I don't have much sympathy for Jenny. Sumit was a catfish, she forgave him. Sumit lied to both Jenny and his family about their relationship, she stuck by him. Sumit did not tell Jenny he was already married, she stayed with him anyway. She chose to be with him despite his constant lies. Personally I think he is draining her retirement money and once fully depleted he will leave in India alone and broke.
Hmm I'm not so sure. I'm sure it happens but the last episode his family disowned him because they married. He said shes all he has now. India Culture is very different than here in the states. When you are shunned by your parents you are shunned by all. I hope they have friends at least that support them. Even as a couple I cant imagine how isolating and difficult this must be for them. Like you said Sumit hasnt shown himself to be an honest man. I just hope he has learned and is choosing better. I'm the kind of person who always tries to hold out for hope in people. So here's hoping they can do right by each other cause it appears they may only have each other there in India. Just makes me so sad his parents cant support their son. I mean it's almost 10 years now so who knows how much longer theyll stick it out. I dont know if this is a power move on this parents part thinking he will leave her and choose them or that they care more about public opinion than having their son in their lives. 😪🤷♀️
The age difference is going to seem worse and worse as time goes on even though the number of years stays the same. A woman in her early 50's, like Jenny was when they started their relationship, is much more physically and mentally similar to the younger man, than a woman in her 60's as she is now and going forward into her 70's will be while he's in his 40's and 50's. Trust me, I've been there, done that. It's sad but true. This marriage will never work.
Eventually he will be taking care of her and I fear he will become resentful of that. He may even begin to feel like he gave up his whole life just for her, especially if he doesn’t have any children at all. We know she can’t have any. That may become a huge problem for Sumit down the road bc of how his culture is.
While all of this is true, they have been so blessed to find this level of compatibility and happiness with each other as they glide into a 2nd decade of love together.
@@drb77918 it's very weird. You need friends you can't put that on hour partner if you actually care. Jenny is just desperate and will get what she can
I am so tired of seeing Jenny & Sumit , along with so many other couples like Cory & Evelyn ....... Rebecca & Zied...... PLEASE !!!! 90 Day Fiancé ........ QUIT RECYCLING these DULL Couples .
Jenny really needs to do all of us a big favor and move on and go back home where she belongs on Christina's couch. It's obviously he only married her to keep the story line going until they'res no more story to tell. I have often wondered if Jenny is still not allowed to family gatherings after what she's done under his parents roof. I'm still not buying any of their lame excuses for their actions and behavior or lame excuses for another stupid fight. It's clear that Jenny is desperate,delusional,denial.
Nailed it! Jenny has nothing going for her hence the reason she was fine being catfished and still wanted the relationship. She was a waitress so she's not giving up that much
@@alongfellow4147 In my opinion, Jenny gave up nothing because she couldn't afford to live on her own in America so she went somewhere she could afford & used Sumit to do it.
To me it would make more sense for them to move back to America, since Summit's family still don't accept their marriage. She would probably be happiest with her own family who accepts Summit.
@@hempkid0 this was true in the beginning but now they’re on so many spin-off seasons and have cameo and probably endorsements (I don’t keep up with them anymore) I wonder why they don’t use that money and move back
That's exactly what I've been saying. I myself as an older woman would never consider trying to marry a man his age, I've already had my kids why would I want to deny my husband of such a joy?
My parents only have a 8 years age gap even they find it hard sometimes. Especially now when one is a senior and the other one have 7 years left before retirement. Not easy.
All marriages have rough patches but you need to remember why you are together. Communication is the key to remember. My mother in law once told me " when you get mad at each other, remember the way they looked at you on your wedding day". It works for me. They will get through this tough time.
It is all bull they are faking yo be on another show .l am sick of her and him living in filthy conditions when they have plenty of Monet from TLC it’s fake
So far they seem happy but honestly the age gap is definitely going to mess up their relationship in my opinion and having a baby at her age... pleeeeease that's the craziest thing ever. I don't really think they will last for too long. And miss the old version of your channel. It was so much fun!!!! Whatever happened, TH-cam made a huge mistake 😕
th-cam.com/users/results?search_query=CAES++EM+NOSSAS+VIDAS SAY AN ARAB MAN,MARRIED TO A FOREIGNER FOR A LONG LONG TIME SANS CHILDREN..HAHAHAA HOW IRONIC AS IF KIDS WERE A BIG DEAL....IF THEY HAD KIDS..THE RELATIONSHIP WOULD WORSEN UP!!! COUPLES END UP SEPARATING MOSTLY WHEN" KIDS" APPEARS
Based on a clip I've seen his father said Sumit always told him he didn't want kids. I don't know if he started saying that bec he knew he was with Jenny or what
@@kathyelliott6051 I've heard of some individuals over there who use a foreigner for money until they literally leave them penniless and stranded in India.
Males who don't take up for their wives are horrible!!!! Been there, done that. Never again! And they are definitely not MEN! They are boys in older bodies who don't deserve to be called men!
Having children is a decision to talk about way before you get married.i hardly think she could believe she could have a baby at her age they knew their age difference as well as numerous other factors.
I’ve dated younger men and I loose interest very quickly I know there is no future in it I’m 61 and a 45 yr old kept Pursuing me I told him while it may be flattering we were not headed in the same direction. I ended that within days of meeting him
I have close friends that are married and they have a large age difference. The important thing for Jenny is to really take care of her health, exercise, eat right etc. as this will enhance their relationship in many ways. I think it would be good for Sumit to come over to the US and try it for 3 to 6 mos. as I think he would be truly embraced and enjoy the beauty of the US since his own family disowned him because of his controlling mother. As with many relationships, it's work and commitment and love encircles the relationship and all of it's interconnecting pieces. I wish them the very best because they are truly a sweet couple who have persevered thru many hardships and are still in love.
When Jenny & Sumit came into 90 days it was under the impression they dated 2 or 3 yrs. Then the truth broke out about his parents. I agree Jenny is way too old and her age is catching up with her, while Sumit gets younger. I agree Sumit wants children of his own, it won't happen with Jenny. Jenny is very selfish and needs to let Sumit have a life.
He got caught his hands in the cookie jar. He never had any plans to marry her. He was scamming her for money and when she came to India to be with him he panicked. He was cat fishing her in the beginning if you remember right.
I can't see Sumit being a caregiver to Jenny as she ages. I predict he'll be gone for days at a time claiming he's "visiting family" but in reality having an affair with a younger woman.
It is very involved to be a caretaker of an elderly person. Sumit is so young, I doubt he really understands what is involved. Plus, Sumit will have responsibilities for his elderly parents as well.
@@happycattmcdaniel5744 Agreed. I don't see him doing it for Jenny or his parents and that's awful. My sister and I teamed up to care for our mom, then our dad - until they passed. He has no clue what lies ahead.
It seems that society always says negative things about a woman loving and marrying a younger man but it's okay for a older man to marry a young woman Give their marriage a chance to grow and let them be happy even it's for short time love has no bounds l wish Sumit and Jenny happiness and a blessed marriage.
Lorna Haynes....I love your comment the best. Most everyone else seems to be so negative. I am in a relationship with a man 20 years younger then me. He Is 48 and I am 68. He chose me. He saw me in church and said he prayed for 3 months for God to put me in his life. I have no money to speak of and very little income. We have lived together for 7 years and plan on getting married. We are very happy, just like Jenny and Sumit seem to be. Tomorrow is never promised, live for today and enjoy whatever time you have together.
They better enjoy their marriage as long as they can,because he’s going to eventually want to have children and she’s too old and his culture doesn’t believe in adoption! Good luck 👍🏼
It will go as long as it can and he'll be young enough to have a second life with someone else someday whether he wants children or not. He could also wind up being her caregiver if he stays long enough...his choice at that point.
India has a rampant fertility market, they will impregnate anyone even 70 year old women with donor eggs. Failing that there are plenty of poverty stricken third world surrogates to take advantage of in order to "create a family" It's not really an issue.
@@RS-ot5nh well this is news to me and the rest of the world that a 70yr old woman has a uterus and body that can sustain and carry a fertilized egg to full term and deliver a normal healthy baby. If this is true it could eliminate a lot more poverty in India,because there are many people in other countries with the money and means looking for surrogates.
I saw a clip where his dad said he always told him he didn't want kids. I guess it depends on the couple or maybe it might not be a lot of Indians that adopt, but there are adoptions happening
His parents will never accept her. Anyone who thinks otherwise is fooling themselves. Also, everyone ignores that Sumit was working at a scam call center early on. That's how they met ! He was trying to scam her !
I think that as long as they're both happy, that's all that matters. Go one with your lives and forget what others think. Who cares what social media says. Its your lives. Until you're getting help from others you both don't need to read what others are saying . Congratulations to the both of you on your 1st year anniversary.
I wouldn’t want to stay living in India and as Jenny gets older she’ll need coordinated medical care I was 57 when I had a stroke so anything can happen
one things for certain no one can stop the ageing process the older she gets the more looser her skin becomes and the more wrinkles all the gray hair on her head and down below.it’s hideous to think about but even more scareeeeee is the fact that he doesn’t minelooking at her like this.wat happens wen his friends want to double date.he’s still young enough to go to fun activity centers like rideing on high rides or if the 4 of them wants to go on a picnic i’m not trying to be mean but she looks like his grandmother .
Jennie is "l I v I n g", she has the courage that I don't have, she deserves to be happy, life is too short, and life can be gone to anyone in a second...I admire her, no matter what 🤞...e n j o y J.
She's an old fool!! She thinks he's going to come back to the states with her? That man will NEVER leave India or mommy!!! (Now he has to work his way back into mommy's good graces!!!
After 10 years she still never learned the language or all the customs. Now she wants him home with her instead of working more than 2 days a week? In what world is she living in! Delusional!
I actually liked these two, but when the whole world is against you (especially those who are close to you) it's really hard. It's not just the age gap, but everything that comes together.
If my son catfished and old woman, brought her to the country and was living off her savings, I would insist he stay married to her and be responsible for her till death do they part. He got her into the mess, now he has to stick with it because it's HIS responsibility to look after her. Period. If he divorced her or treated her badly or didn't provide for her, I would most definitely disown him and write him out of the will.
frst off he spent yrs lying to her about who he was and she accepted it when she got there as she was desperate for a hubby,lied from the gate and thinkin shes got the perfect man.
Jenny at the age of 63 has already went through menopause and it would be impossible for her to become pregnant. Summit's mother is angry with hum for not marrying a younger woman
Big red flags long ago as this little child will always stick up for his Mommy over his wife, Sumit will continue to please his Mommy first and will never be happy. Sumit treats Jenny like this as Jenny puts up with it, when people take her side, she will stand up beside Sumit even thou deep down she knows he does not show her the respect she deserves. Jenny needs to set up her boundaries and stick to it. 64yrs, a little chubbier, little slower but still deserve same respect I give, learn to love yourself.
I do understand why Summit is saying Jenny is overreacting even if she is not. Summit probably is just sick and tired of the you and me against the world drama of their life. Jenny will never be accepted by Summit's parents and family. The culture just is not that accepting to younger men marrying older women. They should have accepted that even before they got together.
I have always rooted for them also. They have faced so many things just to be together. The thing I have a hard time with, though, is all of the lies Sumit has told Jenny right from the jump. He concealed who he was from the start, then continued to lie to her throughout their relationship, even having married another woman bc of his family’s pressure to do so. Wouldn’t matter the reason to me, that would’ve been the proverbial straw that broke the camel’s back, and I would’ve moved on no matter how hard. His parents will never accept her. And yes, while he did end up marrying her, I still believe he is under his parents’t thumb and that will lead to his and Jenny’s demise. It is sad that so many cultures are that way. You cannot love whoever you want to love bc of societal standards or religious standards. I hope they make it but I have my doubts. I do hope Sumit isn’t still lying to her. That is so detrimental to any relationship. Otherwise I like the guy!
@@annconforti9294 Yes, you are right! He is! However for some reason I really like Jenny, and am pulling for them somehow. But you are absolutely right, Ann. He lied a lot. Not sure how my brain rationalizes that, but somehow it does.
Don’t stand up for Jenny crying and throwing fits to manipulate Sumitt. The culture in India is very different than the US. Their entire relationship from the beginning was started with lies first Sumitt catching Jenny then Jenny lying to his family and sneaking behind their backs in their home and sleeping with Sumitt. She knew all along his family disapproved and the age gape is too much. Take a look at Jenny at the beginning of the relationship and now she has aged greatly. Not being mean but she is a old woman and Sumitt is a young man.
Even with the wildest imagination, what TV writer could have come up with an older white lady, struck by a younger, dark skinned Indian overseas! The scenario alone should spell catastrophic disaster. Citizenship, Age, Race, Culture, Experience not to mention...No money! When the Pope and the Shah of Iran join religious forces to oppose North Korean Kim mUN Jung, thid relationship might have a chance.
She was selfish and nasty, yes, his parents were crappy and made it hard. but she didn't stop to comfort her hubby or give him any empathy for what he lost in order to keep her.
They look good together though, better than before the wedding plus Sumid looks happier than before .... Who knows, they might be meant for each other after all ....
I think he does really love her . Believe me if he didn’t he wouldn’t of married her . She has a small retirement fund that wouldn’t be worth much if that was the purpose of him staying with her . She left him in India several times and moved back with her daughter and he still seeked her out . I hope they live a long, happy life. It’s obvious he doesn’t want kids and that’s ok too some people just don’t .
this is my least favorite couple jenny is so selfish, to stand by and watch this guy lose everything because of her. She has nothing to offer him... and he his a lier ...
I really love this couple I don't believe the age is a problem He loves her she loves him why Does people have to criticize Their age difference If a man can marry a young woman why can't elderly woman marry a young man Let them have their Peace & Love
I agree 100percent with your Comment. Why shouldn't she be Happy with her younger man. Good on her. No different than a Bloody old Man marrying girls inth0ere tees and early Twenties.
Sumit all lies and his family too. I am married to a Indian man. The way he acts and says sounds exactly the way mine does. Jenny shouldn't cry and have feelings. So sad
Summit should explain everything to his parents the mother don't like Jenny because she is elder mother want hi to have kids I was married to Pakistan buy for 10yrs had 3boys they live stepmom tenesse but ex-husband give me hell when I was married hi he want slave wife is I am nobody slave because he was Muslim I am cubaamerican been California almost 60yrs
They say age is nothing but a number so why get mad at Jenny cause of her age look at the older women here in America here have a young man that they are with age is nothing but a number let them be but as 4 his mom and dad they will never accept Jenny iñ the family move on but over there a woman obeys her husband you don't talk unless he tells you to talk
I went with a guy from India a long time ago. They will not last because in the end the parents will win. In that country the men do what the parents want. They will pressure him until he breaks. He will not be able to live without their approval. Sadly that's how it is there. They only honor arranged marriages with a virgin . I know Jenny is going to wind up with a broken 💔. I learned the hard way.
She.is.30 years or so older than him this.is not work out she need to find someone else.summit is having fun with a older woman anyway they.look good for.now but when jenny get older and cannot do for.herself do os a favor go back home.to your daughters
The age difference,seems to bother outsiders,They made the choise for each other,let them be!Reallity shows,that younger people,sadly enough,suddenly become ill,and die.
Sumit is Isolated by everyone. All pictures Alone. Sumit lost his family ( so saad) Granny can't have Kids. She's tooooo old to even cook or clean..... she's one foot on the other side.. ( my own Granny is blushing ) hahaha 😆 😂 😅
You's need to research India History and the Cast system to understand both sides . In times past if a love marriage happened outside of ones cast . Families disowned the couple . And so many have died in times passed as a result of going outside of ones cast . Although it's now changed via Ghandi. atrocities to this day still happen. There are two sides to every coin.
oh stop being a racist. What does caste have to do with it. She is an old woman who slept with him under the pretense of being friends with his mother. He is the lying, cheating, mentally challenged pos. What does caste have to do with it? For all you know, he is an untouchable and can marry an American since she has no caste. Not only is she old but they are nasty lying cheaters.
Jenny have digg her own grave to merry so young man. Acceptance in the family of Sumit will never happen. One day he will move back to his parents and she will left alone in India. We have no elderly home in India for old Indian peopel. Who will take care of her? In India children take care of there old parents not the goverment. Jenny your old age is going to be glommy.
I was hoping this relationship would last she gave up so much just to be with this man he needs to wake up before he losses her my Bible says forsake your parents and cleave unto your wife
Well he's a grown man and he doesn't want to disrespect his family but they need to accept that he's grown customs or not at this point in his life he needs to be respected also who he decides to marry and he don't need to cry like a baby every time he knows she's had enough and going back to the States he doesn't deserve her but she needs to wise up and make some requirements one a time frame of doing something she found him she can find another one
I think Jenny looks good and healthy for her age. She is very fair complexion and the skin is thinner but, she looks good considering her long travels.
Well kind of Jenny's phone just as much cuz screaming and hollering doesn't solve anything if she doesn't make any decisions for her own life you can't make somebody do something they don't want to do and if they do if it's forced it's not from them and it's going to destroy you in the end so why go through all that just end it now or move on Jenny smart enough
Not really- she forced everything with Sumit and what sealed the deal was just the money Sumit could get from them being on these shows. Once the money is gone, so is Sumit.
The way that I see it is If Sumit truthfully loves Jenny He would stand up Like a man and say Jenny is My WIFE! I love her and YOU WILL TREAT HER WITH RESPECT .Bottom line! Either You take it or leave it . Tell His family If You Love me you will understand that I am happy with her and Want me to be happy and Ask If They want him to be happy in life She is what make me happy She is who make my life feel full and If they can't deal with having respect for Jenny MY WIFE!!! Sumit will stop talking to them all period .AND dON'T GET ME WRONG i UNDERSTAND WHERE THEY ARE COMING FROM WITH THE AGES BEING SO DIFFERENT BUT LOVE IS LOVE and If you love your child You will shut up and deal with it period
do you watch the show? It's he who is hounding his parents. The last I saw they want nothing with his nasty face. He can say and do whatever he wants but he is the one holding on. They are done with him. Why isn't Jenny good enough? She isn't. Without his parents, now they must face each other. Two nasty cheating liars.
I don't have much sympathy for Jenny. Sumit was a catfish, she forgave him. Sumit lied to both Jenny and his family about their relationship, she stuck by him. Sumit did not tell Jenny he was already married, she stayed with him anyway. She chose to be with him despite his constant lies. Personally I think he is draining her retirement money and once fully depleted he will leave in India alone and broke.
Yes, that happens alot. Jenny is a foreigner and a cash cow. It wouldn't surprise me if Sumit has a wife and family hidden from Jenny for years.
I don’t know if she has a substantial savings, but people don’t make a lot on retirement. For the most part
@@michelelacerda3124 She's better off staying in India.
This is different than the initial “reality” story. They said she lived with the family many years ago & was friends with his mother.
Hmm I'm not so sure. I'm sure it happens but the last episode his family disowned him because they married. He said shes all he has now. India Culture is very different than here in the states. When you are shunned by your parents you are shunned by all. I hope they have friends at least that support them. Even as a couple I cant imagine how isolating and difficult this must be for them. Like you said Sumit hasnt shown himself to be an honest man. I just hope he has learned and is choosing better. I'm the kind of person who always tries to hold out for hope in people. So here's hoping they can do right by each other cause it appears they may only have each other there in India. Just makes me so sad his parents cant support their son. I mean it's almost 10 years now so who knows how much longer theyll stick it out. I dont know if this is a power move on this parents part thinking he will leave her and choose them or that they care more about public opinion than having their son in their lives. 😪🤷♀️
The age difference is going to seem worse and worse as time goes on even though the number of years stays the same. A woman in her early 50's, like Jenny was when they started their relationship, is much more physically and mentally similar to the younger man, than a woman in her 60's as she is now and going forward into her 70's will be while he's in his 40's and 50's. Trust me, I've been there, done that. It's sad but true. This marriage will never work.
You are so right and I totally agree
Eventually he will be taking care of her and I fear he will become resentful of that. He may even begin to feel like he gave up his whole life just for her, especially if he doesn’t have any children at all. We know she can’t have any. That may become a huge problem for Sumit down the road bc of how his culture is.
Agree
I stop watching them they are ridiculous she’s ole unattractive and comes off desperate sooooo sad
While all of this is true, they have been so blessed to find this level of compatibility and happiness with each other as they glide into a 2nd decade of love together.
Don’t you find it odd that all their pictures are of just them. No friends, no groups of friends….alone every time. Except for her daughter’s visit.
I was thinking the same
A lot of the pictures are Older photos also.
Not weird at all, they don't need friends when they have each other.
@@drb77918 Who will Sumit have later on if he doesn't have friends or his family??
@@drb77918 it's very weird. You need friends you can't put that on hour partner if you actually care. Jenny is just desperate and will get what she can
Of course, with time, the age difference becomes an issue because Jenny's ageing becomes more and more pronounced.
When was it not?
Sad tho 🙁
@@rebeccaa2097 As she gets older bigger and bigger problems will develop.
@@aruglaempire2518 lol..just cuz she is older doesnt mean shes gina get bigger. At this age she will probably remain the same size or get smaller..
I am so tired of seeing Jenny & Sumit , along with so many other couples like Cory & Evelyn ....... Rebecca & Zied...... PLEASE !!!! 90 Day Fiancé ........ QUIT RECYCLING these DULL Couples .
Thank you.
Jenny really needs to do all of us a big favor and move on and go back home where she belongs on Christina's couch. It's obviously he only married her to keep the story line going until they'res no more story to tell. I have often wondered if Jenny is still not allowed to family gatherings after what she's done under his parents roof. I'm still not buying any of their lame excuses for their actions and behavior or lame excuses for another stupid fight. It's clear that Jenny is desperate,delusional,denial.
I really like Jenny.
I don't believe any of it either. They keep re-using so many of these boring couples, yet keep making spin offs? I think the show has tanked already.
Nailed it! Jenny has nothing going for her hence the reason she was fine being catfished and still wanted the relationship. She was a waitress so she's not giving up that much
@@ShellBAtoms someone needs to so congrats
@@alongfellow4147 In my opinion, Jenny gave up nothing because she couldn't afford to live on her own in America so she went somewhere she could afford & used Sumit to do it.
The both of them are complete liars
jenny’s baby days are longtime over with.
Exactly. If Sumit wants kids - they should have figured that out before getting married. Ridiculous.
@@irene_f. Jenny should of never married Summit if she knew he wanted kids. That's not fair to him.
@@nema8223 I agree. Jenny just wanted her boy toy.
To me it would make more sense for them to move back to America, since Summit's family still don't accept their marriage. She would probably be happiest with her own family who accepts Summit.
I don't think her Social Security check would go as far in the US as it does in India
He wouldn’t get a visa, Considering he catfished her you have to wonder what kind of “call” centre he worked for…..
@@hempkid0 this was true in the beginning but now they’re on so many spin-off seasons and have cameo and probably endorsements (I don’t keep up with them anymore) I wonder why they don’t use that money and move back
@@theballafornian What is Catfishing. I've never heard that before. Is it an American word for User.
They couldn't afford America on her pension.
Jenny is very selfish, wonder how she would feel if she never had children, would she feel a void if she hadn't...too old to behave in such a way
I mean...he isn't being held hostage. Lol
That's exactly what I've been saying. I myself as an older woman would never consider trying to marry a man his age, I've already had my kids why would I want to deny my husband of such a joy?
Jenny is much to old to have a child. She has gone through menopause. Candy shop is closed for good.
My parents only have a 8 years age gap even they find it hard sometimes. Especially now when one is a senior and the other one have 7 years left before retirement. Not easy.
All marriages have rough patches but you need to remember why you are together. Communication is the key to remember. My mother in law once told me " when you get mad at each other, remember the way they looked at you on your wedding day". It works for me. They will get through this tough time.
Yup I get it 🙋
👍Yup, hear you loud & clear
It is all bull they are faking yo be on another show .l am sick of her and him living in filthy conditions when they have plenty of Monet from TLC it’s fake
I feel the same way.
Jenny married a boy who lies and basically is lazy as sin . Now she is older and the needs him to a grownup, Is not going to happen Jenny. ..
I agree!
So true 🤔
They want the money. Both of them are broke.
So far they seem happy but honestly the age gap is definitely going to mess up their relationship in my opinion and having a baby at her age... pleeeeease that's the craziest thing ever. I don't really think they will last for too long.
And miss the old version of your channel. It was so much fun!!!! Whatever happened, TH-cam made a huge mistake 😕
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SAY AN ARAB MAN,MARRIED TO A FOREIGNER FOR A LONG LONG TIME SANS CHILDREN..HAHAHAA HOW IRONIC AS IF KIDS WERE A BIG DEAL....IF THEY HAD KIDS..THE RELATIONSHIP WOULD WORSEN UP!!!
COUPLES END UP SEPARATING MOSTLY WHEN" KIDS" APPEARS
Based on a clip I've seen his father said Sumit always told him he didn't want kids. I don't know if he started saying that bec he knew he was with Jenny or what
The parent thing may be made up drama: the rules is, no drama, no show, no show money. And that money goes a long way in India.
Sumit hasn’t stood up to others and that’s hurtful to Jenny.
Nail it. 🔨
I don't see him being a caretaker for all the elderly in his life: Jenny & his parents.
@@irene_f. no he'll have Jenny do it ,cause she'll be in a bad way then to !!! What a hot 🔥 mess they all are !!! LOL. Yikes 🤔
@@kathyelliott6051 I've heard of some individuals over there who use a foreigner for money until they literally leave them penniless and stranded in India.
Males who don't take up for their wives are horrible!!!! Been there, done that. Never again! And they are definitely not MEN! They are boys in older bodies who don't deserve to be called men!
Having children is a decision to talk about way before you get married.i hardly think she could believe she could have a baby at her age they knew their age difference as well as numerous other factors.
She should be becoming a grand mother and age isn’t just a number life experiences are just too different.
I’ve dated younger men and I loose interest very quickly I know there is no future in it I’m 61 and a 45 yr old kept Pursuing me I told him while it may be flattering we were not headed in the same direction. I ended that within days of meeting him
I have close friends that are married and they have a large age difference. The important thing for Jenny is to really take care of her health, exercise, eat right etc. as this will enhance their relationship in many ways. I think it would be good for Sumit to come over to the US and try it for 3 to 6 mos. as I think he would be truly embraced and enjoy the beauty of the US since his own family disowned him because of his controlling mother.
As with many relationships, it's work and commitment and love encircles the relationship and all of it's interconnecting pieces. I wish them the very best because they are truly a sweet couple who have persevered thru many hardships and are still in love.
DON'T HAVE A BABY IN MIDDLE TO OLD AGE!!!!!!!!!!!!! I WAS BORN WITH A HOLE IN MY HEART. MY MOTHER WAS MIDDLE AGED. DAMN IT! THINK OF THE CHILD !!!
You're not happy to be here? A hole in the heart doesn't mean you shouldn't have been brought into existence.
@@petitefireball It's not about that!!!!! The point is I've suffered the pains of hell.
@@cantorlevy7478 You suffered because they weren't good parents or are you talking about the physical suffering?
And dont adopt when your older, my mother adopted me when she was 55.
Ditched me at 10 years old
@@petitefireball Both
When Jenny & Sumit came into 90 days it was under the impression they dated 2 or 3 yrs. Then the truth broke out about his parents. I agree Jenny is way too old and her age is catching up with her, while Sumit gets younger. I agree Sumit wants children of his own, it won't happen with Jenny. Jenny is very selfish and needs to let Sumit have a life.
Absolutely also Jenny is loosing her hair, as well!! Sumit wants Mommy and Daddy. So Jenny's day are short.
Jenny is doing exactly what she wants to do... so l say let her do what she wants while she can
He got caught his hands in the cookie jar. He never had any plans to marry her. He was scamming her for money and when she came to India to be with him he panicked. He was cat fishing her in the beginning if you remember right.
Enjoy the ride in the present. Tomorrow is not promised. Take it 1 day at a time.
I can't see Sumit being a caregiver to Jenny as she ages. I predict he'll be gone for days at a time claiming he's "visiting family" but in reality having an affair with a younger woman.
He did that before when he was married to his first wife.
It is very involved to be a caretaker of an elderly person. Sumit is so young, I doubt he really understands what is involved. Plus, Sumit will have responsibilities for his elderly parents as well.
@@aruglaempire2518 Exactly! That's why I feel he'll do the same to Jenny.
@@irene_f. It takes a very giving, selfless person to be a caregiver. Finding it hard to see those qualities in Sumit.
@@happycattmcdaniel5744 Agreed. I don't see him doing it for Jenny or his parents and that's awful. My sister and I teamed up to care for our mom, then our dad - until they passed. He has no clue what lies ahead.
Thanks for the updates Max.👋🏾
It seems that society always says negative things about a woman loving and marrying a younger man but it's okay for a older man to marry a young woman Give their marriage a chance to grow and let them be happy even it's for short time love has no bounds l wish Sumit and Jenny happiness and a blessed marriage.
The issue is that you can not have children when you're older.
Lorna Haynes....I love your comment the best. Most everyone else seems to be so negative. I am in a relationship with a man 20 years younger then me. He Is 48 and I am 68. He chose me. He saw me in church and said he prayed for 3 months for God to put me in his life. I have no money to speak of and very little income. We have lived together for 7 years and plan on getting married. We are very happy, just like Jenny and Sumit seem to be. Tomorrow is never promised, live for today and enjoy whatever time you have together.
I believe that sumit asked his family to put up that much resistance
They better enjoy their marriage as long as they can,because he’s going to eventually want to have children and she’s too old and his culture doesn’t believe in adoption! Good luck 👍🏼
It will go as long as it can and he'll be young enough to have a second life with someone else someday whether he wants children or not. He could also wind up being her caregiver if he stays long enough...his choice at that point.
India has a rampant fertility market, they will impregnate anyone even 70 year old women with donor eggs. Failing that there are plenty of poverty stricken third world surrogates to take advantage of in order to "create a family" It's not really an issue.
@@RS-ot5nh well this is news to me and the rest of the world that a 70yr old woman has a uterus and body that can sustain and carry a fertilized egg to full term and deliver a normal healthy baby. If this is true it could eliminate a lot more poverty in India,because there are many people in other countries with the money and means looking for surrogates.
@@agness7983 Not that it's ideal, but there was a woman in India that gave birth at 75 after facades of not getting pregnant. She did IVF
I saw a clip where his dad said he always told him he didn't want kids. I guess it depends on the couple or maybe it might not be a lot of Indians that adopt, but there are adoptions happening
You sure know how to talk a lot and say absolutely nothing. I'm so disappointed in this channel, it use to be my favorite. What happened???
💯 I'm with you ! & the clickbait is next level !
100 % agree such a shame
His parents will never accept her. Anyone who thinks otherwise is fooling themselves. Also, everyone ignores that Sumit was working at a scam call center early on. That's how they met ! He was trying to scam her !
I think that as long as they're both happy, that's all that matters. Go one with your lives and forget what others think. Who cares what social media says. Its your lives. Until you're getting help from others you both don't need to read what others are saying . Congratulations to the both of you on your 1st year anniversary.
I wouldn’t want to stay living in India and as Jenny gets older she’ll need coordinated medical care I was 57 when I had a stroke so anything can happen
Jenny already is to old for that !! Return to USA !! Look ridiculous
Love your informative videos thank u
He won’t even let me celebrate holi. I did once and it cause a huge riff in his family. I never seen the holiday again.
one things for certain no one can stop the ageing process the older she gets the more looser her skin becomes and the more wrinkles all the gray hair on her head and down below.it’s hideous to think about but even more scareeeeee is the fact that he doesn’t minelooking at her like this.wat happens wen his friends want to double date.he’s still young enough to go to fun activity centers like rideing on high rides or if the 4 of them wants to go on a picnic i’m not trying to be mean but she looks like his grandmother .
Jenny lies about her age - she's a lot older than what she says.
She knew what she was getting into.
His culture and family dynamics are completely different to hers.
He tried his best bless him. I feel for him.
Jennie is "l I v I n g", she has the courage that I don't have, she deserves to be happy, life is too short, and life can be gone to anyone in a second...I admire her, no matter what 🤞...e n j o y J.
She's an old fool!! She thinks he's going to come back to the states with her? That man will NEVER leave India or mommy!!! (Now he has to work his way back into mommy's good graces!!!
After 10 years she still never learned the language or all the customs. Now she wants him home with her instead of working more than 2 days a week? In what world is she living in! Delusional!
My.mama use to say....If you see a fire, and you proceed to step in it, you will get burned!
Wishing them both happiness forever❤
I actually liked these two, but when the whole world is against you (especially those who are close to you) it's really hard. It's not just the age gap, but everything that comes together.
She is realizing she has been used in spite of the lies she tells herself
ALL I CAN SAY THEY ARE BORING WITH THE SAME BLA BLA
I SALUTE both and wish them happiness forever
If my son catfished and old woman, brought her to the country and was living off her savings, I would insist he stay married to her and be responsible for her till death do they part. He got her into the mess, now he has to stick with it because it's HIS responsibility to look after her. Period. If he divorced her or treated her badly or didn't provide for her, I would most definitely disown him and write him out of the will.
yeah ok. Jenny is an old predator and deserves nothing good. That's why she got Sumit, the lying cheater
Jenny needs to go back to America. She is very angry. She is too old for Sumit.
frst off he spent yrs lying to her about who he was and she accepted it when she got there as she was desperate for a hubby,lied from the gate and thinkin shes got the perfect man.
Jenny at the age of 63 has already went through menopause and it would be impossible for her to become pregnant. Summit's mother is angry with hum for not marrying a younger woman
Big red flags long ago as this little child will always stick up for his Mommy over his wife, Sumit will continue to please his Mommy first and will never be happy. Sumit treats Jenny like this as Jenny puts up with it, when people take her side, she will stand up beside Sumit even thou deep down she knows he does not show her the respect she deserves. Jenny needs to set up her boundaries and stick to it. 64yrs, a little chubbier, little slower but still deserve same respect I give, learn to love yourself.
I do understand why Summit is saying Jenny is overreacting even if she is not. Summit probably is just sick and tired of the you and me against the world drama of their life. Jenny will never be accepted by Summit's parents and family. The culture just is not that accepting to younger men marrying older women. They should have accepted that even before they got together.
Drama to get back on tv
I will always be rooting for them ❤️ they’ve always been the most genuine couple imo
They need a kick in the ass!!
I have always rooted for them also. They have faced so many things just to be together. The thing I have a hard time with, though, is all of the lies Sumit has told Jenny right from the jump. He concealed who he was from the start, then continued to lie to her throughout their relationship, even having married another woman bc of his family’s pressure to do so. Wouldn’t matter the reason to me, that would’ve been the proverbial straw that broke the camel’s back, and I would’ve moved on no matter how hard. His parents will never accept her. And yes, while he did end up marrying her, I still believe he is under his parents’t thumb and that will lead to his and Jenny’s demise. It is sad that so many cultures are that way. You cannot love whoever you want to love bc of societal standards or religious standards. I hope they make it but I have my doubts. I do hope Sumit isn’t still lying to her. That is so detrimental to any relationship. Otherwise I like the guy!
Yes, he's a genuine Liar
@@annconforti9294 Yes, you are right! He is! However for some reason I really like Jenny, and am pulling for them somehow. But you are absolutely right, Ann. He lied a lot. Not sure how my brain rationalizes that, but somehow it does.
In these recent photos of Jenny she looks as if she had work done on her face. 👍
but not the neck. She needs to fix that turkey neck
Love your hair up!!
It’s been a nightmare being white American and my Indian husband.. I’m just over it all.
you should not have married him. Your problem. You knew
Do men over there have to hold they're kids hands forever. Maybe thats why he can't act like a man
Sumit's brother seems to be the opposite of Sumit.
Besides all of the black lash I think they actually love each other , it is a huge age difference, but her love is love
Don’t stand up for Jenny crying and throwing fits to manipulate Sumitt. The culture in India is very different than the US. Their entire relationship from the beginning was started with lies first Sumitt catching Jenny then Jenny lying to his family and sneaking behind their backs in their home and sleeping with Sumitt. She knew all along his family disapproved and the age gape is too much. Take a look at Jenny at the beginning of the relationship and now she has aged greatly. Not being mean but she is a old woman and Sumitt is a young man.
Even with the wildest imagination, what TV writer could have come up with an older white lady, struck by a younger, dark skinned Indian overseas! The scenario alone should spell catastrophic disaster.
Citizenship, Age, Race, Culture, Experience not to mention...No money! When the Pope and the Shah of Iran join religious forces to oppose North Korean Kim mUN Jung, thid relationship might have a chance.
Speaking s a womn, she s asking him why he doenst defend her, his wife.
I am glad to see them
Ummmmmmmmmmmmmm but he likess the CAMERAS LOLLLLLLLLLLLLL SEE U NEXT YR.
NOTTTTTTTTTT
She was selfish and nasty, yes, his parents were crappy and made it hard. but she didn't stop to comfort her hubby or give him any empathy for what he lost in order to keep her.
They look good together though, better than before the wedding plus Sumid looks happier than before .... Who knows, they might be meant for each other after all ....
how? how can you say these two look good together? Compared to what?
Arcaic mentality, children don't make a marriage. 16 years of children less marriage bliss
Actually, Jenny is the bread winner as she as the American get her social security benefits , $$ from the TV show & gets 75$ a pop for interviews!
She pays for almost everything ,so he has it good .They live very well.Jenny ,go home
I think he does really love her . Believe me if he didn’t he wouldn’t of married her . She has a small retirement fund that wouldn’t be worth much if that was the purpose of him staying with her . She left him in India several times and moved back with her daughter and he still seeked her out . I hope they live a long, happy life. It’s obvious he doesn’t want kids and that’s ok too some people just don’t .
this is my least favorite couple jenny is so selfish, to stand by and watch this guy lose everything because of her. She has nothing to offer him... and he his a lier ...
I really love this couple
I don't believe the age is a problem
He loves her she loves him why Does people have to criticize Their age difference
If a man can marry a young woman why can't elderly woman marry a young man
Let them have their Peace & Love
I agree 100percent with your Comment. Why shouldn't she be Happy with her younger man. Good on her. No different than a Bloody old Man marrying girls inth0ere tees and early Twenties.
She may love him but it sir doesn't seem as if he loves her
Sumit all lies and his family too. I am married to a Indian man. The way he acts and says sounds exactly the way mine does. Jenny shouldn't cry and have feelings. So sad
Summit should explain everything to his parents the mother don't like Jenny because she is elder mother want hi to have kids I was married to Pakistan buy for 10yrs had 3boys they live stepmom tenesse but ex-husband give me hell when I was married hi he want slave wife is I am nobody slave because he was Muslim I am cubaamerican been California almost 60yrs
They say age is nothing but a number so why get mad at Jenny cause of her age look at the older women here in America here have a young man that they are with age is nothing but a number let them be but as 4 his mom and dad they will never accept Jenny iñ the family move on but over there a woman obeys her husband you don't talk unless he tells you to talk
I went with a guy from India a long time ago. They will not last because in the end the parents will win. In that country the men do what the parents want. They will pressure him until he breaks. He will not be able to live without their approval. Sadly that's how it is there. They only honor arranged marriages with a virgin . I know Jenny is going to wind up with a broken 💔. I learned the hard way.
And she deserves it. She is nothing but a lying predator with a lying cheater.
She looks much older.
She.is.30 years or so older than him this.is not work out she need to find someone else.summit is having fun with a older woman anyway they.look good for.now but when jenny get older and cannot do for.herself do os a favor go back home.to your daughters
I wish Jenny and sumit all the best
Jenny is older than sumits mom that’s it
This keep repeating itself what's new, maybe this maybe that,
Stop reaching for something if it's not there let is them let them BE,🤫🤣🤣
The age difference,seems to bother outsiders,They made the choise for each other,let them be!Reallity shows,that younger people,sadly enough,suddenly become ill,and die.
Sumit is Isolated by everyone. All pictures Alone. Sumit lost his family ( so saad) Granny can't have Kids. She's tooooo old to even cook or clean..... she's one foot on the other side.. ( my own Granny is blushing ) hahaha 😆 😂 😅
You's need to research India History and the Cast system to understand both sides . In times past if a love marriage happened outside of ones cast . Families disowned the couple . And so many have died in times passed as a result of going outside of ones cast . Although it's now changed via Ghandi. atrocities to this day still happen. There are two sides to every coin.
oh stop being a racist. What does caste have to do with it. She is an old woman who slept with him under the pretense of being friends with his mother. He is the lying, cheating, mentally challenged pos. What does caste have to do with it? For all you know, he is an untouchable and can marry an American since she has no caste. Not only is she old but they are nasty lying cheaters.
Jenny have digg her own grave to merry so young man. Acceptance in the family of Sumit will never happen. One day he will move back to his parents and she will left alone in India. We have no elderly home in India for old Indian peopel. Who will take care of her? In India children take care of there old parents not the goverment. Jenny your old age is going to be glommy.
I was hoping this relationship would last she gave up so much just to be with this man he needs to wake up before he losses her my Bible says forsake your parents and cleave unto your wife
well he is a Hindu and your Bible means $hit
Well he's a grown man and he doesn't want to disrespect his family but they need to accept that he's grown customs or not at this point in his life he needs to be respected also who he decides to marry and he don't need to cry like a baby every time he knows she's had enough and going back to the States he doesn't deserve her but she needs to wise up and make some requirements one a time frame of doing something she found him she can find another one
I think Jenny looks good and healthy for her age. She is very fair complexion and the skin is thinner but, she looks good considering her long travels.
what about the neck? You seriously think she looks good. She looks older than her age.
Oh hell, they'll be fine. Sumit can reproduce up until his 80's or more so he has time.
There age difference is too much sorry but it's not going to work.
Too many repetitions
They look perfect together
No, they don't.
Well kind of Jenny's phone just as much cuz screaming and hollering doesn't solve anything if she doesn't make any decisions for her own life you can't make somebody do something they don't want to do and if they do if it's forced it's not from them and it's going to destroy you in the end so why go through all that just end it now or move on Jenny smart enough
Not really- she forced everything with Sumit and what sealed the deal was just the money Sumit could get from them being on these shows. Once the money is gone, so is Sumit.
Despite the age difference they are one of the few 90 Day Fiancé relationships I feel will work out.
The huge age gap will make a difference. He's going to be a young widower & still have a chance at love & a family if tge stay together.
Seems like a con show
I follow them on Facebook they are happy yeah they had a fight big deal !! Everycouple fights
The way that I see it is If Sumit truthfully loves Jenny He would stand up Like a man and say Jenny is My WIFE! I love her and YOU WILL TREAT HER WITH RESPECT .Bottom line! Either You take it or leave it . Tell His family If You Love me you will understand that I am happy with her and Want me to be happy and Ask If They want him to be happy in life She is what make me happy She is who make my life feel full and If they can't deal with having respect for Jenny MY WIFE!!! Sumit will stop talking to them all period .AND dON'T GET ME WRONG i UNDERSTAND WHERE THEY ARE COMING FROM WITH THE AGES BEING SO DIFFERENT BUT LOVE IS LOVE and If you love your child You will shut up and deal with it period
Sumit will never do that. He doesn't do it. He won't alienate his family because Jenny is so old - he'll be alone.
do you watch the show? It's he who is hounding his parents. The last I saw they want nothing with his nasty face. He can say and do whatever he wants but he is the one holding on. They are done with him. Why isn't Jenny good enough? She isn't. Without his parents, now they must face each other. Two nasty cheating liars.