my buddies MIL and SIL and most of her family, backed him, it was amazing for him... turned out, they hoped she turned over a new leaf but figured it wouldnt last and it didnt, she started cheating and not being very sneeky about it, got herself in debt and tried to sell her 14yo's virginity to somebody, who pretended to agree, but instead gave the father a recording that showed her saying that and.. doing some very pornhubesque things to said fellow.. said hoped it helped in the divorce and custody issues.. her mom and sister pretended to be on her side and pushed her to try this very power play, then got her on video admitting she didnt even want kids, she only wanted the custody because it would hurt him and ensure she never had to work... the SIL, had gone no-contact with his ex as soon as she moved out for college, and came back because he was in need of help with the kids, since hes out of town alot, and the younger 2 needed somebody around and not the siblings raising them... turned out... he figured out pretty quick he married the wrong sister... took a while but the 7yo at her bday party, asked when dad was marrying her so they could call her mom... and let them in on the fact, they knew that auntie had been slipping into his room at night and out early in the morning... both of them thought the kids would be upset... when the 16yo daughter laughed this sort of harsh humorless laughs shes got in her arsenal, and said dryly "oh yeah, we are going to be upset that dads happy, and that we have an actual mom now, the horror, the horror" then bust out in a laugh that turned into a honk that turned into a breying shound... LOL... anyway... her side of the family, are good eggs, shes the genuine black sheep of the family, by her own choices and actions... real crap person... the kids genuinely just started to call her mom after the 7yo's b-day party.. then started asking when they would be getting a sibling.. turned out.. she hadnt had any morning sickness but had been eating odd combos of stuff, and not noticed... the 16yo gave her a pre test her mother use to force the girls to take randomly... in the end... i watched my buddy(and buddies dad in this case...since im the elder kids age but have spent alot of time hanging with him and his wife, who are more like gen-x'ers then "boomers", after the ex was gone, and dude got shit sorted so he could be around more, we all discovered he shared alot of our interests, and dues a wizzard with models.. seen him take broken or ones missing small but key parts and..just craft a replacement, that a few times was more detailed then what was broken or missing... from cars/planes to wh40k models... he also became a huge anime fan, and his 2nd wife.. well shes a total weebshite and says as much proudly.. we got him into anime, the kids and his new waifu that is.. funny enough, sister is right between the kids and father/ex's age... it was funny as hell though seeing the girl spill the beans that everybody knew the 2 were togather.. turned out, she went in the first time knowing he was feeling really down and, not intending to start anything... they apparently just held eachother all night...but... it started something that became a regular thing... that progressed swiftly... honestly... he admits he was more shocked that everybody was aware and just telling them to make it official.. they sucked at hiding it after all... hell, his MIL told him "i always said you married the wrong daughter" her husband from the next room "shes not lying, she said that all along"... he had never met the sister hes still married to though, since as soon as his wife moved out they stopped having any contact at all.. i have seen stuff like this from both sides and always found it pretty amazing that their own family is so bad they are backing the ex/stbex...
Yeah. I wondered at first why the mom was in blue text when she seemed to be on the husband's side, but it came clear in the end. The blue text is *always* the good guys.
MIL’s voice actress’s use of the “Evil Mother in Law” tone had me going too! I love listening to her rip that jerk a new one, berating him for being a lousy husband to Ashley.
Kevin: "Mom! I know that I blame Ashley a lot, but this is all her fault!" Mom: "Hmmm.. I got a plan." Karma: "Thanks! I don't have to lift a finger here!"
I know right. When I heard his mom probing him and asking him if he's sure she's the problem...and then started making those recommendations... I knew something was up. That isn't typical justnomil behavior
It's funny when Kevin was so confident that op would beg him for forgiveness with divorce papers. But it turns out his mom planned it to help op to get away from her son because, of her son's actions.
I’m hoping for Kevin beg OP and OP telling him to go find another woman right before the After That: Kevin: Could you please reconsider the divorce? OP: You stupid?! For your information, I regretted of ever marrying a selfish scumbag like you! You also put my life in danger, you realize that?? Why the hell would I reconsider?!?! Kevin: Please, Ashley! I still love you, and you still have feelings for me right? OP: Of course not, stupid! To hell with you! Go find a new woman to be your next slave!!
Yup. Made my ex say 'divorce' first. I said "sure." I already had a lawyer on retainer. A lot more complicated than just "getting forms from the courthouse."
I actually like the fact that the husband wasn't able to change his attitude until the end. In so many stories they seem to magically cure themselves towards the end after realizing what their actions created. But actually, people don't change that easily. So it's refreshing to see someone incapable of seeing their wrongdoings and fully get the blast of the repercussions.
Mine never did change. Even after we had been divorced many years, word got back to me that he thought he'd been a good husband! Cheated all the way through, mean with money, indifferent to the kids, etcetera, etcetera, etcetera!
lol I was hoping the mom would be on OP's side. I was semi expecting the mom to be in the dark & either realize from talking to her son something was off or she decided to go talk to OP & realize her son is in the wrong. Never expected for some reason that she already knew, was already on her side & tricked her son into freeing OP. Glad she was able to help her. The ex-husband needs therapy or something cause I doubt he'll learn without help & repeated reminders. He's probably going to blame everyone but himself to the day he dies.
The therapy my dad would recommend for him would be five bars of soap loaded into a pillowcase tied shut at the top and applied vigorously to his sleeping body while he's secured to the bed...
I think Kevin's mother should have told him that he caused the stress by blaming everything on Ashley instead of taking responsibility for his own mistakes.
Definitely! I married someone like him!He didn't run to mummy with his problem thogh( she would have put him straight!) But he told them to his other woman instead!
Mine was easy. Took about six or seven months to get it through the courts but we split everything and had a good parenting schedule figured out between us.
Kevin had to be one of the biggest man-child characters. Who blames their SO because they forgot to do something after being reminded more than once about it, and then goes crying to their mommy like a kid on a playground saying mommy make her be nice to me again wah wah. What a joke of a man.
I can't believe this guy is deluded enough to think his wife is not only the one in the wrong, but the one who's incapable of admitting they're wrong. There's the pot calling the kettle black, and then there's this.
i can, i have seen men and women pull this shit and endup in the same situation and blame the ex... its never their fault, narcs are just like that, thats funny is when 2 of them endup married to eachother with situations that dont let them easily break it off... they just make eachother miserable, buddy of mines parents were like that...their kids were actually lucky in that, the parents just took it out on eachother that they were stuck togather the kids were not being constantly into that crap.. i do credit them for being so narc they didnt even feel enough connection with the kids to use them in their constant power play games...
@@AshenTechDotCom your right because I know from personal experience.I have narcissistic twin sister and she lives in southern California and I live in Anchorage Alaska!!!
It's really stupid that people thinking threatened their spouses with divorce papers will make them submit to them. Also, it's very funny when those abusers get all panicky when their spouses does submit the papers. Never want to have a spouse like that
Kevin: "You need to explain to her honestly what it's going to be like without me."😢 Awesome MIL ask Ashley how it feels to finally be free from her idiotic son. Ashley's response, she sings: "Heaven! I'm in heaven and my heart beats so that I can hardly speak. And I seem to find the happiness I seek." 🤣🤣❤❤ Fred Astair and Ginger Roger's have nothing on Ashley!😂😂
Kevin is really a piece of work for trying to give Ashley a hard time, trying to act like he is doing the right thing as a "husband" and act like a victim when he is the one causing trouble. The MIL really got me I thought she was actually helping her own son, but I'm glad she managed to help Ashley by giving her dumb-nut son a "perfect" advice by freeing Ashley from that awful husband, and Kevin getting karma for continuing his same self which led him to go downhill, it was a win-win.
I’m honestly happy that the mother-in-law Kevin‘s mother was such a nice person and it’s a little surprising how he turned out this way but then again that can’t happen. But I’m happy that she was such a nice person to help Ashley free herself from her selfish, self-centered, egotistical , and abusive husband. i’m not surprised at him, trying to use divorce papers as a threat then being surprised that the OP signed them and left, considering the crap that he put her through. I wouldn’t be surprised if I just take that and run for the hills just like she did on top of his mother, being such a nice person, the fact of how when he ran out of people to blame, he immediately tried to turn on his mother, then had the audacity expect her to want to help him.
I used to put things I needed to take to work in a tote bag I left hanging from the front door knob. Kevin could have put the papers in the car or left himself a sticky note on the door. Who would he have been able to blame if he were single?
Folks like Kevin in this story, could still find plenty of people to blame while he was living the single life. Be that it's their neighbours fault, the bus drivers fault, the fault of the people he works alongside, the poor cashiers fault when he's out shopping, the Government and society as a whole is all to blame for all Kevin's woes. I have unfortunately met in real life a few folks like this, be they male or female, and they really do believe nothing is ever their own fault. It is truly horrifying to see in real life.
Kevin seems to be the kind of person who would stub his toe walking because he was looking at his phone, and blame a bird that happened to fly overhead.
Now now let’s not go around blaming an innocent bird that was just flying by at the time. It was obviously the fault of the moon 🌙 orbiting the earth 🌍🌏🌎🤣😂
Rule number one Never use Divorce papers as a threat because if you mean them as a bluff and the other person signs and turns them in thrn what do you do???Kiss your marriage good bye!!!
Oh I see she was supposed to make a paper 📄 airplane ✈️ out of those divorce papers he filled out, signed and handed to her. Is it her fault that her paper 📄 airplane ✈️ flew into the courthouse and they processed the paperwork? 🤣😂🤣😂🤣
wow! I don't think I have seen a more clear example of a narcissist. The complete inability to admit any fault whatsoever. Anything that goes wrong is the fault of somebody else, anybody else but his own.
The way mom played him like a fiddle lmfaoooooooo She literally described his own shitty behavior back to him and tricked this idiot into divorcing his wife for her sake 😂😂😂😂😂
Glad the mil was the hero in this one. I can’t believe any man is this childish. Surprised he can even dress himself. Hope he listens to his Mom and does some thinking ( if he can) or his life will be lonely.
This is so crazy.. How many times should people remind someone?? If he has that much trouble remembering something, then he can write it on a post it note and put them where he will see them.. Kids in school are taught to remember things but this adult can't?? He's quick with the blame game that's for sure.. His mom is a perfect mother-in-law!! I hope that when she marries again, her mother-in-law will be just like Kevin's mom!!
What's wrong with Kevin? He's too irresponsible to be married. Wow. What did she in Kevin to marry him and stay married to him? At least she's not a doormat. I'm not surprised Kevin is lying to his mom. I'm surprised that the abusive spouse is intelligent to question the plan of threatening a spouse with divorce. Way to go, MIL!
"Lack of planning on your part does not constitute an emergency on my part." Most adults understand this but, apparently, Kevin is emotionally still a ten-year-old. His mother was really diabolical in how she set him up. Karma sometimes comes from places you wouldn't suspect 😁
Honestly i think its a good thing she asked her mil for advice. As long as you don't expect the inlaws to everything for you and acknowledge that the partner is a grown adult who is responsible for their own decisions. Asking about behavior quirks can help with getting insight into what may work and what definitely won't, as well as getting favorite recipes and other similar stuff. Parents are likely to know stuff others don't about their kids and it can be a good starting point to build a good long term relationship with a subject both are interested in. The trick is both parties respecting any mutual boundaries and treating each other decent, just like any healthy relationship.
MIL is going to be disappointed in her son. With this kind of narcissistic attitude, he's never going to see himself as in the wrong and will always blame someone else. Bitter experience, my ex was like this.
Stress is a huge factor in physical health. Whether it's an abusive partner, a hostile workplace, or any other situation involving toxic people who refuse to listen to reason, the only real cure is to remove yourself from the presence of such people. The stress levels will drop like a rock, and you can finally breathe easy and regain your health.
Life with an abusive spouse is just not worth it no matter what benefits you might have. Any type of abuse takes a mental and physical toll on your body that can sometimes have a high cost. Escape the situation as soon as possible.
Kevin: She never wants to admit when she's wrong. She's even getting delusional. Kevin, now try saying that, but with "I" and "me" pronouns. Now we're getting somewhere!
This hit so close to home. My 1st husband was the same way. Unfortunately, his mother thought there was nothing wrong. My mother, however, did. I thank GOD for my mom and wish she were still with me. My 2nd, and still is my husband for 24 years now, is not like the first one. He actually cares about me as much as I do him. My ex? Lives in a dumpy trailer in a po-dunk town, barely scraping by. Egotistical and narcissistic as ever. I hear he has become a drunk womanizer.
Throws a tantrum because he forgot his homework 🤣
Kevin's mom played him like a fiddle oh my god. She knows her son is a horrible person and tricked him into divorcing his wife to help her.
Actually, fiddles are hard to play. She played him like the cheap kazoo he is.
Mom is the MVP.
Yep!!!
Yeah! Her son fell right into her trap!
@@williamseaman176 and everyone with integrity is happy about that fact!!The only way to get him to do the right thing was to trick him into it!!!
I find it ironic that Kevin was describing himself to his mom without even realizing it.
I love it when MIL is on the poorly treated spouse's side, wish we saw more versions of it with poorly treated husbands being sided with by FIL
my buddies MIL and SIL and most of her family, backed him, it was amazing for him... turned out, they hoped she turned over a new leaf but figured it wouldnt last and it didnt, she started cheating and not being very sneeky about it, got herself in debt and tried to sell her 14yo's virginity to somebody, who pretended to agree, but instead gave the father a recording that showed her saying that and.. doing some very pornhubesque things to said fellow.. said hoped it helped in the divorce and custody issues.. her mom and sister pretended to be on her side and pushed her to try this very power play, then got her on video admitting she didnt even want kids, she only wanted the custody because it would hurt him and ensure she never had to work... the SIL, had gone no-contact with his ex as soon as she moved out for college, and came back because he was in need of help with the kids, since hes out of town alot, and the younger 2 needed somebody around and not the siblings raising them... turned out... he figured out pretty quick he married the wrong sister... took a while but the 7yo at her bday party, asked when dad was marrying her so they could call her mom... and let them in on the fact, they knew that auntie had been slipping into his room at night and out early in the morning... both of them thought the kids would be upset... when the 16yo daughter laughed this sort of harsh humorless laughs shes got in her arsenal, and said dryly "oh yeah, we are going to be upset that dads happy, and that we have an actual mom now, the horror, the horror" then bust out in a laugh that turned into a honk that turned into a breying shound... LOL...
anyway... her side of the family, are good eggs, shes the genuine black sheep of the family, by her own choices and actions... real crap person... the kids genuinely just started to call her mom after the 7yo's b-day party.. then started asking when they would be getting a sibling.. turned out.. she hadnt had any morning sickness but had been eating odd combos of stuff, and not noticed... the 16yo gave her a pre test her mother use to force the girls to take randomly... in the end... i watched my buddy(and buddies dad in this case...since im the elder kids age but have spent alot of time hanging with him and his wife, who are more like gen-x'ers then "boomers", after the ex was gone, and dude got shit sorted so he could be around more, we all discovered he shared alot of our interests, and dues a wizzard with models.. seen him take broken or ones missing small but key parts and..just craft a replacement, that a few times was more detailed then what was broken or missing... from cars/planes to wh40k models... he also became a huge anime fan, and his 2nd wife.. well shes a total weebshite and says as much proudly.. we got him into anime, the kids and his new waifu that is.. funny enough, sister is right between the kids and father/ex's age... it was funny as hell though seeing the girl spill the beans that everybody knew the 2 were togather..
turned out, she went in the first time knowing he was feeling really down and, not intending to start anything... they apparently just held eachother all night...but... it started something that became a regular thing... that progressed swiftly... honestly... he admits he was more shocked that everybody was aware and just telling them to make it official.. they sucked at hiding it after all... hell, his MIL told him "i always said you married the wrong daughter" her husband from the next room "shes not lying, she said that all along"... he had never met the sister hes still married to though, since as soon as his wife moved out they stopped having any contact at all..
i have seen stuff like this from both sides and always found it pretty amazing that their own family is so bad they are backing the ex/stbex...
@@silkandstones5964which channels can I get them from 😊
@SilkandStones can you send me a link to the others? I haven't found many specifically like what the OP states.
A man who can't manage his own professional and personal life and completely blames others for his own mistakes, is not worth anyone's time.
I honestly do not know how he is even alive still, since a person like him obviously needs someone to feed him.
Moral: NEVER threaten your spouse with divorce papers unless you're DEAD serious about it.
I have NEVER thought of giving my husband that get out of jail free card!!
At first I was worried about the mother-in-law, but I'm glad she's an ally.👍🏿
Yeah. I wondered at first why the mom was in blue text when she seemed to be on the husband's side, but it came clear in the end. The blue text is *always* the good guys.
Same!!!
MIL’s voice actress’s use of the “Evil Mother in Law” tone had me going too! I love listening to her rip that jerk a new one, berating him for being a lousy husband to Ashley.
I love his mom so devious and clever. You go mom!!!
Yeah
His mom in this story is the MVP good job to her she is awesome
Kevin: "Mom! I know that I blame Ashley a lot, but this is all her fault!"
Mom: "Hmmm.. I got a plan."
Karma: "Thanks! I don't have to lift a finger here!"
I know right. When I heard his mom probing him and asking him if he's sure she's the problem...and then started making those recommendations... I knew something was up. That isn't typical justnomil behavior
@@hadencross I agree! How nice of her to set it up.
It's funny when Kevin was so confident that op would beg him for forgiveness with divorce papers. But it turns out his mom planned it to help op to get away from her son because, of her son's actions.
Exactly correct!!!
I’m hoping for Kevin beg OP and OP telling him to go find another woman right before the After That:
Kevin: Could you please reconsider the divorce?
OP: You stupid?! For your information, I regretted of ever marrying a selfish scumbag like you! You also put my life in danger, you realize that?? Why the hell would I reconsider?!?!
Kevin: Please, Ashley! I still love you, and you still have feelings for me right?
OP: Of course not, stupid! To hell with you! Go find a new woman to be your next slave!!
I love it when the MIL actually sides with the abusee rather than the abuser...!
One word that best describes Kevin: Narcissist
Kevin should know that threaten with divorce is a bad idea. It’ll backfire.
Yup. Made my ex say 'divorce' first. I said "sure." I already had a lawyer on retainer. A lot more complicated than just "getting forms from the courthouse."
How dumb is this husband think he could treat his wife like crap and she wouldn’t divorce him and move on with her life
The only sane response to the threat of divorce is, "OK"
I actually like the fact that the husband wasn't able to change his attitude until the end. In so many stories they seem to magically cure themselves towards the end after realizing what their actions created. But actually, people don't change that easily. So it's refreshing to see someone incapable of seeing their wrongdoings and fully get the blast of the repercussions.
Mine never did change. Even after we had been divorced many years, word got back to me that he thought he'd been a good husband! Cheated all the way through, mean with money, indifferent to the kids, etcetera, etcetera, etcetera!
It's not so much a magical change as it is the selfish offender is trying to get their victim to stay by pretending to change.
His mom played him like a fiddle😂😂😂😂
Don’t you just love when spouse A loves to threaten spouse B with divorce to try to “scare” them? It never works! 😅😅😅
No kidding!!!
Yeah. My ex did it ONCE. Next day, i'm at my lawyer's office.
She actually cried.
I didn't care. She looked terrfied. But we went through with it.
Well dont threaten me with a good time 😂
Kevin has earned a gold medal in projection.
Damn! His own mother tricked him!😂
Lol🤣🤣🤣😂
Threatening with divorce only works if the other spouse is totally dependent on their partner
Spouse A wants to close open relationship after they find out Spouse B is happier with someone else.
lol I was hoping the mom would be on OP's side.
I was semi expecting the mom to be in the dark & either realize from talking to her son something was off or she decided to go talk to OP & realize her son is in the wrong. Never expected for some reason that she already knew, was already on her side & tricked her son into freeing OP. Glad she was able to help her.
The ex-husband needs therapy or something cause I doubt he'll learn without help & repeated reminders. He's probably going to blame everyone but himself to the day he dies.
After death, he will still point fingers up above in hell, instead of finally admitting he is still at fault
The therapy my dad would recommend for him would be five bars of soap loaded into a pillowcase tied shut at the top and applied vigorously to his sleeping body while he's secured to the bed...
Mom was the queen in this chess game! Clearly, he didn't see himself in the behavior example she gave.
I think Kevin's mother should have told him that he caused the stress by blaming everything on Ashley instead of taking responsibility for his own mistakes.
He wouldn't listen! Closed mind and closed ears!
@@carolroberts4614 sounds like a closed heart too
Definitely! I married someone like him!He didn't run to mummy with his problem thogh( she would have put him straight!) But he told them to his other woman instead!
Best MiL is one that defends the abused spouse and drops the karma ball on her own kids. Slay sistah slay
Mine was easy. Took about six or seven months to get it through the courts but we split everything and had a good parenting schedule figured out between us.
Kevin had to be one of the biggest man-child characters. Who blames their SO because they forgot to do something after being reminded more than once about it, and then goes crying to their mommy like a kid on a playground saying mommy make her be nice to me again wah wah. What a joke of a man.
I can't believe this guy is deluded enough to think his wife is not only the one in the wrong, but the one who's incapable of admitting they're wrong. There's the pot calling the kettle black, and then there's this.
I was thinking the same thing! Like take your own advice Kevin, admit when YOU are in the wrong
Narcissism. This guy sounds just like my mother.
This person and reality are strangers to each other that's why!!!
i can, i have seen men and women pull this shit and endup in the same situation and blame the ex... its never their fault, narcs are just like that, thats funny is when 2 of them endup married to eachother with situations that dont let them easily break it off... they just make eachother miserable, buddy of mines parents were like that...their kids were actually lucky in that, the parents just took it out on eachother that they were stuck togather the kids were not being constantly into that crap.. i do credit them for being so narc they didnt even feel enough connection with the kids to use them in their constant power play games...
@@AshenTechDotCom your right because I know from personal experience.I have narcissistic twin sister and she lives in southern California and I live in Anchorage Alaska!!!
Kevin: "Our marriage is not your business, mom!"
A few days earlier...
Kevin: "Mom! Can you help me?!"
It's really stupid that people thinking threatened their spouses with divorce papers will make them submit to them. Also, it's very funny when those abusers get all panicky when their spouses does submit the papers. Never want to have a spouse like that
SARAH ADER I CAN AGREE WITH YOU ON THAT TOO AND HAPPY ST PATRICK DAY TOO
Yeah, they seem to think they are the Coca Cola in the desert to these women😅
@Joey Demitro Happy St Patrick's day to you as well
@@cariciaangela3052 THAT IS VERY TRUE TOO
@@sarahader8118 SARAH ADER YOU ARE VERY WELCOME TOO
Kevin: "You need to explain to her honestly what it's going to be like without me."😢
Awesome MIL ask Ashley how it feels to finally be free from her idiotic son.
Ashley's response, she sings: "Heaven! I'm in heaven and my heart beats so that I can hardly speak. And I seem to find the happiness I seek." 🤣🤣❤❤
Fred Astair and Ginger Roger's have nothing on Ashley!😂😂
Kevin is really a piece of work for trying to give Ashley a hard time, trying to act like he is doing the right thing as a "husband" and act like a victim when he is the one causing trouble. The MIL really got me I thought she was actually helping her own son, but I'm glad she managed to help Ashley by giving her dumb-nut son a "perfect" advice by freeing Ashley from that awful husband, and Kevin getting karma for continuing his same self which led him to go downhill, it was a win-win.
I’m honestly happy that the mother-in-law Kevin‘s mother was such a nice person and it’s a little surprising how he turned out this way but then again that can’t happen. But I’m happy that she was such a nice person to help Ashley free herself from her selfish, self-centered, egotistical , and abusive husband. i’m not surprised at him, trying to use divorce papers as a threat then being surprised that the OP signed them and left, considering the crap that he put her through. I wouldn’t be surprised if I just take that and run for the hills just like she did on top of his mother, being such a nice person, the fact of how when he ran out of people to blame, he immediately tried to turn on his mother, then had the audacity expect her to want to help him.
I used to put things I needed to take to work in a tote bag I left hanging from the front door knob. Kevin could have put the papers in the car or left himself a sticky note on the door. Who would he have been able to blame if he were single?
I do the same thing.
Folks like Kevin in this story, could still find plenty of people to blame while he was living the single life.
Be that it's their neighbours fault, the bus drivers fault, the fault of the people he works alongside, the poor cashiers fault when he's out shopping, the Government and society as a whole is all to blame for all Kevin's woes.
I have unfortunately met in real life a few folks like this, be they male or female, and they really do believe nothing is ever their own fault. It is truly horrifying to see in real life.
Or he could have gone back to get them. Lazy jerk.
Kevin seems to be the kind of person who would stub his toe walking because he was looking at his phone, and blame a bird that happened to fly overhead.
Now now let’s not go around blaming an innocent bird that was just flying by at the time. It was obviously the fault of the moon 🌙 orbiting the earth 🌍🌏🌎🤣😂
If you truly need to get ahold of someone at work for an emergency...gee...call their work number? It's not that difficult.
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I like the twist where the MiL is on the wife's side and helps her. At first, I thought the MiL was trying to screw her over.
You go Ashley girl🤭
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Rule number one Never use Divorce papers as a threat because if you mean them as a bluff and the other person signs and turns them in thrn what do you do???Kiss your marriage good bye!!!
I like it when the MIL saves her DIL from a hellish marriage. And then laughs at him.
"That doesn't excuse you misusing those papers to file for divorce?!"
What else do you use divorce papers for if not filing for divorce?!🤣🤣🤣
Oh I see she was supposed to make a paper 📄 airplane ✈️ out of those divorce papers he filled out, signed and handed to her. Is it her fault that her paper 📄 airplane ✈️ flew into the courthouse and they processed the paperwork? 🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Not even 4 minute in and I’m already wondering why she stayed married to him 😒😒😒
I was laughing at his attitude about forgetting the documents. Makes me wonder how bad he is at his job.
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What is he a toddler? You have to remind him constantly of things he’s supposed to be doing for his work? It’s ridiculous! He’s freaking clueless! 🤮
I just hate those people that blame other people for everything.
How do these people get a divorce over night?
Divorce papers are the nuclear option. You better be sure before you pull that trigger!
I love this mother...look8ng out for her daughter in law.
Ashley must have thought don't threaten me with a good time 🤣
wow! I don't think I have seen a more clear example of a narcissist. The complete inability to admit any fault whatsoever. Anything that goes wrong is the fault of somebody else, anybody else but his own.
They make getting a divorce look easier than it is.
for a moment I thought the mother was going to be a sane sensible person, but no, I was wrong
EDIT: It seems that I was right since the beginning
Good evening everyone from Alabama, an abusive husband but a great mil on her side
Nice change with a good mom.
The way mom played him like a fiddle lmfaoooooooo
She literally described his own shitty behavior back to him and tricked this idiot into divorcing his wife for her sake 😂😂😂😂😂
Haha
Glad the mil was the hero in this one. I can’t believe any man is this childish. Surprised he can even dress himself. Hope he listens to his Mom and does some thinking ( if he can) or his life will be lonely.
Wife: WELL YOU JUST ACTIVATED MY TRAP CARD!
This is so crazy.. How many times should people remind someone?? If he has that much trouble remembering something, then he can write it on a post it note and put them where he will see them.. Kids in school are taught to remember things but this adult can't?? He's quick with the blame game that's for sure.. His mom is a perfect mother-in-law!! I hope that when she marries again, her mother-in-law will be just like Kevin's mom!!
His mom say she didn't raise him like that but couldn't have said that to avoid responsibility ?
I just knew the mother was setting Kevin up, I chuckled so much when it turned out that way 😂😂😂
What's wrong with Kevin? He's too irresponsible to be married. Wow. What did she in Kevin to marry him and stay married to him? At least she's not a doormat. I'm not surprised Kevin is lying to his mom. I'm surprised that the abusive spouse is intelligent to question the plan of threatening a spouse with divorce. Way to go, MIL!
The person who's able to walk away has all the power. In relationships, in bargaining, everything.
"Lack of planning on your part does not constitute an emergency on my part." Most adults understand this but, apparently, Kevin is emotionally still a ten-year-old. His mother was really diabolical in how she set him up. Karma sometimes comes from places you wouldn't suspect 😁
If you look up “Hypocrisy” and “Narcissism”, you’ll find Kevin’s name printed right beside it.
It would be a fun twist to have someone defy the judge and refuse to comply, or disappear, or self delete.
Yesssssss ma'am his mom is petty and I love it 😂😂
Honestly i think its a good thing she asked her mil for advice. As long as you don't expect the inlaws to everything for you and acknowledge that the partner is a grown adult who is responsible for their own decisions. Asking about behavior quirks can help with getting insight into what may work and what definitely won't, as well as getting favorite recipes and other similar stuff. Parents are likely to know stuff others don't about their kids and it can be a good starting point to build a good long term relationship with a subject both are interested in. The trick is both parties respecting any mutual boundaries and treating each other decent, just like any healthy relationship.
Supportive Mother-In-Law!?
Damn, just when we thought the mother would turn to be malicious as usual, but no, she actually helped her DIL in the most unexpected way.
I like it when the MIL turns out to be good
Funnily enough, a counsellor said pretty much the same thing to me....we're now divorced.
DONT THREATEN ME WITH A GOOD TIME~!
Nice twist with the Mom. Thought it would go differently.
Never issue ultimatums!
MIL is going to be disappointed in her son. With this kind of narcissistic attitude, he's never going to see himself as in the wrong and will always blame someone else. Bitter experience, my ex was like this.
Stress is a huge factor in physical health. Whether it's an abusive partner, a hostile workplace, or any other situation involving toxic people who refuse to listen to reason, the only real cure is to remove yourself from the presence of such people. The stress levels will drop like a rock, and you can finally breathe easy and regain your health.
If it was legal it would also help if you could drop an extremely large rock 🪨 on the toxic items 🤣😂
Kevin's mom weaned him a long time ago. Good thing too. That little man child didn't get his way.
Life with an abusive spouse is just not worth it no matter what benefits you might have. Any type of abuse takes a mental and physical toll on your body that can sometimes have a high cost. Escape the situation as soon as possible.
Because she's not your mommy
Oh dear, oh dear😂
Game, set and match to MiL! 👍👌
Karma, to the Husband. Lol.
Damn, NOTHING is this guy's fault apparently. He can do no wrong! 🙄
I married one like that! Everything was All My Fault!
I have given this advice to people who have 'difficult' exes. "If I'm such a terrible person, you are better off without me. Why are you complaining?"
Nuneaton Warwickshire... Been a decent day.... Been to Edinburgh on our Scotland road trip last year.... Hope you all had a great St Patricks day...
Some people are so full of themselves there’s no room in their lives for anybody else.
Kevin: She never wants to admit when she's wrong. She's even getting delusional.
Kevin, now try saying that, but with "I" and "me" pronouns. Now we're getting somewhere!
This hit so close to home. My 1st husband was the same way. Unfortunately, his mother thought there was nothing wrong. My mother, however, did. I thank GOD for my mom and wish she were still with me. My 2nd, and still is my husband for 24 years now, is not like the first one. He actually cares about me as much as I do him. My ex? Lives in a dumpy trailer in a po-dunk town, barely scraping by. Egotistical and narcissistic as ever. I hear he has become a drunk womanizer.
*Sophisticated mother voice*
"Y'ALL'S relationship!"
🤣🤣🤣
Evening everyone
Evening 👋
"You've destroyed my relationship with Ashley!"
Survey says? *EEHHH!! WRONG!!*
Ashley stick to your guns and don't back down no matter what
Kudos to the mom. 👍
project much hubby. love this MIL.