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- #MariahCarey has had plenty of issues with her family. From her sister #AlisonCarey to her brother #MorganCarey ... she's even had issues with her mother. So, let's get into it.
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Her family are leaches 😕😕... Mariah tried to help her sister when she became famous, by paying for her sister's rehab, putting her nephew through law school, etc, but Allison can't stay clean and she continues to drag her down.
💯‼️ She didn't have to do all that but it shows Mariah's kindness. If they don't have a job, they're a leach. Mariah is not your caretaker.
Right! Even with all of the unforgivable stuff that Alison has done to Mariah in the past, Mariah looked out for Alison and her kids, but it’s clear that Alison is just jealous of Mariah’s success
I always used to adore Pat. To an extent, I still might, but even Pat mistreated Mariah. I think the wedge between the siblings could've been mended if Pat and Alfred would've worked together more, especially Pat.
I love lots of Mariah’s music but this right here has given me a tremendous level of respect for Mariah. Just because someone is financially well off does not mean she needs to bend over backward to help family that have mistreated her like hers has done her. I don’t blame her at all, I wouldn’t deal with them either.
@@niabelizaire3596 and according to Mariah, Allison was jealous even before Mariah's fame cuz she came out a little lighter than her with blond hair and stuff
As someone who's bipolar, it's actually disgusting seeing Mariah's brother blatantly talking about her mental health like this. It's gross
I’m bipolar & nobody in my family talks about it with anyone which makes me love them to death
@@melbelle555 Exactly. Someone's mental health is for them to share with people they want to, not for someone else to share. Her brother is incredibly disrespectful and vile for doing this
My Mother is bipolar and has had it used against her by our Family, Im the only one on her side Im super sensitive about people using mental health as a weapon.
I wish I could take my Mums highs and lows away its the most devastating thing to watch.
@@dejalations I understand being upset about people weaponizing mental health. I had a former roommate use my mental health issues as a way to make himself look better. He was an absolutely terrible person and he went to our mutual friends and just started calling me a "crazy bitch". I have my moments where I'm a bit manic, but I never lose myself. The worst thing I've ever done while manic is buy things. But I wouldn't label myself as crazy. He was just so instant that he felt threatened and scared for his safety when around me even though I never once threatened him. What makes it all worse is that people believed him. They heard I was bipolar and just assumed that my ex-roommate was right. The whole thing was horrendous.
100%, and both of them begging for “forgiveness “ etc, like really, gross
Gotta say, I have a whole new level of respect for Mariah. I had no idea all that she has gone through. I feel terrible for these talented hard working and very skilled artists who have come from some hugely toxic tragic lives. To have endured all and continue to live her best life - shows a lot of strength.
Same! ❤
You should read her memoir! It's an excellent read, and I think if people read it they would be ALOT less judgemental.
Same
They are just like "the average person", most have had tragic childhoods or tragic lives.
The Star energy!
This actually makes Tommy Mottola look even more predatory than just the age gap alone. Mariah was from a dysfunctional family, had no idea what a healthy, loving relationship looked like, was an outcast all her life prior and then comes this powerful man to abuse the shit out of her, locking her up, follow strict rules of how she's dressing etc. I feel so bad for her for going through this much trauma and hopefully she's healing.
Bingo. He knew exactly what he was doing. He groomed her.
Yes watch her memoir. He was evil.
Just because she HAS money doesn’t mean she by default OWES it to anyone, even family, her family dynamic is the epitome of extenuating circumstances in this regard and it’s not anyone else’s place to tell her she *should* be giving them (more) financial aid.
In my opinion she’s been nothing but gracious and empathetic in how she’s talked about them, the same cannot be said for how they have talked about her
Exactly! I recently reunited withy father and that was the thing he asked me for $$$ I'm the child?! I should be asking my father u can't stand that
Jealousy is real. She owes them nothing
Right!!!! This is disgusting they went to the news telling the public they need help?!?! Oh well kick rocks is all they deserve
Doesn’t it sound objectifying and sociopathic almost psycho pathic to drug your own 12-year-old sister for your boyfriend. It’s dark
EXACTLY SHE DONT OWE SH!T
Sometimes family will take advantage of you worse than a stranger will
Yes because family knows how to push your buttons and know where to hurt you the most.
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Facts
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Yup. Then wonder why you stop talking to them 🙄😂
Family is suppose to be a safe haven. Very often it’s where we find the deepest heartache, poor Mariah 😔
Agreed
@chloe This!!!!!!!
Could you imagine coming from an abusive and toxic family/ household and then once you get out and make it they all come running back to cash in??? People are so gross
Disgusting
@@ajae... Um.... Mariah did just that. She gave Alison money for rehab and other expenses. She supported Alison's kids financially when Alison couldn't. Maybe Mariah is tired of her sister's ungratefulness and draining her bank account. I mean look what happened to Whitney Houston who took care of her entire family only for them to suck her dry. Mariah has her own family now to worry about.
@@ajae... If you know all this then what are you talking about writing a check is easy? Mariah has written plenty of checks to both her siblings. They don't appreciate it so why should she continue giving money to people who will turn around and sell her out to tabloids. That doesn't make a bit of sense. Mariah would be literally throwing away money. Because they clearly have animosity towards her success:, A Jae.
@@ajae... Wow you're blaming the family even when they gave money. I mean making the comment "Maybe Mariah and her family gave money irresponsible "? What? Alison's son is wealthy too. He doesn't give her money either. Morgan can help her too but he doesn't either. My question is why won't no one in Alison's family help her? What kind of bridges did she burn to end up in this dire situation?
I grew up listening to Mariah Carey. She’s my favorite artist of all time, so I’ve read her autobiography. She has been through so much. For those who judge her, they should try to walk a mile in her heels. Things haven’t always been easy. She earned her riches. Not knocking her siblings, but don’t bite the hand that fed you. Some things are unforgivable
Me too. I'm a lamb. I wish she would have included more about her mental health in the book because I think it would help a lot of people and it is a big part of a person's makeup.
"For those who judge her, they should try to walk a mile in her heels"🤣🤣🤣🤣
L4L 🦋✨
@@musicworldnow365 my favorite line 😂
@@musicworldnow365 🤣😅🤣😅🤣
I listened to her audiobook during the time I was studying for the bar exam and it was so inspirational. People always laugh when I say Mariah Carey is one of the reasons I passed the bar and became an attorney but its true. Its a story of perseverance and survivorship.
She’s extremely motivating to me her strength is amazing
Soooooooo motivating. She had to endure so much.
That’s so beautiful what you got outta her audiobook “The Meaning of Mariah Carey” how cool her story can help people in virtually any walk of life, & any career path, not just singers/songwriters/actors etc. I always though it was cool she got her hours in beauty school when she was a young lady, & then all the sudden is a mega-famous superstar who is loved & adored all around the world. Mariah Carey definitely does have Meaning! (No pun intended)😘
You should tweet her that, that’s flawless.
Congratulations on passing the bar!!
I will never understand why older sibling hold a grudge to their younger siblings because of their parents mistake. I am an older sister and my teenage years were a bit difficult because at the time my parents were divorcing and I was the one taking care of my younger sister (we are 9 years apart) at the time my mom had a breakdown and then she started to go out with friends like she was the teenager and not me. And who was taking care of my sister? Me! I couldn’t go out with my friends or do normal teenage stuff and I feel like I missed some experience bcs of this and 10 years later still hurts. But I will never be mad at my sister for this. She was just a little girl and she shouldn’t be paying for my parents mistakes. We have a lovely relationship and I see her as my sister / daughter.
I’m so glad you know where to place your pain instead of just bleeding any and everywhere. I also don’t understand how parents become jealous of their children because they had a better life than they did. Like isn’t that your goal as a parent? I’m sure you wish you would’ve had that but aren’t you proud that you were able to give them a better life and push your bloodline on the right direction?
Thats so nice u see her as ur kid as well💗
You are such an amazing person, your sister is very blessed to have you in her life.
What a blessing to have you as an older sister. Mine has never been there for me and has caused me an immense amount of abandonment, betrayal and pain.. we're also 9 years apart and she justifies absolutely everything including that we're 9 years apart as if that's an enough reason not to love me..
I had a very similar situation. My little brother and sister are MY LIFE, i would never blame them for what our parents put me through. I worked hard to support them as a teenager to ensure they were safe and taken care of. Its sad that Mariah has to deal with this publically
"Ex-brother" and "ex-sister" are such Mariah things to call her siblings! I'm dying and got resurrected!!
I'm going use that too
She actually mentioned in that Oprah interview that her therapist recommended calling them that, considering all that they did to her.
@@ashm7922 Well, I have some siblings I don't really have the best relationship with but I don't clal them "ex-sibling" because it's just petty and a bit immature. I'd rather not talk about her at all but if I have to, I don't have issues with acknowledging us being related. Now, I don't want to command anyone to do as I say and do.
@@D0llbabyAngel Of course, in 2022, you're narcissist for calling out someone's petty actions just because they need to heal. Of course, call me narcissistic flying twerking monkey howsoever you like, I really don't give a damn about that.
@@BroJo676 To be honest, you can never erase the intrinsic blood-related relationship with your siblings, so yeah, a sibling can never become an "ex" something. You can decide to never be on speaking terms with them but they will always be your siblings. Like, let's look at Mariah's sister, for example. She resembles Mariah so eerily and even their vocal tone is very, very similar. That's just something nothing can ever erase.
I'm a firm believer of expelling toxic people from your life, even if it's family. She doesn't owe them anything. So sad & pathetic.
I believe Mariah sister there is a reason why Mariah is super famous gotta step on a lot of people
This comment 💯
@@erikaaguilar2050 , Mariah's sister doesn't know anything about her as an adult who turned to drugs and sex work living with the other parent. That's a whole lotta separation. So which one is it? We're they close or not? You can easily see NOT and she's lucky she got the help she did from Mariah... Yet she took and took and took and never did better for herself. Just scammed and scammed. I wouldn't want to be dealing with that mess after a certain point either, especially if I'm working my but off performing for millions and trying to raise my own family. You gotta help yourself at some point, and Mariah's sister clearly doesn't want to or she wouldn't be selling lies to scuzzy news outlets.
@@janai5074 oddly similar to Meghan Markle and her siblings. I can't imagine Mariah marrying into the royal family with these people as family. Anyway this isn't about Meghan and kudos to Mariah. No matter how you try to shake these people off, they just won't let you.
@@olamideajayi6462, I don't know much about Meghan but I did hear about how her family works and read the court doc from her much older sibling suing her for defamation, or whatever that nonsense lawsuit was, and I really felt for Meghan Markle. I understand exactly why she's made the choices she had. I do think that's why so many make the judgments they do of her. It's wrong, and just because one decides to protect themselves from toxic relatives doesn't make them narcissistic. Not everyone is willing to get hurt over and over again...
Jesus. So much of Mariah's personality and behavior makes so much sense now holy smokes. She owes them NOTHING. Just... wow. Once again, thank you Sloan for all your hard work bringing things like this to light.
Huh? Being overprotective of herself?
Her experiences with her ex-husband and family...and society has made her very protective of herself now (as she should be).
Any "shade" you're thinking about, scrap it. She only shades people (in a very classy/witty way) who shade or come for her first...unprovoked.
Fans, collaborators, workers, peers etc always speak on how funny, sweet, generous, thoughtful, professional and respectful she is.
She is undoubtedly one of the most misunderstood celebrities. You all see a "glamorous image" and assume the worst.
I know right! I love her music but never knew about her past.
Exactly!! I always questioned some of her behavior but yes… it makes so much more sense now right??
@Alexander Baker I think so to. It’s nice to see people stick up for her🥰
@@Cewdipie I definitely have a whole new respect for her … I had no idea she experienced so much abuse … also makes her choice of nick cannon make more sense
just another example of how family can be toxic. i don't talk to my mom, dad and siblings for the same reasons and it bothers me when people tell me to rekindle when they just dont understand.
Glad mariah is living her best life. she put in the work, she deserves it all ❤
Right? Just because someone is blood doesn’t mean you should dismiss toxic and abusive behavior. The whole “but it’s your sister, mom, dad, brother” doesn’t work.
Thank you ! I gave my mother a hundred more chances than I ever should’ve because my father kept telling me “ she’s still your mother apologize even if you’re not at fault.” Almost 10 yrs later all of my siblings no longer speak to her 🤷🏻♀️. Guess it wasn’t just me 😂
Same . Mine are so toxic n I’m Jamaican households we were taught to suppress whatever emotions we feel and all our pain. Distancing myself from family has brought me peace .though I feel terrible n guilty it’s for my own good
A lot of people can relate to your situation. I hope you are surrounded by kind souls.
I totally understand. My mother was sooo toxic and sick from addiction, but we were both so codependent and close that I couldn't see it. It literally took her dying of an OD and years of healing for me to see just how bad it was.
I understand why Mariah Carey is estranged from her family. I was also abused by my mother, my younger brother used me for money, he used me for a place to stay when he was trying to get his own place, and he continued to disrespect me even when he was staying with me and tried to manipulate me. My family expected me to take care of him even though he is a grown adult as well. When I started saying NO and tried to set boundaries, they treated me like I’m the bad guy. My mom even cursed me out because I no longer wanted to be used by my brother who was disrespectful to me so I cut my family off. Also my own mother admitted to being jealous of my grandma “ spoiling me “ and she acted like I deserved to be abused and “ humbled “. Sometimes family can be worst than strangers .
I understand. The problem is the parents never took care of the child that they expect their siblings to take care of. My mother told me to be good to my older sister... 10 years older because she looks up to me. Is that not disgusting?
Sorry I had to deal with toxic family members and the abuse you definitely did not deserve that 💖
Fart 💨
It’s sad what your own family are capable of
I relate to you.
A few things:
1) I find her family fascinating. All the siblings have this unique, ethnically ambiguous beauty. Each of them is eloquent, possesses this poise & charisma when they speak, just like their mother. It's a shame how drugs can stifle the human spirit and deteriorate someone's health & beauty...
2) Having read the book, Mariah Carey's story is so incredible. As Oprah pointed out in that sit-down interview, Mariah is someone who could've easily been "invisible" in life and never become famous, let alone successful. She broke the odds and statistics not only by making it out of a very broken home, but also experiencing a meteoric, unprecedented rise in the music industry as an incredible vocalist & pop songwriter, breaking records left and right. What an inspiring story!
And that’s all that matters 🤍✨
Can you point me to what the name of the book is? Thanks!
The Meaning of Mariah Carey@@loretta.o1806
@@loretta.o1806 The Meaning of Mariah Carey
Petals is one of the most relatable songs I have ever heard. She wrote it about her mom and sister as well as tommy and his kids. It’s hard coming from a dysfunctional family, sometimes you have to love from a distance. Petals makes me cry like a baby
Absolutely love that song. It always brings me to tears.
She’s lucky her sister is Mariah Carey or the media wouldn’t even be concerned about her rough life. Very sad story but also sucks to put all of the blame on Mariah because the family is jealous of her success. Everyone makes their own choices in life. Mariah is one of the best singers in history, she deserves her commercial success.
Literal definition of clout chaser.
This could be said about kris jenner and her unstable sister too.
Agree, and I also feel for Alison. Where were her parents when she became a mother at the age of only 15, still a child herself? Where was the support for her to finish school? Alfred was an Engineer. Pat was a Julliard graduate. They were capable of supporting their daughter, at least emotionally. They were intelligent people. Why was Alison emotionally abandoned as a child?
And Mariah was the baby in the family. All of the adults failed her
Not only commercial success, Mariah deserves peace and happiness.
I must say somehow I feel relief that there are people out there like me whose family is so toxic that they have to cut ties with everybody. Mariah...Britney...I do not feel so alone...
yep, we out here trying to live our best life. Much love to you!
Same my sister has already for a few years, I’m up😊
This is the Britney Spears situation all over again. Why do family feel entitled to other members money? The real irony here is that Alison did NOT grow up with Mariah. Mariah is the only one who grew up poor, Alison was always taken care of financially by their dad, only Morgan went from riches to poverty as a teen living with their mom. Mariah had to come up on her own.
Just because they’re related to her doesn’t mean she owes them anything! Some people are just so entitled. Nobody owes you anything in this world. I think that’s the real takeaway here.
Reminds me of my older brother. He tries to make me feel bad for his bad life (that he created btw) so I will always refuse to give him money. I can’t enable that kind of behavior.
sorry you have to go through that ❤️ sometimes family ain’t shit
Yeah i got cousins like that. They blame their terrible lives on their mother but they are all a mess. All alcoholics and drug addicts and dont have custody of their children. Now their kids are following their path and one of my cousins begs my sister for money. Its hard but we dont ask for nothing from noone, we all live within our means. All have custody of our kids. All live normal lives. We wont fund that life even if we could afford it.
Sorry
it's always so much more complicated when it involves family 😣
Im glad in 2022 we’re finally speaking about laying down personal👏🏽boundaries👏🏽with👏🏽family👏🏽. Personal boundaries should not be crossed, ESPECIALLY by family 😔
Family are the main ones though that think they can cross those boundaries or act like there are no boundaries in the first place.
Toxic family who can relate 🙋🏽♀️😔
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Mariah Carey has a good relationship with Allison’s kid. He went to Harvard and is a lawyer so the fact that he doesn’t help her either tells you how far removed she pulled her self away from everyone.
Oh wow Allison's kid went to Harvard?
@@wahyudeni8461 Yes, he is an attorney.
Mariah took care of him. Sent him to harvard
My ex's mother used to always ask me 21 questions about how my own mother was doing. I would explain to her that we just weren't close and her response was always "but she's your only mother, don't talk about her that way." What I should have told her was to mind her fucking business! Once you reach adulthood you need to be able to take care of yourself. Family can be toxic and not all families are the same. I feel for Mariah. Her family is exploiting her in every single way and after you've tried everything you can you have to protect your peace. Stay strong girl!
Family can be more toxic to some people than others will EVER realize.
Sloan, thank you for being the TH-cam channel who I can rely on to always speak the facts and take stress from my reality away
So much so that if you never experienced it yourself you would struggle to believe the evil people are capable of
Family will do you wayyy worse than any stranger could ever do.. I learned that the hard way
My sister did the same thing to me, she drugged me and sold me for most of my childhood. People are fcking sick. My sister was 13 years older and she thought I was spoiled and jealous of me and wanted to mess me up.
I am so sorry you experience that! I wish you love and intelligence to never let someone like that hurt you gain
😢😢😢Sorry
Oml! Just makes me feel closer to Mariah. Thank you for this video!
My mom passed away from COVID last year, she was my best friend, single mom, mom and dad. I’m the youngest of 4, only one that graduated college, come from not the best area of Sacramento and still did everything I have done for my mom. I moved away from my drug addicted siblings when my mom passed away and was granted guardianship of my brothers three kids after my mom. They now feel that I have to take care of them and that they are entitled to having their bills paid for. I have helped my siblings out financially and mentally for years, yet they still think that I’m responsible for paying the bills. Smh.
Thank you. Makes me feel like I’m not crazy for not wanting a relationship with my siblings either. It’s not always about family or blood or the history you have. As grown adults we make our choices and if they choose wrong- sorry, not my problem. I’ve tried. No one listens. I’m tired. Mariah is tired too. I do not blame her at all!
They literally made fun of her break down in 2001- Also mariah mentioned how her family almost put her in a conservatorship before Britney in 2001
Mariah Carey is truly a gift to humanity. What a genuine beautiful soul and supremely gifted woman. Her songbook is literally the story of my life…and so many others. Will love her forever. 🦋👑
Thank you for covering this. I used to be obsessed with her movie Glitter, there were so many unknowns about her. I also had no idea she had a book
Get the audio book trust me you will love it
@@dogydog247 Yes the audiobook! Get a free trial of Audible and get it. Save money!
I love Glitter. Idk why so many hate it. 🙃
Soundtrack still slaps
@@nsoromma9505 LNADJSML still bangin’
I never knew about all this. Mariah is a gift to this planet. Thank you for reporting.
Also in her book she told a story how her brother tried to put her in a conservatorship.
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You could truly never put out too much content and there’s nothing I wouldn’t watch you talk about. You’re amazing! Love from South Dakota.
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as a mixed race person (african and white) it really sucked not knowing where you belong. being ethnically ambiguous has lead to so many racial micro aggressions and bullying. when people find out my dad is african they question my blackness all the time. they touch my hair, tell me i'm not black enough, tell me im too white. it really fucking sucks. too white to be accepted as black, but too brown to be accepted as white. the whole colourism thing really blows. i had no idea mariah carey was even mixed growing up. i had no idea that anyone was mixed.
I bet my dear! I’m sorry people made you feel that way 😢
So sorry you had to / have to deal with being not accepted
How fitting for Sloan to make a video about Mariah. I’ve been binging her music for the last few days
I listened to her book! From what I remember, her father was not particularly violent, it was just the relationship he had with Morgan who was in fact really violent. Mariah did talk a lot about her relationship with her mother, the good and the bad.
My family dynamic is eerily similar to Mariah's and I'm not even a celeb. When you choose a better path and/or life is somewhat kinder to you everyone in your family believes you owe them and because you feel survivor's guilt you give in. I ,too, had to estrange myself from my mom, brother and sister. I miss the sweet, funny, loving side of my mother and want to reconcile so much but the toxic, manipulative, abusive sides of her keep me away.
If Alison really wanted a relationship with Mariah she would apologize and reach out. Exploiting a family relationship for own gain is obvious. I have a terrible older sister who was abusive and I don’t see her changing. She’s a narcissist and loves to see me down
litteraly you said it all, you call your sister not tmz
Her sister looked so much like her
And her speaking voice kinda sounds like MC too.
Right and she was so pretty too.
I always found the cadence of Mariah's voice to be fascinating and now I know it's because of her trauma. Holy shit I am in awe of this woman and how composed she can remain and CAREFUl of her words but sad that she has to be bc of what happened to her.
Watching this reaffirms that hurt people hurt people. I wouldn’t be shocked to find out that either one or both of Mariah’s parents have NPD. It’s extremely difficult growing up with insecure parents who don’t know how to manage their emotions. Mariah’s talents probably saved her from becoming just like them. I’m not surprised that her siblings are they way they are either.
I heard their father left Mariah and Alison his inheritance but Alison spent it on drugs
I know what it’s like to live in fear, and walk on eggshells. Punch holes…to cut out family due to so much toxicity. Left with anxiety/panic disorder lol…but I feel for Mariah. I stand with her…just because they’re family doesn’t mean anything at this point. It’s too toxic, and she’s obviously been doing so much better away from it all.
Situations with toxic family members are not fun! I hope she’s okay ❤
Mariah is gonna hit them with “I don’t know her” 😂
As she should since they're vile mofos💯%!
I love Mariah so much. She was and still is my all time favorite musical artist. What her sister did to her is really messed up. I wish nothing but the best for Mariah and her children. 💜🤝
I stay away from toxic family members and my mother tells me their family but I tell her I don’t need their crap and etc I’m doing this for me not them,I kept that promise ever since.
It's really crap of her siblings to guilt-trip her through the press. Most famous/financially successful people don't just cut off their family without a good reason. Whether she's making $20 an hour or $20 million a year, she's not responsible for their poor life choices.
Them badmouthing her to the press is nothing short of extortion.
She deserved for her story to be told. Great work SLOAN as always!
Mimi must be protected! 🙏💕🙏 She is a Queen and living legend.
I'm literally just breaking free from my extremely toxic family.. Literally uprooting my WHOLE LIFE for mine and my daughters mental health.. I am extremely loyal and it took things getting EXTREMELY out of hand for me to take this step. My point being, I totally understand Mariah not wanting to hold a grudge, however, not wanting her toxic family members around her either.
That's one of the sweetest gifts you've gotten! The boombox is such a throwback, I love it ♥️
it's pretty sad how her parents didn't even tell her older brother and sister to not be jealous of her. it sad that the role the parents played on her. growing up my parents have told me (and my mom told this to my brother my older brother and sister) that if my brother and sister are successful with whatever they want to do with lives I should be happy for them. and they should be happy for me. and I think that should be for every parent though don't just favor one kid over the other one because that's where the jealousy will begin. a jealousy that could be so strong that it could lead to them killing each other. I think every parent should love their children the same way. I was lucky enough that my parents pretty much have taught me and my siblings to love one another and not be jealous of one another's success. my mom even did say that if my sister was the first one to become successful I shouldn't be jealous of that because my success will come one day too and she was right because my success came .too.
mariah's family isn't "normal". i also come from a "not normal" family and things aren't done rationally. there's narcissism, neglect and abuse involved, and the parent's traits are often passed on to the children. some children are able to recognize this and put an end to the chain, and it's usually the younger children, such as mariah. it's not plain jealousy the siblings feel but a pattern of conduct they absorbed from their parents; basically, destroying the person you're supposed to love and care for. the parents were destructive, it's not natural for them to protect their children or to care for the relationship between them, and the only way of living they know is chaos. it's way too convoluted.
Right! Like they just let it be that way, they are not even bothered that their children aren't in good terms with each other.
Their father tried to bring Alison and Mariah close on his death bed but it was too late
It's a miracle that Mariah didn't end up like her siblings. Especially with the trauma they put on her. So manipulative!
I hate when people judge and always assume you have to pay for your family members mistake. I’ve done all I could, yet they constantly destroyed me again and again and again. I’ll always love them and feel guilty to even feel that. But I won’t let them abuse me and from a stranger POV, I’m the the ungrateful one.. and I m working on freeing myself from the pain and sadness that these assumptions make me feel.
❤ for Mariah
Family or not, Toxic is Toxic! ✂️
The artist I respect and love the most ♥️ she's gone through SO much!!! Sadly her family did her so wrong!!
@Mimi Ben her Autobiography has been out for 2 years at this point and is being made into a series for either Netflix or Apple TV plus also Mariah and Patricia were basically surrogate parents to Alison's two older sons Michael & Shawn. Morgan is 9 years 8 months 21 days older than Mariah while Alison is 7 years 8 months 20 days older than Mariah they were born August 6th 1960 and August 7th 1962 respectively
Mariah has gone throgh a lot, her music truly was her saving grace, and her lyrics certainly have help me heal. Thank you for this video
At some point her siblings have to take responsibility for themselves. I don’t blame Mariah for cutting them out of her life. I am one of five girls and only have contact with one sister. I’ve learned that people who play “victim” are often the master manipulator and deceivers; who are often abusers themselves and constantly evade accountability.
thank you so much for making this video, i hate how people judge this amazing woman while knowing nothing ab her at all💕 i would love for u to make a video about her first marriage and how that affected her life and career
Thank you for covering this 🙏
love you so much Sloan!! 💕
I would work on forgiveness but I would never mess with them again
this was a good one sloan, nice work!! thank you for educating us on these topics
I read Mariah’s memoir and it horrific what they did to her
How dare anyone speak of their sibling's medical diagnosis & medications. Even if MC admitted later it's not their place to say anything. It's wrong to put anyone in a position to be forced to talk about a medical diagnosis or any personal issues for that matter. Why can't people just tell everyone to go ask that person themselves & if they don't want to talk about it leave them tf alone. I'd like to ask her siblings how their strategy in laying out dirty laundry worked out for them....MC didn't bite & her siblings are still in the same position they were. So, Morgan & Alison, how'd it work out for you?🙄
Sometimes cutting ties is the only way to heal and move on with your life. You also can’t help people who can’t even acknowledge they want real help,not just an endless stream of money.
I hope that every year around holidays Alison and Morgan feel really sh'tty because of how they treated their baby sister and that „all i want for Christmas” taunts then worse than retail employees
I've been a fan since her debut came out when I was 8. I'm 40. I have every album in multiple formats, read her book, etc. I think something truly went on with the way Pat Carey raised her children. Pat comes across as extremely intelligent; she's well educated, and I feel was more than capable of guiding her biracial children. I'm not saying it was an easy task; it was the 60's-70's. But why didn't Pat involve Alfred, a NASA Engineer, more? Why didn't they ever have Christmas gifts? It doesn't seem that there were conversations about this. In Mariah's memoir, she mentions how Pat dropped off Mariah and a white friend at Alfred's house. The white friend was scared of Alfred, who was a tall, black man. Pat almost seemed to ANTICIPATE this, as she waited in her car, saw the little girl panic upon seeing Alfred, and immediately went to comfort the young girl and take her home. She never discussed with Mariah WHY the girl may be scared or attempt to smooth anything over. Why didn't Pat discuss beforehand that Mariah's father was black and attempt to prepare the young girl? Pat also made a comment in front of Mariah and Mariah's nephew while they were out to eat to the server that she wanted her coffee "Black, like my men." I think the relationship between Pat and Alfred was so highly dysfunctional that it added a layer of trauma to their kids BEYOND the racism they had to endure. It didn't have to be that way.
I agree. Mariah used to say how her dad would just say "the album" all the time as if she only had one album, but when he was dying she found out he knew a lot more. It seemed he thought she would get egotistical. When Mariah was younger, it sounds like Pat might be a narcissist who wanted the kids and others to make her look like the savior and good guy. I've been a lamb since the start, but I can admit that Mariah definitely has strong narcissistic traits that she probably learned from her mom and dad, but I don't think she's a mid level or ultra level narcissist because she has emotional empathy. Low-range like a lot of people who still are empathetic. Pat is probably a mid-range narc like a lot of entertainers. She even said she named Mariah with a stage name - it's pretty narc behavior - the children are extensions of their narc minds like accessories.
Being well educated doesn't stop you from being a jerk 🤷♀️
"while they were out to eat to the server that she wanted her coffee "Black, like my men.""
That's so weird and unnecessary, these type of people love to make their strange fetish everyone's business
I’ve never been a huge fan of Mariah … however, I had no idea about her childhood and even tho I knew she was mixed, I never realized we share very similar struggles being biracial … thank you for this 💜
Why wouldn't you be a huge fan, she's awesome
Mariah and Britney need to form their own family, they have so much in common!!!!
That’s why Mariah showed Britney a lot of support
As a 1st Gen mixed Polynesian, Asian, European, Latina, who’s the only one in the family who actually looks it, i totally understand the hatred from family for being born different. I was the only one who was born with green asian eyes and red hair and olive skin. Whereas my family all have naturally dark skin and black hair (which imo they all look gorgeous) but I don’t know if that’s the reason they started a collective hatred towards me since i was 3yrs old but it’s just gotten worse and worse as time goes by. So i definitely understand Mariah’s experience. I’ve experienced absolute physical, mental and emotional abuse from my entire family of 7 except for my little sister. My older brother has literally murdered my dog, he’s consistently an offending pedophile, he’s been in gang stabbings, he used to torture me as a toddler using sharp objects to rip out my flesh. My mothers tried to poison me many times, she’s sabotaged me, abused me my whole life, is besties with my molester. It’s crazy that this family genuinely believe I’m this terrible person and I’m psychotically ill for standing up for myself by going no contact. While they genuinely believe they’re all perfect Christians and that I’m demonically possessed for being upset with their abuse😐. Mariah Carey has been one of my biggest inspirations solely for her perseverance through this similar issue and I’m so proud of her for her strength to create her own discovery of what feeling worthy to exist is for her.
please tell me youre going to therapy regularly. remember you're a survivor and im sending you so much love
Thanks so much for covering this!! ❤ wow her and Mariah looked so much alike when they were around the same ages and even sounded alike, just goes to shows your choices really define you, and sometimes just pure luck and circumstance, but that’s NO reason not to love your sibling. I never knew much about this feud, but now I know so much more thank you Sloan, so crazy.
Ps. All of the begging by thr brother and sister is over the TOP!!!!
I’m one of your new biggest fans! Thanks for the content. Love it
It be your own, smh. Mariah isn't wrong for not being in their lives. Family isn't always everything, not sorry. Brit is a perfect example.
Hey Sloan! Im riding out hurricane Ian in Naples FL (SW Florida to be exact) as we speak and learning about Mariahs fam!! I always did wonder about them!! Thanks for the video and distraction to my current natural disaster!! What a paradox right now!! 😂
Be safe 🙏🙏🙏🙏
I hope you are high up..they spoke about flooding that can be two stories high
@@suzannemaria5594 Thank u! And were on the 1st floor but have access to the 2nd floor thankfully!! Just praying and hoping the surge doesnt get this far inland!! The news is saying the storm eye has passed us so just praying it starts to get better!! Still have cell service so thats good!! Trying to think as positive as possible!!
@@Corinacc825 Thank u!!
Hope your safe and will be fine!
When you are a family member who escapes a dysfuntional family you dont want back in..
Thinking of you Sloan!!! I hope your friends and family are all safe in FL. Sending you so much love
FINALLY!!!! Thankyou so much for doing this mariah video!!!!
I have never been this early to a SLOAN video lol
It seems like Mariahs siblings are both jealous and entitled. Sounds like she's tried to help them, and they've been terrible to her. How sad!!
Oh man, I always loved Mariah Carey, but never knew about her personal life. Thanks for sharing! ❤
I love Mariah her voice is so special. Some of her gift had to come from the pain she endured. ❤️
What’s sad is they’re her older siblings, they’re the ones that are supposed to be taking care of her 🥺 not the other way around.
They’re trying to guilt trip Mariah, when they don’t deserve her.
Amazing research SLOAN !! Great vid! Sending lots of luv n support from the UK! 💜💜💖💖🌸🌸
You look great!!! Thank you for the long video!!!!
Sloan once again another amazing informative video, love your work ❤
👉🏼One of Mariah’s biggest fans here👈🏼
Loved the way you were able to put all of the craziness in a short video.
Great job!!!
Super cute. (The gift from Melissa) Love the boom box.
Your hair looks
AMAZING!
It is totally on point 👉!!
Mariah didn't break them, it's not her job to fix them.... especially when she has already tried and it's not enough.
Thank you for your videos. Plz also make sure you're not overworking yourself, make sure to take time out for you!!
I love the way yr face lights up when you read letters from yr fans!!! Yr a good man Sloan!
I wouldn’t know half of these stories if it wasn’t for Sloan ❤ Love from the UK x
I had to cut my mother and grandmother because the relationship was toxic. She had been abusing me my entire life and finally I had to pull the plug and do it. My life is much less stressful now that I’m not on that emotional roller coaster any more. I just couldn’t take it any more. So I can completely understand where Mariah is coming from. She doesn’t owe them anything
Allison used to look just like her! Sounds like her too.
"Let's Get Into it" this is gold, I love the way and every time you say it!
Great video! This was all new information and I liked your point of view 💜