This is my husband every day. For twenty-eight years! Pouring out his life for God and serving his family. I am humbled by it every day and am grateful to God for allowing me to have him for just a moment. Peach on Matt!
Glad to know Im not the only one! Sounds line the rest of the listeners are super angelic saintly christians... maybe we’ll get there some day. Lets just try to get today right! 🙏🏻
The ministry is that we are so consumed in things that have no spiritual gain. To end our day with the way we should start our day. God first ! We as men have to lead our household. Blessings Matt.
I couldn’t agree more, cuz in a man’s boredom is where the devil attacks the most cuz you’re a perfect target for your mind to be oppressed with sinful thoughts… 😬
@@Captain_Of_A_Starship Yeah good job Satan indeed. Chandler and co make it all about the woman. Evidence that God's perfect order God head of Christ Christ head of man Man head of woman has been replaced with that one : Satan head of woman Woman head of man Enjoy the curse on the post modern church that Christ allows. Because unlike the crap they preach with women getting over their husbands through sentimental love and stuff like "leading by example" , Christ will always have the last say on his church.
Wow even though I'm a single 28 year man who works one job, I'm exhausted even though I have some free time, but often that free time is some form of work as well. Wow what an encouraging and powerful lesson.
@@peternygren3215 And the true culprit is the woman who is never ever told her godly duties (Eph 5:25 / Titus 2:4 / 1 Co7:5) anymore. Chandler is running an emotional harem and the eunuchs are the husbands sitting in the pew like a little boy sits in the classroom .
As a women this DOES offend me. He is absolutely railing men and I cannot find where he ever truly calls out the sins of women. They all get a pass because they “have low self esteem” or they “aren’t recognized”. The very closest he comes is by saying “women fall short of the glory if God” (in other sermons) which we do, but how about call out our actual sins? Instead of this pandering “oh ladies, don’t be offended, but I’m about to side up with you and talk about how horrible of a job your husbands are doing, and I’m gonna make you feel like you have an excuse to deny him sex if he dares to come to bed all chipper!”
reading the comments below, mostly from men, I am astounded how they have twisted what Matt has said and show zero understanding of his message. You guys should listen to his other sermons on the role of men in marriage and relationships
@ Mathew Peter SO strange that the Bible always focuses more on a wife's conduct than on the husband's . But all those manginas have it backwards of course. It is all about deceiving women into thinking they are so perfect and so obedient ... WHY does not the Bible have a passage like Proverbs 31 for husbands ?? Do those so called preachers who are always after men think they know better than God himself ? The truth is , when you focus on how a WIFE should behave , marriages are strong . When you focus on how husbands should behave to please their controlling wife , marriages go down the drain. It is a matter of female psyche because women are more demanding and changing than men.
You are correct in one way, wrong in another. Wether or not you believe me, I could care either way, but a majority of young ladies that were "Christian" decided I wasn't bad boy enough material to date. Big Christian women, but not good enough Christian man. Seems logical. So, the best I figure it, remaining single has had great promise for me. I've had more money, a vehicle and no more ex's dumping me because "I lost my job".
I don't think that's where Chandler was heading. I've listened to many of his sermons and he is VERY against anything related to the prosperity gospel.
+postwardreamz well I am very sorry to hear your story. I once did a "poverty simulation" where I spent a few days living in poverty, and I can understand where you come from. And I agree - many large churches tend to ignore the poor. I am blessed to attend a fairly large church that ignores no one (it's not Chandler's, but I do disagree with you in that you think his church is promoting the American Dream). The reality is, EVERYONE needs Jesus, not just the poor. Yes, they do need Him. But so do rich people, so do businessmen, so do students, I could go on and on. And I will support any church that works to being people to Jesus. Different churches succeed in different demographics. I am blessed to be in a well-rounded church.
@ Faith Anne RichardsonPlease don't pretend and be honest as a woman !You perfectly know deep down Inside that the kind of man those religious nuts preach is a turn off for us.Such sermons have no biblical basis at all.A man cannot lead and be a servant at the same time !! This makes absolutely no sense.Whether he leads and he is in authority , or he serves and is NOT in authority.We hate deep down Inside men who serve us .
Faith Anne Richardson with all due respect. you dont speak for all women. Jesus was a leader and served so ridiculously that He was willing to be mutilated on a Cross for us all. Therefore my biblical training shows me men are to be the greatest of servants and I am so grateful for Godly men who love and help women out of love for Christ.
@108674477182907859260 I guess husbands , hated as they are today by churchianity , should also be physically crucified , right ? Jesus died once for all on the cross but now he is sitting on a throne and his church SUBMITS to him , right ? Your feminised theology is flawed and dangerous. This is such flawed theologically that turns so called Christian women into arrogant self entitled princesses who are never accountable for all their sins. Jesus servant ? Jesus himself says that he rebukes and punishes the one he loves. If a husband is to love LIKE Christ , he must have exactly the same rights as Christ to exercise authority . Otherwise his leadership is a joke.
This is why the whole sermon should be uploaded not just snippets. Sounds like he's referring to a marriage. Marriage is not one man doing everything while the wife do nothing, which sounds like what he's trying to say. Why did he not mention what wives are supposed to do when their husbands come home tired from slaving all day? This is like the church (bride of Christ) telling Jesus that what He's doing is just not enough when we should actually be thankful. If you're going to call out men you should also call out women. Otherwise this is nothing but pure pandering and you're putting Christ's label in it. Worse, this is what Jesus warned about of people who put heavy burdens on other people's shoulders but will not lift a finger to help them (Matthew 23:4).
Goddess Cult / Feminism posing as Christian. How could he call out the woman since he is hard into woman worshipping ? Debasing men in front of women called to submit to them and revere them... Good job Satan.
So what do we do as married women of God and you're going to be exhausted from doing a man's role because your husband isn't doing what he's called to do? Continuously be exhausted continuously stay when he's refusing to carry out his role in Christ.
Goodness. The average gamer is a 35 year old man. Lots of time. He was making 12,000 per year when he got married. Please listen. Headship comes from men.
I wonder how it feels to be loved by a real christian man. My "christian" husband is always angry and critical. I am tired of submitting to someone who is pursuing his dreams but not his family. I ask him to lead but he makes excuses every time. Do I just lead my family to Christ or is that out of order?
1 peter 3:1-2 Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives, when they see your respectful and pure conduct. there are ways to be loving and submissive to try and ignite a fire in your husband to lead and serve well, but for you to take control and lead would be going against God's design for marriage. Work on yourself, and he will be won over by your behavior. Also pray that God would show up in his life. Hope this is relevant 5 months later. God bless!
Christ called you to submit. You must decide if you will obey or disobey that order as you have free will. Anger is not a sin, only choosing to sin while angry is a sin.
One thousand years ago traveling Hebrews gave Russians a thing they called "King David's Art." The Hebrews apparently forgot it. The Russians didn't. It is called Russian Martial Art Systema, and it is taught in Toronto, Canada. Look it up. This man needs it. This pastor.
This is a Godly man. Not some wack job. He speaks God's truth. If you are offended by this lesson, then you don't love the Lord. And you are fooling yourself that you have true salvation. It's all in the Bible. An as I always say, I'd rather be dead right than dead wrong. Love the Lord with all your heart, and all you soul. No other choice.
Kea Jonjon Actually I do know him. Obviously you don't. Those are not "feel good sermons". They are biblical based lessons. But we don't have to agree. We only have to do God's will, snd spread the Gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ. Anyway. Our church, Harvest Bible Chapel is having our Act Like Men Conference in Chicago next week. I hope you're going to be there. It will be awesome.
Phillip Edward Van Lear My comment wasn't geared towards you. I agree with you 100%! I was replying to postwardreamz. I love Chandler! I'm purchasing one of his books today actually.
My wife is grateful for my lack of faith. When I tell her about my past life as a Christian, she knows we'd never be good together if I'd stayed that way.
But, matt is correct, I am single because of my faithless attitude of believing in a great woman anymore. There is a lot about me I care to change. But don't mock me matthew.
This is the guy who preaches that single men are not contributing to the kingdom if they're not pursuing marriage. I have the freedom to serve where and how I feel led without a wife and family dragging me down.
Bruce Courtney Paul didn't have an issue with lustful temptations. If you don't deal with those and can focus on Christ without being distracted by your flesh go for it. 1 Corinthians 7:9 tells us that if you lack self-control in that area, it's better to marry because then you can enjoy it as husband and wife guilt free. Also, I do believe somewhere in Genesis we are told to "be fruitful and multiply," and you can't do that running around being single while pleasing God now can you. If you've never been married don't knock it, my wife is amazing. I'd rather chill out with her before my guy friends ANY day! You're missing out brother
Give me one verse in the Bible, Old or New Testament, that says a husband must "serve" his wife. This pastor has said it at least twice, and I've only watched two and a half minutes of it. Just show me, chapter and verse, the formulation which says "the Christian husband must serve his wife".
Errr...Husbands love your wives as Christ loved the church - Ephesians 5:25; The Son of man came not to be served but to serve - Matt 20:28. So to love like Jesus you must serve. A Husband's duty is to love his wife (Eph 5:25), make her happy (Deut 24:5) and make her more Christ-like (Eph 5:26) and ultimately, if necessary, die for her (Eph 5:25). If you think that you can love someone without serving them then you haven't figured out love yet.
@ mcgoodle You are right. This is absolutely wrong and devilish since it just puts the right divine order (woman made for man and not man made for woman) upside down. Christ does NOT serve his church ! It is his church that serves him. The hersy of servant leadership applied to marriage is recent and has led to the breakdown of countless Christian marriages. This "servant leadership" thing was told by Christ to MEN appointed to lead the flock. Not to marriage !!!! If anything , it is the wife who must serve , if we may say so, the husband because the woman was made FOR man . Notice that the Bible always insists on the duties of wives ' Titus 2/4 and how the word of God is maligned if they are not obeyed. You never find such a thing for husbands. Churchianity is NOT driven by the Holy Spirit but a pagan spirit of female worship which is from the earth , carnal , devilish. The first man who "served" his wife was ADAM . He did what she told him to do . It was the end of paradise and the beginning of hell... For the whole planet.
@@cwam1701e Deut 24:5 "he will rejoice the woman he just married" You know what it means to REJOICE a wife ? It means to HAVE SEX with her , what most emasculated churchians are now unable to do ! They are unable to take their wives because they are so afraid of their own sexual desires (constantly bashed by feminist false preachers) and have been deceived into thinking that they do not own their wife's body even MARRIED !! Such a sin in God's eyes that I fear God's judgment is not far .
Matt Chandlers premise in the beginning is a bit of a paradox. He starts with "I am primarily provoked by the spirit, don' get offended ladies, by our men!" Even when calling out men, he is still desperately pandering to women. Christian men as a whole are one of the most emasculated groups of men right after boys raised by single mothers. There are a few reasons for it, but Matt Chandler at this point is still trying to be politically correct on the issue. Emasculation of men starts in childhood and its done primarily by women, the sooner men stop pandering to women when trying to fix these issues the sooner there will be change. Men have allowed women to define manhood for too long, it does not work that way.
And people that want to know what he has to say about women, there is a whole series about men and women. This is the one about flaws in women th-cam.com/video/Lr_lBw0nLRM/w-d-xo.html
Yes, run for your lives ladies! A man who will put you and your children's needs before his own, and serve you with love and selflessness! That's just simply terrifying! You are definitely not from the same planet as 99% of the women I know.
@ Gadsden RunnignwaterIt was the women who was made FOR the man , not the reverse.So , teaching men to serve their wives is unbiblical , disgraceful and highly emasculating.So called Christian women may feel like pampered princesses here on Earth , manipulating men like Delilhas manipulated Samson , but one day , they will get their bitter reward believe me.And men who harken to the deceived voice of their wives (deceived by false teachings and man bashing preachers ) will have a tough time .
Isabelle M Yes, Eve was made to be Adam's helper. Yes, the role of leadership belongs to the husband. No, service in marriage is not unbiblical, disgraceful, or emasculating. Let's take a quick moment and think biblically- Christ and his relationship with the Church is the foundation and model for marriage. Christ is the husband, and the Church is his bride. (If we can't agree on this point, there is no purpose in me further engaging you, and I would suggest you study your bible.) Matthew 20:v28 says "...the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” The word "many" here is referring to Christians, ie. the Church, ie. Christ's bride. Now if Christ, who is undoubtedly greater, stronger, and in every way better than you, me, and humanity, came to SERVE his bride (the Church), and biblical marriage is a model of Christ and his bride, it is clearly biblical for a husband to serve his wife, while maintaining the leadership role. What on earth do you think it means when Paul writes "Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her." ? "gave himself up for her" That's called service. It is neither unbiblical, disgraceful, or emasculating, and I have to question whether you are at all familiar with the biblical doctrine of marriage, for your brazen and seemingly arrogant lack of knowledge in this area.
Matthew Dyer The woman was made for the man , not the reverse. And it is the Church who serves Christ , not the reverse. A man cannot be in leadership and serve. Whether he is the master or he is the servant . He cannot be both . God wanted his people to SERVE him with joy. Not the opposite. Anyway , a man who serves a woman is a turn off for any woman , women being made to respond to man and submit and adapt to him. Jesus came to serve God , his Father . Not his bride !! It is the bride (Church) that serves him and does his will . Not the opposite. Husbands who "serve" end up emasculated and scorned . They have no authority at all and just let their wives take over. The servant stuff is a great satanic trick to strip men of their authority and teach them to walk on egg shells with their wives and treat them like pampered princesses . Even in bed , they walk on eggshells ! They are so afraid to be men , so afraid of their own desires and sex drive .. Men have been stripped of what is most attractive to us, what is most arousing : their manliness , their audacity . They fear themselves , they fear to rebuke a rebellious wife. They are taught the lie that they have just duties and no rights. No right to rebuke , no right to scold if necessary , no right to discipline like Christ ( though they are supposed to be a Christ figure !) How unattractive ! What a turn off ! They are taught to "love" us like wimps , with no authority at all. They have just embraced the female role , submissive , passive ..* It is scary. They are taught by so many religious nuts that they have to do the house chores and if they don't , they don't "love" their wives and don't "serve" them. What a lie ! Men doing feminine things is so unattractive ! We just scorn those men. What a disgrace ! You apparently have no idea how the female psyche works. Women don't expect men to serve them. That is not how the female psyche works. When those unbiblical nuts tell men (in sexual matters) to put their wife's desires before themselves , they really have no idea how our psyche works.Or they do it purposely in order to ruin marriage and be able to write more oïl sanke books that will never fix anything. They have it all wrong . We women are aroused by a man who puts HIS desires first and we naturally respond to them. Not a wimp who is taught to "serve" us even in the marriage bed !! We crave men who say like GOD said to Israel , his bride(in Ezekiel if I'm not mistaken) : I want MY pleasure in you . To learn more about the female psyche , I just suggest you consider all the women who succumbed for Fifty Shades of Grey ...Christian Grey , the great turn on who says I want not what do you want . Ok , this book is not Christian ..but it speaks volumes .
The first minute of this video is already intrusive. This guy is given to much angst on other men's free time. It actually sounds like he is projecting. Guys like him push and peddle guilt in their sermons to heighten everyone's opinion of their superiority. Don't expect other people to live your walk. Each man is the Lord's not yours.
we need more message like that for men they have lost it long time most of them is full with themselves and expect so much from women when they should be running the house
Zero biblical evidence to back this up. Being tired isn't the goal. Being obedient is the command. Will being obedient make you tired? Maybe. But that's not the goal. Trust and obey. The rest is not your concern.
What if his wife wants to be the one pulling in the drive rather than stuck at home cooking. But what the hell is he ranting about ? Can't people have hobbies ? What do we do at the weekend.? What is he so afraid might happen if a man feels perky? If it is a case of screaming sex dread then why does he yell at people to get married? Nutcase
a lot of people (including MC) have missed the point. The life of Jesus did not go: "born, childhood, learning, got job, got married, got house, spent every possible free minute (not employed making money and not in synagogue one morning a week) at home with wifey and kiddos, died". There is life beyond the family. There is a certain section of the "church" which is so "familied-up" (having a tunnel vision about the home and family, to the exclusion of being concerned about neighbours, friends, neighbourhood, country, international matters, never mind involved in anything outside the home and family) that they would be completely unrecognisable to Paul and the disciples who spread the gospel. Jesus did not say "go, marry and breed disciples in your families only" he said "go, and make disciples, baptising them....."etc). I fear that there are many people who are religiously seen once a week doing the waving your hands in the air to a rock band and saying "Lord, Lord" routine, but the way they hide behind the home front door 6.5 days a week is a good indication of how likely Jesus will say "get away. I do not know you". There is more to Christian life than "staying home with the family". If your "pastor" is only interested in staying home with the family, he is like one of those bad shepherds who neglect the flock, he is lazy. But we are not called to follow "pastor XYZ" we are called to follow Jesus. And he was not famous for "staying home with the family every minute he wasn't doing carpentry to buy things for the home". A lot of people need to get rid of their TVs, because TVs exist mainly to sell advertising for consumer goods and services designed to make money out of people who do nothing but staying home with the family. The de facto religion of these people is not "Christianity" it is "familidolatry" because they have made an idol of the family. Advertisers sell them images of "the ideal home" (always a few $ out of reach, to make you dissatisfied and buy more product), and make sure that if you were not that boring and blinkered already, you soon will be, because you won't get information about much else. They will brainwash you into "familidolatry" (of which their promoted product is such an essential part, if you believe everything you see on TV) by starving you of any alternative ideas. Be wise to their agenda.
That's in reference to the perversion of the Jewish Pharisaical system which says you must work night and day for righteousness. His message is: my yoke is easy, you aren't bound by the pursuit of righteousness anymore. He is definitely not saying your life is gonna be really easy once you become a Christian. Ask Paul if you think that
@@wandervision69it because of the holy spirit another helper sent to us our yoke is easy . If we have a yoke we are slave . We can either be a slave to sin which leads to death or slave to christ that leads to life . actually Jesus said if you love me you will obey my commandments if you don't love me you want obey me . His camandmetes are to love your God with all your heart and souls and to love your neighbours and even your enemies as your self. It is impossible for a man on his to do this as it will lead to self righteousness and pride but when we are born agian we are given a new heart and new creature in christ is formed in us and if we are lead by the holy spirit we are walking with christ into to the narrow path that leads to life.
This is a complete joke. Why? Where is Matt's video on calling out women? Search for it on TH-cam and see if you can find it. It's not there. Matt likes to talk loud and deepen his voice to try and be bold and address the problems with men, but I tell you, the real test to see if he is bold and true to God is if he is that bold and loud to call out the WOMEN. Anyone can address men like that, and what will most do? Pat him on the back and applaud and tell him what a godly man he is for standing up to those bad men. I want to see him do the same to the women, but you most likely won't find that. Why? Simple. Because society is so backwards that most households are, in actuality, more controlled by emboldened, masculinized, fearless women who have a strong sense of entitlement over their castrated, neutered, feminized, limp-wristed, sissified husbands. In today's age, women are always assumed to be the victims, and men are always assumed to be in the wrong. Matt and many other leaders have fallen into this feminist-driven trend, and that is unrighteous. Sure, in doctrine the man is technically recognized as the head, but it is often the women who truly run the show, weaponizing their bodies to control men, twisting and manipulating their husbands in many subtle ways, full of insubordination and rebellion toward their husbands, to gain true control and headship in the family. THAT'S why you won't find a video of Mr. Tough Talking Matt Chandler addressing the rebellious woman! It's because if you address and call out the woman, you often times get to the very source of issues and some extremely ugly truths. And the rebellious, insubordinate, entitled woman HATES that, because just like JEZEBEL, she hates the true men of God who are without bias and without respect of persons in their rebuke and reproof of people. If Mr. Tough Talking Matt Chandler was truly bold and honest and righteous, he would call out the WOMEN just as much, if not MORE, as he does the men. But Matt doesn't want to offend the women. He doesn't want to offend the ones who are truly running the show in the households. Why? Because if you offend the insubordinate woman, who really wears the pants, then you offend the whole household, and then families leave, and that means you lose membership/numbers, which ultimately leads to losing, yeah, you guessed it - $$$. Just like Ed Young said, "It's all about the MONEY". Your castrated leaders of churches need to grow another pair of testicles and get a godly backbone to REBUKE evil men AND evil women. Your rebuking the men is a pathetic, soft, poor excuse for a rebuke, and you won't even dare give that limp-wristed rebuke to woMEN, will you? Shame on you. It's time for you to start strongly confronting men in their sin and calling out and strongly confronting the women for dressing like WHORES, being insubordinate and rebellious towards their husbands, etc. But no. You exalt women into places they should not be. You bring women into positions of leadership in many different ministries. You have the audacity to bring women into positions of teaching and asserting authority over the men. You commit the same sin as Adam did in giving in to Eve. You will reap the rotten fruit of what you've sown. Those women will bring in even more heresy and false gospels than what the men have brought in. It's time to repent, and obey the God of the Bible, Jesus Christ, the Holy One.
Matt is not a joke. I would encourage you to pray about it and listen to it again. Matt is a man, calling out men, because that's what God put on his heart to do. If you want to hear someone calling out women, go listen to his wife! She's doing that!
@ Texas Street Preacher Exactly. Anyone who follows their dumb sermons on YT can tell who they pander to , but those people were predicted in the Bible . They are leading the flock astray , but actually as we say , people get the leaders they deserve. Churchians do not open a Bible because they have no love of truth inside . Thye believe what churches and pastors do or tell . Actually , their female worship is a reflection of what they really do : they follow the wife (church) , not the husband ( Christ) ! They are led astray , and their temples of Venus are full of spiritual deflection and moral corruption ( Isaiah 3/12) .
This is such bs. People work too much nowadays but some guy who never did wage labour is yelling at them for not working enough. whatever I guess slaves shall serve.
Forgive him. He's working with people who've been told for too long that they're beautiful and unique snowflakes while their lives increasingly wreck. And like he also says, would it be good and right for a surgeon to tell someone with a tumor that they should just take long walks and smile more? Or should she do the hard thing of cutting out the tumor?
***** Now it sounds like you don't know the Village. But I get it -- as far as the bias against megachurches goes. You're just not largely right here -- except with the hypocrites part. But that part makes me think you've not listened to Matt either. He talks a great deal about hypocrisy in the church as well. I would warn against your small-church bigotry, though, which doesn't sound Christian at all.
@@Fakeslimshady The truth is NOT preached. It was the woman who was made for and because of man but those "sermons" make people believe it is the reverse. Strange that when women were told their duties with no compromize , marriages were strong , right ? Who could deny it ? You know why ? Because men are easier to satisfy than we are. Once you start to tell a man what he has to do for his wife , this can go on for ever , the list never ends !!! A man will tell you that what he expects from his wife is good meals , a nice home with peace , and regular sex. As curious as it may seem ( but then you see that it really comes from the Lord) , there is a passage in the OT where God let women expect three things from a husband : food , shelter and sex !!! As simple as that. God is straightforward . But we women tend to want more and more and never be satisfied with what we have. Once the church started to focus on male to female duties (I don't know when that happened ) , it just set up tons of marriages for failure. That is why you have all those dumb marriage counselings now , which never fix anything . All those uninspired sermons which never repair all the evil done by false preachings to Christianity. And since "Christians" are often too lazy to open a Bible and check out like Berean Christians used to do , you get that garbage. More and more henpecking will only make things worse. These teachers have absolutely no idea how the female psyche works . God knows . But they don't.
@@framboise595 I was being sarcastic Isabelle lol. Of course the number of "butthurt" people is no indication of truth. But these women and white knights don't get it.
@ Shepard Abraham Being misandrist is very up to date. It is the sign our western world is on the verge to collapse but those "preachers" do not care. They never call out WOMEN who are the true culprits who initiated the feminist rebellion among ordinary people and said devilish things like " My body my choice" and were taught over and over to not submit to their husbands anymore. These men look as if they were living on planet X where feminism does not exist ...
So ... WHEN are you EVER going to speak up on that ACTUAL failures of WOMEN to their husbands??? HOW is laying around the house all day long watching The View in an EXCUSE to “raise the children” (who are AT SCHOOL ALL DAY) fulfilling her role as a HELPER???
Look at Proverbs 31 and youll see some of a women's role. Note that her not Fulfilling her role absolutely doesn't excuse you as a man to miss your role. It takes both to make it work and when it's broken it takes one person to step up and meet their role and the other prayerfully will follow in time.
nah we go to bed full of energy cause we have transportation and,convince of finding food. no one hunts on foot with a spear unless your a third world,country lol
Something about this guy is off to me. If he's allowed through the pearly gates then I want a nice chat with him. If not, then I won't feel bad AT ALL. I may even crack a smile 😈
What man, in his reasonable mind, wants this kind of slavery? We were meant to be adventurous, hunters, creators, not house cats. Sure, some days require more attention in the house than others, but to live exhausted for a woman for 30 or 40 years. All men know deep inside this is insanity! No wonder David, who had 700 women to chose from, loved Jonathan more than any of them. Men are meant to socialize with men, not to be kept as a house relics like women or these kinds of pastors want us to be.
I just worked 60 hours this week and as I pulled into my driveway I remembered this and I’m sitting in my car coz man I needed this. 👊🏻❤️
Daniel Hagans awesome bro! Fight the good fight. Lean in to Jesus :)
This is my husband every day. For twenty-eight years! Pouring out his life for God and serving his family. I am humbled by it every day and am grateful to God for allowing me to have him for just a moment. Peach on Matt!
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Easy; she didn’t have a FRIEND ZONE.
lepardpaw matt is your husband. I feel sorry you matried such a weakling
convicted, God was putting this on my heart, that im getting lazy and that im losing the zeal and love for the glory of Christ
Me to brother! I feel you on that!
Glad to know Im not the only one! Sounds line the rest of the listeners are super angelic saintly christians... maybe we’ll get there some day. Lets just try to get today right! 🙏🏻
The ministry is that we are so consumed in things that have no spiritual gain. To end our day with the way we should start our day. God first ! We as men have to lead our household. Blessings Matt.
"A bored man is a dangerous man"
Andrew Wilson idle hands are the devils play things.
I couldn’t agree more, cuz in a man’s boredom is where the devil attacks the most cuz you’re a perfect target for your mind to be oppressed with sinful thoughts… 😬
CHANDLER IS the dangerous man .
Good. A spent man is a pacified man.
Such strong, firmness, Spirit-filled man of God preaching.
As a single man this is some fire stuff 🔥 that I'll definitely use when I become a married man.
he didnt say anything for single men we have more free time than married men
This doctrine will probably turn your wife into a husband and a husband into a divorced man.
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Yeah good job Satan indeed.
Chandler and co make it all about the woman. Evidence that God's perfect order
God head of Christ
Christ head of man
Man head of woman
has been replaced with that one :
Satan head of woman
Woman head of man
Enjoy the curse on the post modern church that Christ allows. Because unlike the crap they preach with women getting over their husbands through sentimental love and stuff like "leading by example" , Christ will always have the last say on his church.
This message just GAVE ME LIFE!
Wow even though I'm a single 28 year man who works one job, I'm exhausted even though I have some free time, but often that free time is some form of work as well. Wow what an encouraging and powerful lesson.
If you are scared of what strong men can do, wait until you see the evil of weak men.
This is awesome, its only offensive when its true. Men go against the grain, we need great men in this world.
No. It’s offensive when the TRUE culprit is dismissed, and the victim is piled on ...
@@peternygren3215
And the true culprit is the woman who is never ever told her godly duties (Eph 5:25 / Titus 2:4 / 1 Co7:5) anymore.
Chandler is running an emotional harem and the eunuchs are the husbands sitting in the pew like a little boy sits in the classroom .
@@framboise595 Also 1 Peter 3:1-6
@@wolfgangsebastian8357
Exactly.
i am not offended by stupidity
I’m exhausted at the end of the day, but thanks to anxiety and stress for that.
Get real help man - get help from someone who isn't a bullshitter, Owen cook, marczell
Okay, I'm a woman, but this is fantastic. I love that he's talking to men, but oh my gosh I appreciate this!
WOW WOW WOW. I needed this.
As a women this DOES offend me. He is absolutely railing men and I cannot find where he ever truly calls out the sins of women. They all get a pass because they “have low self esteem” or they “aren’t recognized”. The very closest he comes is by saying “women fall short of the glory if God” (in other sermons) which we do, but how about call out our actual sins? Instead of this pandering “oh ladies, don’t be offended, but I’m about to side up with you and talk about how horrible of a job your husbands are doing, and I’m gonna make you feel like you have an excuse to deny him sex if he dares to come to bed all chipper!”
reading the comments below, mostly from men, I am astounded how they have twisted what Matt has said and show zero understanding of his message. You guys should listen to his other sermons on the role of men in marriage and relationships
@ Mathew Peter
SO strange that the Bible always focuses more on a wife's conduct than on the husband's .
But all those manginas have it backwards of course. It is all about deceiving women into thinking they are so perfect and so obedient ...
WHY does not the Bible have a passage like Proverbs 31 for husbands ??
Do those so called preachers who are always after men think they know better than God himself ?
The truth is , when you focus on how a WIFE should behave , marriages are strong . When you focus on how husbands should behave to please their controlling wife , marriages go down the drain.
It is a matter of female psyche because women are more demanding and changing than men.
AMEN PREACH!!!!!
You are correct in one way, wrong in another. Wether or not you believe me, I could care either way, but a majority of young ladies that were "Christian" decided I wasn't bad boy enough material to date. Big Christian women, but not good enough Christian man. Seems logical. So, the best I figure it, remaining single has had great promise for me. I've had more money, a vehicle and no more ex's dumping me because "I lost my job".
Amen brother!
Today family BOTH are coming homes from jobs. Many the woman is the breadwinner so I really couldn't relate . Thanks for Sharing
Since when did the glorification of the American Dream become a substitute for the Gospel to all people?
I don't think that's where Chandler was heading. I've listened to many of his sermons and he is VERY against anything related to the prosperity gospel.
+postwardreamz you are sure they would be ushered into that section? Let me ask you - have you been to his church?
+postwardreamz well I am very sorry to hear your story. I once did a "poverty simulation" where I spent a few days living in poverty, and I can understand where you come from. And I agree - many large churches tend to ignore the poor. I am blessed to attend a fairly large church that ignores no one (it's not Chandler's, but I do disagree with you in that you think his church is promoting the American Dream). The reality is, EVERYONE needs Jesus, not just the poor. Yes, they do need Him. But so do rich people, so do businessmen, so do students, I could go on and on. And I will support any church that works to being people to Jesus. Different churches succeed in different demographics. I am blessed to be in a well-rounded church.
What is the American dream about ?
$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$
Love of money a root of all evils .
I watch this video at least twice every year
This man speaks the truth!
Lol.....I have never gone to bed without being tired in 38 years
OH MY WORD. THIS IS AMAZING.
@ Faith Anne RichardsonPlease don't pretend and be honest as a woman !You perfectly know deep down Inside that the kind of man those religious nuts preach is a turn off for us.Such sermons have no biblical basis at all.A man cannot lead and be a servant at the same time !! This makes absolutely no sense.Whether he leads and he is in authority , or he serves and is NOT in authority.We hate deep down Inside men who serve us .
Faith Anne Richardson with all due respect. you dont speak for all women. Jesus was a leader and served so ridiculously that He was willing to be mutilated on a Cross for us all. Therefore my biblical training shows me men are to be the greatest of servants and I am so grateful for Godly men who love and help women out of love for Christ.
@108674477182907859260
I guess husbands , hated as they are today by churchianity , should also be physically crucified , right ?
Jesus died once for all on the cross but now he is sitting on a throne and his church SUBMITS to him , right ?
Your feminised theology is flawed and dangerous.
This is such flawed theologically that turns so called Christian women into arrogant self entitled princesses who are never accountable for all their sins.
Jesus servant ? Jesus himself says that he rebukes and punishes the one he loves.
If a husband is to love LIKE Christ , he must have exactly the same rights as Christ to exercise authority . Otherwise his leadership is a joke.
You have to call out both sides not just one.
How can you call out a side that you worship ?
Goddess Cult has replaced the worship of God in post modern church.
Thank You Jesus,
Just love his message.
This is why the whole sermon should be uploaded not just snippets. Sounds like he's referring to a marriage. Marriage is not one man doing everything while the wife do nothing, which sounds like what he's trying to say. Why did he not mention what wives are supposed to do when their husbands come home tired from slaving all day? This is like the church (bride of Christ) telling Jesus that what He's doing is just not enough when we should actually be thankful. If you're going to call out men you should also call out women. Otherwise this is nothing but pure pandering and you're putting Christ's label in it.
Worse, this is what Jesus warned about of people who put heavy burdens on other people's shoulders but will not lift a finger to help them (Matthew 23:4).
Goddess Cult / Feminism posing as Christian.
How could he call out the woman since he is hard into woman worshipping ?
Debasing men in front of women called to submit to them and revere them...
Good job Satan.
Wondering who didn’t like this message. Must be those that go to bed not tired.
Check on their heart. How is that done? Not a dad, not married, I just want to know how so I can if God allows me to become a dad.
How about checking her body in bed also ? Very effective for keeping safe from carnal temptations ...
So what do we do as married women of God and you're going to be exhausted from doing a man's role because your husband isn't doing what he's called to do? Continuously be exhausted continuously stay when he's refusing to carry out his role in Christ.
We pray and we do our best.
Great video- thanks for the challenge!
Does Mr Chandler ever call out the sins of women? I don't see that much and it's a shame because they are LEGION
Buckaroo Bonsaitree he does. I have seen it.
Buckaroo Bonsaitree man get out of here.
BuT wOmEn dO iT tOo 😢 why do you men do this? Listen and humble yourself
@@photina262 no, as a woman I agree with him.
Goodness. The average gamer is a 35 year old man. Lots of time. He was making 12,000 per year when he got married. Please listen. Headship comes from men.
you burn out if you are not in the right place.
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Love this message. Either you love God.....or you don't. Pretty simple. As for me. I'd rather be dead right than dead wrong. Praise God÷
I wonder how it feels to be loved by a real christian man. My "christian" husband is always angry and critical. I am tired of submitting to someone who is pursuing his dreams but not his family. I ask him to lead but he makes excuses every time. Do I just lead my family to Christ or is that out of order?
1 peter 3:1-2 Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives, when they see your respectful and pure conduct. there are ways to be loving and submissive to try and ignite a fire in your husband to lead and serve well, but for you to take control and lead would be going against God's design for marriage. Work on yourself, and he will be won over by your behavior. Also pray that God would show up in his life. Hope this is relevant 5 months later. God bless!
Christ called you to submit. You must decide if you will obey or disobey that order as you have free will. Anger is not a sin, only choosing to sin while angry is a sin.
One thousand years ago traveling Hebrews gave Russians a thing they called "King David's Art." The Hebrews apparently forgot it. The Russians didn't. It is called Russian Martial Art Systema, and it is taught in Toronto, Canada.
Look it up. This man needs it. This pastor.
I guess this is supposed to be encouraging but to a lot of men it’s just another list of things we aren’t doing. Try harder! Do more!
This is a Godly man. Not some wack job. He speaks God's truth. If you are offended by this lesson, then you don't love the Lord. And you are fooling yourself that you have true salvation. It's all in the Bible. An as I always say, I'd rather be dead right than dead wrong. Love the Lord with all your heart, and all you soul. No other choice.
Has he mentioned any bible verses?
te ui arii Tane Not in this 5 minute excerpt, but I'm sure he mentioned at least one during the whole sermon. ;)
***** have you watched any other of his sermons? Feel good sermons? Gosh you don't know this guy at all.
Kea Jonjon Actually I do know him. Obviously you don't. Those are not "feel good sermons". They are biblical based lessons. But we don't have to agree. We only have to do God's will, snd spread the Gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ. Anyway. Our church, Harvest Bible Chapel is having our Act Like Men Conference in Chicago next week. I hope you're going to be there. It will be awesome.
Phillip Edward Van Lear My comment wasn't geared towards you. I agree with you 100%! I was replying to postwardreamz. I love Chandler! I'm purchasing one of his books today actually.
Nice!!! An idol mind is the devils workshop. My English teacher from the 7th grade use to tell me that.
I know I shouldn't say this..but I wish i would have had a husband that believed in Christ and served the L-rd....
It's never too late for your husband to turn and love the Lord. Pray for him.
And there is nothing at all wrong with having that desire.
My wife is grateful for my lack of faith. When I tell her about my past life as a Christian, she knows we'd never be good together if I'd stayed that way.
Got time for getting "jammed up" Instagram though - time to work and time to rest. Rest is biblical.
Spot on like a dalmatian!
Convicting
Rich Boone Praise the Lord
How would he know how strong men are going to bed , has he been the other side of the bed, or has done some kind of survey ?
Years of counseling other people. Hearing other people's stories. Ya know, kind of like a survey
@emilywking your thoughts?
But, matt is correct, I am single because of my faithless attitude of believing in a great woman anymore. There is a lot about me I care to change. But don't mock me matthew.
Where is the whole Sermon???
I’ve never read any scriptures that back this up…
Eph 5:25 to the end of the chapter 👍
Love!!!
This is the guy who preaches that single men are not contributing to the kingdom if they're not pursuing marriage. I have the freedom to serve where and how I feel led without a wife and family dragging me down.
Source?
Can you share Bruce when he said as such, in context?
Bruce Courtney. you think you are happy, but the bible says he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord
Paul said I wish that everyone could be as I.
Bruce Courtney Paul didn't have an issue with lustful temptations. If you don't deal with those and can focus on Christ without being distracted by your flesh go for it. 1 Corinthians 7:9 tells us that if you lack self-control in that area, it's better to marry because then you can enjoy it as husband and wife guilt free. Also, I do believe somewhere in Genesis we are told to "be fruitful and multiply," and you can't do that running around being single while pleasing God now can you. If you've never been married don't knock it, my wife is amazing. I'd rather chill out with her before my guy friends ANY day! You're missing out brother
Give me one verse in the Bible, Old or New Testament, that says a husband must "serve" his wife. This pastor has said it at least twice, and I've only watched two and a half minutes of it. Just show me, chapter and verse, the formulation which says "the Christian husband must serve his wife".
Errr...Husbands love your wives as Christ loved the church - Ephesians 5:25; The Son of man came not to be served but to serve - Matt 20:28. So to love like Jesus you must serve. A Husband's duty is to love his wife (Eph 5:25), make her happy (Deut 24:5) and make her more Christ-like (Eph 5:26) and ultimately, if necessary, die for her (Eph 5:25). If you think that you can love someone without serving them then you haven't figured out love yet.
You mean the part where our husbands are called to love us as Christ loves the Church, which is a sacrificial, life-giving love?
@ mcgoodle
You are right. This is absolutely wrong and devilish since it just puts the right divine order (woman made for man and not man made for woman) upside down.
Christ does NOT serve his church ! It is his church that serves him. The hersy of servant leadership applied to marriage is recent and has led to the breakdown of countless Christian marriages.
This "servant leadership" thing was told by Christ to MEN appointed to lead the flock. Not to marriage !!!!
If anything , it is the wife who must serve , if we may say so, the husband because the woman was made FOR man . Notice that the Bible always insists on the duties of wives ' Titus 2/4 and how the word of God is maligned if they are not obeyed.
You never find such a thing for husbands.
Churchianity is NOT driven by the Holy Spirit but a pagan spirit of female worship which is from the earth , carnal , devilish.
The first man who "served" his wife was ADAM . He did what she told him to do . It was the end of paradise and the beginning of hell... For the whole planet.
@@cwam1701e
Deut 24:5 "he will rejoice the woman he just married"
You know what it means to REJOICE a wife ? It means to HAVE SEX with her , what most emasculated churchians are now unable to do ! They are unable to take their wives because they are so afraid of their own sexual desires (constantly bashed by feminist false preachers) and have been deceived into thinking that they do not own their wife's body even MARRIED !!
Such a sin in God's eyes that I fear God's judgment is not far .
is the full sermon out there somewhere??? what is it called?
@dssb3511
It is called
"More emasculation required in the dying Western world where women are running the show "
He sounds just like John Piper lol.
Spot on
Matt Chandlers premise in the beginning is a bit of a paradox. He starts with "I am primarily provoked by the spirit, don' get offended ladies, by our men!" Even when calling out men, he is still desperately pandering to women. Christian men as a whole are one of the most emasculated groups of men right after boys raised by single mothers. There are a few reasons for it, but Matt Chandler at this point is still trying to be politically correct on the issue. Emasculation of men starts in childhood and its done primarily by women, the sooner men stop pandering to women when trying to fix these issues the sooner there will be change. Men have allowed women to define manhood for too long, it does not work that way.
MaxMyrmyr lol wow you have issues
@@DontCallItAComeback8 he's correct
What does it mean to rest in Christ?
Beautiful!!!
New Challenge for all Godly husbands
+postwardreamz: i am guilty of letting others do my work. but actively fixing that. thank you for your comment.
And people that want to know what he has to say about women, there is a whole series about men and women. This is the one about flaws in women th-cam.com/video/Lr_lBw0nLRM/w-d-xo.html
if you don;t believe in total depravity...just read the comments.
I'm exhausted by just listening to this. I must be from a different planet. Run for your life ladies!!!!!!!!!
Yes, run for your lives ladies! A man who will put you and your children's needs before his own, and serve you with love and selflessness! That's just simply terrifying!
You are definitely not from the same planet as 99% of the women I know.
@ Gadsden RunnignwaterIt was the women who was made FOR the man , not the reverse.So , teaching men to serve their wives is unbiblical , disgraceful and highly emasculating.So called Christian women may feel like pampered princesses here on Earth , manipulating men like Delilhas manipulated Samson , but one day , they will get their bitter reward believe me.And men who harken to the deceived voice of their wives (deceived by false teachings and man bashing preachers ) will have a tough time .
Isabelle M
Yes, Eve was made to be Adam's helper. Yes, the role of leadership belongs to the husband. No, service in marriage is not unbiblical, disgraceful, or emasculating. Let's take a quick moment and think biblically-
Christ and his relationship with the Church is the foundation and model for marriage. Christ is the husband, and the Church is his bride. (If we can't agree on this point, there is no purpose in me further engaging you, and I would suggest you study your bible.) Matthew 20:v28 says "...the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” The word "many" here is referring to Christians, ie. the Church, ie. Christ's bride.
Now if Christ, who is undoubtedly greater, stronger, and in every way better than you, me, and humanity, came to SERVE his bride (the Church), and biblical marriage is a model of Christ and his bride, it is clearly biblical for a husband to serve his wife, while maintaining the leadership role.
What on earth do you think it means when Paul writes "Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her." ?
"gave himself up for her"
That's called service. It is neither unbiblical, disgraceful, or emasculating, and I have to question whether you are at all familiar with the biblical doctrine of marriage, for your brazen and seemingly arrogant lack of knowledge in this area.
Matthew Dyer
The woman was made for the man , not the reverse.
And it is the Church who serves Christ , not the reverse.
A man cannot be in leadership and serve. Whether he is the master or he is the servant . He cannot be both .
God wanted his people to SERVE him with joy. Not the opposite.
Anyway , a man who serves a woman is a turn off for any woman , women being made to respond to man and submit and adapt to him.
Jesus came to serve God , his Father . Not his bride !!
It is the bride (Church) that serves him and does his will . Not the opposite.
Husbands who "serve" end up emasculated and scorned . They have no authority at all and just let their wives take over.
The servant stuff is a great satanic trick to strip men of their authority and teach them to walk on egg shells with their wives and treat them like pampered princesses .
Even in bed , they walk on eggshells ! They are so afraid to be men , so afraid of their own desires and sex drive ..
Men have been stripped of what is most attractive to us, what is most arousing : their manliness , their audacity .
They fear themselves , they fear to rebuke a rebellious wife.
They are taught the lie that they have just duties and no rights.
No right to rebuke , no right to scold if necessary , no right to discipline like Christ ( though they are supposed to be a Christ figure !)
How unattractive ! What a turn off !
They are taught to "love" us like wimps , with no authority at all.
They have just embraced the female role , submissive , passive ..*
It is scary.
They are taught by so many religious nuts that they have to do the house chores and if they don't , they don't "love" their wives and don't "serve" them.
What a lie ! Men doing feminine things is so unattractive ! We just scorn those men.
What a disgrace !
You apparently have no idea how the female psyche works.
Women don't expect men to serve them. That is not how the female psyche works.
When those unbiblical nuts tell men (in sexual matters) to put their wife's desires before themselves , they really have no idea how our psyche works.Or they do it purposely in order to ruin marriage and be able to write more oïl sanke books that will never fix anything.
They have it all wrong . We women are aroused by a man who puts HIS desires first and we naturally respond to them.
Not a wimp who is taught to "serve" us even in the marriage bed !!
We crave men who say like GOD said to Israel , his bride(in Ezekiel if I'm not mistaken) : I want MY pleasure in you .
To learn more about the female psyche , I just suggest you consider all the women who succumbed for Fifty Shades of Grey ...Christian Grey , the great turn on who says I want not what do you want .
Ok , this book is not Christian ..but it speaks volumes .
Gadsden Runningwater
What about HIS needs and HIS will , you emasculating evangelical princess ?
It's good if he goes to bed full of energy . He will be able to render his wife the marital debt with vigor and strength ( 1 Corinthians 7:5) !!!!!!!
After that. 😉 That is part of "loving and serving Mama."
can someone tell me the title of the full sermon?
Lies from the pit of hell #364839. I think you can get it on iTunes.
The first minute of this video is already intrusive. This guy is given to much angst on other men's free time. It actually sounds like he is projecting. Guys like him push and peddle guilt in their sermons to heighten everyone's opinion of their superiority.
Don't expect other people to live your walk. Each man is the Lord's not yours.
we need more message like that for men they have lost it long time most of them is full with themselves and expect so much from women when they should be running the house
Wow.
All the work on the shoulders of men.. So is it wrong to be a single man?
@@rubenthompson5900 lol.ok.
i get it
Zero biblical evidence to back this up. Being tired isn't the goal. Being obedient is the command. Will being obedient make you tired? Maybe. But that's not the goal. Trust and obey. The rest is not your concern.
What if his wife wants to be the one pulling in the drive rather than stuck at home cooking. But what the hell is he ranting about ? Can't people have hobbies ? What do we do at the weekend.? What is he so afraid might happen if a man feels perky? If it is a case of screaming sex dread then why does he yell at people to get married? Nutcase
a lot of people (including MC) have missed the point.
The life of Jesus did not go: "born, childhood, learning, got job, got married, got house, spent every possible free minute (not employed making money and not in synagogue one morning a week) at home with wifey and kiddos, died".
There is life beyond the family.
There is a certain section of the "church" which is so "familied-up" (having a tunnel vision about the home and family, to the exclusion of being concerned about neighbours, friends, neighbourhood, country, international matters, never mind involved in anything outside the home and family) that they would be completely unrecognisable to Paul and the disciples who spread the gospel. Jesus did not say "go, marry and breed disciples in your families only" he said "go, and make disciples, baptising them....."etc). I fear that there are many people who are religiously seen once a week doing the waving your hands in the air to a rock band and saying "Lord, Lord" routine, but the way they hide behind the home front door 6.5 days a week is a good indication of how likely Jesus will say "get away. I do not know you".
There is more to Christian life than "staying home with the family".
If your "pastor" is only interested in staying home with the family, he is like one of those bad shepherds who neglect the flock, he is lazy. But we are not called to follow "pastor XYZ" we are called to follow Jesus. And he was not famous for "staying home with the family every minute he wasn't doing carpentry to buy things for the home".
A lot of people need to get rid of their TVs, because TVs exist mainly to sell advertising for consumer goods and services designed to make money out of people who do nothing but staying home with the family. The de facto religion of these people is not "Christianity" it is "familidolatry" because they have made an idol of the family. Advertisers sell them images of "the ideal home" (always a few $ out of reach, to make you dissatisfied and buy more product), and make sure that if you were not that boring and blinkered already, you soon will be, because you won't get information about much else. They will brainwash you into "familidolatry" (of which their promoted product is such an essential part, if you believe everything you see on TV) by starving you of any alternative ideas. Be wise to their agenda.
How does he even know how men are going to bed?? I feel like he gets his info from CNN, Disney and Hollywood.
Is he trying to tell me to have more sex
That's funny I thought Jesus said His yoke is easy and His burden is light.
That's in reference to the perversion of the Jewish Pharisaical system which says you must work night and day for righteousness. His message is: my yoke is easy, you aren't bound by the pursuit of righteousness anymore. He is definitely not saying your life is gonna be really easy once you become a Christian. Ask Paul if you think that
@@wandervision69it because of the holy spirit another helper sent to us our yoke is easy . If we have a yoke we are slave . We can either be a slave to sin which leads to death or slave to christ that leads to life . actually Jesus said if you love me you will obey my commandments if you don't love me you want obey me . His camandmetes are to love your God with all your heart and souls and to love your neighbours and even your enemies as your self. It is impossible for a man on his to do this as it will lead to self righteousness and pride but when we are born agian we are given a new heart and new creature in christ is formed in us and if we are lead by the holy spirit we are walking with christ into to the narrow path that leads to life.
This is a complete joke. Why? Where is Matt's video on calling out women? Search for it on TH-cam and see if you can find it. It's not there. Matt likes to talk loud and deepen his voice to try and be bold and address the problems with men, but I tell you, the real test to see if he is bold and true to God is if he is that bold and loud to call out the WOMEN. Anyone can address men like that, and what will most do? Pat him on the back and applaud and tell him what a godly man he is for standing up to those bad men. I want to see him do the same to the women, but you most likely won't find that.
Why? Simple. Because society is so backwards that most households are, in actuality, more controlled by emboldened, masculinized, fearless women who have a strong sense of entitlement over their castrated, neutered, feminized, limp-wristed, sissified husbands. In today's age, women are always assumed to be the victims, and men are always assumed to be in the wrong. Matt and many other leaders have fallen into this feminist-driven trend, and that is unrighteous. Sure, in doctrine the man is technically recognized as the head, but it is often the women who truly run the show, weaponizing their bodies to control men, twisting and manipulating their husbands in many subtle ways, full of insubordination and rebellion toward their husbands, to gain true control and headship in the family.
THAT'S why you won't find a video of Mr. Tough Talking Matt Chandler addressing the rebellious woman! It's because if you address and call out the woman, you often times get to the very source of issues and some extremely ugly truths. And the rebellious, insubordinate, entitled woman HATES that, because just like JEZEBEL, she hates the true men of God who are without bias and without respect of persons in their rebuke and reproof of people. If Mr. Tough Talking Matt Chandler was truly bold and honest and righteous, he would call out the WOMEN just as much, if not MORE, as he does the men. But Matt doesn't want to offend the women. He doesn't want to offend the ones who are truly running the show in the households. Why? Because if you offend the insubordinate woman, who really wears the pants, then you offend the whole household, and then families leave, and that means you lose membership/numbers, which ultimately leads to losing, yeah, you guessed it - $$$. Just like Ed Young said, "It's all about the MONEY".
Your castrated leaders of churches need to grow another pair of testicles and get a godly backbone to REBUKE evil men AND evil women. Your rebuking the men is a pathetic, soft, poor excuse for a rebuke, and you won't even dare give that limp-wristed rebuke to woMEN, will you? Shame on you. It's time for you to start strongly confronting men in their sin and calling out and strongly confronting the women for dressing like WHORES, being insubordinate and rebellious towards their husbands, etc.
But no. You exalt women into places they should not be. You bring women into positions of leadership in many different ministries. You have the audacity to bring women into positions of teaching and asserting authority over the men. You commit the same sin as Adam did in giving in to Eve. You will reap the rotten fruit of what you've sown. Those women will bring in even more heresy and false gospels than what the men have brought in. It's time to repent, and obey the God of the Bible, Jesus Christ, the Holy One.
Too much energy your fingers - do some work bro...
Matt is not a joke. I would encourage you to pray about it and listen to it again. Matt is a man, calling out men, because that's what God put on his heart to do. If you want to hear someone calling out women, go listen to his wife! She's doing that!
Wow he must have touched a nerve. Maybe you check on your heart. It seems there’s anger and hate and it’s not a godly anger. Pray on it
Part 7 of his beautiful design series is about where women fall short of what God has called them to. It’s on TH-cam.
@ Texas Street Preacher
Exactly. Anyone who follows their dumb sermons on YT can tell who they pander to , but those people were predicted in the Bible . They are leading the flock astray , but actually as we say , people get the leaders they deserve. Churchians do not open a Bible because they have no love of truth inside . Thye believe what churches and pastors do or tell .
Actually , their female worship is a reflection of what they really do : they follow the wife (church) , not the husband ( Christ) !
They are led astray , and their temples of Venus are full of spiritual deflection and moral corruption ( Isaiah 3/12) .
Matt chandler is what you get when you mix john piper with dane cook. The best of the best
The best of the best in heresy and feminised teaching you mean ?
Where is the SEX in those so called mariages ??
Hahaha love it!
This is such bs. People work too much nowadays but some guy who never did wage labour is yelling at them for not working enough. whatever I guess slaves shall serve.
wow, amazing that people would spend a long time listening to this man telling them they're crap - must be somewhere on the BDSM spectrum!!
Forgive him. He's working with people who've been told for too long that they're beautiful and unique snowflakes while their lives increasingly wreck. And like he also says, would it be good and right for a surgeon to tell someone with a tumor that they should just take long walks and smile more? Or should she do the hard thing of cutting out the tumor?
AndrewKendall71 real talk
God's truth
***** Sounds like you don't know many suburbanites :| :)
***** Now it sounds like you don't know the Village. But I get it -- as far as the bias against megachurches goes. You're just not largely right here -- except with the hypocrites part. But that part makes me think you've not listened to Matt either. He talks a great deal about hypocrisy in the church as well. I would warn against your small-church bigotry, though, which doesn't sound Christian at all.
A lot of butt-hurt "men" in this comment section- Must have really hit home.
Gadsden Runningwater Amen to this comment
Amen! The Bible teaches that number of butthurt people is proof of truth being preached!
Except this ISNT truth ...
@@Fakeslimshady
The truth is NOT preached.
It was the woman who was made for and because of man but those "sermons" make people believe it is the reverse.
Strange that when women were told their duties with no compromize , marriages were strong , right ? Who could deny it ?
You know why ? Because men are easier to satisfy than we are. Once you start to tell a man what he has to do for his wife , this can go on for ever , the list never ends !!!
A man will tell you that what he expects from his wife is good meals , a nice home with peace , and regular sex.
As curious as it may seem ( but then you see that it really comes from the Lord) , there is a passage in the OT where God let women expect three things from a husband : food , shelter and sex !!!
As simple as that.
God is straightforward . But we women tend to want more and more and never be satisfied with what we have.
Once the church started to focus on male to female duties (I don't know when that happened ) , it just set up tons of marriages for failure.
That is why you have all those dumb marriage counselings now , which never fix anything . All those uninspired sermons which never repair all the evil done by false preachings to Christianity.
And since "Christians" are often too lazy to open a Bible and check out like Berean Christians used to do , you get that garbage.
More and more henpecking will only make things worse.
These teachers have absolutely no idea how the female psyche works . God knows . But they don't.
@@framboise595 I was being sarcastic Isabelle lol. Of course the number of "butthurt" people is no indication of truth. But these women and white knights don't get it.
Na I'm tired.
How great is this in light of the recent developments. This guy is a joke.
why is he yelling.
hes a lunatic
Exactly
Blame sportsball. The amount of grown men obsessed with football is embarrassing.
I think Matt Chandler should try a steroid cycle
Misandrist
@ Shepard Abraham
Being misandrist is very up to date. It is the sign our western world is on the verge to collapse but those "preachers" do not care.
They never call out WOMEN who are the true culprits who initiated the feminist rebellion among ordinary people and said devilish things like " My body my choice" and were taught over and over to not submit to their husbands anymore.
These men look as if they were living on planet X where feminism does not exist ...
Feel called out? Manhood is hard. Deal. With. It.
Mehn this is awesome
So ... WHEN are you EVER going to speak up on that ACTUAL failures of WOMEN to their husbands???
HOW is laying around the house all day long watching The View in an EXCUSE to “raise the children” (who are AT SCHOOL ALL DAY) fulfilling her role as a HELPER???
Look at Proverbs 31 and youll see some of a women's role. Note that her not Fulfilling her role absolutely doesn't excuse you as a man to miss your role. It takes both to make it work and when it's broken it takes one person to step up and meet their role and the other prayerfully will follow in time.
Another spiritual huckster giving advice taken from Psychology Magazine or Cosmo ...
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nah we go to bed full of energy cause we have transportation and,convince of finding food. no one hunts on foot with a spear unless your a third world,country lol
I don’t take advice from betas
Something about this guy is off to me.
If he's allowed through the pearly gates then I want a nice chat with him. If not, then I won't feel bad AT ALL. I may even crack a smile 😈
Shame on you.
Looks like someone’s still living in moms basement and doesn’t like being called out for laziness 😂
What man, in his reasonable mind, wants this kind of slavery? We were meant to be adventurous, hunters, creators, not house cats. Sure, some days require more attention in the house than others, but to live exhausted for a woman for 30 or 40 years. All men know deep inside this is insanity! No wonder David, who had 700 women to chose from, loved Jonathan more than any of them. Men are meant to socialize with men, not to be kept as a house relics like women or these kinds of pastors want us to be.
@ TDZ
Well , David could have sex with those women . It is the primary purpose of marriage actually. With Jonathan it was spiritual brotherhood .