Dating in the Philippines (Filipinas talk about dating a foreign man)

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  • @Livingabroadalex
    @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Did any of the answers surprise you?

    • @BigMatt08
      @BigMatt08 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow, can you find one beautiful filipina for me? Just kidding

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sure why not. Come on down

    • @Conspiracy1977
      @Conspiracy1977 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Switzerland ... especially that woman that wants to visit the mountain on the Toblerone chocolate bar, the Matterhorn. I have been to Zurich Switzerland with my wife and it was sooo expensive but worth it.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Conspiracy1977 thanks for sharing your thoughts and experience 😊

    • @juanporontong9461
      @juanporontong9461 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m not surprized with the girls answers. Most girl at those ages like to flirt. The girls at these ages like to go dancing, drinking, going outing. If you can do all that every night, then you can find a young girl friend. You also have to be generous ang don’t be stingy in spending money on them. Don’t be arrogant. Show them that they are special. I’ve been doing the dating game for over 20yrs so, i know what i am talking about. BTW, i’ve been divorced for over 20 yrs.

  • @jugsgalore843
    @jugsgalore843 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I just wonna show love to my Filipino guys. All my brothers in law are amazing, caring and considerate to their partners and children. Not only to their children but to thier nieces and nephews, cousins ECT. ♥️ Salamat kaayo gwapos 🙏

  • @roygoad2870
    @roygoad2870 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Many Filipinas have a love for Switzerland, I know a Filipina who has been living and is now married to a Swiss man, she has encountered a lot of discrimination from Swiss people during the few years of living there. She’s working at a McDonalds in Switzerland so has managed to fit in to the society, but it hasn’t been easy for her.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wow so sad to hear. 😔

    • @doneown503
      @doneown503 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      it's tough for the Swiss , but at least they were neutral during most wars. AND have to thank them for their contributions to cheeze, aka: Swiss cheese .

    • @alaskan6384
      @alaskan6384 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So you're saying the Swiss people are racists?

    • @roygoad2870
      @roygoad2870 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@alaskan6384 No this is one Filipinas personal experience that’s all!

    • @alaskan6384
      @alaskan6384 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@roygoad2870 So some of the people are racist. Which is probably the case wherever you go in the world.

  • @rgtunderworldrgt7773
    @rgtunderworldrgt7773 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great format , idea
    No wonder you are blowing up.
    Awesome awesome job

  • @meditationheathandwellness781
    @meditationheathandwellness781 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yo. You're killing it. Great job

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you thank you!! Love the support!

  • @conquer228
    @conquer228 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    will be in Cebu in Oct, can't wait

  • @tomjones1786
    @tomjones1786 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Awesome video!!! Kudos!! 👏 👏 👏

  • @Aj-qb3pr
    @Aj-qb3pr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think that girl with the mask in front of Robinsons mall is named Irish who worked at Ninoys Payag before.

  • @larryjones4760
    @larryjones4760 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    For you guys who we're wondering this is cebu and cebuanos are more tolerable and has high chances to marry foreigners, unlike in Luzon who have few only people who have interest on marrying or dating foreigners.

  • @nishamirza35
    @nishamirza35 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Superb Alex 👍👍👍👍

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hank you Nisha! Nice to see your comment 😁

  • @charlesbennett7688
    @charlesbennett7688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Very nice people and places I think your in Cebu at I t park very nice there

  • @charlesbennett7688
    @charlesbennett7688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good video keep up good work

  • @wenaaaahh
    @wenaaaahh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i love jade's character hahaha she is so cute..congratss nice ring!!

  • @MichaelJohnson-eg4bj
    @MichaelJohnson-eg4bj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Awesome video gladcto here Canadian men got a mention

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hehe thank you!! I was excited too 😁

  • @jon6309
    @jon6309 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for covering this topic. I think it’s more common for women in emerging countries to be open to dating foreigners. I did watch a documentary on this where women from developed countries are more accustomed to either being independent or dating within their own society as they experience a more egalitarian environment. Wow I didn’t know you were a Scorpio ♏️ a lot of youtubers I am subscribed to and engage with are actually Scorpios.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Jon. Glad you enjoyed it. Very interesting to hear about the documentary. And yes I'm a scorpio 🤭

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sad but true. Nothing wrong with wanting a better life.

    • @jon6309
      @jon6309 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good point but I also think there is pressure from family members too! I know in a lot of these developing countries having a boy was more favorable because traditionally they would get the jobs while the women stayed at home and did the household chores. Because opportunities are very limited in these countries some parents are thinking outside the box and are raising their daughters to find a foreign husband with the idea that their daughters would have better financial opportunities moving to a more egalitarian and developed country. This actually happened to my older aunty. She was already married and her husband was doing alright by owning a shop but it was still in a developing country, my aunty didn’t have to work but my grandmother was not satisfied and felt she could do more better! She convinced my aunty to divorce her husband to marry an old German man just to get citizenship so that my aunty could get a better life in Germany. Although economically my aunty is better off now, she still had to work for it and is now suffering physical health issues due to strenuous labor working at a BMW factory for many years. Maybe the lesson for her in life was that she was probably better off with her first husband who was able to provide enough where she didn’t have to work and would probably not experience these health issues as a result!

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What a shame and a dad story. It's something people don't often consider. Sure you're living in a first world country but you have to work for it since the cost of living is high. Essentially you have the ease lifestyle there but work much harder.

    • @alice_agogo
      @alice_agogo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Livingabroadalex in the case of PH this actually dates back to Spanish times. There were women who purposely got themselves knocked up by Spanish priests because having a light skinned child was seen as a status symbol

  • @jamesrimes2870
    @jamesrimes2870 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Feels like there are almost no single girls in their mid to late 20th without kids, and there are quite a lot of them in China and Thailand
    ( I haven't been to the PL, but is it really the case there? )

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Absolute not. The opposite actually. Although there are many single mothers, there are definitely more single women in their 20s without kids, than there are with kids.

    • @alice_agogo
      @alice_agogo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Livingabroadalex most of the girls you interviewed were middle class. May not be the case in poorer areas or the provinces

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How do you think it would differ?

  • @melm4499
    @melm4499 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are great with the way you interact with the locals and most of the women you interviewed were engaging and sport about it. I'm just curious about the women that have foreign boyfriends... I hope their foreign boyfriends aren't too old to be their fathers.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank tou😊 I didn't ask about their ages. I guess as long as these women are happy 🤷‍♂️

  • @D.VA_00
    @D.VA_00 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Not all Filipina women are sweet I have sister-in-laws and yeah well not as sweet as I would except. Very stubborn, a lot of pride and 2faced

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😬 she must be one of a handful of exceptions

    • @semi5alpha
      @semi5alpha 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is your gf not 30 yrs younger? Are you not playing her?

  • @truthseeker8139
    @truthseeker8139 ปีที่แล้ว

    Props to all the Filipino men, black men who might have felt down hearing this. Future is bright. Keeping hustling. Hopefully your masculinity will be appreciated one day.

  • @sikhtraveller8860
    @sikhtraveller8860 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Croatia Malta Portugal Mexico Bulgaria Columbia chille Poland Vietnam great option like Philippines

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Been to a couple. Will check out the rest 😊

  • @小笼包-m3o
    @小笼包-m3o 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey man, nice video
    If a person doesn't go out on dates, doesn't smoke or drink, eats veggies beans and rice most of the time.
    How much would you say that person could spend a month, ( while renting a place not in the city center, a small 24m clean condo ) ?

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you, easily doable for $600-800 USD or less even less if you're an introvert.

    • @bman931931
      @bman931931 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your going to need $360 usd a year for visas, so add $30 a month. Staying outside the city center you might find places in the $100 to $150 range. facebook marketplace is the place to search

  • @NewMinority
    @NewMinority ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Western women have become undatable. It’s refreshing to see such lovely girls wanting to date western guys

  • @Coffewithsteve
    @Coffewithsteve 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is that Ayla mall in cebu

  • @danielbartlett1710
    @danielbartlett1710 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What city & mall in the Philippines is this video filmed ?

  • @thenewyorker7624
    @thenewyorker7624 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Is this in Cebu?
    How about if you will ask for a date and really go for a date. Maybe a lunch date or a coffee date.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes it is!! Great idea. I will make a video like that 😎

    • @Tential1
      @Tential1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Livingabroadalex I really had no idea it was like this. Wow. It's very nice there. I really need to travel these countries. A high rise apartment in cebu is a little more money than I'd like to spend buying a place but wow, looks amazing there.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I highly recommend traveling to southeast Asia

  • @wowbenito
    @wowbenito ปีที่แล้ว +1

    there is a large Filipino population in Winnipeg Canada. they will have different answers

  • @taterrhead
    @taterrhead 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why they no choose African countries for their desired place to travel/work?

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤷‍♂️

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yah I've noticed. The irony is western people wanna be tanned and of course as we all know white doesn't always mean rich

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you joking.

  • @antonioespanol2123
    @antonioespanol2123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Maybe Jade start learning the local language considering she has the Filipino accent.

  • @toddinkansas7145
    @toddinkansas7145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Is this video in Cebu?

    • @toddinkansas7145
      @toddinkansas7145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Forgot to mention that I love the interviews and I subscribed right away!

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes. 😊

  • @SwisstedChef2018
    @SwisstedChef2018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She wants to go Mont Blanc , Zermatt, Sahara in Zermatt, he he

  • @djc6436-e4h
    @djc6436-e4h 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Way too much fun! lol Wishing I was 30 years younger :-)

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi Dan. Glad you liked it. You are younger than you think in the Philippines!!! 😁

    • @itsok4324
      @itsok4324 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Dan. Can you consider me? I am 50 looking for partner. Still healthy and sexy ☺️. I can be a good caregiver also lol

  • @allanhowe6569
    @allanhowe6569 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good original video . Filipinos very approachable .. not sure would have been so easy in Thailand.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! I think mainly the language barrier would be the main reason why it would be more difficult in Thailand

    • @PerfectSense77
      @PerfectSense77 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      There is a channel where an older guy does this in Thailand. The results are pretty similar.

  • @juanporontong9461
    @juanporontong9461 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The girls you’ve interviewed were flirting

    • @Andrewjc222
      @Andrewjc222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m fearful no woman would like me

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You'll be fine!

    • @Andrewjc222
      @Andrewjc222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Livingabroadalex I wish but I fear I won’t be liked

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Filipinas are are as judgemental as western women. There are many kind and caring ladies in the Philippines

    • @Andrewjc222
      @Andrewjc222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Livingabroadalex im just nervous no woman would like me for who I am even though they are kind and caring. It hurts me being single

  • @dannygrissom1
    @dannygrissom1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good one

  • @GK-wx6xo
    @GK-wx6xo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    She prefers foreigners because she f LDR? Lol that’s because she can get paid without having to actually be with the guy 😂

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The guy lives in the Philippines. He was behind me 😅

    • @GK-wx6xo
      @GK-wx6xo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Livingabroadalex So she’s not in an LDR…..

    • @marielbarrientos5712
      @marielbarrientos5712 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You sound so bitter. Yo better move on dude.

    • @GK-wx6xo
      @GK-wx6xo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@marielbarrientos5712 you sound like a douche

  • @robertwhitelegge6000
    @robertwhitelegge6000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Why did you not ask the guy, would he like to date a foreigner?

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's just a female video. Guys is coming up next.

  • @GK-wx6xo
    @GK-wx6xo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Funny how they say that filipinas are loving and caring ….my Filipina ex gf’s are all psychos …..

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hahaha you must have had bad luck 😅

    • @GK-wx6xo
      @GK-wx6xo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Livingabroadalex maybe but tampo is a well known trait of filipinas

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yah I think of heard of that. I personally won't be putting up with any of that nonsense

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      But hey that's a great video idea 😍

    • @semi5alpha
      @semi5alpha 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are your gfs not 30 yrs younger? Or are you serious with them?

  • @carlcutts8535
    @carlcutts8535 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why

  • @sta5011
    @sta5011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is sad since the local men can turn asexual and tired of this anytime

    • @Nimbereth
      @Nimbereth 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      They just need to be stronger.

    • @sta5011
      @sta5011 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Nimbereth Stronger?Tf Filipino men are already masculine tf are you talking about?

  • @bryanlonger8646
    @bryanlonger8646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    More good work

  • @myamazingthailand9742
    @myamazingthailand9742 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Are you taking an interview regarding dating or you’re searching a date through your blogging? 😂

  • @D.VA_00
    @D.VA_00 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    We all know the benefits of Filipina women dating foreigners…green cards and definitely prefer white men. That girl with experience must get benefits…

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And what of the benefits of the foreigners?

    • @semi5alpha
      @semi5alpha 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Could be but they crave light skin tall nose.. Fyi

    • @geraldineheimy7748
      @geraldineheimy7748 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Seems like you hate Filipina women, jealous? but you’re wrong we don’t care about green cards.

    • @mariaaaaa4341
      @mariaaaaa4341 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hello. I know that these things are happening in my country but it's unfair to tag FILIPINO WOMEN on this thought. You haven't met all of the girls in Philippines yet, so don't generalize and don't use the word Filipino WOMEN because that would mean all without considering the others. Don't let your perspective be blinded by those kind of girls you've met in here because some filipinas are more than that (in a good way). Also, that green card and money issues thing isn't only happening in Philippines, that's happening from the other country as well. With the preferences, isn't it just fair to have preferences? Like we are humans and it's a human nature to have preferences, even the other creatures have preferences in choosing a mate. Good day!

    • @anandraja6011
      @anandraja6011 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mariaaaaa4341 n what about fillipino man if all chose to date foreigners then who gone marry fillipino man

  • @OliverDoma-h5r
    @OliverDoma-h5r ปีที่แล้ว

    try to interview filipino men and ask why we prefer our filipinas than other women in the world too. One good characteristic of filipina is being tradional and conservatives which is sad to say is fading nowadays

  • @richieredw2142
    @richieredw2142 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Differences??? Money Talks

    • @semi5alpha
      @semi5alpha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nah you don't know.. They adore light skin tall nose..

  • @rosemariesicat3204
    @rosemariesicat3204 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ok c ate

  • @sasca854
    @sasca854 ปีที่แล้ว

    The Matterhorn bro xD

  • @reinersarsuela6036
    @reinersarsuela6036 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Baiting philippines

  • @GUITARTIME2024
    @GUITARTIME2024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dude, that first one had a tattoo. That's all I'll say.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Please enlighten us 😁

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Livingabroadalex at a mall, girl with tattoo, likely by herself. Lol. Did you see a badge from a job?

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hmmmm

  • @bman931931
    @bman931931 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If you are a shorter man (foreigner) you'll have an easier time dating Asian ladies, they aren't as intimidated by someone their own height. But they do prefer lighter skinned guys with blue eyes. They also avoid those from India, Pakistan, the middle east etc.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm middle eastern and nobody has avoided me. I have received plenty of smiles

    • @bman931931
      @bman931931 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Livingabroadalex maybe not so much middle eastern then but definitely Indian and Pakistan. can't remember the channel but I remember a girl saying she was talking to a guy on a dating site who had photos of a Caucasian man on his profile but when she went to video chat with him he was Indian. I know in Thailand there is allot of racial profiling of Indian men, the girls avoid them at all cost.

    • @bman931931
      @bman931931 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Livingabroadalex an interesting video you might consider is the religious aspect of dating a Filipino and how their family might accept you if you were of a different religion if you planned on getting married.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yah true. Unfortunately that's the case in many countries

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True true. Good thing I'm not too religious and hope my future partner isn't either

  • @stephenmulholland4868
    @stephenmulholland4868 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't watch videos where everyone wearing those useless masks

  • @se7enzee444
    @se7enzee444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    No love for the Indians and Black. :(

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's just a small sample. Indians and blacks get more love here than any of the other 20 countries I've been to 😊

    • @Rusty571000
      @Rusty571000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Livingabroadalex yeah right

  • @mariatheresa1995
    @mariatheresa1995 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hehe

  • @BigMatt08
    @BigMatt08 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    PATRICIA is Beautiful

  • @Christian-zg1eg
    @Christian-zg1eg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dude look alike They are lying to you.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How?

    • @Christian-zg1eg
      @Christian-zg1eg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Livingabroadalex They don't like to dating foreigner. They want to date asian like Korean. They are interested your Money if you don't know.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea maybe little girls want hairless feminine dudes. Real women want real men. Also I'm not a 70 year old man.
      So yah, I'm not worried about women being after me just for my money. And trust me I can spot a gold digger a mile a way, compare to a true Filipina.

    • @anandraja6011
      @anandraja6011 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Livingabroadalex real men means fillipino man r not real men u r just a resist men

  • @GK-wx6xo
    @GK-wx6xo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Because 💰💰💰💰

    • @alice_agogo
      @alice_agogo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@emsscha777 the only currency that matters

  • @peterhuang1431
    @peterhuang1431 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    it's funny how 1st girl got a tatto with a bible verse when bible clearly stated it's against tatoo. lmao

  • @TRICK-OR-TREAT236
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