If You Cannot Get Married, Fear Allah! - Suhaib Webb

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  • @dandyd032000
    @dandyd032000 9 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    The Ummah are but one brotherhood. We should make nikkah easy so zina becomes scarce

    • @saeedurrahman2056
      @saeedurrahman2056 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anonymous8737 you on about the smallest thing do you perform your salah? Your hyprocrite

    • @saeedurrahman2056
      @saeedurrahman2056 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anonymous8737 alright then but brother just because his shaved don't you do your salah?

    • @saeedurrahman2056
      @saeedurrahman2056 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anonymous8737 really you pray your salah 5 times a day or you just saying that and saying his shaved beard is a public sin bro 1% of the Muslim population perform 5 time prayer constantly

    • @saeedurrahman2056
      @saeedurrahman2056 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anonymous8737 in not joking is real

    • @saeedurrahman2056
      @saeedurrahman2056 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anonymous8737 you should never judge a person just because they committed this sin brother does it effect you brother think about yourself think how many sins you do everyday because other people have no connection with you.

  • @YoloMolopolo
    @YoloMolopolo 9 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    May Allah make me and my brothers and sisters in Islam to the ones who fear Allah! Ameen. with full sincerity...with full hope..ya rab el alameen..ya tawab..ya ghaffour...ya malik al-yaum ad-deen. ameeeeeen!!!

    • @bmohamud
      @bmohamud 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ameen Ya Rabbal Alamin!

  • @rijaltanjung9506
    @rijaltanjung9506 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I'm an ugly looking guy and no girl will like my appearance. That's why I'm going here. I fear Allah and will not commit Zina even if I have enough money to do it Insyā Allah. For any brothers have the same problem like me, don't be sad because this world itself is just a temporary. Keep in mind that our God is the most Merciful. We will meet our spouses after this life Insyā Allah, their beauty which we can never imagine, how cool is that ! 😀

    • @momoasraf3348
      @momoasraf3348 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      You're not ugly brother, one day a woman will come into your life and inshallah the two of you will marry. The way she will look at you inshallah you will never feel ugly ever again.
      Sending my dua, have sabr
      Assalamualeikum ❤❤❤

    • @dreamswimmer521
      @dreamswimmer521 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same condition going around.salam to u brother ...

    • @JetBlackAir
      @JetBlackAir 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Seriously! I don't know how you look, but keep in mind that women ALWAYS want men to think he is less handsome than he is in real life. There 2 reasons for this. It combats the arrogance that MIGHT pop up in men. Also, it makes it easy for women to get more resources from men, and as an added bonus, from men who are better-looking than them. This makes men feel lucky to have any wife at all, and this makes their job easier, getting our resources for less work as wives.

    • @dreamswimmer521
      @dreamswimmer521 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JetBlackAir you gotta satisfying answer out from the experience.
      Need a flock like u to b around with in the same faith

    • @JetBlackAir
      @JetBlackAir 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dreamswimmer521, my channel is dedicated to this.

  • @abrahamlincoln2098
    @abrahamlincoln2098 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I can not find a girl to married. I always says Allah want the best for me Hamdoullilah.

    • @peacebeuponyou510
      @peacebeuponyou510 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      May Allah swt grant you righteous spouse Ameen ya rab Ameen

    • @iqraajmal7590
      @iqraajmal7590 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I too can nt find a deeni brother bt all i cn say is tht allah has better plans for us .. n may be it is nt the ryt time .. may allah ease the difficulties of all of us ameen ..

    • @iqraajmal7590
      @iqraajmal7590 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      R u a revert ??

    • @peacebeuponyou510
      @peacebeuponyou510 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@iqraajmal7590 Alhamdulillah yes

    • @iqraajmal7590
      @iqraajmal7590 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@peacebeuponyou510 where do u live ??

  • @jdabdinasir8026
    @jdabdinasir8026 11 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    We need Imams like that in the UK

    • @artgirl6784
      @artgirl6784 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know him personally I have for 22 years he was my first Imam and when I first converted back in 2001 he is from Oklahoma where I am from. Yes he is a good imam

  • @djamaluddin
    @djamaluddin 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I like this brother.

  • @IslamOnDemand
    @IslamOnDemand  11 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Insha' Allah you won't get married. Buy keep your mind, eyes and heart open to any possibility. You never know who you will meet (perhaps unplanned by the both of you) in the future. My sincere advice: Pray for whatever is best for you, whether it be married or single... whatever is BEST! :)

    • @fmsproductions7255
      @fmsproductions7255 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Is it possible to enter jannah without getting married

    • @casualyoutuber
      @casualyoutuber 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fmsproductions7255 yes it is possible, but it's gonna be difficult

    • @fmsproductions7255
      @fmsproductions7255 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@casualyoutuber hi brother. Thank you. I grew up not very observant I did things I'm not happy about I began following more closely recently.
      I sadly have good friends Muslim married but abndoned Salah just focus on money. Marriage is good but we have to beready

    • @casualyoutuber
      @casualyoutuber 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fmsproductions7255 mashallah that's good. It's never too late to change. You just need to be sincere and Allah t'ala will help you

  • @sadikmeah4057
    @sadikmeah4057 11 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Good lecture, this imam is a gift to the American Muslim (I'm British by the way) I know a lot of other groups try to bring him down but this is one guy who knows he's only answerable to Allah.

  • @Lovelylittlehijabi
    @Lovelylittlehijabi 11 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am engaged to be married now but he is not Muslim. I will remain Muslim as I love my religion. I have found love at my old age and that is all that matters for me. :) thank you.

    • @issaadam867
      @issaadam867 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Tracie The Rebellious Sister A believer should marry a believer.

    • @saif856
      @saif856 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't go after haram marriage.. it will be considered as haram

    • @explorer7913
      @explorer7913 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good for you , it's easy to say fear Allah but we cannot neglect power of nature

  • @haroonpashtoon6481
    @haroonpashtoon6481 10 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Good speech dawah. JazzakALLAH Khair
    .

  • @ghazi_ghazi7703
    @ghazi_ghazi7703 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have a very big fear related to marriage , I am a girl and young also , but whenever I hear of marriage I got really afraid , can I know the meaning of this , is getting married in islam is necessary .

  • @heladds
    @heladds 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My parents did the same to me when I was younger and wanted to get married bc the man I loved was black. I am now 43 and not married

    • @pennydollar1586
      @pennydollar1586 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Now you know the crutch of love. Love of parents. & love of parent over child. My parents did the same thing

    • @omarkhan9515
      @omarkhan9515 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@pennydollar1586 so sad

    • @heladds
      @heladds 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Nounou Sa that's what I tell myself...thank u

    • @aakhtab8403
      @aakhtab8403 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You should have followed islam and married him if he was muslim,parents dont have the authority over Allah

  • @kurd4life4evah
    @kurd4life4evah 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Are these recent videos? the videos look old. Not that it matters but just curious. I'd like to see the the whole lecture with Sheikh Omar speaking as well. He was about to here but that got cut.

  • @salwamuslimah5648
    @salwamuslimah5648 11 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Did you have a bad experience with men sister? Only people i heard speaking this way are those who had bad run in with men.
    Islam allows you to reject marriage, if you have no desire for men, or children then you are asked to not get married.
    But if you desire men and children you are obliged to marry to protect yourself.

  • @androidacc423
    @androidacc423 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ive heard many sheyoukh but this one is amazing.

  • @absolutely101-o3e
    @absolutely101-o3e 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    salam..i beleive the title is a little misleading..the Imam is speaking of the specific incident that two people are together and something bad may happen between them, so they should fear Allah. The title makes it seem that for every single person in the world that cant get married at this moment should fear Allah..JazakAllahu khayran akhee and Allah knows best

  • @wgnwBash
    @wgnwBash 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Help me get married please inshallah. Save me

  • @F.H.
    @F.H. 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Ure shelf life is jennah' sisters!! Love it!! It seems like it.s not in my naseeb to get married...so I.ll.do my best to wait FOREVERRR

  • @Noortje394
    @Noortje394 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It seems as if these days haram relationships are being pushed on us 😑 like for example my parents they except that I as a Muslim female go out and find myself a husband 🙄 like how? I can’t go out and ask the hand in marriage of a guy? Yea I had some dates but these guys were not serious( I met some through online datingsites) and even sadly enough one haram relationship and it didn’t work out ofcourse. People always ask me why are u single, your are being picky and then I’m like no I wish hhh (joking) it’s really hard and it seems the older you get the more struggles. In my community only the young girls get married. It’s really depressing and I pray to Allah that I can find a good spouse, because I don’t want to end alone...(english is not my first language therefore my sentences may not seem all correct :) I wish every Muslim will find their soulmate inshaa allah 🙏

    • @Noortje394
      @Noortje394 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      iMR aww inshaa allah thank you 😊🙏

    • @Noortje394
      @Noortje394 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      iMR bless you🙏

    • @explorer7913
      @explorer7913 ปีที่แล้ว

      Truth hits you hard why you didn't chose man when you were younger now when you already fucked someone and you are older you want choice 😂

  • @mdmahasin9984
    @mdmahasin9984 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ashlamualaikum brother

  • @Mabd1202
    @Mabd1202 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    is it must to marry in Islam? because I'm just 20 and my parents are walahi telling me to get marry like if I'm 30 or something.. I think I'm too young and I just want to enjoy life But they think that I'm non mahram most of the time and that will somehow bother me? that's what they think but I don't want to marry when I'm not ready at all:))

  • @SidMunLaila
    @SidMunLaila ปีที่แล้ว

    we strongly need such imams are in Pakistan.

  • @SashaStreams
    @SashaStreams 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Needed to hear this. Jzk

  • @gamingfreak5913
    @gamingfreak5913 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Never getting married. Don't like the idea of it. Not for me.

    • @moflow66
      @moflow66 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Asalamu alykum
      We shouldn’t disdain from the sunna of the prophet
      Lots of love

    • @gamingfreak5913
      @gamingfreak5913 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@moflow66 Walaykum asalam. I understand that however I have a lot of personal issues which will only be worsened by these things.

    • @moflow66
      @moflow66 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I really don’t mean to be dismissive of your concerns but I have a friend who said similar things to what you are saying until Allah guided him. InshAllah Allah will ease your burden and guide you through your problems.

    • @gamingfreak5913
      @gamingfreak5913 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@moflow66 i understand, jzk brother

  • @shakespearaamina9117
    @shakespearaamina9117 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you ❤️ may Allah bless you insh'Allah 🌹🌷🌷

  • @Bism_illaah
    @Bism_illaah 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Salaam habibi, jazaakAllaahu Khairan for uploading this.
    Is there any place I can watch the full video?

    • @learningadab
      @learningadab ปีที่แล้ว

      9 years later, better later than never. Alhamdulillah, here is the link: th-cam.com/video/WUS1lpbQuSA/w-d-xo.html

  • @tanzimhussain338
    @tanzimhussain338 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can I spent my life without marraige islamic point of view

    • @aejazahmed2126
      @aejazahmed2126 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Answer me also

    • @issaadam867
      @issaadam867 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tanzim Hussain Your not man enough if you don't get married. #MUHAMMAD s.a.w

    • @reezis1619
      @reezis1619 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It is impossible since sex outside of marriage is haram. So you want to die a virgin?

    • @nothing-kq6zj
      @nothing-kq6zj 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@reezis1619 yes I do.

    • @nothing-kq6zj
      @nothing-kq6zj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @A What why?

  • @joeboydedaev6393
    @joeboydedaev6393 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    i want a girl in my life but she wants something her parents want she doesn't believe what i think and she doesn't believe even when i say Allah is the one who is watching. she think I am cheating but i am not . I said that Allah is watching and i can put everything to to Allah but she said even if u put Allah i wont believe u. is that shirk my brother please help me.

  • @pzalmwithazibrahimal-musa1077
    @pzalmwithazibrahimal-musa1077 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    asalaamuhleiukum! ALLAH blesses u brother Suhaib Webb! ALLAH blesses you with knowledge and courage! peace be with you good brother-asalaamuhleiukum! alhumdullilah! ALLAH uh akbar....!!!!!!! La il aha il ALLAH

  • @hibohaginur9874
    @hibohaginur9874 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful

  • @meccaaroma
    @meccaaroma 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Asalamualaykum if you have the money and your already over puberty then your ready enjoy life with your wife otherwise you hav no excuses this is the sunnah the sahaba (ra) would go to war and marry in their teens 15-19 you need to follow God Law and not your parents otherwise ur sinner may Allah (swt) forgive and guide us all
    asalamulakum
    free ebooks lectures bio of prophet swt

  • @192ali1
    @192ali1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My Salutation and my Salaam to my beloved brother in Islam, Br, Suhaib. I know him from Edmond OK. He was my Imam in the small mosque of in Edmond. At that time he was going to a mosque in Norman OK to learn and memorize Koran. I once talked to his mother and tried to persuade and convince him to join her son in her belief. She said that she had gained a real loving son when Suhaib converted to Islam. She was very supportive of Suhaib's new belief and was not objecting his conversion. I did not succeed to persuade and convince her to join her son's belief and accept Islam. That was in 1997-1998 and Insha-Allah, she is already a Muslim. Insha-Allah, Suhaib and i will meet in Jannat.

  • @casualyoutuber
    @casualyoutuber 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The prophetic advice is that if you cant get married, you should fast

    • @heladds
      @heladds 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      For how long ? And what else?

    • @casualyoutuber
      @casualyoutuber 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@heladds you fast until you get married. Other than that, you should lower your gaze, avoid tempting situations and fear Allah as the speaker said. And engage in good deeds so that you keep yourself busy.

    • @Abu-Kurdi
      @Abu-Kurdi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That doesn't mean you can't get married if you're poor

    • @Abu-Kurdi
      @Abu-Kurdi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@casualyoutuber none of that works forever btw it just helps

  • @adeelabbasi6628
    @adeelabbasi6628 11 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    happy married couple live longer then single man or woman so their is benefits of marriage longer time for u sister to do Ibadah of Allah SWT in this live more rewards for u in hereafter

  • @Omares112
    @Omares112 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Girls demand too much in these hard times too that’s the bloody problem. They don’t see his nice heart, nice family humble way of living but more materialistic thing! I do fear Allah but women are becoming toooooooooooooooooooopooooo needy when they have good jobs

    • @imranuddin5071
      @imranuddin5071 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Women want looks height money hair in a man

    • @waytoguidance
      @waytoguidance 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marriage should be done with simplicity.. I do understand what you mean.. people have made marriage very hard

  • @F.H.
    @F.H. 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    In shaa Allah**

  • @Lovelylittlehijabi
    @Lovelylittlehijabi 11 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I will not get married. I dont want to get married. I have not met a man I like thus far and not intrested in meeting anymore men! I will mee with God alone.

    • @issaadam867
      @issaadam867 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Tracie The Rebellious Sister Rebellious sister indeed

  • @pdk9969
    @pdk9969 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If no body watches you Allah is watching you always but satan is trying hard to mislead mankind it's important for the spiritual faith to be hasten and to overcome temptations as it will lead men astray and women as well

    • @explorer7913
      @explorer7913 ปีที่แล้ว

      Looks like satan is more potent than allah

  • @khaidulskjulekhajk1851
    @khaidulskjulekhajk1851 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    masha allah

  • @MrJazmine87
    @MrJazmine87 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    what if you have urges but you're not ready for marriage ? Like you're not ready for that responsibility, cleaning, cooking, living together etc ?

    • @AmazingVideos-qf5ed
      @AmazingVideos-qf5ed 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      MrsJazmine87 Everybody is just surrounded by fear of this and that, anticipated worries are from shaytan it says in the quran. Therefore have to place your trust on Allaah

    • @issaadam867
      @issaadam867 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      MrsJazmine87 Fast and abstain or come we get married. Am In Africa, kenya ..27yrs.

  • @meccaaroma
    @meccaaroma 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Asalamualaykum if you have the money and your already over puberty then your ready enjoy life with your wife otherwise you hav no excuses this is the sunnah the sahaba (ra) would go to war and marry in their teens 15-19 you need to follow God Law and not your parents otherwise ur sinner may Allah (swt) forgive and guide us all
    asalamulakum
    kalamullah DOT COMM
    islamreligion DOT COMM
    ebooks lectures bio of prophet swt

  • @meccaaroma
    @meccaaroma 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    asalamulakum please edit delete the part of video showing the ladies thank you

  • @meccaaroma
    @meccaaroma 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Asalamualaykum if you have the money and your already over puberty then your ready enjoy life with your wife otherwise you hav no excuses this is the sunnah the sahaba (ra) would go to war and marry in their teens 15-19 you need to follow God Law and not your parents otherwise ur sinner may Allah (swt) forgive and guide us all
    asalamulakum
    ,kalamullah good websites
    ,islamreligion is a website
    ree ebooks lectures bio of prophet swt

  • @Lovelylittlehijabi
    @Lovelylittlehijabi 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes, and I do not wish to marry. I will never trust a man again.

    • @abdulmukar2131
      @abdulmukar2131 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lovelylittlehijabi fear Allah

    • @ibijarani
      @ibijarani 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      So you don’t marry, what will u do. It’s like a person stay without food. He cannot survive without food. So either you want to marry with respect with a person who pay you price and dignity for whole life or someone pay for one night

    • @martinrobert6688
      @martinrobert6688 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ibijarani You don't need sex to live bro. You can't compare food and nourishment to sex.....

    • @shaima1549
      @shaima1549 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Martin Robert lol he doesn’t only mean sex
      So what, you get married only for sex? Bruh, it’s companionship and family
      It’s half of muslims deen
      So yes, we have to get married

    • @aleksanderblinn4492
      @aleksanderblinn4492 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@martinrobert6688 its a physical need that needs a ligitimate outlet.

  • @salwamuslimah5648
    @salwamuslimah5648 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    agree

  • @razeyusufsonofaisha8726
    @razeyusufsonofaisha8726 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    this brothers actions make me sick ...audu bilah . may Allah guide this man

    • @Meetingpeoplefive
      @Meetingpeoplefive 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Raze yusuf son of a'isha
      What brother are you speaking about?

  • @Lovelylittlehijabi
    @Lovelylittlehijabi 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks but I will pass. I am not interested in even a possibility. I am very happy to be alone. However, thank you. I hold no ill will to men I am just no longer needing a man to complete me. :)
    But I will keep my prayers for those who do want to marry and find someone.

  • @mayhemmike1789
    @mayhemmike1789 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Take a look into history.... has religion solved anything? Or only made things worse?

  • @Amaadification
    @Amaadification 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Number one" what i would say is, not to show women on camera in Islamic lectures. Sheikh Suhaib Fear Allah.

  • @jamesmangan1410
    @jamesmangan1410 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You're scary

  • @ClubHead
    @ClubHead 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    There’s only one God and that’s Christ.Wake up worshiping selfish gods. Christ died for us that we can have salvation. Behold the lamb of God .

  • @yasinsong5657
    @yasinsong5657 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    But what if you don't want to be in a relationship? (getting married)

    • @sadiqasg
      @sadiqasg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Then don't.
      But also abstain from zina

    • @moflow66
      @moflow66 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don’t leave the sunna of the prophet, study marriage itself and reconsider