Thing that frustrates me the most is when well-meaning people who ive explained the term and my feelings several times seem to still be thinking that this is just a phase, fear of commitment etc.
I hear you. It can be so invalidating and make you not want to bring it up but thats why I talk about it as much as I do and encourage others to as well. We need to be more adamant about discussing it because so many have no idea what it Is so they have no frame of reference for it. The more they hear it the more they’ll remember and understand better (hopefully ) thanks for watching and sharing
I personally prefer to phrase it as not wanting to be in a relationship and not feeling those things for people. I think deep down my family know I’m aromantic without knowing the actual term for it. I think they sort of understood the seriousness of the whole thing when I told my mum I could be single my whole life and not care one bit. There have been occassional instances where I’ve told people I’m aromantic and they’ve mostly been very dismissive. I have a best friend who is a part of the lgbtq community and she’s very supportive at least unlike those people. Then again it depends on the situation. My family don’t pressure me to be in a relationship and they don’t try setting me up since I’m clearly very uncomfortable with the idea. Other people might not be as lucky as me.
Yea I mean the label can be helpful and I do encourage folks to use it so we can raise awareness but its certainly not a requirement especially if it your preference is to not use it. I’m glad you have a supportive friend and sounds like a supportive family! Keep living however makes sense to you! Sounds like you got a p good handle on things! Thanks for watching and sharing some of your story with us
I recently heard aromanticism and my mind is blown. Mentioned it to my grandmother and a very close auntie, guess what? They said they never had romantic feelings for their partners! I guess it runs in the family. Now I understand why there's always something slightly missing in relationships that suppose to be "romantic".
I’m curious to see if there’s a genetic component. I doubt it cuz being gay isn’t genetic but who knows. I was speaking to my dad and he thinks he may be aro as well and based on what I know of him I’d say he very well might be. Glad my video helped you reach some understanding! Thanks again fro watching!
@@nikhampshire At this point I guess I'm just trying to find answers! Hahaha. . But get this, my father is gay and I've dipped my toes in the bi- curious pool. . Slightly feel like there's some genetic connection with our sexuality approach.
I recently "came out" to my parents, but I figured it was so obvious that the only new information for them would be that it had a name. And yeah, as I got to the end of my little spiel, they were nodding as though they were still waiting for me to get to the big revelation. Honestly pretty hilarious. I love my parents. And that's a good point about just naming it aromantic, so that it actually becomes a solid concept in people's minds.
Yea I just think using the label is more of a definitive statement that sort of confronts people with new information that forces them to process the info differently than when you tell them something that they’ve already heard version of before ya know.
Thank you so much for making those videos... Whenever I come across aro people they're usually also Ace so for the longest time I was so confused and lost because I'm in no way asexual, but I'm sure I'm aromantic. It's so nice to hear I'm not alone :) Keep up the great work
Definitely not alone! Glad we are finally speaking up and connecting to help everyone Learn about themselves and learn to be comfortable and confident in who they are! Thanks so much for watching
That part about using the specific label and not talk around it is really good advice. I realize that I've avoided using the term with my parents and siblings. Luckily they aren't pressuring me about romantic relationships but I do feel like they don't fully know me since they still think I'm alloromantic. They probably think I'm just taking my time lol
I definitely find it to be very helpful if one is finding people aren’t acknowledging this aspect of who they are and want it to change. I know some are hesitant to use the label but in this instance I find it to be very helpful! Thanks for watching and sharing! 🙌🏽
Love your realistic approach! It's hard, but it's helpful to put ourselves in their shoes. Tbh I think what really hurts is that inner voice reinforcing those judgements we expect to hear
Your videos have been making me feel a lot better through figuring out how I identify! I've been questioning for months and you talking about your experiences has made me feel a little more valid and less alone, thank you!
Absolutely love to hear this! It’s why I make them! Thanks so much for watching and commenting! Definitely subscribe to see the new videos I have comin!
Middle aged and recently discovered the term aromantic. I've always be honest in my disinterest in relationships. Decades of giving my family and friends my definition made my "coming out" easier in some ways.
"Am I the only one?" - I really felt that. Previous to finding out about the aromantic community I really felt like an alien for not ever falling in love or having that romantic connection everyone else seemed to have so easily. After finding out that there's a word for it I was like "ooooooh, that's why I'm like this" xD lol
Cool explanation of why using the label is helpful! I often think it's easier to avoid a "strange" label and just explain around it, but this is a great reason why using the label is helpful - it helps them realize its real and forces them to file it under the new category.
Just found your channel today. Your content is so on point for me. Thanks so much. Please don’t sell yourself short. You said you’re not capable of love. Love comes in many flavors. For me, romantic love is not a component of my being. I’m glad for this. I’ve never understood how people can be in love with a romantic partner, then just as quickly fall out of love with them. I don’t think there actually was any real love there at all. For myself, love is a deep and intense emotion I have with people I’m very close with, like family and good friends. This love is more real and true than the ephemeral romantic love I observe in others. And it’s something I can’t just turn off. When people say sh*t like I just haven’t met the right person, or I’m afraid of commitment, that’s very selfish and judgmental of them. I’d prefer they ask why I identify as aromantic, and acknowledge that people have differences.
Thanks so much for watching! Ya I meant I can’t fall in love not that I don’t feel love at all. Sorry for the confusion. I appreciate you watching and kind words!
Something I've said when coming out to family members who don't understand is that I'm not opposed to the *idea* of it happening eventually (since I'm not romantically repulsed, as I know some are in this community) but that it describes my experience thus far; and I kindly ask that they respect my conclusion. If I happen to find romantic attraction one day (if I turn out to be grey or demi romantic), then great, good for me, but don't expect that to happen any time soon. Edit: I don't do that with potential partners, I find it unfair to tell someone who does feel romantic attraction that I might one day, this is exclusively for family and friends who are more worried about my future.
Lol the Dursleys popping up was a surprise but I’m here for it 😂 You’re lucky you had such a good coming out experience. I’m not Aromantic but I am Asexual and I can’t even begin to think about coming out about my parents. They’ll probably react better than I think they will but I just don’t know how to go about having that conversation.
the Dursley’s just came to mind first haha. But I totally think you should tell your fam. If yall connection is good I think they’d want to know especially if it’s a part of your identity. It can be a bit awkward but I’ve seen a lot of folks in my comments worried bout telling they’re fam and theyv’e come back to tell me it went better than they thought! No pressure of course tho, at your own speed of course! I just want everyone to be comfortable and confident in who they are! Thanks so much for watching
I've come out to my mom & she was accepting. She wasn't really surprised since i haven't dated a Woman since i was a Teen. I haven't come out to my BFF or the rest of my mom's side yet but they would mostly likely be accepting as well. I also feel for those who may get a Negative response from Friends & Fam.(35 yrold Aro/Ace by the way)
@@wallaceshawn-zk8iw happy to hear it went well! My experience was v similar with people just noting that I hadn’t dated anyone since I was a teen. Hope you’re able to come out to the rest and they all are as accepting! Thanks for sharing your story! ♥️
@@wallaceshawn-zk8iw we love to hear it! Thanks so much for the update! Glad to hear you’re living your truth more and more openly and it’s rewarding you! ❤️
I know this long, but someone please read this. Okay, I need some advice. I'm a sophomore Fn high school, and I always just thought I was a late bloomer, but I'm not sure that's the case anymore. In middle school, all my friend had crushes and relationships, and I always felt a little uncomfortable with that idea. When I thought I had a crush, the feeling was short-lived and felt kind of fake and bleak (like something was missing). My friends would ramble on about how much they were obsessed with their crushes, and I've never felt that. Also, when I had my first kiss, I felt nauseous and my mind was all foggy for the next twenty four hours. Later, when I told someone I liked them, I felt that exact same feeling at an even more escalated level for the same amount of time. Even when someone teases me about being in a relationship with someone, I feel slightly repulsed. Immediately after all of these events, I wanted to isolate myself and never talk to that person again for a long time. Not to mention, I think a lot of romance movies are overrated and annoying (basically all of Hallmark, After, The Kissing Booth). I always say that romance is better when it isn't the main part of the plot. My mom tells me it's anxiety, and I've searched for anyone feeling the same way as me, but I haven't found anyone with anything close to these kinds of feelings. I've seen some cases where someone's nauseous when they're with their date, but they seem more worried about explaining their loss of appetite rather than trying to distance themselves from that person as much as possible. Sooooooo....Aromantic orrrrrr? I mean, I'm pretty sure 😧 But if so, this sucks. I feel the most accepted through hugs and words of affirmation. They've always been on a platonic level of course, but you really acheive that kind of stuff in romantic relationships (well, not all, but you know what I mean). F.
Sounds pretty aro to me! I 100% feel like I need major space from anyone I feel is being romantic towards me. Even was I was in relationships once it got too “couply” I really couldn’t even stand to be around them anymore. So I’d say it seems likely but don’t worry about the title so much. Just pursue whatever feels right to you. Experiment with things that feel interesting or comfortable. Don’t do things you don’t want to do. The more you explore the more definitive you’re experience should be. Best of luck in your journey! Thanks so much for watching and sharing ❤️
Hey im so sorry to hear your having difficulty dealing with this possible realization. You should check out my video called acceptance if you havnt yet. I speak a little about the pros of being aro. I’m sorry if you feel like you’re emotionally dependent on your ex. I feel like that just takes time to get past. Just take some time to recalibrate and appreciate yourself! One great thing about being aro is once we come to terms with it we tend to be pretty great at appreciating our alone time! Lmk if you have any questions or anything! Hope you feel better. ❤️ thanks for watching and sharing!
I felt exactly the same about my ex and once we broke up I started finding my self and realized I was AroAllo. I'll be honest it was hard and hurt but felt so much better after
I think my parents already know that, but they definitely don't know the name. Maybe i will tell them in the future, but i confess i am kinda afraid of their reaction.
I can’t speak for everyone of course but I honestly feel we can’t judge how someone might react until we give them a chance to. I’ve had a few people on here scared to tell their parents only to report back their parents accepted them. Again, not saying its true for everyone but I think its worth giving them a chance. You may find they’re accepting and that it strengths y’all’s relationship
i figured it out when: my relatives kept commenting, sooo you got a boyfreind yet? or are there any cute boys you like the look of. And my reply would always be, I'm still too young to feel that way about anyone. And one of cousin questioning if I was a closeted lesbian cause I have never mention who I like to date. "mmm I don't really know" And even my friends thinking I was lying when I was saying that I have never romantically attracted to anyone. But I would totally smash a person. so I would just say the first boy I could think of. But also personally, I never had felt the need or derise to be in a romantic relationship. I wouldn't say I am replused, I just wanted the feeling of someone who appreciates me without any of the public touching and shit. And when friends would complain about they will never find "the one", I would literally say "you are doing good being single right now, why do you need to be in a relationship". I even started asking my friend who was in a relationship "what does it feel like to be in love with someone?". I basically google all of this and said "ur aro bitch" soo yeah. pretty content with life. can't wait to be sassy to nosey/invasive relatives.
I really appreciate this video, I came out as aro to my mom, my sister, and a couple friends. I still need to come out to the rest of my family, though. I never felt completely gay and I knew for a fact I wasn't straight, bi, pan. I feel a lot more comfy now I came out, i still need to work on my confidence, do you have any advice on that?
I have a question for any one who knows about this topic, I’m currently dating a someone who’s aromatic however I’m not sure how they may want to be together like I don’t think we can truly be how we want to be cause I’m very asexual in nature (well I think) and she’s not. I want to show her affection but don’t want to be rude. I truly care about her and could easily spend my life with her but don’t know if that an option. I’m confused about a long term realship and how I should act around her, pls help I’m worried.
I’m always a fan of direct communication. I’d let them know that you’re interested in a partnership with them and are wondering what they’re looking for in a relationship. I would be prepared to convey what you’re wants needs and limitations are and ask them to identify their own so y’all can compare and determine compatibility. Hope it goes well for ya! Keep me posted! ❤️
I really can’t fathom what that would be like so I can’t really know. But I imagine if I felt what everyone was always talking about I’d pursue it. 🤷🏽♂️
Thing that frustrates me the most is when well-meaning people who ive explained the term and my feelings several times seem to still be thinking that this is just a phase, fear of commitment etc.
I hear you. It can be so invalidating and make you not want to bring it up but thats why I talk about it as much as I do and encourage others to as well. We need to be more adamant about discussing it because so many have no idea what it Is so they have no frame of reference for it. The more they hear it the more they’ll remember and understand better (hopefully ) thanks for watching and sharing
I personally prefer to phrase it as not wanting to be in a relationship and not feeling those things for people. I think deep down my family know I’m aromantic without knowing the actual term for it. I think they sort of understood the seriousness of the whole thing when I told my mum I could be single my whole life and not care one bit. There have been occassional instances where I’ve told people I’m aromantic and they’ve mostly been very dismissive. I have a best friend who is a part of the lgbtq community and she’s very supportive at least unlike those people. Then again it depends on the situation. My family don’t pressure me to be in a relationship and they don’t try setting me up since I’m clearly very uncomfortable with the idea. Other people might not be as lucky as me.
Yea I mean the label can be helpful and I do encourage folks to use it so we can raise awareness but its certainly not a requirement especially if it your preference is to not use it. I’m glad you have a supportive friend and sounds like a supportive family! Keep living however makes sense to you! Sounds like you got a p good handle on things! Thanks for watching and sharing some of your story with us
I recently heard aromanticism and my mind is blown.
Mentioned it to my grandmother and a very close auntie, guess what?
They said they never had romantic feelings for their partners!
I guess it runs in the family. Now I understand why there's always something slightly missing in relationships that suppose to be "romantic".
I’m curious to see if there’s a genetic component. I doubt it cuz being gay isn’t genetic but who knows. I was speaking to my dad and he thinks he may be aro as well and based on what I know of him I’d say he very well might be. Glad my video helped you reach some understanding! Thanks again fro watching!
@@nikhampshire
At this point I guess I'm just trying to find answers! Hahaha. .
But get this, my father is gay and I've dipped my toes in the bi- curious
pool. .
Slightly feel like there's some genetic connection with our sexuality approach.
I recently "came out" to my parents, but I figured it was so obvious that the only new information for them would be that it had a name. And yeah, as I got to the end of my little spiel, they were nodding as though they were still waiting for me to get to the big revelation. Honestly pretty hilarious. I love my parents.
And that's a good point about just naming it aromantic, so that it actually becomes a solid concept in people's minds.
Yea I just think using the label is more of a definitive statement that sort of confronts people with new information that forces them to process the info differently than when you tell them something that they’ve already heard version of before ya know.
Thank you so much for making those videos... Whenever I come across aro people they're usually also Ace so for the longest time I was so confused and lost because I'm in no way asexual, but I'm sure I'm aromantic. It's so nice to hear I'm not alone :) Keep up the great work
Definitely not alone! Glad we are finally speaking up and connecting to help everyone Learn about themselves and learn to be comfortable and confident in who they are! Thanks so much for watching
That part about using the specific label and not talk around it is really good advice. I realize that I've avoided using the term with my parents and siblings. Luckily they aren't pressuring me about romantic relationships but I do feel like they don't fully know me since they still think I'm alloromantic. They probably think I'm just taking my time lol
I definitely find it to be very helpful if one is finding people aren’t acknowledging this aspect of who they are and want it to change. I know some are hesitant to use the label but in this instance I find it to be very helpful!
Thanks for watching and sharing! 🙌🏽
Love your realistic approach! It's hard, but it's helpful to put ourselves in their shoes. Tbh I think what really hurts is that inner voice reinforcing those judgements we expect to hear
Your videos have been making me feel a lot better through figuring out how I identify! I've been questioning for months and you talking about your experiences has made me feel a little more valid and less alone, thank you!
Absolutely love to hear this! It’s why I make them! Thanks so much for watching and commenting! Definitely subscribe to see the new videos I have comin!
Middle aged and recently discovered the term aromantic. I've always be honest in my disinterest in relationships. Decades of giving my family and friends my definition made my "coming out" easier in some ways.
"Am I the only one?" - I really felt that. Previous to finding out about the aromantic community I really felt like an alien for not ever falling in love or having that romantic connection everyone else seemed to have so easily. After finding out that there's a word for it I was like "ooooooh, that's why I'm like this" xD lol
Cool explanation of why using the label is helpful! I often think it's easier to avoid a "strange" label and just explain around it, but this is a great reason why using the label is helpful - it helps them realize its real and forces them to file it under the new category.
for The Dursley, "difficult" parents is an understatement lmao, loved the video bruv!
Haha drastic understatement 😹
Just found your channel today. Your content is so on point for me. Thanks so much.
Please don’t sell yourself short. You said you’re not capable of love. Love comes in many flavors. For me, romantic love is not a component of my being. I’m glad for this. I’ve never understood how people can be in love with a romantic partner, then just as quickly fall out of love with them. I don’t think there actually was any real love there at all.
For myself, love is a deep and intense emotion I have with people I’m very close with, like family and good friends. This love is more real and true than the ephemeral romantic love I observe in others. And it’s something I can’t just turn off.
When people say sh*t like I just haven’t met the right person, or I’m afraid of commitment, that’s very selfish and judgmental of them. I’d prefer they ask why I identify as aromantic, and acknowledge that people have differences.
Thanks so much for watching! Ya I meant I can’t fall in love not that I don’t feel love at all. Sorry for the confusion. I appreciate you watching and kind words!
Something I've said when coming out to family members who don't understand is that I'm not opposed to the *idea* of it happening eventually (since I'm not romantically repulsed, as I know some are in this community) but that it describes my experience thus far; and I kindly ask that they respect my conclusion. If I happen to find romantic attraction one day (if I turn out to be grey or demi romantic), then great, good for me, but don't expect that to happen any time soon.
Edit: I don't do that with potential partners, I find it unfair to tell someone who does feel romantic attraction that I might one day, this is exclusively for family and friends who are more worried about my future.
Lol the Dursleys popping up was a surprise but I’m here for it 😂 You’re lucky you had such a good coming out experience. I’m not Aromantic but I am Asexual and I can’t even begin to think about coming out about my parents. They’ll probably react better than I think they will but I just don’t know how to go about having that conversation.
Maybe tell them about your aro "friend" so they know what it is
Ace friend
the Dursley’s just came to mind first haha. But I totally think you should tell your fam. If yall connection is good I think they’d want to know especially if it’s a part of your identity. It can be a bit awkward but I’ve seen a lot of folks in my comments worried bout telling they’re fam and theyv’e come back to tell me it went better than they thought! No pressure of course tho, at your own speed of course! I just want everyone to be comfortable and confident in who they are! Thanks so much for watching
I've come out to my mom & she was accepting. She wasn't really surprised since i haven't dated a Woman since i was a Teen. I haven't come out to my BFF or the rest of my mom's side yet but they would mostly likely be accepting as well. I also feel for those who may get a Negative response from Friends & Fam.(35 yrold Aro/Ace by the way)
@@wallaceshawn-zk8iw happy to hear it went well! My experience was v similar with people just noting that I hadn’t dated anyone since I was a teen. Hope you’re able to come out to the rest and they all are as accepting! Thanks for sharing your story! ♥️
@@nikhampshire Thank You! You got yourself a new Sub! ❤️
@@nikhampshireUpdate: I told my BFF & he was Cool with it 🙂
@@wallaceshawn-zk8iw we love to hear it! Thanks so much for the update! Glad to hear you’re living your truth more and more openly and it’s rewarding you! ❤️
@@nikhampshire ❤️
Asked and answered!!! Thanks so much! I really appreciate your perspective on this.
Heck ya! I aim to please
Thanks for the videos Nik! I always look forward to more.
Thanks so much for watching! I’m so stoked they’ve been so well received
I know this long, but someone please read this.
Okay, I need some advice. I'm a sophomore Fn high school, and I always just thought I was a late bloomer, but I'm not sure that's the case anymore. In middle school, all my friend had crushes and relationships, and I always felt a little uncomfortable with that idea. When I thought I had a crush, the feeling was short-lived and felt kind of fake and bleak (like something was missing). My friends would ramble on about how much they were obsessed with their crushes, and I've never felt that. Also, when I had my first kiss, I felt nauseous and my mind was all foggy for the next twenty four hours. Later, when I told someone I liked them, I felt that exact same feeling at an even more escalated level for the same amount of time. Even when someone teases me about being in a relationship with someone, I feel slightly repulsed. Immediately after all of these events, I wanted to isolate myself and never talk to that person again for a long time. Not to mention, I think a lot of romance movies are overrated and annoying (basically all of Hallmark, After, The Kissing Booth). I always say that romance is better when it isn't the main part of the plot. My mom tells me it's anxiety, and I've searched for anyone feeling the same way as me, but I haven't found anyone with anything close to these kinds of feelings. I've seen some cases where someone's nauseous when they're with their date, but they seem more worried about explaining their loss of appetite rather than trying to distance themselves from that person as much as possible. Sooooooo....Aromantic orrrrrr?
I mean, I'm pretty sure 😧
But if so, this sucks. I feel the most accepted through hugs and words of affirmation. They've always been on a platonic level of course, but you really acheive that kind of stuff in romantic relationships (well, not all, but you know what I mean).
F.
Sounds pretty aro to me! I 100% feel like I need major space from anyone I feel is being romantic towards me. Even was I was in relationships once it got too “couply” I really couldn’t even stand to be around them anymore.
So I’d say it seems likely but don’t worry about the title so much. Just pursue whatever feels right to you. Experiment with things that feel interesting or comfortable. Don’t do things you don’t want to do. The more you explore the more definitive you’re experience should be. Best of luck in your journey! Thanks so much for watching and sharing ❤️
I feel so depressed, because I think I'm aromantic but at the same time I feel so emotionally dependent from my ex.
Hey im so sorry to hear your having difficulty dealing with this possible realization. You should check out my video called acceptance if you havnt yet. I speak a little about the pros of being aro. I’m sorry if you feel like you’re emotionally dependent on your ex. I feel like that just takes time to get past. Just take some time to recalibrate and appreciate yourself! One great thing about being aro is once we come to terms with it we tend to be pretty great at appreciating our alone time! Lmk if you have any questions or anything! Hope you feel better. ❤️ thanks for watching and sharing!
I felt exactly the same about my ex and once we broke up I started finding my self and realized I was AroAllo. I'll be honest it was hard and hurt but felt so much better after
My safety place ❤
#we're not broken
I think my parents already know that, but they definitely don't know the name. Maybe i will tell them in the future, but i confess i am kinda afraid of their reaction.
I can’t speak for everyone of course but I honestly feel we can’t judge how someone might react until we give them a chance to. I’ve had a few people on here scared to tell their parents only to report back their parents accepted them. Again, not saying its true for everyone but I think its worth giving them a chance. You may find they’re accepting and that it strengths y’all’s relationship
People don't believe me they say just get a girlfriend and you will be different i don't really care what their opinion is
i figured it out when:
my relatives kept commenting, sooo you got a boyfreind yet? or are there any cute boys you like the look of. And my reply would always be, I'm still too young to feel that way about anyone.
And one of cousin questioning if I was a closeted lesbian cause I have never mention who I like to date. "mmm I don't really know"
And even my friends thinking I was lying when I was saying that I have never romantically attracted to anyone. But I would totally smash a person. so I would just say the first boy I could think of.
But also personally, I never had felt the need or derise to be in a romantic relationship. I wouldn't say I am replused, I just wanted the feeling of someone who appreciates me without any of the public touching and shit. And when friends would complain about they will never find "the one", I would literally say "you are doing good being single right now, why do you need to be in a relationship". I even started asking my friend who was in a relationship "what does it feel like to be in love with someone?".
I basically google all of this and said "ur aro bitch" soo yeah. pretty content with life. can't wait to be sassy to nosey/invasive relatives.
Hell ya! It feels so good to figure it all out! Glad you found your way! Thanks for watching and sharing! ❤️
I really appreciate this video, I came out as aro to my mom, my sister, and a couple friends. I still need to come out to the rest of my family, though. I never felt completely gay and I knew for a fact I wasn't straight, bi, pan. I feel a lot more comfy now I came out, i still need to work on my confidence, do you have any advice on that?
The image of the Dursley I kinda die a little (of happiness)
I have a question for any one who knows about this topic, I’m currently dating a someone who’s aromatic however I’m not sure how they may want to be together like I don’t think we can truly be how we want to be cause I’m very asexual in nature (well I think) and she’s not. I want to show her affection but don’t want to be rude. I truly care about her and could easily spend my life with her but don’t know if that an option. I’m confused about a long term realship and how I should act around her, pls help I’m worried.
I’m always a fan of direct communication. I’d let them know that you’re interested in a partnership with them and are wondering what they’re looking for in a relationship. I would be prepared to convey what you’re wants needs and limitations are and ask them to identify their own so y’all can compare and determine compatibility. Hope it goes well for ya! Keep me posted! ❤️
@@nikhampshire okay thankyou for advise, will do. 👍thankyou
Yes, new folder!
This was a good video! - Jess
Weird question. What would be your reaction if you discover that suddenly you’ve fallen in love with a girl
I really can’t fathom what that would be like so I can’t really know. But I imagine if I felt what everyone was always talking about I’d pursue it. 🤷🏽♂️