ loads of love ❤️
Informative video.
That's so true Sherry small wedding is always an advantage. The couple can plan their wedding and not the families and it's just a close affair without judgements being passed
Love the fact that she makes versatile content even though there are restrictions of lockdown. 😃😃
I got married in the lockdown and it was at my home with just the family members. I still feel that I want an actual wedding. But we don't know how that will ever work out now.
I legit wanted a big wedding... But now my choice has changed completely...
Thank you for the video💜
Loved your first suggestion of paying for the wedding yourself .
Hiiii Sherry, I have my wedding scheduled in first half of December. Me and my boyfriend are okay with a small guest list but his parents are very social people. They were really getting very emotional about not being able to invite a 1000 people to the wedding. This video of yours couldn't have come at a better time than this. I am definitely showing this to them this Sunday when I meet them. Thanx a lot. You are wonderful. Love.
Pandemic postponed my scheduled wedding...but don’t worry I will be having a minimalist wedding as soon as my groom comes to India...definitely will be keeping your tips in mind...
I also feel like getting married right away, the way you talk about romance and love in a small wedding. I'm all up for a small wedding. I just need a boyfriend for that :) Rest I'll arrange.
@humble Life No. Not yet ;_;
@humble Life Thankyou so much. Best wishes to you too! ❤️
Sherry is killing with relevant and interesting content!!
Love you for being so real and understanding the ground realities! very rare amongst other TH-camrs! Im about to get married and I cudnt agree more with you. My fiance wants that big fat wedding , so Im gonna send him this video to convince him!! :) :)
Whole video I was just looking at the butterfly clip. I had that when I was in school and loved it. I miss it and I need it 😭
🤣🤣🤣
So true , it was trendy then when we dint know what was trend !sherry , nice touch :)
Sherry you are so sweet. I'm sure whatever you shared will be a great help to someone.. such genuine & positive soul you are. Bless you😘
For a second i thought it is a coupling video😂😭 lovely video! But missing you too together❤️❤️
Absolutely loved the concept of this video. The best one and so meaningful from the quarantine series any blogger has done so far. I'm no where close to getting married but still watched it and loved it! You definitely changed my views about the small weddings. And yes, totally agree on how romantic the whole idea is rather than a curse as it is being made about. Way to go Sherry! Sending lots of love your way. xx
Guess this one is your best video during the whole pandemic period. So far. Love it♥️
This video idea is so fresh and people should learn how to turn difficult situations into something positive from you.
Lots of love from kolkata.
And and and , after marriage people generally forget the idea of dating your partner , but what you mentioned about going for walks was super beautiful.
This is one of the most beautiful video I have seen in recent time.
not just saving for wedding, financial independence will give you so much satisfaction at every stage, started my internship at age of 19 -20 yr and have been investing since then be it FD, Mutual fund, shares etc.
Trust me guys the earlier you start investing the better.
Can you tell us how to get started with investing? People always seem to gloss over the terms without going into the details. Or would you know a credible source where we can learn about this? A fellow Indian here, thanks!
Aneeta Lalrinzuali Hi, I have an Instagram page called Money_mahila, to help people learn everything about personal finance and investing! I hope it helps.
in this day and age of fragile marriages people should only go on a honeymoon if they have survived a year without falling apart and going to the courts
True...that also spending after their parents money for their wedding
My wedding is planned by the end of this year! This video definitely helps.. sending sweets, and card sayibg we got married is the idea i am definitely gonna do!!🤩❤
Hi Harshee! Congratulations ♥ if you need a candid wedding photographer do let me know, I'll capture those lovely moments for you ☺ ♥
Deeksha Rathore Thankyou so much❤️ sure I will let you know 🙂
Thank you so much for this. I always wanted a small wedding but not lacklustre wedding. Your ideas really helped to track how to do that
You gave me a sweet impulse to marry right now without absolutely any big plans, vivid arrangements, or even a guy! Just something pinteresty and beautiful! :")
I m a fan of small intimate wedding 😍
Thanks Sherry for sharing this. I had a small wedding myself in my in-laws' living room. Literally! It was small yet beautiful. The good thing is you get to enjoy your special moment and can experience it all with only a handful of your loved ones as opposed to a crowd of 400 people who you hardly know. I remember every face and smile at my wedding. I don't understand the concept of big fat weddings anyway. I feel it's sch a waste of money (especially given today's economic situation) and puts so much burden on you and your family. Many do it to just show off their wealth or are under the pressure of friends/family would think. Your wedding should be 'your' day rather than it becoming about others. But I guess, each to their own. Lovely wedding clips btw!
This needed to be said. #period we indians need to really watch this video. Mindset needs to change.
Oh my god, personally, I absolutely hate the trend of "THE BIG FAT INDAN WEDDING" mainly because it has become so damn expensive.
I wouldn't like to spend hard earned money/ take a loan for a day and then repay it my entire life.
Whenever I get married, I want it to be the way you described it to be. Small yet personalized. I liked how you mentioned that it should be the couple who should pay for the wedding... I would be so proud if we're able to pay for our own wedding. ❤️
If all the above said things come true by god's grace, I'll invite you over a Zoom call for sure. 😘😜🙌🏼
P.S. Your hair is 🔥.
You spoke my mind . Thank God you brought this up and normalising the thought form. Love you loads ❤️
And you can always do a huge party for your 2 year 5 year or 10 year anniversary 😀
You look amazing with this hair! ❤️
Sherry you have the beauty of uncomplicating things❤💕
With this video you have saved my life sherry... So much love to you ❤️
I also want a small wedding .Like max 5 ppl 😅😘😅😘😅
Nowhere near getting married but all your ideas are totally sensible.
Coz a pandemic wedding includes people who are really happy looking at you getting married
Sherry I love the way you are focusing on the positive side.❤️
Your hair looks amazing, Sherry!😍
We need to and we should pay for our own wedding.. I dont know why sons and daughters in our country mostly let their parents pay for their wedding.. I mean, ur parents raised u up since you were born, got u in a good school, pay ur bills, and still on your wedding they pay lakhs and even upto crore.. Some parents even take loan or even spent all their savings for a so called wedding and some parents even pay for their kids honeymoon trips.. .. It is high time that we as youth of today should bring the change.. Kudos Sherry for bringing up this topic..
For me, flowers are most important thing... flowers r class..
If I could like this video a hundred times, I would!!!!!
By listening to you I feel like getting married 👰🏻🌈🌈🌈
Loving your hair sherry, looking absolutely gorgeous
I guess in small weddings there is no need to stress ourselves to put more efforts to impress people rather than in small weddings special people of our life should enjoy and give blessings ...love from Kashmir ☺️
I have been married for more than 2 years and watched the video only to revisit Sherry-Vaibhab's wedding clips 😋😍🥰
*I want to have a simple marriage.. I don't want to spend lots of money on marriage by shopping and doing unwanted stuffs*
Amazing points!!! Sooo true ! Absolutely something people should think about! Instead of a lot of wastage of different things.
In an arrange marriage, in a joint family, it is really difficult to spend time together, because there is someone around every time. And honeymoon is the only way out🤣 secondly in an year, elders start demanding kids. So delaying it for 2 years is🤪😒 (just sharing what small town people still go through, it isn’t a suggestion for honeymoon during this pandemic anyway)😛
Not getting married anytime soon. But just loved this video 😂you look sooo cute sherry ❤️ hair and the butterfly thingy especially. I will definitely send an invite for my wedding 🙈after n years. And ya, small weddings are the best 😍Lots of love ❤️❤️❤️❤️
You are such an inspiration Sherry ❣️
Just fan of whatever you put! This video is amazing 🤩
I remember watching your wedding video and tips I was 18 or 19 back then n I got inspired to have a small wedding I’m still not anywhere close to getting married but still I got inspired 😂
This video is very helpful...thanks sherry😘😘
This was sooooo good. Thumbs up to you sherry. I had a small wedding and I was ok about it. But then , my friends , cousins got married a grand way and I was like did I miss out on something. And now I am not liking my trousseau, my shaadi videos , or even photos 😁😁😁 Or maybe it's just that my small wedding was not that beautiful. I could have made it much more beautiful.
Love the longer hair on youuu you look so pretty ❤️😍
I like ur wedding so much..especially ur wedding outfit ❤️❤️u look so gorgeous
Sherry has the most unique content on the planet!!!! Killin it Sherry mam
My wedding date is on 30 Nov and this video made me really happy 😍
Aww Congratulations to you 💐😊
Be happy & Best wishes
Really motivating and positive!! 💕
You're looking really pretty! ❤️
I was just going to comment about how good your hair looks and I hear you talk about. The bobby pin looks amazing!
You're one of the youtubers who actually address the real life topics...!! You're the best cherry🤗🤗🤗 and the cutest 🥰🥰🥰
PLUS spending half your earnings in one day doesn't sit right in my head. Pandemic can provide a very good excuse for those that genuinely don't care for the big far wedding but would have had a big wedding due to societal pressure and for not looking cheap.
Loved this one! ❤️
Such an apt idea to show in this pandemic. Wow. Sherry bai I’m always amazed of your brains hehe. And also your dress from Gaurav will be my destination too whenever i plan to marrry lol. This hairstyle of urs since last video is catching our attention way too often❤️🙈
Lovely video ♥️
@sherry you've an amazing energy, vibrant smiling face. Love your videos 😘😘😘
Sherry ....I am a big fan.you are really very real . and give practical advise and reviews.unlike many other vlogg ers who just flaunt expensive buys and pose around half naked
Thank you for the tips Sherry. Was looking for some ideas and inspiration for small wedding. ❤️
Hey sherry!! I love your videos ❤️❤️❤️
Heyy I was waiting for menu also..😅😅
Sherry, I love your cushion cover !! Can you please share from where did you get it ??
Believe it or not sherry, I wanted to dm you to do how to plan a small wedding video. Coz each time I thought of small wedding or thoughtful wedding, I again watch your video
Sherry Sherry such a sweetheart u r. God bless u 🙏🙏
I am already married still watching the video. Just love your videos Sherry
Makes so much sense, Sherry!!
Especially in marriages where we spend a lot and waste food alot so be simple and no shoo shaa
Feeling to get married now 😍😄
Great ideas as always xx
Matured content ❤😍
im 20,but imma note these points hehe
You're always on point..💯👌
This was much needed..thank you❤️
Best video ever sherry
Sherryyyyyy.....I love You and Vaibhav vry much...pleaseee make coupling videos😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩
Favourite Couple ❤️❤️
I am getting hitched this year ' the theme is Minimalist Wedding ;) .
Congratulations to you 💐😊
Best wishes
@@sangeetharao6468 Many thanks :)
Amazing tips!! ❤
you sooo inspire me dear Sherry❤😘
hopefully this will start a trend.
Now this is relatable & useful
I like to shop whenever i need stuff... seriously sherry...😂😂😂...i fell down from my couch laughing 😁😁...it just has to be orange for u😛